Putting Everyday Life on Trial | Anubhav Bassi | TEDxRGNUL
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- Mr. Anubhav Singh Bassi is one of the most popular stand up comedians of our times.
He has, over the years, carved out a niche with his own brand of retrospective comedy.
Bassi has no dearth of stories depicting his struggle with life - switching careers during the day and
drowning in alcohol by the night. His performances keep us in awe due to the ease of delivery which seems like a casual conversation with hilarious content. Mr. Anubhav Singh Bassi is one of the most popular stand up comedians of our times.
He has, over the years, carved out a niche with his own brand of retrospective comedy.
Bassi has no dearth of stories depicting his struggle with life - switching careers during the day and
drowning in alcohol by the night. His performances keep us in awe due to the ease of delivery which seems like a
casual conversation with hilarious content. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
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It's like an older brother giving life advice. Such simplicity and directly hits you in that soft spot.
Exactly
Achaji
Please stop calling brother to any one brother or sister must be within the family, outside the family there is word Friend must be used to call someone
@@gkbydhammadeep6514 bro read carefully what she wrote ' he is not brother insteed he is like brother..'
Elder
His voice was shaking, that proves how hard he worked to come back.
1. Ask parents for time
2. Make friends
3. Don't compare yourself with others
4. If you don't able to put yourself in that work and don't get satisfied leave it.
5. Don't be your enemy.., be your best friend
Life mei end mei sab kuch acha hi hoga... :)
Lovely 💗
Truly said
I was a head girl in my school, been two years since I left college and I've been failing failures since then. Was super anxious since three days and 4 a.m in the morning TH-cam suggests me this. Writing this comment while tears rolling down, for now I sometime down the line I'll come back successful and be thankful, yes I needed this, Universe.
God Bless you :)
Good luck 👍
Hi
more power to you girl...hugs
More power to you
One of the most genuine, natural, unscripted tedtalk!
Yes right 😊
😂😂
No like bassi rj naved me bhi unscripted Ted talks Di thi it was brilliant
Yess bro you are right
And I don't like this kind of Ted talks
It doesn't feel like a Ted Talk, it's like a big brother sharing his wisdom to the younger sibling 🙂
Strongly agree 🙁
Exactly
Its amazing
And also sam.. 😂
Yup.....💙
A comedian is one of the most strong person in the world, because he has learned to laugh over the atrocities of life.
Great advise man, Thanks a lot❣️
Uploded 3 years ago. Listened today. I was able to relate with every single word. Much needed motivation. Love you brother.
This talk should be titled: "Anubhav ke Anubhav"
Damn 😂
@@Varun10299 ij
I thought exactly that while listening to him
Missed opportunity. 😂
Zeher 🤣
Why is it that comedians are the wisest people on Earth?!
Because life is a joke
Wisdom comes from experience. The more a person is experienced, the more the person is playful with life.
Because they can Crack!!
@@apurvapatel9699 are u a comedian too?
u pointed out something really good..because comedy is the art of seeing the world from different angles and aspects and these are also the specs of wise man,
Dil jeet gaya bhai....just see his face...he was feeling every word he spoke...koi bakwaas nhi...sirf apna experience share kiya bhai ne..very genuine...Respect👍
Khudse dushmani mat karna- what a line!!! True words shared like a big brother.hats off Bassi.
Today manju aunty, sarla aunty and abdul bhai will proud of you.. 😂😂
You forgot Tyagi
His fans also feel proud of him..❤️🙌
Including Tyagi
Bande ne sach me proof kar diya aaj ki "I am strong" ☺️
@@vipulvarshney111 yes truly
*he's the elder brother we all need in life* 💛
Well said dear 🙏
I love my elder brother he's always there for me😊
Sahi kaha dear
Exactly girl
Bhai soch rha tha ke stud lg rha hy tune bhai bna diya 😂
I'm 27 years old now and still jobless , but I'm finding some better opportunities & this video gives me a lot of inspiration especially the parent's part . Thank you bassi bhai
Iam sure you can do it 🙏
I have heard a lot of TEDx videos but this one discribes the stages of my college life word by word. The most wise advise he share are "make friends" and "ask time from family". Marvelous speech from him.
"Khud se dushmani mt krna"- striked straight every single string of heart!
True af
Yes... Very True
yay! true
*struck
Well, I am just 16 right now, and didn't understand the line. What did he actually mean by that?
It is clearly visible that this person is talking straight from the heart.
True❤🌈
Being real takes a lot of guts and this person proved it undoubtedly. Infact his level of nervousness shows his reality and humbleness which isn't cup of tea for everyone.
I literally cried watching your video, I also failed many times and also switch career in my life many people even my family doesn't support me, My girlfriend cheats on me, I went to the depression stage but now I am a newborn and I still doing something new which I never thought of.
Love You, Bassi
Bassi: Ye Edit Kardena
Editor: You Have No Powers Here
Hahahahah so funny bro 🤣🤣
😂😂
Inspirational and motivational 🥺🥺🥺
😂😂😂😂😂
It's the worst feeling when you realise that you were better than others in school days but now you have left behind and they are doing far better than you in life.
School and grades in actuality have nothing to do with success in your respective field (usually) and your mental peace. Everything I have been through school only brought me down, not lift me up. Teachers and your peers discourage you and when you act out, you get hammered. School is about obedience and herd mentality, nothing more.
I relate
Sahi bat
Ye sab kuch nahi hota, gaming chod ke padai karlo.
Relatable
14:18 "Don't rush, if you need time, you have time, take it." Thanks ♥️ This was profound. I wish I heard this before.
17:07 Lines of wisdom.This is so so relatable.💜
why did it feel that bassi had tears in his eyes!!
Yess😢
I also feel same
@@ECBOAHamdoonNasir me also
In the end, yes I also felt like that
Yes.. smile kar ke. Sb life tail bol dia🙌❤
Today even samminem's father will be proud of you 😂👍
😄😄
Truu, how can I forget saminems
Love the way you lie🤣🤣
I love the way you lie❤️
Wiper😂😂
6:23
Such a genuine, down to earth person. Felt so touched to hear the reality of life.
He just magically explained my current state of mind in such a way even I wasn't able to explain to my own self, by the end of the video I had tears in my eyes felt like it is not only me i guess, maybe I won't hate myself that much further on
Mate you are not alone.
I am almost in the same stage of life where Bassi have been.
Sumit ... Islam ..? Ye kya h.
Same
Most of us are sailing on the same boat brother , Stay hard
"Khud se dushmani mat karna" Hit me really hard.
Bro i literally cried at that moment, I don't Know why ...hit me really hard as well.
@@shivatyagi9958 how are you, bro?
@@mrutyunjaybarik3242bro i am better now , 👍
Krishna ne geeta main kabse.kaha rakh ha hai,
It's true.
As a comedian he is incredible but at the same time he is very inspiring person 🥺🥺🥺🥺
Yess u are right
1. Acche dost banana, aur uske bhi acche dost bano.
2. Don't waste time explaining to your parents. Just ask for some time and prove yourself.
3. Don't compare yourself with others.
4. Don't become your own enemy.
Pata ni kyu but ye 18 min har baat dil p lagi hai , felt it really hard 😌💯❤️
He Justify his Name...
"Anubhav"
Respect Brother...!👍💐
After long time I have seen good comment 😊❤
Yes @@NitinSharma-fh4cg because Still there are Good People exists ...😄
Naam to mera bhi wahi hai bhai par piche ek sal se Itna depressed hu i have declared myself a failure
@@anubhavagarwal117 yes u are right brother.
Everyone have to face it once in there lifetime but it doesn't mean that this is constant.
We have to find a way to get rid of it.
That is Life...
You never know what comes next.
So be with you always....
@@anubhavagarwal117 one day you will also Justify your name...
👍👍
Never expected to see him so vulnerable, he didn't reveal much but even just talking of those days is making him feel heavy & emotional.
He feel heavy and emotional but he proved that he is strong 😂😂😂
Felt like an heart to heart convo with a very close person.
So heartwarming!
Thank you.
Lots of hugs to this amazing guy!! I have changed my career path after crossing the age of 35, become an author and I completely agree with his logic - Be happy with what you are doing at the end of the day. That is what I feel. Lots of love to Bassi! ❤️❤️❤️
I have never listened to his comedy, but ye talk sunke aankhon m aansu aa gaye. I am 28, and unemployed since last 2 months, this touched really deep. I am just thankful that my dad had a govt job due to which he gets pension , but still live in shame as I feel like a burden to them. Just wanna say thank you bro, really needed this, and when I do something with my life, gonna write you a fan mail, if possible come and hug you, I felt the pain in your voice, like my pain being told through someone else. I owe you big time man, and will repay you somehow for this one day.
I don’t know you but You will do great things in life going ahead ! Trust me. :)
@@arittrapramanick8436 thanks for the kind words bro
You will make it big one day for sure.
More power to you 🌠🌠
Stay confident and happy. You will make it good and big very soon.
@feludaify dont worry. I've been out of job for nearly 5 years. Went through a very tough phase when my father passed away 2 yrs ago. I had to go through all the clinical stuff he talked about. Still trying to come to terms with my loss but am out of depression now. Keeping myself busy with upskilling and will get something for sure soon. Good luck to you and keep your chin up.
His voice is cracking in between.
He makes people laugh but deep withinnhis mind there is vaccum
Well said Bassi!!
As he said his trauma was still with him, he was emotional on the stage..thats why his voice was cracking.
Bhai tu psychologist mat ban jaio😂😂
Right
It seems he was crying while speaking
this video can change my life entirely ❤️
Its really first time that someone said "failure dekhte rehna nahi dekhoge toh seekhne ko ni milega" thanks..❤️❤️❤️❤️
The best Ted talk ever!
Sarla aunty and Abdul bhai would be so proud ☺️
😂😭
Manjul aunty also
Tyagi also
Meanwhile sandeep Maheshwari watching this :
Career sankat me hai..😂😂😂
😂🤣🤣🤣😂
😀😀🤣🤣🤣
haha
🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
It's like older brother giving life advice. Such simplicity and directly hits you in that soft spot.
Khud ke sath insecurity me mt rhna this is what most of the confusive people need to listen ❤ its like he is showing our future path 😍
"Buss karr bassi".. Rulayega kya?
This was the most Relatable TedTalk Ever..!!
Thank you Brother ❣
It was like a senior is speaking about his experiences to juniors.
Thankyou Anubhav, this is what I was actually missing in my life, this is what I wanted to hear, this is the validation I needed !!!! You're brilliant and so honest. I knew everything, everything you said I knew.... But no one ever said this, this is what I needed to hear .
Lots of love n best wishes
Rabi
Pakistan
Thanks TED and Bassi for this lovely video. I was recommened by You Tube sine I like your comedy very much but, when I saw this I realised no one gets ie easy,
I totally relate with all what you said and can you believe I am 54 years old still watching this on TH-cam.
Actually through this video I went through my life and what is currently happening to my son's life.
Gave me strength that he can do what I could not do.
Thanks again Bassi and the TED platform.
Felt like my best friend standing there giving me advice, "koi darr nahi tu acha krlega life mein". You were superb bassi bhai :)
What a man god ..... He is comedian and he is depressed inside and make us laugh . No one literally one can understand the pain of the person by his appearance . The struggle is not less in anyone's life......................
Trueeeee
WAS depressed
This is the therapy we all needed in our life, such a true blessing 😍
Very relatable. Not yet stepped out in the world, but can feel him. I'm very sensitive. Must say, what he said is very valuable.
Can't thank enough for this one. The part where he said "Khud se door mat hona" brought me to a flood of tears. Thank you 🙌
i read your comment and watch this in one go ..Thanks to anubhav sir and thanks to you too.
@@Gauravsingh-nj3cj hope this video helped you too!
@@shikhaghutla9237 Indeed !! yes.. shikha ji
Same! May be I feel about myself that's why it hurts when he said that
yes
Funny how nervous he seems here and how confident he is while doing stand up. Loved it btw.
True bro
Exactly
He was not nervous...he just genuinely depicts his life with us as an elder one in the family...while giving speech he was emotional so that we can't get emotional after watching his video till life..
Couldnt agree more….
@@sachisinha4949 yes ! He is not nervous he just being real :)
Story of my life. Finally found my path now. Thank you for this wonderful sharing. Everything he said was pure gold :)
Agree
His speech clicked to everyone..
" khud se dushmani mat krna " this line is most important.
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.
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Best motivational speech ever.
What does it mean actually can u pls define?
@@himanisharma446, it means to accept yourself as you are and to come to terms with those aspects of yourself that you cannot change. It means to have self-respect, a positive self-image, and unconditional self-acceptance.
@@Amitkumar-wh6qn oh.. Thank you 😊❤
@@himanisharma446 welcome
Hn yr achha h bassi ne multi level marketing nh kha
"Me 5 lakh kamata hu mahine ke"
😂
I have seen numerous TED talks over the past few years, but this one just forced me to comment. This has been amazing and straight outta heart filter-free.
I had the same experience.
If this one forced you to comment , you haven't seen any good talks
Attractive
Speechless inspirational the soul is being poured out from his experiences. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏼🙏🏼
The beauty of the talk is that he is nervous, he is his real self in this one. much love and respect!
My story.
I have survived my IT job for 13 years.
Just never listen to what people say .
The best judge is : how you feel at night .
tell in detail about IT
This gave me goosebumps. Thank you:)
I am close to 9 years
How you feel ....That's only matter
Spoken like a true philosopher. Just that he just plain shared his experience and realizations.. hats off to the casual, friendly style of presentation..
Actually it was not even a bit like philosopher. It was simple and great. He put all his points in so much ease and straight-forward. If there been a philosopher, he would have spoken about life, the big picture not the practical and handy tips.
Each word hit me hard. This was so needed. I cried while watching this. Can't say anything more than a big thank you to you!
one of the best tedtalk have ever see. really inspiring in a very calm way to see the things in a very easy way...
Bassi: Koi Sense Hai Is Baat Ki ?
Audiance: Hume To Bhaut Lag Rhi Hai.
❤️
Underrated comment
Mast coment
👌👌👌👌bahut hi zada lag gyi...
💙
Most genuine, crisp and frank tedtalk ever, I just love Bassi. 🥺❤️✨
Anubhav bassi sir i just saw your short video of this speech randomly on TikTok fyp then i just come to TH-cam and now i listen your full of motivation life journey speech you are great motivation speaker as well you have faced so much problems in your life & u go in depression just like me but u got recover slowly slowly & after listening your speech im also got some stress relief thumbs up for you are great person 😇
This is the most needed motivation for me! mostly relatable
TEDx: You're invited for a talk
Bassi: Ye lo Gyan ki batein, meri khud ki style me!
He is so emotional talking about getting over his low phases.. Salute Bassi !
Today his story proved what he said long year ago...
" Main BAHUT strong hu...."
💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪
Thank you so much ❤ for this wonderful session. I really need this motivation:)
Feeling his words.. they are litreally going through my soul.. andar hi andar rona aagya.. ruk nahi rha rona while seeing this video.. whenever i see this video i cry very much because ek ek word kaafi zyada sense kar rha h bassi bhai 🙏❤️
Actually comedian are really intelligent people people think other way round you really need to be a observer to crack the stand up think.
Thanks for all the likes
Can't compare Bassi with Zakir. Both are special in their own ways.
Bassi brings laugh on you face while Zakir brings smile on your face.
Ooo bhai...
Dil bhr aaya
Bilkul shi bola bhai
cant compare? u just did it bro
@@mafadlal8648 irony xd
One of the best TED talks I’ve ever watched .. that too from my fav comedian .. hats off .. 👏👏👏
Each and every words that was coming out of his mouth absolutely makes alot of sense, and I can relate to each and every word that he had mentioned especially when we are in a phase of making our carrier and if we are not happy and satisfied with our job coz of which we under go stress so it's better to quit that job, take a break and then start again.....Need people like him who would actually understand the situation of people like us...
He is trying his best to control abuse (gaali)😂😂
U got it man 😅!
@@khurramaziz1928 yes 😂
So true !!! 😂😂😂
When he said "dost zarur banana" that hit me hard
Ha or mere pass Dost hi nai hai
@@syedalima5541 same 🥺🥺
mk sadhotra 😒
Acche Dost nahi hai yu khene ko to kafi hai Lekin waqt par kam ane eale nahi hai koi hi
We can be friends
Watched this video today after 2 years and it is still connecting to it so much. Thank you, Bassi
8:48 Make Good Friends
11:03 Take time With Parents
11:50 Don't Compare with Anyone 💓
12:55 Junoon and Sukoon 💓
15:30 Return and Try
16:30 Don't be a self Enemy 💓
👍🏻
Bassi: dost jarur bnana
Introverts: koi sense hai is baat ki.
Bhai tere baat ka kya sense banta pehle yeh toh bata de.. 😆
Do you even know what introvert is?
Who told you introvert don't like friends?
Us time bahot sense lagi thi ... Gale mil gaye the hum .. 😉😉
lol
The person makes other laugh can create such silence with his reality.... Be kind to everyone💚
Ending was the wisdom much needed. All packed and in few lines expressed what life is in one perspective.
Good lesson to learn n commit to it.. Accepting failures n live in chill. No door open for -I've elements, thoughts or actions.. Never!.. 🎉
The best Tedtalk so far, genuine and real. No showoff of wisdom etc.
When he says i belong to meerut mujhe lga ab ye phir bolega ki wahan banda baad mein jaata h khabar phle aati h😂😂😂
Who remembers this hit like 😂🤦🏻♂️
Ma bhi meerut sa hu ya line popular ha 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@zeus8467 😂
😂😂
Meerut jata hai... Fr... Uski khabr aati hai
Bhai bhai bhai
Comment interesting tha
But that one line "hit like"
I literally had second hand embarrassment
takes courage to talk so honestly...
Such a deep thought about insecurity and relationships... bless you!
i don't think so i have ever heard anything more relatable than this, thankyou you for putting up this.
The most legitimate and natural talk. What Bassi crossed through, we all crossed or going to cross. The thing is that never stop as Bassi said. What a phenomenal thought process.
I don't know, but his speech is so natural I am literally crying.
Me too
I can feel you bruh
Tyagi ji 😂
When he started taking about failure, it was noticeable, he was about to crack. Could it be that he uses the sarcasm to cover up that period of his life?
Very much!
True!!
Tragedy is comedy!
It takes lots of guts to talk about personal failures on a stage like that. And the almost cracking up voice made it so much more relatable.
Another small point I wanted to share is that it is very easy to talk about past failures once you have become successful and no longer feel that pressure. It is clearly visible that he still thinks he has more to achieve and thats what is unique abt this speech.
That shaky voice for 2 seconds. :(
Best ever thing heard on this internet.. Thanks Bassi for sharing your experience!! Lots of luv n best wishes!!
From 1st min to last second i was relating wid everything he was sayin...life me like pehli baar koi aisa video dekha jo mere life ka mirror show krke path dikha pa rha tha....i literally understanding whts he been through n wht i now need to do wid my life tysm bassi sir ...i downloaded this video n gonna watch this everytime jab mujhe lage ki koi samjh nhi pa rha mjhko n mjhko aise apne state me rehne wale insan k sath interact krna he
Best parts.....
1.Don't compare yourself with anyone
2.Make friends
They will support you....
Make good friends
@@shubhampal8754 most important thing u said
@@_cool_daddy2713 😉👍
Tik tok se bahar nikalne mein 2 saal 😅😂, this generation! On the nerve point.
@@MrGhanshyama observation bhot tgdi hai Bhai ki😂😂
Much much needed motivation during this PANDEMIC. You taught a real life lesson today!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💙💙💙💙🔥🔥🔥🔥
Bhai ab tu sab badal de.. vaccine bana de.. tujhe motivation chahiye tha na.. 🤣🤣
@@NirajSingh-xh7um 😂👏👍🤣
Niraj Singh ab dekhta ja.. VACCINE tera BHAI banayega!😎😎
Real hero of tedx........speech. Direct frm heart
Hats off...........❤
Got the goosebumps bro! I got out of college two decades and this message was relevant then as well.its relevant today as well and will continue to stay relevant
This is called unscripted motivational talk... Thank you..
"Jab rent dene ke paise nahi the main overtime person bhi tha"
Wow.
Dil jeet liya Anubhav bhaiya.
You explained everything.. what most people are feeling or facing right now. Happy for you.
I really felt depressed didn't sleep whole nights from few days
Rejection in cat exam
Bassi u r gem