This Supermodel Is Changing The Way We Talk About Body Image | Ashley Graham
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ส.ค. 2024
- On this episode of On Purpose, I sat down with Supermodel, designer, and barrier-breaking body activist Ashley Graham. Ashley opens up about how she went from hating her body to loving it and making it her purpose to encourage others to do the same. She discusses how your words become your truth and why it’s so important to stop negative self-talk. She dives into how exactly we can start doing that. She also answers the internet’s most asked relationship questions and shares more about her own journey with her husband. I learned so much from this conversation and I know you will too!
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"I am bold
I am brilliant
I am beautiful
I am worthy of all
I love you"
- Ashley
*_“Don’t fall into the trap of sacrificing your self-esteem for affection and acceptance. No matter what your size, you are a sexy goddess. Remember that.”
― Ashley Graham
@@Meow-ks3dj oh fuck off with your negativity
I just said my thought, I meant no hate😅😅😅😅🤨isn’t that what the comments are for
That is a beautiful wise thing to say but i wonder what if she didn't have a "pretty" face (i put these " because everything is relative of course) and why this isn't very inspiring for men too because the guys with whom she take pictures are quite Fit, i absolutely acknowledge that there are different kinds of beauty cuz i'm not an asshole so i'm pretty sure that i'm missing a part of the puzzle here but still i wonder please is there anyone there who could answer?
*You are your #1 person in your life - prioritise yourself to feel the joy of living*
Beauty is subjective. We are all beautiful, unique, special, valuable.
Beauty comes from within.
Exactly
@@kaytee789 ♡
Erika K the line we are all beautiful touched my heart.❤️
@@anuragmehta6642 ♡
Although humans these days focus on looks, kids get bullied for how they from looking bad and that will always lead to shame but sometimes shame is good because in can encourage to change for the better
I made that mistake with my girls. I spent all their lives telling them how beautiful they are while constantly complaining about my own looks and body. They cannot see their beauty. Let's hope they don't make my mistakes.
Thank you for being so honest we are all here learning and hopefully still have time for you to let them know how beautiful you are and feel and they can change too
My mom was just like this when I was growing up
100%
"Love is a verb, not a noun". - Jay Shetty. Love this!
People should start accepting and respecting that people are different in every thing
You like before watching when TH-cam says Jay Shetty uploaded a video 🖤
I just have to say that I love her laugh sm, like she laughs in such an honest way, it's almost like her lungs and stomach are laughing first and it somehow just shows on her face... ok that was weird but the point is she sounds so honest
LOVE IT! Words are so powerful and can either foster abundance or limit you.
Ikr
Drew My Faith こるこなかかさややらや
I am in my 50's, and I thank Ashley from the bottom of my heart for showing all generations, simply by being her brave, bold self, that beauty comes in all sizes. She takes the shame out of size.
Ashley is gorgeous, intelligent and wonderful. Thank you for talking with Jay. Jay thank you 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💓💓💓💓🙏🏼
I wish I would’ve been told about words when I was young. They do matter... but you know what? I have a daughter and I’m grateful I’ll be able to tell and show her!
Her laugh is contagious!
*As long as we draw the sense of self from external validation, we will never be content with what we have.*
We cannot control what others think and feel. We have a hold only of our minds and it's up to us to decorate the perception that it is projecting.
Be good to yourself and the life will smile at you.
Very 💯💙
What a delightful conversation. Thank you, Ashley & Jay!
Footless Jo nice word.
I really needed this. I grew up with a mother and sisters who had so many self esteem issues. Ever since I started getting "big-boned" as a teen I have struggled. I am always calling myself fat, ugly, worthless, etc. I only do positive self talk when someone gives me that challenege. For goodness sakes I couldn't come up with 5 things I like about myself when my counselor asked. If anyone asks me to be honest about myself it will be 100% negative. I hope one day I can see myself like she sees herself. :(
Instead getting a good grade and passing the requirement classes all over school yrs and college yrs the requirement should mental and physical health, and kids getting examined and rewarded for being healthy mentally, emotionally and physically, then some sort of reward for academic achievements based on each individual's best suited talents and skills, most kids are lost and have no clue what to do after high school, or even college.
I like her...I genuinely really like her.She seems real and genuine and that can be harder and harder to find these days.Even people who say they are "being real"on youtube or social media,you still know it is the edited version and lacks authenticity but with her you feel like she is the real deal.Great role model for self acceptance in general no matter what size,how wealthy etc .I really hope whatever she does whether it is modelling or whatever that she continues this work of not allowing anyone else to define you or your worth because it is so easy to happen
*I'm not first*
_I'm not last_
*But when I saw this beautiful video*
_I clicked freaking fast!!_ ⚡
Miss Nina good one😂
😍😄
Jayshetty u really bring amazing people in your life and us too.
I don't know why long videos have less views. May be its because we want quicker results unconsciously. We don't want to invest in time maybe. Whats your thoughts...
Edited : i love Ashley voice.. ❤️
idk because I prefer longer videos, it means they actually digged into the subject
@@greciadelgado21 defo agree!
Thank you both for having such an authentic conversation. My learning moment was when Ashley speaks of not being wrapped up in one thing, or one accomplishments. I want to add to it, that irrespective of what profession we pursue, sometimes it is harder to accomplish what we truly believe, because of the value it holds for us. (P.S: External validation/ rejection and misrepresentation are just as easily when your CV/resume reads "immigrant"," non-resident alien" despite factual accomplishments+ professional conduct/character ).
Conversations like these give me hope and strength to do the right thing, pursue my goals, versus buckle under all the noise....So thank you for creating great content.
It's such an amazing episode!!!! I'm now on a persistent work on self love and this episode put a great understanding of not definding yourself with anything from outside. I've rewatched it many times. Thank you!
Ashley you are such an amazing role model! So real, authentic and don’t fear vulnerability
My queen Ashley talking with Jay?!?!? OH YES!!!
Ashley is sooooooo beautiful!
Always waiting for Jay's new video. Thank you so much 😍😍😍
I love her self awareness and confidence. It's infectious. She inspires me to be proud of who i am and embrace myself.
Jay and Ashley - thank you thank you thank you for sharing your wisdom in such a beautiful and engaging way. I received sooo much inspiration from this video - I am so grateful thank you! Peace of I ❤️
What a blessing to have this people on this earth.. Keep up the TRUST!!
Thank you Jay for interviewing this beautiful gorgeous young women. It’s refreshing to see someone who isn’t ‘ideal’ in the fashion world. I can relate to her immensely in terms of size and feeling of not being accepted or judged for being different. We need more girls in the industry to show all kinds of beauty and sizes. I’m tired of seeing the same models all the time feeding us what isn’t ideal and true. It’s okay to be healthy and not have a 24 inch waist.
Yes, that constructive self affirmation is the most important gift you can give your children.
Great interview. Ashley's story is consistent and so honest. Love her. Jay love your work.
I love Jay's stated mission for why he makes these 3-4 minute videos. He's not making them to answer every question, and he understands the limitations of the short video format. His stated mission is to "start a conversation" around that topic. I love that. Top down. Submit content that people can interact with, then meet people where they are as individuals. Everyone's situation is different. We have to make it personal.
Takeaways: As a person/consumer, don't reject content that's not a tailored fit to my exact situation. Understand the person posting the content, identify the root message, translate that to my life and see what it would look like. Try that. THEN judge the results. In his podcast on what to do before work, he talks about waking up hours before YOUR DAY starts. He doesn't say "wake up at 4 because all the cool kids are doing it." He says, "I know your life is unique. But giving yourself time before the start of your day helps to..."
As a content creator: Don't write to everyone. Don't make the content so general that no one can relate. Try to give threads to different people that they can pull on and start a conversation.
Yayyyy!!! Ashley..gonna listen to this the podcast...love all your episodes, thank you so much for all the wisdom.
OMG!! MIND BLOWING, two of my MUST LISTEN TO in motivational speak together! God bless you!! I just love to hear that it doesn't matter which industry she is, she talks about GOD, it is not about the religion it is more of the meaning He has for her that is underestimated nowadays. BRILLIANT people together... Love it!!!
I needed to hear it . We all know the fact, that our life is not defined by how we look or what we make , what kind of work we do .its defined by just loving ourselves and others and lessons and memories we go through 😇
Jay, your guests are always awesome. Thank you so much. By the way, I love Ashley's laugh! It's contagious.
This man really gives me motivation ,tnxx Jay Shetty
Ashely has been amazing! I enjoyed listening to her talk, she’s such a great person. So humble honest and open, of coarse very beautiful on top of that. And Jay is an incredible listener, interviewer and great at what he does 👍👌🤓☀️☀️☀️☀️
thanks for bringing her into my life, she's just hilarious and her laugh makes me wanna laugh too. I loved to listen about her journey, it's so important to share those valuable experiences and lessons so we can all relate to them and learn about ourselves...affirmation is the key. Thanks again Jay.
This was such an
amazing interview. Might I add... I just love Ashley Graham's laugh!!!
You are a great interviewer! I can tell how intelligent you are! And Ashley! You are amazing - I can see Christ in you!
Thank you Jay and Ashley ❤️🙏🏻🌹
You know you're fast when video is still at 360p!
Love you Ashley! So well spoken, and great message. God! You're so beautiful! Your speaking voice is so beautiful too.
This is truly a wonderful interview. So authentic and positive and uplifting. Even the comment thread is the best I've ever seen... No hate❤💚💜💙💕
Enjoyed the conversation throughly. We have to be very clear and sure what we want and about ourself . Rest will fall into places.
Thank you for everything 🙏🙏❤️❤️
Thank you both!!!! Loved this episode!! ❤️
"Staying true to who you are is easy when you know who you are". Love ❤️ this. Very profound
“You find yourself, when you are truly happy with yourself”
(U can never be too happy with yourself... which is why people need looks for confidents)
The consistency insight blew my mind. Thank you for that.
I am sooo....grateful that i wanted this vidéo. I love Ashley because despite of what she looks like, she is a model. I was regected ans refused all kinds of modeling deals just cuz I was considered 'fat' even when I was my slimmest and that broke me. This vidéo will help me Maintain my confidence so that I can feel good enough again.
I love Ashley she's so inspiring ❤
Liked before l watched the video n now m commenting while am watching.Wow
Amazing interview! Ashley Graham you are awesome girl! You rock!
this channel is a blessing. thank you jay
I already loved Ashely because of her repping us big girls but this interview...MAAAAAGIC!!!!!!!! this brought us closer to the model we see on magazines and even the activist we saw on TedTalk...this shows us Ashley as an everyday woman we can all relate to and that is PURE GOLD. anyone who is "different" in whatever community they are in can benefit richly from this convo. AND her massive, room-shaking laugh is phenomenal!
Thank you both for this. LOVE THIS ♥️
I just realized I could actually watch the podcast on TH-cam TODAY!! Hahahahaha 🤦🏻♀️ Loved the part in which you tell people to record them arguing and then play back to themselves. 🙌🏼
I like how u let Ashley talk and didn’t interrupt you a real 1 🤜🏽🤛🏽 good interview
Absolutely love this interview 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹❤️😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎
Thanks for soulful conversation!!
This really touched on a lot of stuff from my favourite person so thanks v much, really great interview!
Dear Jay, this is the first time I've decided to comment, even though I've been following you for at least a year. I have to say I'm very grateful for the values and the message you've been sending. I've come a long way because of your work and because of these wonderful souls you've introduced to us. I must say that you both (Jay Shetty and Ashley Graham) are great inspirations to me. I hope to meet you one day, I'm sure I will. I got to know the five love languages through your video with dear Radhi Devlukia and it had a great impact on my life. Now, I was very surprised by this "five figth languages" idea, can you explain it better in a future video? People are supposed to have as a rule only one of those ways of reacting to a discussion ? I identify with the four you talked about, depending on the situation and the people the discussion takes place with. I'd love to know more about it. Thank you so much for everything. I wish you all the best. I apologize if my English isn't perfect. Maybe because I'm not sure I'm communicating correctly I just decided to take the initiative now (I'm Portuguese).
This woman is amazing
OMG I love her ,Ashley is so gorgeous so beautiful and down to earth person, I enjoyed the Podcast very much, Jay u said we would love it Thank you and blessings much love.
Thank you much thanks
i had goosebumps. thank you so much for this
Thank you so much got so much from this ! 💖
😹🫶🏻 laugh out loud… “didn’t brush out the cellulite “ beautiful and YES Courageous… and I am attempting to accept my affirmations - Thank You Jay for bringing a great Woman who actually Thinks about allowing ourselves to be comfortable in our own skin… literally
I love her so much! She's so incredibly beautiful on the inside and out!!xxxxx
She got this beautiful amazing energy! Such amazing guest 😄
Ashley is such an inspiration!
Oh My God, two of my best role models in a video together ! Dream come true :)
This was a really inspiring and educational interview just to listen to.
I can't believe Jay Shetty has only 2.8 million followers ! Come on he is lifeeeeeeee everyone in this world should be following him in my opinion ❤️
I needed to hear this Jay thanks
Love this episode .although I love every episode of you jay ...but this one is soo gud .thanks a lot
Am not first and am not last but in between,Jay thanks for today's episode 🙏🙏🙏
That was so good!!! Thank you
Love this and you both are awesome
What a wonderful talk this was!!!
Such a great interview!!!! 🤩🤩🤩🏆🏆🏆
I am so thankful for her. She is so incredible.. I've always struggled with my own body image.. I've had people tell me I could be a model..I never understood that.. but because of her, and her beauty and confidence and brains she has changed the way the world sees beauty. I loved how she mentioned how when children hear how the mother talks about their body affects the child.. and my mom HATED her body and was ALWAYS critical of herself.. Ashley makes me tear up.. I love her so much. She's changed the way I see myself. A beautiful sexy model who has my curvy body type. She was destined to change so many womens lives. 🙏🏻💗💗😍😍😍😍💗💗💗💗💗 she's amazing..
Love the new concept....MEETING: Me!!
Two beautiful souls!
I love the podcast sessions always 😍😍 😍❤️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Her laugh is everything 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thank you for sharing ♥️
This interview with Ashley was so inspiring Jay!
I would like to meet her someday!
For modelling she would be an excellent mentor!
Help me connect! Please!
You'll 💛 Start following her on all social media platforms. Share her posts.
How could You help her with something? 👑
Such an inspiring interview!
Love it " Believe in yourself "😊😇😄
Such a queen! Love her
This interview has inspired me and motivated me to step out to become the person I’ve always wished to and dreamt about .
One fine day both of you will interview me ash and jay
This was a much needed video. Love from a Skinny Giant Human being.💜💜🇮🇳
Thank you Ashley
She is brilliant!!!
Jay podcast with his wife is still my favourite
Life changing conversation
Incredible !