People do Black women in particular so dirty... they require all this and then want you to be soft and feminine simultaneously. And when you want to express yourself and explain how much you do (and no one else is helping) people say you're rude and aggressive and "a feminist" without even know what feminism is. Like you'll ask them, what is feminism and how does that factor into this conversation... NOTHING😂 absolutely nothing. Sigh. It's ridiculous. If she says she wants a high earner then people will try to trample on her self esteem and say she not this enough or that enough and simultaneously TOO this and TOO that. But if she's with some that isn't rich. It's her fault, should have chosen better blah blah blah.
These man need to understand it's not woman's work but everyone should know how to cook clean wash and take care of themselves. And we mother's need to teach our sons so they don't end up being a burden to their wife. Or think it's only a wife responsibility.
I disagree.....i think most men who adore their mum and treat her good are more likey to treat their wife good too. However......this only works if the mum is a nice person as it influences him. A lot of women just have this need to be put on a pedestal and get jealous of the mum, but get it once their sons grow up. A LOT of men that treat women badly have a scrappy relationship with their mum.
@@Blue-kb6jz I think you're misinterpreting what I've said. Let's be clear, there is nothing wrong with a man having a good relationship with his mom. But, there are plenty of men who have been coddled by their mother's their whole lives, therefore cannot make decisions on their own, have trouble taking full accountability and are always looking for a woman who can enable their behaviors and give them the same treatment their mothers can. What stood out in this video was that she reminded him of his mother because of her cooking and cleaning abilities, aside from her putting others before herself. So what does that tell you? A girlfriend or wife is NOT your mother nor shouldn't be viewed or compared to one. There should be a distinction between those two as a mother cannot give you the same thing a girlfriend or wife can give you and vice versa. Men should have good relationships with their mother but shouldn't look for a mother in another woman.
@@youtubeaccount5356 Trust me. Especially when your father wants you to date black american men. But you don't date american men. Learning different languages. Different religious beliefs. Culture difference. How americans look at you and talk down on you..etc
k I’ve dated interracial many times. The relationship part was never hard. It was other people and their intrusion into our lives that made it difficult. I always got along really well with the guys I dated. I married a white man. We have been married for 25 years.
I was about to comment this! He’s a mommas boy for sure! I dated a Mexican guy and he was Extacly like him! Put his mom before me and we didn’t work out!
I’m single now, but, in my relationships, I worked, did the grocery shopping, cooked, did laundry, made sure the kids were prepared for school etc.. it’s great that a man know how, and willing to do such things, I never complained, bet they miss me now 😂😂😂😂
They worked, I was the more experienced in doing those things than they were, and because I was, I didn’t mind at all, it made things go smoooth, we played our parts, I took care of in house, they took on outside of house responsibilities
@@toniwesley4467 I'm not taking away from what you said, I was just asking was that all you could see out of this whole video. No need for the attitude.
In some Latino family the favor is always in the boy the boys can relax do no laundry do not cooking do nothing but if there's girls and family she got to do it all and she can't leave home she's got to stay home till she get married and she still have to come home on family day she cannot miss a family day I was with a Latina boy matter of fact they were from Ecuador but I dated two different Ecuador guys one Ecuador mother she had three boys single mother came to America and then boys did everything for their mother cook clean wash even her underwear and I saw the difference between the way to Latino family one who's had a mother and father and one who did not and it was night and day so I understand that boy there was red flags I would have never dated him I wouldn't even have a kid with him
You so right. Some Latinos pamper the boys like fat veal calves, the boys never have to do anything. It's not attractive, personally boi, bye. You still on momma's nipple.
Believe it or not, it is like that in most black American families as well. Many younger women are deciding not to lead that way. I am gonna teach my sons to do just as much as my daughters. I didn't like being raised that way. My brothers slept in on Holidays etc, while we stayed up cooking, cleaning etc. I was taught girls need to keep clean, help out in the kitchen, even look after siblings. My brothers just had to take out the trash, then laid back watching tv/playing video games. My dad was served first etc. My mom was southern and old school. In a relationship you simply do what works for your home. You cant help the family you are born into, but you can the one you create. People should seek to improve their own family life and if its time to step up because you see your partner is exhausted than that's what you have to do. Why over complicate relationships?
She talks too darn much and he's too pathetic as a husband. Running to your mama with your marital problems and for advice and not talking to your wife instead is just pathetic.
"If meat offends thy brother, don't eat it." So don't bring food in someone's house that you know they don't accept. Although the Mother could have said something, rather than throw it out. Some people eat dog and cat meat, please don't bring that in my home. (It's just 'Respect'.)
*This is the entire problem* 2:55 "She resembled my Mom" He didn't want to be a husband, he wanted to a housekeeper/servant‼️ Hopefully Tereca dropped him
I already saw this before just revisiting again. Seem's he wishes she was like a Spanish woman but he not getting it.A man will NEVER love a woman the way she wants him to love her,some men only think with one head and it's not the brain.
Sounds more like a religious difference. I’m black too but most Hispanic people are catholic with similar households are older black families. My family is still traditional black. Multiple generations living together and helping one another with raising children. It’s a village but these days black people are rebelling them against that.
UNDERSTAND I ALWAYS see grown "A" MEN in the grocery store with they MAMA like they're HUSH and WIFE and it's mother and son it's the WEIRDEST ish to me and I notice it ALWAYS mexican men
So she needs to work, cook and clean while he doesn’t work? Man bye.
Preach!
😂yes
People do Black women in particular so dirty... they require all this and then want you to be soft and feminine simultaneously. And when you want to express yourself and explain how much you do (and no one else is helping) people say you're rude and aggressive and "a feminist" without even know what feminism is. Like you'll ask them, what is feminism and how does that factor into this conversation... NOTHING😂 absolutely nothing. Sigh. It's ridiculous.
If she says she wants a high earner then people will try to trample on her self esteem and say she not this enough or that enough and simultaneously TOO this and TOO that.
But if she's with some that isn't rich. It's her fault, should have chosen better blah blah blah.
😂😂😂😂
These man need to understand it's not woman's work but everyone should know how to cook clean wash and take care of themselves. And we mother's need to teach our sons so they don't end up being a burden to their wife. Or think it's only a wife responsibility.
Coming from his own mouth, he got with her because she reminded him of his mom. When you hear that, run!
Compass Amour most subconsciously go after their mother or father. Sigmund Freud, he was a bit extreme but there was truth in it.
I disagree.....i think most men who adore their mum and treat her good are more likey to treat their wife good too. However......this only works if the mum is a nice person as it influences him. A lot of women just have this need to be put on a pedestal and get jealous of the mum, but get it once their sons grow up.
A LOT of men that treat women badly have a scrappy relationship with their mum.
@@Blue-kb6jz I think you're misinterpreting what I've said. Let's be clear, there is nothing wrong with a man having a good relationship with his mom. But, there are plenty of men who have been coddled by their mother's their whole lives, therefore cannot make decisions on their own, have trouble taking full accountability and are always looking for a woman who can enable their behaviors and give them the same treatment their mothers can. What stood out in this video was that she reminded him of his mother because of her cooking and cleaning abilities, aside from her putting others before herself. So what does that tell you? A girlfriend or wife is NOT your mother nor shouldn't be viewed or compared to one. There should be a distinction between those two as a mother cannot give you the same thing a girlfriend or wife can give you and vice versa. Men should have good relationships with their mother but shouldn't look for a mother in another woman.
@@stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax I guess is ok for woman than to be lookin for somebody like their das
@@Blue-kb6jzI've been jealous of my husband's mom. It's bad I know
Never stop your dreams 4 a man.
He said he was hiding but not in the bushes like the movie😂😂.
It’s a bit idiotic to meet someone and marry them and be mad about what was always there. He didn’t change, you “expected” him to.
Lots of women love " works in progress".
Interracial relationships is harder than your average relationship. You dont got to be perfect you just got to be worth it. ❤😂
I think that applies on all levels
Fr? Damn. 😂
@@youtubeaccount5356 Trust me. Especially when your father wants you to date black american men. But you don't date american men. Learning different languages. Different religious beliefs. Culture difference. How americans look at you and talk down on you..etc
It's not necessarily the interracial it's the culture. Must come from a culture that can be melded for the better.
k I’ve dated interracial many times. The relationship part was never hard. It was other people and their intrusion into our lives that made it difficult. I always got along really well with the guys I dated. I married a white man. We have been married for 25 years.
He wants her to do everything but too lazy to work and provide as a "man"
They can work on this and they can definitely fix it.
They were so cute! .. sad to see they’re no longer together.
oh really, they both were cute together!!
Really.. c'mon.. 😅
She's a black girl..I'm sure his mother waa ecstatic, when they divorced...
He is definitely a"Momma's boy"
I was about to comment this! He’s a mommas boy for sure! I dated a Mexican guy and he was Extacly like him! Put his mom before me and we didn’t work out!
A lot of Mexican men are like this!
I really like Judge Toller
She decided to be Bob the builder.
I’m single now, but, in my relationships, I worked, did the grocery shopping, cooked, did laundry, made sure the kids were prepared for school etc.. it’s great that a man know how, and willing to do such things, I never complained, bet they miss me now 😂😂😂😂
Wya
@@sjones3191 I'm in Pennsylvania 😂 wya
I'm in London, where are you? 😂
@@memzg9656 USA
They worked, I was the more experienced in doing those things than they were, and because I was, I didn’t mind at all, it made things go smoooth, we played our parts, I took care of in house, they took on outside of house responsibilities
Some ppl listen to respond, rather than to comprehend, therefore, interrupting before u can finish getting a point across
They're both delusional.
Yes I married a mommas boy but I changed him !!!! If you wanna live with his momma go head .., I don’t deal with a mommas boy!!!!
They’re cute. Lol.
That's all you see?
@@toniwesley4467 I'm not taking away from what you said, I was just asking was that all you could see out of this whole video. No need for the attitude.
@@stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax get you a papi chocolate
@@creepnasty5370 😂😂😂😂😂pllleaaseeeehahahaha
He was cute until he started talking 😂
This is vaild😂
In some Latino family the favor is always in the boy the boys can relax do no laundry do not cooking do nothing but if there's girls and family she got to do it all and she can't leave home she's got to stay home till she get married and she still have to come home on family day she cannot miss a family day I was with a Latina boy matter of fact they were from Ecuador but I dated two different Ecuador guys one Ecuador mother she had three boys single mother came to America and then boys did everything for their mother cook clean wash even her underwear and I saw the difference between the way to Latino family one who's had a mother and father and one who did not and it was night and day so I understand that boy there was red flags I would have never dated him I wouldn't even have a kid with him
You so right. Some Latinos pamper the boys like fat veal calves, the boys never have to do anything. It's not attractive, personally boi, bye. You still on momma's nipple.
We dont do stupid cleaning because we work all day & night since young!
While the girls are out there partying getting pregnant & being lazy! 😂😂😂
Believe it or not, it is like that in most black American families as well. Many younger women are deciding not to lead that way. I am gonna teach my sons to do just as much as my daughters. I didn't like being raised that way. My brothers slept in on Holidays etc, while we stayed up cooking, cleaning etc. I was taught girls need to keep clean, help out in the kitchen, even look after siblings. My brothers just had to take out the trash, then laid back watching tv/playing video games. My dad was served first etc. My mom was southern and old school. In a relationship you simply do what works for your home. You cant help the family you are born into, but you can the one you create. People should seek to improve their own family life and if its time to step up because you see your partner is exhausted than that's what you have to do. Why over complicate relationships?
She talks too darn much and he's too pathetic as a husband. Running to your mama with your marital problems and for advice and not talking to your wife instead is just pathetic.
awesome video
He's so cute though 😆
Really 🤔
Cute does not pay the bills or his share of housework.
They got married too soon, JMO.
"If meat offends thy brother, don't eat it." So don't bring food in someone's house that you know they don't accept. Although the Mother could have said something, rather than throw it out. Some people eat dog and cat meat, please don't bring that in my home. (It's just 'Respect'.)
I really enjoyed watching this couple and they're really a good match and they're funny😊
Manny needs to get his mama to help him cook and clean
This situation is not irreparable, both sides need to do a little work but this is workable.
Nice couple. Hope they worked it out to last.
Lmao I know of this man actually 😂
Oh he smashed them cheeks huh
@@tguzman7408😂😂😂
He can interrupt but she can’t 😒ok
*This is the entire problem*
2:55 "She resembled my Mom"
He didn't want to be a husband, he wanted to a housekeeper/servant‼️
Hopefully Tereca dropped him
I already saw this before just revisiting again. Seem's he wishes she was like a Spanish woman but he not getting it.A man will NEVER love a woman the way she wants him to love her,some men only think with one head and it's not the brain.
He probably got a Hispanic girl now lol
Seems like he likes black women, he just wanted her to be like his mom, which is gross imo
He sure is handsome. I wish they coulda worked out but she knew these things before she married him. Now she wants to play the blame game, sad.
Lol this shitt is hilarious
Respect the house.
I wish someone would throw away my 🦐
U don't play with a pregnant woman's food...
Some hands would have been delivered 🤣🤣🤣😂
THIS IS OLD. WHY IS IT BEING PLAYED AS NEW?
Always hard for young couples. He was very affectionately talking about his wife she was demeaning him . Unfortunatelu he's traditional she's modern .
If he's so traditional why won't he get a damn job and keep it.?
@@Naomiluvsice
You sound foolish
Cute couple. Work it out.
🤗🤲🤍✨️
She talks wayyy to much in A courtroom so i can just imagine how she is at home smfh
I'm Black and my husband is Hispanic. I don't think it's a cultural thing
Sounds more like a religious difference. I’m black too but most Hispanic people are catholic with similar households are older black families. My family is still traditional black. Multiple generations living together and helping one another with raising children. It’s a village but these days black people are rebelling them against that.
What they are bringing up is purely cultural.
If he wasn't both y'all friend..he wasn't just a friend.
He looks like Jon B
I did
Unequally yoked
The wife don't follow all the bible, so why should he, and that mean he can put his mother first.
He’s not even following the Bible the hypocrisy
UNDERSTAND I ALWAYS see grown "A" MEN in the grocery store with they MAMA like they're HUSH and WIFE and it's mother and son it's the WEIRDEST ish to me and I notice it ALWAYS mexican men
I see what you did there, and it won’t work out, nice try
It’s good they divorced after this show
I give it 1/5 on my scale ratchet scale. Cute couple tho🙃
Lady you are the issue you change yourself that's on you and your mouth keeps running
once you go black.....oh wait