Nope, if my husband asked for a paternity test, there would be no reason for us to be married. The trust would be gone from my side. I can't be married to someone that would believe I would do such a thing. If there is no trust in a marriage , it's nothing. If he didn't trust me, there would be no reason for me to be in his life.
Honestly if my spouse asks me for DNA test, I would give it to him but with divorce papers too, stating: “Once you asked for it. Consider this as the end!” After all, the moment he asks for the test, that’s when the relationship finally cracks and breaks into pieces, no point of fixing them together!
Wait, not only tested while she was pregnant but also AFTER? Nope. Kick that guy to the curb, this isn’t going to go away- it will be every child, every issue his insecure self has, it will be forever.
If my husband asked for a paternity test, I would have agreed but plan for a divorce. I would not be married to someone who questioned my character. I would greatly distance myself from him and his family. Ever when the result says it his child, the damage is done. The trust is gone. I wouldn’t let him be near me during the pregnancy and delivery. Even if he begs me to stay and promise to never question me again. I will cut ties with anyone who try to make me stay with him.
I would give him results along with divorce papers. If there’s no trust, there’s no family. Someone else’s infidelity isn’t a reason to doubt your own family.
OP has excused her own husband’s betrayal of trust… I would not have accepted it. Frankly, MIL needed her own consequences for spinning up everyone and creating mistreatment among OP and her husband for no reason. If OP worked and had family, she should have left for a while and 😢levied her own justice …even if they got together later, she should have forced longer therapy than just a few months. There is something wrong when a husband who had no evidence of betrayal would believe mommy and brother over wife. I am sure the questioning and DNA test ruined OP’s community relationships and friendships… the husband got off too easily for HIS betrayal….
I don't know that its about trust as a large amount of men have been raising or paying support that dna tests proved were not theirs. Really should be done prior to a man signing the birth certificate as a law. That way its just the law, not about trust.
When your partner has given you ZERO reason to doubt her integrity- yeah, nah. You treat a loyal partner like that, you are too insecure to BE a partner.
Just because his brother's wife had an affair doesn't mean he should accuse his wife.
Nope, if my husband asked for a paternity test, there would be no reason for us to be married. The trust would be gone from my side. I can't be married to someone that would believe I would do such a thing. If there is no trust in a marriage , it's nothing. If he didn't trust me, there would be no reason for me to be in his life.
I told mine that we can get it done at any point because it's not about trust or not.
If you think that way you might as well get a divorce
Depending in which countries, Paternity Fraud happens in almost 1 of 3 pregnancies. So yes, men nowadays have to protect themselves.
Honestly if my spouse asks me for DNA test, I would give it to him but with divorce papers too, stating: “Once you asked for it. Consider this as the end!” After all, the moment he asks for the test, that’s when the relationship finally cracks and breaks into pieces, no point of fixing them together!
Not once but TWICE in this story- nope. You’re done, mate, begone.
Wait, not only tested while she was pregnant but also AFTER? Nope. Kick that guy to the curb, this isn’t going to go away- it will be every child, every issue his insecure self has, it will be forever.
If my husband asked for a paternity test, I would have agreed but plan for a divorce. I would not be married to someone who questioned my character. I would greatly distance myself from him and his family. Ever when the result says it his child, the damage is done. The trust is gone. I wouldn’t let him be near me during the pregnancy and delivery. Even if he begs me to stay and promise to never question me again. I will cut ties with anyone who try to make me stay with him.
If my husband had put me through that l would have walked away from him and raise my child by myself
6:50 It’s very possible for blue-eyed parents to have a baby with brown eyes.
I would give him results along with divorce papers. If there’s no trust, there’s no family. Someone else’s infidelity isn’t a reason to doubt your own family.
OP has excused her own husband’s betrayal of trust… I would not have accepted it. Frankly, MIL needed her own consequences for spinning up everyone and creating mistreatment among OP and her husband for no reason. If OP worked and had family, she should have left for a while and 😢levied her own justice …even if they got together later, she should have forced longer therapy than just a few months. There is something wrong when a husband who had no evidence of betrayal would believe mommy and brother over wife. I am sure the questioning and DNA test ruined OP’s community relationships and friendships… the husband got off too easily for HIS betrayal….
Nope definitely not i would do his test then hand him divorce
Paternity test equals no trust ... no trust equals no marriage
6:49 neither of them have blue eyes.
Uhh babies are born with blue eyes either dark blue or light blue but still blue
Not all babies 1 in 5 are born with blue eyes
I don't know that its about trust as a large amount of men have been raising or paying support that dna tests proved were not theirs. Really should be done prior to a man signing the birth certificate as a law. That way its just the law, not about trust.
Trust, but verify!
Always trust but verify
Doubting spouse over inlaw drama is no excuse
@@samanthagardstein3543That's not how reality works especially not in the well enough today
When your partner has given you ZERO reason to doubt her integrity- yeah, nah. You treat a loyal partner like that, you are too insecure to BE a partner.
What rubbish. No woman with anything about them would not forgive a husband didn't trust me. What rubbish.
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