How I Met Michell - Philippines Expat

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  • Here I recount how I met Michell even before moving to the Philippines. As of 7/15, we've known each other for three years!
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    This channel is an attempt to chronicle my life and adventures since arriving in the Republic of the Philippines on November 26, 2013. This is my first time taking video and editing, so please bear with the process. Hopefully, I will get better over time!! I hope you enjoy the videos and get something out of them. More episodes will be arriving over time so subscribe if you want to receive updates. Also be sure to check out our website over at www.myphilippinedreams.com
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  • @arthurleino
    @arthurleino 9 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I met my asawa while on Detachment to Cubi Point 1988. Since my squadron was on USS Midway, we could see each other a lot. I was Station Dito 1989-92. Got married August 11,1990. Now this August 25 years of Marriage, and 3 daughters!

  • @wickedtexan
    @wickedtexan 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    filipina's are very sweet, humble, and loving women. my GF is filipina, I've just spent 3 weeks her, going back in a couple of months, she is the best thing to happen to me.

  • @garrylewis9226
    @garrylewis9226 9 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Filipino women are very loving, loyal, sweet, caring, amazing, they treat their men with great respect, i am truly humbled. I in turn will do the same for her, love my Filipino sweetheart . Best thing that has ever happened to me.

    • @yunsuco3645
      @yunsuco3645 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah

    • @marianhajduk6572
      @marianhajduk6572 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry,I've press ''don't like by mistake....have Filipino wife and she is amazing...I've met her in HongKong...

  • @josephshatrowsky6262
    @josephshatrowsky6262 9 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I have also met my filipina on a dating site. I'm only 26 so I don't have the finances to live there. I'm trying to get a fiancee visa. We've known each other for 8 months and I just got back from the Philippines last week. She truly is the sweetest girl I've met, always there for me. I caught pneumonia within the first few days of my vacation and without her I would've suffered so much more. I met her entire family and treated the kids and they all love me. Hearing your problems with jealousy made me laugh.... we deal with the exact same thing. Living across the world ain't easy. It's already hard that you come from different cultures and sometimes there is a misunderstanding. Like when I make a joke that she finds offensive but would be funny to an American. In the end, it's hard work, but it's very rewarding. I can't wait to go back to the Philippines again next year.

    • @LiftOffLife
      @LiftOffLife 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      DO NOT IMPORT ANY ASIAN LADY INTO A WESTERN COUNTRY as the feminists will turn her and its byeeeeeeee!

    • @stewartmcjinnon6034
      @stewartmcjinnon6034 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LiftOffLife ... I hear that advice a lot. Not sure I buy it though.

    • @LiftOffLife
      @LiftOffLife 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@stewartmcjinnon6034
      Try it at your peril.

    • @stewartmcjinnon6034
      @stewartmcjinnon6034 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LiftOffLife ...no, I don't plan to. I find Filipina really boring. I think I am over women period.

    • @stewartmcjinnon6034
      @stewartmcjinnon6034 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LiftOffLife ... my point is that it can be fulfilling to see your woman grow once you take her out of her mentally suppressive environment. The church has I strong grip over a woman. They abuse her loyalty and trust. Perhaps keeping her down is what most guys aspire to.

  • @luckythumper1
    @luckythumper1 10 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I actually met Weng on the old myspace .We were friends for nearly 3 years before we met in person. We were engaged in 2012 and then married in December of 2013. We too used YM to stay in contact. We use FB, Viber and , Skype on phones for constant contact now until I return to Philippines in October. I think it's odd that everyone in USA just assumes our plans are to Live in USA but, actually we are laying foundations of our plan to remain in Philippines

    • @PhilippineDreams
      @PhilippineDreams  10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow - MySpace!! Yeah, I have no intention of going back to live in the US either. Maybe later on if health or kids education becomes an issue.

  • @PhilippineDreams
    @PhilippineDreams  10 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    A number of viewers have been asking how Michell and I met. They've also been asking me to quit incessantly rambling on, but that's a whole nuther video. Please excuse the rooster and wind noises - the GoPro doesn't have the best audio quality. We'll be talking more about East/West relationships in future videos. Enjoy!

    • @petermartin7379
      @petermartin7379 10 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sorry mate i dont think u are right on this one ok as i have the best filipina wife god has made and will ever will make ...sorry lol

    • @PhilippineDreams
      @PhilippineDreams  10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh, man....... Michell is gonna be devastated... :)

    • @BushmanCanuck
      @BushmanCanuck 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey Kuya!
      google wind noise fixes for gopro...ive been to lazy to implement them...basicly you can use an external mic with a big fuzzy thing on it or put a big fuzzy thing on your go pro mic...if that makes any sense haha.

    • @PhilippineDreams
      @PhilippineDreams  10 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bushman Canuck Yeah, they are called deadcats or sumthin like that. We shot this right in the middle of those windstorms that we recently had. Not a smart move by any means. Then again, at least it drowned out my droning for a bit.

    • @LightsGuard
      @LightsGuard 10 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Philippine Dreams I wish that I never watched this because now I can't get off of DateInAsia.com I love the culture there and am definitely going to do a trip sometime! Thanks for the inspiration from you guys, very beautiful couple.

  • @garrylewis9226
    @garrylewis9226 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sounds like how me and Loritess met, only i friended her on Face book and over two years later of skyping and chatting on private chat on Face Book and exchanging photo's of each other and our family's the relationship grew till , i finally decided i wanted to travel to Philippines and meet her , spent almost 30 days with her , met her family went on Beach trips with her and her family, i found myself so comfortable with her and her family who accepted me and welcomed me right away , as they had also met me over the two year period on face book , but when i actually came all the way there to meet her any doubts they had about me were out the window. They knew then my feelings for their daughter was very sincere and were thrilled for us. So needless to say i fell in love with Iloilo city as well and have now decided to return in the Spring and stay with her in the Philippines. And we are planning our lives together. Their strong Catholics we went to Sunday Mass every Sunday , i got to meet one of her Ministers at service he spoke better English then me LOL and translated his sermon in English as well. So just had a really great time and loved Iloilo city. I love you and Michelle's video's very much and i'm very happy for you both Ned. Thank you for all the good advice and tips as well.

  • @ldayhuff
    @ldayhuff 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Good Luck to you both....my wife is from Sorsogon.We got married almost 5 yrs ago there, Life is great.....

  • @Hairyskinback
    @Hairyskinback 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I met my Jenepher online in international cupid on 18th April 2011. She was the 2nd person I messaged and after messaging back and forth that day I went back to the first person and told them that I had found someone special and not being a player I wished them luck. From that day we skyped everyday for 1-3 hours depending on her work schedule and did so for 2 years.
    I had a longterm health issue is the main reason it took so long but on May 5th 2013 I came to Santa Rosa City Laguna and set up home in Bel Air 1 laguna. We spent 1 year there and then moved to bel air 2 for like half the rent of my first place and so far we have been together now nearly 2.5 years.
    For a guy that was an agoraphobic for nearly 10 years I know how much I lucked out as she is beautiful inside and out and so hard working as we work to build a real estate business this last year. Hoping in 2016 that we will finally marry for more than 1 reason lol.My one tip would be to park your western ideas at the door and learn to embrace the people and their sometimes frustrating ways because in the end you will be so much happier. I am 48 and my Jenny is 31.

  • @patrickmountian5909
    @patrickmountian5909 10 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The story of how two people out of billions in the world and who got to meet and fall in love ....................
    Why is there not more of this in the world today ?
    Good luck to you both....... and yes well all love Michele shes so pretty........... Ned you be good to her man ok !

    • @PhilippineDreams
      @PhilippineDreams  10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We are good for each other. Like I said, I REALLY lucked out.

  • @davido8639
    @davido8639 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I also met my wife on DIA in July 2012. We are married now and living in my home in Hawaii. I saw her picture on DIA and knew I had to meet her. You guys look like such a cute couple. My wife is also from Cebu. Keep up the good work. We have several videos here on Facebook you can check check them out. God Bless

  • @kennyrainsu252
    @kennyrainsu252 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice history of how you two met,I met my filipina wife online in oct.2011 and by june 2012 i was on a plane to Davao City Philippines..we got married here in America in sept of 2013 and it has been the best expierience of my life..

    • @PhilippineDreams
      @PhilippineDreams  10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks, Kenny. I will be going to Davao during my Mindanoa motorcycle tour. Continued happiness to you both!

    • @kennyrainsu252
      @kennyrainsu252 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Im not kidding ,one Sunday mornng in Davao i was haveing breakfast on a 3rd story resto and looked down to see a big sweet looking tour bus rv with a banner on the side reading sunday riding club.All these guys were riding Harley Davidson dressed up bikes.I looked at my wife and said ....Nooooooo waaaaaaaaaay!ahhahhh

  • @richardboudville5188
    @richardboudville5188 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Best wishes to both of you Michell and Ned may your love for each other grow stronger and happier day by day. At least you two can communicate with Michell's English pretty good and a less age gap from so many other American/Phillipine couples I see. My wife and I are 40 years married in Perth, Western Australia.

  • @christopherorourke6362
    @christopherorourke6362 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    You did the right thing, you went to the Philippines, and met a
    wonderful Filipina. I'm a widower of Irish-Norwegion ancestery
    that was married 31 years to a wonderful Filipina from Cavite City.
    We had 3 children. I will only date Filipina women, I'm almost 61
    and the Filipina I am seeking is between 47 & 58 years of age.
    I am planning to return to the Philippines in 4 years and live out
    the rest of my life there where my heart is.

  • @ChemicalOly
    @ChemicalOly 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I met my wife on a dating site as well but we both live in the UK. She is Filipino too and we were married just 8 months later. I'm heading to the Philippines in March to see her country for the first time which I know I'll love. She's originally from central Luzon but went to uni in Manila. Hoping to see Palawan while I'm there for some sun and beaches haha!

  • @squin2123
    @squin2123 9 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Michell is beautiful like my fiancé. Our stories are very similar. She too went on a trip for 4 days after I emailed her a beautiful letter. But when she came back we hit it off. Skype is a great thing. We spend hours talking. We have a LDR me US her PH. I like your romance. Nice to watch. Get down on your knee before someone steals her away!!!!!

  • @gheerock4077
    @gheerock4077 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    you are a lucky dude, you found a good woman for you...She seems legit and honest.

  • @lesmorosi
    @lesmorosi 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    I met my Cebuana wife via A Foreign Affair in Jan 2013; first met her in person and got engaged 4 months later in May; she arrived here in California in March 2014; then we were married in Las Vegas the next month on April 2.

  • @mikemikie8312
    @mikemikie8312 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    wow such a lovely video, you fell inlove with each other ,how come your not together now .so sad you both look so happy together .

  • @johnerikson828
    @johnerikson828 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I married a Filipino woman from Bohol. She lives here in North Carolina with me in America now. We both are happy !

  • @myrnaemmiles1973
    @myrnaemmiles1973 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    nice couple, now my partner was inspired to move to Philippines in 4 to 5 years from now..thanks for sharing....

  • @arlenecalandria1546
    @arlenecalandria1546 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You folks are funny together! Seems like a good fit.

  • @f1senna4ever88
    @f1senna4ever88 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I met my beautiful Philippine girl on DIA nearly a month ago. She sent me a interested notification, and it has taken off like a rocket. We have already fallen in love, and I will soon be coming over to meet her. Great video as always Ned and Michell

    • @PhilippineDreams
      @PhilippineDreams  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +F1SENNA 4EVER Slow and steady wins the race, brother. Take it slow.

    • @f1senna4ever88
      @f1senna4ever88 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's between 6 to 12 months until I am there, so I guess it's not that "soon". Salamat for the advice

  • @cpttuttle2007
    @cpttuttle2007 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    is there a video for the break-up?

  • @wasteoftimer
    @wasteoftimer 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was your BEST vid ever!!!! Michell was in every minute of it. LOL

  • @JOHNDT4
    @JOHNDT4 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Still wish I knew what happened to end this even though it’s not my beeswax. I’m just curious. Sorry man

  • @theoriginalunderdog8634
    @theoriginalunderdog8634 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    The mundane stories are sometimes the best. I met my girl thru a friend of mine. He went to the philippines, to meet a girl, at her friend asked him, if he had any friends that would want to correspond with her, and he gave her my number. And we've known each other now for 3 years, been over and visited her once, had some setbacks, but I'm on my way to saving up again, this time, it will be to propose :-).

  • @TheHypogriphQc
    @TheHypogriphQc 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have met a girl from the Philippines on Minecraft and spoke a lot, shared a couples of opinions then we listened to some music together and I felt a feeling I only felt when I was young and innocent. Some memory tissues reconnected and I became filled with love. After a couple of days talking to her I realized she is the girl of my life. All I want to do now is make her happy the way she want. But I need to change my ways of seeing things.
    I love Filipinos because they are real people.

    • @TADIWHITE
      @TADIWHITE 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      TheHypogriphQc although it’s possible to fall in love quickly you need to spend some time letting the relationship bake to see what direction it goes.
      That’s true in any relationship. Go with the flow so you can let things settle a bit and see where the river flows....

  • @marianhajduk6572
    @marianhajduk6572 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All the best for you....I've meet my Love in HongKong....my Filipino Love and wife....

  • @emecitacabacang2944
    @emecitacabacang2944 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice love story guys,Ned be good to her ,she is a smart girl &kind.Good luck to you both!

  • @rayweatherill7143
    @rayweatherill7143 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    i have talked to a lot of filipino girls for 5 years allways as friends met a girl from manila 4 months ago very nice and going in a weeks time to meet just shows you can talk to others years but allways a special one

  • @gabriellehansen2091
    @gabriellehansen2091 10 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    such a sweet couple. God Bless

  • @fredricklocklear2551
    @fredricklocklear2551 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankz Ned and Michell. I also have meet a girl from there through facebook. We love each other. Ur story has inspired me to do all I can to bring us together. Keep up the videos.

  • @willhart6110
    @willhart6110 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am watchin all your stuff and lifebeyondthe sea cuz I have a ticket to the PI on Sept. 16, its very real...three weeks away.

    • @Ready72000
      @Ready72000 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Will Hart How was your trip?

  • @trinibwoyjr
    @trinibwoyjr 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your story. I have a similar story. Met a great girl on FC three years ago. We are planning to get married in October. I wish you all the best.

  • @michaelrivera5831
    @michaelrivera5831 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Ned and Michell, thank you for telling your story. Actually, I wish it was a bit mushier. I am a romantic at heart. I've been with my filipina girlfriend going on 5 years now. I really need to retire and get over there. We've been all over the Philippines and I am finally sending her to school, a two year trade college, and she is almost finished. She'll be graduating in May 2015, so really looking forward to it. I know you probably get tired of hearing this but Michell really is a cutie. Now that all these people subscribe to your channel you better not let her go, even for a day or two else you'll have a lot of guys moving in on your action, hehe.

    • @PhilippineDreams
      @PhilippineDreams  10 ปีที่แล้ว

      Michael Rivera I have a bolo. Bwahahaaha!!! Thanks, Mike and good luck!!

  • @ronaeasyhomecookingchannel5325
    @ronaeasyhomecookingchannel5325 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    You two have a great love story same with my fiancee..where planning to get married early next year..and stay in Philippines.. But but..he never go to Philippines to meet me..he go to Singapore to see me..and really I feel oh we both feel nervous the first time we meet..will wish you all the best.

  • @MGreen-vz6yb
    @MGreen-vz6yb 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ned, You guys are the best on TH-cam! You're both very lucky to have each other.

  • @villaverandwhite
    @villaverandwhite 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey my friend DONT feel bad about admitting that you used a dating site!
    Website dating sites are now the 5th most used method of drumming up a date world-wide!
    The Philippines has the highest concentration of good looking women of any country Ive been to and Im well travelled!
    Long dark hair, great skin, gorgeous eyes and dimples is pretty much standard on all models there.
    I wish the pair of you well!
    Thanks for posting!
    ps, I also love the Toyota Fortuner. Its basically a Hilux with a people carrier body and I think, one of the best value 4x4s in the world.

    • @PhilippineDreams
      @PhilippineDreams  10 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks, man. DIA just has a bad reputation when it comes wot certain things.

    • @johnnypastrana6727
      @johnnypastrana6727 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Philippine Dreams
      I met two nice women on Date In Asia in Cebu so I give it high marks. It depends on the people involved IMO and obviously there are some diamonds on there.

  • @adrianh255
    @adrianh255 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Ned & Michell, great video, I meet Connie on filipinocupid, back in Oct 2013 I am thinking maybe in the future living in the Philippines too, keep up the good work with the video

  • @stevenhardy2898
    @stevenhardy2898 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Whether they are pretty or not pretty, most Filipina girls I have met in the Philippines are just plain refreshing and pleasant to be around.

  • @joannabrooks2697
    @joannabrooks2697 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi very nice story guys! I'm also a filipina that married to American guy last month. We love your story😊👍

  • @charlesmcfarland623
    @charlesmcfarland623 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    well,not bad at all......it is wonderful weather humid but i love the state.since ive been here 3 yrs...love it the beach.my bf he was from atlanta city but he lived here almost 32 years at florida.he told me how the florida developed the roads and highways.only few people around here since he was moved.well, probably 10 yrs. from now it is like a new big city.most of our neighbors are from canada.
    fun driving here since i knew to drive.wew!

  • @TheEagermaniac
    @TheEagermaniac 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kumusta Michell and Ned. My story is similar but not exactly the same. I am enjoying your videos and didn't realise you had do many. I will have to watch them in order so I don't get confused. I also met my girlfriend on the Date In Asia website and spent a lot of time talking and learning about the Philippines until one day I saw a profile and knew she was the one for me. We are doing the long distance dating thing until we can arrange to be together peramently but luckily do not have major trust issues. There is a large pinoy community where I live in Australia which makes all of it a lot easier with their support and friendship. I felt excited and encouraged after watching this video as I realised the sacrifices now will be well worth a future of happiness

  • @grantpratt5356
    @grantpratt5356 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh dear . How life changes

  • @edfarlinger5915
    @edfarlinger5915 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are right ,she is smart and really cute. Great combination.

    • @mitzha12
      @mitzha12 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks.. :)

  • @belindasmith4690
    @belindasmith4690 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Enjoyed this much. Good luck to both of u and Michell. I'm a Pinay too married to an American and live in D.C... Keep up with your videos?

  • @curlyhoward5426
    @curlyhoward5426 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Funny. I met Rica on DIA 3 weeks ago. We met in person in Robinsons 2 weeks ago, I asked her the next day to move in with me, she agreed, and today its been 2 weeks in heaven. Zamboanga girls RULE!

  • @davecirelli2902
    @davecirelli2902 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    nice video. i think the draw to the filipinas in addition to their natural beauty is simplicity. to quote leonardo da vinci, "Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication." by the way, i'm also a bostonian, grew up in winthrop and also lived in wilmington.

  • @akllera
    @akllera 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sounds a lot like my wife and me. :) Chatted for 6 months, Jealousy issue, Jet flight, only dated one girl, and now she's all mine. LOL But it's true you have to go through many profiles before you find one that clicks.

    • @PhilippineDreams
      @PhilippineDreams  10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Andrew Llera The jealousy stuff can get a wee bit extreme here. We're gonna do a video on it at some point.

  • @aussieforeignerinphilippin1158
    @aussieforeignerinphilippin1158 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guy's were simply made for each other, great to see.

  • @maritess5877
    @maritess5877 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Ned and Michelle,
    How are you guys doing? Notice that Michelle don't shy out at all, on telling her side of the story.
    She seems to be into you. Any future plans? My husband and I was here last october on vacation for a
    Month, and he really loved it.

    • @PhilippineDreams
      @PhilippineDreams  10 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maritess Webster Michell is no shrinking violet. :) No plans just yet, but who knows what the future might hold!

  • @usaforever1172
    @usaforever1172 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just found your videos. ...Thank You for your sharing of experience. ... I met My fiance in January 2012 went for vist in February 2013 I knew when I saw her she would be my wife. B4 meeting her parents that day...I bought engagement ring....spent 3wks together.
    We flew to davo and stayed on samal island. then went back over to dumaguete for 2wks and went to amlan to spend time with family.
    I will be back 2nd wk of October 2014 in dumaguete for 2wks.....then she will come to New Mexico in June 2015 to be married.
    Again Thank You

    • @PhilippineDreams
      @PhilippineDreams  10 ปีที่แล้ว

      Usa Forever Sure,man. And good luck to you both!

  • @pedroblabla7734
    @pedroblabla7734 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    and now i hear your engaged to be married...good job ned and michell...congrats

  • @richcaise1788
    @richcaise1788 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your story is so similar to Mine and my Fiance's that it's scary. We met on AsianDating.com on July 5th 2012. We did the Yahoo thing, then switched to Skype. Started with her in Cafe's, Roosters, Dogs, Tricycle's, etc. So many parts of your story mirror the relationship I have with my Filipina. I went to the Philippines to be with her from April 7th - April 19th 2014. So it took 18 months for us to meet in person. I just sent in the Petition for the K-1 Visa to the USCIS. Now we wait. Hopefully we will be together within the next 6 months. Both of us are very lucky men. If I knew many years ago what I know now, I would have looked for a Filipina a long, long time ago. They are the best companions any man could ever hope to find. Good Luck to the two of you. I know exactly how you feel Brother. Also our Filipina's look very similar as well. They could pass as sisters.

  • @leahley9542
    @leahley9542 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    hopefully long distance relationship like this works for me and my boyfriend :-)

  • @doomaster4
    @doomaster4 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My wife went thru the same phase of jealousy you went thru but got over it eventually.

  • @MBillCylle
    @MBillCylle 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I enjoyed your vlog, Ned, and our love story has similar aspects. Lerio and I met online at the same time as you and Michell, July/28/2012 on International Cupid, we chatted for many hours everyday on yahoo messenger and I flew to the Philippines that Dec and we were married 12/21/12.....Fantastic woman!! Lerio is sooo Lovely and Loving and she has two adorable children, Jullie and Jaymes! And by the way, Ned, I too am from New England, I grew up in Maine. Best luck to you and Michell!

    • @PhilippineDreams
      @PhilippineDreams  10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Donald Libby Ah, a fellow Maine-iac. I lived up near Sanford for some time. And before I came here, we took a trip up to Acadia - BEAUTIFUL place! Congratulations on your marriage and to your new family. :)

    • @MBillCylle
      @MBillCylle 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks, I grew up in Limington, but been to Sanford many times, Blessings to you and Michell.

  • @JamesArkansas2386
    @JamesArkansas2386 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    me and my wife had a crazy way of first meeting too, I saw her picture flash by as I was on a dating website, and I am 20 years older than her, long story short ,like you things worked out and we have been married 11 years now and i am from Arkansas we are buying a house in Bacolod City when we return in Oct. 2016

  • @SpectrumSurvivalist
    @SpectrumSurvivalist 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    No, trust me, she remembers, she just wants to see if you remember too. Don't read anything into it, I can tell by how she leans into your space everything is fine.

  • @zackfair5408
    @zackfair5408 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lovely couple. God bless.

  • @tomr9532
    @tomr9532 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love you and michelles videos..makes me laugh because i am also married to a filipina whos name is also michelle..i chuckle at everything you two say as think to myself been there done that..lol..you both seem wonderful..may it last forever..

  • @frankfalkland8638
    @frankfalkland8638 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hey you two are the best. my wife is from gingoog mindanao. the stuff you have been putting on youtube is great ....... sige salamat

  • @tedsiarkowski2859
    @tedsiarkowski2859 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ned, you are the man..ive been looking for a wonderful girl thats so compatible. ..Michelle is a real catch...your a lucky man

  • @tampawakos
    @tampawakos 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    you can see the way she looks at you that see loves you. very cool. wish you both the best.

  • @ponani7711
    @ponani7711 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting to watch this video again now that things have changed. Really sorry for what ever happened. My wife and I very similar story, no internet or skype back then. It has been almost 30 years now.

  • @kennybobsmith3438
    @kennybobsmith3438 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hi ned, been watching your videos and really enjoying them. I spent two years in the pi back in the 60's they have only two seasons there the raining season and dry season. its hot all the time. I was in the air force at clark air base on Luzon at the time.i really miss it over there and am thinking about a trip over, 68 yrs old now, so I better hurry. will keep watch u and michell keep me informed. kennybob, Tennessee,usa

    • @PhilippineDreams
      @PhilippineDreams  10 ปีที่แล้ว

      kenny bob Smith Thanks, Kenny Bob. Yeah, the heat is my biggest gripe with the Philippines. Our next place will be higher up in the hills and have a lot of shade.

  • @usaforever1172
    @usaforever1172 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    No Questions... Watch this video again... And then Watch it again... an if anything can be useful... Then use it...

  • @GTOGregory
    @GTOGregory 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Michelle, you're a sweetie. A nice online success story.

  • @mainenwo
    @mainenwo 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great story thank you both for sharing it with us I look forward to more videos :)

  • @Paul.in.Ireland
    @Paul.in.Ireland 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Michelle I remember you from DATEINASIA :) we chatted a few times :) I'm so happy you met a genuine caring guy! Congratulations to you both and good health and many happy years together :) you look like a fantastic couple :)

    • @PhilippineDreams
      @PhilippineDreams  10 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ryan Darcy Uh, hunny bunny, you never mentioned a Ryan.......
      :)

  • @joachimvogel2579
    @joachimvogel2579 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love your videos. have been merried with a pinay 5 years.We are happy man with such lovable wifes. thank you for your videos.

    • @PhilippineDreams
      @PhilippineDreams  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Joachim Vogel Thanks for watching, Joachim.

  • @soisitimpossible
    @soisitimpossible 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I, unlike you met my Filipina asawa the old fashioned way. You know, just by talking in person the way folks used to lol. They can be jealous. That's why I bug my misses a bit. But as far as it goes, (though I've met a few questionable Filipinas) most are great ladies and I don't use the term lightly they are genuine ladies! I would never have imagined meeting such a fine lady after dealing with western female chaos for so long lol. I enjoy seeing you folks together in vids. As far as the endless rambling comment by someone. Videos on youtube are usually someone talking. Do take care.

  • @mhatretran
    @mhatretran 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love Sees No Age.!!!!
    No Time.!!!
    Loves Sees Nothing But Sees YOU .!!!!
    That's LOVE.!!!!

  • @rebeccamalfroy2570
    @rebeccamalfroy2570 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    it's a good love affair, but i wont encourage my young daughter to marry someone 30 years her senior

    • @PhilippineDreams
      @PhilippineDreams  8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      19 years, ate.

    • @mrtoyotasupra87
      @mrtoyotasupra87 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      celosa

    • @Rocket9944
      @Rocket9944 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rebecca Malfroy , why not, as long as he treats her well!

    • @rushinghacker5433
      @rushinghacker5433 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      In fact I'd forbid it! Ol ned would be picking up his teeth too 🤝🇺🇸

    • @rushinghacker5433
      @rushinghacker5433 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can tell by her body language that she isn't happy "with him".. No duh, she didn't get the headset, or anything else for you 😘

  • @erikmichael3493
    @erikmichael3493 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice love story! When its right, its right no matter where she's from. Michell seems very sweet. I've seen her cooking videos, love it. Maybe I can pick up some cooking tips. Ned, in the US those meals she cooks are somewhat pricey depending which Filipino restaurant you go to.

    • @PhilippineDreams
      @PhilippineDreams  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Erik Michael Thanks for the feedback, Erik. Cheers!

  • @glennmcgee1729
    @glennmcgee1729 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice video you guys. I don't recall if you ever mentioned being married, Ned but is it safe to say you now have enough to go on to describe from your perspective the difference between having a relationship with Western women vs. a Filipina? Likewise, if Michell could share her perspective, maybe the information could help other couples in the early stages of development find ways to better understand and accept the ways of each other.

    • @PhilippineDreams
      @PhilippineDreams  10 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks, Glenn and that is exactly what we are going to tackle next.

  • @roelgarza4507
    @roelgarza4507 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow we have much in common my wife also filapina we are 20 years apart met on yahoo chat by accident did the chat long distance relationship took two trips to Philippines before decided to put a ring on her we are now four years married best decision ever plan visit for holidays end December wife's family from Cavity 20min outside of Manila like your chanel bring back great memories hopefully planning on retiring in Philippines someday

    • @PhilippineDreams
      @PhilippineDreams  10 ปีที่แล้ว

      Roel GarzaThanks Roel and congratulations!

  • @hodagibreelosman5133
    @hodagibreelosman5133 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am glad to hear love stories among Filipino ladies and American men, that most gets a better life living together, all i can say both deserve each other. You build your relationship, that's what makes a good couple. Good luck to you both.

    • @PhilippineDreams
      @PhilippineDreams  10 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hoda Gibreel Osman Well, it takes constant work and there are always speed bumps on both sides. But nothing worthwhile is easy, di ba?

    • @hodagibreelosman5133
      @hodagibreelosman5133 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      Philippine Dreams I will surely follow yours, to see how the people react, but I already congratulated you both for a long life together. Good postings, others will follow on both sides, west and far east....keep going.

  • @floridaman6138
    @floridaman6138 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Seemed like a good girl, don't get good vibes about the current one

  • @cybertrav
    @cybertrav 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are both blessed

  • @greatheart52
    @greatheart52 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    not only did michell remember the month and year, i bet she could remember the hour and day of the week

  • @vhodgeman
    @vhodgeman 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi! love your video..i really missed my place espcially Tiangge in Dumaguete. Anyway I came from Bacong and moved to USA sinced 2000.....mingaw na kaayo ko sa dumaguete..

  • @SpiroMendoza
    @SpiroMendoza 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    its nice to see videos about life here in the Philippines.

  • @purespirit9
    @purespirit9 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you two love one another I think it's great but insecurity would kill it so please communication, respect, honesty, loyal & understanding is key to a good marriage. May God bless you both. 😉👍💖

  • @gerardrooney984
    @gerardrooney984 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    great to see your life together, love your monthly break downs on expenses and nightouts

  • @RETIREMESOON
    @RETIREMESOON 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm a skeptic but this is ment to be.In 1979 my wife and I started out the same way and you have a QUALITY lady their.You will grow old together......36 years and we are great in the woods camping or traveling....and EXPLORING......and we are better together than apart.We fought insecurity and jealousy for the first 10 years.

  • @whiskeysauer
    @whiskeysauer 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG!!! Ned. That was the EXACT same thing I thought the first time I saw my ex GF when I came to the Philippines! I thought, my God she looks so small!!!! Haha. I know that feeling.

  • @petsnplaces5578
    @petsnplaces5578 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    i enjoyed your vids..keep it up..stay strong together..michell stay happy and keep your feet on d ground..u are a blessing to me

  • @LloydNLynnLif3
    @LloydNLynnLif3 10 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow you guys and us have a lot in common. My fiancée is from Cebu in the province and have family in Zamboanga. We also met in July 2012 on filipinocupid.com, My fiancée is now in the usa on k1 fiancée visa and we are about to celebrate 2 year anniversary on 7-26-14, I also was going to plan a trip to asia but didn't know where but when I met my fiancée on site I choose phil. I can really relate to both of you in your journey cause we experience the same things. Its very hard to find a good Filipina and I got lucky as well. My fiancée got on the dating site cause she was bored lol. She just reach here in usa on 6-26-14 and we will get married in sept. I enjoy you guys and watching your channel. I miss the phil but have to wait for my fiancée to get her AP card so she can travel outside the usa to go to the phil. I was 2 steps from moving to the phil but I had my business, daughter , and house. It more opportunity for her to move to usa and then we will go back to phil. I hope you guys check out our channel and subscribe and keep in touch and ill let u guys know when we get back to phil to maybe meet up..Take care and looking forward to the next video..

    • @mainenwo
      @mainenwo 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congrats on your upcoming marriage...did you have to go through the process of of getting your Fiancee's child to the USA also?...if so was it difficult?

    • @LloydNLynnLif3
      @LloydNLynnLif3 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      mainenwo Thanks....We will begin that process in March 2015 so we are not to close to the deadline cause we will file the "follow-to-join" paperwork and you have to do that within 1 year of my fiancée entering in the usa... it is suppose to be easier cause they still have her info on file so it goes right from lockbox to NVC...Plus he gets a immediate visa and doesn't have to wait for a priority date which could be months to years...

    • @PhilippineDreams
      @PhilippineDreams  10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think we can safely say that's its just as hard for a Filipina to find a good expat, no? Congrats on your upcoming marriage. Well, my fellow bachelors, we are losing another one. :)

    • @edmarli1
      @edmarli1 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LloydNLynnLif3 Nice to see great success stories. I also met my fiance on filipinocupid.com. in Nov 2012. She is from Cebu but we met in "neutral" Manila 2013. We talk daily and we love each other with the kind of true old time love. Her visa is about to be approved and she should be here some time in May 2015. Patience, trust and understanding will help anyone through tough times bcz of the long distance. Stay committed and it will pay off! She is the best thing to happen to me in my life..

    • @LloydNLynnLif3
      @LloydNLynnLif3 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ed & Riza I see you just got a TH-cam channel so I hope to see some videos soon. My wife wants to know what part of cebu is your fiance from. I will sub to your channel and hope you do the same. If you guys have any questions about the process let me know but it looks like you guys are ok there. Where you from or state? Pm me if you like. Take care both of you and God bless.

  • @rebeccamalfroy2570
    @rebeccamalfroy2570 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    but love is love , no one can perfectly define

  • @mariannekalbach4698
    @mariannekalbach4698 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello to both of you!! I saw your amazing video and I impress with it!! I enjoyed watching your videos, and I'm thinking also that my Fiancee and I leave here rather than in America!!Just enjoy your life in the fullest both of you..I'm proud to be a simple elegant Filipina!!😊

  • @matlock12c
    @matlock12c 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Looks like all has worked out well for you two!
    Congrats!

  • @jayk7422
    @jayk7422 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great story... sounds very familiar.... all the millions of people in this world & I met my now wife through one word on the internet highway "hello".... we spend half our time in Phils & Australia.... dating sites are great...but be very very cautious.... all the best.. cheers bro 🙂🍻

  • @markbrave
    @markbrave 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so looking forward to spending Christmas and new year in Cebu

  • @ronnierodriguez6247
    @ronnierodriguez6247 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why is this video still up move on bro

  • @amoures6841
    @amoures6841 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sad to hear you guys are no longer together...😢

  • @user-fs9gv3go3g
    @user-fs9gv3go3g 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What happen to Mitchell now Ned, did you dump her for another younger one?

  • @73dustu
    @73dustu 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    your story is not much different than mine. I met my phil wife online on yahoo, we have been married 9 years now and it was the best thing I ever did. she is living here in Pennsylvania with me but sometimes think of moving there.i am 50 years old now and she is 44, she is from tacloban.

    • @PhilippineDreams
      @PhilippineDreams  10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      73dustu Congrats man.

    • @KimChiiChan
      @KimChiiChan 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      73dustu - Great to hear your plans to move to the P.I. (great place)! You and your lady are having second thoughts?

  • @scottp3287
    @scottp3287 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Ned and Michelle, Great story . Ahh DIA . Good site , but i must say finding the right one there is pretty hard . You are very lucky she had acess to the net like she did . Ill be back in Cebu for the third time to visit a girl i met in Dia and it will probably be the last before filling for her paperwork , even though the plan is to end up back in the Pi . Thanks for the video great info for those looking seriously for companion . Hope it helps those out there that are thinking about giving up on the sites . Both of you take care . Aloha

    • @PhilippineDreams
      @PhilippineDreams  10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      DIA has a reputation as a meat market. I was a total noob to it when I ran into Michell, so I am glad I didn't have to go through some of the stuff that I have heard from other expats here.