I Shouldn't Have HURT My MOM | Gaur Gopal Das
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- Gaur Gopal Das shares a very touching story of judging his Mom wrongly without understanding the actual situation and makes an appeal that all of us understand more before we open our mouths.
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About Gaur Gopal Das
Gaur Gopal Das is an Electrical Engineer, having studied at the College Of Engineering, Pune. He has been speaking at various prestigious academic institutions and corporate firms in India and abroad for over 2 decades and has even spoken at the United Nations & British Parliament. He has spoken at many charity events to raise funds for social initiatives in the field of education and rural development. His motivational videos are viral having reached around 1 Billion views. With over 13 million followers across all social media platforms, he is known as the urban, online monk.
He has been the recipient of several awards including the most prestigious Dadasaheb Phalke International Film Festival award, Lokmat’s most stylish international life coach award, an Honorary Doctorate by KIIT university and many more in recognition of the work he has been doing. Based on the timeless wisdom coming down from ages, his talks make the audience think deeper and find simple solutions to difficult problems.
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Your mom and dad are 2 biggest gems in the universe don't make them sad when they are with u
His Dad has gone before some years ago... Sorry Brother.. Thought to inform you
Serving parents and taking care of parents in their old age is serving the god...
wonderful ☺️
Yes serving parents who gave birth to us is our primary duty.leaving them to fend for them selves in their old age and taking Sanyas and preaching other people is foolishness. One has to complete ones duty and responsibilities .
What if he was soilder...what if he done any crime and now he is in the jail...what he became terriost...and what he has job in other country...
@@pradipkapadiya8229 even Lord Ram said in this entire universe the greatest thing among all is serving parents
@@pradipkapadiya8229
Listen kid it seems that you never chant hare Krishna mahamantra that's why you are so eager to debate
Well in balmiki Ramayana Lord ram said to laxman to respect indrajeet because he came there to fight for his father which is ultimate thing which even good respects
I have 3 sons. 2 sons are married. No support of any kind from both. I did my part , holding on to them in a bitter divorce . When they grow up n have their own family, I am not wanted. Sad. But my blessings are with them. They have their reasons for not being there for me. I never sigh at their negligence . Happy to say, my youngest is always there for me. I am 67 years. I feel blessed , at least 1 son is beside me. Yesterday was Mother's Day , I asked my son, what do you like the most abt me, he was lost of words. He said, "You are undecribable ma" you are the world to me" . There is nothing lack in you. The Best Best Mother in the world. Love you Mum".
I live to hear him say these words. Krishna is kind to me.
Lots of love to All from Singapore.
U r great having such a son
Idk but you are lucky you have even one child beside you. Selfish parents who put their children through the misery of a divorce are the most irresponsible.
@@naarad_muni9440 she clearly said it was a bitter divorce, she would have held on if it was bearable, please do not judge her or anyone without knowing the whole story. :)
Take care.
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@@naarad_muni9440 please watch the video again . Repeat mode ...let the message sink in.
Please if you are far atleast talk to your parents once in a while it means a lot this is karma what you do to your parents will be seen by you. Thanks amma u have one lovely son May God give him more strength
I made my mom cry,I hurted her and she is not with me and my age is just 14.Moral-plz pls plz dont ever hurt ur mom😭
What happened ?
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What happened to her?
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Sry bro...
Najane kitni br maa ka dil dukhate hn hum...hmara gussa..nakhre...sbke bavjud b kitna pyaar krti hn maa❤
Aap dukhate honge... Hum to nahi dukhate..
Shut up
Because mom is God ❤️
My dad is suffering from Parkinson's for the last 25 years. I can understand how much mobility is required for such patients. And I can totally relate to your mom and why she's being so stiff in her decision.
30 minutes back, I behaved very rudely at my mother, as she didn't take my guitar playing vedio properly tomorrow I will say sorry to her, dear Guru ji, if I saw this vedio I wouldn't do that, anyway ur vedio given a slap on me.....what a coincidence, u taught me at right time... Thank you very much , pranaam.....
I have been in a situation where I misunderstood my mom and I regret those things ... But things are much better between us and guess what ? My mom is my best buddy , she is my mentor as well as my bff , we are each other's backbone and I love her more than any one else .... When Daughters understand their mother matlab samajh lo ki "Beti sayani ho gayi hai".... This is my anubhav ❤️
I was always rude and very bad kid . I was in medical school and I was very busy with my studies and work . I used to yell at my mom almost everyday . Especially before exams and when ever I get stressed .I was worse possible person to be with but my mother never complained or scolded me for my behaviour . She used to ask me to eat every now and then and cared whether I’m alright or not . In 2013 right before my med school graduation , my mom fell sick and she passed away. I couldn’t believe my eyes that she won’t come back home with me from hospital and she will no longer talk to me and I can no longer hold her . For years together even now I’m burdened with guilt that I would have atleast behaved properly with her . I feel without her nothing is important even this medical degree. She was precious unconditional love in my life which I didn’t realise when she was around me and I took her for granted that she won’t go any where. After she passed away I realised that parents are wonderful gift and they stay with us for very short time . I changed my behaviour and learned my lesson. It’s been 6 years and 4 months but I’m still carrying burden of guilt. Friends care for your parents before it’s too late . Once the time is gone and once they disappear they will never come back and they are the only people in this life time who love us unconditionally . I love you Amma. Miss you so much ...
Don’t feel bad
My son yells at me sometimes but I know he loves me
I’m sure your mom knew you loved her
@@skan5996 it's time to listen to women🙏
@@skan5996 @ Thank you ! 🙏 ...
I've hurted my mom very badly,i regret everyday why I did that, today she is no longer with us in this world,even at her last breath she was angry upon me,trust me guys never ever hurt anyone whom you value one day they'll be no longer in this world to say sorry.
True..
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I did something 42 years ago. My dad blamed my mum.and made her life a living hell until she died 3 years ago. My family constantly remi d me of what I did. The guilt is killing me
I can feel that😢😢
What A Voice Tone Gaur Gopal Das Ji Have ! Who Thinks The Same?
Gaur Gopal Das Lovers ,Like
Gaur Gopal Das followers ,like
DANS Official his voice n combo of music always feels me..in peace
@@JD-kq7ye You Are Right
@@JD-kq7ye do watch my videos as well
Great
Gaur Gopal Prabhuji's voice is always soothing 👍👍
I just can't explain what do i feel for my mother. She sacrificed a lot for us. An ordinary woman would have never thought of doing such a large thing for her children .My father is not such a strong and thoughtful man that he manage to do what other fathers do like having education for us whereas my mother did everything like taking loans and doing works for educating us in private school. I and my elder sister have done our 12th from cbse and now she is doing Bsc. And I am pursuing a noble course i.e. CA . Only one year is left for her graduation but the grievances have become intense . Now i always feel like giving up . But my mom ,still she encourages us and say 'Abhi tumlog itne me hi haar kaise maan skti ho'. Ab bas thode din aur hai
I did this to my brother for years😢 finally i realized. I swear to god I'll give him all the love that he deserve and haven't got for years
This story made me cry😢..My amma papa I started missing them😍
I have hurt my mother several times and now I have lost her and it makes me feel so bad to not able to sst things right or to say my sorry and Thank her for all that she did...I shall live with regret in my heart till the last breath breadth of my life...God please forgive me
Your eyes speaks more in this video ♥️
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*I GOT TEARS THINKING OF MY MOTHER AFTER HEARING OF THIS STORY AND PLEASE NEVER HURT YOUR PARENTS IN ANY WAY AND LET THEM TO LIVE PEACEFULLY LIFE LONG ! THATS GODS GIFT WE CAN GIVE THEM AS SONS AND DAUGHTERS !LOVING AND UNDERSTANDING OUR PARENTS OR ANY PARENTS IS NOTHING BUT LOVING GOD AND HUMANITY IN OUR SELVES!*
I can see Guruji holding his tears back😭
Am born Muslim. I don't know..... Why I love his talk so much..... He is the best motivation speaker for a young generation . Malaysia..... Please invite him
Luvv from India🇮🇳
I am also a muslim still loves him....what role religion has here?
You are a human first... Remember that
@Jai Hind I'm born as a human and this muslim rhetoric is bullshit... So I don't give a damn to your fanaticism
@Jai Hind listen emotional fool, your rhetorics are not new... You are a conditioned soul. From childhood, you are spoonfed to believe in an imaginary god and a self proclaimed prophet with no proofs whatsoever.
Your logic has ceased to exist so I don't want to waste my time any further
I'm neither a Hindu nor a muslim. I'm a human and I believe in facts rather than a 1400 years old book that is nothing more than a fairytale
Whole world is lucky is who have mother.....She give you immense pleasure and love to soul... She is great and no words can describe the feeling of mother cares and mother presence..
Respect our parents Never ever hurt our parents ❤️❤️❤️
Every one won't have such maturity of mind when things went wrong or badly
Nothing to say... no words, speechless.
Hare Krishna 🙌😇
Yes guruji. I felt the same situation in everyday of my life.
My mother said to me, 'If you are a soldier, you will become a general. If you are a monk, you will become the Pope.' Instead, I was a painter, and became Picasso.
-Pablo Picasso
according to me human being first karma towards its parents
... everything secondary ......how many of us from young generation agree ...l
hit like huys if agree
sakshi singh u are true....good to know that someone like u in my generation has a great heart...
@@prarthanapathak8100 thank u mam
True💜🙏
You're karma is you're making just because a human being come through you it doesn't mean he will stay with you or she/he is you're property...
Now in this valuable vedio I finally understand what is the actual meaning of maturity... maturity means to know when to apply our strong personality nd when to behave warmly softly ...I will practice this art in my life
God bless you
Mother is a real teacher, congratulation mother being a true strong teacher. Never never pamper the husband.
the way he speak....i must say its to relaxing
I have done the same mistake and today my Dear Mother is not here in this world.
How lucky the people are who have a Mother.
HIs voice truly has a divine touch
OUTSTANDING !!!!!IT TAKES A GREAT MAN TO REASON WHEN STRONG EMOTIONS ARE INVOLVED.
Hara krsna prabhu...
I dont know why all this happen to me everytime...but the good thing is that whatever situation i am going through everytime is excetly the types of the video you are making. .. ..by watching that i will be on same track again...
Thankyou a lot prabhu....
same here , really
@@kuldeeproy6887 oo really
It's our monks who help us understand how important decipline is and how often we ignore this fact.
0 Dislikes yet that shows the power of a Powerful message.
Nope some idiots r alive ... They prove it on dislike button
@@srishtyraj2299 43 out of 83k still a better world.
Jst being optimistic.
ur words just pushed some peoples to press on dislike buttons instead of like button..
@@srishtyraj2299 They are not idiots.. they are waiting for comments like urs.. in their mind they think what happens if they press dislike
@@rjworld.959 WTF, do u even a bit of a brain. Lol
You really change and bring glory to the lifes depressed guruji
I really enmotivate myself after watching ur preach sir.
My mind and soul are for Krishna consciousness
Jai Sri krishna
What a positive vibe this message brought me into tears !
Love you guruji...i have listen to most of motivational speech of many person's. ..but i get satisfied only with your speeches..u speak only that is in your heart...
Hrishikesh Mazumder 💝
Every time you speaks you change our mind towards good thing.. Keep motivating us guruji
I agree with you. I had done my parents wrong and I regretted it today. Thanks to you.
Same thing happened with my dad.. parkinsons..and all the problems...dr said the same things to us and we had been taking care of these things..
Missing you dad..
ಈ ಸಂದರ್ಭ ಕೇಳಿ ಕಣ್ಣಲ್ಲಿ ನೀರು ಬರುತ್ತಿತ್ತು 😱😱
Yesterday I spent a lot of time thinking about what is right and what is wrong. To my surprise, I get the answer right after I wake up.
- Thanks Guruji 🙏
Listening to gaur gopal das ji is like floating on water under the fresh blue sky☺.
How much love & caring is behind our mother's anger, we can't understand. Even we can't understand that whenever she gets angry, that's also just for our goodness.
#very small but much meaningful word in the world : Maa 🙏
Very true..,rightly said
Wish every child can think the same way,😪
I was raised Catholic, but I love his inspirational stories. ❤️
Inspiration has nothing to do with religion
Mary J. Silva i am Hindu and every time when I cross passes the church I do pray because it’s not about religion it’s about who you are for me doesn’t matter who we pray we pray to the god only one word God
I see beauty in all faiths..♥️
@@amama8672 beatiful thought
Humanity (dharma) is the only thing that will matter...even religion doesn't stand a chance.sister.
💕Wonderful Sir..👌. You Say Right.😄😄
We Should respect our Mom..
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understand the feeling of others🌸🌸
Not second they r the first god
It's not about mom it's about understanding the situation of other person before saying something
Sri ramakrishna math
Yes
Dhainabad 🙏🙂
hats off you sir, i always got tears when i hear your advices. may God bless you always. ❤❤❤
Mom is never wrong. Respect your MoM😀🤞
Mom is always Right
That's not the case always🙄
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U r truly immature .... Meet my mom
That's what we do almost every day sometimes without realising it,.
A new morning and a new lesson. Thank you sir 🙏
Thank you so much.... I am someone like this....have judge my mother like this.... Now my mother passed in January 2020....and is now seeing she was my best friend..
its 100% true and i was in this same situation my mother say to my dad always thow he is getting his pension please don’t sit simply u try to do your work yourself don’t beyond other says to maintain his health better and now i miss mother
Guru ji be Frankly I'm saying, i have been watching your videos since 5months for learning english as well as moral thoughts. Thank you a lots guru ji. Jai shree ram
Me tooo sir ji
Touching video sir ..🙏thx for sharing
Lots of love nd respect to u respected Sir..
It really made me realize my mistakes my faults.... And how actually how we should behave to our Dear Mother . And understanding my mom's intenstion.... Thank you so much sir🙏
Very emotional..😭😭
Nothing is greater than mother love I love my mom🤗great lesson sir👌
There are many times when we hurry to understand
Beyond Religion or such stuff..zhe talks Humanity with universal truth & appeal...his talks impress young n old alike..learning to the former and reassurance to the latter! Great service to all regarding Life & Living!!
Guruji you made me emotional.. a lot 😥
what an speech guruji itz perfctly right before questioning why we should try to know what actually it was for very well said sir
very positive and very motivating and the respect towarfs the parents 👌👌👌🙏🙏🙏🙏
Good morning .... ☺️
You are a source of motivation for me ☺️
Right
There are lots of motivational coaches all across the world but you are totally different from them,
I can't help but get lost in your voice your words. Hats off to such personality
Radhe Radhe
I recognize this. My husband also cannot walk due to illness. I also do these actions with pain in my heart. And I also explained this to my child
I am a Christian still I'm very much motivated and inspired by your words and thoughts.. thankyou Guru ji. .you are really great. .with all its love and respect. .
Converted cristion ex hindu
God bless you..Ameen
U are making many changes in our lives with ur preachings sir. Great full to you 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Yes, I have been in such situations many many times!
Gaur Gopal Ji's speech makes me speechless.You are really blessed
You are a source of motivation for me. My mom passed away 2 months ago and I would always be angry when she doesn't help me out. Now I realised that she wanted me to be Independent n move around myself since I'm having problem with my legs. Im in tears after watching this video. 😪
She wants you to be strong and happy. That's all she wants.
Pranam Guruji Thank you for such a beautiful Lesson .
The purest 5 minute of my entire life💫❤
Thank you, so humbling. So much love in your words. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Amazing voice sir. Really while watching ur videos am fully motivated
Yes you said very correctly that without understanding the situation we argue to parents .
Thankyou prji!!
HK!!!
Beautiful!! Thank you for these wonderful thoughts.
Mothers are often misunderstood but the truth will prevail.
Thanks prabhu. for this beautiful massage. ❤🍀
Today I made my mother cry just because she always think about us and never did anything for herself. Did I do wrong? ?
Yes ! You Did
No , you didn't wrong but she cried that's sad
@@SakshiYadav-lj3ib I agree with you
No you did not do anything wrong. Mother is only living God
Hare Krishna Prabhu ji..
Great your father and your mother and also you awesome story i appreciate your speech Prabhu ji hare Krishna.
Thought provoking story! Thanks for sharing!
You are such a nice person. I always follow you...now I m going through very critical situation but facing them to get a better future.
You are my inspiration.
Thank you for this video! It's so moving!
All ur stories touch my 💙 thank u & all moms r pure love ❣️💙
Listening your voice and speech really makes me think about our actions towards others guruji ..thank you ☺
Salute to ur parents who gave you birth.... your videos are helping alot of people who struggling on daily basis.....thank you so much GOPAL DAS
U shd have looked after her and him too.not only understand but be there for parents too.
Idiot do you know what being a Sanyasi means? You are idiot Tamil Virumbi, now get lost
kitna acha explain kiya...to rethink before judging anyone ,to have a mature decision ..be it strong or gentle on someone's part..as in the end WELFARE IS MORE IMPORTANT
Early morning this is so refreshing ❤️❤️
Hii
Here is vividly a diversity between good n evil with dad caring themselves at d eleventh hour n a departing roles to d end of life except hurting mom..I also made her not to hurt,positive roles towards caring...welcome with gentle care..
I hurt my mother,after hurting I felt regret and I vow myself not to hurt next time.But, my mind become moody when morning comes.why this happen I don't know...
It's hardest to hurt the first time and then it becomes a habit. So be aware.
Just remember she deserves the world and plz be kind to her she has alot to take
I right now can connect it coz my mother held my father when he was ill I was unable to see my father's helplessness but my mother held him till his last breadth. He is no more now but really I feel so blessed to have a courageous Mom........long live my mother,please God bless her with good health and happiness.
I can relate being bedridden having no one to care for me
but when someone came into my life despite seeing how I be started to care for me cook for me even fed me when I couldn't help myself help lift me up and down stairs
eventually I started to push them away cause I was becoming too dependant on them
I will burn myself while trying to help myself others thought I being lazy and using the person
I honestly was not faking
I could of bearly walk sometimes fall down
in their absence it is very challenging to help myself
but eventually I try to get up move around
they will even ask me to come meet them which seems so impossible most times
despite being far away they indirectly try to get me out of bed
trying to help yourself helps one feel better
physically and mentally
Sir you are leading our country as vishvaguru
We teenagers mostly face this situations... Our parents always scold us and we think they are our enemy and we think our parents love to scold us but that's not the truth... I'm sure we all will realise this when we will became a parent 😊😊
Yes.. well said 👍
very true
Amit singh Y E S......Sir u r absolutely correct without any doubts
U told the excellent truth bro thank u bro I WISH U ALL THE BEST FOR UR FUTURE LIFE
Cried today man. These emotions kills
Today I'm still having a hope in my life. Because of this wise man
This is something which striked the mind and heart at the same time...nd also gave a precious lesson
Mom is never wrong she always taught us to go on a right path.After marriage I remember each and every words said by her.I miss u and I love u a lot Mom
You are Best guru je ❤ your words are heart touching and it helps Many people to forgot his/her bad things you are best one guru jee