1.Emotional not practical Compatibility _Faith _Character _Companionships 2.Blinds you from other good options around you. 3.Neglect due process _Building rlships and friendship 4.Selfish...(one sided love never works) _Interests must be there.. _It must be mutual _Desperation doesn't help _Engage in conversation with other people ✓Infatuation is instant.true love takes time ✓Wen u see someone in the first time and like the person..its_Attraction ✓ Don't confuse attention and intention ✓Real time is important to know someone. ✓Wen it's infatuation u have an idea of the person not the real person.
I know this video was made for me coz 😂 I can relate to everything. This is my present situationship and I’ve even been praying to God to lemme know if I should go ahead. So thank you Jesus coz it’s a U turn from here onwards 😂
I just want to thank my God, Jehovha for making it possible for me to see this video just on time . I was facing the same challenge and now I have got my answer glory be to God . Thank you pastor Kingsley
As long a someone is interested in you and wants to be with you, you can only know what the person wants you to know about him/her. Because people act up when they are interested and usually hide their shortcomings and advertise their qualities. That's why as much as we can, we shouldn't start with visuals when knowing people. We should conceal the visuals and other external triggers as much as we can. Thus shielding ourselves from any emotional connections. There is a way to implement that. It's called inside out courtship. People start to know others anonymously inside with all the internal values. And it's after they have found enough people with whom they match inside that they consider seeing themselves outside just to assess external things when they are ready for marriage. This approach works very well and it will improve relationships tremendously if it can be implemented at a large scale.
Love at first sight does not exist but attraction at first sight is very true.Hiw can you love someone you just met and never knew from anywhere? Infatuation is sharp sharp as e dey hot while true love takes time. These are words on marble pst.k
Isn't God so amazing? This is exactly the massage my heart was longing for at this particular moment 🙏 thank you so much man of God for this valid information 🙏....especially about one sided love.
Accepted the proposal of a guy whom i hv known for abt 6 mnths now, started as friends and i fell in love with him with my head, cuz am open to some of his flaws but then he accepts his flaws when confronted, n requests for help to mke it ryt... praying things work out.
Can a relationship founded on wrong reasons be salvaged after a fallout? 'specially when there are intentions to do it the right way. I'm referring to any kind of relationship.
Omo, this is me ooo. i fell for someone and i was just thinking only about how i felt not necessarily about the other party. love this thanks PK and PM
1. Emotional vs. Practical-- beyond chemistry into compatibility, companionship (friendship), and character. a) Compatibility-- faith, purpose in life. 2. Falling in love blinds you to other good options. 3. You neglect due process. Building friendship. 4. Real relationships should be built on more than one person. Requires mutuality. 5.
Imma listen to this again till all of it sinks in. True till u separate the outside with what's inside u might just b doing ut wrong. Cos when u get to see the real inside of this person. N it's contrary with thier outside then u need more known him or her
Really appreciate this video Hope the information can actually enter If it’s not infatuation I find it hard to stick around long enough to see the guy for who he is Everything they do irritates me but I know it’s not the behaviour Because if that same behaviours exhibited from someone I was infatuated with I would embrace it and enjoy it
I have falling in Love at first sight,and I married myself for 15 years,after that I leave the marriage and have peace I concur to all you said,I have experienced it,so frustrating..
Thank you very much for this wonderful message. I know I am guilty of most of the things you talked about. I have a question: How can someone distance themselves from becoming attached or falling for someone even without knowing the person? Because I realized that even subconsciously it still happens.
Thank you, pastor Kingsley for the eye-opener message. You can be single and emotionally occupied. This has been my story for 2 years now. This helped, GOD BLESS.
Pastor K. You the the Jesus of our dating & marriage. Thank God for sending you to save us. Sir, seeing the girl and being attracted by her then how do i follow and study her to say that I love heeeeer!
1.Emotional not practical
Compatibility
_Faith
_Character
_Companionships
2.Blinds you from other good options around you.
3.Neglect due process
_Building rlships and friendship
4.Selfish...(one sided love never works)
_Interests must be there..
_It must be mutual
_Desperation doesn't help
_Engage in conversation with
other people
✓Infatuation is instant.true love takes time
✓Wen u see someone in the first time and like the person..its_Attraction
✓ Don't confuse attention and intention
✓Real time is important to know someone.
✓Wen it's infatuation u have an idea of the person not the real person.
Hello there
God bless you for the summary❤
Thank God i came on TH-cam today 🥺💔I feel this video was made for me.Thank you pastor.
Please pastor,how do i get the book who should i marry???
😮 25:56 26:12
We're nothing but pencils in the hands of the creator. 😂
Thank you Sir.
PK has scattered this table to pieces 😂
I know this video was made for me coz 😂 I can relate to everything. This is my present situationship and I’ve even been praying to God to lemme know if I should go ahead. So thank you Jesus coz it’s a U turn from here onwards 😂
Congratulations 🎉
😂😂 same here. Did you also do that prayer of "God if he's not the one take him away" 😅
Yes o. Wow looking back at this comment from just 2 weeks ago and I can say he was never the one 😊
I'm happy for you😊
@@Vheekeeyhmmmmn deeep God will help us make right choices oh😢
INFATUATION is usually instant but TRUE LOVE takes time.
Don't confuse ATTENTION with INTENTION.
it's selfishness to love someone who doesn't love you back the same way you love them.
I really pray the hearts of as many single persons will be open to understand this teaching and be guided by it, so they make the right choice.
Amen❤
AMEN 🙏
Amen 🙏
What are we? We are pencils😂. Always learning from you and I never get used to the fun sir.
Came here for ds comment
😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
😂😂 and I was eating
I wan choke
😂😂
Let’s be real, some people actually put their children in a school cuz they like the uniform 😂
'We are pencils in the hands of the creator'…😂😂😭😂
Wale Adenuga Productions that year😄
Single but emotionally occupied..this hit hard.Thank you Pastor❤
Indeed, I've never been bored listening to PK! This man is a gift to the body of Christ! 👌
Nevaa
Sincerely ❤
Can never
I just love this man if all youth will have the opportunity to listen to this man before they enter a relationship owwww
My flesh is saying I should send the link to a lady that was seriously crushing on my fiance but my spirit just gave me bombastic side eye 😒🤣🤣🤣
😅😅
Everything said in this video is just a photocopy of what 99% of ladies do. Thank you pastor. I'm learning and changing 🙏🙏🙏
I just want to thank my God, Jehovha for making it possible for me to see this video just on time . I was facing the same challenge and now I have got my answer glory be to God . Thank you pastor Kingsley
PK, i have never been tired of following you right from silverbird and having pastor M also, God bless you sir
Yeah me too... then He was really slim but making irresistible sense even up till now. The Anointing is always fresh and real.💪💪💪
Yes o. Right from silverbird channel
“Someone can be chasing you to snatch your purse” haha😄
Infatuation is instant. Love is a gradual process!
As long a someone is interested in you and wants to be with you, you can only know what the person wants you to know about him/her. Because people act up when they are interested and usually hide their shortcomings and advertise their qualities.
That's why as much as we can, we shouldn't start with visuals when knowing people. We should conceal the visuals and other external triggers as much as we can. Thus shielding ourselves from any emotional connections.
There is a way to implement that. It's called inside out courtship.
People start to know others anonymously inside with all the internal values. And it's after they have found enough people with whom they match inside that they consider seeing themselves outside just to assess external things when they are ready for marriage.
This approach works very well and it will improve relationships tremendously if it can be implemented at a large scale.
I really love this.
Try to know them outside!
The part you said “go and buy gun” made me laugh out loud😂😂❤️.
😂😂 Pastor Kingsley, "we are pencils in the hands of the creator"
Infatuation is usually instant, there's attraction at first sight. True love takes time. Hmmm
Love at first sight does not exist but attraction at first sight is very true.Hiw can you love someone you just met and never knew from anywhere? Infatuation is sharp sharp as e dey hot while true love takes time. These are words on marble pst.k
Likkkkkke????? We have underrated the word ‘love’. How do you meet someone and ‘ love’ immediately
Isn't God so amazing? This is exactly the massage my heart was longing for at this particular moment 🙏 thank you so much man of God for this valid information 🙏....especially about one sided love.
The actual message I need right now as well and I'm enlightened already. Thank you PK 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Yeah.
Lmao! PK 😂😂! Thank you for this. With these sound teachings, I pray my marriage will be blessed and preserved.
Accepted the proposal of a guy whom i hv known for abt 6 mnths now, started as friends and i fell in love with him with my head, cuz am open to some of his flaws but then he accepts his flaws when confronted, n requests for help to mke it ryt... praying things work out.
Praying over you guys that God is the foundation of you coming together. Take time, unrush yourselves
Don't confuse attention with intention! 😊
Pastor K coming through with the insight and humor😂😂. Love it. God bless you🙏🏾!!
You inherit all assets and liabilities. I like this, no lie in the statement. Absolute truth
Now I see my errors, faults, mistakes, selfishness and manipulation. Thank you sir
„WHO SHOULD I MARRY „ is actually the book am reading at the moment. I have read it before but it’s worth reading over and over again.
Please where did you buy it from?
@@Juicewithjuu i got all of the books from Amazon.
Thank you
The author please
Is there a re link to read the book
Can a relationship founded on wrong reasons be salvaged after a fallout? 'specially when there are intentions to do it the right way.
I'm referring to any kind of relationship.
Omo, this is me ooo. i fell for someone and i was just thinking only about how i felt not necessarily about the other party. love this thanks PK and PM
1. Emotional vs. Practical-- beyond chemistry into compatibility, companionship (friendship), and character.
a) Compatibility-- faith, purpose in life.
2. Falling in love blinds you to other good options.
3. You neglect due process. Building friendship.
4. Real relationships should be built on more than one person. Requires mutuality.
5.
I was a victim of the things mentioned here, but thank God for your teachings, I came out of them, especially infatuation. Thank you, Pastor K.
Yes sir
Hmmm that hit me , Father for my children, Partner for my vision
Amen, this was so encouraging thank you sir, may God more wisdom 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Single but emotionally occupied 😆😆
That got me pastor K🤓🤓🤓🤓
Imma listen to this again till all of it sinks in. True till u separate the outside with what's inside u might just b doing ut wrong. Cos when u get to see the real inside of this person. N it's contrary with thier outside then u need more known him or her
Someone can be chasing you to snatch your purse. 😮😮😮Pst Kingsley, you are good at what you are doing.
Keep listening to you so I also teach others....i pray i can also stand teaching about relationship and marriage
We are PENCILS ✏ in the hand of the creator 14:07 😂🤲🏾
Love is not enough
I really wish I could talk about my situation, it’s so daisy.
Some persons can actually pretend for a very long time just so they get what they want, o yes
This is liberating. Wow, just wow!...
Thank you so much for being a blessing to our generation. I have learnt a lot from your videos.
Very real, God bless you Sir
Thank you for this beautiful message, I did learn a lot.
I always enjoy your teachings,God bless you for us,how can I have opportunity to talk with you one on one,I seriously need your cancel
Thank you sir for this
😂😂😂🔥🔥🔥
Pastor K always on point
😂😂😂😂 you are so hilarious Pastor. I’m afraid of relationship. I’ll stay by myself for now. It’s too much work🤦♀️🤣
Thank you sir
This is me at the moment
Yes the last part is rich
Pastor K
You’re soo funny 😂
Really appreciate this video
Hope the information can actually enter
If it’s not infatuation I find it hard to stick around long enough to see the guy for who he is
Everything they do irritates me but I know it’s not the behaviour
Because if that same behaviours exhibited from someone I was infatuated with I would embrace it and enjoy it
20:15 - It is asthma; not love. 😂
Just finished watching. Someone please summarize the points. Thank you 🙏🏿
Thank you PK! This video has greatly helped me.
So beautiful. This is so nice mama. Kudos to the team. I love you Jite😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 pastor is awesome. Thank you sir
Thank you sir. I am so blessed sir
I have falling in Love at first sight,and I married myself for 15 years,after that I leave the marriage and have peace I concur to all you said,I have experienced it,so frustrating..
God bless you sir
Thank you so much for this video sir. Every part was a blessing, even the jokes spoke to me. God bless you real good sir !!!!
Grace
We need a list of questions to ask a prospective Spouse to help us know if he is a right partner 😄
I’m sure he has a book on that
Exactly 🥲😂
This spoke to me
Pastor K🔥🔥🔥🔥
God bless and keep you.
Thank you PK for spilling the truth. This is pure truth
Thank you very much for this wonderful message. I know I am guilty of most of the things you talked about. I have a question: How can someone distance themselves from becoming attached or falling for someone even without knowing the person? Because I realized that even subconsciously it still happens.
Pastor K has a great sense of humour 😂 always a blessing to listen
Great teaching mixed with comedy, thank you PK 😂😂😂😂
Thank you, pastor Kingsley for the eye-opener message. You can be single and emotionally occupied. This has been my story for 2 years now. This helped, GOD BLESS.
Thank you so much for this Pastor K. Its so me, walai. This is indeed timely
Amazing PK. Thank you Sir. If you agree you need at least one dose of PK'S messages 😉 🤚
Omo! PK it went really south o 😂😂😂😂
Thank you so much for this eye opener🤍
Learning
One sided love is dangerous.
I can't proceed if I'm not love and also if I don't love as well.
If it's not mutual, Im off
God bless you sir
PK GOD bless you richly. Your teachings have drastically changed my life.
Okay 😂it’s Asthma OO
PK said that in one of his videos 😂😂
You have really opened up my eyes 👀 God bless you abundantly
thank you pastor K for this message, very short but fully loaded with wisdom. I hope to learn more.
Lllom
Blessed God for you pastor K thank you for this message 🙏
Don’t confuse attention for intention
Chaiiii
God bless you Pastor K!
🙏🔥🔥♥️
PK this so insightful, I learn a lot from you daily..actually I just got out of that kind of relationship two months ago...
This was very helpful thank you pk
Pastor K. You the the Jesus of our dating & marriage. Thank God for sending you to save us.
Sir, seeing the girl and being attracted by her then how do i follow and study her to say that I love heeeeer!
At most all we just need is sense thank you so much sir!
Emotions dey blind even the great .
God bless you Sir... You two and your ministry are such a gift ❤❤❤❤
Someone can be CHASING YOU to snatch your purse😂😂
God bless 🙏
You're a wonderful teacher, thank you sir ❤
Thank you PK
This actually opened my eyes . Thank u PK. Now I understand why some of these relationships didn't last. Sometimes it's just all mixed up. I mean