STORYTIME : My blesser experience ! Doing Anything For The Soft Life | South African Youtuber

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  • Hey Guys ❤️
    I am back with yet another #storytime 💀
    I hope you enjoy it, and please do not leave without subscribing 🤌🏾
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  • @jaiyaalexandra144
    @jaiyaalexandra144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    There is nothing wrong with drinking wine from Woolies, Spier is like R60, there is nothing wrong with wearing clothes from Legit or the Fix. We just need to be content with what we have and learn to hustle for our own.

    • @liehash
      @liehash 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Or just go on over to the discount stores for a Zara & Polo fit. Stay in your lane and sleep peacefully at night.

    • @ZNMelowLeloNeka
      @ZNMelowLeloNeka ปีที่แล้ว +7

      nazo izingubo ze The Fix is softlife for some of us

    • @nizarr21
      @nizarr21 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ZNMelowLeloNeka girl, prices in The Fix (specifically in Zambia) are not affordable for the average Zambian, softlife for sure!

  • @orchid2407
    @orchid2407 2 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    "You obviously love me if you are sending me money" is not true. These men are giving women their spare change, it might be a lot for you but remember it is his spare change not proof of love or committment.

  • @naledimodise7175
    @naledimodise7175 2 ปีที่แล้ว +373

    This is very insightful. Work hard for the life that you want, nothing comes easy. Soft life seems glamorous but at what cost?!

    • @nkanyezinadine
      @nkanyezinadine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Well said there Mrs Modise

  • @leratoramz6515
    @leratoramz6515 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    That videographer guy was your guardian angel.

  • @lithembat1324
    @lithembat1324 2 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    I love how chilled you are, the sarcasm in your voice nje

    • @SbusiePhoswa
      @SbusiePhoswa  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you mama 😅❤️

  • @asiphentuli184
    @asiphentuli184 2 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    A man with money gives you everything but YOU pay for it . So glad you ladies were able to escape.

  • @PortiaRufu
    @PortiaRufu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    TH-cam recommended this video and I don’t regret clicking
    😂😂😂😂😂haaaa no ways, please i laughed so much on this video. The way you telling the story, love it

    • @SbusiePhoswa
      @SbusiePhoswa  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂 Thank you mama❤️

    • @anathi_m21
      @anathi_m21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same... I'm literally on the floor😂😂😂🤣🤣😭😂😂😭😭💔💔

  • @freshangel1
    @freshangel1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Thank you for the insight- the selling you part really broke my heart what in the world : the entitlement of it all.
    A blesser is a softer version of a human trafficker !!!!!

  • @bridelamb2000
    @bridelamb2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "Sizalwa abafundisi thina guys" I felt this!!!
    Praise be unto Jesus, He prevailed that day.

  • @msflowie_
    @msflowie_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    Thank you for informing the girls out there. It's really hard to work and build your life by yourself but eventually you reap the benefits, I hope a lot of young women get to see this. God was protecting you.

  • @chosenqueen5109
    @chosenqueen5109 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    You girls were divinely protected 😲💚

  • @sanmak3283
    @sanmak3283 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I hope you bought the videographer a big Thank You gift. He was your guardian angel or sent by your ancestors, whichever you believe 😊. Great story, great lesson for all.

    • @tatendamusiiwa2843
      @tatendamusiiwa2843 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Totally agree. He really pulled through like a real brother. Look for him and thank him. I hope so many young girls can watch this and listen. May you be blessed with your heart's desires you look like you can conquer the world. Beauty and a whole powerful brain.

  • @leandraK
    @leandraK 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Listening to this I am so thankful of the friends I have. As childish as they are, they are extremely wise. I have had blessors offer and vele sometimes soft life is so tempting but they always advise against even though they are also tempted by the idea of it.

    • @jaiyaalexandra144
      @jaiyaalexandra144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I've never even been tempted, no amount of money is, worth my self -worth and trust me I'm easy on the eye. I was just raised to be content with what I have and to pray for more.

  • @vaarbz6764
    @vaarbz6764 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    This is probably the first time I listened to a story time from start to finish. I love your personality.

  • @fundiswajuqu1177
    @fundiswajuqu1177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Human trafficking sekuyinto of the past😂😂😂your sarcasm is on another level and I love how you don't sugarcoat anything. You have gained a new subbie

    • @SbusiePhoswa
      @SbusiePhoswa  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Of the past 💔😂, thank you ❤️😍

  • @JessicaBusii
    @JessicaBusii 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    I hope this video goes viral. Many girls need to hear this!!

  • @neegee3755
    @neegee3755 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Such videos should be promoted to warn others. I keep warning young girls about the darker world.

  • @zhouadwina918
    @zhouadwina918 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    blesser blessee relationships have nothing to do with love its all about what each can get from the other its about control and lust

  • @bayandazondi3145
    @bayandazondi3145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    keep the story times coming. loved this

  • @carolgreenfield5251
    @carolgreenfield5251 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Remember to run ur numbers for your retirement now to know how much u need to set aside now until then. Don't get used to a life u cant sustain when ur strongest assets are gone.♡

  • @okuhledinga6011
    @okuhledinga6011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Enjoyed this video. Wish I knew how to do makeup because yours looks amazing. I don't even know the different brushes. Your story telling is amazing. Please make more videos

  • @CingwaneElihle
    @CingwaneElihle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Yhooo you have made my day😂😂 Your personality is everything!!!!

    • @SbusiePhoswa
      @SbusiePhoswa  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you mama ❤️😂

  • @pearlnkuna4318
    @pearlnkuna4318 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    You are so soft and sooo calming😍Love you, loved the story time❤️

    • @SbusiePhoswa
      @SbusiePhoswa  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you mama❤️, I love you more 🥺😍

  • @mosimatjale6756
    @mosimatjale6756 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    we need a part 2 please
    you such a great storyteller

  • @robbylebotha
    @robbylebotha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Men are simple,"If I pay for it, I own it and I can do what I want with it". A guy that can bless you is not a problem, if he can afford to bless you then he can teach how or plug you on how you can make money too, if he doesn't even try to do that then you're in for trouble. It feels nice to know you can help your girl financially but it feels even better to help her make her own money too.

  • @nokwandadlamini3534
    @nokwandadlamini3534 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I love your honesty and i definitely enjoyed the way you told the story, you're funny

    • @SbusiePhoswa
      @SbusiePhoswa  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you mama ❤️😭

  • @bafedilemotshome7524
    @bafedilemotshome7524 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow glad you are safe.thanks for teaching young woman.

  • @siphiwembambo3842
    @siphiwembambo3842 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Love you Sbusie and I love how you add isiZulu in the mix. Ngaze ngakuthanda!!

  • @CindyBabalwa_
    @CindyBabalwa_ ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That first line "Kuyafana you are sinner, you've got a child you might as well do it" 😂😂🤣🤣 Indeed I am

  • @JessicaBusii
    @JessicaBusii 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Wow. To be honest at first I was a bit judgey wudgey but then I totally understood your why at the time. Just so glad you ladies got out safe!!!!

  • @elizabethsilas3191
    @elizabethsilas3191 2 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Not to sound rude but we don’t all understand your language and it makes it hard for us to keep up. Not only SouthAfricans are watching 💕

    • @SbusiePhoswa
      @SbusiePhoswa  2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Sorry mama ❤️😩. I should accommodate all of you. Next time i will speak in English

    • @reginahmwepwe5904
      @reginahmwepwe5904 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@SbusiePhoswa please add subtitles

    • @marthaniitembu1077
      @marthaniitembu1077 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I almost said the same thing.

    • @taniachara77
      @taniachara77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      I think maybe subtitles. She has a right to speak her own language and cater to those who understand. She’s not English. Her language matters as well. People don’t say that when watching French videos, so let’s respect African languages as well.

    • @Teekay_Twala
      @Teekay_Twala 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@SbusiePhoswa Simnandi is’zulu, kuncono ama subtitles.

  • @lesedimonyadi4074
    @lesedimonyadi4074 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I loved this 😂😍 thanks for sharing

  • @karenmwengwe5052
    @karenmwengwe5052 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jhoo. What a narrow escape. Soft life 🙌🏾

  • @gudanimashamba2642
    @gudanimashamba2642 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "you are a sinner, you even have child" rent free🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂gurll I enjoyed

  • @ayandamgiba3912
    @ayandamgiba3912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I've learnt a lot from this storytime. Thank you sis 😍

  • @FebineAwuor
    @FebineAwuor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I'm glad I learned something from this. Nothing always come for free and never to trust anyone.

  • @dimakhoele6058
    @dimakhoele6058 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Women must work hard, imagine all these for a cellphone, a dress, food...bathong. these are basics u can do from your own salary mos. Contract phone costs around 200 per month. Being lazy is a challenge 😴. Work women , even if its cleaning and domestic work.

  • @pearlem3421
    @pearlem3421 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    hey, thank you so much for sharing your story.
    PS. I really loved your concealer, do you mind sharing which concealer you used?

  • @katlegomaserumule9076
    @katlegomaserumule9076 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My new favorite TH-camr 😍

  • @CANDIEELU
    @CANDIEELU 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Greetings 🇯🇲 loved the lessons

  • @nonsikeleocleopatra377
    @nonsikeleocleopatra377 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Thank you for opening up to us about something this scary. Thank God you guys were saved.
    Unomoya o phansi, ngithanda indlela okhuluma ngayo.

  • @veeberry6720
    @veeberry6720 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sending love from Kenya,loved your story sis

  • @justineiyambo5197
    @justineiyambo5197 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Hi there. Absolutely loved your story time . I’m from Nambia so I missed the parts you spoke in your language but other than that I really liked it

    • @campusdiary_ro9328
      @campusdiary_ro9328 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah, me too, I’m Ghanaian. I think subtitles of translation would have been good. I’m a TH-camr too. You can subscribe

  • @trueprincess
    @trueprincess 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow ayi emhlabeni kunzima guys!! 😩😩😩 loved this storytime

  • @dinisibiya7493
    @dinisibiya7493 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Thanks dear, hopefully our younger sisters are learning...You escaped through the grace, 1 grace.

    • @SbusiePhoswa
      @SbusiePhoswa  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It was by grace ❤️

  • @philistasmakhanya8162
    @philistasmakhanya8162 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Your makeup look low-key gave Mihlali Ndamase😍🔥 umuhle mama🥺

    • @helvitangi8199
      @helvitangi8199 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I thought I was the only one who saw it.

    • @ItsTynoe
      @ItsTynoe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right!!

    • @shyleensibanda4235
      @shyleensibanda4235 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I clicked to the video thinking its mihlali but ended up watching the whole video and l enjoyed

    • @philistasmakhanya8162
      @philistasmakhanya8162 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shyleensibanda4235 that's how I also became a subscriber lol

  • @leemnisi3421
    @leemnisi3421 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    How did u guys even escape? U went to the toilet and then? Was it at a garage or what? Did they see u walking out of the toilet? Did u run or requested an Uber? Didn't they try to hurt u while escaping? Full details pls

  • @wenzilemayisa5186
    @wenzilemayisa5186 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for being a sister for real.

  • @zamamjilo2838
    @zamamjilo2838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You are gorgeous and hilarious,siyabonga sisi for sharing your story definitely going to help many girls ngoba siyazithanda izinto

  • @sbahlembuthu8271
    @sbahlembuthu8271 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It’s the “Uwumnini mandla wonke yena manje”😂😂💀 for me
    Yoh I’ve been laughing 💀 when you said “leziya ngoma nje zazibheda 💀 ngang’qala ukuzwa iyngoma eybheda kanje😂😂”

  • @willbullock
    @willbullock 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hello Sbusie 👋 your video looks very informative, but indeed you are so beautiful without any makeup 💄 😊 Abundant Blessings 🙌

  • @katlegopapudi
    @katlegopapudi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Omg I missed your videos so much, I kept checking your channel for new videos everyday 😂❤️

    • @SbusiePhoswa
      @SbusiePhoswa  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😭❤️ I appreciate you mama ❤️😍

  • @natasha.n
    @natasha.n 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i missed some parts because i’m not zulu but this was genuinely worth it. its insightful

    • @point.blank.period.
      @point.blank.period. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You didn’t miss much she just repeated what she said in English in Zulu

  • @Lifewith_charlotte_
    @Lifewith_charlotte_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    New to your channel. You are such a good story teller. Enjoyed the video.

  • @michelleb9598
    @michelleb9598 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Sorry for the nonsense I’ve been leaving in your comment section. This story is great xoxo 💋

  • @ChroniclesOfANamibianGirlChild
    @ChroniclesOfANamibianGirlChild 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Subtitles please, watching from Namibia…
    This was very insightful.

  • @Zeeiconoclastic
    @Zeeiconoclastic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Yeah I am glad I saw this video. Social media really gives us just a glimpse of things and we don't even know the full story. Thank for sharing your story.

  • @LsgNyembe
    @LsgNyembe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Livers ain’t the same , I felt that 😆

  • @ConnieDube
    @ConnieDube 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    loved this storytime can we have more ❤

  • @Zwelethu202
    @Zwelethu202 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so so much for this insightful information!

  • @whynotKelly
    @whynotKelly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Girl your thumbnails though 🔥

  • @titileboea6518
    @titileboea6518 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Not you referring to them as “ o D’banj” 😭😭😂😂😂😂. Love how the look turned out and I absolutely enjoyed the story❤️

    • @SbusiePhoswa
      @SbusiePhoswa  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂 Thank you mama ❤️🥺

    • @nzuzothwala9683
      @nzuzothwala9683 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂🙆‍♀️

  • @beinspired813
    @beinspired813 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I wish you spoke more English this story is amazing but am missing some parts😭 love from kenya

    • @whitneymisati3929
      @whitneymisati3929 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      HAHA we must be seeenn!!! hahaha her story is amaizing KE we representing

  • @Mntungwa77
    @Mntungwa77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    You girls are brave! I can’t imagine myself just following someone I do not know!!!! Glad you managed to escape!!! By the way, you look great with makeup….but you actually look better without it

  • @xolilehlomphosegokgo2224
    @xolilehlomphosegokgo2224 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    A re i snatched my blesser from my friend 🤣

  • @angelnzuzo3279
    @angelnzuzo3279 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thoroughly enjoyed this...

  • @boikanopelomalahle3297
    @boikanopelomalahle3297 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really enjoyed the story, will definitely subscribe

  • @allthingsbutter3823
    @allthingsbutter3823 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best story teller❤️

  • @Navigating_Modesty
    @Navigating_Modesty 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Loved this!!😂😂. Also please mention where you got your hair from?

  • @asandebuthelezi
    @asandebuthelezi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love your voice girl❤

  • @nokuthulambonani1284
    @nokuthulambonani1284 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    May we please get a part 2 of the escape. 🤣😭

  • @nomthagocina3770
    @nomthagocina3770 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was really entertaining 😭😂

  • @nthabelengprincess912
    @nthabelengprincess912 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    First time watching your videos and I love them❤❤

  • @yonelamguca230
    @yonelamguca230 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I enjoyed both the story and watching the make up

  • @yolisajobela7029
    @yolisajobela7029 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm literally binge-watching your channel 🤣🤣

  • @ubabygirl
    @ubabygirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have gained a subscriber!!! I like your page

  • @vezi1808
    @vezi1808 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your honesty 👌🏾💖

  • @thepretty_taurus0746
    @thepretty_taurus0746 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love you more hunny 🥰🥰thank you so much 🤩

  • @nethilenelisiwe3225
    @nethilenelisiwe3225 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    😂😂😂😂😂😂"lengoma ngeke yaziwe"
    No maan I had to sub and I can say I love you 😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️

  • @lesedilucymotloung
    @lesedilucymotloung 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You are so beautiful, your story time is so interesting. I can just imagine if the videographer didn't recognize you 🙀 mathata

    • @SbusiePhoswa
      @SbusiePhoswa  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Imagine 😭, the trauma !!
      Thank you mama ❤️

  • @hannyjaffer4968
    @hannyjaffer4968 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing your story n It may change someone out their

  • @whysotravelous
    @whysotravelous 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this

  • @revolutionforexmentorship1605
    @revolutionforexmentorship1605 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m from Lesotho but I heard everything you said, thanks

  • @miss_justice
    @miss_justice 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yani siza ivideographer 😭😭 thank you for sharing 🤎🤎.

  • @AndileNzimande
    @AndileNzimande 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved this!😂

  • @angelalerato_m
    @angelalerato_m ปีที่แล้ว

    Yoh I’m so glad you guys managed to escape.

  • @phakahmazibuko7968
    @phakahmazibuko7968 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “Ngiyingane kaMfundisi” 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭 I couldn’t believe you said that 😂😂😂

  • @laylaauroraphoenix
    @laylaauroraphoenix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    New subscriber❤️
    Please make part 2 of how y'all escaped

  • @araesmelisa2819
    @araesmelisa2819 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    You have great content but you take long to get to the point....😩

    • @NonhlanhlaLima
      @NonhlanhlaLima 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's very true..I even skip some of her video 😢

  • @leratonkhethoa7369
    @leratonkhethoa7369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We need a continuation of how you actually excaped from the bathroom till you got home

  • @BABALWAGUDLA
    @BABALWAGUDLA 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The sarcasm is what gets me 😄..

  • @VocalArina
    @VocalArina 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Enjoyed your story, keep it up

  • @feziwesodwele1907
    @feziwesodwele1907 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl you the vibe as for “sizalwa ngabafundisi 💀💀💀umuhle always value your self

  • @theesandiselebuthelezi1381
    @theesandiselebuthelezi1381 ปีที่แล้ว

    Haweeemahhh😭😭😭😭 I am so happy you are safe 🥺♥️

    • @theesandiselebuthelezi1381
      @theesandiselebuthelezi1381 ปีที่แล้ว

      But I love how arlerting this is for the girls tight there 🥺 thank you so much sbusie

  • @kimberlybangira8304
    @kimberlybangira8304 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    you always have to carry money with you... we call it “che rough” or money just incase they do you rough... thx for the story

  • @nombusophoswa1551
    @nombusophoswa1551 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl keep it up ❤️

  • @aveladywili
    @aveladywili 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I dont just enjoy your storytimes i love you❤️

    • @SbusiePhoswa
      @SbusiePhoswa  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aaah mama 🥺❤️😍, I love you more

  • @sanelefavorkukulela8007
    @sanelefavorkukulela8007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    'guys thina sizalwa abafundisi' 😩😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😩

  • @Shenay_braaf
    @Shenay_braaf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So beautiful ♥️

  • @selaelosetsiba5
    @selaelosetsiba5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey where did you buy your gown ?