I have realised that a girl can sing the rap songs (generally considered as male thing) however if a guy sings a song associated to girl say the barbie girl song but even the ken's part then people would automatically thinks that he is gay or girly. I was baby sitting one of my friends daughter when him and bhabhi would be busy and she loved peppa pig and when my then GF heard it over the phone, her question was , is there something you are not telling me and laughed and said she is joking but a girl can watch superhero movie and if a guy watches or likes movie like mamma mia then something is wrong with him. I came to work one day and cried for hours because i had to announce to my 47 staff that I won't be able to give them more work due to the global pandemic. If i would have done infront of them then i wont be a Man enough because Man never cries so i went home and cried infront of my family because it was hard thing for me to tell all casuals that we dont need them yet i would be carrying on my job as usual because i am more important according to the business. Another thing i hate is when people say mard ko dard nhi hota.which is sexist to girls as well cause we are indirectly saying that feeling pain in a girly thing. Years ago i saw an advertisement where a guy and a girl travels in crowded bus. The driver applies the break and the guy's shoulder accidentally touches the girl and before he finishes saying sorry, she slaps him hard on his face. Disappointed, he walks ahead of her and when the driver applies the break again this time the girls accidentally touches the guy and before she says sorry, he slaps her on the face. I bet you so many of us would still disagree with the guy's action but just imagine they were both same genders then we would have no objection. We have seen girls in todays movies showing 95 to 98 percent of the skin yet a guy can only show his abs.girl can wear a blue shirt no problem but a guy cant wear a pink shirt.A girl can drink beer but a guy enjoying sweet wine is not man enough.if a girl can't deliver a baby because of any complications in her ovaries then its a madical condition but if a guy had a medical issue stopping him to be a father then he is namard. Watch the show mr. And mrs. Shameen which asks a very important question, what does it take to be a man??
@@siddhant8430 The problem is that not just women but we all are social animals and we like the things that we think are attractive rather than buying what is good for us. If we had millions then most of us would buy a lemborghini or a Ferrari or rolls Royce. They aren't economical or cheaper nor of the best quality ( here i mean the quality in terms of our need to go from A to B and not the material used in the cars) When you buy clothes, would you rather pick a very fancy shirt that may be slightly tight or a simple plain or old school shirt thats loose and comfy for you but gives you a grandpa look. We all are attracted to the face value not the real value. The money in your account is just an illusion and the real value is nothing but you treat that note as 1000 or 2000 (dont believe look at china right now, some of the banks have stopped people withdrawing money from their own account). Moral of the story is no matter how much we talk about ethics or morals but reality is we all want the best for ourselves. If you are healthy and perfect looking guy then would you marry a girl who has been a rape or acid attack victim?? Probably won't. You would have full sympathy and you would help her out as much as you can or even beyond your powers but taking a decision to marry her would be taken by only very rare of us and if you are the one who could then i would definitely be proud of you but even after saying all these , even i would hesitate, in my all honesty. So to answer your questions why girls like bad guys because they think that they are the trend , they are cool, they have the swag and they are up to date comparing to a nerd who would be outdated due to his focus in something else.
'Stalking culture' as shown in Bollywood movies has an adverse effect on the mentality and persona of the Indian Youth....I being a teenager have seen many of my knowns stalking girls regularly thinking that she would eventually fall in love with him/them. This is what Bollywood is feeding the audience with and I find it really funny until the incidences turn up serious.
@@madhuragarwal8348 The situation is even worse there. I don't remember any big commercial movie that did not glorify romance on the name of romance. Be it pushpa or kgf
Well.. as a male i respect every woman and hope that everyone thinks the same and all woman blessed with happiness and movie's and ad's like these should be banned cencorboard is just messed up..
@@madhavmathur4008 Jaa.. jaake Gaadi ko achhe se saaf krke.. thik se Garage mei park kr dena... _(It was a joke, plz take it as a joke. If you feel offended, shut off the phone and do what have I asked you to do)_ {Now, if you feel bad, no need to tell me, I ain't gonna Delete this comment 😂🤣} qki usne just apna ek experience share Kiya, or aapne usse Direct Target Kiya and you even tried to pass it as a _jok_ (as u wrote)
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Vulgarity is increasing on the internet to another level. In name of Westernisation and more "open-mindedness" women are being shown as vulgar objects .
Ma'am or sir plz ye btayiye iska kya mtlab hua ki ladkiyaan ko sanskaari aur vamps dikhaya jaata hain? Mtlab ye video unke baare mein kehene kya chahta hain ki sanskaari or vamps nahin dikhana chahiye??
Ladkiyon ko ladki dikhana chahie ladki sanskari aur games why we should put tags to the womens let them discover their self... Either they want sanskari or not..
Sorry to say but it is something Pratonizing or Promoting by Many rebels women specially in south Delhi & South Mumbai or Nepo Kids Obviously Nassist Men played a Vital role here...who desperately wanted to be Heroine or Actress or Model ....for ex 10 yrs Back Wearing a Bikini on Movies is a Big Big Deal .....now whole Instagram is Promoting Bikini Culture ...Juvenille Girls in Delhi & Mumbai who are less than 18 yrs Old Wearing Bikinis & Flaunting like Models ...so that they will get views on Instagram ........now what is that Hypocracy or Self objectification or Selling Sexuality ........Did you notice how Indian Instagram Model now doing Bare Body Photoshoot in the name of Women Empowerment ....now tell this year Top 3 Rankers are hold by Girls in UPSC IAS ...how many Women or Girls Celebrating it answer is few ....Did you know Nykaa CEO is the 2nds Richest Women in India ...how many Girls notices these thing ....but yes Few day Back Sara Ali Khan Bare Leg high Slit Black Gown was notice or Praised by Many women or Girls ...Disha Patni Ananya Pandey , Sara Ali Khan Janvi Kappor when Intentionally shown their body Part what is that ?? Women Empowerment or Posting only Bikini Pictures etc ....What you have to say about Kim Kardisian Sex Tape to 4 Marriages than Infidelity ...still Kim is most Admired Women in the World not Hillary Clinton or New Indian President Draupadi Murmu...sad but that is the Fact .....the Day Women Give more Preference to Intellect Brain rather commenting or Prassing other Women or Girl Beauty .....thing will Change oviously Man also do the same ...but i dont think so it is going to happened ....in the Capitist World Where Kim Kardisian Kyle Jener or Sunny Leone can do anything ...plus ther are admired by many young women ?? only for the beauty Skin Body etc ...not to see the intellect of that Women ...than Women Objectification or Narcisst Man only Sell the Beauty in Different Different Form .
Mtlb Kabir Singh mai ladki ke saath jo mnn mai kar raha hai beech class mai se uttha ke le jaa rah hai ##same on you Shahid Kapoor # shame on director producer and everyone who involve in this movie # kya dikhane cha rahe tum mere samj ke pare
But aj k din ma women maximum sare Pura samaj ko bigad raha h instagram aur film ma disha patani as an example kam kapde pahanka film banata h.Nora and jhanvi did ass and boob surgery to show people to portray them as items fir asa kiu bolta ho khud nude hongi fir larko ko blame.kitna faltu larki jasa sofia,sassy poonam kya karte h insta pa khud ko pucho???
Being a student of psychology, I totally embrace your message and also want to highlight the dark side of our society being sanskaari and judgemental at the same time. Lot's of love and support from my side 🌼
Bhi isne Kabir Singh movie ka dark sach duniya ke samne rakha i appreciate her !! Ye movie thodi hi thi ladki ke khilaf violence ko dikhaya hai !!! Ek pagal ashiq ko dikhaya jo ladki ko sirf sex object samjhta hai !!
Gotta comment on your video. I"m a 16 y/o boy and all thanks to my parents who taught me that sexualising and objectifying women is NOT normal at all. Honestly speaking I just got hell lot of disgusted by 'aa ante amalapuram' song lyrics, just got off my seat & felt shame on the type of people who watch these types of SHITTY songs. I Hugely Expect that our generation is going to bring change and discourage these types of songs Ayushi didi. Kudos to you for bringing videos on such needy topics.
I'm a 18 y/o boy and I feel the same way since my parents taught me to give girls nothing but respect. I believe our generation is going to bring change.
Isne har ek baat 100% accurate kahi hai Kahskar Kabir Singh ko lekar wo movie nhi thi movie ke naam par kalank thi hamare samj me !! Ek pagal ladka jo ladki. Ke khilaf sex violence kar raha hai !! Teacher ka role kar ke teacher jaisi chabbi ko kharab kar raha hai # boycott Shahid Kapoor and Kiara jo aise Ganda role kiya !! Puri movie mai sirf ladki ko as a sex object hi dikhaya hai
There doesn't pass a single day in my life where i don't face gender stereotype whether it be directly or indirectly! Thank you, truly thank you for bringing this up big brainco.
@@perfectpotatogirl hm ladke tere jaise bhikhmangi ladkiya nhi h jo aadmi ke bhikh ke paiso pr palna chahe aur ameer dulhsa dhunde n mere paas itna gold h jitna teri maa to kya tu gold digger ke pure khandaan ke paas nhi hoga
@@perfectpotatogirlhaa mere paas hai Bhare pare hai Mera to bhai kaat sakta hai Agar koi ladki ake mera jewels aur money lootke chale jaye woh bhi mera body use karke alimony ke sath
The biggest sad reality in this nation is that these kinds of videos don't get even half a million views that deserve tons and tons of support. Kudos to Bigbrain and Ayushi too for explaining everything in such an immensely impressive way ❤
It's more likely if a person getting a thing which give him/her instant pleasure they go for it instead of tge thing which don't give them pleasure it's more likely to connect with Sci as people are attracted and go for the things that give them pleasure that's what it's talking about in video.....so it's also their fault that they are running brains for money and also those who are watching these for pleasure and don't have self control
@@vartikasingh9562 those who don't have self control, thats why marriages are failing nowadays, having multiple partners is cool. We are the ones who are vulnerable. Bollywood just knows how to make use of it.
@@BharatIndoria yeah that's why....they know how to use of it bcz some people don't have self control that's ruining them and movies just promote this for their reasons of getting hit
@@vartikasingh9562Bollywood also provides an unrealistic portrayal of women. Women are shown stripping and baring skin because they feel “empowered” to do so. However, the ground reality is completely different. Women are told to cover up and show least skin as possible.
Bilkul bhi mai bhi !! Isne Jo kaha Kabir Singh ki movie ko lekar mai bhi yahi kahana chahta tha but kabhi kaha nhi paya kyuki uss samay ye samaj ko bahut achi lag rahi thi !! Thanks to her jo isne Kabir Singh movie ki dark reality ko bahar laya !!
It is equivalent of commenting in a video talking about football in India that ,"but but, circket is also good" Bruh,the video was specifically talking about female issue,why insert men issue here?
@@aakashgarain It's not like that. I just said that there are times when men too feel uncomfortable about these things. That's all. So for proper healthy society such sick movies must be banned.
@@subhadeep_2001 well you are right but many men insert that "fake allegations thing" in every freakin' woman issue videos that's why this person commented😅 Like i understand you also have problems but when some other issue is disscused don't justify it 😅
Not every women feel uncomfortable, most women including most bollywood actresses are crazy for item songs. Agar woh log khud hi change nahi chahti to kaise change ayega 🤷♂️ bass har chij k liye male audience ko blame krna asaan hai 😃
I agree to your point, I always felt disappointed with the box office numbers of women oriented films 🥺💔 but m happy it's improving now a days , like padmaavat, raazi, gangubai all did well on box office ❤️ We r changing now, it ll take time but still we all ll change some day. Btw recent example of bias audience I saw at the time of gehraiyaan , when everyone questioned deepika for doing intimate scenes after marriage but not ayushmaan in Chandigarh kare Aashiqui 🙃🙃
And currently when Alia announced her pregnancy people are trolling her so badly and saying ki shaadi se pehle woh pregnant thhi isiliye Ranbir ko shaadi karni padi means Ranbir ne majboori me shaadi kari hai
@@karanrana1230 are baat kya chalri hai, tum kya bolre ho🤦 sabka apna perception hota hai movies ko lekar, jo tumhe pasand nahi aayi jaruri nahi auro ko bhi naa aaye....
@@madhuragarwal8348 Hn Bhai "perception" hota hai 😂 pehle english seekh le tb bkwaas krio tera hi pov dekh kr bola ki logo ne gehraiyan ko troll sirf erotic scenes ke lie ne storyline ki wajeh se troll krra.
For a fact Bollywood had first started idolizing eve teasing and item songs which other cinemas also did to get masses but what they don't show is the difference between flirting and Eve teasing and that creates social dilemma and socitial dilemma over long period of time
@Dark Sky brother obsecinity was not indian culture sexual ease , pleasure and health was part of Kamasutra book which was spoken by a women that was indian culture but when this itom dance eve teasing Romantising love and sexual harrassment happen that is bad and it's fault of bollywood
honestly I have always wondered why do we still have item songs in a movie and even women and men dancing on it on social platform. I find it weird one woman is dancing and men gathered around her with beer .😑😑
Actually I am a girl and I am a student of class 10th I really like your video and your point of view on this When I was younger I also used to sing and dance on such song but ones I grown up I come to know the brutal reality of these songs which is really terrifying. In my family I never ever experienced gender discrimination but ones my grand parents were discussing about the property and how they will distribute it So they said that they will give it to my both sisters and my brother so out of Curiosity I asked what will I get so they laughed and said de toh rahe Hai tumhare bhai ko but I asked what about me you are giving it to my both the sisters and my brother then why not me so they said that they are both girls and they the daughters of my tau Ji toh eventually unhe hi Mila gi and you have a small Brother so he will get the property so I asked why can't I inherit property so they said that it will be given in a form of dowry and I got furious at them and I said no then I don't want because already I am scared of marriage because many times it is a game of dowry and also i don't want any property either and I went out of the Room. I have noticed that everyone in house saying when will you start cooking you will face problems in future and they also ask my mother why don't she teach me how to cook when I asked why I have to cook only ask my brother to cook to do house chores but they said you have to do this because you are a girl Even I can't believe a very close person said to me that if a girl is unmarried then she should worship her brother and father and if she is married then her husband I was so shocked to hell all this bullshit But it's not about me it's about every girl out there I belong to a well to do family and mostly of them are educated but still this happened with me then what about other girl's But writing this whole message I only mean that we must change the mentality first because it's all starts with your home.
Girl, I am also a 10th grader like you but I appreciate you so much for being this mature at such a young age, most people at our age are so immature and don't even know if anything is wrong with such type of culture, but you are strong, confident on your words and powerful. It's really shitty how we all face gender discrimination or harassment directly or indirectly in our life, but you spoke for it, never let anything discourage you if you know that you're correct. You have my respect, wish you all kind of love and strength in the future👏👏
Hey! Watch a channel called "shakti" and get urself to know bout acharya prashant..he talks bout this!ur all doubts would be cleared! Stay Strong Nari!👍🙌💪
If the property is self earned by your parents then definitely you have no say in their property If you force them to give it to you then its illegal and a crime If the property is ancestral, then you have a share in that property by birth but not the whole Here, your parents can't force you not to take your property Its your wish if you don't take it
@@ilishasrivastava6166 thanks gurl I am so glad that there are people out there who appreciate me for myself sorry for replying late . How was your 10th by the way mine was tragic And how's your 11th or maybe 12th going I hope everything is alright............. I am Shagun nice to meet you
@@Smart_Soham it's a generational wealth and I have full right to inherit it but still I know I won't be given anything that's why I am studying really hard .
In portraying Women I believe Manikarnika was a Great Movie. I grew up hearing the stories of Zhasi ki Rani, Savitribai Jyotirao Phule, Dr. Anandibai Joshi, & many more watching such Wonderful movies make me Relive those stories and much more intensified. I believe people need to change their perspective and Cinema can change this, Thank you BigBrainCo for the video
While watching this video, I just remember Ekta Kapoor and thinking what type of movies, shows she had produced. Isn't it the powerful women too, are not thinking a shit about sexualising and breaking the stereotypes of household women, specially in TV serials she had produced. Blaming the men for everything the women faced is the most obvious reason for feminism propaganda. I always support women empowerment, and even asked my friends to watch movies which actually dealt with women empowerment,not just propaganda. Please watch movies like The Great Indian Kitchen directed by a male. It's an eye opening movie.
She's poisonous for society. Before india used to produce really good & progressive TV serials. But now she poisoned society with sas-bahu. And lots of men/women got brainwashed by that
That's some level of maturity I got from this video the things which we all have taught from childhood which are considered normal are just a big discrimination to women
I'm a teenager boy. I also didn't understand the point behind item songs. The fact is that Bollywood is a really dirty space with all non standard (so called celebrities) make a closed sphere and portray themselves as someone very famous and powerful. They claim drugs and make outs and extra marital affairs as their culture. I don't really understand why the people tend to idolise them. I might sound rude but this is not right anyway (the deeds of Bollywood). Nepotism, seduction... everything non ethical. People should come out of this hallucination of film stars (I don't even consider them stars, I see them only as byproducts of hierarchy of non talented people who know they are useless outside their closed film sphere). They feel that their culture (of which they are proud) to be contemporary and superior to the Indian traditional culture of respecting people and abstaining from drugs and toxicants). I pray that these things should be stopped. As for Sandeep Reddy, he's just another insane product of the Bollywood mafia. There are also good films like Padman, Mission Mangal, tare zameen par, a flying Jatt, pokhran etc ... I really appreciate these movies. Sorry if I sounded rude but certain things need to be stopped as people really get influenced by these non ethical depiction that are created for attracting mass and portraying Bollywood culture as contemporary. Thanks for reading. I (no we) should stand for the women who are our mothers. We should take care that their dignity is not hurt by stupid scenes by absolutely idiot directors and writers.
Always remember it's not men who wants to be a Sigma or alpha it's the education we get from society and our parents which has always told us to be rough, my mom always told me that men don't cry men are tough.
Exactly!! This one thing among others that I've been telling my parents is that it's totally normal if men show emotions and that it doesn't has anything to do with them being not strong enough. I'm so happy that my brother is becoming more understanding day by day :)))
THISSS!!!! This video very very mandatory in today's times. Even young kids who don't understand lyrics are singing these stupid songs and they grow up with these songs. Hopefully Indian youth actually grows up overtime and understand the true meaning of gender equality. ❤️🇮🇳❤️
This is called the true power of social media where channel like big brainco introduce us with the truth, current situation and the crime which is increasing as per the time really hatts off and we all support big brainco and thanks a lot❤❤❤
This is what reality is... those bizarre bollywood item songs ruin the condition... these people show the women just beautiful delicate and not so powerful.. this should change definitely... thank you for bringing up this amazing video..
Sister that's the half side of the story there are many many movies which depict the power of women and also men appreciate it. But there are also some women who support hashtags like #cleavage #beproudtoshowcleavage
@@jeenavjain5047 Yeah i know that some movies are awesome which show women great... but i m talking about the item songs in some movies which are so vulgar...
I would love if you say stop using human race as a object. Any views regarding the quality of content posted by so called female influencers on Instagram.
If you know your limits as male and as a person about your actions towards a person with and without their consent you can easily be a great man or rather gentleman. In short know your limits and boundaries 😤
im sorry but we women need to save ourselves from men who have their mind cultivated from such movies and rather never text men who are nothing but pests online
Moral of the video is. Indian cinema wants to earn money... No matter which gender, religion,caste they look down upon... Quality of movies going down and down
at 7:42 , i felt that, because i wasn't allowed to wear short clothes and if i do then my own father used to say "kya nachaniya jaise kapde pehen rakha hai" and know that i finally can wear clothes that are "short" then i feel uncomfortable because i'm scared because that's the type of environment i was raised in and i hate how it was like this growing up and im working towards getting over my insecurities :))
Amazing video. Highly informative. I can really see how nearly everything bollywood or media offers to us is somehow enforces stereotypes. I will try to identify such sources on my own now. 🤞❣️
There isn't a need to feel ashamed. I feel happy that we have persons like you who are really aware and caring for the society's development. Either women or men, many people are promoting stereotypical thoughts over the time. Now it's the time to end all this and live in an idealistic society. Really thanks for the approach.
OMG U guys are doing great Awsome.... 🌿These types of videos needed to change the mentality in India... We Indian audience are being fooled from many years... Very thankful for this video❤️❤️❤️
A topic about no one wants to talk about on Indian TH-cam . This shows that bigbrain really had backbone to talk and discuss on these topics. We should avoid these types of movies and not to make these characters our idol. Hats off ayushi and team bigbrain for bringing these genine topics 🤗💖
Best video i have ever seen . Appreciate the way she addressed the "objectification problem " . Never understood why there is a newd of item songs in the movie, just to gain male attention film makers didn't realise how they are literally portraying womens as objects . I have heard that womens in bolly are paid less than mans what else u expect from such people who literally make such cheap item songs and some sensitive scenes of either slapped or abusing women . Many people in india idealise bollywood heros and start being like them . This is more problematic than u think .
This is what Films (maximum, definitely not all) and ads are feeding to the audience... Whereas, these platforms are one of the best ways to educate people in certain aspects... The portrayal of LGBTQIA+ community is also demeaning in some cases, similarly... Anyways, very well explained...
I am 18...and truly watching this video portraited the inner voice of me. All these songs when I used to hear at very young age were absolute fun but now I just feel so mad after making meaning out of these lyrics,
Indian women in most parts of the world still prefer Salwar-Kameez and Saree to the western style Jeans and Tops. For example, if you visit north India then you will find most women in Salwar Kameez or Kurti whereas women in South India generally wear Saree
Yes it's really really necessary to stop these kind of women's stereotypes as what we see we learn and in my perspective a women contribute more than a man in every aspect . So respect women stop treating them like a sex object .
I must say you are partially correct. The thing you said about the influence of hindi songs over our minds is completely non sense and illogical. If that's the way then the rape cases, molestations can also be blamed on franchises like kooku, ullu, alt balaji etc etc. It's all about mindset and integrity and at that part I agree with you completely. The films are commercial and solely for entertaining purpose. One thing "the demand produces the products", we have flops like maajhi , raman raghav2. 0,etc etc, not only the women empowerment movies. But concluding my point " You videos are very informative and i love your intellectualism
Who said rape and molestation can't be blamed on such softporn websites? Young guys especially the ones who have not received sex education ..are guided by this tremendously...porn induces a wrong perception of women in their minds...so ofcourse it can be blamed on them
This is really really really to the power of infinity educational,informative and powerful video. Please share it to 100s out there.. so people will know the actual thing.. how we females suffer due to this sick mentality.... Just from the very initial stage... schooling level... we should teach consent, how to be respectful, stopping double standards, encountering the misleading ones. So instead of normalizing criminal activity like physical abuse... sexual assault, gender bias, *stalking*,stereotyping etc... it should be called out .... so that in a long run.. we can expect a better society with 50 50 contributions of every genders.... and yaa here comes one major thing... respect everyone regardless of sexuality....as it is highly recommended and crucial.
this is the reason why my father never allowed us to watch Bollywood Movies in childhood.. & I am grateful for that today.. My childhood was spent on watching movies like dennis the menace, the Willies , James & the giant Peach, the Wizard of Oz etc in Star Movies sunday..
That was a very realistic video ..... I have also seen in some serials when women say " can women take any kind of rest? " Pointing that women must keep doing household work even if they are tired and men have freedom to do anything they want to .
I remember my sister once told me that movies which showcase and glorify women so much in a sensual way and toxic masculinity because the ratio of illiterate people is much more than literate, and they are much more interested in those two things.
even in Disney movies, they show in the end that a prince comes and gives the Disney princesses a true love kiss and only then she is released from the spell! I am glad that the modern Disney movies don't have this anymore
We as a society needs to demand for media to stop promoting wrong stuff in movies and serials .Raising awareness of how media influences the society is very important.Good job on the video.
#Listen : 1) If govt. want to change some perspective in Society , it should be launched in the *thoughts* of young minds from primary level (as 80% Gen Y comming from govt. school) As soon as those tads updated to High School, they started saying " arey , kya maal hey yrr!! " 😤 I've seen lakhs of students how they changed when hit puberty #So Its hoto Parents ,they must care their child to stop calling women as taboo #Guarantee ( 60% abuse/rape/murder/s*x tortion gonna stop from society 2) See, adultering is in air nowadays U open a news channel, media portals, roadside advertisement- everywhere female characters showing cleavages for nothing {don't level me as #progressive} but, observe carefully it's true So, unless n until those *Public Show-Offs* gonna show those bizzare customes , men will see women as $x object #Fact ( no laws, no regulation gonna STOP men thinking the same) I'm a #Ramkrishna Mission student, we are genuinely tought to consider women as MOTHER's, Sisters (ofcourse Vivekananda mission students have gf , they marry, leads Normal life like yours) but, we are not fit in this #Wannabe #Woke , #Liberal #GenerationZ community 😁🙏🏻 🚩Stay connected to your roots *JaY Bhavani* 🙏🏻
The truths that I was waiting from such a long time to come out from the silence zone to the public zone...finally someone spotted these stereotypes....I have seen and felt many many gender biased situations even the smallest one too 😢...now let's end this together.💪🏽🤝🏼...thank you so much mam for creating this rare contents.... please keep figuring out more n more such stereotypes 🙏🏻
How are they responsible for the way men objectify them, use objectifying language to talk about them, to shame them and to try to control how women should and shouldn't act?
What are some other instances where you’ve observed gender bias around you?
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Why women loves Bad boys?
Why not on caste discrimination???
@@siddhant8430 ye aa chuka h
I have realised that a girl can sing the rap songs (generally considered as male thing) however if a guy sings a song associated to girl say the barbie girl song but even the ken's part then people would automatically thinks that he is gay or girly.
I was baby sitting one of my friends daughter when him and bhabhi would be busy and she loved peppa pig and when my then GF heard it over the phone, her question was , is there something you are not telling me and laughed and said she is joking but a girl can watch superhero movie and if a guy watches or likes movie like mamma mia then something is wrong with him.
I came to work one day and cried for hours because i had to announce to my 47 staff that I won't be able to give them more work due to the global pandemic. If i would have done infront of them then i wont be a Man enough because Man never cries so i went home and cried infront of my family because it was hard thing for me to tell all casuals that we dont need them yet i would be carrying on my job as usual because i am more important according to the business.
Another thing i hate is when people say mard ko dard nhi hota.which is sexist to girls as well cause we are indirectly saying that feeling pain in a girly thing.
Years ago i saw an advertisement where a guy and a girl travels in crowded bus. The driver applies the break and the guy's shoulder accidentally touches the girl and before he finishes saying sorry, she slaps him hard on his face. Disappointed, he walks ahead of her and when the driver applies the break again this time the girls accidentally touches the guy and before she says sorry, he slaps her on the face.
I bet you so many of us would still disagree with the guy's action but just imagine they were both same genders then we would have no objection.
We have seen girls in todays movies showing 95 to 98 percent of the skin yet a guy can only show his abs.girl can wear a blue shirt no problem but a guy cant wear a pink shirt.A girl can drink beer but a guy enjoying sweet wine is not man enough.if a girl can't deliver a baby because of any complications in her ovaries then its a madical condition but if a guy had a medical issue stopping him to be a father then he is namard.
Watch the show mr. And mrs. Shameen which asks a very important question, what does it take to be a man??
@@siddhant8430
The problem is that not just women but we all are social animals and we like the things that we think are attractive rather than buying what is good for us.
If we had millions then most of us would buy a lemborghini or a Ferrari or rolls Royce. They aren't economical or cheaper nor of the best quality ( here i mean the quality in terms of our need to go from A to B and not the material used in the cars)
When you buy clothes, would you rather pick a very fancy shirt that may be slightly tight or a simple plain or old school shirt thats loose and comfy for you but gives you a grandpa look.
We all are attracted to the face value not the real value.
The money in your account is just an illusion and the real value is nothing but you treat that note as 1000 or 2000 (dont believe look at china right now, some of the banks have stopped people withdrawing money from their own account).
Moral of the story is no matter how much we talk about ethics or morals but reality is we all want the best for ourselves.
If you are healthy and perfect looking guy then would you marry a girl who has been a rape or acid attack victim?? Probably won't. You would have full sympathy and you would help her out as much as you can or even beyond your powers but taking a decision to marry her would be taken by only very rare of us and if you are the one who could then i would definitely be proud of you but even after saying all these , even i would hesitate, in my all honesty.
So to answer your questions why girls like bad guys because they think that they are the trend , they are cool, they have the swag and they are up to date comparing to a nerd who would be outdated due to his focus in something else.
'Stalking culture' as shown in Bollywood movies has an adverse effect on the mentality and persona of the Indian Youth....I being a teenager have seen many of my knowns stalking girls regularly thinking that she would eventually fall in love with him/them. This is what Bollywood is feeding the audience with and I find it really funny until the incidences turn up serious.
Sir she is never going to fell in love with the boy who stalk her instead she started hating him
Because it is soo irrespective as well as annoying
Not only in Bollywood, it's in south indian cinema too...
Right Mishra ji
This is the reason why I have anxiety 🗿 we need more people like you 🎉
@@madhuragarwal8348 The situation is even worse there. I don't remember any big commercial movie that did not glorify romance on the name of romance. Be it pushpa or kgf
I teared up and got goosebumps watching the video. As a girl, watching such movies and ads hurt a lot!
Same with me when I watch veere de wedding I as a guy feel bad 😥
Well.. as a male i respect every woman and hope that everyone thinks the same and all woman blessed with happiness and movie's and ad's like these should be banned cencorboard is just messed up..
@@madhavmathur4008 wah bhai aap bohut Dank ban rahe ho XD
@@adnan4112 yeah.
@@madhavmathur4008 Jaa.. jaake Gaadi ko achhe se saaf krke.. thik se Garage mei park kr dena...
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qki usne just apna ek experience share Kiya, or aapne usse Direct Target Kiya and you even tried to pass it as a _jok_ (as u wrote)
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That's why we sanatanis boycott bollywood. Our dharma said shiv and Parvati both are equal responsible for making this world
I love that thought..
Yess SANATANI! SB logon ko ye baad samjhaon mere bhai!!💪
If God is powerful enough then why is his creation so bad? Why he makes us innocents suffer?
Sanatanis are even more cringe than bollywood.
@@kartik2967
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Vulgarity is increasing on the internet to another level. In name of Westernisation and more "open-mindedness" women are being shown as vulgar objects .
Ma'am or sir plz ye btayiye iska kya mtlab hua ki ladkiyaan ko sanskaari aur vamps dikhaya jaata hain?
Mtlab ye video unke baare mein kehene kya chahta hain ki sanskaari or vamps nahin dikhana chahiye??
Ladkiyon ko ladki dikhana chahie ladki sanskari aur games why we should put tags to the womens let them discover their self... Either they want sanskari or not..
@@shishielsingh4168 oh thank u
@@shishielsingh4168 lekin aur games mtlab?
Now, this is called some genuine work. Honest and fearless. Kudos BigBrainCo. 👏
Sorry to say but it is something Pratonizing or Promoting by Many rebels women specially in south Delhi & South Mumbai or Nepo Kids Obviously Nassist Men played a Vital role here...who desperately wanted to be Heroine or Actress or Model ....for ex 10 yrs Back Wearing a Bikini on Movies is a Big Big Deal .....now whole Instagram is Promoting Bikini Culture ...Juvenille Girls in Delhi & Mumbai who are less than 18 yrs Old Wearing Bikinis & Flaunting like Models ...so that they will get views on Instagram ........now what is that Hypocracy or Self objectification or Selling Sexuality ........Did you notice how Indian Instagram Model now doing Bare Body Photoshoot in the name of Women Empowerment ....now tell this year Top 3 Rankers are hold by Girls in UPSC IAS ...how many Women or Girls Celebrating it answer is few ....Did you know Nykaa CEO is the 2nds Richest Women in India ...how many Girls notices these thing ....but yes Few day Back Sara Ali Khan Bare Leg high Slit Black Gown was notice or Praised by Many women or Girls ...Disha Patni Ananya Pandey , Sara Ali Khan Janvi Kappor when Intentionally shown their body Part what is that ?? Women Empowerment or Posting only Bikini Pictures etc ....What you have to say about Kim Kardisian Sex Tape to 4 Marriages than Infidelity ...still Kim is most Admired Women in the World not Hillary Clinton or New Indian President Draupadi Murmu...sad but that is the Fact .....the Day Women Give more Preference to Intellect Brain rather commenting or Prassing other Women or Girl Beauty .....thing will Change oviously Man also do the same ...but i dont think so it is going to happened ....in the Capitist World Where Kim Kardisian Kyle Jener or Sunny Leone can do anything ...plus ther are admired by many young women ?? only for the beauty Skin Body etc ...not to see the intellect of that Women ...than Women Objectification or Narcisst Man only Sell the Beauty in Different Different Form .
Definitely Kudos toh banta hai BigBrainCo. K liya..👏👏.
Bilkul ek dum sahi baat boli hai Kabir Singh mai ladki ke saath jo kiye ja raha ho uska mnn ! Without her permission
Hamare samaj mai teacher ko bhagwan ka darza diya jaata hai !! Usko inhone mile ke itna Ganda banane ki koshish kar rahe hai
Mtlb Kabir Singh mai ladki ke saath jo mnn mai kar raha hai beech class mai se uttha ke le jaa rah hai ##same on you Shahid Kapoor # shame on director producer and everyone who involve in this movie # kya dikhane cha rahe tum mere samj ke pare
Indian Men's after watching this be like- "She is out of the line, but she is right".
So trueeeeeee
Specially bollywood ditectors
exactly,
but she is right.
i mean this is wrong;.
But aj k din ma women maximum sare Pura samaj ko bigad raha h instagram aur film ma disha patani as an example kam kapde pahanka film banata h.Nora and jhanvi did ass and boob surgery to show people to portray them as items fir asa kiu bolta ho khud nude hongi fir larko ko blame.kitna faltu larki jasa sofia,sassy poonam kya karte h insta pa khud ko pucho???
Aur men talent sa paisa kamate h aur women gand ar boobs sa
Being a student of psychology, I totally embrace your message and also want to highlight the dark side of our society being sanskaari and judgemental at the same time.
Lot's of love and support from my side 🌼
Bhai i want to be a phycologist what should i known
@@commonbeing9359 Bhai aap pehle decide kijiye ki aapko "psychology " karni he ya 'phychology'
@@commonbeing9359 I know you misspelled
Just kidding 😂
Bhi isne Kabir Singh movie ka dark sach duniya ke samne rakha i appreciate her !!
Ye movie thodi hi thi ladki ke khilaf violence ko dikhaya hai !!!
Ek pagal ashiq ko dikhaya jo ladki ko sirf sex object samjhta hai !!
@@logikalmridul305 psychology books padhna padega aur detailed knowledge ke liye
Gotta comment on your video. I"m a 16 y/o boy and all thanks to my parents who taught me that sexualising and objectifying women is NOT normal at all. Honestly speaking I just got hell lot of disgusted by 'aa ante amalapuram' song lyrics, just got off my seat & felt shame on the type of people who watch these types of SHITTY songs.
I Hugely Expect that our generation is going to bring change and discourage these types of songs Ayushi didi. Kudos to you for bringing videos on such needy topics.
Kisi k bhi parents nahi bolte jake larki ka gand niharo ye sb sikhsa dost dete h
Nice Parents!
Good job! Kudos to ur mom and dad:)
I'm a 18 y/o boy and I feel the same way since my parents taught me to give girls nothing but respect. I believe our generation is going to bring change.
Lucky to have mother and father like that
Actually, we men didn't even realised that. its true, its damm true.
Need more content like this ,this is called extreme slap to industry😍
U can edit extreme to tight with extreme it sounds kida silly
@@madhavmathur4008 🔪🔪
@@madhavmathur4008 to jaao na case karo bollywood k filmmakers aur writer par
@@raja-jl9os Movie toh south ka remake hai original ke director se and everybody knows the representation of female character in south movies
@@nikitanagekar6739 Indian movie are like children's play in the school
I love how you perfectly explain this type of topic 👏
And showing one sided story ignoring films like veere de wedding
Not Everything can be covered
Are tum riya ki bhen ho kya wo jo crazy si hai mera intro kra do thoda sa fame miljaega relationship nhi chla tou
@@dhirendrarath8001 aise to mai bhi bol du men right committee ko hatao kyuki wo 1 side ko support karti h,what's ur point?
Isne har ek baat 100% accurate kahi hai
Kahskar Kabir Singh ko lekar wo movie nhi thi movie ke naam par kalank thi hamare samj me !! Ek pagal ladka jo ladki. Ke khilaf sex violence kar raha hai !! Teacher ka role kar ke teacher jaisi chabbi ko kharab kar raha hai # boycott Shahid Kapoor and Kiara jo aise Ganda role kiya !! Puri movie mai sirf ladki ko as a sex object hi dikhaya hai
There doesn't pass a single day in my life where i don't face gender stereotype whether it be directly or indirectly! Thank you, truly thank you for bringing this up big brainco.
True
What about gold diggìng or hypergamy by women????
gold h bhi tere paas? @@vickyAlways
@@perfectpotatogirl hm ladke tere jaise bhikhmangi ladkiya nhi h jo aadmi ke bhikh ke paiso pr palna chahe aur ameer dulhsa dhunde n mere paas itna gold h jitna teri maa to kya tu gold digger ke pure khandaan ke paas nhi hoga
@@perfectpotatogirlhaa mere paas hai
Bhare pare hai
Mera to bhai kaat sakta hai
Agar koi ladki ake mera jewels aur money lootke chale jaye woh bhi mera body use karke alimony ke sath
The biggest sad reality in this nation is that these kinds of videos don't get even half a million views that deserve tons and tons of support. Kudos to Bigbrain and Ayushi too for explaining everything in such an immensely impressive way ❤
no one else except us are to be blamed for this trend in Bollywood... we consumed it, we accepted all this, we gave our time and money to it.
It's more likely if a person getting a thing which give him/her instant pleasure they go for it instead of tge thing which don't give them pleasure it's more likely to connect with Sci as people are attracted and go for the things that give them pleasure that's what it's talking about in video.....so it's also their fault that they are running brains for money and also those who are watching these for pleasure and don't have self control
@@vartikasingh9562 those who don't have self control, thats why marriages are failing nowadays, having multiple partners is cool.
We are the ones who are vulnerable. Bollywood just knows how to make use of it.
@@BharatIndoria yeah that's why....they know how to use of it bcz some people don't have self control that's ruining them and movies just promote this for their reasons of getting hit
@@vartikasingh9562Bollywood also provides an unrealistic portrayal of women. Women are shown stripping and baring skin because they feel “empowered” to do so. However, the ground reality is completely different. Women are told to cover up and show least skin as possible.
She spoke my heart out.....my soul is satisfied...now I don't have to convince someone i just have to show this video to them...kudos to you🔥🔥
Bilkul bhi mai bhi !!
Isne Jo kaha Kabir Singh ki movie ko lekar mai bhi yahi kahana chahta tha but kabhi kaha nhi paya kyuki uss samay ye samaj ko bahut achi lag rahi thi !! Thanks to her jo isne Kabir Singh movie ki dark reality ko bahar laya !!
So true, she spoke the Heart out , now I no more have to feel ashamed when an item song comes up, I can peacefully avoid it
Same literally!!
Not only females, but there are men too who feels uncomfortable and bad while watching such item songs scenes
It is equivalent of commenting in a video talking about football in India that ,"but but, circket is also good"
Bruh,the video was specifically talking about female issue,why insert men issue here?
@@aakashgarain It's not like that. I just said that there are times when men too feel uncomfortable about these things. That's all. So for proper healthy society such sick movies must be banned.
@@subhadeep_2001 well you are right but many men insert that "fake allegations thing" in every freakin' woman issue videos that's why this person commented😅
Like i understand you also have problems but when some other issue is disscused don't justify it 😅
Not every women feel uncomfortable, most women including most bollywood actresses are crazy for item songs. Agar woh log khud hi change nahi chahti to kaise change ayega 🤷♂️ bass har chij k liye male audience ko blame krna asaan hai 😃
@@subhadeep_2001 that's true,fully agree
It's easier to fool people than to convince them they are getting fooled
This was exactly what we needed.... Such stereotypes are need to be broken
I agree to your point, I always felt disappointed with the box office numbers of women oriented films 🥺💔 but m happy it's improving now a days , like padmaavat, raazi, gangubai all did well on box office ❤️ We r changing now, it ll take time but still we all ll change some day.
Btw recent example of bias audience I saw at the time of gehraiyaan , when everyone questioned deepika for doing intimate scenes after marriage but not ayushmaan in Chandigarh kare Aashiqui 🙃🙃
And currently when Alia announced her pregnancy people are trolling her so badly and saying ki shaadi se pehle woh pregnant thhi isiliye Ranbir ko shaadi karni padi means Ranbir ne majboori me shaadi kari hai
@@Artistm3031 truu
Hn toh Bhai sense bhi toh bnaye gehraiyan ki story 😂 at least Chandigarh kare Aashiqui ki storyline shi thi
@@karanrana1230 are baat kya chalri hai, tum kya bolre ho🤦 sabka apna perception hota hai movies ko lekar, jo tumhe pasand nahi aayi jaruri nahi auro ko bhi naa aaye....
@@madhuragarwal8348 Hn Bhai "perception" hota hai 😂 pehle english seekh le tb bkwaas krio tera hi pov dekh kr bola ki logo ne gehraiyan ko troll sirf erotic scenes ke lie ne storyline ki wajeh se troll krra.
For a fact Bollywood had first started idolizing eve teasing and item songs which other cinemas also did to get masses but what they don't show is the difference between flirting and Eve teasing and that creates social dilemma and socitial dilemma over long period of time
@Dark Sky yes and Tollywood is starting same that is sad
@Dark Sky brother obsecinity was not indian culture sexual ease , pleasure and health was part of Kamasutra book which was spoken by a women that was indian culture but when this itom dance eve teasing Romantising love and sexual harrassment happen that is bad and it's fault of bollywood
@Dark Sky and I hope other indian cinemas don't further pre use it
honestly I have always wondered why do we still have item songs in a movie and even women and men dancing on it on social platform. I find it weird one woman is dancing and men gathered around her with beer .😑😑
Yes I find it disgusting too
Ikr it's like🤢
Actually I am a girl and I am a student of class 10th
I really like your video and your point of view on this
When I was younger I also used to sing and dance on such song but ones I grown up I come to know the brutal reality of these songs which is really terrifying.
In my family I never ever experienced gender discrimination but ones my grand parents were discussing about the property and how they will distribute it
So they said that they will give it to my both sisters and my brother so out of Curiosity I asked what will I get so they laughed and said de toh rahe Hai tumhare bhai ko but I asked what about me you are giving it to my both the sisters and my brother then why not me so they said that they are both girls and they the daughters of my tau Ji toh eventually unhe hi Mila gi and you have a small Brother so he will get the property so I asked why can't I inherit property so they said that it will be given in a form of dowry and I got furious at them and I said no then I don't want because already I am scared of marriage because many times it is a game of dowry and also i don't want any property either and I went out of the Room.
I have noticed that everyone in house saying when will you start cooking you will face problems in future and they also ask my mother why don't she teach me how to cook when I asked why I have to cook only ask my brother to cook to do house chores but they said you have to do this because you are a girl
Even I can't believe a very close person said to me that if a girl is unmarried then she should worship her brother and father and if she is married then her husband I was so shocked to hell all this bullshit
But it's not about me it's about every girl out there
I belong to a well to do family and mostly of them are educated but still this happened with me then what about other girl's
But writing this whole message I only mean that we must change the mentality first because it's all starts with your home.
Girl, I am also a 10th grader like you but I appreciate you so much for being this mature at such a young age, most people at our age are so immature and don't even know if anything is wrong with such type of culture, but you are strong, confident on your words and powerful. It's really shitty how we all face gender discrimination or harassment directly or indirectly in our life, but you spoke for it, never let anything discourage you if you know that you're correct. You have my respect, wish you all kind of love and strength in the future👏👏
Hey! Watch a channel called "shakti" and get urself to know bout acharya prashant..he talks bout this!ur all doubts would be cleared! Stay Strong Nari!👍🙌💪
If the property is self earned by your parents then definitely you have no say in their property
If you force them to give it to you then its illegal and a crime
If the property is ancestral, then you have a share in that property by birth but not the whole
Here, your parents can't force you not to take your property
Its your wish if you don't take it
@@ilishasrivastava6166 thanks gurl I am so glad that there are people out there who appreciate me for myself sorry for replying late . How was your 10th by the way mine was tragic
And how's your 11th or maybe 12th going I hope everything is alright.............
I am Shagun nice to meet you
@@Smart_Soham it's a generational wealth and I have full right to inherit it but still I know I won't be given anything that's why I am studying really hard .
In portraying Women I believe Manikarnika was a Great Movie. I grew up hearing the stories of Zhasi ki Rani, Savitribai Jyotirao Phule, Dr. Anandibai Joshi, & many more watching such Wonderful movies make me Relive those stories and much more intensified. I believe people need to change their perspective and Cinema can change this, Thank you BigBrainCo for the video
Manikarnika was based on Zhasi ki raani
I feel really ashamed of such majority bollywood movies..
But u will end up marrying a govt job wala by final year
@@shrishri8898 so what bro ? Kch lena Dena h ky Bollywood s iska idiot
@@shrishri8898 ladki sundar to h baat karu kya?
@@komalshrma098 ladkiyo ko chedene m maja to ata h m to apni bahan ko roj mazak karta hu 😢
While watching this video, I just remember Ekta Kapoor and thinking what type of movies, shows she had produced.
Isn't it the powerful women too, are not thinking a shit about sexualising and breaking the stereotypes of household women, specially in TV serials she had produced.
Blaming the men for everything the women faced is the most obvious reason for feminism propaganda.
I always support women empowerment, and even asked my friends to watch movies which actually dealt with women empowerment,not just propaganda.
Please watch movies like The Great Indian Kitchen directed by a male. It's an eye opening movie.
Dude you fallow every shit right
Facts
@КГЬ СССР Yes, it is also a very very disastrous tradition in the path of Women Empowerment.
She's poisonous for society. Before india used to produce really good & progressive TV serials. But now she poisoned society with sas-bahu. And lots of men/women got brainwashed by that
Even Farah Khan... Most of the item songs are sexualized by her... Even in her movies, the actresses are also sexualized very much
That's some level of maturity I got from this video the things which we all have taught from childhood which are considered normal are just a big discrimination to women
Are underage guess 8-11 years old
Not only in india these, anime girls 😞 god
The writers think them as if they are mindless and worthless.....
True
This is why western shit is bad aswell
I'm a teenager boy. I also didn't understand the point behind item songs. The fact is that Bollywood is a really dirty space with all non standard (so called celebrities) make a closed sphere and portray themselves as someone very famous and powerful. They claim drugs and make outs and extra marital affairs as their culture. I don't really understand why the people tend to idolise them. I might sound rude but this is not right anyway (the deeds of Bollywood). Nepotism, seduction... everything non ethical. People should come out of this hallucination of film stars (I don't even consider them stars, I see them only as byproducts of hierarchy of non talented people who know they are useless outside their closed film sphere). They feel that their culture (of which they are proud) to be contemporary and superior to the Indian traditional culture of respecting people and abstaining from drugs and toxicants). I pray that these things should be stopped. As for Sandeep Reddy, he's just another insane product of the Bollywood mafia.
There are also good films like Padman, Mission Mangal, tare zameen par, a flying Jatt, pokhran etc ... I really appreciate these movies.
Sorry if I sounded rude but certain things need to be stopped as people really get influenced by these non ethical depiction that are created for attracting mass and portraying Bollywood culture as contemporary.
Thanks for reading. I (no we) should stand for the women who are our mothers. We should take care that their dignity is not hurt by stupid scenes by absolutely idiot directors and writers.
am so glad that someone finally raises this!! Kudos to the team of RAAZ
So beautifully and systematically you explained each topic. This was much needed video. Definitely sharing this rn!
Loads of love to BigBrainco.
Always remember it's not men who wants to be a Sigma or alpha it's the education we get from society and our parents which has always told us to be rough, my mom always told me that men don't cry men are tough.
Exactly!! This one thing among others that I've been telling my parents is that it's totally normal if men show emotions and that it doesn't has anything to do with them being not strong enough. I'm so happy that my brother is becoming more understanding day by day :)))
THISSS!!!! This video very very mandatory in today's times. Even young kids who don't understand lyrics are singing these stupid songs and they grow up with these songs. Hopefully Indian youth actually grows up overtime and understand the true meaning of gender equality. ❤️🇮🇳❤️
This is called the true power of social media where channel like big brainco introduce us with the truth, current situation and the crime which is increasing as per the time really hatts off and we all support big brainco and thanks a lot❤❤❤
This video deserves trillions of views..
This video must be shared with everyone and
Bollywood is now becoming a not less than porn industry
This is what reality is... those bizarre bollywood item songs ruin the condition... these people show the women just beautiful delicate and not so powerful.. this should change definitely... thank you for bringing up this amazing video..
Sister that's the half side of the story there are many many movies which depict the power of women and also men appreciate it. But there are also some women who support hashtags like #cleavage #beproudtoshowcleavage
@@jeenavjain5047 Yeah i know that some movies are awesome which show women great... but i m talking about the item songs in some movies which are so vulgar...
@@beingdhani23 ladkiya he uss gano sign karti hai bhai
I would love if you say stop using human race as a object. Any views regarding the quality of content posted by so called female influencers on Instagram.
@@global_buzz facts bhai
If you know your limits as male and as a person about your actions towards a person with and without their consent you can easily be a great man or rather gentleman.
In short know your limits and boundaries 😤
Exactly buddy! ✌✨
😂😂😂😂 hahaaa nice dude i cannot control my laughter keep it up
@@adityannair6823 if u can't stop your laughter than that shows how poor your sense of humour is
@@aakashgarain unlike you I am not living in a Disney princess world where u don't want to accept what reality is ok
Same goes for women
Hoping that after watching this video gender stereotype comes to an end and girls begin to text first instead of depending on men for first move 🙃😩
im sorry but we women need to save ourselves from men who have their mind cultivated from such movies and rather never text men who are nothing but pests online
Girls text first all the time loll maybe they just don't text u first😂🤣
@@anushkaroy6666 lmao u r unique 🤭 wanna text me? ;)
Which world do you live in?
Or should I say judging a whole community based on few people? equivalent of saying,"men should stop r**ing girls"
Moral of the video is.
Indian cinema wants to earn money...
No matter which gender, religion,caste they look down upon...
Quality of movies going down and down
at 7:42 , i felt that, because i wasn't allowed to wear short clothes and if i do then my own father used to say "kya nachaniya jaise kapde pehen rakha hai" and know that i finally can wear clothes that are "short" then i feel uncomfortable because i'm scared because that's the type of environment i was raised in and i hate how it was like this growing up and im working towards getting over my insecurities :))
Guys who are now teenagers and have watched the full video.Understand that the change in this society only we can do,so plz do that🙏
Oye 😁 terko hme request krne ki zaroorat nhi hai
@@madhavmathur4008 hater h kya bc ? Spam pe spam kare ja rha
@@swastidas7422 bencho bina spam kre hi spam ka inzam
Patriarchy is a big problem of India. But, due to education the gap between Men and Women is decreasing🙂
Bro ladkiyan hmari job cheen lengi mein hum kya karengy😂😂
@@madhavmathur4008 really, ur that scared that someone will snatch ur opportunity by his talent, wow
@@somyashrivastava2056 maybe he is afraid of companies which hires females just for the sake of maintaining sex ratios😂😂
@Priy yup maybe men who takes advantage of their incapable wifes due to illiteracy have same thinking😂.
@Priy impossible.
Hattts offf to your whole team . Really doing amazing job . Keep making such videos and keep making the youth more aware .
So unique concept...Great job👍❤️
THANK YOU FOR RAISING THIS ISSUE.
Sexuality is the new era of making money that's why they even ruined the legendary *Ek Villain* movie too
*Why are women used as sex objects?*
Lots of people need to object to it,you can never expect a change unless you try.
A bold move by the team.
Amazing video.
Highly informative.
I can really see how nearly everything bollywood or media offers to us is somehow enforces stereotypes.
I will try to identify such sources on my own now. 🤞❣️
As a women i'm too sad to see this. We are not respected anywhere
I feel ashamed to be a male. I really agree to all these points and this is where we must raise voice.
There isn't a need to feel ashamed. I feel happy that we have persons like you who are really aware and caring for the society's development. Either women or men, many people are promoting stereotypical thoughts over the time. Now it's the time to end all this and live in an idealistic society. Really thanks for the approach.
Change your gender. There's an option.
@@latesttipsntricks3050 best and geniune reply ever🤐
To mar jaa bhai , ek bojh kamega Bhaarat se. Waise bhi teri tarah "dukhi aatma" bahut bhare pare hain hamaare desh me.
@@explorewithadid1858that's no f##king joke coz if her father changed the gender she wouldn't be in this world
OMG U guys are doing great Awsome.... 🌿These types of videos needed to change the mentality in India... We Indian audience are being fooled from many years... Very thankful for this video❤️❤️❤️
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A topic about no one wants to talk about on Indian TH-cam . This shows that bigbrain really had backbone to talk and discuss on these topics. We should avoid these types of movies and not to make these characters our idol. Hats off ayushi and team bigbrain for bringing these genine topics 🤗💖
Very Informative and well Presented
amount of Research 🔥🔥
This is absolutely true, now a day all entertainment industry portray women as sexual object. This has to be stopped.
Best video i have ever seen . Appreciate the way she addressed the "objectification problem " . Never understood why there is a newd of item songs in the movie, just to gain male attention film makers didn't realise how they are literally portraying womens as objects . I have heard that womens in bolly are paid less than mans what else u expect from such people who literally make such cheap item songs and some sensitive scenes of either slapped or abusing women . Many people in india idealise bollywood heros and start being like them . This is more problematic than u think .
So many rap and music videos have women wearing revealing clothes and just posing without doing anything,used as a eye candy
I'm in total agreement with the facts stated!
We were critically discussing about these songs a day before thanks for uploading this
Yes
This change my perspective totally for female gender. Thanks.
Finally a single channel and a single girl who addresses thiss
Hat's off girl 💗
There's also one channel Named Acharya prashant you should checkout
@@aniketspecial6102 yessss!
Wow. That was so brilliant. Keep up the good work team.
This is a very serious issue! Thanks for bringing attention to this! Every person must watch this!
Make Another Video on Why Big Brain use Sex Topics ?
hahahahah
They r lgtv people
Targeting tharki peoples
As nobody is talking about it...
This topic like this really are Needed in the society yet nobody talk about it freely...
$(US)
This is what Films (maximum, definitely not all) and ads are feeding to the audience... Whereas, these platforms are one of the best ways to educate people in certain aspects...
The portrayal of LGBTQIA+ community is also demeaning in some cases, similarly...
Anyways, very well explained...
Thanks for bringing this type of Content , I have learnt a lot from this Video..
Bravo answer.. Honest topic amazing👍 salute bigbrainco. ❤🙏🏻💯
kudos to the team to bring up these issues !! its really commendable 👏👏
I am 18...and truly watching this video portraited the inner voice of me. All these songs when I used to hear at very young age were absolute fun but now I just feel so mad after making meaning out of these lyrics,
Now, this is called top class content. Kudos to the team for creating such wonderful videos.
Raazi: Box office: est. ₹197 crore, Pink: Box office: est. ₹157.32 crore 3:36
A great video must reach a wider audience.
Indian women in most parts of the world still prefer Salwar-Kameez and Saree to the western style Jeans and Tops. For example, if you visit north India then you will find most women in Salwar Kameez or Kurti whereas women in South India generally wear Saree
Yes it's really really necessary to stop these kind of women's stereotypes as what we see we learn and in my perspective a women contribute more than a man in every aspect . So respect women stop treating them like a sex object .
I must say you are partially correct. The thing you said about the influence of hindi songs over our minds is completely non sense and illogical. If that's the way then the rape cases, molestations can also be blamed on franchises like kooku, ullu, alt balaji etc etc. It's all about mindset and integrity and at that part I agree with you completely. The films are commercial and solely for entertaining purpose. One thing "the demand produces the products", we have flops like maajhi , raman raghav2. 0,etc etc, not only the women empowerment movies. But concluding my point " You videos are very informative and i love your intellectualism
Who said rape and molestation can't be blamed on such softporn websites? Young guys especially the ones who have not received sex education ..are guided by this tremendously...porn induces a wrong perception of women in their minds...so ofcourse it can be blamed on them
@@marvelwizard3825 yess you're right.
This is really really really to the power of infinity educational,informative and powerful video. Please share it to 100s out there.. so people will know the actual thing.. how we females suffer due to this sick mentality....
Just from the very initial stage... schooling level... we should teach consent, how to be respectful, stopping double standards, encountering the misleading ones. So instead of normalizing criminal activity like physical abuse... sexual assault, gender bias, *stalking*,stereotyping etc... it should be called out .... so that in a long run.. we can expect a better society with 50 50 contributions of every genders.... and yaa here comes one major thing... respect everyone regardless of sexuality....as it is highly recommended and crucial.
We need much much more of these . Excellent
Very nice thoughtful eloquent fact based research supplied video
. Thanis for creating and sharing
Very nicely explained. It should reach to as many people it can
This is best video till now raising a big issue 🔥
Really a great one
this is the reason why my father never allowed us to watch Bollywood Movies in childhood.. & I am grateful for that today.. My childhood was spent on watching movies like dennis the menace, the Willies , James & the giant Peach, the Wizard of Oz etc in Star Movies sunday..
Excellent video! Very well researched!
That was a very realistic video .....
I have also seen in some serials when women say " can women take any kind of rest? "
Pointing that women must keep doing household work even if they are tired and men have freedom to do anything they want to .
I remember my sister once told me that movies which showcase and glorify women so much in a sensual way and toxic masculinity because the ratio of illiterate people is much more than literate, and they are much more interested in those two things.
Your sister has toxic femininity.
@@captainaryan26 and u are angrezi
@@captainaryan26 there is no concept like that. Angrezi hona band krdo aur apne dharm pr aa jaon
Loved how such an imp topic is explained so nicely!
even in Disney movies, they show in the end that a prince comes and gives the Disney princesses a true love kiss and only then she is released from the spell! I am glad that the modern Disney movies don't have this anymore
Only 4 disney princess movies have that trope??
genuine content.keep up the good work
Today's video is eye opener & you have done a tremendous job @Ayushi Mathur maam 👏👏✌😍
Glad that these ppl r trying to break down such misconceptions..
your videos actually changes our mind-set in a appropriate way🌚
We as a society needs to demand for media to stop promoting wrong stuff in movies and serials .Raising awareness of how media influences the society is very important.Good job on the video.
Last part was very inspiring part , A lot of thanks BigBrainco Team 👏❤️.
Kabir Singh is bad but 50 shades of grey and 365 days like movies girls call them cool 🤣🤣🤣
no one said it is
@@divyangimishra2612 I know lot of girls since school time who love christen grey and said he is like true men
@@devsinghrawat7060 wtf really?? im pretty sure majority finds that movie disturbing.
@@divyangimishra2612 yepp girls like it even after watching movie they read the novel also
@@devsinghrawat7060 thats disgusting lmao. isliye both women and men should be educated.
Indian men getting triggered is the comments is so funny
I never got triggered but I laughed instead after listening some things but item song is weird and worthless 😅
Slum dwelling feminist spotted , opinion automatically rejected 😂😂😂😂😂
That's the reason this is is my one of the favourite channel... unique and best content ♥️
Amazing work . Kudos to you for bringing such amazing content fearlessly. 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
3:33 Why are you talking about ma'am Raazi earned over 150 crores, Manikarnika crossed 100 crores, Pink crossed 55
3:34 Raazi earned 195Cr and Pink earned 157Cr. Please recheck your stats
#Listen : 1) If govt. want to change some perspective in Society , it should be launched in the *thoughts* of young minds from primary level (as 80% Gen Y comming from govt. school)
As soon as those tads updated to High School, they started saying " arey , kya maal hey yrr!! " 😤 I've seen lakhs of students how they changed when hit puberty #So Its hoto Parents ,they must care their child to stop calling women as taboo #Guarantee ( 60% abuse/rape/murder/s*x tortion gonna stop from society
2) See, adultering is in air nowadays
U open a news channel, media portals, roadside advertisement- everywhere female characters showing cleavages for nothing {don't level me as #progressive} but, observe carefully it's true
So, unless n until those *Public Show-Offs* gonna show those bizzare customes , men will see women as $x object #Fact ( no laws, no regulation gonna STOP men thinking the same)
I'm a #Ramkrishna Mission student, we are genuinely tought to consider women as MOTHER's, Sisters (ofcourse Vivekananda mission students have gf , they marry, leads Normal life like yours) but, we are not fit in this #Wannabe #Woke , #Liberal #GenerationZ community 😁🙏🏻
🚩Stay connected to your roots
*JaY Bhavani* 🙏🏻
Absolutely correct...sex education is needed is school level.
The truths that I was waiting from such a long time to come out from the silence zone to the public zone...finally someone spotted these stereotypes....I have seen and felt many many gender biased situations even the smallest one too 😢...now let's end this together.💪🏽🤝🏼...thank you so much mam for creating this rare contents.... please keep figuring out more n more such stereotypes 🙏🏻
Yes..! Objectification of women is a serious issue !
But I have one question- are females too not responsible for this? 🤨🤔🤔
How are they responsible for the way men objectify them, use objectifying language to talk about them, to shame them and to try to control how women should and shouldn't act?
@@ugh123ugh 👍