An INFJ life hack for me is to focus towards the mystic traits. The philosophical, isolation and psychological changes over a long time will enhance ones intuition, balance reality and become a more neutral judge in life.
They need to study the heart then I asked her about the guy who messed her up. She said how you know a guy messed me up oh you mean because everyone has one. I said well I don't know about everyone else But you defiantly were lol
I am extremely proud to be an INFJ. I eat narcissists for breakfast. I developed that skill on my narcissistic piece of shit Father first. Then my family who denigrated me at the behest of my low life no good 1:42 father. I have never felt better about myself.
I'm not from Earth. I just live here. A friend of mine sent me a link to take the MBTI personality test and I felt smacked in the face with the results. It was that feeling like being diagnosed with a terminal illness. I never knew anything about these MBTI personality types. I refused to believe that I was INFJ when I got the test results. My reaction was like, "NO! Not that one." It took me a few weeks to accept what the test results were. I didn't want to be that personality type. But it wasn't until I remembered the way I rant and behave. Then I was confronted with the fact that I really am INFJ. I still wish that I wasn't an INFJ though. But I'm definitely INFJ. It's definitely obvious in my ranting and articulation. It's when I say things such as, "I'm not any better of a person than what anyone else could be if they chose to embrace the learning process and applied themselves, because that's exactly how I got to where I am". "I'm trapped within this life being the personality type that I am and unable to die even on natural causes without anyone's permission." "I'm not special, anyone can do what I do, it's just that they won't." People won't let me be a normal person because people treat me like they interpret me as a magical genie that exists to grant their wishes. Then lately I tell people that "I'm immortal because the universe has a quota on the amounts of lectures that need to be listened to, and the universe knows that I'm a listener". I also tell people that "I don't fear death because no one will let it happen. A tornado could throw my car three counties distance with me in it and smash the vehicle bad enough to look like airplane wreckage, and yet, the native population of Earth would find a way to bring me back to life just to listen to their lectures for the next ten years". I rant like this because of how people treat me differently than they do everyone else. Then people also began telling me that they feel my moods and they feel my energy. I never believed in auras until people started making it more obvious in how they look at me. It's like I'm radioactive and people have a Geiger Counter to detect my personality signature. There is so much deeply painful mystery in who I am. Baby cries are like gun shots because I feel them more than I can hear them. I feel alone in this world because the memo about how things should be is only for me. It's a lot to deal with and I definitely wish my personality type on people. I learned that I don't need violence as a tool of handling people who annoy me because I learned that I can just radiate my moods to be felt and it affects people's demeanor. I've discovered that I can just let myself go into a feeling enough to affect my facial expression and it gets results. I did that to a shoplifter one time at a store I worked at. And I feel like an alien from another world who vacationed here on earth, marooned on this planet, unable to get back to my homeworld, and stuck here dealing with the antics of the native population. It's because of the discrepancies of how I'm told things are supposed to be and the way things actually are. And then it's really difficult for me to have female friends because although I get along with them really well, there's some kind of phenomenon where people think that I'm dating my female friends, and then they think that I'm married to the person I'm dating. I could go on and on about it, but I rather not.
Calling them ' types ' is a misnomer. It's more of a default, stress free, grounded personality preferences. Adjusting and acting in the other different ways can increase stress.
It took 61 years but I finally know who I am. It isn’t easy being infj in a world of different people. I’ve always felt different and unable to connect with many. I’ve been on a path of discovery since COVID, ending very unhealthy relationships with people who didn’t have empathy or understanding for me and also didn’t support my difference's, but rather looked down on them. I also had many problems I didn’t understand and couldn’t control. Twelve step recovery was key in unlocking the secrets of fears and resentments. It helped me decipher what my problems were vs. the problems of others. I’ve found prayer to be a great outlet for my extreme empathy for others. I was married to a covert narcissist for 29 years and this was a huge step to emotional and mental health as well, when it was over. Another big step was seeking Gods will without conditions and returning to church to grow and to enjoy the blessing of serving others.
After more than 40 years, I went to a badminton club again. With my new indoor shoes. I'm 70.9 now and still can not switch off my antennas. I hear people talking and my library opens. The problem is, if I want to keep on playing, I have to learn to shut up. But then I have this non-verbal communication also, of course. But, yes, very nice, after 40 years I still hear the same conversations. Nice people.
Since i did the personality test. I understand myself so much better now. It also plays into me being a cancer. Sometimes it seems like an emotional rollercoaster.
--INFJ Wenzes, have you ever checked out this INFJ's channel? ( Cognitive Personality Theory ) Just want to share in case you haven't. Love your videos by the way.
I was tested, took an exam with others in an auditorium at UALR in '90 and given some mumbo jumbo designation, still have the eval stashed away somewhere. I think it was myers briggs, creepy bastards. I refused to answer some questions I considered immoral. Discussed it with others there who felt the same as me. Why? Why the test?In the Navy during Nam this was referred to as psychological debriefing. My senior corpsman told me it was necessary so no animals were sent home. So black ops recruits at the campuses not merely at military training centers. During this time or thereabouts all that cocaine was going thru Mena which I knew nothing about. How many elite politico's were involved selling cocaine to send arms to central America to keep commies out of the Americas?
Yep, and most of them would stay indoors, where you can never meet one another, if it were up to them. I understand, though: it's like, for every like minded person you also meet 50 who are far from like minded and will also make you realise in every possible way, you're not like them. Not ranting, by the way, because I'm an INFJ too: I'm actually INFP and I'm just here to say I understand. You guys are beautiful, though.
where's your math ?! 80 Million world wide. Or 3 Million in the US. Or in a small country of 7M would have around 70,000. Maybe 20,000 children, 20,000 elderly and maybe 30,000 of a mixture of male and female workers scattered over a thousand towns and cities. So about 30 in each town or city.
I think most of the time Wenzes is just describing herself when she says "we", so the objective definition of INFJ had to be sourced from generative AI.
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An INFJ life hack for me is to focus towards the mystic traits. The philosophical, isolation and psychological changes over a long time will enhance ones intuition, balance reality and become a more neutral judge in life.
Remember that not everyone is psychologist.
For the regular person you are causing an incredible amount of pain.
I’m misunderstood a lot of the time, I go with what my heart tells me.. which confuses people..
idc
@@ray4695._ NOBODY asked you too. 🥱🙄
Me too
That's funny I told a therapist one time if they want to study psychic ability
They need to study the heart then I asked her about the guy who messed her up. She said how you know a guy messed me up oh you mean because everyone has one. I said well I don't know about everyone else But you defiantly were lol
Side note: Often, INFJ's wish they weren't. 🤔
Especially when you foresee a train wreck and know there's no point saying anything...
Some people only learn the hard way 😔
@@Rachel_M_ So true!
This is me at this point😢
Oof so true
I am extremely proud to be an INFJ.
I eat narcissists for breakfast. I developed that skill on my narcissistic piece of shit Father first. Then my family who denigrated me at the behest of my low life no good 1:42 father. I have never felt better about myself.
I'm not from Earth. I just live here. A friend of mine sent me a link to take the MBTI personality test and I felt smacked in the face with the results. It was that feeling like being diagnosed with a terminal illness. I never knew anything about these MBTI personality types. I refused to believe that I was INFJ when I got the test results. My reaction was like, "NO! Not that one." It took me a few weeks to accept what the test results were.
I didn't want to be that personality type. But it wasn't until I remembered the way I rant and behave. Then I was confronted with the fact that I really am INFJ. I still wish that I wasn't an INFJ though. But I'm definitely INFJ. It's definitely obvious in my ranting and articulation. It's when I say things such as, "I'm not any better of a person than what anyone else could be if they chose to embrace the learning process and applied themselves, because that's exactly how I got to where I am".
"I'm trapped within this life being the personality type that I am and unable to die even on natural causes without anyone's permission." "I'm not special, anyone can do what I do, it's just that they won't." People won't let me be a normal person because people treat me like they interpret me as a magical genie that exists to grant their wishes. Then lately I tell people that "I'm immortal because the universe has a quota on the amounts of lectures that need to be listened to, and the universe knows that I'm a listener".
I also tell people that "I don't fear death because no one will let it happen. A tornado could throw my car three counties distance with me in it and smash the vehicle bad enough to look like airplane wreckage, and yet, the native population of Earth would find a way to bring me back to life just to listen to their lectures for the next ten years".
I rant like this because of how people treat me differently than they do everyone else. Then people also began telling me that they feel my moods and they feel my energy. I never believed in auras until people started making it more obvious in how they look at me. It's like I'm radioactive and people have a Geiger Counter to detect my personality signature. There is so much deeply painful mystery in who I am.
Baby cries are like gun shots because I feel them more than I can hear them. I feel alone in this world because the memo about how things should be is only for me. It's a lot to deal with and I definitely wish my personality type on people. I learned that I don't need violence as a tool of handling people who annoy me because I learned that I can just radiate my moods to be felt and it affects people's demeanor. I've discovered that I can just let myself go into a feeling enough to affect my facial expression and it gets results. I did that to a shoplifter one time at a store I worked at.
And I feel like an alien from another world who vacationed here on earth, marooned on this planet, unable to get back to my homeworld, and stuck here dealing with the antics of the native population. It's because of the discrepancies of how I'm told things are supposed to be and the way things actually are. And then it's really difficult for me to have female friends because although I get along with them really well, there's some kind of phenomenon where people think that I'm dating my female friends, and then they think that I'm married to the person I'm dating.
I could go on and on about it, but I rather not.
It's like u have written about me ❤
Calling them ' types ' is a misnomer. It's more of a default, stress free, grounded personality preferences. Adjusting and acting in the other different ways can increase stress.
It took 61 years but I finally know who I am. It isn’t easy being infj in a world of different people. I’ve always felt different and unable to connect with many.
I’ve been on a path of discovery since COVID, ending very unhealthy relationships with people who didn’t have empathy or understanding for me and also didn’t support my difference's, but rather looked down on them. I also had many problems I didn’t understand and couldn’t control. Twelve step recovery was key in unlocking the secrets of fears and resentments. It helped me decipher what my problems were vs. the problems of others.
I’ve found prayer to be a great outlet for my extreme empathy for others. I was married to a covert narcissist for 29 years and this was a huge step to emotional and mental health as well, when it was over. Another big step was seeking Gods will without conditions and returning to church to grow and to enjoy the blessing of serving others.
The INFJ is the best!
After more than 40 years, I went to a badminton club again. With my new indoor shoes. I'm 70.9 now and still can not switch off my antennas. I hear people talking and my library opens. The problem is, if I want to keep on playing, I have to learn to shut up. But then I have this non-verbal communication also, of course. But, yes, very nice, after 40 years I still hear the same conversations. Nice people.
Since i did the personality test. I understand myself so much better now. It also plays into me being a cancer. Sometimes it seems like an emotional rollercoaster.
Excellent video Wenzes!! ❤❤ I'm a true INFJ but people think I'm an ESFP because of my brazilian humour 😅
I love your video.
Namaslay soul siStar ❤
As a true INFJ, I wish I wasn’t one.
Is it about behavioral INFJ or cognitive INFJ?
Best infj video
--INFJ
Wenzes, have you ever checked out this INFJ's channel? ( Cognitive Personality Theory ) Just want to share in case you haven't. Love your videos by the way.
deep blessing l breath
Hey Wenze, Watch Sarah N tuned. I think she might be an INFJ. Defiantly OCD.
She read from a screep?
I was tested, took an exam with others in an auditorium at UALR in '90 and given some mumbo jumbo designation, still have the eval stashed away somewhere. I think it was myers briggs, creepy bastards. I refused to answer some questions I considered immoral. Discussed it with others there who felt the same as me. Why? Why the test?In the Navy during Nam this was referred to as psychological debriefing. My senior corpsman told me it was necessary so no animals were sent home. So black ops recruits at the campuses not merely at military training centers. During this time or thereabouts all that cocaine was going thru Mena which I knew nothing about. How many elite politico's were involved selling cocaine to send arms to central America to keep commies out of the Americas?
Amen 🙏🏻
So on all the actual population 150 000 INFJs' world wide.
Yep, and most of them would stay indoors, where you can never meet one another, if it were up to them. I understand, though: it's like, for every like minded person you also meet 50 who are far from like minded and will also make you realise in every possible way, you're not like them. Not ranting, by the way, because I'm an INFJ too: I'm actually INFP and I'm just here to say I understand. You guys are beautiful, though.
where's your math ?! 80 Million world wide. Or 3 Million in the US. Or in a small country of 7M would have around 70,000. Maybe 20,000 children, 20,000 elderly and maybe 30,000 of a mixture of male and female workers scattered over a thousand towns and cities. So about 30 in each town or city.
So now only 30 in a place is really very few.
@@muma6559 you do have a point. Interesting 🤔
I don't know why, but I have the impression that this video is generated by AI. 😅
That’s what I was thinking
Newcomers to the channel have been continually asking Wenzes to explain what INFJ actually is. This vid to me looks like a response to these requests.
I think most of the time Wenzes is just describing herself as "we", so what an INFJ objectively is had to be read from generative AI like this.
I think most of the time Wenzes is just describing herself when she says "we", so the objective definition of INFJ had to be sourced from generative AI.
sub-contracting for a source?
INFJs also have similar body shape