Todd is amazing I would also suggest you check out some of Casey Zander, Psychacks, Coach Kyle (shows good examples of flirting and texting) and Marni (shes got some great insight). I would summarize the following terms you would need to pay attention to: sexual attraction is the most important, which requires you to do PLAYFUL FLIRTING and talking casually to her just like with your male friends but dial down on being logical (boring, unless you share a similar interest and both of you have deep knowledge about that topic), less harsh teases/jokes and more sexual, showing that you are the man and be dominant (eye contact, posture and face is relaxed and leaned back most of the time, slight smirk sometimes) and lead the date, appoint time and place (she can see the place when she gets there, just tell her the general dress code) which is related to confidence (means to be comfortable in your own skin). Don’t over text and use too much emojis; don’t over explain; smell and dress nice; have goal and ambitions in life; know where you are going and have fun going there. Don’t over think ever, just do and if you do this or have issues inside you won’t appear attractive and you might consider doing some therapy to get healed. Most importantly be authentic and have your own interests. These are some of the main advices that you need. Todd is great so you will know how to flirt talk and do it in a congruent way so you don’t sound off, but one important thing is that has to be authentic so don’t just copy past a phrase/line with which you don’t relate to at this point in time.
Todd, the recording quality in this video is much better. Your voice level does not dissipate to inaudible at the end of sentences, as in some of the previous videos. _The most important word was_ _________. (Huhh?? too quiet at the end of sentences in some videos). This recording is much better. Thank you !
*Confidence, self-assurance, and how you carry yourself can make or break attraction. When you focus on those, it naturally changes how others see you.*
Video suggestion/request: Most men never had a woman leave them when they were doing well; women typically (I believe) exit when jobs are lost, health declines, an accident occurs, a business or career is set back, a death in the family or close friend, etc., then they backward rationalize some other reason they were going to leave anyway. I think this happens because the guy gets needy, acts beta and the woman gets turned off. Am I the only one who has experienced this?
You really have to get this in, it can be hard af if its a baddie ,its like sane gambling, accept you will loose the cash and just play without anxiety. It doesnt matter.
The game has evolved alot of women out here think their celebrities because they have over 5k+ followers on IG and Tik Tok. The best time of game imo was from 2012-2017, we still had social media but it was as parasitic to our lives as it is now. I still approach women at 30 but its not the same.
@@jeremyferguson5588 It comes down to confidence too. I get more attention from men at 50 than I ever did at 25, even though I was probably "hotter" when younger. And I can only assume that it's because I believe I'm beautiful, and back then I didn't. I was insecure. Not all men want the blonde bimbo, and not all women want a 6'2" dude. Everyone is different. And people will adjust their type if they really like your personality.
Right, he's pedalling a fools dream to those sheep. None of them would be able to sustain the false "High value guy" for long and would be found out eventually. When he said "I had a flash of brilliance or something " I was almost sick. It's pretty simple, be yourself and overcome your fears to gain confidence, they'll be someone out there if you are social enough.
@@josanang5849 Take baby steps into a social world, even if it's just going down to buy a coffee/drink at a shop where you have to encounter social interaction, it's the exposure you need to overcome. Gradually build it from there and join groups perhaps involving a hobby or interest you like and eventually your skills will develop.
Studied the greats :
-coach Corey Wayne
-coach Kyle
-Todd
Now I’m with the finest girl I ever been with. I’m also 5’4 😎
G SHIT
Coach Corey is seriously underrated. His 3% book is probably the most useful thing I've ever read.
That's the "3 wise men" of dating right there 💪🏼 add in some Bobby Rio too...
coach kyle based off todd but he’s perfect for 2025 game
I'm in my 30s Been single since I was 17 . Taking notes.
Todd is THE best, by far ! Learn from him well, and practice it.
Keep trying mate best wishes
If you’ve been single that long you need to focus on interacting with women and if necessary lowering your standards temporarily.
Im 42 been single since 22
Todd is amazing I would also suggest you check out some of Casey Zander, Psychacks, Coach Kyle (shows good examples of flirting and texting) and Marni (shes got some great insight). I would summarize the following terms you would need to pay attention to: sexual attraction is the most important, which requires you to do PLAYFUL FLIRTING and talking casually to her just like with your male friends but dial down on being logical (boring, unless you share a similar interest and both of you have deep knowledge about that topic), less harsh teases/jokes and more sexual, showing that you are the man and be dominant (eye contact, posture and face is relaxed and leaned back most of the time, slight smirk sometimes) and lead the date, appoint time and place (she can see the place when she gets there, just tell her the general dress code) which is related to confidence (means to be comfortable in your own skin). Don’t over text and use too much emojis; don’t over explain; smell and dress nice; have goal and ambitions in life; know where you are going and have fun going there. Don’t over think ever, just do and if you do this or have issues inside you won’t appear attractive and you might consider doing some therapy to get healed. Most importantly be authentic and have your own interests. These are some of the main advices that you need. Todd is great so you will know how to flirt talk and do it in a congruent way so you don’t sound off, but one important thing is that has to be authentic so don’t just copy past a phrase/line with which you don’t relate to at this point in time.
Todd, the recording quality in this video is much better. Your voice level does not dissipate to inaudible at the end of sentences, as in some of the previous videos. _The most important word was_ _________. (Huhh?? too quiet at the end of sentences in some videos). This recording is much better. Thank you !
So succinctly explained the game from solid foundation perspective. More videos like this Todd!!
Never had a girlfriend in my life and I'm nearly 30. I dont think there is any hope for me but I'm willing to see if this is amusing.
*Confidence, self-assurance, and how you carry yourself can make or break attraction. When you focus on those, it naturally changes how others see you.*
Thanks, Todd, really insightful and honest approach. You make it clear even for the most self-limiting guys!
Thanks Todd
Video suggestion/request: Most men never had a woman leave them when they were doing well; women typically (I believe) exit when jobs are lost, health declines, an accident occurs, a business or career is set back, a death in the family or close friend, etc., then they backward rationalize some other reason they were going to leave anyway. I think this happens because the guy gets needy, acts beta and the woman gets turned off. Am I the only one who has experienced this?
Hahaha -- YOU ARE BAD GIRL!
Solid video man, awesome
Great mindset hack
Todd will use this "bad girl" example till the day he dies. 😂
YOU ARE BAD GIRL!!
You really have to get this in, it can be hard af if its a baddie ,its like sane gambling, accept you will loose the cash and just play without anxiety. It doesnt matter.
After I say: Hey, I find you attractive, girls normally turn on the spot and walk away.
Keep up the great work
The game has evolved alot of women out here think their celebrities because they have over 5k+ followers on IG and Tik Tok. The best time of game imo was from 2012-2017, we still had social media but it was as parasitic to our lives as it is now. I still approach women at 30 but its not the same.
Use the phone for setting dates, not getting to know each other...
1:40 relatable af 😂
There is not abundance mindset for your face
Your "scarcity" is the result of you not being attractive, not the other way around. I swear, pickup is like zodiac for desperate guys.
Its because I'm 5'5 simplicity
So date Asians and Latinas. They're super short.
I'm 5'4 and since I've been watching Todd's content (1 year ago) my sex life has incredibly changed. I average 0.8 pull / week
@Mmmmkaaay sounds good but the shorter the women the taller they want their guy to be
@@DinoMarcoccia so you pulling 40 or more women a year? That's a lot of women
@@jeremyferguson5588 It comes down to confidence too. I get more attention from men at 50 than I ever did at 25, even though I was probably "hotter" when younger. And I can only assume that it's because I believe I'm beautiful, and back then I didn't. I was insecure.
Not all men want the blonde bimbo, and not all women want a 6'2" dude. Everyone is different. And people will adjust their type if they really like your personality.
This guy is so full of shit.
Right, he's pedalling a fools dream to those sheep. None of them would be able to sustain the false "High value guy" for long and would be found out eventually.
When he said "I had a flash of brilliance or something " I was almost sick.
It's pretty simple, be yourself and overcome your fears to gain confidence, they'll be someone out there if you are social enough.
@@bernielongshanks2039What if you are not social ?
@@josanang5849 Take baby steps into a social world, even if it's just going down to buy a coffee/drink at a shop where you have to encounter social interaction, it's the exposure you need to overcome. Gradually build it from there and join groups perhaps involving a hobby or interest you like and eventually your skills will develop.