I agree with you, Ellen. When money's involved, people are all in your face. It's like "where were you when I had nothing? Now I'm making a lot, now you want your share? Hahahahahahaha bye bye bye"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
About the story with his sister questioning having a close relationship: she said he had no right sticking his nose into her and her daughter's relationship but she literally did the same to him and his son? Not only is she manipulative, but also a hypocrite. I hope that family can get better without her
Last story: the mother did right. I’m not a parent, but if I was in her shoes, I know I’d rather have my child lose out on a potentially toxic relationship and keep their boundaries than allow them to sacrifice their boundaries because they think that this is how people who care about them show love. Good intentions or not, the babysitter crossed a line repeatedly after being asked to stop
Not only that, the husband is taking the wrong side for the sake of his friendship. I'm wondering if the babysitter's dad even knows about his daughter's behavior. If so, hes likely use to normalizing what she does so she'll stay out of his hair. Makes things easier for him. 😔
If I was the mom I would honestly consider sending my soon to be ex-husband to go live with his friend and the ex-babysitter since they are the ones he cares about, not his family.
The babysitter sounds like a very cruel young person and with no consequences, will continue said cruelty. And that recording needs to be deleted and deleted again, because some platforms keep deleted photos and videos for a time and they can still be retrieved. She was setting the daughter up for further humiliation in the future. She knows the family and clearly 'has it in' for the daughter.
1st story: the husband didn't want anything to do with her business and then once he sees how successful her business is, he wants in, what happened to not caring, and it's not HIS soil it's the Earth's soil, so she can do what ever she likes 2nd story: the sister is in the wrong, she's hypocritical, she tells someone how to do their job as a parent but then again she don't even talk to her kid, like the son loves his father so much they have a good father son relationship and not the kind the sister is thinking which is disgusting why would she even think that 3rd: everyone has their own way of dealing with grief and depression and if writing in a journal helps, then that babysitter had no right she shouldn't have went so far I feel bad for Lauren that was her way to heal and it's probably ruined
The audacity of the sister to tell Op not to stick his nose into her and her daughter’s relationship when she did just that to Op and his son’s relationship on top of calling innocent physical affection between parent and child creepy and perverted. I’m surprised and impressed that Op didn’t deck his sister.
I think the husband might have had an argument if he owned the property, but it wouldn't be a 50/50 split. It would probably be more like when a farmer rents land to grow crops: The property owner is only entitled to the rent paid to use the land, not to any of the profits from the crops grown on it. (I think that's how it works, anyway)
the 2nd story was basically the sister accusing the dad of being a groomer/pedophile which is all sorts of messed up and i think really says how the man's family views men since he said that his entire family was against him raising his son alone
When I was around 6, my dad had been absent for a few weeks. I was used to him disappearing for periods of time, so I thought nothing of it. My mom had her suspicions and decided to confront him. Sure enough, the man was cheating on her with a friend of hers. This had been going on for months, the two of them claiming it was "meant to be". She was clearly upset and demanded to know why he decided to do such a thing. According to him, he "thought you'd be happy about it since it's someone you know". My mom screamed about how he was insane and needed to leave for good. He did. I got to spend the next year's Christmas with him, his wife, and their new kid. Everything was a very wonderful experience. After all, I finally got to see my dad after all that time. What could go wrong? Turns out, he had attempted to steal me away. I got him to call my mom, and have her and my uncle come to save me the next day. Christmas day, I wasn't allowed to take any of my presents with me as I went into the truck. My mom had an angry talk with him. She was furious for a number of reasons, but his response to my leaving floored her. "She's my child. She'll come running back to me soon enough. You can't keep her away forever." My mom told him he "Truly was pathetic" if he thought I'd come back just because he thought I would. We left. Can confirm: I have no intention of going back to him, nor do I plan to have a relationship with him. He was definitely delusional.
My mom has gone through something similar when her parents (who were divorced at that point and still are) would ‘kidnap’ her, and sometimes the police would be called. Adults can be so childish sometimes.
That last story though! 🤦🏻♀️ That wasn’t teasing, that was bullying. Well done for OP standing up for her daughter, and a big old WTF to her husband for being more concerned about his image with his friend instead of his daughters well-being!
@@grobanite4ever85 Lmao why does everyone jump to divorce on every single story on this channel or Reddit. The husband didn't do anything, he even said he agrees with the wife, just because he has a different opinion on how to deal with the situation doesn't mean that they need to separate
@@QuokkaWaka if he's more concerned about his friend and her daughter, he can go live with them. The poor 14 year old was traumatised and he doesn't care. He's even willing to bring her back near his daughter. No wonders the daughter called her mom instead of her dad when all this happened.
@@jass1470 That's just not the case though, at least it probably isn't. It isn't that he doesn't care about his daughter or cares about his friend more or whatever, he just wanted to handle the situation with as little conflict as possible. It's not like the babysitter's gonna stab the daughter the moment she gets the chance, she'd probably apologise and lay off since she's been told off already. Also the wife could have discussed it with him first, she made a decision regarding their daughter, his friend and his trip without consulting him. Not to mention the fact that when he expressed his concerns she called him delusional. You guys are making wild assumptions based off of one tiny little event where he isn't even being that unreasonable. If the dad asked the daughter to split a chocolate bar with him, would you say "He clearly cares about chocolate more than his daughter, really shows his truly colours. Divorce immediately. Divorce!!!"? I'm not saying I necessarily agree with him, if I was in that situation I wouldn't want the babysitter near my daughter for a little while if possible, but I wouldn't be totally adverse to trying to get them to make up or antagonize someone for suggesting it, especially if they were really busy and needed that babysitter ASAP.
Omfg that babysitter who read the journal😡😡😡. That happened to me when I was younger, my siblings stole my journal and locked themselves in the bathroom while they read it out loud through the door. People seem not to understand how traumatizing that is, to have your saddest and most closely kept emotions completely violated by people you're supposed to trust.
Same here, only it was my grandmother. Who proceeded to tell everyone on Facebook everything I had written. Being fourteen, this included erotic fantasies. Yeah.
Omg, for the flower business one, I'd be like ok, here's 50% of what I made. Now I'm gonna run out to the hardware store and buy my OWN soil and make my OWN garden, so next time you don't deserve anything. 💀
Getting fired from the babysitting job was fair and as much consequence as OP was able to give. She did the right thing. Her husband was more worried about his friendship with babysitter's dad than his own daughter. Sad. If anything, husband's friend should be punishing the his daughter for the crappy thing she did. I call BS on babysitter's comment about doing it to help OP's daughter with her feelings. She had been picking on her before then. She just sounds mean.
I don't think that the husband was just worried about his friendship instead of his daughter, it seems not having a babysitter available on short notice causes a lot of problems for the family. I'm on the wife's side but I don't think the husband did anything wrong. He seems nice enough, it's just two differing stances on a situation.
@@debl3063 That's fair, but he had a trip that week, so to find one on such short notice could be a bit troublesome. Idk for sure though, not like I've ever hired a babysitter before
“It always matters when money is involved” and “a waste of time and money” are statements the greedy husband has said about the gardening business. Money was always involved; there just wasn’t originally an opportunity to leech off his wife’s success. If he had been helping and encouraging her from the beginning, I’d say politely asking for some share of the profit would be fine, but he mocked her “hobby” and proceeded to demand money gained from it. He earned nothing and therefore gets nothing.
Nah man that last one is crazy The husband would rather make sure his 14 year friendship is okay rather then his daughter feel comfortable in their own house That’s strange asf
0:05: Typical. Partners are nowhere to be found when you're struggling, but when you become successful, they act like they've been with you the whole time. If I were the wife, I'd offer her husband 10% tops. 3:39: Don't you just love how people offer parenting advice when they can't parent their own children. At least the man has a loving relationship with his son. Doesn't seem that way with his sister and her daughter. 7:07: That was a blatant invasion of privacy and violation of trust on the babysitter's part, and for the husband to react the way he did showed his true colors.
1st Story: Your husband has to work with you in your business. 2nd Story: This is why kids are so uncomfortable around their parents. 3rd Story: Things went from 10 to 10,000,000 real quick
1st Story: The husband only wanted to be part of his wife's business because it became succesful. When the wife brought up the idea he told her that it was the worst idea ever, a waste of time and money, and that she should look for 2nd job. The wife should either give him 10% at the most (can give him less than 10% share of profits) or not give him any share of the profits. The soil doesn't belong to the husband. 2nd Story: The sister has a bad/poor/weak relationship with her daughter, so she shouldn't be giving parenting advice. 3rd Story: The babysitter shouldn't have called the girl uptight, made comments about the girl never smiling and shouldn't have called the girl "grinch." The girl's mom did the right thing when she told the babysitter to stop. The babysitter reading the girl's diary out loud was a huge violation/invasion of privacy. The mom did the right thing when she fired the babysitter and told the babysitter to leave. The husband's reaction showed his true colors. He cared/cares more about a friendship than his daughter. The mom handled the situation well/properly.
Kyutie is so right for saying that the babysitter is only there to babysit and not try to fix things. It hit deep because of something similar that occurred once to me when a family friend thought that based on a false story that was made up by my grandma on how apparently my family works, so she tried “fixing” all the problems in a week by inviting my family to stay the week at her house. The lady treated everyone but my dad and sister very awfully. Only reason being because my grandma only loves her son and only likes my sister because she looks like my dad. Me and my other sister are a mix of both parents. Either ways my expierence there was awfull that on the last day there I cried because she kept scolding me for everything including because she wanted me to do work around her house out of my own motivation and not without her telling me to do so. Like couldn’t she think straight??? We were staying over and no kid that’s staying at someone else’s house thinks about doing someone else’s chores. Like it’s not my house??? Either ways I hate that just like the story my dad sided with them and not his family. Apparently my dad thought the way my mom reacted to this crazy lady’s behavior was giving him an awful image since she was being nice to him and his family was being rude. It took him very long to eventually know that his “friends” were awful people. The lady and her husband were very inconsistent in the friendship and showed much more with time of what type of people they were. Now my dad and obvs my mom as well don’t talk to them.
Now that I think of it, imagine if the woman from the first story bought soil from a gardening shop with her own hard earned money but the husband still implies it's "his soil".
My Mother was quite a good artist and one year she painted a bunch of pictures to sell at the Starving Artists function. She sold out in the first hour. My Father took the money out of her hands and put it in his wallet. Never another word to her except OK, let's go. It would have been fitting if she had brained him with the easel but she never participated in that gathering again. (People remembered her and asked where she was.)
I would've actually "agreed" with the dad: yes, 17 year olds make mistakes and that's normal... which is why I don't want a 17 year old looking after my traumatized child, if she can't even look properly after herself
@@QuokkaWaka Exactly why I wouldn’t want her around. If she doesn’t know what boundaries are, not my fault. She's working a JOB here, she either has to fit the jobs descriptions and be a good babysitter or mess up and lose the job. Sure, the mom could have and should have handled the situation a bit better since the babysitter was a kid as well but my point stands.
In the last story, I would've told the babysitter that "she has actually been doing much better since we got her that journal!" Writing your feelings in a private book isn't bottling them up, it's never getting them out that hurts you. As long as you get your feelings and thoughts out, it helps you to better sort through them! Even when it's put in a book no one will ever see. Personal experience: I bottled up my feelings for 6 years, and it's done nothing but hurt me and make me more sensitive and emotional. Didn't help that I was also going through puberty. Now though, I'm figuring out ways to express myself privately, and it's helped. I've been able to better recognize my emotions and learn from my mistakes, and that's how expressing yourself, even in places where no one else can see CAN help!
Also, it's people like that babysitter that made me never keep a journal or diary, for fear that people would read it aloud and be mean about it. I was so terrified of others seeing who I am on the inside that I never let that beast out, and all that has done was make it claw up the walls and break holes to scratch at others when I got too upset.
I can't imagine having a mother that thinks hugging kids is a bad thing. I'm Korean and live in Seoul and many parents here aren't as affectionate and vocal about saying they love their children but they still hug and show love to their children. I loved when my parents would give me big bear hugs when I was growing up, and my parents still do hug me like that. Especially love when I go to their house and they just know by looking that I've had a hard day and they come give me a big hug.
I’m 20 years old. I still hug and kiss my mom. Tell her I love her. Sometimes even call her momma. None of that’s about to stop just because some weirdo worships Freud.
First story: Anyone remember the story of the red hen? This reminds me of it. Second story: It's suddenly weird to have physical contact with family? If it's unwanted, then yes. But if it's like a child just hugging their parents, it's not weird to show love to your parents or anyone you care about! Third story: That bratty babysitter shouldn't have read that diary! There's something called privacy, you know!
Wow. These make me so mad. 1: He doesn't do jack while the wife is running her business. If he wants 50% he's gonna have to earn it; letting her use "his" soil is not gonna cut it. People like this fill me with an unbridled fury. 2: If she doesn't want him to get involved with her and her daughters relationship, then she shouldn't be poking her nose into him and his son's relationship. How dare she condemn him for showing his son that he loves him? Does she not love her daughter enough to express it? Hypocrite. 3: The babysitter should know better than to go through someone else's stuff w/o their consent. That's snooping, and is an invasion of privacy. She had no right to do that, even if she thought she was helping. And the husband really prioritized his friendship over his daughter? He needs to realize that the babysitter was as immature as a 10-year-old, and that this was the consequence of her actions. Also, I think the babysitter should have stopped teasing Lauren earlier, seeing as it didn't cheer her up (AKA taking a clue). Telling someone to smile while grieving is rude, and dismissive of their emotional turmoil.
The third one pissed me off so bad because it happened to me, and it hurts so bad, I was in 3rd grade at that time, even 6 years later, I still hate the 2 people who did it, it also made my anxiety and depression worst
It's always the "and so they haven't spoken to me since". Wtf are you? A kid? These "adults" are never gonna admit they're wrong or actually try to solve the problem and so they chose to be a toddler and ignore the person in the right every time
Hands down to the mom at 7:07 She actually understands that diaries/journals are meant to express emotions through writing. If you're not comfortable verbally talking about them with people. Some parents and people think, it's a form of talking behind someone's back. So, they feel the need to stick their nose into it. 🙄 And yeah, the babysitter's an A**. She's a babysitter, not a therapist. And even so; good therapists don't pull crap like that.
1st story: I'm upset on her behalf, a man should have zero rights over a woman's money/property! (it's the law in my country but sadly it can differ in practice because it's still a developing country). 2nd story: The sister's mentality is just not right. Has she never seen any grandparents hug their kids and grandkids? I think she needs therapy. I wouldn't be surprised if the daughter doesn't want to spend an extra second with this type of negative/depressing woman. 3rd story: Calling someone nicknames they don't like is immature behaviour and 100% the actions of a primary school bully. She should've fired this bully much earlier. I can't believe the father wants to leave his daughter alone with a bully and is worried about his friend instead of worrying about his daughter.
Can I just say this made my day better for sure! I fell during a race at track and field today and got extremely bad scrapes, cuts and road rash everywhere and was just overall having a bad day so watching you just brightened up my day a little :)
If the babysitter really wanted to show the daughter that sharing emotions is okay, she shouldn’t have read the daughter’s stuff. She should have read her own journal. That’ll show her how it feels and how hard it is to share feelings
1. The husband is honestly delusional and probably didn't support her because he thought it wouldn't work but now he suddenly wants 50% of the profit? Huh? 2. Wtf is wrong with hugging your kids? Like seriously his sister is the one telling him not to but in on her daughter's relationship yet she accused him of being creepy? 3. I would be mad pissed if someone read my journal without my permission and recorded a video of it and possibly other people could see my private thoughts. Also the dad should care more about his daughter's mental health. They should never let her in their house again! The mum was in the right for speaking up for her daughter and kicking her out.
Lets just be very very clear on something. NOBODY would actually believe that reading somebody's journal out loud would help them be comfortable voicing their emotions. That was a blatant lie and filming herself doing it proves the intent to humiliate Lauren.
That babysitter is disgusting! “But it’s okay to show your emotions instead of bottling it up” logic means I should come out to my transphobic parents.
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3:54 You telling me the family is upset with him for being a loving caring father? What the heck is happening to the people who think this way? AND THE SISTER? nah she is weird she jealous that his kid actually likes him while her daughter dislikes her. The dad told her the truth she cant be mad for him speaking facts
The one with the brother and sister's children relationship I can understand because when I was younger I wished to have that relationship with my family
Story 1… divorce and like don’t most married people have a shared bank account Number 2 that sister needs help of some sort… and maybe cpc idk it kinda sound like neglect but wasn’t very detailed on it.. also my mom would push me off of her when I hugged her by my dad knows if I walk in his direction he’s getting a hug Number 3 the babysitter needs a different career that doesn’t involve children.. and I’m that husband is blinded of friendship and doesn’t care about his daughter feeling and seems like he cares more about his trip
The last one is similar to a problem i had growing up. I kept a diary but my carers would always go through it and rip out the pages that had anything she didn't like written on them. I eventually asked her why and she said that i was trying to make her look bad and lose her job.
5th grade I feel of the stairs and broke my leg badly I was limping crying in pain but my mom ignored it I asked her to get me at least a plaster but she said she didn't had the money that day she had the exact amount or more than tI needed to get a doctor at home for her pet that day she really hurt me Fast froward to 9th grade I slipped and broke my other foot this time I broke 4 bones MY MOTHER STILL IGNORED MY CRY FOR HELP my sister came and took me to a doctor after 1 month it still was fractured very badly Now today our maid fell off and just sprained her leg SHE RUSHING HER TO THE DOCTOR it's just hurts how my own mother cares more about her pets and maid more than me
I'm 29 and randomly hug my mom or she'll say, "I love you" just because. It's sad that some people see parents showing affection to their kids as weird or creepy.
That babysitter story at the end. I would not fire her - rather I would have done what she did to the daughter too. I would ransack her house to find any journal she had & then I WOULD READ IT OUT LOUD TOO to EVERYONE she knew. Let's see if she won't be embarrassed/afraid when her OWN SECRETS will be aired to strangers...😒😑
The second story makes me mad especially because the sister wasn't trying to say that just being affectionate with your children is weird- she was trying to imply FATHERS being affectionate with their kids is wrong in the pedophilic/grooming sense. It came from a place of bitterness but it does also say a lot on how she views men. The sister having the audacity to call him a pervert over just being able to raise a kid who is comfortable enough to be affectionate with him when she couldn't is her trying to play the "men predators, women and children prey" card to try and justify her bitterness against their bond.
8:25 Anyone may touch my journal all they want, I have it written in my personally made script AND encrypted, so good luck to anyone for reading that. Even *I* have to decrypt it manually to figure out what *I* wrote, and I'm the one who designed the script and chose the encryption method.
My older brother was being bullied by one of his teachers during his sophomore year of high school. My Mom marched down to that school and had it out with the administration, then she took on the teacher as well. The teacher stuck to her own guns and my mom screamed across the gymnasium at her (we're Irish and mom is also a singer, she could be heard outside the gymnasium and across school grounds). This was a "Christian" school so my mom screamed at her about how she was a terrible witness. The administration ultimately did back my mom on the issue. You never, ever, take on a mom when she is going to bat for her kids. I can't believe that last one, the dad cared more about a friendship than his own child? And he thought he was going to win against his own wife, who was protecting her child? Yeah, he was delusional.
If I was the first one, I’d have a separate bank account. And I’d lie about how much I made. Probably would have just called it a hobby. And people paid me for the seedlings. No way in hell did she not know what a jerk he is.
9:06 Your not helping a child by embarrassing them in front of other kids and RECORDING IT ASWELL. This women is old enough to know what's right and wrong shes not a child. The mother is a good person for protecting her child. The husband is weird for not taking his kid feelings into consideration hes more worried about a friendship because his friend can't parent his kid right to not go in people's privacy
I believe that the love of money is the root of all evil, but not the money itself Edit IDK why the dad got heat for trying to take of his son & judging from his comment it looks like he's a great dad. Kids don't usual hug bad parents.
One time when I was younger my mom was at work so I had a babysitter, and my babysitter told be that my mom died. She never told me it was a joke so I went to sleep thinking my mom died 👍
The second story with the son, his sister was out of line really. My daughter is almost 2 now and I was brought up in a really bad house hold. I got put in foster care if that tells you anything about it. I love on my daughter all the time, encourage her to dress in my cloths and in her dad's cloths, tell her she's smart when she tries to tell me what sound animals make. Every one is different but I would love to have a good relationship with her when she gets older since my childhood wasn't the best. I'm doing everything opposite of what my parents did and hopefully that's enough. Don't understand how people say hugging is bad for your kids or loving on them like that. At least he has a relationship with him.
Thank you so much for brightening our days Kyutie, you have no idea how much you've helped me through. You are literally the embodiment of purity and beauty, thank you so much for doing what you do.
The ladt story makes me so mad. I know a few people who will act like the babysitter and thankfully i dont contact them anymore. Im wishing the best for the bestfriends family and OP's daughter and i hope the husband understands that "kids her age" should know better then bully someone who is going through stuff like that
@@Kyutie. Haha thanks but I fell on stage during the dance part 💀💀💀 super embarrassing but hey, at least I got back up and kept dancing. Yeah pretty sure I’m not gonna get that role but there will be more auditions to come!
I loved my ma and we hugged a lot I miss her so much she was my only true best friend in the world 🌎 we got along great 👍 I loved her more than any one ☝️ else I was there for her when she needed me the most she had cancer ♋️ and died from it.
Dump your husband, dump your sister, dump your friendship. Honestly these people are delusional, 1 the soil is not “yours” it’s just damn soil let it go, 2 people should be allowed to show affection to THEIR OWN CHILDREN just because you aren’t capable of that does not mean that everyone else has to also stop showing their child love, 3 you should care more about your daughter who’s going through absolute trauma rather than a friendship. I’ve gone through cancer twice and honestly it’s traumatized all of my friends I’ve almost died several times and I don’t wish that trauma on anyone I can’t even imagine how the girl is feeling, you should do more and care more to be there for her as her father😒
The second story where the sister thought it was weird that her brother had physical contact with his son, meaning his son hugged him before he left? The reason she thinks it's creepy and weird is because she neglects her child, or perhaps she doesn't like touching people, or perhaps for some other reason. But it's completely normal, even needed, to hug your family.
Whether boy or girl it is absolutely not creepy to have physical contact with your teen child. And if you don't provide that contact your kids will find it elsewhere.
Aww Kyutie you are such an angel! You post your videos right around when I wake up so this is such a great and positive way to start my day. Sending you tons of love!
I don't get why money us such a problem in relationships. My boyfriend and I make jokes whenever the other makes more. When I make more money, I'm his sugar momma and when he makes more he's my sugar daddy lol.
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that first story: What. the. actual. hell. 😐😐😐 I can't even. I guess he never heard of the little red hen. The right thing would be separation. I hope she moves out of that house. He just showed that he is greedy. Second story: His family is mad at him because he decided to take care of his son. You would be surprised how many parents think like the aunt. Maybe that's why so those parents and their children don't get along. Third story: A bully pretending to be a babysitter. The dad is more worried about his friendship than his daughter.
17 year olds are so selfish, and if her parents didn't teach her to respect anyones privacy, then it's on the parents also, but 17 yr olds are just selfish and aren't grown up, contrary to what they think. The mom was great sticking up for her daughter, and yes grief has no time line, it gets better and worst and better, 2 steps forward another back, she will miss her bestie for the rest of her life. And it's fine, as long as she is moving forward.
1st story ... the husband may not be entitled to 50% however the wife should take some of the profits and put it towards bills/savings/and or paying down debt. they are married and should be a team working together
I think it'd be a different matter if he'd first said something like: So, I was wrong about it being a waste of time. You've done really great with this little business, it's really thriving. You did great. And then after they had cleared the air with that, he could have said, "so, now that we have this new income stream, how about we put some of it into our shared emergency funds account?" When you share assets, that's a normal conversation. Like, yeah, they should be a team working together. But he was a) unsupportive and b) wanted the profit for himself, not for shared expenses. He's not being a team player, he's just undervaluing his wife. Being a married team isn't just sharing finances, it also means being supportive, it means appreciating each other.
@@This_Is_Just_To_Say I wouldn't say he was undervaluing his wife because what if the business failed, that would effect him too. however he could have handled it better and been a bit more supportive
Sorry I was late ellen but just know that I absolutely love your videos and your dog coco to may God bless both of you and everybody that reads this comment too 💜💜💜
Divorce. That's the only solution I see for the women in these stories. The last one in particular is fucked up. The mother was right to yell at the babysitter and her husband is dead wrong! His daughter was traumatized in her own home and the only thing he cares about is his buddy and his trip. EW!
The father practically grew up with his son. To be 32 with a 16 year old means he was 15/16 when the boy was born. How dare the sister say anything! I would tell her to find a place quickly. No longer welcome in his house. Maybe the niece can stay.
I agree with you, Ellen. When money's involved, people are all in your face. It's like "where were you when I had nothing? Now I'm making a lot, now you want your share? Hahahahahahaha bye bye bye"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Exactly , if you weren't a part of my struggles , then you don't deserve to be a part of my success.
Yes
About the story with his sister questioning having a close relationship: she said he had no right sticking his nose into her and her daughter's relationship but she literally did the same to him and his son? Not only is she manipulative, but also a hypocrite. I hope that family can get better without her
Exactly what I was thinking!
Exactly why her daughter is staying away from her as possible,clever girl
My thoughts exactly.
Plus she judged him on his parenting style. There's a reason he has a good relationship with his son and she doesn't with her daughter.
Last story: the mother did right. I’m not a parent, but if I was in her shoes, I know I’d rather have my child lose out on a potentially toxic relationship and keep their boundaries than allow them to sacrifice their boundaries because they think that this is how people who care about them show love. Good intentions or not, the babysitter crossed a line repeatedly after being asked to stop
Not only that, the husband is taking the wrong side for the sake of his friendship. I'm wondering if the babysitter's dad even knows about his daughter's behavior. If so, hes likely use to normalizing what she does so she'll stay out of his hair. Makes things easier for him. 😔
If I was the mom I would honestly consider sending my soon to be ex-husband to go live with his friend and the ex-babysitter since they are the ones he cares about, not his family.
And the husband is just as bad, if not worse, for prioritizing his friendship over his own daughter's mental health.
The babysitter sounds like a very cruel young person and with no consequences, will continue said cruelty. And that recording needs to be deleted and deleted again, because some platforms keep deleted photos and videos for a time and they can still be retrieved. She was setting the daughter up for further humiliation in the future. She knows the family and clearly 'has it in' for the daughter.
@@thecookinestkid401 yes
Crazy how there are people out here who are REALLY like this and have these mindsets. I don't even think delusional is the word
@I am me Because age ≠ maturity
1st story: the husband didn't want anything to do with her business and then once he sees how successful her business is, he wants in, what happened to not caring, and it's not HIS soil it's the Earth's soil, so she can do what ever she likes
2nd story: the sister is in the wrong, she's hypocritical, she tells someone how to do their job as a parent but then again she don't even talk to her kid, like the son loves his father so much they have a good father son relationship and not the kind the sister is thinking which is disgusting why would she even think that
3rd: everyone has their own way of dealing with grief and depression and if writing in a journal helps, then that babysitter had no right she shouldn't have went so far I feel bad for Lauren that was her way to heal and it's probably ruined
The audacity of the sister to tell Op not to stick his nose into her and her daughter’s relationship when she did just that to Op and his son’s relationship on top of calling innocent physical affection between parent and child creepy and perverted. I’m surprised and impressed that Op didn’t deck his sister.
I think the husband might have had an argument if he owned the property, but it wouldn't be a 50/50 split. It would probably be more like when a farmer rents land to grow crops: The property owner is only entitled to the rent paid to use the land, not to any of the profits from the crops grown on it. (I think that's how it works, anyway)
the 2nd story was basically the sister accusing the dad of being a groomer/pedophile which is all sorts of messed up and i think really says how the man's family views men since he said that his entire family was against him raising his son alone
First story:
With this guy’s logic, she should be giving 50% to the neighbors who ‘watched’ her from the window who ‘silently cheered her on’ smh
lmao
Noice
When I was around 6, my dad had been absent for a few weeks. I was used to him disappearing for periods of time, so I thought nothing of it. My mom had her suspicions and decided to confront him. Sure enough, the man was cheating on her with a friend of hers. This had been going on for months, the two of them claiming it was "meant to be". She was clearly upset and demanded to know why he decided to do such a thing. According to him, he "thought you'd be happy about it since it's someone you know". My mom screamed about how he was insane and needed to leave for good. He did.
I got to spend the next year's Christmas with him, his wife, and their new kid. Everything was a very wonderful experience. After all, I finally got to see my dad after all that time. What could go wrong? Turns out, he had attempted to steal me away. I got him to call my mom, and have her and my uncle come to save me the next day.
Christmas day, I wasn't allowed to take any of my presents with me as I went into the truck. My mom had an angry talk with him. She was furious for a number of reasons, but his response to my leaving floored her. "She's my child. She'll come running back to me soon enough. You can't keep her away forever." My mom told him he "Truly was pathetic" if he thought I'd come back just because he thought I would. We left.
Can confirm: I have no intention of going back to him, nor do I plan to have a relationship with him. He was definitely delusional.
My mom has gone through something similar when her parents (who were divorced at that point and still are) would ‘kidnap’ her, and sometimes the police would be called. Adults can be so childish sometimes.
Your dad is childish! I’m so glad you don’t talk to him now. Don’t ever talk to him, it’s best you don’t.
That last story though! 🤦🏻♀️
That wasn’t teasing, that was bullying. Well done for OP standing up for her daughter, and a big old WTF to her husband for being more concerned about his image with his friend instead of his daughters well-being!
This is grounds for divorce
@@grobanite4ever85
Lmao why does everyone jump to divorce on every single story on this channel or Reddit. The husband didn't do anything, he even said he agrees with the wife, just because he has a different opinion on how to deal with the situation doesn't mean that they need to separate
@@QuokkaWaka if he's more concerned about his friend and her daughter, he can go live with them. The poor 14 year old was traumatised and he doesn't care. He's even willing to bring her back near his daughter. No wonders the daughter called her mom instead of her dad when all this happened.
@@QuokkaWaka I don't care he didn't care about his daughter so of course I will ask for divorce!
@@jass1470
That's just not the case though, at least it probably isn't. It isn't that he doesn't care about his daughter or cares about his friend more or whatever, he just wanted to handle the situation with as little conflict as possible.
It's not like the babysitter's gonna stab the daughter the moment she gets the chance, she'd probably apologise and lay off since she's been told off already.
Also the wife could have discussed it with him first, she made a decision regarding their daughter, his friend and his trip without consulting him. Not to mention the fact that when he expressed his concerns she called him delusional.
You guys are making wild assumptions based off of one tiny little event where he isn't even being that unreasonable. If the dad asked the daughter to split a chocolate bar with him, would you say "He clearly cares about chocolate more than his daughter, really shows his truly colours. Divorce immediately. Divorce!!!"?
I'm not saying I necessarily agree with him, if I was in that situation I wouldn't want the babysitter near my daughter for a little while if possible, but I wouldn't be totally adverse to trying to get them to make up or antagonize someone for suggesting it, especially if they were really busy and needed that babysitter ASAP.
Moral of the first story : If someone is not a part of your struggles , then they don't deserve to be a part of your success. Great video Ellen
Omfg that babysitter who read the journal😡😡😡. That happened to me when I was younger, my siblings stole my journal and locked themselves in the bathroom while they read it out loud through the door. People seem not to understand how traumatizing that is, to have your saddest and most closely kept emotions completely violated by people you're supposed to trust.
Same here, only it was my grandmother. Who proceeded to tell everyone on Facebook everything I had written. Being fourteen, this included erotic fantasies. Yeah.
Omg, for the flower business one, I'd be like ok, here's 50% of what I made. Now I'm gonna run out to the hardware store and buy my OWN soil and make my OWN garden, so next time you don't deserve anything. 💀
Getting fired from the babysitting job was fair and as much consequence as OP was able to give. She did the right thing. Her husband was more worried about his friendship with babysitter's dad than his own daughter. Sad. If anything, husband's friend should be punishing the his daughter for the crappy thing she did. I call BS on babysitter's comment about doing it to help OP's daughter with her feelings. She had been picking on her before then. She just sounds mean.
I don't think that the husband was just worried about his friendship instead of his daughter, it seems not having a babysitter available on short notice causes a lot of problems for the family.
I'm on the wife's side but I don't think the husband did anything wrong. He seems nice enough, it's just two differing stances on a situation.
@@QuokkaWaka agree I though the husband had very fair points and I see both sides
@@QuokkaWaka she wasn't a very good sitter though. They were better off with out her.
@@debl3063
That's fair, but he had a trip that week, so to find one on such short notice could be a bit troublesome. Idk for sure though, not like I've ever hired a babysitter before
“It always matters when money is involved” and “a waste of time and money” are statements the greedy husband has said about the gardening business. Money was always involved; there just wasn’t originally an opportunity to leech off his wife’s success. If he had been helping and encouraging her from the beginning, I’d say politely asking for some share of the profit would be fine, but he mocked her “hobby” and proceeded to demand money gained from it. He earned nothing and therefore gets nothing.
Nah man that last one is crazy
The husband would rather make sure his 14 year friendship is okay rather then his daughter feel comfortable in their own house
That’s strange asf
0:05: Typical. Partners are nowhere to be found when you're struggling, but when you become successful, they act like they've been with you the whole time. If I were the wife, I'd offer her husband 10% tops.
3:39: Don't you just love how people offer parenting advice when they can't parent their own children. At least the man has a loving relationship with his son. Doesn't seem that way with his sister and her daughter.
7:07: That was a blatant invasion of privacy and violation of trust on the babysitter's part, and for the husband to react the way he did showed his true colors.
1st Story: Your husband has to work with you in your business.
2nd Story: This is why kids are so uncomfortable around their parents.
3rd Story: Things went from 10 to 10,000,000 real quick
3rd story: men have a superiority complex and doesn't care about kids or their spouse's feelings because they are nothing but a bunch of narcissists
1st Story: The husband only wanted to be part of his wife's business because it became succesful. When the wife brought up the idea he told her that it was the worst idea ever, a waste of time and money, and that she should look for 2nd job. The wife should either give him 10% at the most (can give him less than 10% share of profits) or not give him any share of the profits. The soil doesn't belong to the husband.
2nd Story: The sister has a bad/poor/weak relationship with her daughter, so she shouldn't be giving parenting advice.
3rd Story: The babysitter shouldn't have called the girl uptight, made comments about the girl never smiling and shouldn't have called the girl "grinch." The girl's mom did the right thing when she told the babysitter to stop. The babysitter reading the girl's diary out loud was a huge violation/invasion of privacy. The mom did the right thing when she fired the babysitter and told the babysitter to leave. The husband's reaction showed his true colors. He cared/cares more about a friendship than his daughter. The mom handled the situation well/properly.
Kyutie is so right for saying that the babysitter is only there to babysit and not try to fix things. It hit deep because of something similar that occurred once to me when a family friend thought that based on a false story that was made up by my grandma on how apparently my family works, so she tried “fixing” all the problems in a week by inviting my family to stay the week at her house. The lady treated everyone but my dad and sister very awfully. Only reason being because my grandma only loves her son and only likes my sister because she looks like my dad. Me and my other sister are a mix of both parents. Either ways my expierence there was awfull that on the last day there I cried because she kept scolding me for everything including because she wanted me to do work around her house out of my own motivation and not without her telling me to do so. Like couldn’t she think straight??? We were staying over and no kid that’s staying at someone else’s house thinks about doing someone else’s chores. Like it’s not my house??? Either ways I hate that just like the story my dad sided with them and not his family. Apparently my dad thought the way my mom reacted to this crazy lady’s behavior was giving him an awful image since she was being nice to him and his family was being rude. It took him very long to eventually know that his “friends” were awful people. The lady and her husband were very inconsistent in the friendship and showed much more with time of what type of people they were. Now my dad and obvs my mom as well don’t talk to them.
Sister living with brother, she needs to GOOOOO. She’s got issues, BIG ONES. Who turns affection into something ugly??
Now that I think of it, imagine if the woman from the first story bought soil from a gardening shop with her own hard earned money but the husband still implies it's "his soil".
Age ≠ Maturity
There are people who prove that even adults can be immature sometimes
I worked with a few at my old job.
My Mother was quite a good artist and one year she painted a bunch of pictures to sell at the Starving Artists function. She sold out in the first hour. My Father took the money out of her hands and put it in his wallet. Never another word to her except OK, let's go. It would have been fitting if she had brained him with the easel but she never participated in that gathering again. (People remembered her and asked where she was.)
thats heartbreaking :(
That's so sad to hear :(
I would've actually "agreed" with the dad: yes, 17 year olds make mistakes and that's normal... which is why I don't want a 17 year old looking after my traumatized child, if she can't even look properly after herself
Fair stance, but they kinda need a babysitter one way or another. Also this particular 17 year old doesn't seem to know what boundaries are
@@QuokkaWaka Exactly why I wouldn’t want her around. If she doesn’t know what boundaries are, not my fault. She's working a JOB here, she either has to fit the jobs descriptions and be a good babysitter or mess up and lose the job. Sure, the mom could have and should have handled the situation a bit better since the babysitter was a kid as well but my point stands.
@@tahiyatt.
Oh yeah, I agree, it's just that the guy above said they don't want _any_ 17 year old looking after their traumatized child
In the last story, I would've told the babysitter that "she has actually been doing much better since we got her that journal!" Writing your feelings in a private book isn't bottling them up, it's never getting them out that hurts you. As long as you get your feelings and thoughts out, it helps you to better sort through them! Even when it's put in a book no one will ever see. Personal experience: I bottled up my feelings for 6 years, and it's done nothing but hurt me and make me more sensitive and emotional. Didn't help that I was also going through puberty. Now though, I'm figuring out ways to express myself privately, and it's helped. I've been able to better recognize my emotions and learn from my mistakes, and that's how expressing yourself, even in places where no one else can see CAN help!
Also, it's people like that babysitter that made me never keep a journal or diary, for fear that people would read it aloud and be mean about it. I was so terrified of others seeing who I am on the inside that I never let that beast out, and all that has done was make it claw up the walls and break holes to scratch at others when I got too upset.
I can't imagine having a mother that thinks hugging kids is a bad thing. I'm Korean and live in Seoul and many parents here aren't as affectionate and vocal about saying they love their children but they still hug and show love to their children. I loved when my parents would give me big bear hugs when I was growing up, and my parents still do hug me like that. Especially love when I go to their house and they just know by looking that I've had a hard day and they come give me a big hug.
My 32 yr old daughter and I hug all the time.
I’m 20 years old. I still hug and kiss my mom. Tell her I love her. Sometimes even call her momma. None of that’s about to stop just because some weirdo worships Freud.
When someone tells you to stop... YOU STOP
First story: Anyone remember the story of the red hen? This reminds me of it.
Second story: It's suddenly weird to have physical contact with family? If it's unwanted, then yes. But if it's like a child just hugging their parents, it's not weird to show love to your parents or anyone you care about!
Third story: That bratty babysitter shouldn't have read that diary! There's something called privacy, you know!
Wow. These make me so mad.
1: He doesn't do jack while the wife is running her business. If he wants 50% he's gonna have to earn it; letting her use "his" soil is not gonna cut it. People like this fill me with an unbridled fury.
2: If she doesn't want him to get involved with her and her daughters relationship, then she shouldn't be poking her nose into him and his son's relationship. How dare she condemn him for showing his son that he loves him? Does she not love her daughter enough to express it? Hypocrite.
3: The babysitter should know better than to go through someone else's stuff w/o their consent. That's snooping, and is an invasion of privacy. She had no right to do that, even if she thought she was helping. And the husband really prioritized his friendship over his daughter? He needs to realize that the babysitter was as immature as a 10-year-old, and that this was the consequence of her actions. Also, I think the babysitter should have stopped teasing Lauren earlier, seeing as it didn't cheer her up (AKA taking a clue). Telling someone to smile while grieving is rude, and dismissive of their emotional turmoil.
The third one pissed me off so bad because it happened to me, and it hurts so bad, I was in 3rd grade at that time, even 6 years later, I still hate the 2 people who did it, it also made my anxiety and depression worst
It's always the "and so they haven't spoken to me since". Wtf are you? A kid? These "adults" are never gonna admit they're wrong or actually try to solve the problem and so they chose to be a toddler and ignore the person in the right every time
Some adults are immature, which proves that age ≠ maturity.
Hands down to the mom at 7:07 She actually understands that diaries/journals are meant to express emotions through writing. If you're not comfortable verbally talking about them with people.
Some parents and people think, it's a form of talking behind someone's back. So, they feel the need to stick their nose into it. 🙄
And yeah, the babysitter's an A**. She's a babysitter, not a therapist. And even so; good therapists don't pull crap like that.
1st story: I'm upset on her behalf, a man should have zero rights over a woman's money/property! (it's the law in my country but sadly it can differ in practice because it's still a developing country).
2nd story: The sister's mentality is just not right. Has she never seen any grandparents hug their kids and grandkids? I think she needs therapy. I wouldn't be surprised if the daughter doesn't want to spend an extra second with this type of negative/depressing woman.
3rd story: Calling someone nicknames they don't like is immature behaviour and 100% the actions of a primary school bully. She should've fired this bully much earlier. I can't believe the father wants to leave his daughter alone with a bully and is worried about his friend instead of worrying about his daughter.
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Hope ya get better man 👍🏿
Hope you get better👍🏼
hope you feel better soon! :)
I hope you have gotten better
If the babysitter really wanted to show the daughter that sharing emotions is okay, she shouldn’t have read the daughter’s stuff. She should have read her own journal. That’ll show her how it feels and how hard it is to share feelings
1. The husband is honestly delusional and probably didn't support her because he thought it wouldn't work but now he suddenly wants 50% of the profit? Huh?
2. Wtf is wrong with hugging your kids? Like seriously his sister is the one telling him not to but in on her daughter's relationship yet she accused him of being creepy?
3. I would be mad pissed if someone read my journal without my permission and recorded a video of it and possibly other people could see my private thoughts. Also the dad should care more about his daughter's mental health. They should never let her in their house again! The mum was in the right for speaking up for her daughter and kicking her out.
Lets just be very very clear on something. NOBODY would actually believe that reading somebody's journal out loud would help them be comfortable voicing their emotions. That was a blatant lie and filming herself doing it proves the intent to humiliate Lauren.
That babysitter is disgusting! “But it’s okay to show your emotions instead of bottling it up” logic means I should come out to my transphobic parents.
Can I just take the time to appreciate the time Kyutie posts? It’s usually around 9pm for me, which is the perfect way to end my day🥰
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@@ATM2306 Thank you! :)
@@shadowboxer1 Thank you!! Shall I do it again tomorrow or will I be filled with sorrow? Find out tomorrow on *Shining in Silver (and sometimes Gold) with J S* (Brought to you by Ba Gawk the icon, of course) here on The Kyutie Channel!
haha wow!! it's only 11am here!!
3:54 You telling me the family is upset with him for being a loving caring father? What the heck is happening to the people who think this way? AND THE SISTER? nah she is weird she jealous that his kid actually likes him while her daughter dislikes her. The dad told her the truth she cant be mad for him speaking facts
I feel like some people can’t help but to be Delusional I feel bad for them love you so much Ellen 💕💕
The one with the brother and sister's children relationship I can understand because when I was younger I wished to have that relationship with my family
I feeling I’m going to get secondhand embarrassment from these stories
Story 1… divorce and like don’t most married people have a shared bank account
Number 2 that sister needs help of some sort… and maybe cpc idk it kinda sound like neglect but wasn’t very detailed on it.. also my mom would push me off of her when I hugged her by my dad knows if I walk in his direction he’s getting a hug
Number 3 the babysitter needs a different career that doesn’t involve children.. and I’m that husband is blinded of friendship and doesn’t care about his daughter feeling and seems like he cares more about his trip
"Just because your kid doesn't love you..."
Damn, girl...
The last one is similar to a problem i had growing up. I kept a diary but my carers would always go through it and rip out the pages that had anything she didn't like written on them. I eventually asked her why and she said that i was trying to make her look bad and lose her job.
5th grade
I feel of the stairs and broke my leg badly
I was limping crying in pain but my mom ignored it
I asked her to get me at least a plaster but she said she didn't had the money that day she had the exact amount or more than tI needed to get a doctor at home for her pet that day she really hurt me
Fast froward to 9th grade I slipped and broke my other foot this time I broke 4 bones MY MOTHER STILL IGNORED MY CRY FOR HELP my sister came and took me to a doctor after 1 month it still was fractured very badly
Now today our maid fell off and just sprained her leg SHE RUSHING HER TO THE DOCTOR
it's just hurts how my own mother cares more about her pets and maid more than me
I'm 29 and randomly hug my mom or she'll say, "I love you" just because. It's sad that some people see parents showing affection to their kids as weird or creepy.
That babysitter story at the end. I would not fire her - rather I would have done what she did to the daughter too. I would ransack her house to find any journal she had & then I WOULD READ IT OUT LOUD TOO to EVERYONE she knew. Let's see if she won't be embarrassed/afraid when her OWN SECRETS will be aired to strangers...😒😑
“sticking into her and her daughter’s relationship”, isn’t that what the sister was doing in the first place? Projection.
The second story makes me mad especially because the sister wasn't trying to say that just being affectionate with your children is weird- she was trying to imply FATHERS being affectionate with their kids is wrong in the pedophilic/grooming sense. It came from a place of bitterness but it does also say a lot on how she views men.
The sister having the audacity to call him a pervert over just being able to raise a kid who is comfortable enough to be affectionate with him when she couldn't is her trying to play the "men predators, women and children prey" card to try and justify her bitterness against their bond.
8:25 Anyone may touch my journal all they want, I have it written in my personally made script AND encrypted, so good luck to anyone for reading that. Even *I* have to decrypt it manually to figure out what *I* wrote, and I'm the one who designed the script and chose the encryption method.
My older brother was being bullied by one of his teachers during his sophomore year of high school. My Mom marched down to that school and had it out with the administration, then she took on the teacher as well. The teacher stuck to her own guns and my mom screamed across the gymnasium at her (we're Irish and mom is also a singer, she could be heard outside the gymnasium and across school grounds). This was a "Christian" school so my mom screamed at her about how she was a terrible witness. The administration ultimately did back my mom on the issue.
You never, ever, take on a mom when she is going to bat for her kids. I can't believe that last one, the dad cared more about a friendship than his own child? And he thought he was going to win against his own wife, who was protecting her child? Yeah, he was delusional.
You are a literal angel. (Not the ones with a lot of eyes lol.)
If I was the first one, I’d have a separate bank account. And I’d lie about how much I made. Probably would have just called it a hobby. And people paid me for the seedlings. No way in hell did she not know what a jerk he is.
9:06 Your not helping a child by embarrassing them in front of other kids and RECORDING IT ASWELL. This women is old enough to know what's right and wrong shes not a child. The mother is a good person for protecting her child. The husband is weird for not taking his kid feelings into consideration hes more worried about a friendship because his friend can't parent his kid right to not go in people's privacy
I believe that the love of money is the root of all evil, but not the money itself
Edit IDK why the dad got heat for trying to take of his son & judging from his comment it looks like he's a great dad. Kids don't usual hug bad parents.
One time when I was younger my mom was at work so I had a babysitter, and my babysitter told be that my mom died. She never told me it was a joke so I went to sleep thinking my mom died 👍
That's fucked up
The babysitter one. Honestly, I think she's just watched way too many teen movies where the babysitter is the hero.
The second story with the son, his sister was out of line really. My daughter is almost 2 now and I was brought up in a really bad house hold. I got put in foster care if that tells you anything about it. I love on my daughter all the time, encourage her to dress in my cloths and in her dad's cloths, tell her she's smart when she tries to tell me what sound animals make. Every one is different but I would love to have a good relationship with her when she gets older since my childhood wasn't the best. I'm doing everything opposite of what my parents did and hopefully that's enough. Don't understand how people say hugging is bad for your kids or loving on them like that. At least he has a relationship with him.
I love how kyutie ends her videos by covering camera by her hand isn't it cute❤️💗🐰
Yes ,so true💗
Thank you so much for brightening our days Kyutie, you have no idea how much you've helped me through. You are literally the embodiment of purity and beauty, thank you so much for doing what you do.
The ladt story makes me so mad. I know a few people who will act like the babysitter and thankfully i dont contact them anymore. Im wishing the best for the bestfriends family and OP's daughter and i hope the husband understands that "kids her age" should know better then bully someone who is going through stuff like that
5:00 that’s seriously so adorableeee
Just got back from an audition that I absolutely bombed, but your videos always make me feel better, so I know this will cheer me up! 😅😍
i'm sure you did well!!
@@Kyutie. Haha thanks but I fell on stage during the dance part 💀💀💀 super embarrassing but hey, at least I got back up and kept dancing. Yeah pretty sure I’m not gonna get that role but there will be more auditions to come!
I loved my ma and we hugged a lot I miss her so much she was my only true best friend in the world 🌎 we got along great 👍 I loved her more than any one ☝️ else I was there for her when she needed me the most she had cancer ♋️ and died from it.
1:21 her badass reply should have been:
"You are using the food I cook to grow on "
Dump your husband, dump your sister, dump your friendship. Honestly these people are delusional, 1 the soil is not “yours” it’s just damn soil let it go, 2 people should be allowed to show affection to THEIR OWN CHILDREN just because you aren’t capable of that does not mean that everyone else has to also stop showing their child love, 3 you should care more about your daughter who’s going through absolute trauma rather than a friendship. I’ve gone through cancer twice and honestly it’s traumatized all of my friends I’ve almost died several times and I don’t wish that trauma on anyone I can’t even imagine how the girl is feeling, you should do more and care more to be there for her as her father😒
The second story where the sister thought it was weird that her brother had physical contact with his son, meaning his son hugged him before he left? The reason she thinks it's creepy and weird is because she neglects her child, or perhaps she doesn't like touching people, or perhaps for some other reason. But it's completely normal, even needed, to hug your family.
Whether boy or girl it is absolutely not creepy to have physical contact with your teen child. And if you don't provide that contact your kids will find it elsewhere.
Aww Kyutie you are such an angel! You post your videos right around when I wake up so this is such a great and positive way to start my day. Sending you tons of love!
I really love your videos ❤
Plus you're so pretty 😍✨
God I give a little kiss in my parents mouth almost everyday single day. This lady would call the police.
I don't get why money us such a problem in relationships. My boyfriend and I make jokes whenever the other makes more. When I make more money, I'm his sugar momma and when he makes more he's my sugar daddy lol.
The husband is a greedy hypocrite!
Because abusive people are entitled and if you demand a part of someone's income. You get none
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I got on youtube and saw that there was a new video and instantly clicked on it! I absolutely love this channel
The babysitter sounds like a mean girl. That excuse was lying out of her teeth.
your hair is so nice!!
I love your hair in this video, it gives halloween vibes tbh :)
The babysitter is probably a bully
ive been watching you since the lyric prank vids and your energy is amazing, youre such a genuinly lovly youtuber and your content is so fun and entertaining to watch:D
that first story: What. the. actual. hell. 😐😐😐 I can't even. I guess he never heard of the little red hen. The right thing would be separation. I hope she moves out of that house. He just showed that he is greedy. Second story: His family is mad at him because he decided to take care of his son. You would be surprised how many parents think like the aunt. Maybe that's why so those parents and their children don't get along. Third story: A bully pretending to be a babysitter. The dad is more worried about his friendship than his daughter.
We'll never understand people these days. But then again, will we?🤷
1:23 how entitled he is! You dont deserve a thing from something you never was apart of! The right decision is divorce
The last story: the 17 year old is should be around a senior in high school, she would be graduating and should be more responsible
Also for the second story the sister was the one that started it first
17 year olds are so selfish, and if her parents didn't teach her to respect anyones privacy, then it's on the parents also, but 17 yr olds are just selfish and aren't grown up, contrary to what they think. The mom was great sticking up for her daughter, and yes grief has no time line, it gets better and worst and better, 2 steps forward another back, she will miss her bestie for the rest of her life. And it's fine, as long as she is moving forward.
Why the heck do you think it's a norm?
@@draalttom844 what? What is the norm?
@@theresaeng5330 a huge spectrum like everything
You get 50% when you do half of the work!
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1st story ... the husband may not be entitled to 50% however the wife should take some of the profits and put it towards bills/savings/and or paying down debt. they are married and should be a team working together
I think it'd be a different matter if he'd first said something like: So, I was wrong about it being a waste of time. You've done really great with this little business, it's really thriving. You did great.
And then after they had cleared the air with that, he could have said, "so, now that we have this new income stream, how about we put some of it into our shared emergency funds account?" When you share assets, that's a normal conversation.
Like, yeah, they should be a team working together. But he was a) unsupportive and b) wanted the profit for himself, not for shared expenses. He's not being a team player, he's just undervaluing his wife. Being a married team isn't just sharing finances, it also means being supportive, it means appreciating each other.
@@This_Is_Just_To_Say I wouldn't say he was undervaluing his wife because what if the business failed, that would effect him too. however he could have handled it better and been a bit more supportive
Money doesn't have a heart or a soul.💵
Sorry I was late ellen but just know that I absolutely love your videos and your dog coco to may God bless both of you and everybody that reads this comment too 💜💜💜
No joke when I read the title I thought “ Is she reading up Dolores Ambridge’s life” lol
Go give your daughter a hug I'm she would love it, and her know that you love her.😂🌹
Divorce. That's the only solution I see for the women in these stories. The last one in particular is fucked up. The mother was right to yell at the babysitter and her husband is dead wrong! His daughter was traumatized in her own home and the only thing he cares about is his buddy and his trip. EW!
His fair share of 0 dollars 💸 is 0 dollars 💵.
These people have more issues than Playboy magazine😂
Tell her you will take care of your son and she can take care of her daughter.
The father practically grew up with his son. To be 32 with a 16 year old means he was 15/16 when the boy was born. How dare the sister say anything! I would tell her to find a place quickly. No longer welcome in his house. Maybe the niece can stay.