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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 พ.ย. 2022
- A laundromat and some mother daughter relationship problems that get solved over spilt soap.
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CREATED BY Spin Cycle Studios
Alea Antognetti
Jasmine Bournes (PM)
Christienne-Marie Burgess
Yaeseul Cho
Yesolyi Kim
Lu Lian
Renee McPherson (PM)
Makayla Nott
Anna Price
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SOUNDTRACK: Joel Santos
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VOICE ACTOR: Rebeca Donovan
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MENTOR: Jeff Astolfo
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Produced at Sheridan College
Sheridan Animation 3rd Year Group Film 2021-2022 - ภาพยนตร์และแอนิเมชัน
God it reminds me of my mom. Its always so heartbreaking to look around and see other mothers being gentle with their childs mistakes knowing you grew up being afraid of making them.
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I think it’s nice that parents are gentler nowadays so their kids don’t have to grow up scared the way we did
Ikr
@@STAM24💀💀
I grew up without my mom, but I have a young brother who is not my father's son. It hurts to see her being so affectionate with him and having neglected me my whole life
The way the mother bunny looks so exhausted but still treats her child with respect and love, even if he made a mistake 🥺
Uhm… It’s a koala but okay.
@@theplushees dude she's not talking about the main characters, she's talking about the bunnies
@@theplusheesthey’re talking about the bunnies, dum dum
The person who said "Uhm... It's a koala but okay" is a kid who makes Roblox videos and joined in 2023. Don't worry about it.
Finally something that doesn't portray daddy issues but with mom. Some people are not lucky enough to have a present mother who cares about you.
Ikr ☹️
My mom and me have issues because of how controlling she is. And she sees nothing wrong with how she acts even when I cry to her about them. Instead, it's always about her. Yes, she tries her best, but she needs therapy and refuses to go. My dad was the only one in my family who hurt me and apologized. Mommy issues are hard no matter what kind and I'm so glad you pointed out how well this animation shows it.
Same here but my mom doesn't try to get better..
never really had my 'mom' growing up, since she was never ready to take care of me. I'm so lucky people like my aunt, grandma, and even my awesome stepmom were there to help fulfill that role. tbh i'm still not super sure of what would make an actual 'mom' to someone, since none of them ever actually portrayed any kind of soft side like that.
@@internet-bugger974 I'm glad you had female roles who were/are there for you
I love how they don’t need words to show the emotion in having a bad relationship with your mom and be able to overcome it
You talking to me
@@user-qv1oz2ie7g that doesn’t even make sense
Don't care
@@user-qv1oz2ie7g ok??? Then stop talking I mean clearly this isn’t even a conversation anymore this is just confusing
@@user-qv1oz2ie7gThat isnt even the point of this comment so shut your goofy Aaa mouth Okay??You are just like the others...
As someone who always had problems w her mom, whenever I see a mother and her daughter just…. Bonding or being not toxic to eachother, my brain just doesn’t think that’s normal. Least to say my mom was always pretty dismissive and cold towards me.
I sympathize with you and hope that you have a good relationship right now
@@levar404 That can happen only if the mother muster the strength to look at her daughter for the way she is and acknowledge that she played a role in pushing her daughter away from a strong bond.
Same friend. As sad as it sounds, it's kinda nice to see other people who've had similar experiences with their parents, or in our cases our moms, see things like that and think it's just so abnormal even though we know it isn't. My mom and I already had a really rocky start when she had me and it only got worse a few months before I turned ten and she went from just toxic, emotionally neglectful, dismissive, and cold to dismissive, cold, and abusive. It lasted like that until I turned fifteen when she decided to try to repair our relationship. Now that I'm about to turn twenty six our relationship is finally healed enough that we're right back to where it started and she doesn't seem all that interested in repairing it any further. I guess she thinks this is good enough. Parents suck
So much same. My relationship with my birth mom(emotionally immature/neglectful) strains my ability to nuture a relationship with my Bonus Mom who is her polar opposite. Things that are natural to do for my Bonus Mom make me question and panic though there is No threat or Need to Fear. It sucks but therapy is getting me to understand and learn.
Same... a lot of women my age are open with their mom. But... me? Last time I was open with my mom about sexual things or feminine hygiene she called me a whore and a slut. "Oh you're wanting to use birth control? Are you planning to start sleeping with a lot of boys? Do you wanna look like the town slut?" "Oh you want summers eve feminine wash? You know only where's use that stuff right?" "Oh you wanna use tampons? You wanna stretch yourself out?" Just horrific things to a developing 13 year old who's already self conscious of her self with an ED.
Let me say this how can she wipe that whole thick big puddle with one tiny towel and didn't had help. I think thats why that was her worst memory.
Omg yeah!
The trauma is so sad fr 😕
1:28 this?
I think she/he meant this 1:43
@@Daroos_kit1234 Add a they/them and a xe/xem
The clothing the kids are wearing was a nice subtle touch! The little bunny is allowed to wear a dinosaur suit, expressing themself. The koala clearly likes a more punk style, but in the backstory, she's wearing a pink dress and pearl earrings... probably chosen by her mother.
This was a beautiful animation!
i hope the parents watching this know- you(butyouunderstoodthepoint,didntyou)re kids WILL remember.
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What im seeing her mom was being such judgemental was because she didnt recognize it was her own daughter's shop (from the fact she turned around before the mom can get a really good at her). when she finally notices ans was pushed off. She realizes how disconnected she was from her snd tries to make amends. She tried her push her away so much that caused the mental breakdown. You can tell how scared she was when she frozed fron the hug. But she knew she cant avoid any longer and tries to mend their relationship since the mom looks truely sorry.
This is a toxic message in my opinion, she is traumatized by her and to accept that forceful apology is just enabling her.
Wdym mental breakdown? That was kinda just crying
Everyone's story is different.
@personTP everyone's story is different.
It reminds of my mom, and that we've patched up, because even though we're not perfect, we still love each other
Agreed
Mine is starting to realize that how she talks and the words she uses actually hurt. My be an adult but saying "you're smarter than this" when trying to come up with solutions that aren't typical that she wanted to hear...immediately cause the conversation to end. And all she said was "I'm sorry for what I said" when asked which words it was "what I said" had to ask a second time what specifically she was apologizing for because if she can get away with not acknowledging what she says then she will do that
When I saw that glass of water hit the floor, I thought so much worse things were gonna happen, which is kind of heartbreaking
I don’t know if this was the meaning of your title- but SUDs made me think of the mental health acronym Subjective Units of Destress, which fits the story. Moreover, I like how the mother, when meeting her child in the future, looks at her with sorrowful eyes. Many times with these types of stories where the teen grows away from their strict parent, the parent is scornful and wonders why their child doesn’t visit (unable to see their errors). However, while this Mom still doesn’t understand her child, she knows she’s at fault for how she treated them in the past as she looks at them with eyes full of regret and reaches out to them many a time
I can relate to this animated short. I have no issues with my mom, but me and my stepdad haven't always got along. However, I realize that deep down, he does care about me too and just doesn't show it like my mom does. But whether it's your mom or father, a stepparent or both, we shouldn't have to feel like our own parents don't like or care about us.
Womp womp 😂
@@STAM24Learn to respect others please
Rude
@@STAM24 Ew, another dude that uses "womp womp" 🤢 Like c'mon, where the hell did that even come from? A kindergartens class? Absolute cringe.
@@STAM24 Ew, another person that uses "womp womp" 🤢 Like what are you people, 7 yrs old? It's such another horribly cringy, gen alpha word lmao.
Maaaan I felt this so much. No matter how old or independent I get I feels like my mom can walk into my life and have me feel like a child. I'm glad this relationship got a happy ending.
I’m glad to see it be good but a small part of me also wanted to see it end differently.
Sometimes parents suck and your relationship won’t mend since they don’t see any problems with it and won’t try.
Sorry, I am still happy to see a happy ending and an actual troubled mom relationship be portrayed. However I would like to see one where it ends up similar to the “dead beat dad” type story where you are able to move on from them and heal despite them not ever getting better.
Maybe that’s more so just my issues talking haha but still sometimes it doesn’t work out like this.
My mom isn't perfect. She never will be. She made mistakes, but she's making up for them.
I couldn't be happier about the relationship with my mom now. She was never horrible, but she didn't make all the right decisions when I was younger. Above all, she's always been there for support, she just didn't give it the way I needed for a long time.
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3:46 she looked so surprised and confused while her mom is hugging her, i cried- why is it so relatable whyyyy
STOP THIS MADE ME WANNA CRY
This made me actually cry...
Same here
omg her skull shirt became a heart shirt at the end!! so cute
This actually made me cry. It’s just like my mom. Being gentle wasn’t her thing. She wanted to make me a strong warrior. She got it..but the strong warrior was still broken inside, and she didn’t help the warrior when she needed it most. Because she was afraid of getting hurt by the person who made her this way.
I love happy endings! 💕💞
Same❤
same
Elsa????
1:27 such a cute family
Especially the dino onesie x)
@@Nini-vj8sw I know it’s so cute
Ah the pain of seeing a compassionate mother loving her child and laughing with them, I know it too well 🥲 Love how the mom gently grabs her ear, and for a second she thinks it's out of love, only for her to realize she's just criticizing her... Even without words, that emotion comes across very well, tuggin' at my childhood trauma bro 😂
Wonderful animation and design, 10/10 ❤😊
My father hugged me for the first time when I was 16, I froze and couldn't do anything but sob.
He then said that was the last time he hugged me because I'm ungrateful and don't deserve his attention.
He hugged me right after complaining that I was wearing platform boots that MY MOM gave me and saying that my mom's cancer was my fault and I ruined her possibly last time going out in her life(he was screaming at me the whole trip and the whole time we were there).
I remember how he always looked at me with disgust since I started expressing myself minimally. I remember him saying nobody would ever love me. I remember him telling me I was a shame to the family because I cried over "just a bird"(my cockatiel) when I was 9. I remember saying I won't get far in life, and even if I do he won't be proud of me because I won't deserve any of that. I remember him saying he doesn't share any family pics because I'm in them and he's ashamed of me.
I literally could only cut my hair half as short as I always wanted at fucking 15. I've always wanted short hair. I'm not allowed to cut or dye my hair, have piercings, heavy makeup, baggy clothes or any of that stuff. I'm 17. Fucking 17. And he still won't let me work because apparently I just "want to go out and do shit behind" his back. I still kinda work my way around the clothes stuff and buy them with my own money, but whenever I wear them I'll get shitted on for 4 hours straight on how I disrespect them and have no love at all for them, that they never did me wrong for me to be this cold to them. They abused me my whole life. He threatened to t0rtvr3 me for something that wasn't even my choice.
Girl i feel so bad for you, your father is a shitty one like parents are there to care and support you, not to put you down even in your deepest part of your life.I really hope your father becomes a better person and change for the better.
I’m so sorry that this is happening! Your father sounds like a terrible man, and I hope that once you turn 18 (a legal adult) you might be able to get more say in your OWN life! I’m truly sorry that he is like this.
I appreciate that the mom wasn't depicted as wholly evil, rather severely strict and emotionally unavailable, as that is the more common attitude they have. I think it adds to the confusing emotions, as while her mother was strict, she wasn't irredeemably cruel, and I imagine that would make it harder to deal with, because you might even feel guilty for resenting your parents, believing that, since you weren't horrifically abused like other victims, you aren't allowed to feel resentment. Maybe a small part of the protagonist thought that she was unfair towards her mother for being angry at her, and that her mother wasn't all that bad, and yet this doubt conflicts with her trauma over the mother's treatment of her. The protagonist was right in her emotions, and that moment of reconciliation was her mother meant the protagonist was acknowledging the hurt, while realising there was a way to right the pain. A slow but steady healing process, assuming the mother is willing to keep it up.
Amazing communication through body language, a tough thing to pull off with no real spoken dialogue. Love the colors and the mood the music adds too! Great work!
Unfortunately those moms usually don't change, only get worse with age and never feel sorry or regretful. Even when they pretend to love you it's a manipulation to gain something back from you.
some truth being spat there, I've been through the same back and forth with mine a million times over
Animation! Telling a story with no words! This is why I want to become an animator and your work is truly beautiful. I love the way you gave some lines life! The way we could understand the story with no words, every frame being planned and everything having detail with no words like the characters. ❤❤❤
this reminds me so much of the relationship i have with my mom, things were really rocky between us during my childhood but as i’ve gotten older, we’ve gotten better at understanding each other, we’re far from perfect but it makes me happy to be closer to her now
I love this so much...IV been watching it on repeat. My favorite part is the mother seeing her daughter and checking her earrings out and tugging on them. Not sure why she was doing that? 🤔. They are very similar to her own just black and shorter
She disapproves of it, hence the tug and the look
It was different in style, the mothers was a gold, and to my understanding they were to be very dressy earrings, while the daughters is to more represent a more punky very pierced kind of earring situation
belts with the metal rings hurt a lot more then paper towels... I truly hope more people have better childhoods then homecell, hang on to those family's and freinships n stuff hard to repair some of them but if its not impossible ~♡
3:45 I love this part.
Same ❤
cheesy hfj??
@@stellagreen-yo7bh Yep, season 3 of ONE is out now. Comment something kind, okay?
This animation is so adorable
This is actually the most relatable animation I’ve ever seen in my life. As a person with a similar aesthetic as the protagonist and has the fear of making mistakes because of my mom, I was mesmerized by this masterpiece.
My real mom yes she was never really there to care with me. She left. She took her drugs. She did not care for my health and my well-being when I was born so I can relate to this animation.
omg thanks for 19 likes that means a lot 🥹
OMG MY COMMENT WAS HIGHLIGTED!!!!!!!!!!!
so heartbreaking... this made me cry alot..
Same
I can relate bc my mom calls me names and gets mad really easy so I cry a lot and idk how to make it better so the only way I’m really happy is when at school or with my bf
Sounds like you should break off contact to your mother.
Yeah well I would but I’m 13 so I can’t really but I’m just going to pray it gets better which it kinda is
@@user-wg8cm1jl8u Please tell me you've found a safe adult to tell these things to. You'll need a safe place if things go awry, even if just for the night.
@@user-wg8cm1jl8uJesus loves you ❤
And remember He always cares for you :)
This is so heartfelt! I think it's a good message that you don't have to change yourself, but you can still understand someone else and meet them halfway, whether you're the kid or the parent.
This almost made me cry
Same 😢
This would have to be the best animation I have ever seen, the two relationships between the mother and the child working out at the end really warmed my heart 10/10 on the animation
so pretty. and very smooth
It’s just really sad to me that so many people have gone through the same thing, that it became an integral part of childhood to be afraid of parents and mistakes
broo i love how her shrt gos as a heart at the end
I had tears In my eyes and I cried when I wrote this😢
Aww
So Wholesome
🎖️🎖️🎖️🎖️🎖️
💕💕💕💕💕
This environment is so beautiful, and the characters are so cute and well animated
I like that the bunny mom still has her kid help her clean up the mess. I think that's great detail because there are parents who show no care or punishment for their kid's mistakes at all. The child cleaning up their mess still teaches them what they did wrong and that they need to help fix their mistake, and the bunny mom does it in a way that's not scary.
My mom abused me for a while. The part where the mom takes the one bottle to put back, but the other grabs it, I felt that deeply for an experience. For me, it gave me the same feelings from when I was finally free for a little bit of her wrath, she forced herself back into my life. Not only that, but trying to "make up for it" with actions but not actual words or taking responsibility for the effect she actually caused. Then theres me grabbing back at the bottle, like thats my life, you are not allowed anywhere near any part of it no matter how small or minor it is, you cannot just push yourself onto me to make up for the past. Her tugging back it would be all the chances I gave her to actually do something, let me do therapy, support my identity, etc, her tugging back is her denying and taking away whats mine, to turn it into hers, how she wants it, how she wants me to be. She had every chance to be an actual mother. I gave her more chances than anyone else ever would have. You do not get to choose whether or not I forgive you or want you in my life. Then that bottle that falls, it would be her reason to snap back again at me, that thats what happens because I wont accept anything from her. Manipulate me that without her, my life is terrible basically. I personally will never forgive her or want anything ever from her ever again. She was the only parent I had, because she forced my father out of my life from how abusive she is that he had to escape too. I went to the mental hospital at 14, for my own attempt because of her. a week later I came home and she flushed away 3 months of anti- depressants down the toilet and called my doctor and lied saying I was doing yoga exercises and "essential oils" and to remove my prescription. For anti depressants. Because they "changed me." and "made me look terrible all the time, always breaking out and redness" and that "its not like its helping you anyway"
I truly cannot wait for the day she is gone. Sometimes I hope she gets in an accident where shes forced to suffer till her end. She ruined her life as a kid and decided to ruin her kids life too.
I have severe brain damage thats permanent for the rest of my life because of her. I have body injuries that will never heal, aches and pains that will never go away, because of her.
I hate her. I hate her with everything I have and more.
i really like the art for this
Man this hurt. My relationship with my mother has always been... complicated so I really appreciate this short film!
I'm crying
100% honest? Absolutely stunning all around, it made me cry because I had a tough relationship with my own mom growing up. Good work!!!
This is amazing and cute i cryed at the end plus it kinda reminds me of me and my step mom
That looks very interesting so amazing you were incredible
This honestly makes me think of how I was treated and (probably) tricked in a sense to make me think I had a happier childhood than I did- it’s sad how much this speaks to me
I always watched animations but I kinda stopped due to depression. This short is getting me back into it!
I loved it a lot. It was very sad. It was more happier. You did very good. Keep it up.😊
If only all it took was such a thing to mend relationships. I'm still upset with all the pain my mom caused ad knowing she doesn't think she did anything wrong, or said "Okay, I'm a "bad" mom, so what." Still makes things almost irreparable. Couldn't even go to my Nana's funeral with that side of the family.
Oh my gosh i remembered i loved this animation!
This got me crying so much. im always worrying about what others think and not what I think and always end up hurting myself. Ty for the reminder of God's love ♥️
If only parents were actually like this.
Este video nos demuestra una lección... Ay que querrér a nuestro hijos por lo que son.. Por lo que nosotros querremos qué sean por que ellos son únicos y especiales a su manera de ser.
Am I the only one who cried at this animation??, I was always afraid that the relationship with my mother would be like this... 😭❤
I enjoy new topics on TH-cam and fresh new animations from beginning artists vs long time experience ones. I love this film now.
damn. this made me cry.
THIS MADE ME CRY! SO MUCH EMOTION AND BEAUTIFUL TOO
I’m just glad they made up and the mom realized her wrong
even though its hard to make me smile but easy to make me cry, this put a smile on my face when the girl gained her relation with her mom back
ABSOLUTELY AMAZING 🥺
Well done!!
Beautiful job on this and such a sweet story
I'm in tears...
I absolutely love this video!!!!
This is beautiful. Well done!
I was so identificated with this Animation
this had no reason to make me cry like it did 😭❤❤❤❤
Важно в семье - это понимать друг друга и исправить ошибки, иначе это разобьёт отношения с членами семьи...
Автору этого мульта, ламповый респект❤
I love this animation soo much. I can't relate to it but the video was wholesome❤❤❤❤❤
This is Beautifully Amazing 😢😊
Great animation also very relatable with me.
I was waiting for something more aggressive, but is so beautiful and well portrayed too!!
yo im tearing up over this, i understand this too well omg. and the phone part, jeeez, this was amazing i loved it
I luv it!
Nice music to go with the vibe.
This was so good!!!
Damn that is a sad story, and feels relatable from what I have seen happen with other kids.
not me actually crying watching this 😭 i love this sm
This made me cry 😭 I love this🤌✨
This is beautiful
minha mãe uma época teve uma loja online na qual ela vendia roupas. Pra enviar para as clientes ela passava um perfume, um dia ela pediu para eu alcançar o perfume, eu peguei pela tampa e a garrafa mesmo sendo de plástico caiu no chão e quebrou, ela gritou e me obrigou a colocar o liquido do perfume num copo, como? pegando o liquido com uma colher do chão, eu chorei em silencio e mesmo ela vendo ela não ligou, essa animação além de linda tem um significado muito forte
This is an amazing animation..
Awww do happy I love this animation ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Who else has had this on ur recommended for like 6 years
I wish it was that easy... I mean, maybe it is for some people idk. Loved the animation
genuinely crying like i had ti take my glasses off from tears
Distance makes the heart grow fonder
I love this a lot ❤
It hurts to see this because I have a parent or two that I'm always afraid of upsetting, and I don't think that will ever change, but this gives me hope that one day my situation can get better, and at least other people can have that rekindling.
Sometimes when i see other moms whom are gentle and kind ya know A MOM I get envious because its not how my mom was this reminded me somewhat of my own mother i was not ready to heal even the daughter dresses like me and shi. Atleast it means others have went thru this and felt like a disappointment especially the piercing tug part I've felt that way to many times
This made me cry so hard
Gracias 😢😢😢