11 ways to become instantly more ATTRACTIVE according to Psychology :)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 31 พ.ค. 2024
- Do you consider yourself attractive? Have you ever met someone who you instantly wanted to spend more time with? Attractiveness or charisma is a well-researched topic and there are several theories on what makes someone attractive to others. Today I am breaking down several of those theories and sharing with you practical ways that you can apply them in your life while sharing anecdotes from my own experience of using these psychological phenomenons. There were several inspirations for this video including Mark Manson, Lana Blakely, Clark Kegly and more. Thanks to the research these creators put in that helped me bring this video to life ❤️
Enjoy and don't forget to subscribe ❤️
Chapters:
00:00 - Introduction
01:10 - 1. Looks
02:27 - 2. Confidence
03:31 - 3. Smile :) Reciprocal liking
04:20 - 4. Kindness
05:53 - 5. Authenticity
06:50 - 6. Mutual liking
08:22 - 7. How they make us feel
10:29 - 8. Relatability
11:12 - 9. Health and Fitness
11:41 - 10. Attitude/Behaviour
13:01 - 11. Good sense of humor
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Sometimes, the person you think is mean can turn out to be the kindest, while those who act friendly may be quite selfish. Be patient and give the "mean" ones a chance; they might become your true friends.
That's me 😅 my 2 friends thought I was rude and mean now I'll work on it
So true. I have been perceived to be rude and damn straightforward, but people found the kinder side of me only when they got close to me.
yup.. mean attracts mean and you got sucked right away once they knew you were their kind.
The usual introverts
So true..
00:04 Looks matter a lot and influence our perception of attractiveness.
01:53 Improving your attractiveness involves focusing on attitudes, fitness, grooming, and confidence.
03:33 Being kind and smiling more makes you instantly more attractive.
05:19 Kindness and Mistakes make you more attractive
07:06 Assuming that everybody already likes you can improve social interactions.
08:56 Developing effective presence includes active listening, making eye contact, open body language, giving genuine compliments, and regulating emotions.
10:40 Be more relatable and open with others.
12:24 Positive attitude and sense of humor make you more attractive
Thank youuu❤
Ty
Thanks for this comment ❤
Thankyou for the summary
Thank you
being a psych student, i loved the parts where you included real psychology studies and not some "psychology says" facts!! loved the video
Hello psych
Relax guys if you dont have this qualities , you can better have a govt job...😂😂
Exactly 🤣🤣
Correct 😂😂 I was thinking of that only😂😂
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Confidence
Smile-spread hapiness
Kindness- making other person feel valuable
Authenticity- accept your flaws
Reciprocity- believe everyone likes you
How they make you feel-good listener,open body lanuge,genuine appreciation
Relatability-
Health and fitness
Attitude towards yourself about you- you attract what you believeyou deserve
Good sense of humour
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We want a part 2 of this❤ love the way you also explain psychology behind every point 💫💫
Your youtube is so underrated. Appreciate the efforts that you are putting, even the video quality and editing deserves so many more subs❤. Feels good to find your channel. Really helpful❤
Your smile, way of talking, hand gestures, speaking with eyes.... everything is so so charismatic! I have lack of patience tbh but I listened and watched your video in one go!!! What a miracle!!😂 I love love love your energy! Keep going sister! I subscribed!!♥️💫
Yayy! Thank you 😍
I "relate" to you! The way Adete conducts herself, and her sense of originality along with the facts made me go Woahhh (Psst... here we have a relatability ; ) )
Ofc di we need a part 2 of this...loved part 1 💗
Just loved the Wisdom you shared
In awe of it❤❤❤
Plz do make the part 2 as well, would love to watch & know more about it
Just wondering how wonderful your content is .... the way u present it is really appreciable❤
Yours words were charming and light. I really appreciate your hard work on making such videos.
Wish you millions subs ahead. 😇👍
This is the first time I am watching your video, and I have just subscribed.. Thank you for this video and you are doing really great 😊
yes! a BIG YES for the part 2
Just loved it...noted each point😊 looks like relatability applied here . just subscribed
Please make part 2…I’m excited to see!
just make a part 2 already .... i can feel that why i am loving someone by your words..
I love your videos they are just crisp and clear❤️🤗 much love to you
This is the best video that i found...i enjoy every thing about this and i was just listen your how flawless you said ☺❤ and i wish you just keep going with this 😊
I follow this rules since 1.5 year & still believe me guy i seen lot of improvement..!
Ngl but your eye make up and your make up looks so good. I personally don't focus on people's faces much but you looked very presentable here and thus I watched the whole video in 1 go.
I have almost all of these traits and i kid you not everyone I meet i have this feeling that they instantly like me and wants to be around me!
Definitely, it was enlightening and informative but the background instrumental sound was outstanding
Helped alot
somthing I'm waiting for!!!❤
Happy to see your channel it's really informative n quite interesting.Ur content is too good. Keep growing us & growing you man. 🕊️✨💪
Such relevant points Adete.. its 💯 meaningful.. pls have part 2 shared.. loved that how you backed it up with not just logic but good psychological facts..and real life examples those are soo relatable.. happy vibes! ❤
Yayy. Glad it resonated with you
Definitely a part 2🌞🌞
After long I got a good stuff over here... With a beautiful smile.... Keep it up senorita
Wonderful video Adete, learnt alot and will definitely be applying what I learnt. Thanks!
Would really appreciate it if you could make a video on sense of humor or continuing conversations when running out of things to say
Hey great idea. Noted :)
Definitely want part 2
You're going to have millions of subscribers very soon. 🥂
loved this video !!🌹
Genuinely Liked this video💙💙
Discovered this channel. Subscribed!
Adete, you are LOVE! ❤
Literallyy everything said was true!!!❤❤❤
Very informative,part 2 please 😊🙌🏻
This video means a lot :)
Felt sooo happy and energatic after hearing you, sis❤😊
U are also Very attractive 😊
Loved your content .❤❤❤
Be consistent girl, i really want to see uh grow..your channel is literally underrated 🙃❤
Yes ma'am ❤❤❤
Interesting Video🎈 Adete.
Thanks for Sharing 🦋
@Dahiya right now you look the most attractive, beautiful, confident, pretty outfit and vibrant smile which is contagious too!!
Those are really good tips ❤❤
Just Amazing, Keep going 🔥
Great insights!
Part 2 pleaseeeeee!!!! 🌼
So as I've attracted to this video because of it has psychology facts and you explained beautifully your voice attracted me and you've missed that point one's voice is also attractive.❤
Stumbled upon on tis quality content...loved it...subscribed immediately...loved your charisma girl .😊... keep going...
Ayeee thank you so much ❤️
i mean wow.. 15 mins almost passed by and it jst felt like 5 mins. Thank you so much for making this video.
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yahh! also make a video on sense of humor 😀 I love to listen from you...
Useful 💯!!
Soo glad to have found your channel today! :')
Yayy ❤️
Thanks A Million for this Video. You made Great Video. I got nice knowledge and it will help me.
your videos are really insightful...
You are so pretty and charismatic!
Love the content
Hey dear who are you? Simply superb😊 you deserve millions..one fine day that would happen.. with my whole heart❤❤ congrats in advance!!
Best video ever❤
Loved it Adete❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
perfect content and best information put all together more such videos in the future
Editing was on point. That aside..I have never came across anyone who said Psychology helped me be more attractive. Besides this is a vastly subjective topic.
Please make part 2 about this topic
Glad this vid came across!! Useful❤ new subscriber:)
Very useful ❤
Hey Aditi i loved all tips and ideas btw Which Camera Do u use?
Thank you so much ma'am...🙏🙏💫😇
Very nice video
Thank you for the information
Your style of speaking ❤
7th point looks most important trait to become attractive I believe.
bro your sound design is so good:)
oooh thank you
Nice video I learned so much in this video Thank you 😊👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
This is so insightful! As always Amazing Adete ❤
Ayeee thank you! How are you? It’s been a while
@@AdeteDahiya yeah. I’ve been good! Love seeing your channel grow and such amazing content ♥️
what a communication incredible.
Di... Can u please make a video about how to stop being negative when there is full of negativity in our surrounding and also how to stop being judgemental.. And stop overtalking
You're so beautiful 😍 and I love the way how you were telling ❤
You are amazing ❤
part 2 bhi chaiyeeee!!!
i like the way u present ur opinions
looks is god gift. if you look good then everyone is attracted by u . nd thats the reasons why so many watching u. its not a negative comment but just telling the truth
Thanks A Million. I got nice youtube channel to Learn more knowledge and improve myself.
As per my understanding good character is most attractive things in life if we have good money but not good character nothing we have. So❤🎉
Part 2 please
video wonderfully made!
definitely make a Part-2
On it!
I've always wondered why Indian creators don't make this kind of content. Surely, this channel will gather an audience who look to Western creators for these topics, and it's definitely going to grow.
Need part 2
Well, I am sharing my personal experience di: I was emotionally vulnerable in my past and that kept backfiring upon me, until I stopped doing it :)
What I believe is, when you share your weakness with people, they don't tend to appreciate you for that, instead they use this weakness as a weapon to harm you at times :)
Appreciations for some advice on this!
very good information video
thankyu adele
your eyes is expressing more than your words.
Knowledgeable 😇 want part 2
It's already uppp th-cam.com/video/SaSrj_At59M/w-d-xo.html
I really loved the way you spoke throughout the vedio,
Thank you so much ❤️
I think a lot of people know all these things butt they didn't know actually how to implies it on their life bcz its easy to advice btt hard to implement
Heyyy.. what is the lip and cheek tint u used in this video.. it looks so natural
Most of these work yesss but a lot of them will not apply to men , but they are great advices regardless. Though they will apply on women better
That victorian styled music is interesting and out of place at the same time
Want you to make part 2 please your fan from Pakistan
Make part 2
1sr time and comment in your channel
Part - 2 🎉