MY UNEXPLAINED INFERTILITY STORY
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 23 ส.ค. 2024
- I just wanted to share my unexplained infertility story with all of you, starting from when Sally and I first got married, to the point where we are now in our journey to parenthood.
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This baby was a prayer baby.. the amount of internet uncles and aunties who prayed lord!! I'm just so happy!!!!
The power of prayer is so strong ! Congratulations !
This comments is so heart melting ❤️
You said my mind. They dnt know amount of prayers people prayed and the power of God. Some people really need to change there mind set
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This comment ❤️
Well I am at the crying stage , 7 years trying with a failed cycle of IVF , please pray for us , also unexplained infertility , happy for you , very encouraging to see successful stories as yours
I pray for you and your partner and I pray for your womb I pray for a healthy child I pray for your happiness and blessings we all are praying for you great luck and blessings
Sending prayers to you and partner for blessings in your life.
Sending so much love, prayers, good vibes and baby dust your way!! Im praying you're blessed with your miracle soon. I know its easier said than done, because i spent most of 2020 crying, but focus on your mental health and talk it out with someone you love. If you can't, express it here! There are so many people (including me) who are here for you and will catch you when you feel like you're falling. This also goes for anyone of you who is going through a tough time right now
@@farahdhukai It's so nice to see this response, and this video. Whatever you do though, Farah, don't let the negative comments get to you. Some people just thrive through hatred. I'm so happy for you guys, and also cried a lot, as we have been going through the same journey for 9 years as well.
Omg im praying for you. You will receive good news soon. Try full moon manifestation. I did this and conceived in 1 month. Please come back to share the good news.
My husband and i tried for a few years and then suffered a miscarriage. I eternalized so much after that miscarriage and we could not get pregnant again. One day i decided to share my loss and and 2 months later we got pregnant again. My son is now 5 months old!! The release of that pain and anger made the difference. 💙💙 blessings mama!
hope i too get this happy news soon! it really takes a toll on me somedays
@@04priyankas Sending you love, light, and good news ❤️
@@04priyankas fingerscrossed
So happy for you! After 5 years hubby and I decided to accept that we will love and serve God even though he didn’t give us the baby we wanted. We started to make plans to travel more, but we never started because I became pregnant a month after accepting the fact and being okay with it. Now we are blessed with 4 kids. 😊
You made me cry 😭😭
Truly God works in a mysterious way
Yo ya me mentalize de que después de 7 años intentando y orando a Dios por un hijo no llegara 😢 asi que ya se lo quieroooooooo dejar a Dios sus planes son mejores que los míos. El sabe para que no me manda hijos
@@feded9585 I cried month after month for years seeing that negative test.
@@ur3385 Yes he does :)
You should never underestimate the power of dua. The fact that you made it public meant so many people were praying for you to have that child. This is just the start of the journey May Allah continue to bless your family.
100% dua/prayer is SO powerful!! Ameen!!!
I wish I saw your post earlier before posting mine. You’ve said it more eloquently. I couldn’t agree more. Ameen!
Plz do dua for me too its exactly 8 years.....
This comment! 💯💯💯💯💯
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Honestly anyone who questions her pregnancy is sick. Look inside yourself and see what you need to fix that you feel the need to tear others down. Life is hard enough on its own without hate filled words.
True
Agree. Ppl sometimes are to much.
Even those people are not even happy with their own lives. Stupid and rude for people like that.
Agree!
I just want them to drop their location...I just wanna talk.
God's timing is perfect, I waited 15 yrs to have my adorable baby. After 2 ivf's and 2 miscarriages, I ended up getting pregnant naturally and now my baby is 2 months old. God will guide your pregnancy and will make you the happiest mom ever!!!!
Absolutely
Please do not underestimate the psychological aspect in infertility.
Exactly I have depression from the losses and medical procedures! My anxiety is something that got worse as well.
True. I quit a job that gave me daily anxiety attacks & I got pregnant a month after.
Exactly!
I have a question. Why do women want to get pregnant? Pregnancy puts a lot of strain on a woman's body, and it has risks, and a pregnancy lasts 9 months. Also, childbirth is very painful. And also, raising children is very hard.
Personally, I think being childfree would be a lot better than having children, but that's just my opinion.
It think this year was the right time for you guys to get pregnant and we all are so happy for you. I literally cried when I found out you were pregnant.
Same girl !
The timing couldnt have been more perfect! I look back on how i started this year vs now and i could have never imagined id be THIS happy. Thank you so so so much you!!!
Me too
I was so elated when I heared that you were pregnant I was over the moon and I know you would be a wonderful mum. Love from Nigeria 🇳🇬
Same! 😩
Allah swt will always give you everything your heart desires. MashaAllah sis, may God always keep you three this happy and close forever.
This is so heart warming to read, Allah swt bless u too ❤️
Ameen x
Ameen to that!
Ameen 🤲🏼
And Muhammad married a 9 years old very fertile you know
Please pray for me too. I'm on the same journey as you have been. I'm still waiting for my miracle. May Allah swt bless you with safe pregnancy and healthy baby in the end 💕
May the good Lord God Almighty shine His light upon you and fill your heart with joy. May your joy overflow and may your womb receive that blessings you heartily desire.
You are not alone!!!
I hope you have a miracle soon.
Don’t lose hope
You know I 110% understand you. I have cried behind closed doors, I have cried so much and felt like my womenhood was taken away from me. My husband felt the exact same pain I did and I never realized how much it hurt him too. We had to go to a doctor too and I AM CURRENTLY PREGNANT! Getting help was OUR journey but I don’t care! I actually give you so much respect that you actually went public about your journey. I still haven’t even announced my pregnancy and I’ve been so silent about my journey but I’m happy you guys got your blessing too ❤️
And who cares if it’s “fishy!” IVF, IUI, DOCTORS HELP, or just a spontaneous pregnancy YOURE PREGNANT!
I’ve been suffering from infertility for now 5 years. Had 2 miscarriages and not been able to get pregnant ever since that. Lost all hope 😞. But seeing you and Desi has given me so much hope 😭 Insha Allah waiting for my rainbow baby to arrive soon
One day, u will post here with a baby in ur arms. God bless
Never lose hope. Allah loves when we cry to Him. He loves to hear you speaking to Him. May Allah answer your duas.
Inshallah allah grant's all those couples with a child ameen.xxx
Praying for you 🤲
may allah bless you with a baby soon make prayers for me am married for 7 yeas and planing for baby number two but it not Happening for us the last 5 years
Yoo Farah I'm the only boy of my parents I was born after 19 years I can feel you omg I love my parents soo much I'm so grateful for everything they gave me..... best of luck to both of you and keep spreading positivity ❤❤❤❤
When you broke down I said to myself that this is when God shines his light abundantly., when all we’re left with is hope.
12 years now I'm suffering with 45 miscarriage i know deep down one day Allah will bless me health child please pray for me when you make dua 🤲
May Allah guided your child in right path Ameen
Allah bless u wid healthy n lovely Baby soon..❤️keep smiling😍
May Allah give you a healthy baby soon . Pray for me too . Trying from 5 years . With 2 miscarriages .
Allah is the best of planners
Try doing ruqyah from a good raqi or recite surah fatiha, ayatul kursi, surah falaq and nas. Sometimes miscarriage happens because of jinns.
Stress is the worst thing for everyone . It is literally the enemy of the mind and body. I am so happy for you and your husband. Sending love and prayers.❤️
people are so thirsty for a TH-camr scandal, it's sad and the negative energy is unnecessary. happy for you
I've cried for 10 years for my infertility.
When my mom passed away last month, I realized how stupid I was.
its not healthy to focus and invest alot of our life on one miss fortune ignoring all the blessings we have.
May the good Lord God Almighty shine His light upon you and fill your heart with joy. May your joy overflow and may your womb receive that blessings you heartily desire.
Amen!!!!😔🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thanks for this. This is consuming my soul. I need to move on.
I don’t know understand why people need to dislike this...be kind as the world already have enough mean people
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God bless you, don't listen to negative people just focus on the joy of being a soon to be mom💞🙏💯
Your story definitely hits home. I myself have such a similar story to yours. My husband and I have been married for 7 years. We weren’t doing anything to prevent getting pregnant and years went by. We thought it would “happen” for us. We saw fertility specialists no one could figure out “why” and ultimately felt like IVF was going to be our last option. When the pandemic hit, we decided to take a break from the stress of trying and bam. I got pregnant in June and now expecting our miracle baby girl. Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your story with the internet. Wishing you a beautiful and healthy pregnancy!
So glade to hear your great story make me so optomestic ❤️
You never know whose prayer finally was answered for you, when you initially put your video out so many of us (including me!) didn't comment but silently prayed for you with a sincere heart. Congratulations ❤️
The negative comments questioning her pregnancy suffocates me💔 she’s the best💖
I cried so much when I saw your pregnancy announcement. I am so happy for you. I have been trying for 13 yrs. Whenever I see God bless one of us, I can't help but be filled with a lot of Joy. It feel like God has answered one of my prayers, that God bless all couples struggling with conceiving. These ppl questioning you know nothing about these struggles. They don't understand that someone falling pregnant doesn't make us feel bad. So much so that when another couples gets blessed you become so happy for them because you understand the pain. May God bless your journey and bless you with a healthy baby and safe delivery. Love and light 🙏
Me too
I can relate this journey 💯 babies dust to you too
@@glorianuvie 😭🤗 thank you
What a beautiful prayer ❤️ wishing you got what your heart desires soon. Baby dust to you ✨✨✨
I believe the moment you let everyone know what was going on, God received so many prayers on your behalf. Praise the lord!
Yes! We need to talk out loud about these...I am crying with you. After 9 years journey with lot of failed fertility treatments, IVF rounds, losing first IVF baby, I am now mom of a premature baby girl. I know how hard the journey is for any Tyler of infertility. Congratulations to you and your husband.
Hey GIRLIE!!! I’ve watched you for years, you’re amazing.
I’m pregnant with my 5th child. I was so angry that I was pregnant because we did our best to prevent from having our 4th and now 5th child but we still got pregnant. I was sad, angry depressed because I just couldn’t figure out how and why I got pregnant. When I seen your video a couple weeks ago saying that you’re pregnant and the struggles you’ve had to get pregnant, I was very happy for you both but very ashamed of myself for not thinking that it’s a blessing and for not realizing that some women have the hardest time getting pregnant. I cried happy tears for you and Sal but embarrassment tears for myself. Thank you for putting out that video it helped me come to terms with my own pregnancy and not hide it because it wasn’t something I wanted or planned to have. Thank you so much for being so open to share your experience which helped me so much! You both are amazing and will be such awesome parents! My little bundle of joy will be here 6/2021! Thank you so much! 😊🙏🏾
You were angry? Like why? It’s a genuine question I think children are a blessing
@@magicallyme96 I was angry because I had different plans for my life. I didn’t want another baby, I already have 4 children (ages 15, 12, 10 and 2). I felt like that was enough. I felt like my oldest 3 was enough but I got pregnant on the IUD that’s how I had my 2 yr old) and now another unplanned pregnancy was very devastating to me. I understand every pregnancy is a blessing but when it’s not planned or wanted it can feel like something else. I’ve come to terms with having a new addition to our family.
I love your honestly. I completely get you ( although I haven't experienced the same) I only have 1 child , but I was very angry and upset as I wanted a girl and had a boy but , I THANK God every day for my boy and I wouldn't change him for the world. I pray the unexpected and unplanned blessing brings more blessings your way in Jesus Name 💙
@@divinethembo aww thank you so much ☺️!!!!!!
The moment you shared about your infertility everyone including me prayed for you guys instantly. When the whole world makes dua for someone Allah doesn't disappoint them. I had the feeling that you'll become a mom soon. And never ever look at the negative comments. They won't live their life happily neither let anyone live happily. Just be happy so that we can have happy junior farah or happy junior sal. 😊🥰❤️
Omg yes. I prayed for them so so hard for days! God bless you x
Yes!!!!
The truth is so many people made dua for you at the same time and only God knows who’s Dua he accepted. Believe in the power of prayers💗💗💗
Allahu akbar ❤️
Totally understand your pain and what you were feeling all these years. So happy for you now, congratulations to both of you 💐🎊🎉 I have been going thru something similar, had a miscarriage and after that still having issues in getting pregnant. Unexplained infertility for me as well, have shown so many doctors. I don’t know how many people will respond to this comment, but I would love if anyone who is reading this, please pray for me as well. I need your prayers and blessings. Hoping for a miracle 😊🙏💐
God bless & prayers!
@@abiyyamunir thankyou 🙏
Praying for you as well! I've heard alot of people talking about acceptance, energetic release has created miracles in their lives
I think people got confused because out of nowhere she seemed very pregnant.... but no one should question anything about this topic just be happy for the person💕💯
Infertility can make people bitter and it sucks being on either ends sometimes. I have a beautiful boy I had no problem with but am now struggling over a year for a second with 3 failed IUIs and now going on to IVF. I have secondary infertility. The amount of women (both struggling and not) who have told me at least I have one don't realize yes I'm greatful but it doesn't make my suffering any less legitimate. It sucks when everyone is trying to one up eachother in pain as well. I cried when I found out you were pregnant. Please pray for me as well Farah ❤️
I feel your pain sis, I'm on the same boat, may Allah SWT bless you soon with a baby ameen xx
Sending love and prayers to you @werdan khan
@@amossobir2814 sending love and prayers your way 🙏 ❤
@@amossobir2814 Ameen ❤️ may Allah bless you with a baby soon as well Ameen ❤️
I'm exactly in the same boat. My first was easy, getting pregnant again is turning out to be harder. May Allah bless you and us all with children and happy lives. 🤲
I truly believe that you got pregnant because of all of our duas for you 🤍 In Sha Allah you have a baby in your arms soon and are filled with happiness
I couldnt agree more. I would literally cry and be filled with so much happiness knowing that we received so many duas and people would wake up for tahajjud and make dua for us! alhamdulilah for everything! im SO grateful!!
We all prayed for you ❤
@@farahdhukai im crazy happy for you and wish you the very best on this chapter of your life 💖💖
First and foremost because of the will of Allah swt and second with the duas from brothers and sisters. Sounds strange, but you can make thousands of duas but it's only him who decides. Ofcourse Allah Almighty fulfills wishes/prayers, but also because he knows when it's the right time and moment.
@@maryambukhari60
Aameen
When God sees that we let go and give the situation to Him He moves in a supernatural way. It’s never on our time it’s always His timing. This takes me to the story of Hannah Hannah in the Bible is found only in 1 Samuel, yet her story is anything but insignificant.
Hannah’s story deals with infertility, bullying, answered prayer and reaches prophetically into the New Testament. Hannah let go and let God and trusted only in Him and the Bible says she was at the temple daily but I’m pretty sure she cried just like y’all I’m pretty sure she said what is wrong with me and I’m pretty sure she didn’t want to get out of bed but she did and when she prayed with her ❤️ and no words God said her is your blessing and God seen your ❤️ and said here is your blessing. I love y’all and may God continue blessing your little family. The Bible also says don’t worry about your enemies I will take care of them. All we can do is pray for them.
Oh my goodness I come back to find out she’s pregnant and due soon !! I can’t even imagine feeling anything but sincere happiness. I can’t imagine doubting someone’s blessing and she will be a great mother.
Now I’m crying, we have been going through our own unexplained infertility. The pain, shame, tears, feelings of failure… unless you’re there you don’t really get it. Mazel Tov on your blessing!!! I’m so happy for you.
In October/November 2017 I was in the lost, crying almost given up phase of my 8 year journey into infertility, I put 2 posts up on my Instagram (im not famous, its a very personal account) I shared how it feels to be going through something which is not in my control but how people seem to think making comments will somehow make me conceive but in be known to me I found out December 2017 I was pregnant, its definitely something to do with letting go and definitely duas from people who read my post and prayed for me. My 2 year old miracle princess is a complete diva and I love every inch of her, I hope u a safe pregnancy and delivery ameen xxxx
Who cares about the negative haters, that’s their problem, YOU’RE HAVING A BABYYY, YAYYYYYY!!!!😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
When you did your pregnancy announcement video, I cried tears of joy for you. It took me a few years and tons of fertility treatments to get pregnant and I feel your joy.
So I’m Lebanese, Muslim and In my culture we believe when you put your faith in god he is the only one who can bless you with a baby. So after you put out your journey you have gained many many prayers to get pregnant and maybe god shows you if you put ur faith in him that anything can happen. Put everyone to the side of you and enjoy your journey. You don’t know them, they think they know you but they don’t. Hopefully a safe and healthy pregnancy.
This is so true! Faith and hope is so important! I will forever be grateful for all the love and prayers we received. It not only restore my faith but it lifted a burden off my chest that i had been silently burying inside of me!! Thank you so much!
@@farahdhukai keeping your family in duas :)
Masha allah, always stay happy Farah ♥️
@@farahdhukai I honestly do believe that our duas helped for you to conceive and also getting a cat to uplift your mood !
Married for 27 years and no children. He is my bestie, my love, my world, I can relate to all you mentioned...trying and trying and then the strain got too much and we parted ways... so broken. So happy for you Farah and Sal. Wishing you lots of happiness and a bright future xx
Sorry to hear that hun. Praying for your healing and pray Allah opens another door for you. X
@@sbegum246 May Allah bless you for your kind sentiment and answer all your duas.
May allah bless you abundantly with all the happiness and success you wish for in this world and in the hereafter ❤ you're a worthy human being, don't let anyone tell you anything otherwise.
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Praying for happiness on your future with or without children i really hope your just happy xxx
Hey girl... I am so happy that you and your husband are expecting. This is truly a blessing!
I have both PCOS and Endometriosis. My husband and I went through 5.5 years of fertility treatments. I understand first hand how clinical it can get. We did the tests. We did IUI and IVF. Nothing worked for us, and we decided that after 5.5 years of being on hormones and drugs, we were going to end our journey. The drugs changed my personality, and when I started coming off the drugs, my husband said that he felt like he had his wife back. This was our choice, and still, family members don't get it, so now we tell people we don't want kids just to shut them up.
I am very happy for you both and wish you the best in your pregnancy. Lots of love.
I never comment on TH-cam videos but after seeing how many women put you down i need to say this, when you posted the video about your hardships of conceiving it hurt my heart. I have had multiple miscarriages and so i felt your pain. When you posted that you were pregnant I had just gone through an ectopic pregnancy and had to have my fallopian tube removed. But your video made me so happy and really helped me get through that hard time because although I was suffering you were finally getting the blessing you deserved. I cried (in happiness) for you because i know that pain you felt. I know that feeling of not being a "good enough" woman because your body isn't doing what it's "supposed" to. I hate that people feel the need to take away from your happiness but just know your happiness and beautiful blessing brought me happiness in a time that i wanted to give up on everything. I wish you all the best on your new journey 💜
Love you so much boo! ❤️
Both you women are beautiful; inside and out. Xx
LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!
@@farahdhukai i have weak uterus had two miscarriage. Pls pray fr me aapi
@@annaray1165 Ya Allah I hope Allah blesses you with a child in shaa Allah.
@@annaray1165 I pray a miracle happens for you sis ❤️
I was so happy and so excited when I heard that you are pregnant. Even though I don't know you personally, I know exactly what you are going trough. My husband and I got married over 4 years ago and start trying immediately.. After a year nothing happend, and we started with ovulation tests and temperatures and so on. It was sooo hard.. And then I got diagnosed with pcos.. This was 3 years ago and still no baby. My family is afghan and my 3 sisters all have at least 2 children. And all they say to me is:well don't think about it or stop taking the medication and it will happen. They don't even understand what I am going trough everyday 😔 but I know that one day I will be a mommy. ❤️ Sorry for the long text. I wish you nothing but the best. And everyone who reads this and struggles too, I pray for you ❤️❤️
May Allah bless you with a healthy soon Ameen 😊
Can everyone please make dua for me I have been trying for years it’s emotionally draining I would love to be a mother please pray for me ❤️
May Allah talah bless you with healthy children Ameen
I will 🤲🌸
May Allah swt blesses you with many kids/ Ameen 🥺🥺
Thank you so much guys ❤️❤️
May Allah bless you with children who will be the coolness of your eyes Ameen
There is nothing embarrassing about sharing the reality of life. Life is about joy and also unfortunately pain. But sometimes we grow and reach our highest potential in trying times. Your more likely giving hope to those who are silently suffering alone. I'm so happy for both you and Sal. So happy your beautiful family is growing. Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy. Please pay no mind to the weirdos who say your pregnancy is "fishy". It's a blessing and we are over the moon for you guys. Sending you lots of love and blessings. 💕💕💕💕
You're the third TH-cam I've seen this month post on their miracle pregnancy. Just like you, the other two have the same story. This brings me hope that my sister in law will get pregnant one day. She's been trying for 10 years and your story brings me hope. I pray for that more than anything else. May your pregnancy journey be smooth and delightful. Thank you so much for sharing this with us. Greetings and love from Brownsville, Texas. I'm so happy for you both.
You said the right thing, "Gods timing is everything". I think you taking the time to do a video diary and releasing the emotions behind your struggle is beautiful and your body does respond. I'm sooo very happy for you and Sal. I wish you LOVE, HAPPINESS AND JOY!
I cried with joy when i heard you were pregnant, make me hopeful to get pregnant also. I wish you all the best in this new journey😘
I am thrilled for you all. I kept praying and will pray for every woman that is waiting. Understand it will happen for you, but you can’t be jealous of other women who are blessed before you. Let that anger, misery jealousy go. The sooner you ladies do, the sooner your wombs will be blessed. As Farrah said, we as women receive enough criticism from the world, so why add to the madness. I too went through 7 years of infertility and just had our first bundle of joy days ago. It took some life changes; eating healthier, exercising and most importantly falling in love with my man and our love all over again... Enjoy the making process 😉. Share yourselves with endless passion. Don’t think of love making as a chore or a job... it isn’t. That takes the excitement out of it. May God bless you all with peace, love and endless passion to enjoy life! 🥰♥️💗🌺🙏🏾
When you posted the video about your infertility, I cried. I personally have not started trying to conceive, but somehow I could feel your pain and how you felt. I prayed that day for you. And I’m sure that God received so many prayers on your behalf. We all had faith that your miracle would come and our prayers were answered! When I saw your video about your pregnancy I cried again but tears of joy. I can’t wait to see your baby girl or boy! 💖💙
People can be so negative and especially to people they don’t know or would ever see in person. They are trolls and keyboard thugs. You’re pregnant because this was God showing you that you are going to be blessed with a miracle baby and to not give up hope. I had to get medical intervention to get pregnant and it was a bit embarrassing, but it helped and I’m grateful to now be a mom. You and Sali will make amazing parents. This is your testimony to share with others and you will help so many women. xoxo
This stroy of yours really made me shed tears.. Im feeling u so much.. Been married for 3 years and we stil waiting for our angel baby.. The pain put on me is much more harder since it always comes from my in laws... Im blessed to have a suportive husband he always there for me.. God has given u the bundle of joy and he see's your pain ..9 yr is not short and the path u gone thru is amazing coz ur a fighter. .. Im waiting for my turn... 😢
Congratulations you guys. Yes everyone’s journey is different and we don’t realize how hard it can be for some of us.
It took me 7 years to get pregnant with my second child and it was a very difficult one. I was on bed rest 3 trimesters. Having contractions throughout and ruptured my bladder at 6 months in.
Well he just turned 27.
Congratulations and continued blessings to you and yes we need to just be kind to one another.
You never know whose dua for you have been accepted after you opened up.
Be grateful..say Alhamduillah..
And pray for others.
❤❤❤😻
Sooooooo relatable 😭😭😭 We’ve been together for 9 years! Everything...you said sounds exactly what we’re going through. :(
Sending lots of prayers!!! 💙💙💙
I am so happy for you!! When I saw the post on Instagram of you announcing your pregnancy, I cried! I am 3 months along and although I was only trying a year, I too was questioning why it wasn't happening faster. You're an amazing person who deserves everything beautiful this life has to offer. I pray for the most amazing pregnancy ever for you and a healthy baby!
I tried for 12 yrs, and it wasn’t until going through something similar and releasing my self from the pressure that 3-4m later I was blessed and I now have an amazing 6m old baby boy who is always happy and laughing and reminds me everyday what a true miracle looks like! And how there is a reason and a time for every blessing and journey 🥰
I'm so heartbroken that you had to explain yourself. People are ugly. My goodness. Bitterness is a trait of the devil. I actually cried when you fell pregnant and it doesn't even hit close to home.. My fertility is not a problem.. I genuinely just felt hope and joy for you guys and thats why I was moved. Its the simple joy of a child that you are going to experience! As a mom, I'm disappointed in those that said negative things about your whole situation. 💕I love your channel
TTC is no joke 😕. Unexplained infertility is not spoken about enough. I’m so sorry you came across those mean comments. So happy for you love 💕 .
YESSS totally agree! Growing up were taught so much about how NOT to get pregnant and then when youre ready and you want to get pregnant its a whole new learning process. Totally agree that unexplained infertility needs to be talked about more because the stats are so high on that diagnosis
I am so happy for you but above all I soooo proud of you for opening up about your journey on getting pregnant. And I am extremely proud of you for talking about the stuff that is bothering you. Don’t bundle up anything anymore, speak your mind and who cares what others think. As long as you and your husband and future baby are happy, who cares what others think. When the baby come people will always have opinions oh how to care for your baby. Use your mother instinct and go with that. Be yourself. And love your self always. I am proud and sooo happy for you both.
9 years is still a long time. 1 year is a long time. No amount of years increases or lessens the struggle. People need to get over themselves and stop comparing. Anyway, congratulations Farah! I'm happy to hear your good news ❤
There’s nothing fishy about your pregnancy. Masha Allah you’re pregnant! Point finale. You’re pregnant because you let the stress out AND someone’s dua (including your’s and Sally’s) came true. That’s all it is. This was when you were meant to be pregnant. I am so happy for you. May the rest of your pregnancy go smoothly. May Allah bring you and Sally even closer together. May Allah give you an easy and smooth labour. May He reward you with a healthy, whole normal child that will forevermore be the coolness of his/her parents’ eyes. Ameen! Lots of love from Montreal!
Nadia Naqvi .....aameen
My first thought was "Yay!! She got pregnant" then my second thought was "Yay!! It's an April baby like me!" 🤣
Hehe me too
me too! lol
Me too!!!:)
Me too🤗😂
Me too 😁🙏👶
I 1000% can relate to all you said. This video bought me right back to the start when our struggle began. It rips at u. Tests everything you got. We got our miracle shes now 14. But we couldn't get another. It just wouldn't happen. Plus after going through infertility, loss and so much stress we had to stop the second time. Accepting its over was just as bad as the struggle to get our daughter. It stays with you. But u know every time I look at my beautiful girl its all eased. I feel she was worth it and that I could go through it millions of times more if I knew this is the outcome. I thank God every day for what I have. Shes my miracle ❤ im so very happy for you both. What u have said in your video is spot on. Infertility is so difficult. You have overcome so much. I can't wait to see you both holding your new healthy baby in April 21. Best wishes xx
You and your husband are so beautiful and I cried when I found out you were pregnant ❤️ praise the lord for this blessing. Xxx
im 17 but when i found out you were pregnant I actually just started crying out of happiness. I'm really happy for you!!!!
Farah, I literally couldn’t be any happier to know that you have finally been blessed with your little miracle. I can’t even tell you how similiar our stories are, it’s actually trippy! I too have been married 9 years and have been trying for 3.5 years, also got diagnosed with unexplained fertility and despite trying fertility treatments and 4 IUIs, nothing worked. I finally ended up getting pregnant naturally in May and found out on Mother’s Day weekend, however that ended in a miscarriage at 8weeks, no heartbeat was seen. We are now preg again naturally anxiously waiting for our first ultrasound to hopefully know that there is a heartbeat and that too is landing on my bday. I trust in Gods timing and pray that this too will be our miracle baby. I have always kept you in my prayers and continue to pray for a safe and healthy pregnancy for you. So happy for you guys, thank you for sharing your story, not too many of us have the courage to talk about the hardships of this journey. ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for your positive video. I am extremely happy for you and Sal. This is such a benediction al hemdoulileh. My husband and I struggled for more than 2 years so this is not comparable to your journey but then we decided to ask for help. I found that I was PCOS. I had lots of injections every month to try to conceive and yeah it hurts your couple to feel like everything is planned.... thank God, we are now parent of a healthy and incredible little girl of 6 month. I wish you a healthy and happy pregnancy and delivery !!
I cried with you while listening your struggle, when you were pregnant and happy.. All my prayers are with you, your lil angel and your partner ❤️ I love you ❤️
7 years of infertility treatments and finally I was blessed with a baby girl via IVF in 2018. I felt every word you said Farah ! Lots of love for your family and I pray the labor goes smooth for you ! Xoxo! Sayeeda
I just got my periods today..after everything is normal im still not able to Concieve, yes we should trust almighty..and to hope for the best
@sunshine One day that will change and it will happen for you x
We will pray for you !!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼
May Allah give you strength and patiance and bless you with a child❤️ Ameen
@@esmehanine1005
Aameen
Praying for you sis 🤲
First of all congratulations I am so happy for you I totally understand your feelings...it’s just my story by you.. it’s been five years of getting married and still don’t know the reason ..it’s too difficult to see people getting pregnant easily , and I am having hard time through it...it is so hard to share your thoughts and feelings with someone who don’t even know what kind of pain is this but hearing your story is inspiring me not to give up ...thanks for sharing !! Pray for me !!
Had to come back to watch this I’m so happy and so scared right now at 9:55Pm i took a pregnancy test and after years of trying and hundreds of negative tests it’s finally positive can’t wait for tomorrow to really make sure this is happening. You guys are an inspiration and I’m so happy for you both.
Thank you for your video! I needed to hear this! I’ve been married for 10 years and have been struggling with infertility the entire time. Its been really difficult on me especially having in laws that constantly tell me there’s something wrong with me🤦🏻♀️! Nonetheless I’m still hopeful someday God will bless me one day with my own bundle of joy. Wishing you a healthy pregnancy!💕
Never ever ever give up hope
Have faith in God even at ur weakest times and you too will be blessed sending lots of love ❤️
Absolutely, He will 🥰🙏🏽
I’ve been where you are. This is our 9th year anniversary and we had our twins last year. We got help from a reproductive endocrinologist and needed IVF to have our twins. Desi here as well. I second every word you say here Farrah.
I feel you! Infertility is no joke... It makes you question your whole being, your faith, your relationship and everything else. And this pressure you get from every side: family, friends, your self. And everyone tells you just to relax and than it will happen...
I’m one who can’t have kids. I was told at a young age that if I ever wanted to try, I would need extensive treatments. And that’s just to see if I can even carry my own child. But I’m blessed with 2 amazing friends who have offered to be my surrogate when I’m ready. I cried when they both offered.
You both are blessed and deserve this. I admire you and your husband’s relationship. Can you do a baby bump update ? What are you looking forward to, aside from the baby lol.
Sending you guys so much love 💖
8 years and I'm still waiting for the miracle, happy for you honey and thanks for sharing your story that gave me hope again 😘
We pray 4 you too sz..may Allah help you
I just don’t understand why people take the time to comment negatively, if you don’t like the video then don’t watch it, don’t comment on other people’s lives. It’s none of your business even if they put out videos you do not know the whole story. Congratulations 🎉 babies are a huge blessing, here’s to not sleeping for the next few years 🤣
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽I agree Phillippa. What’s the point in spreading negativity? ❤️
I am so happy for you both and you're little family.
I've heard of and know so many people that fell pregnant this year despite having difficulties conceiving. I feel as though COVID forced us ALL to slow down, stay home, relax, bond and most importantly have less stress in our lives. It's fascinating!
I think you're right stress naturally plays a huge factor and it's not to be underestimated.
I love your videos and I can WAIT to virtually meet this bundle of joy.
Wishing you all the best for a happy healthy pregnancy xxx
I love watching the person that you are, you add light to the world, your body care knowledge is so helpful to me as an Indigenous woman, and im sure to many others. You work and speak from the heart, and the topics you speak on are relatable, it takes alot of courage and strength to come out on your challenges and struggles behind the scenes. Social media can portray a fake image to the world, but what is real is when we see whats skin deep and behind the scenes, the raw, and vulnerable material. This video in particular, is what i am going through and although it hasnt been years, you give me hope and inspiration to carry on. Women are so strong and beautiful. So are you and your husband, thank you!
When people say you never know where you're gonna be a year from now, it's crazy - and look at you! In May you posted your video about your struggles and both of you were sad, and yet when you think ahead and fast forward to May 2021, you both will have your bundle of joy in your arms all safe and healthy inshallah! So happy for you guys, praying you guys are forever happy!! ❤❤❤❤❤
I firmly believe that you owned your journey, you accepted your situation, released the shame and secrecy and you made your intention known and god, the universe, whatever you want to call it - gave you everything you had ever wanted. That’s a lesson for us all.
Here’s to a happy and healthy pregnancy, birth and baby xo
I got PCOS and i worry about my future, but It is comforting to know I am not the only one thank you so much for sharing
I have that too and i worry so much too you're not alone
Guuuuurl! You had me balling! So much so that my husband walked into the kitchen to ask me what was wrong.
Thank you so much for sharing your journey. Bare with me here because this is going to be long:
Your journey sounds sooooo much like ours. We tried for so long and had to go through several miscarriages in between looooong periods of trying militantly. After 5 rounds of IUI’s, test, hormones and no success, we finally tried IVF. I’m so grateful for gods hand in making this science available to so many couples around the world. We finally got pregnant with twin girls and I’m currently watching your videos washing a ton of bottles 😂
There were times I thought I’d die from the emotional struggle. And the strain on your marriage is no freaking joke. People would be so insensitive... I would watch your videos to cheer myself up, put some makeup on and laugh a little... when you posted your video about your struggle, I was like: oh shit... I know those tears. I follow your hubby too and knew when he gave up the company it was for this. I applaud the both of you. May God continue to shine on the 3 of you now and always
Thanks! As an artist and mother myself it’s been inspiring connecting with a wider community through motherhood and keeping going with my independent music. We need more examples of empowered parents like this around!around the world!
You deserve all the happiness and blessings!! I pray the only best for you, your husband and baby!!!
It takes a whole lot of courage for women like you to share your story and even talk about it to get help. There is nothing to be embarrassed about especially when one has such a life changing experience. There are very very few people who would even be able to empathize with the experience.
My husband and I have been married for ten years and are still waiting for a blessing to happen while dealing with secondary infertility. We have lost four babies in less than two years due to ectopic pregnancies and failed ivfs. I wasn’t expecting any support from people who are close to us, but instead received a lot of negative comments and whole lot of prejudices that basically made us feel we are not welcome because we are childless. The last three years we have been in nadir yet, these experiences strengthened our relationship immensely as a couple. We are still waiting for that miracle to happen and I know it will. Very soon.
Thank you for sharing your story, Farah. Congratulations to you and your family on your li’l bundle of joy. Good luck with everything
CONGRATULATIONS...I am so happy for you. I was praying for you to get pregnant. I know what I have gone through trying to get pregnant. I know now is too late because I am now going through menopause. So now my husband and I are in the talks of adopting a baby. We have a 30 year old daughter but I wanted to have another baby. Once again I am so happy for you and your husband that you never gave up hope and that God gave you the blessing of being a mother. The most beautiful thing in the world. God bless you, your husband and that precious baby girl. 🙏🙏🙏
Don’t be embarrassed about anything. It opens up conversations and infertility and just letting it out helps let others know that they are not alone. God bless you guys and baby ❤️
You went through infertility long enough. I guess they wanted you to continue to struggle. Although I didn't go through it for as long as you did, after a year and a half I thought it was over for me. But lo and behold, I got pregnant in May. I'm due in February 2021. I love seeing people happy because of something they have waited so long for has happened. Sending love and positive vibes to everyone who are still waiting on their miracles
I’ve been down a similar road and now have two beautiful, funny, and smart children. Even had someone who was suppose to be a friend say behind my back that it was embarrassing for me to share I was infertile.
I’ll be 40 soon, but I had my children at 37 and 38. Yes, we got pregnant back to back after struggling for nearly 5 years 🙌🏾. God can do ANYTHING regardless of what the doctors say.
Never allow those hateful comments to steal your joy. Those people are just a few meanies compared to ALL the people who truly love and care about you.
Can’t wait to hear more updates. We love you Farah and Sali!!!!
I have NEVER connected with someone through a video as much as I just did watching your video. Congratulations on your pregnancy. I still have faith that my secondary unexplained infertility will one day cut me a break and we have our rainbow baby. 🌈❤
I'm so really happy for the both of you. My friend went through something like this and the moment she took that idea in their mind they got pregnant, unexplained, as the doctor says.
I think few months back when you guys announced about your pregnancy
Almost every single person prayed for you guys and when many people pray from heart. God listen.
So happy for you guys. Much love
Im so happy for you. I did make a dua for you and im sure your viewers did too. Allah accepted our duas. Sally is such a great husband and you are lucky to have a man like that.
I've had kids and sacrificed my career as i graduated medicine but i struggled in a different way. I suffered from depression, loneliness for ten years because i was away from my family and husband was working and doing everything alone with young kids. I reached a point where i saw my kids as a burden and would overreact to them bugging me. My husband not only did not understand my difficulties, he did not support me emotionally. He just doesn't know how to do that, that's why i tell you to thank Allah for the blessing of a man like Sally. I yearned and craved for him to listen to me with empathy, hug me and comfort me. Alhamdulilah those dark days are over. My kids go to school now and even though my family is not with me, i try to busy myself with things and make my own happiness within me. Maybe Allah was teaching me that happiness doesn't from another person and its within us.
Congratulations to the two of you. Sending you so much light and love. To all the people that clicked the thumbs down and wrote all those negative things ... y'all have some serious inner battles you need to work on ...that's so crazy to me.