Eating disorders are not exclusive to higher socioeconomic status...they are rampant among women of all levels. I personally find it very compelling and interesting when any housewive shares about struggling with an eating disorder, as these struggles are more common than not. I disagree that not many can relate as I would argue that almost every woman has had an eating disorded thought at least a few times in their lives.
When most people are talking about the high cost of groceries and feeding their family on top of the child care being more expensive and then ever it is hard to relate. I see what they are saying
i see what they are saying, but i also it's highly irresponsible to frame it in this way. As someone who has suffered from an eating disorder, it isn't a disease of luxury. I had to skip ahead because even those slight comments can be triggering to someone who has fought to keep themselves alive through recovery.
I agree. I was mind blown when I heard Heather saying this. Eating disorders are mental illness. They are a subset of a form of OCD and it is absolutely not exclusive to wealthy women. That’s insane. Jackie Goldschneider actually had one of the best housewife books I’ve ever read and it was entirely about her eating disorder
I think Carlos King is the only guest that doesn't constantly get interrupted by Heather. She still interrupted, but when he gave his insight on RHOSLC, she actually listened and was very intrigued by his perspective. One of the best interviews you have ever had Heather. ❤
As an RN , I can not begin to imagine questioning someone in such an aggressive way regarding their personal health history. I would only give my opinion if the person themselves asked me for information. And even then I would refer them back to their Dr. And NEVER ON TV WOULD I DISCUSS THIS!!!! Very unprofessional.
I was a little confused when Heather mentioned having all these unanswered questions from Rachel when every single one was deeply addressed in both her interviews and podcast lol
Anne Marie isn’t unlikable because of her race- BELIEVE ME. I didn’t like how she came into the show like a firecracker, calling Sutton a liar without speaking to Sutton’s doctor first before making those accusations. That was it for me. I just thought- who does she think she is?!
Yea that was too much, but she couldn’t talk to Sutton’s doctor. That would be unethical! My doctor said I have a tight throat, which I never heard of, and I have a hard time swallowing sometimes so I thought Sutton’s issue could be a similar thing.
Curious if Heather has watched all seasons of VPR...Lala has always been a bully. She was horrible to Rachel (the most timid cast memeber) from day one, while hooking up with James behind the scenes (which she admitted to). Season 10 and now 11 Heather is acting like Lala is the voice of reason???? Such BS.
Your views on anorexia could not be more wrong. Anorexia affects all walks of life and can be a lifelong devastating disease. Please do not portray it as a privileged disease, because it is not.
Kim should def not be on the housewives right now. This isn’t a movie this is a couple breaking down in a terrible way. From domestic issues, gambling, and mental health problems. People like that should not be on a show and around other people( it’s not safe for the rest of the housewives) and need to get help and healing. We should not normalize wanting to watch people’s lives collapsing.
I have been waiting so patiently for Carlos King to come back! You two are absolute gold together! So much fun, so much juice, and just so funny! I was so glad to start my day laughing and smiling with you two. 💖💖🤣🤣
I was anorexic as a teenager and I am a 58 now and I agree with some of your assessment But for me it was based on such crippling insecurity and wanted to physically disappear. Just to clarify though, anorexic don't always throw up and/or take laxatives. I agree on these shows, anorexia could be seen as rich privilege
Bulimia is overeating the then self induced vomiting. As you know some anorexic-bulemic ppl utilize laxatives to empty the intestine. You're doing well, right? Have a great day.☺️❤️
@orianjuarez3074 yes there is ki d of a spillover when it comes to EDs. The laxative part can affect ypu intestinal motility and the vomiting can cause esophageal scarring and ruin your teeth. A lot of times dentists diagnose bulimia because they notice mouth sores and decayed enamel. Yes, I am healthy thank you. Although there qere very few resources available when I was anorexic, my parents had fou d an amazing therapist who saved my life. Have a great say too
@@laurieann2714 I'm so glad to hear that you are doing well. I was an emergency nurse almost 40 years. I saw many female & male patients with eating disorders. Thank goodness you found an excellent therapist. It's such a unique issue compared to other mental health issues. One of my nurse friends has the diagnosis. She has an alcohol problem too. Sadly, she's not had any long term success with either. My issue is eating too much.☺️I've had success. I see a weight loss physician. I'm down 40 & have 50 lbs to get to my goal. Take care. I love Heather's guest.❤️😊
I’m here for it and I’m around LaLa’s age and think Heather’s a riot and would love to grab a cute lunch with her or go out to a dinner or event we would click too I bet. Age is sometimes nothing but a number.
People don't just develop Anorexia because they want to be skinny and look good. It can be developed from a range of circumstances and mental issues (e.g. OCD, trauma response to not having control, anxiety, the list goes on). It's a real disease and does not discriminate. Period.
Heather instead of listening to Carlos King you kept talking and trying to explain that something might be wrong. You kept going on because of your friendship with those people. Not all disabilities are seen!
Heather you have got to watch what you say about eating disorders. They are not primarily experienced by wealthy women. Generation after generation experienced diet culture and as a result we have a whole population who doesn’t know how to eat to nourish their body. It’s a VERY relatable storyline on housewives and Jackie Goldschneider’s book was incredible. The reason the eating disorder topic keeps coming up as a storyline on housewives is because it is so common and so prevalent. You need education on this because what you’re saying is really dismissive.
I completely agree, I am a huge fan, but Heather always handle’s this topic so badly and doesn’t seem to bear in mind that a lot of her listeners may well be in recovery and this ignorant approach is very triggering. It has nothing to do with wealth at all. It’s a mental health issue at its core. I am in recovery and this attitude horrifies me.
My mother was in the audience when Ariana was on The View last year and is still salty af about it lol. She was like no celebrity guests wtf! Got us sitting here listening to some girl talk about being cheated on...B--ch I been cheated on, let me get up there and tell my story 🤣
I made it to 14:28 in this video and had to turn it off. Sorry Carlos, blaming Ariana for taking any and all opportunities presented to her after Tom cheated and making it seem like she’s wrong for that?! No…
From the very beginning, I have felt no real sympathy for Arianna - she’s not the first woman to get cheated on, nor will she be the last… Carlos King is so right that she has been making this “scandal” work in her favor… Tom Sandoval is a Latino man. Being a Latina myself, I get it bcuz I have two brothers… Ariana should’ve gotten a clue when she decided to start dating a Latino man… they all cheat, but there is a rarity of those that do not, but for the most part they all do! 🤷🏻♀️ great interview with Carlos King 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Just adding Anorexia Nervosa is a mental illness. I have known 1 person who had it, my neighbor. She was lower income, and would go away for months at a time to treatment centers that her parents put her in. Her life wasn’t normal. She couldn’t work and couldn’t function. I remember one day we were passing eachother on the stairs and I was like “Hey haven’t seen you hope you’re doing ok” and then she opened up and admitted she had AN. She was very aware and kind but tortured, it was sad. She was always tall and lanky but after she told me I could see the malnourishment. I was always kind to her and secretly rooted for her and before I moved she seemed to be doing ok, and looked healthier. I still think of her and I hope she’s healthy and has a somewhat normal life now. She fought everyday to be “normal” despite what her mind told her.
I agree with this guy so much about Ariana! She even said she just doesn’t want him to have the house. He was going to pay her market value. I’m so over her
Eating disorders effect all walks of life and trust me ppl think of it on their own and sometimes don’t even realize they are in the thick of it. It’s not a disease of luxury
I think what was meant to be said is that in SOME cases it is but obviously not all whatsoever. People die constantly from the struggles of eating disorders and their whole lives are what seems like under mind control of a very evil demon. Others may copy the behaviors to lose weight fast and/or garner more attention and care more about their looks than their health as seen by the copious amounts of reality stars using osempic that were never overweight in the first place despite side effects. I took it as a form of that statement just not stated clearly or carefully just quickly spit out as many juicy takes are on this pod which we all enjoy and are here for. Unfortunately there may be some foolish things we all say when we are just talking without thinking too much and may not have had the time or self awareness to reconcile in the moment.
Carlos needs to be a regular monthly guest. Sooo fun. 😊
YES! YES! YES!
Agreed ❤
Agree! Loved the 2 of them together. He has great humor and personality
Love him!!
Great guy!!
This episode was a total delight, I just love Carlos King!
Carlos King saying, “take me out of the group chat!” 😂 yessssss Carlos!! 😂
😂😂😂😂
Catch!!!!!!!!!!!
25:00 I thought jax did this to stassi with Kristen!!!
Carlos’s laugh is so contagious! My jaw is sore from laughing 😂
He is so funny! The second he started talking and laughing at the beginning of the interview it instantly boosted my mood and made my day!❤
It really is contagious! 🎉 love his energy
Eating disorders are not exclusive to higher socioeconomic status...they are rampant among women of all levels. I personally find it very compelling and interesting when any housewive shares about struggling with an eating disorder, as these struggles are more common than not. I disagree that not many can relate as I would argue that almost every woman has had an eating disorded thought at least a few times in their lives.
I agree
When most people are talking about the high cost of groceries and feeding their family on top of the child care being more expensive and then ever it is hard to relate. I see what they are saying
College girls learn to use bulimia from their friends. A friend started it in our group of friends.
i see what they are saying, but i also it's highly irresponsible to frame it in this way. As someone who has suffered from an eating disorder, it isn't a disease of luxury. I had to skip ahead because even those slight comments can be triggering to someone who has fought to keep themselves alive through recovery.
I agree. I was mind blown when I heard Heather saying this. Eating disorders are mental illness. They are a subset of a form of OCD and it is absolutely not exclusive to wealthy women. That’s insane. Jackie Goldschneider actually had one of the best housewife books I’ve ever read and it was entirely about her eating disorder
I think Carlos King is the only guest that doesn't constantly get interrupted by Heather. She still interrupted, but when he gave his insight on RHOSLC, she actually listened and was very intrigued by his perspective. One of the best interviews you have ever had Heather. ❤
And see, I thought it was one of the worst interviews.
Heather had a great interview with Christine Brown. She asked insightful questions and allowed Christine to answer without being interrupted.
You two have the best chemistry. Keep doing these.
Heather girllll let Carlos finish a thought. I know you like to talk but listening is key when you have a guest😂
She Knows
As an RN , I can not begin to imagine questioning someone in such an aggressive way regarding their personal health history. I would only give my opinion if the person themselves asked me for information. And even then I would refer them back to their Dr. And NEVER ON TV WOULD I DISCUSS THIS!!!! Very unprofessional.
I thought the same thing as a RN too
Portia de Rossi did in fact struggle with an eating disorder....she wrote a book about it.
Carlos is a pure delight - and absolutely brilliant!
The King and Queen of podcasts, this was such a good episode.
Only watched because Carlos IS a vibe! Sooooo real, honest and hilarious!!!!
The entire episode was a delight!
I LOVE WHEN YOU CHOP IT UP W CARLOS
Anne-Marie just realized been verbally aggressive is not always a win.😂
I LOVE Carlos King. Finally, someone to say that Ariana is milking this.
I was a little confused when Heather mentioned having all these unanswered questions from Rachel when every single one was deeply addressed in both her interviews and podcast lol
Carlos you are truly a king 👑 freakin love you 🥰
Hello, my fellow Juicy Scoopers!! Hope everyone is having a fabulous evening/day. 😊
You too 💗🦋
Same to you hope you’re having a great day.
This comment is what this community is all about !!!
I absolutely love you Heather!! Carlos needs to be a regular. You guys are perfect together.
OMG Heather I was so excited to see you and Carlos in the thumbnail❤
Carlos is hilarious!!!! I love you two together 😂❤
I agree with Carlos on everything he said about Ariana.
Same
YES!!! 🎉
Anne Marie isn’t unlikable because of her race- BELIEVE ME. I didn’t like how she came into the show like a firecracker, calling Sutton a liar without speaking to Sutton’s doctor first before making those accusations. That was it for me. I just thought- who does she think she is?!
Everyone loves firecrackers. It’s her yapping about Sutton’s esophagus that was annoying. Like girl drop it. That what made her unlikeable.
Yea that was too much, but she couldn’t talk to Sutton’s doctor. That would be unethical! My doctor said I have a tight throat, which I never heard of, and I have a hard time swallowing sometimes so I thought Sutton’s issue could be a similar thing.
Race has nothing to do with it and we need to stop because that ruins these shows.
Sirius Radio should pick these 2 up! Omg, I have laughed and smiled the whole time listening to this. 😂
Carlos is my favorite! Great laugh, great smile and lots of juicy scoop.
Curious if Heather has watched all seasons of VPR...Lala has always been a bully. She was horrible to Rachel (the most timid cast memeber) from day one, while hooking up with James behind the scenes (which she admitted to). Season 10 and now 11 Heather is acting like Lala is the voice of reason???? Such BS.
Heather & Carlos = Video GOLD!!!
💯❤️
3:12 So glad I’m home watching and not in my car listening or I’d have crashed my car into the bush belly laughing. OMFG! 😂😂😂
Love the Dior sweater! Also is it weird every time I watch an episode i automatically want a Juicy Scoop necklace for myself ❤
Great guest, great conversations. Can't wait for him to come back.
Your views on anorexia could not be more wrong. Anorexia affects all walks of life and can be a lifelong devastating disease. Please do not portray it as a privileged disease, because it is not.
Totally agree! Once you have known someone that has died from it, you cannot simplify it or put it in specific category of person.
Happy to see someone start to call out Ariana.
Kim should def not be on the housewives right now. This isn’t a movie this is a couple breaking down in a terrible way. From domestic issues, gambling, and mental health problems. People like that should not be on a show and around other people( it’s not safe for the rest of the housewives) and need to get help and healing. We should not normalize wanting to watch people’s lives collapsing.
Love Heather & Carlos duo 💯💖✨
I agree with Carlos. You were the 'Rachel' when Tom was with Kristin. I'm over it also.
The difference is Ariana was not best friends with Kristen.
loveeeeee the duo! JUICY REIGN dropssss yay!!
Great show Heather! You and Carlos have such a great back and forth energy. Love the deep dive into all topics. ❤
This was a great show! I love Carlos! You two are a great team ❤
Best episode for a while now. Just the juice is best. Kept it funny, juicy and woke free.
Absolutely 🎉
@@katjaxxx7353And super shady all at the same time 😂
@@Period-mw8fw 🏖️ 🕶️ 🌴
Loved this episode. Heather & Carlos are a great combo.
Carlos is so much fun! Love his inside scoop to reality and the housewives! ❤
loving the new format, studio and great guests
Great Show! Great Carlos!
I love this guest so much! Great show ♥️
I have been waiting so patiently for Carlos King to come back! You two are absolute gold together! So much fun, so much juice, and just so funny! I was so glad to start my day laughing and smiling with you two. 💖💖🤣🤣
Ariana needs to move the F. On, they wasn't married, have no kids, wasn't even together based on what they say, enough already.
I have never been a fan. She just seemed aloof towards Tom.
You are right ! Ty
Why should SHE move? They bought that house 50/50. She’s on the freaking mortgage ffs. If someone needs to leave, it should be him.
I freaking love Carlos King❤ 🎉
This is the FLY ON THE WALL episode. SO JUICY!
Yes this was a Juicy Juicy one loved 🥰
carlos is the best he needs to be on more!
I was anorexic as a teenager and I am a 58 now and I agree with some of your assessment
But for me it was based on such crippling insecurity and wanted to physically disappear. Just to clarify though, anorexic don't always throw up and/or take laxatives. I agree on these shows, anorexia could be seen as rich privilege
Bulimia is overeating the then self induced vomiting. As you know some anorexic-bulemic ppl utilize laxatives to empty the intestine. You're doing well, right? Have a great day.☺️❤️
@orianjuarez3074 yes there is ki d of a spillover when it comes to EDs. The laxative part can affect ypu intestinal motility and the vomiting can cause esophageal scarring and ruin your teeth. A lot of times dentists diagnose bulimia because they notice mouth sores and decayed enamel. Yes, I am healthy thank you. Although there qere very few resources available when I was anorexic, my parents had fou d an amazing therapist who saved my life. Have a great say too
@@laurieann2714 I'm so glad to hear that you are doing well. I was an emergency nurse almost 40 years. I saw many female & male patients with eating disorders. Thank goodness you found an excellent therapist. It's such a unique issue compared to other mental health issues. One of my nurse friends has the diagnosis. She has an alcohol problem too. Sadly, she's not had any long term success with either. My issue is eating too much.☺️I've had success. I see a weight loss physician. I'm down 40 & have 50 lbs to get to my goal. Take care. I love Heather's guest.❤️😊
@@orianjuarez3074 glad to hear!!
@@orianjuarez3074 keep up the good work!
I could’ve listened to like 5 more hours! Best guest!
The ads are perfect this episode thank you! ♥️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Love Carlos King and Heather McDonald!!!❤
I loved this collab!!
What happened to your friendship with Lala, Heather? You never speak of her anymore and you did say you used to be friends with her.
She mentioned her recently on Patreon. I think she meant they “were” friends when the cheating happened. I personally don’t miss her being on tho.
I’m here for it and I’m around LaLa’s age and think Heather’s a riot and would love to grab a cute lunch with her or go out to a dinner or event we would click too I bet. Age is sometimes nothing but a number.
When it's genuine but I don't like watching it on Reality or Pocasts.@@sk8oasis788
What a FANTASTIC EPISODE love Carlos so so much
We need more episodes with Carlos! love the housewives gossip. You need to talk about the new season of traitors, its really good!
People don't just develop Anorexia because they want to be skinny and look good. It can be developed from a range of circumstances and mental issues (e.g. OCD, trauma response to not having control, anxiety, the list goes on). It's a real disease and does not discriminate. Period.
Good morning my fellow Juicy Scoopers have a great day guys ❤😊
Carlos I’m with you on the vpr stuff 🙌
Heather…I appreciate you so much. During a crazy time in history, thank you for helping us tune out twice a week. Much ❤ and 🙏.
Heather instead of listening to Carlos King you kept talking and trying to explain that something might be wrong. You kept going on because of your friendship with those people.
Not all disabilities are seen!
Well this is Heather, she talks over most of her fantastic guests.
This was an interview I didn’t know I needed! 😅👏
Great show...........thank you..👏👏👏
Yay!!!! He's a great guest!
Loved this espisode. Funny and so entertaining. Have Carlos back soon
Heather you have got to watch what you say about eating disorders. They are not primarily experienced by wealthy women. Generation after generation experienced diet culture and as a result we have a whole population who doesn’t know how to eat to nourish their body. It’s a VERY relatable storyline on housewives and Jackie Goldschneider’s book was incredible. The reason the eating disorder topic keeps coming up as a storyline on housewives is because it is so common and so prevalent. You need education on this because what you’re saying is really dismissive.
I completely agree, I am a huge fan, but Heather always handle’s this topic so badly and doesn’t seem to bear in mind that a lot of her listeners may well be in recovery and this ignorant approach is very triggering. It has nothing to do with wealth at all. It’s a mental health issue at its core. I am in recovery and this attitude horrifies me.
Love love loved this episode!! I could listen to bravo talk all day long!! 🩷🩷🩷
Great reality minds together is such a treat. I adore Carlos and Heather energy
OMG! Carlos, and you need to do a weekly collaboration! I love you together! 😂😂😂😂
This was a really good convo 😊
Heather was on 1st class form this episode! 👏🏾😅
This was so much fun! I love Carlos and you guys together ❤😂😂😂
My mother was in the audience when Ariana was on The View last year and is still salty af about it lol. She was like no celebrity guests wtf! Got us sitting here listening to some girl talk about being cheated on...B--ch I been cheated on, let me get up there and tell my story 🤣
About Rachel and Ariana...that situation not being seen before. We literally saw Stassi slap Kristen for the same thing. THEY were best friends.
You Both cracked me up when talking about “ Unfaithful “ 😂😂😂😂I was Rolling!!!! Lol lol LOL
Yes!!! Love Carlos!
💯agree with you Carlos about Shannon, because she is not a happy person and you're right she isn't present.
❤This was fantastic! Love you both!!! Carlos MUST come back to Juicy Scoop. You describing AR/TJ and the moving Unfaithful was GOLD!!!
Carlos King is one of my favorites, if not my FAVORITE guest. He’s always got the best tea !! He’s so likable. 😂
I made it to 14:28 in this video and had to turn it off. Sorry Carlos, blaming Ariana for taking any and all opportunities presented to her after Tom cheated and making it seem like she’s wrong for that?! No…
omg love Carlos!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤
Great EP! Love when Carlos is on 💖
Amazing show! ❤
Make Carlos a regular!!
I concur!
Heather forget the sweater, what about that WATCH!!! 🔥
Heather - will you be down in San Diego anytime soon? Love you and always supporting you and the pod 🩷
I agree with the frustration about Ariana!
‘Take me out of the group chat’ 😂
Agree on all of Carlos’ takes. And why is Heather so against Monica? She is like ride or die for Heather Gay yuck.
From the very beginning, I have felt no real sympathy for Arianna - she’s not the first woman to get cheated on, nor will she be the last… Carlos King is so right that she has been making this “scandal” work in her favor… Tom Sandoval is a Latino man. Being a Latina myself, I get it bcuz I have two brothers… Ariana should’ve gotten a clue when she decided to start dating a Latino man… they all cheat, but there is a rarity of those that do not, but for the most part they all do! 🤷🏻♀️ great interview with Carlos King 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Huh! So she should be okay with being cheated on and humiliated because “Latino men cheat?” Are you okay?
Just adding Anorexia Nervosa is a mental illness. I have known 1 person who had it, my neighbor. She was lower income, and would go away for months at a time to treatment centers that her parents put her in. Her life wasn’t normal. She couldn’t work and couldn’t function. I remember one day we were passing eachother on the stairs and I was like “Hey haven’t seen you hope you’re doing ok” and then she opened up and admitted she had AN. She was very aware and kind but tortured, it was sad. She was always tall and lanky but after she told me I could see the malnourishment. I was always kind to her and secretly rooted for her and before I moved she seemed to be doing ok, and looked healthier. I still think of her and I hope she’s healthy and has a somewhat normal life now. She fought everyday to be “normal” despite what her mind told her.
That is such a touching story. How kind you sound and I truly hope your friend is doing well.
Carlos is a housewife PROFESSIONAL!!!! Love him. ❤
A great episode, love Carlos! 👑👑👑
my two faves!!! please have carlos on more regularly and vice versa i’d love to see you on his podcast
What an effing juicy show with Carlos!!!!!!!
Raindrops we are in for another great scoop! Carlos does Dr. Heavenly get in trouble bc of your messy Mondays?
I agree with this guy so much about Ariana! She even said she just doesn’t want him to have the house. He was going to pay her market value. I’m so over her
Awesome episode. I love Carlos!
Eating disorders effect all walks of life and trust me ppl think of it on their own and sometimes don’t even realize they are in the thick of it. It’s not a disease of luxury
It’s sad how dense and flippant Heather is about a serious problem
@@audrey4596 people don’t really get it unless they’ve gone through it 🤷🏻♀️
I think what was meant to be said is that in SOME cases it is but obviously not all whatsoever. People die constantly from the struggles of eating disorders and their whole lives are what seems like under mind control of a very evil demon. Others may copy the behaviors to lose weight fast and/or garner more attention and care more about their looks than their health as seen by the copious amounts of reality stars using osempic that were never overweight in the first place despite side effects. I took it as a form of that statement just not stated clearly or carefully just quickly spit out as many juicy takes are on this pod which we all enjoy and are here for. Unfortunately there may be some foolish things we all say when we are just talking without thinking too much and may not have had the time or self awareness to reconcile in the moment.