PATERNITY MATTERS EP5 RESULTS ARE IN!! A 41 Year Paternity Secret is Revealed!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ก.ย. 2024
- Judge Lauren Lake comes off to bench to resolve questions of paternity for families face to face. In this episode Resha finally gets the truth about his paternity. A 41 year paternity secret with 4 possible fathers comes to an end!
Mom's was as wrong as 2 left shoes and has failed to complete her 12 Steps to recovery. She's still in denial about her role and unapologetic.
Facts!!!
Plus let’s not forget that she dropped the bombshell about another one of her children may have been fathered by Lemail. That woman is the gift that keeps on giving drama and confusion
I'm only 8minutes in. I won't be hard on her because stereotypically speaking, I would 110% bet this is some down south drama that was considered the norm. She actually said, matter of factly that she grew up believing her dad was her cousin; straight ïŋsce§t😢
And daddy is trying to act innocent when he was married or in a relationship. Hit and quit not once but twice. He looks a lil older than her so yes she fell for his okedoke, hook, line and sinker
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❤ we need to spread the info of this new show! I love how the judge still helping people!
Me Too !!!
Thank you so much for your support! Please spread the word. More incredible stories on the way. Court may be adjourned but the conversation must continue. Paternity truly matters.💙💛 Love you for watching!
Yes because I love her ❤
Yes I love this woman!!!! 🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎
@JudgeLaurenLakeTV I'm 39 and still trying to figure who my father is. So im so happy ur still doing this. May need your help for real.
Ms.Lauren your show needs to be back on TV
Amennnn
Asap!!!!
It’s criminal this show isn’t still on TV especially with the generation that can have babies now with the way they live
@@GETBIG4WARDI'd like to see more followup stories so folks can truly see the differences in the lives of the kids & parent with access to both parents vs living with lies.
Yup...back to court please
I noticed how narcissistic the mother was. She made it about herself SEVERAL times, and was a MESS with keeping secrets and telling lies. Reshard is definitely a good person for remembering calm. I hope he can heal❤
No. The mother got played by the father and became hardened. Men go back and forth between women and not all women can handle that because they get emotionally invested and so the child suffers.
I agree she was messing around and choose for this to happen
In the black community it’s bad to put any blame on Big Mama but they have done wrong just like tons of older men it’s time we hold all people accountable like you just did with her
U are so right 👍
Great discussion. Thank you so much for tuning in. There are a lot of layers here. Paternity matters are complex and that’s why it’s so important to get the truth. Stay tuned for more Paternity Matters. Spread the word!
His father is right to stand up for what he believes
Exactly & the fact that he has an issue with that is weird as hell .
@@NRansomWhat do you mean?
The guy is messed up in his head. You brought him to take a DNA test but you didn't want him to be the father because he disapproves of your sexuality. Boy grow up.
True
He told his son that no gay man is a son of his. That is not standing up for his beliefs. Who wouldn’t want to be accepted by their parents?
This is so painful. We have to do better for our children
Men and women
Whew, those parents are a handful. I'm glad that Resha has his answer now. I wish him well.
Thank you for watching! 💙💛
She is so manipulative and controlling!! She claimed she had to be at work but she was so hellbent on Lamail not speaking to Resha that she wouldn’t leave until Lamail left. She did everything she could to wait him out because she was afraid they would talk without her and get to the TRUTH.
Yessss
My heart goes out to the son. He deserved better than what he got. Hug the son he knows the truth finally. I wish the best life for him.
Amen.💙💛
Man!
We need to heal as a culture.
The poor decisions that we are making as a culture is devastating generations.
That maternity shirt is killing me.
Yesss I kept looking at her maternity shirt 😂
I'm glad I'm not the only one! LoL I was thinking what in the world is momma wearing a maternity shirt for? 😂
That shirt is so bizarre
The mother probably told him he wasn’t the father because she didn’t want him to be…that’s why she walked off after the results.
I think the mother should just limit the talking and stop blaming the dad
He was doing the same thing
There are so many children and even grown children that needs to resolve and close out the issues their parents created that effects their lives today. Judge Lauren Lake you are a blessing to the entire world and I am so proud of you....💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Thank you for your kind words. Paternity matters. 💙💛 I’m grateful God chose me to do this work. Please spread the word. More to come.
I had To Comment Mid Video.. I totally Agree With The Father.. He Have His Own Choice.. He Don't Have To Accept His Choice.. Everybody Have Their Own Choices No Matter How Anybody Feel.. No Matter The Relation.. He Dont Have To Accept His Sexuality No Matter What.. His Son Have To Realize That 💯
Exactly 💯 💯
It's all about her,she doesn't know any better
Yes and the son was annoying me. He kept looking for a reason to be mad at this man. He JUST found out he’s your dad and you wanna highlight being gay. The dad accepted it and tried to move forward but that’s all he kept talking bout.
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Exactly
You CAN love someone and NOT condone their lifestyle ❤
Facts
Your absolutely correct 👍🏾
💯 factual
Ol' boy didn't even want Leroy to be his pops. 😂😂... What about that?
Absolutely ‼️
The Mom was dead wrong. She told that man not to worry about it it's not his baby. I believe she was jealous of the other woman and took it out on the child. She wanted that child to hate dad because dad didn't love her. She's the cause of the situation..And Dad doesn't have to accept the son being gay period..
Right. The other woman in bad shape too. These men just bounce around from woman to woman and creating children and single mothers.
I agreed up to the end.
@@xbutterbeansme too
I agree with all you said but that man didnt have a chance to love her when she's conducting a parade of 4.
His wife**
His mom just sends me into a fit of rage!
Judge Lake is phenomenal. She does an excellent job in bringing closure and eradicating dysfunction.
Thank you Judge Lauren Lake for all that you do and for helping us with family matters and DNA .Thank you for staying encouraged with this family 💝 and allowing a voice for all family members.
Paternity Matters. This has been a ministry for me since Paternity Court. Court may be adjourned but the conversation must continue. Thank you for your support. Please spread the word. 💙💛
Thank you so much Judge Lauren Lake!
The mom is classic case of a TOXIC broken mother.
ODYSDES COMPLEX
EXACTLY!!
@@lillianwilliams5510I tried googling this term to no avail. Can you clarify what this means?
My advice to the son is not to fight with his dad about accepting his sexuality. He comes from a different generation. My mom is the same way but she is still in my life and we talk everyday. We just don’t discuss that part of my life. And it’s ok. We can agree to disagree but still love one another. Just be glad you have fam because many of the lgbt have no family.
This is so sad. Pride before a child’s life, happiness, and wellbeing. 😢. This woman’s just playing games out of spite, with no regard to the father or the children. She just said she told the man “he didn’t need to worry about it” indicating he either wasn’t the father or couldn’t be involved in the child’s life.
Pride is the devil.
Your taking what the father said for truth line he's real upstanding or something,the mother may have not made good choices but she was honest and told it all no matter how it made her look, and all he did was play the blame game.He was a cheater and from the sounds of it wasn't great or there for the other ones in and out of jail etc. Ppl keep trying to paint him a victim and innocent
So glad Reshard opened up in the end; May his healing and forgiveness bloom after these results. this show made my day cause I love to see you in this role
This was sooo real! Many families go through these situations and don't know how to move forward because of all the trauma involved. Shout out to Judge Lake for this 'straight-no chaser' example. May the family find healing and may others find the strength to heal heir family issues after viewing this.
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Not condoning that lifestyle is the first step of his son accepting his father's love. A love from a father doesn't violate the child.
Judge Lauren Lake, we DEFINITELY need you back on the big screen 📺 This show is very VITAL. I have seen some similar stories in my lifetime. It’s really sad because it’s the children/adult children who truly suffers in thee end. My husband was once a victim of paternity fraud some years ago! Your show inspired me and millions of others. Please, keep up the good work! We truly appreciate you more than you know. Many more blessings to you and your beautiful family 👑
This reminds me so much of my MIL. She had 6 kids by 5 men. My husband always wanted to know about his father, and his mother lied constantly about his name, where he was from ….. When we went to his hometown to get married, we visited some old family friends. They spilled the tea about everything. He spent the rest of his life trying to find him,to no avail. Hubby died young and I am still trying.
God bless you on your journey. It isn’t easy but necessary and worthwhile. Paternity matters.
He's been manipulated by his mentally ill mother for years. So, sad 😢
Yeah
And she’s not even taking accountability AT ALL!!! Even after the DNA results 🤷🏽♀️
Thank you Judge for bringing this back. This is so needed for children.
It is my sincere honor to help families and continue this important work. Thank you for tuning in. I appreciate you. Please spread the word. 💙💛
It's so sad. They are too stubborn to just be there for their son. Smh. It's also sad that he could not hear his father when he said I love you, but I don't condone your lifestyle.
Yes it was sad that he feels if you don’t accept a lifestyle you can’t still love and he’s 41 years old , might just be built up pain now . Idk 🤷🏽♀️
Place the blame exactly where it belongs, with the mother. Not only did she deny her son a relationship with his father through her words of the past, but even after the results were finally revealed, she still commented that the father should just *”Leave him alone”.*
About time Judge Lake we see you . Paternity does really matter. You present Paternity from LOVE.
Thanks.
Yes with love. Paternity Matters. Thank you for watching. Please spread the word! 💙💛
Great work, thank you. I hope that Resha and Lamail/Leroy can come together. Lamail can't be expected to make up for all the hurt Resha has experienced; he is expressing his sincere love for Resha and his acceptance of his sexuality in the way he can. Resha has some kind of block to accepting Lamail, which he stated (would have preferred if he weren't my father!).
No man wants a gay child
Very difficult but so happy we could get him the truth. It takes time to process all of this. Thank you for your support. Please spread the word.
It's nice to see Judge Lake still helping people! It's important work!
Is this about paternity or accepting homosexuality? Can we stay focused please?!
I'm going to say this as an educator, mothers, this type of mental and psychological nightmare plays out for the child when they're in the classroom and this type of issue when it comes to who's the parent or lessons on family structure or lessons on family tree and genealogy become a trigger for the student that has been messed up by moms like this! She's created a whole entire lifelong nightmare there are so many mothers just like her that lie and refuse to be accountable to the truth
This is sad. I believe children have a right to know the identity of their father. Mine passed when I was 18 months old, and I know it affected my life.
My heart hurts for the son because even though he got his answer he still had to listen to all that negativity that wasn’t warranted.
It would be nice if women have a child and not sure who the father, they take care of that at birth and not allow the child to grow up feeling unloved/wanted and so much more.
Praying for them all.
Im happy for him he got his answers while both parents are still alive
At the 7 min point I've had enough...the lady was on my 1st and last nerve
I love this show. I’m sharing this with everyone. Congratulations on your continued success, Judge L. Lake.🎉
Powerful message in the midst of the turmoil from the parents 💙
Amen. Thank you for watching this important work. Please spread the word. Paternity matters!💙💛
@@JudgeLaurenLakeTV absolutely!
This mom is a mess . She us at fault but blaming the father . Nobody knows better than the woman who her child is . She just won’t admit she didn’t know bc she was in drugs.
A lot of women do this I’m not saying ALL women do it but trust me as of today start to watch more closely I bet you will change your mind
Leroy got more sense than the both of them. She's bat shit crazy. Why did she jump up saying he was in denial and she had to go he's the only one acting like he cares he's the dad. Mom and son are nuts.
Mom is so wrong ,son, is HURT.
I think we would have understood more if they didn’t fast forward through the beef.
You..Judge Lauren…are God sent to soooo many ppl. I’m addicted to watching your show!!! I’m never been a soap opera or reality show watcher but as a now 56 yr old woman and mother of 2 adult kids, 2 separate fathers.. I was raised by my biological father and a bonus dad… there was NEVER hidden or unspoken secrets of paternity in our households. I am grateful to God for my mother and fathers and for the life that my siblings and I were given as children. We always share our childhood experiences with ppl who we’ve met along our journey to adulthood and parenting regarding how paternity does matter and be an awesome experience if honesty and compassion is put on front street when facing our kids and the adversities of parenting!! Continue to bring truth, light and families together with the gift and compassion that’s in your DNA to the world!!!
Thank you for those words and the support. Appreciate you. 💙💛
Omg, I cried for Resha! I am so happy that this issue is put to rest and that he has been able to liberate himself from the lingering question (of paternity). I pray that his father and mother can find peace and let the past be the past while supporting and loving Resha. I love this new show!
Can someone please comfort the young man?!
Judge Lake, I LOVED this episode! You SHINE no matter where you are...court room or at home 🙌🏾👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
My heart aches for him. I'm so grateful for my mom and dad and the values they instilled in me.
I love this!!! I always watched her other paternity show and while it was good I always felt like because of the timing I couldn’t get the full story. In this format she gets to spend more time with the families and we get to see them being guided to a better place.
Great point. 😊
I feel so bad for their son. I'm so sorry his mom did this to him. It really is her fault. She needs to take responsibility. He feels torn between living his mom and her poor deeds. If his dad doesn't co done it so what, still get to know your dad. Condoning vs accepting your child are two different things. I hope they can start a relationship. Mom caused a mess.
Barbara was just messy back in the day😮
And messy now!
Yesss
It’s crazy I was in a paternity secret for years only thing I didn’t know exactly what the secret was. I met my biological father at 45 and it was my mother who prevented me from knowing him, but he never looked for me and according to him he named me. Ughhhh they both was grimy and there end fits there lives
I love how the Lauren Lake
truly cares about people.
She's an Exemplary Woman.💯
Thank you kindly. I truly do.
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You're Welcome, 💯
I Admired You for Years
on Paternity Court.🏆
I Still Watch Paternity Court.✅
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God Bless You & Yours.💐
I’m so glad she has a New Show ❤I love her , good judge and great compassion and empathy . But will tell you if your messing up !! Straight up 👍🏻♥️
Oh this format of the show is really great. Judge Lake is a very compassionate person fighting for the truth behind paternity issues. She does it in such a classy way
Sweet baby Jesus, Barbara got major problems.. she sitting up there like someone owed her, and she don't see the big issue.. not truly apologetic to her son or this man. Judge Lake did her best maintaining her cool.
I thoroughly enjoyed this segment! It's just family sitting on the couch with Mrs. Lauren as the mediator, this is a great show!. I hope the family can be well together ❤️
Thanks for coming back on television to help. Knowing your real Daddy Really Matters .
Wow I went to middle school with Resha so sorry he had to go through this
I just found this video Mrs. Lake we need you back on TV
This is the ALL the mom's fault! Emasculated her son by thinking she was going to be the mom AND DAD and now Reshard thinks his father is suppose to condone the result of it but Dad also not acknowledging that his absence has contributed to it. The son is mad at the Dad but not the mom? SMH I pray for Reshard's healing as well as the parents.
It's so sad
There’s a saying that “Broken people do broken things” which is the reason why you can’t really put blame on the mother or the father. The son had the right to know the identity of his father but she was so broken she didn’t see her way to identify a father - not when he was born nor at a later age. The father ducked after the mother told him “don’t worry about it.” He was broken too. I hope the son gets the help he needs for his path of healing. Judge Lauren Lake was right to tell the parents the focus needed to be on the son. #BlessEverySituation
Honestly in my opinion,the real reason she didn’t put the fathers on her kids birth certificates was the fact she was not sure who their father was.
Is that woman pregnant or does she not know what kinda shirt she got on🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’d first like to say I appreciate how Judge Lauren has real, non-actors on the new show unlike another new show that started recently with another beloved judge.
Good luck young man. Keep being who you are always. All the best to you. ❤
Thank you Judge Lake for continuing to change lives
I actually love this one better. Only because you are able to interact with them more. Like you were able to talk with him after they left. He needed that talk from you one on one. ❤❤I’m glad to see you back Judge ❤❤
Thank you Judge Lake for all you do to help families heal ❤
Judge Lake, I always appreciated how you handled the plaintiff/defendants in Paternity Court. You're meant to work these kinds of cases.
What a lie. You can't put the Dads name unless he is there to sign. She knows that. What a HORRIBLE Mother to KNOWINGLY keep her son's Father out of his life.
Only if you are married can you put the man’s name down without his signature in many states.
Old man was in the streets and now he acting all kinds of shocked lol smh
Prayers for Judge Lake. It is obvious she was holding herself to keep from crying when she was talking about her father
Was her mother in.her life she only talks about her grandmother.
Doing my best to carry on but it is hard. Miss my Daddy every day. 💙💛
I’m so glad this man was able to get closure. Love from NY.
I wonder does she know that's a pregnancy shirt.
Thank you for pointing that out, that shirt makes it even more tragicomical. Sweet Lord🙄
This is crazy 😐
Lol right I’m saying damm I know this lady not pregnant
Bruh 🙁🙁🙁😩😫
So glad Judge Lauren Lake is continuing this journey!!!
Her mind is fried, the father is the one with some sense
I'm so glad his father didn't walk out on him when he admitted he gay that in itself let you know he love him no matter what. I hope you get a chance to do a DNA on the other child so this will be complete for him too. I love you Mrs. Lauren I've been watching all your episodes. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Maybe I shouldn't comment yet, but 4 mins in and I'm like 😮. Let's call a spade a spade, she was slack and irresponsible, for whatever reason, justified or unjustified. She just needs to own it, and stop embarrassing herself and her child, especially as there are 4 possibilities.
Children need to know their father's, regardless of your relationship with the man. No if buts or maybe's. As a woman you need to know who your sleeping with.
I would just BE QUIET!!!!!
Why isnt this on TV!??? THIS IS WHAT SOCIETY NEEDS 😢
Thank you judge to spreading the positivity within the community, much love sister 😊🎉🎉
What happened to the mother to cause her to act like this, if she had a father in her life? Only trauma turns out drama like this.
This is how folks end up falling in love with their sibling...don't even know they're related.
She found out a cousin was her biological father but sounds like she had a step-father in her life 🤷🏽♀️
@@juliadonnell22 WOW!!!!!
I love judge lake so much may god continue to bless you and thank you for keeping up the good work
We all need u back on television..... pleeeeeeeeerz!!!
Both of the parents failed. The mama mad at the dad because he was going back and forth between women and made the decision to cut him out of the child's life. Men need to stop bouncing around and women need to do the same. Both parents need to provide for the child's well being regardless.
It's crazy how the mom blame him and he blamed her and the result said his the father and they still had a problem
The mother is horrible and loves the blame being towards this man …she is a sad case
Undiagnosed mental illness is sooo prominent in our community. #MomneedsHelp
Yesss
Sooo true people just look the other way the children are the ones that suffer in the end!!!!! peace be with the family prayers for all 💕🙏🏽🌌💫
You're an angel, God is using you to do a very important thing to people who are searching for their father, God bless you
Hi judge Lauren lake ru tonight and your beautiful family 😇 have a blessed night thank you for all the ❤❤and support you give God bless you 🤩🥰😘♥️😇😇🫂
She point out some key words and glad she addressed that abt the dad he said he don't condone it but he still luv him its a understanding God bless 😊
I just want to give Rashar a huge hug. I pray that he has found room for a little forgiveness and he & his father could have a man to man conversation. It would fill that whole in his heart. I'm a living witness. ❤
What a tragicomedy of errors🙄 I kept thinking what a great sketch material this interview would be when judge Lake tried to make head or tail of that crazy story. I personally lost the mother at hello, there were too many turns.
The son has to realize there is a difference in accepting and condoning it.
Judge Lauren Lake is a beautiful woman inside and out! A true Queen! Keep it up my Elder…RESPECT
The most honest statement I heard while watching this, was that Rashad doesn't need No one to validate his life nor his lifestyle.
And for that I applaud Judge Lake.
He’s a handsome guy, I understand how he’s feel and being in the system. My heart goes out too him.
THAT ‘MAMA’ 🗑️
GUILTY AS CHARGED BUT DON’T WANT TO TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY
Why he accepted his mom's behavior and can't accep the dad not accepting a lifestyle he may not understand. So his son doesn't want him to be the father causes he doesn't approve of his sexual choice. leave off sexual choice and know we don't always agree with the choices of others and our own choices. Let love lead the way. Love is not always approving of choices but just loving regardless of the choices