I am not very good at articulating how i feel because talking about how I feel is so foreign to me, but I just wanted to say THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart for sharing all of your personal stories, your kind words, your love, support and words of encouragement. I will never be able to thank you enough for the amount of light that you are all shining on this dark cloud that has been over me the last while. I have been sobbing reading all of your comments and feel so grateful to have you all as part of my family. I wish I could personally thank and hug all of you.. I have no idea what i did to ever deserve the kindness that you are all showering on me but i will be forever and ever grateful. Sending so much love to every single one of you.
U are soooooook beautiful inside out ,enshallah u will have a baby trust me I know someone who had a baby after 15 years and it was a surprise to them , when the right time comes it will happen please stay positive everything happens for a reason and u r a beautiful woman ❤️
🥺 ive been trying to conceive for 20 years, never achieved a pregnancy and still holding on to hope at the age of nearly 41. May God bless all those desperate for a baby 💞
I was diagnosed with infertility. I felt just as you. Then over 5 years since husband and I started trying to conceive, I became pregnant. No fertility treatment. Life is full of surprises and miracles, have faith! When it happens you will be a great mother. ❤
@@Virgobrii I didn't do anything different. My son was conceived during a rare moment that I was naturally fertile. It's been 2 years since he was born and I haven't become pregnant since.
I wish everyone has this realization. Too many people intrude one's private life and push their opinions/judge. Let's all be respectful of each other and just be sensitive of each other's feelings and the world will be a better place.
My parents tried for 10 years. They had 3 miscarriages and were told they would never be able to conceive. They prayed so hard and then I was born! And after 2 years my sister as well. Never lose your hope💕
My mom tried to get pregnant for 12 years and the doctors told her she wouldn’t be a mom. When she gave up from trying to get pregnant... I showed up in her life ❤️ I know that great things are about to happen in your life. Sending you a hug from Portugal 😘
Exactly.. same thing happened to my mom.. she has endometriosis.. after 11 years she finally got pregnant and here I am. I think you should let everything happen at the time that it's supposed to happen.. let lose a little.. let it be.. and the least expected moment you'll get pregnant.. not everything has to be mecanic and planned.. unexpected things are just the bestest..
Awww take me long time to get pregnant by my 2 daughter you need change your diet you need drink a lot tea that make you calm high cortisol make us difficult de be pregnant I have to cut sugar and flour basically be come vegetarian and only eat fish and eggs not milk not cheese I used drink apple cider vinegar then 3 months after I got pregnant same thing happen when I have my son not caffeine also
Mama you’re so gorgeousssss this ones who send you a mean comments is a hater don’t let this get to your heart for 3 that hates you is 1000 who loves you and admire you 🥰
Same here. My extended family & in laws keep questioning when we will have kids & if I have a problem that I don't have kids yet. It hurts. So I definitely will join in
My cousin been trying for over 10 years and to mark their 10th anniversary, they are currently expecting their first born 🥰🥰 i pray to Allah, every women who is TTC will be bless with a baby. Aamin Ya Rabb
My parents tried to have a child for more then 5 years and when they succeeded my mum had a miscarriage but two years later she found out that she is pregnant with me and well here I'm 19 years old writing this don't loose hope and even if you can't have kids of your own thin about adopting one
I’m so sorry to hear this, sometime after contraception it can take long to have your fertility back, also I have been advised that keeping ur feet up with ur back on a pillow for 15 mint right after intercourses helps ( and it does really help )
Don’t stop trying! My sister tried for 9 years and finally had a beautiful baby boy after about a year of fertility treatments. You’re such a beautiful person Farah, you deserve a beautiful family and I know you and your husband will have an amazing family. Don’t give up, and please I know it’s hard to stop thinking of yourself as less of a woman because you’re having trouble conceiving but know that is not true! You’re amazing and I will pray for you and your family.
The number of people watching this is insane. I would like to make a suggestion to all; why don’t we ALL make a sincere prayer from the HEART for this beautiful soul. Surely the prayer of at least 1 of the MILLIONS that will be viewing this will be heard. Do not underestimate the power of prayer. So much love for you guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
My parents were trying to have a second kid for 11 years. Finally they got a heartbeat, but instead their were 2 heartbeats. I’m currently 14 years old with my twin sister 😌
Watching this after your pregnancy announcement. You described just how I feel. Trying for over 3 years now & nothing. I’ve been so depressed lately over it. But seeing you finally getting your miracle makes my heart so happy. Congratulations beautiful, you’re going to be an amazing mother.
I have been trying for about 3 years and nothing.. My husband already has kids, so when he told me he wanted a baby I was the happiest, I have always wanted to be a mom, I helped raise my siblings, and now my stepchildren. I honestly want to adopt or something, but I understand the emptiness in you, feeling you can't do it. Hope it happens for you guys! ❤🥺
@@karianajamieson I just want to make my husband a daddy & the fact that I can’t right now just breaks my heart every single day 😞 I pray it happens for you too!
@@karianajamieson sister read surah maryam I swear this worked wonders for me I was reading religiously after every namaaz and when I had time to read or even listen subhanallah I have 4 now mashallah. Just remember to have tawakal and you will have it all xxx let me know how it goes xx
Hi Farah, I lost 6, 4 misscarriages I buried 2 one fullterm. I can truly relate... Giving birth to my daughter knowing she wasnt alive was so hard 4 days of labour she was stillborn but still born, holding my baby girl in my arms with no cry just silent that silence that I knew I could not take her home broke me. Many days I sat in the mortuary holding her asking why... So many questions and emotions ran through my mind throughout the years of trying and losing I too was so so broken BUT finally in 2017 I gave birth to my miracle son at 6 months weighing 1IB.4 the size of my hand he was on life support and in hospital for so long but he made it .... now he is my proof to say to you it will happen beautiful maybe not in the timing we want but please will you never lose vision and hope you too will get your blessing. God is able and amazing x
YOU ARE SO BRAVE for posting this, & I applaud you for speaking out! We had 60 negative tests, 5 years of trying before we got our miracle positive test! Please don't give up hope!
I had a friend that thought she couldn't get pregnant. After 10 years, she and her husband thought they couldn't get pregnant. Then......out of no where, she had a beautiful baby girl.
@@IamJustMe1234 We have a different perspectives and I didn't get that from her video that these were the type of comments that hurt her. If she posts and confirms that then I'll be sure to take it down but not because of someone else's erroneous interpretation. Thanks for your concern though.
This is literally why I hate when people ask “why don’t you have a baby yet?”. It’s such a common question in my Slavic culture. You don’t know if the person has been trying to conceive and is failing or they just don’t want a kid right now/ever! Stop asking this damn question!! It’s none of your business. Stay strong Farah ❤️ take care of yourself and your mental health.
I totally agree I was asked that during a time I was in the middle of an ectopic pregnancy. People just don't consider these things. People should really stop asking that question like seriously. Farrah keep your head up my friend⚘
As a child my mother taught me that it was rude/impolite to ask someone when they were having kid's as you don't know whether that person has been trying to conceive with no success or has recently lost a child eg. Had a miscarriage. I'm always grateful my mum taught me this from a child age.
Don’t loose hope, Allah is Al-wahab which means he is the giver of everything! So keep on asking and stay hopeful, he won’t let you down! Nothing is impossible. Sending you lots of love!❤️
I'm a woman and I absolutely agree. A woman's worth as a human being has nothing to do with her fertility and capability to produce a child. But it's sad and heartbreaking that we live in a society where people feel it's okay to question a woman about her barren nest. That's very unfair and a personal question. A woman can be fertile and not want to reproduce. If she and her partner/husband have decided on not having kids then it's nobody's damn business to question them or the woman any further.
this comment is SO important! i was literally told that women who don’t have kids (even by choice) are “useless and incomplete” and it doesn’t matter how successful/happy/content they are……it makes me so upset to think that a lot of people think like that.
Em X yep Ive heard this too. Ive also been told a man who marries a woman who cant have kids has the right to leave her and remarry another woman. As if not being able to have a kid only falls on the woman’s shoulders...
Dearest Farah, watching this felt all too familiar. My husband and I tried for 6 years. We too went through that same struggle. In Asian families it can be so hard. So many people spoke about us, people got pregnant and wouldn't tell us because they would think we were jinxed. Please do not give up, I know Sal and you will be blessed with your own children. After 6 years of trying we were referred for IVF. I finally let go and stopped being hard on myself, I relaxed and thought to myself if it happens, it happens. Then a month before IVF I suddenly got pregnant I couldn't believe it. I am now the happy Mama of 3 beautiful children. So do not give up hope. I will pray for you I know God is capable. Sending you lots of love xxx
I have a similar story. My husband and I tried for 5 years. We were ready for treatment. I waitet for my period to start injections, but the period didn't come, I was pregnant. I couldn't believe it either. Now I have my child in my arms. And so will you. Don't give up hope, there are sooo many people who struggle with fertility. That's when I learned that I will never ask someone again, when they will have kids oder if they even want to,because those questions hurt so much. People,who have no problems with fertility, they don't understand,how hard it is. So don't give up, you will get pregnant.
This line is everything - “ I finally let go and stopped being hard on myself, I relaxed and thought to myself if it happens, it happens” Let go and trust God that it will happen when He wills it ❤️
At the age of 20, I had my first of many ovarian surgeries. I was told I was infertile. I have PCOS and endometriosis. Last year, I met my person. I had given up that dream of motherhood... I’m 36 and raised my niece who is now almost 17. Without trying, being on birth control and taking option B, I got pregnant. Imagine my shock. Imagine my doctors shock. I’m due 11/09. The last thing one should ever lose is hope.
I've never been able to have children and I'm 46....its been the hardest thing ever to go through because as women we were designed and engineered to reproduce. I feel like a failure and that I'm broken. I know your pain Farah. Dont be too hard on yourself. I'm here if you want to talk ever
Farah I tried for more than 10 years to have a child and I had 3 miscarriages. And last year the beginning of the year I fasted and prayed to God that if children is not in his plans for me to at least help my be the best aunt I could be. 4 weeks later I found out I was pregnant. I was so scared I was gonna miscarry again. But in Oct of 2019 I gave birth to a beautiful boy. Farah enjoy your marriage, your travels, your family because one day you will be a mom. My dream was always to be a mom too. So I know how you are feeling. And I am overweight I always have been. And i looked like i had 4 kids when i had none. And I was bullied on social media by women all the time. But in looked to God and started focusing on what I do have. YOU ARE GOING TO BE A GREAT MOM!!!
Kaysha Rivera i just have tears in my eyes of reading your story. God bless you and your beautiful child 💕 there is always hope and i pray for God to give Farah also a beautiful family❤️
Im 40 and Ive been trying for 3 year. I went through IVF 2 cycles, 2 miscarriages. I needed to take a break to gather my strength back. Thank you for being strong and speaking your truth. Your strength will return.
My mother gave me the best advice ever when me and my husband were trying to get pregnant. She said “Mija, you need to stop stressing over it. You need to relax. The reason you are having difficulty is because your body is reacting to your stress level.” Once I stopped stressing, I was able to conceive. So, I say to you beautiful Farahdhukai, stop stressing and feeding into these stupid people and their comments. Find your zen space and let go of the negativity. You will find peace and the babies will come💕💕. Que Dios le bendiga!!!!!💕💕💕💕💕
Did you even watch this video? Do you have any idea how many people have heard that line and failed to get pregnant? Phrases like that are literally pouring salt in an open wound.
I can understand that you’re coming from a good place by saying this but the reality is that “not stressing” is not going to magically make someone who doesn’t ovulate, ovulate; or someone who doesn’t produce mature sperm, produce mature sperm. Sometimes there are actual physiological issues that can only be corrected through medical intervention. I’ve tried “not stressing” for over 8 years and here I am having to go through IUI’s with donor sperm because my husband does not produce sperm. Please refrain from telling someone going through infertility that they need to stop stressing.
Hey hun, it took me well over 2 years of trying to get pregnant. I got referred to a great doctor at mount Sinai's fertility clinic. It took a year but we were lucky to finally get pregnant. I think your in Toronto too, so maybe you could check them out. Your not alone hun and I hope with all my heart you have all the babies you want. You deserve everything you wish for big hugs.
I have learned to not ask why someone doesn’t have kids. Everyone’s process and situation is different and you don’t know what someone is going through. Thank you for talking about this, I can only imagine how difficult this is and can be. You are amazing!! You are not alone
My cousin tried to have kids for 8 years. She desired a child so hard that I saw her with my own eyes crying to God for a baby. She has two babies now, a boy and a girl. Don’t give up, keep trying!
@@elcuhhh2140 it's a child, not a puppy. Idk i feel like pregnancy and child birth and starting a biological family is different. *i was adopted. First of 4 in a combined family of 7. So i get that, too.
Sweet girl, can I just tell you that this video touched my heart soooo deeply. In 2016 my husband and I got pregnant with our first child. Our dreams had come true, and just as soon as we started celebrating, I lost the baby. At 7 weeks. I was more heartbroken than I had ever been. My husband reassured me that when my body was healed we would start trying again. Well, we tried for 3 years. 3 years. With the 3rd anniversary of our miscarriage coming up I was feeling SO incredibly sad. Every month we got negative tests and I felt so alone. All my friends were having kids. Even friends who didnt want kids were getting pregnant. It was so incredibly hard. My husband and I kept trying. You and Sal NEED to stay strong. Stay positive. Talk to your body and tell it that you love it and that you cant wait for it to be a home for your sweet little baby that you WILL have. 3 years after trying and trying and trying my husband and I were finally successful! It was a miracle. When I look back on our miscarriage I just know that things weren't right for us then. STAY. POSITIVE. BABE. It will happen. Relax and when you least expect it a miracle will evolve. I love you, Farah! I always have. I'm a big fan and I will pray and send all the baby dust to you and your husband. ❤❤❤❤❤🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸
Hey just curious, did you do anything to ensure you had a successful pregnancy? Been trying with no luck after 2 miscarriages, so all ears if you have any tips to ensure a successful pregnancy..sending good vibes to everyone trying for a baby xxx
@@candylover1991 I prayed. And prayed. I also ate very healthy and tried to stay active without over exerting myself. I'm so sorry you had had to go through two miscarriages. Even though I have my baby now, that worry just never goes away. Right up until i was 38 weeks pregnant and delivered, i worried. I remained positive, though. Our bodies are amazing and when it's right you will have your sweet little miracle. Goodluck and baby dust ❤🌸❤🌸❤
It’s so hard to talk about infertility. My only dream in life was to be a mom and wife but after 6 yrs of trying we have not gotten pregnant. It’s a very lonely, very heartbreaking place to be. So thank u for sharing your story, u are not alone! ❤️
Same...i married for 4 years now..my husb had two kids and married before we both meet..after he divorced we both had relationship..we trying so hard to get pregnent..but my husb so undersanding..he never said anything..he just said..if we can get babies its blessing if not maybe god had plan for us to dating longer..sometimes when my friends pregnent..i broke down..he said im so stupid..because care about that..its make me more broken.because he was so nice and im not deserve him..he said if one day we still didnt get own babies..maybe he gonna adopt one girl..maybe..but not now
JayMMXII You aren’t alone either! My husband and I tried for 7 years to get a baby and we finally got one when my son turned 11. Keep going! Don’t ever give up! 🙏🏼🙏🏼
You just made me cry for something I haven't experienced. I am single and I could feel the pain in your voice. You are just perfect. Sometimes things don't go well in lifs. I am 24 now but when I was 14, I lost my eyesight completely when I woke up the next morning. I was perfectly alright before that and I am blind with my right wye eversince and it hurts so muxh to see people being able to see clearly but you don't have to be sad because Allah will reward you soon. Don't be sad, love you. ❤
I am so over women judging women over every single little thing. “She’s too fat, too skinny, too pale, too dark, too tall, too short” and the “are you gonna keep having babies?” to the “why aren’t you having babies?” SO OVER IT! You get nothing out of ripping every other woman apart. It just shows how much ugliness you have inside. And to Farah and every other women out there dealing with this type of issue: my heart goes out to all of you. Life doesn’t always work the way we want it to and it sometimes seems unfair. I personally, am the type that has to be in control of everything but I have been forced many times to just let go. And those times where I have pushed and pushed and have no strength left is when I realize that I must let go and let God and the universe do its will. And not only letting go physically(of control) but also mentally and emotionally. Allowing myself to be open and accepting of whatever it is that God has for me...even if it’s not what I had planned or envisioned. Happiness sometimes ends up being not what we thought it’d look like. Farah, feel out every emotion. Don’t pay mind to other people’s opinions. Do whatever you can and what’s in your reach to achieve your goal but do it with a healthy mind, heart and soul. I hope you heal soon and wish you happiness.
Dont know if this is insensitive but I dont understand why women get so overly emotional about this. Theres always adoption or IVF. But Im not really fussed about having kids so I guess I cant relate. Also kids ruin relationships and people’s lives. I know a lot of miserable people with kids.
@@ye23. hey I'm 23 and can't have kids. I found out at 20. It sucks. I don't even know if I wanted kids but its knowing I can't do what my body is built to do hurts. I don't think about it now because I don't want to end up like this girl crying in the video. But it hurts knowing pregnancy is either impossible or life threatening. Its a natural biological feeling women get. And yes IVF and adoption but its not the same. Some women want a bio child and not being able to HURTS!
@@ye23. I never wanted kids until 3 years ago when I was diagnosed with fibroids. I have had 2 surgeries. Now breaking up with someone I love because he already has 2 kids and I want one. Feelings change.... there's no control over emotions. I can't talk to anyone about it because my family and friends are practical people....my mum has already mentioned adoption.....it's not that easy. Adopted kids in the eyes of the government are not 💯 your kids....I am only coping because had experienced bad depression years before and learned from that and know travel helps...being stuck indoors is not letting me cope. Right now need to get away. I spend time talking about going to the beach. I might change my mind but now that I am single feel less pressure.
@@tlazo But they simply react out of instinct though, an animal is not going to say or do mean things just because they can and are safe behind their screens, if you get what I'm saying
@@highlyfavoredMG I shouldn't even dignify this with a response, but I have time, so.. Does it say I hate humans or am I not grateful for most of them, no. But will I prefer animals who react out of instinct over humans who can be so mean without even a reason why and say mean things on the internet they probably wouldn't dare to say standing in front of you and do messed up things to eachother, yes I will
@@SorayaUnlimited animals don’t react over instinct if it’s an emotional situation. They are fully capable of processing emotions and comforting each other in times of needs. This is the reason why I’m vegetarian going to be vegan because I know how intelligent and caring animals can be for eachother🌱
Listen to me when I tell you Farah, THIS ENTIRE EXPERIENCE WILL BE YOUR TESTIMONY! You're helping SO many people right now by sharing this, and you have NO IDEA how many people you are going to help in the future when you're able to look back when you have your beautiful angel and be able to say that this is where you were. You're going to give people HOPE. This is Allah's doing because everything is going to turn out MUCH better than you could even imagine!!! Your blessings are going to overflow. We are all SO proud of you and lifting you up during this time and even after. YOUR BLESSING IS COMING. You would never have gone through this if your blessing wasn't coming on the other side. Just hold on a little bit longer baby girl!
The fact that she had to write in the description box “pls be kind” fully broke me🥺we love you Farah and I pray Allah gives you strength and happiness. Ameen ❤️ you’re in my prayers.🤲🏻
Same here, praying for children and the uncertainty is weighing heavy on ones heart especially when all your friends and loved ones are getting married and having babies
If there will be a God this nice young woman here would already have a child.. If God would bless someone with a kid. Than people like her would have a kid and not people who are abusing their kids or something
Ive been with my partner for 9 years and i got pregnant in 5 years all these thoughts went through my head until one day i was like okay god whenever you're ready to make me a mom ill be waiting . Now i have 2 blessings .
My husband and I wanted children so bad. It ate me up inside. We tried since I was 20. I'm now I'm 33. We still do not have children. When I tell you, I know it hurts, I mean it. As a woman, you feel " We are supposed to be able to have children". I felt useless. I had to MAKE myself, move on. It was destroying me and started to affect the way I was treating my husband. I just said to myself " Nicole, if it happens it happens". And unfortunately it never did. I promise you it will get better. You are not alone. I'm sending you lots of love & good vibes to you & your husband. We would have adopted, but it was thousands. If you are in a position to adopt, think about it. There is a child out there, who would love you forever. I hope you read this. I just wanted to share my genuine feelings. If you wanted to message me, for support, I'm here. Please take care. Lots of love Nicole ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Girl this touched me too. 😢 I can’t even imagine what you are all going through. I pray and hope that you all are blessed with a family be that your own children or living and taking care of another child who is in need of a family 💕
Love that you had the courage to speak about this, let alone publicly. You are love, strength, and inspiration. I hope people have understood that kindness carries us forward and kept the comments positive. Thank you for sharing.
I cried with you because I know the feeling so well..😔 the emptiness is a horrible feeling...I have lost 3 angels in the last 4 years...from struggling to become pregnant, then to loosing my babies, still praying to be blessed here on earth ...GOD leads the way!🙏❤👶
Bussit Love222 I’m so sorry for your loss. My friend has lost 3 angels within a few years and then when she became pregnant a 4th time the doctor suggested bed rest for most of the pregnancy. She was able to carry the baby to term. She became pregnant for the 5th time and was able to carry that baby to term as well. It may be extreme but it worked for her. Sending you love 💕
@@SavortheMomentblog thank you love!! Really appreciate the love... I pray that when it does happen again for me...it will be full term, I've been so afraid to try again in the last year & a half..but I definitely would do anything for my rainbow baby!!❤🙏
Im sorry for you’re lost I know how you been feeling I was feeling like that to I had 2 miscarriage I only been married for a year and a half and I was so Depress and alone even if I had my husband support . but God has bless me I’m now pregnant again and going on 20 weeks having a baby girl . But with all I been through I always wake up with a fear of loosing my baby but I pray to God that my pregnancy continue to be healthy don’t loose hopes girl ❤️
This is tough to watch so I can’t even imagine what it’s like to be going through it. Praying and hoping so hard for you that your hearts desire will come to pass. 🙏🏾
The sad thing is it is mostly women who leave those hurtful comments. I’ve learned that life is a journey and yours is not like everyone else’s I’m praying that you will get through this. Just take care of yourself.
I feel your pain my sweet sister, i have been trying to get pregnant for almost 20 years now. May Allah answer our dua❤ May Allah give us a healthy baby soon Ameen❤
I was trying for 5 years and that took the enjoyment out of the whole process , it was almost like a chore , had to get the timing correct , had to stay still in certain position for so long , it was exhausting. 5 years later of trying with no success I gave up on the idea, new year ; new me. 6 months later guess who’s pregnant ! I stopped trying , and just started enjoying my time with my husband. May Allah swt bless you with a bundle of joy xx
2:40 “every month.. for 3 years you hope something is going to happen...” and staying positive... I think someone is cutting onions near me.. I felt it. I really felt it. 😭
"When you grow up in a desi household, your feelings aren't really at the forefront of conversation" The hard truth right here. Talking about these things openly is how things will change. Thank you for your courage Farah.
I’m crying with you. I can’t imagine how hard this must be. 🙏🏾God please bless this beautiful, loving family with the child they desire so that they can share the love they have for each other. Lay your healing hands on both of them and bless them. Anything is possible through you Lord. Bless this family. 🙌🏾🙏🏾
Hi everyone it's the holy month of ramadan right now and I urge you who are fasting/muslim please make dua for Farah and all couples who are struggling with infertility in the world. So many couples are dealing with this at the moment so please make prayers❤🙏🤲
i did 5 miscariages in 7 years i cried blood but i nevrr lost hope now i m a mom of 3 years old boy plz farah dont lost hope plz allah is with u inchallah u will becaume mom keep strong u will be inchallah ( iam Pcos )
Don't know where to post this but I have to say it.... When Farah said Desi families don't talk about feelings.. "you have anxiety? Just drink some milk and pray." BRUH, I laughed SO hard. My Dad was Punjabi and that was his answer for everything. Milk. Just milk. Headache? "Did you drink milk today?" Feel tired? "Drink milk, you need energy." After an argument where I cried, "Okay bacha, go, go, wash your face and I'll warm up some milk, okay? Chulo, go." Farah, I love you dude. It's so good to see some representation on TH-cam
Same here, 13 years of marriage, and still nothing, i don't know what to say, i'm gest trying to be more hopeful, and i was tell by someone who sole in the card's for me, that fore sure i will have babies. So, that's what i'm wish you all, to have babies soon enough 🙏💋💕👫
shin m keep your negative comments to yourself. What ever decision she chooses to make is her choice what is the need for you to say such negative things
@@safahqureshi7862 I'm just stating the facts. Have u ever heard of What people think and say about u is none of ur business. If she chooses to make her money off social media so she she should b ready to face social criticisms as well as popularity.
This is why you do not EVER comment on a woman’s appearance or make assumptions about whether she is pregnant or not. Other people’s lives are nobody else’s business and are absolutely not there to be analysed and scrutinised. We don’t know what others are going through behind the scenes and I find it sickening how people think they can say things like this. Keeping you in my prayers ❤️
@@jayekaye6641 You're so funny. You literally have a public playlist of naked 'millennials' on your channel named 'horn'. You're a joke. Stop hating and go watch your soft porn.
I was in the same position thinking I couldn’t until I gave up and I’m now 6 1/2 months pregnant - watching your story makes me so emotional with these hormones 😭 // I’m so happy for you these tears you’re crying now better be tears of joy girl embrace it you will be an amazing mother !!!
They just want attention, and always why people are being so f***** mean all of us are still human , some with fame and some not some with money and some not life is that no one is perfect no one
I definitely agree with what you're saying people hide behind their screens and say terrible things about people that know. But I definitely appreciate the comments you're awesome I wish there were more people like you in the world. Take care and God-bless good bye.
Been married 8 years and since day one ppl have asked when “I “ am having kids. Somehow it became singularly my problem. Have changed jobs and done so many other things and yet the lack of a child is how what ppl focus on as if that defines me. The one thing I do believe... not having a child does not making me less of a person. God has a plan for me... just as he does for you. It will all work out. You spoke on a subject that affects so many and no one really feels comfortable talking about. Thank you for having the bravery to share. You are not alone.
My love, I’m so, so sorry you’ve been going through this for 3 years in silence. I’m sorry you’ve been feeling alone. We are all here for you. It’s okay to cry ♥️ Take your time with healing, there’s no deadline. We love you beautiful. I’ll be making a lot of dua for you and your husband. Sending lots of love your way ♥️
Girl I was in the same situation! After 4 years of trying I’m finally expecting my first baby ❤️ have hope, keep trying and remember it’s just not your time, but it doesn’t mean your time will never come. Sending you positive vibes and praying for you 💕
I just wanted to say, there’s no need to apologize for crying or feeling the way you do. There’s a lot of women in our world who understand what you’re feeling right now. I am one of them 🙋🏻♀️ You’re so brave to speak out and you’re feelings are valid. I couldn’t imagine how hard it is to deal with all of the comments.
I've been crying through out the whole video 💔 we're here. We're listening. You are adequate! You are perfect! We LOVE and support you. Everything is gonna be alright.
Look at God farah, his timing is always perfect. I’m guessing within a month or 2 after this video you found out that he accepted our prayers. Continue to say alhamdulilah ❤️
Me and my husband tried for 8 years now I'm finally preg 16 weeks to be exact. fingers crossed it all turns out well. Your beautiful and I hope you 2 all the best.
Farah, you should go to your old video “Draw My Life” and take in consideration how far you have come in life and how things worked out for you. I know that your situation is tough but each person goes through hardship in different stages so you’re never the only one sis, but sometimes our plans don’t go by the way we want it. We get tested in various ways with wealth loss, health, tragedies, etc. This life is meant for challenges and there definitely is mystery. Allah states that he won’t change the condition of someone who doesn’t try. Don’t lose hope and don’t give up please! Life is short and your mental health is important. Keep trying and things will eventually workout after hardship, inshAllah. Make dua since it’s ramadan and you’re in my prayers also. Give into charity and you get back the same deed. Also, watch out for vitamins you take and make sure you get a good amount of magnesium, vitamin D, and Folic Acid. 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍 love you!
Asking somone about pregnancy is a Personal Question, that SHOULD NOT be asked about or commented on. Let that person bring it up. We need to be more respectful and loving people.
I agree! It’s so sad that in our culture it’s apparently appropriate to comment on childless marriages or gaining weight, not being married etc so many things I disagree with. I hope all of these comments give her strength.
@@mrsjpunt3924 I totally agree. Every time someone sees me they always say "oh you've gained weight, not taking care of your health, etc". Mind you, I'm not overweight. I'm small (5 feet flat) so weight fluctuations are more apparent. I get offended every time but somehow manage to reply civilly (though at night I toss and turn wishing I could tell people off for eyeing my weight when in fact they've been overweight for years and I don't do what they do because it makes people feel bad).
It's really hard when they ask you are you pregnant? When are you going to have a baby? They don't think that maybe you have been trying and you just can't. It's the family, friends, and just anyone who you are talking to😣 Just because we are married we had to have a kid and when I gained weight they began saying that maybe I'm pregnant and didn't want to say it
This’s heartbreaking! You’ll have children inShaAllah it can happen anytime, don’t let the comment gets to you and your man should not be saying that I can’t wait stuff, it’s not good when men saying I want a son or can’t wait for a child cuz it makes women feel guilty and it’s not about that it’s about the love and determination that person has for you. You’re young it’ll happen I knew people whom waited longer then have children. Sending you love ❤️❤️🙏🏿
Sending love to you! I've tried to conceive for 5 years, when I finally got pregnant I lost my 1st baby :( Next year we tried again and we had success! Now I have 2 beautiful kids on earth and 1 in heaven.
When you lose hope completely then Allah is there to make you remember that he is there. It is Ramadan now ... please pray. I believe it will take place... when you don't expect it ☺
I agree. Those people that disliked this video are pure evil. How can they even do such a thing. Farrah's babies are coming in Gods timing. And God's plan is the best plan. 💚
Just want to state something we as women forget; it’s not always our “fault” people never look to the man as the issue so be kind to yourselves ladies.
I agree, but what does it matter? Who cares who is "at fault" ?? No one chooses to be infertile... placing blame on anyone for not being able to concieve when they want to is horrible.
Starlight Glow Bc women internalize and it’s not always our bodies but that’s where doctors start. At least they did with me. All the test all the appointments and finally they looked at my husband’s health and found the issue lied within him. I had torn myself apart thinking it was something I did or I waited to long.
@@rosebud4467 I don't think KNO was placing blame on either of them for not being able to conceive, nor pointing fingers on whose fault it is. Woman's worst critics are other woman or themselves, it can drive a woman to fall into a deep depression, she clearly blames herself, she is sad, empty and feels broken, she has been going through this for 3 years and she has obviously been going through this alone (she feels alone, her words). She's going through a lot and social media obviously hasn't helped her situation. But I agree with KNO its not always the women's reproductive organs that are at fault, sometimes the issue lies on the man, but yes even if it were the woman's body that wasn't able to conceive that doesn't make it "her" fault, she hasn't done anything purposely (that we know) that has prevented them from being able to conceive. We do not know her situation/story 100%, but it sounds like they should both get tested so they can get to the bottom of the problem, and maybe some marriage counseling wouldn't hurt, she is in too much pain and doesn't sound like she is happily married either.
Oh man, my heart is breaking just listening to this, may Allah grant you a baby, may Allah grant you peace my sister, i know you've made this video for your followers but all of this you need say to your lord, the creater and the giver, just alone time between you and him, he will listen...you will not feel all this once you've poured your heart out to your lord, i promise you...it is the holy month of ramadan, connect with your maker...i will keep u in my dua my sister, you beautiful soul, don't let these mindless ppl takeaway your smile...keep smiling and have hope...
I am so tired of internet bullies literally ruining peoples' lives on the internet. They even bully little kids on here like why? why is it so hard to just be kind? Farah, I've been watching your videos for so long and it has helped me deal with my insecurities. I want you to know that we are all here for you and i admire your strength. your feelings matter and im glad you could share it with us. i love you a lot!
They're so hard on others because they are very insecure themselves! And internet is a broad place to shove out stupid comments that make em feel better!
I totally understand where you’re coming from. I too hide my feeling with a smile, a joke, a laugh. I also wanted to be a mom. My problem was not getting pregnant, it was keeping the baby. I had about 6 miscarriages. I thought there was something wrong we me too. I had lost all hope. Kept all this quiet. One day in the shower.... I had a conversation with God. I said “I’ve tried so bad to be a mom. I keep loosing them. If I can’t have kids I’ll understand. Pleas help me understand. I’m sorry for being mad. If it’s not for me just help me heal.” I said more but you get the idea. I then got pregnant in about 2 months. I now have a beautiful 3 year old boy. Once I removed the stress of trying & just let it be. It just happened. I pray you heal from the pain. I pray it happens for you. God bless you.
Not getting pregnant is terrible in itself. I was thinking about women like you who have been able to get pregnant and miscarry. I am not a mom, nor is that in my plans for another 3 years or so, but I feel for you both. I cant imagine going through that. It takes a lot of strength. Congratulations to you on your baby boy. ❤
Farah my lovely. I was diagnosed with Endometriosis at the age of 21 and declared infertile the same year. I was told that I would not have children and that I should look at other means... I went through hormones supplements and others stuff and it did not work... and I stopped hoping an I accepted that I might not carry a child... it is okay not to be okay and then you need to be okay... after 6 months of acceptance of my condition and the fact that I won't have children ... I got pregnant and now my daughter is a beautiful 8 year-old and she is a miracle!!! I think you should just let it be ... accept life as it comes and need fresh head space... it'll happen on it's own trust me!!!! ❤
7 years of marriage,5 miscarriages and the last lost was 2 years ago so all this while I’ve been trying so hard,crying and been depressed but in February I told myself I won’t be trying anymore I’ll just leave everything I’m Allah’s hand The Raheem 🙏🏾🤲🏾 and in my surprise I got pregnant that month mashallah,on my previous pregnancies I never passed the 1st trimester but Alhamdoulillah I’m 4 month pregnant and I’m so grateful to Allah I’m still praying for everything to go so smooth in sha Allah,keep me in you douas and in sha Allah Farah if it meant to be it will happen in sha Allah I’ll keep you in my prayers 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Having PCOS and trying for years, I know the feeling of being “broken” all to well. Feeling like I’m a failure for not being able to do the one thing a woman should be able to do. I’ve pushed my husband away for the last 4 years just because I felt like I was useless to him. It wasn’t until two weeks ago that he sat me down and we had a big heart to heart telling each other exactly how we felt. And now we are back to being our silly selfs and it feels like we are brand new. My husband and I have been trying since we were 19 and we are 23 now. We are praying and hoping that one day we can have a big, happy family. You give me hope! You’re a beautiful soul and you are going to be a great mom. Your baby will be so blessed to have such a great parents. May you have a big happy family! I wish nothing but the best for you and Sal and your sweet bundle of happiness! I’ll be praying for you to have a wonderful safe pregnancy! Keep it up queen!!
I am not very good at articulating how i feel because talking about how I feel is so foreign to me, but I just wanted to say THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart for sharing all of your personal stories, your kind words, your love, support and words of encouragement. I will never be able to thank you enough for the amount of light that you are all shining on this dark cloud that has been over me the last while. I have been sobbing reading all of your comments and feel so grateful to have you all as part of my family. I wish I could personally thank and hug all of you.. I have no idea what i did to ever deserve the kindness that you are all showering on me but i will be forever and ever grateful. Sending so much love to every single one of you.
Everything will be okay❤️ you are not alone
My duas are with you
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Just know we love you right back 💘💘 and it will happen at God's given time...
U are soooooook beautiful inside out ,enshallah u will have a baby trust me I know someone who had a baby after 15 years and it was a surprise to them , when the right time comes it will happen please stay positive everything happens for a reason and u r a beautiful woman ❤️
Who came to this video after watching farah pregnancy announcement miracles do happens just believe in them ❤️💓💓💓🤗🤗🤗⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Me😂♥️
Me ... My question is ... did she know she was pregnant in this video 🤔 Congrats Farah & Sal ❤️
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@@shewygirl I don’t think so...
So happy for u may x
Who is here after finding out Farah is now pregnant 🤰🏻 😍♥️
Me
Meeeeee🤩💃💃
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Meeeee hhhhhhh
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🥺 ive been trying to conceive for 20 years, never achieved a pregnancy and still holding on to hope at the age of nearly 41.
May God bless all those desperate for a baby 💞
Halima Hussain Andoussi 💕
Ameen. May Allah bless you sis.
Insha Allah ❤️
Plz try hijama on your stomach inshallah that will work
Praying you are blessed with a child soon!!
I was diagnosed with infertility. I felt just as you. Then over 5 years since husband and I started trying to conceive, I became pregnant. No fertility treatment. Life is full of surprises and miracles, have faith! When it happens you will be a great mother. ❤
Did you do anything different? Congrats 🥰😍
@@Virgobrii possibly
@@Virgobrii I didn't do anything different. My son was conceived during a rare moment that I was naturally fertile. It's been 2 years since he was born and I haven't become pregnant since.
@@Virgobrii And thank you! ❤
And now... farah IS pregnant!!!! What a miracle ❤️❤️
I came back to say, this is the exact reason why I don’t ask why people don’t have children. You never know a person’s struggle.
Same
True.
respect you girl !
Very true
I wish everyone has this realization. Too many people intrude one's private life and push their opinions/judge. Let's all be respectful of each other and just be sensitive of each other's feelings and the world will be a better place.
My parents tried for 10 years. They had 3 miscarriages and were told they would never be able to conceive. They prayed so hard and then I was born! And after 2 years my sister as well. Never lose your hope💕
Never forget this: you're never less of a woman just because you can't have children.
Ahh agree😍😍
So true! Unfortunately, lots of cultures regard you as less of a woman if you are infertile.
@@Indiasplace I'm not sure whether to leave my infertile wife or not
This is true however sometimes other people communicate in various ways that you aren't a woman unless you have kid's.
My uncle and aunt have been trying for 14 years and now they expecting with their first child. Keep faith.
Allhumdullilah ❤️ Allah is great ❤️
Really? 👀
Alhumdolilah ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
My mom tried to get pregnant for 12 years and the doctors told her she wouldn’t be a mom. When she gave up from trying to get pregnant... I showed up in her life ❤️ I know that great things are about to happen in your life. Sending you a hug from Portugal 😘
Exactly.. same thing happened to my mom.. she has endometriosis.. after 11 years she finally got pregnant and here I am. I think you should let everything happen at the time that it's supposed to happen.. let lose a little.. let it be.. and the least expected moment you'll get pregnant.. not everything has to be mecanic and planned.. unexpected things are just the bestest..
How old was she?
Sonia M she started with 23 and got pregnant at the age of 35!
@@soniam2690 36 when she had me..
@@SaraMargaridaMusic Pretty much the same
This broke my heart. My mom had me after 7 years of trying so don't give up hope. Sending love and prayers your way. ❤️
And my mum 10 years my sisters are 44,34 and I’m 30.
Awww take me long time to get pregnant by my 2 daughter you need change your diet you need drink a lot tea that make you calm high cortisol make us difficult de be pregnant I have to cut sugar and flour basically be come vegetarian and only eat fish and eggs not milk not cheese I used drink apple cider vinegar then 3 months after I got pregnant same thing happen when I have my son not caffeine also
Mama you’re so gorgeousssss this ones who send you a mean comments is a hater don’t let this get to your heart for 3 that hates you is 1000 who loves you and admire you 🥰
I seriously want to fight those of you who feel like it's ok to bully her. She's the sweetest woman on TH-cam!
ill help on that fight.people need to mind their business
Same here. My extended family & in laws keep questioning when we will have kids & if I have a problem that I don't have kids yet. It hurts. So I definitely will join in
I’ll join you I hate when people try to involve in celebrities personal life!
I'll join you. I'm preparing to give a beat-down!
Agree!!
My cousin been trying for over 10 years and to mark their 10th anniversary, they are currently expecting their first born 🥰🥰 i pray to Allah, every women who is TTC will be bless with a baby. Aamin Ya Rabb
Ameen
Amin 💗
How old are they, if you don't mind me asking? I've been trying for a while. And I feel like at 40 now it may be too late 😥
@@wonderfulbeautiful9389 my cousin is approaching 40. ☺️ She is 38 this year.
My parents tried to have a child for more then 5 years and when they succeeded my mum had a miscarriage but two years later she found out that she is pregnant with me and well here I'm 19 years old writing this don't loose hope and even if you can't have kids of your own thin about adopting one
I’m so sorry to hear this, sometime after contraception it can take long to have your fertility back, also I have been advised that keeping ur feet up with ur back on a pillow for 15 mint right after intercourses helps ( and it does really help )
Don’t stop trying! My sister tried for 9 years and finally had a beautiful baby boy after about a year of fertility treatments. You’re such a beautiful person Farah, you deserve a beautiful family and I know you and your husband will have an amazing family. Don’t give up, and please I know it’s hard to stop thinking of yourself as less of a woman because you’re having trouble conceiving but know that is not true! You’re amazing and I will pray for you and your family.
Joanny Diez thank you for this
The number of people watching this is insane. I would like to make a suggestion to all; why don’t we ALL make a sincere prayer from the HEART for this beautiful soul. Surely the prayer of at least 1 of the MILLIONS that will be viewing this will be heard. Do not underestimate the power of prayer. So much love for you guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I did my part !! Be happy dear !!
I did my part too. Love the idea.❤❤❤
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“He gives the childless woman a family, making her a happy mother. Praise the Lord!”
Psalms 113:9
Amen
She’s Muslim
@@xoxohayaati doesn't matter! we can still pray for eachother.
@@rosali2554 this is the good side of humanity 😄
Amen!
My parents were trying to have a second kid for 11 years. Finally they got a heartbeat, but instead their were 2 heartbeats. I’m currently 14 years old with my twin sister 😌
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zoey sanchez you dad shoulda been gay
Will Smiff I hope your infertile
@Will Smiff looooooooooooooooooooool
@Will Smiff I mean like what ....you are no one to give a certificate
Girl, don’t EVER be sorry or apologetic for how you’re feeling, ever.
As a Muslim we are in Ramadan and I it is 2 am morning and I just prayed for you to be a mom amin
I did too, for her and every women out there who can't have kids
Pray for me to get married please
@@zuzu6483
me too and have kids inshallah🤲🏽❤️
Khaoula RMB amen
Same!
Watching this after your pregnancy announcement. You described just how I feel. Trying for over 3 years now & nothing. I’ve been so depressed lately over it. But seeing you finally getting your miracle makes my heart so happy. Congratulations beautiful, you’re going to be an amazing mother.
I’m gong on a yr of trying and I feel so depressed. I can’t imagine 3+ yrs. I hope and pray all women TTC get their miracle
Sister read surah maryam subhanallah it worked for me
I have been trying for about 3 years and nothing.. My husband already has kids, so when he told me he wanted a baby I was the happiest, I have always wanted to be a mom, I helped raise my siblings, and now my stepchildren. I honestly want to adopt or something, but I understand the emptiness in you, feeling you can't do it.
Hope it happens for you guys! ❤🥺
@@karianajamieson I just want to make my husband a daddy & the fact that I can’t right now just breaks my heart every single day 😞 I pray it happens for you too!
@@karianajamieson sister read surah maryam I swear this worked wonders for me I was reading religiously after every namaaz and when I had time to read or even listen subhanallah I have 4 now mashallah. Just remember to have tawakal and you will have it all xxx let me know how it goes xx
Hi Farah, I lost 6, 4 misscarriages I buried 2 one fullterm. I can truly relate... Giving birth to my daughter knowing she wasnt alive was so hard 4 days of labour she was stillborn but still born, holding my baby girl in my arms with no cry just silent that silence that I knew I could not take her home broke me. Many days I sat in the mortuary holding her asking why... So many questions and emotions ran through my mind throughout the years of trying and losing I too was so so broken BUT finally in 2017 I gave birth to my miracle son at 6 months weighing 1IB.4 the size of my hand he was on life support and in hospital for so long but he made it .... now he is my proof to say to you it will happen beautiful maybe not in the timing we want but please will you never lose vision and hope you too will get your blessing. God is able and amazing x
Krisina Jagpal Amen ! Praise God 🙏
love you sister ♥️
beautiful strong faith.
God bless you🙏
you are a superhuman superpowerful and THE supermom. Know that
YOU ARE SO BRAVE for posting this, & I applaud you for speaking out! We had 60 negative tests, 5 years of trying before we got our miracle positive test! Please don't give up hope!
be strong stop stress out please you will have babies God will bless you with boy and girl.
Me and my husband We have 7 years and nothing!
@@giselleburton don't give up hope ever x
Sending lots of prayers x
@@yasmeenhussain2721 thank you 🙏💕
I had a friend that thought she couldn't get pregnant. After 10 years, she and her husband thought they couldn't get pregnant. Then......out of no where, she had a beautiful baby girl.
I know this was with all good intentions and hope for her, but it's comments like this that hurt in a different way as she said.
@@IamJustMe1234 We have a different perspectives and I didn't get that from her video that these were the type of comments that hurt her. If she posts and confirms that then I'll be sure to take it down but not because of someone else's erroneous interpretation. Thanks for your concern though.
This is literally why I hate when people ask “why don’t you have a baby yet?”. It’s such a common question in my Slavic culture. You don’t know if the person has been trying to conceive and is failing or they just don’t want a kid right now/ever! Stop asking this damn question!! It’s none of your business.
Stay strong Farah ❤️ take care of yourself and your mental health.
I was asked that by a nurse last week......
Alex Miller that’s unacceptable especially being in healthcare, the nurse should know better. People need to learn to mind their business.
@@ellanest Yeah she didn't just ask either, she hounded as to whyyyyyyy on earth I didn't have children and wouldn't want any.
I totally agree I was asked that during a time I was in the middle of an ectopic pregnancy. People just don't consider these things. People should really stop asking that question like seriously. Farrah keep your head up my friend⚘
As a child my mother taught me that it was rude/impolite to ask someone when they were having kid's as you don't know whether that person has been trying to conceive with no success or has recently lost a child eg. Had a miscarriage. I'm always grateful my mum taught me this from a child age.
Don’t loose hope, Allah is Al-wahab which means he is the giver of everything! So keep on asking and stay hopeful, he won’t let you down! Nothing is impossible. Sending you lots of love!❤️
Warda Sheikh amen
Your worth does not lie in your ability to have biological children
🙌🙌🙌❤❤❤❤🙌🙌🙌🙌❤❤❤❤🙌🙌🙌❤❤❤❤If there is one comment you read Farah, let this be the one!
I'm a woman and I absolutely agree. A woman's worth as a human being has nothing to do with her fertility and capability to produce a child. But it's sad and heartbreaking that we live in a society where people feel it's okay to question a woman about her barren nest. That's very unfair and a personal question. A woman can be fertile and not want to reproduce. If she and her partner/husband have decided on not having kids then it's nobody's damn business to question them or the woman any further.
this comment is SO important! i was literally told that women who don’t have kids (even by choice) are “useless and incomplete” and it doesn’t matter how successful/happy/content they are……it makes me so upset to think that a lot of people think like that.
Em X yep Ive heard this too. Ive also been told a man who marries a woman who cant have kids has the right to leave her and remarry another woman. As if not being able to have a kid only falls on the woman’s shoulders...
As someone who is adopted and who cannot have biological children, reading this comment means a lot for so many different reasons.
She’s the kindest sweetest person yet people are so rude? I’m speechless.
Laura Watson because misery wants company unfortunately :/
Jennifer Moreno I really want her to be happy now...I hope her life becomes easier n she achieves what she desires n deserves💜
Dearest Farah, watching this felt all too familiar. My husband and I tried for 6 years. We too went through that same struggle. In Asian families it can be so hard. So many people spoke about us, people got pregnant and wouldn't tell us because they would think we were jinxed. Please do not give up, I know Sal and you will be blessed with your own children. After 6 years of trying we were referred for IVF. I finally let go and stopped being hard on myself, I relaxed and thought to myself if it happens, it happens. Then a month before IVF I suddenly got pregnant I couldn't believe it. I am now the happy Mama of 3 beautiful children. So do not give up hope. I will pray for you I know God is capable. Sending you lots of love xxx
I have a similar story. My husband and I tried for 5 years. We were ready for treatment. I waitet for my period to start injections, but the period didn't come, I was pregnant. I couldn't believe it either. Now I have my child in my arms. And so will you. Don't give up hope, there are sooo many people who struggle with fertility. That's when I learned that I will never ask someone again, when they will have kids oder if they even want to,because those questions hurt so much. People,who have no problems with fertility, they don't understand,how hard it is.
So don't give up, you will get pregnant.
This line is everything - “ I finally let go and stopped being hard on myself, I relaxed and thought to myself if it happens, it happens”
Let go and trust God that it will happen when He wills it ❤️
@@emank8137 Amen
are they twins?
THIS IS NO ONE’S BUSINESS! People don’t know boundaries. I feel so bad
At the age of 20, I had my first of many ovarian surgeries. I was told I was infertile. I have PCOS and endometriosis. Last year, I met my person. I had given up that dream of motherhood... I’m 36 and raised my niece who is now almost 17.
Without trying, being on birth control and taking option B, I got pregnant. Imagine my shock. Imagine my doctors shock. I’m due 11/09. The last thing one should ever lose is hope.
Kelly M God is good ❤️
Congratulations ♥️♥️
Congratulations what is option B I suffer from pcos
That is so good. Congratulations!
What is option b
I've never been able to have children and I'm 46....its been the hardest thing ever to go through because as women we were designed and engineered to reproduce. I feel like a failure and that I'm broken. I know your pain Farah. Dont be too hard on yourself. I'm here if you want to talk ever
Don’t be sad .. everything has a reason :). Have faith in god. You are alive and god has sent you here for a purpose ❤️.
You are not broken.
OMG I come from the future and guess what? YOU ARE PREGNANT!!
May Allah bless you both ❤❤❤
Farah I tried for more than 10 years to have a child and I had 3 miscarriages. And last year the beginning of the year I fasted and prayed to God that if children is not in his plans for me to at least help my be the best aunt I could be. 4 weeks later I found out I was pregnant. I was so scared I was gonna miscarry again. But in Oct of 2019 I gave birth to a beautiful boy. Farah enjoy your marriage, your travels, your family because one day you will be a mom. My dream was always to be a mom too. So I know how you are feeling. And I am overweight I always have been. And i looked like i had 4 kids when i had none. And I was bullied on social media by women all the time. But in looked to God and started focusing on what I do have. YOU ARE GOING TO BE A GREAT MOM!!!
Kaysha Rivera i just have tears in my eyes of reading your story. God bless you and your beautiful child 💕 there is always hope and i pray for God to give Farah also a beautiful family❤️
@Your Don hey don't you know about "Say good or be silent"?!
try to be respectful people it won't hurt you
Your Don what a Keyboard warrior. Do you like getting attention for writing shit?
Im 40 and Ive been trying for 3 year. I went through IVF 2 cycles, 2 miscarriages. I needed to take a break to gather my strength back.
Thank you for being strong and speaking your truth. Your strength will return.
Don’t loose hope! My parents tried to have a kid for 8 years before I was born. Please be strong, lots of love to you ❤️
I'm sending you love and big hugs I believe in you you're going to be able to have one one day❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
My mother gave me the best advice ever when me and my husband were trying to get pregnant. She said “Mija, you need to stop stressing over it. You need to relax. The reason you are having difficulty is because your body is reacting to your stress level.” Once I stopped stressing, I was able to conceive. So, I say to you beautiful Farahdhukai, stop stressing and feeding into these stupid people and their comments. Find your zen space and let go of the negativity. You will find peace and the babies will come💕💕. Que Dios le bendiga!!!!!💕💕💕💕💕
Same happened to me
Amen 🙏🏽
Did you even watch this video?
Do you have any idea how many people have heard that line and failed to get pregnant?
Phrases like that are literally pouring salt in an open wound.
@@rosebud4467 do you have a better suggestion? If so let us know!
I can understand that you’re coming from a good place by saying this but the reality is that “not stressing” is not going to magically make someone who doesn’t ovulate, ovulate; or someone who doesn’t produce mature sperm, produce mature sperm. Sometimes there are actual physiological issues that can only be corrected through medical intervention. I’ve tried “not stressing” for over 8 years and here I am having to go through IUI’s with donor sperm because my husband does not produce sperm. Please refrain from telling someone going through infertility that they need to stop stressing.
Hey hun, it took me well over 2 years of trying to get pregnant. I got referred to a great doctor at mount Sinai's fertility clinic. It took a year but we were lucky to finally get pregnant. I think your in Toronto too, so maybe you could check them out. Your not alone hun and I hope with all my heart you have all the babies you want. You deserve everything you wish for big hugs.
NEVER.EVER. Tell a woman she’s less or tell a couple “so when are y’all having a baby”
I have learned to not ask why someone doesn’t have kids. Everyone’s process and situation is different and you don’t know what someone is going through.
Thank you for talking about this, I can only imagine how difficult this is and can be. You are amazing!! You are not alone
It's a very painful question people need to learn to keep them self out of other people life's
I had people telling me I needed to have a baby but I was already trying unsuccessfully. That wasn’t something that I felt I needed to disclose.
Watching again this after your pregnancy announcement... I can’t explain how happy I am for you and Sal. M A 😍❤️
My cousin tried to have kids for 8 years. She desired a child so hard that I saw her with my own eyes crying to God for a baby. She has two babies now, a boy and a girl. Don’t give up, keep trying!
God is good
Idk why people want to get pregnant I mean adopting is better it saves a child in need and gives them a home
@@elcuhhh2140 it's a child, not a puppy. Idk i feel like pregnancy and child birth and starting a biological family is different.
*i was adopted. First of 4 in a combined family of 7. So i get that, too.
Sweet girl, can I just tell you that this video touched my heart soooo deeply. In 2016 my husband and I got pregnant with our first child. Our dreams had come true, and just as soon as we started celebrating, I lost the baby. At 7 weeks. I was more heartbroken than I had ever been. My husband reassured me that when my body was healed we would start trying again. Well, we tried for 3 years. 3 years. With the 3rd anniversary of our miscarriage coming up I was feeling SO incredibly sad. Every month we got negative tests and I felt so alone. All my friends were having kids. Even friends who didnt want kids were getting pregnant. It was so incredibly hard.
My husband and I kept trying. You and Sal NEED to stay strong. Stay positive. Talk to your body and tell it that you love it and that you cant wait for it to be a home for your sweet little baby that you WILL have.
3 years after trying and trying and trying my husband and I were finally successful! It was a miracle. When I look back on our miscarriage I just know that things weren't right for us then. STAY. POSITIVE. BABE. It will happen. Relax and when you least expect it a miracle will evolve.
I love you, Farah! I always have. I'm a big fan and I will pray and send all the baby dust to you and your husband.
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Hey just curious, did you do anything to ensure you had a successful pregnancy? Been trying with no luck after 2 miscarriages, so all ears if you have any tips to ensure a successful pregnancy..sending good vibes to everyone trying for a baby xxx
@@candylover1991 I prayed. And prayed. I also ate very healthy and tried to stay active without over exerting myself. I'm so sorry you had had to go through two miscarriages. Even though I have my baby now, that worry just never goes away. Right up until i was 38 weeks pregnant and delivered, i worried. I remained positive, though. Our bodies are amazing and when it's right you will have your sweet little miracle. Goodluck and baby dust ❤🌸❤🌸❤
@@candylover1991 any luck on getting pregnant
It’s so hard to talk about infertility. My only dream in life was to be a mom and wife but after 6 yrs of trying we have not gotten pregnant. It’s a very lonely, very heartbreaking place to be. So thank u for sharing your story, u are not alone! ❤️
Same...i married for 4 years now..my husb had two kids and married before we both meet..after he divorced we both had relationship..we trying so hard to get pregnent..but my husb so undersanding..he never said anything..he just said..if we can get babies its blessing if not maybe god had plan for us to dating longer..sometimes when my friends pregnent..i broke down..he said im so stupid..because care about that..its make me more broken.because he was so nice and im not deserve him..he said if one day we still didnt get own babies..maybe he gonna adopt one girl..maybe..but not now
JayMMXII You aren’t alone either! My husband and I tried for 7 years to get a baby and we finally got one when my son turned 11. Keep going! Don’t ever give up! 🙏🏼🙏🏼
May GOD BLESS YOU never loose faith ❤️
Sela Sanchez thank u 😊
You just made me cry for something I haven't experienced. I am single and I could feel the pain in your voice. You are just perfect. Sometimes things don't go well in lifs. I am 24 now but when I was 14, I lost my eyesight completely when I woke up the next morning. I was perfectly alright before that and I am blind with my right wye eversince and it hurts so muxh to see people being able to see clearly but you don't have to be sad because Allah will reward you soon. Don't be sad, love you. ❤
I am so over women judging women over every single little thing. “She’s too fat, too skinny, too pale, too dark, too tall, too short” and the “are you gonna keep having babies?” to the “why aren’t you having babies?” SO OVER IT! You get nothing out of ripping every other woman apart. It just shows how much ugliness you have inside.
And to Farah and every other women out there dealing with this type of issue: my heart goes out to all of you.
Life doesn’t always work the way we want it to and it sometimes seems unfair.
I personally, am the type that has to be in control of everything but I have been forced many times to just let go. And those times where I have pushed and pushed and have no strength left is when I realize that I must let go and let God and the universe do its will.
And not only letting go physically(of control) but also mentally and emotionally. Allowing myself to be open and accepting of whatever it is that God has for me...even if it’s not what I had planned or envisioned. Happiness sometimes ends up being not what we thought it’d look like.
Farah, feel out every emotion. Don’t pay mind to other people’s opinions. Do whatever you can and what’s in your reach to achieve your goal but do it with a healthy mind, heart and soul.
I hope you heal soon and wish you happiness.
Wow thank you, we need more people like in our lives
dzcr people are rude
Often I suspect it's not women, but men making nasty comments.
You're not less as a woman without a kid, never feel inadequate. But trust in his process & timing! Never lose hope..
Dont know if this is insensitive but I dont understand why women get so overly emotional about this. Theres always adoption or IVF. But Im not really fussed about having kids so I guess I cant relate. Also kids ruin relationships and people’s lives. I know a lot of miserable people with kids.
CookieDough she seems to have a huge platform so I hope and pray for her that anything is possible. I truly don’t believe money is a problem here..
Tell that to the trans community that LOVES using infertal women as an example-
@@ye23. hey I'm 23 and can't have kids. I found out at 20. It sucks. I don't even know if I wanted kids but its knowing I can't do what my body is built to do hurts.
I don't think about it now because I don't want to end up like this girl crying in the video. But it hurts knowing pregnancy is either impossible or life threatening.
Its a natural biological feeling women get. And yes IVF and adoption but its not the same. Some women want a bio child and not being able to HURTS!
@@ye23. I never wanted kids until 3 years ago when I was diagnosed with fibroids. I have had 2 surgeries. Now breaking up with someone I love because he already has 2 kids and I want one. Feelings change.... there's no control over emotions. I can't talk to anyone about it because my family and friends are practical people....my mum has already mentioned adoption.....it's not that easy. Adopted kids in the eyes of the government are not 💯 your kids....I am only coping because had experienced bad depression years before and learned from that and know travel helps...being stuck indoors is not letting me cope. Right now need to get away. I spend time talking about going to the beach. I might change my mind but now that I am single feel less pressure.
This is why I like animals over humans, people can be so cruel..
Animals can ve cruel as well
Than I hope an animal will take care of you if you ever get sick.Or be your doctor nurses etc...
@@tlazo But they simply react out of instinct though, an animal is not going to say or do mean things just because they can and are safe behind their screens, if you get what I'm saying
@@highlyfavoredMG I shouldn't even dignify this with a response, but I have time, so.. Does it say I hate humans or am I not grateful for most of them, no. But will I prefer animals who react out of instinct over humans who can be so mean without even a reason why and say mean things on the internet they probably wouldn't dare to say standing in front of you and do messed up things to eachother, yes I will
@@SorayaUnlimited animals don’t react over instinct if it’s an emotional situation. They are fully capable of processing emotions and comforting each other in times of needs. This is the reason why I’m vegetarian going to be vegan because I know how intelligent and caring animals can be for eachother🌱
Listen to me when I tell you Farah, THIS ENTIRE EXPERIENCE WILL BE YOUR TESTIMONY! You're helping SO many people right now by sharing this, and you have NO IDEA how many people you are going to help in the future when you're able to look back when you have your beautiful angel and be able to say that this is where you were. You're going to give people HOPE. This is Allah's doing because everything is going to turn out MUCH better than you could even imagine!!! Your blessings are going to overflow. We are all SO proud of you and lifting you up during this time and even after. YOUR BLESSING IS COMING. You would never have gone through this if your blessing wasn't coming on the other side. Just hold on a little bit longer baby girl!
🙏💜 she is truly inspirational for posting this!
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The fact that she had to write in the description box “pls be kind” fully broke me🥺we love you Farah and I pray Allah gives you strength and happiness. Ameen ❤️ you’re in my prayers.🤲🏻
babblegammm _xox ameen
ameen🤲🏼
May God bless any person reading this who wants the blessing of a child 💗💗💗
Amen! I recieve it. God's timing is always perfect🙌🏽💜
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Same here, praying for children and the uncertainty is weighing heavy on ones heart especially when all your friends and loved ones are getting married and having babies
If there will be a God this nice young woman here would already have a child.. If God would bless someone with a kid. Than people like her would have a kid and not people who are abusing their kids or something
Ive been with my partner for 9 years and i got pregnant in 5 years all these thoughts went through my head until one day i was like okay god whenever you're ready to make me a mom ill be waiting . Now i have 2 blessings .
My husband and I wanted children so bad. It ate me up inside. We tried since I was 20. I'm now I'm 33. We still do not have children.
When I tell you, I know it hurts, I mean it. As a woman, you feel " We are supposed to be able to have children". I felt useless. I had to MAKE myself, move on. It was destroying me and started to affect the way I was treating my husband. I just said to myself " Nicole, if it happens it happens". And unfortunately it never did. I promise you it will get better. You are not alone. I'm sending you lots of love & good vibes to you & your husband. We would have adopted, but it was thousands. If you are in a position to adopt, think about it. There is a child out there, who would love you forever.
I hope you read this. I just wanted to share my genuine feelings. If you wanted to message me, for support, I'm here. Please take care. Lots of love
Nicole ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Your beautiful words deeply touched my heart ❤
Girl this touched me too. 😢 I can’t even imagine what you are all going through. I pray and hope that you all are blessed with a family be that your own children or living and taking care of another child who is in need of a family 💕
Keep going it's not late yet
May God bless you
In this holy month, you’re in my dua! Love you x
“Like I’m broken and there’s something wrong with me as a woman.” I’ve never related more. Keep positive and I believe we will be blessed one day 💗
Love that you had the courage to speak about this, let alone publicly. You are love, strength, and inspiration.
I hope people have understood that kindness carries us forward and kept the comments positive. Thank you for sharing.
God bless Farah only in the Lord we can find strength. He has a purpose for each one of us.
The AlvEz FAmily well said! We love you Farrah 💕
Amen 🙏. He does, he will make a way where there's seems to be no way.
A woman can be a woman even without a children, we are strong and we are not ONLY mothers, we are much more.♥️
I cried with you because I know the feeling so well..😔 the emptiness is a horrible feeling...I have lost 3 angels in the last 4 years...from struggling to become pregnant, then to loosing my babies, still praying to be blessed here on earth ...GOD leads the way!🙏❤👶
Bussit Love222 I’m so sorry for your loss. My friend has lost 3 angels within a few years and then when she became pregnant a 4th time the doctor suggested bed rest for most of the pregnancy. She was able to carry the baby to term. She became pregnant for the 5th time and was able to carry that baby to term as well. It may be extreme but it worked for her. Sending you love 💕
@@SavortheMomentblog thank you love!! Really appreciate the love... I pray that when it does happen again for me...it will be full term, I've been so afraid to try again in the last year & a half..but I definitely would do anything for my rainbow baby!!❤🙏
Im sorry for you’re lost I know how you been feeling I was feeling like that to I had 2 miscarriage I only been married for a year and a half and I was so Depress and alone even if I had my husband support . but God has bless me I’m now pregnant again and going on 20 weeks having a baby girl . But with all I been through I always wake up with a fear of loosing my baby but I pray to God that my pregnancy continue to be healthy don’t loose hopes girl ❤️
This is tough to watch so I can’t even imagine what it’s like to be going through it. Praying and hoping so hard for you that your hearts desire will come to pass. 🙏🏾
The sad thing is it is mostly women who leave those hurtful comments. I’ve learned that life is a journey and yours is not like everyone else’s I’m praying that you will get through this. Just take care of yourself.
I feel your pain my sweet sister, i have been trying to get pregnant for almost 20 years now. May Allah answer our dua❤
May Allah give us a healthy baby soon Ameen❤
Aaameeen
Keep trying sister! May God grant you your heart desires
Ameen.
Ameen
Ya Msaharni inshallah ameen
I was trying for 5 years and that took the enjoyment out of the whole process , it was almost like a chore , had to get the timing correct , had to stay still in certain position for so long , it was exhausting. 5 years later of trying with no success I gave up on the idea, new year ; new me. 6 months later guess who’s pregnant ! I stopped trying , and just started enjoying my time with my husband. May Allah swt bless you with a bundle of joy xx
Ma Sha Allah Allahuma Barik 🙏🏽 Congratulations!💞
I also have PCOS. Stories like this gives me hope.
Amin in shaa allah
2:40 “every month.. for 3 years you hope something is going to happen...” and staying positive... I think someone is cutting onions near me.. I felt it. I really felt it. 😭
"When you grow up in a desi household, your feelings aren't really at the forefront of conversation" The hard truth right here. Talking about these things openly is how things will change. Thank you for your courage Farah.
I’m crying with you. I can’t imagine how hard this must be.
🙏🏾God please bless this beautiful, loving family with the child they desire so that they can share the love they have for each other. Lay your healing hands on both of them and bless them. Anything is possible through you Lord. Bless this family. 🙌🏾🙏🏾
🤲🏻 𝒶𝓂𝑒𝑒𝓃
Hi everyone it's the holy month of ramadan right now and I urge you who are fasting/muslim please make dua for Farah and all couples who are struggling with infertility in the world. So many couples are dealing with this at the moment so please make prayers❤🙏🤲
"And Allah is going to give you and you will be satisfied." Al Qur'an surah ad-duhaa (5) Just have faith in him & fill your heart with patience 🙏🏻
My cousin was married for 15 years and she just got a healthy baby boy ! Don’t ever loose hope
You’re the sweetest most beautiful person on a platform and in real life. I wish I could give you a hug, I love you! Stay strong
i did 5 miscariages in 7 years i cried blood but i nevrr lost hope now i m a mom of 3 years old boy plz farah dont lost hope plz allah is with u inchallah u will becaume mom keep strong u will be inchallah ( iam Pcos )
❤️❤️❤️ I'm so happy for you!
AND NOW SHES PREGNANT ALHAMDULILLAH. So happy for you and Sal
Don't know where to post this but I have to say it.... When Farah said Desi families don't talk about feelings.. "you have anxiety? Just drink some milk and pray." BRUH, I laughed SO hard. My Dad was Punjabi and that was his answer for everything. Milk. Just milk. Headache? "Did you drink milk today?" Feel tired? "Drink milk, you need energy." After an argument where I cried, "Okay bacha, go, go, wash your face and I'll warm up some milk, okay? Chulo, go." Farah, I love you dude. It's so good to see some representation on TH-cam
Dear sis I’ve been married almost 13years and be trying since and I’m still trying never give up hope May one day we’ll be muuuum😘😘
We've only been trying for 3 years, can I ask you how you do it? How do you find the strength and faith to still try after so long?
Same here
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Stay Strong ! 😌❤️
Same here, 13 years of marriage, and still nothing, i don't know what to say, i'm gest trying to be more hopeful, and i was tell by someone who sole in the card's for me, that fore sure i will have babies. So, that's what i'm wish you all, to have babies soon enough 🙏💋💕👫
Not having a child doesn't make you any less of a women. There is so much love to give to so many unwanted kids.
Exactly . Shes desi shel act like she wana adopt n all for public but the truth is she never will.
shin m keep your negative comments to yourself. What ever decision she chooses to make is her choice what is the need for you to say such negative things
@@safahqureshi7862 I'm just stating the facts. Have u ever heard of What people think and say about u is none of ur business. If she chooses to make her money off social media so she she should b ready to face social criticisms as well as popularity.
shin m And your so ready to criticise her right? Imagine the pain she’s going thru and have a little sympathy
Adopting will never be the same as having your own flesh and blood, not a popular opinion but it’s true
This is why you do not EVER comment on a woman’s appearance or make assumptions about whether she is pregnant or not. Other people’s lives are nobody else’s business and are absolutely not there to be analysed and scrutinised. We don’t know what others are going through behind the scenes and I find it sickening how people think they can say things like this. Keeping you in my prayers ❤️
Agreed. Not only it is extremely rude it is also very not classy/elegant.
It everyone's business when you decide to put a video TH-cam.Just another self absorbed millennial
@@jayekaye6641 You're so funny. You literally have a public playlist of naked 'millennials' on your channel named 'horn'. You're a joke. Stop hating and go watch your soft porn.
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@@simballa660 Are you okay? You should see someone professional, something is clearly going on with you.
I was in the same position thinking I couldn’t until I gave up and I’m now 6 1/2 months pregnant - watching your story makes me so emotional with these hormones 😭 // I’m so happy for you these tears you’re crying now better be tears of joy girl embrace it you will be an amazing mother !!!
What kinda monsters are leaving comments like this? Other adult women are saying this to her, who raised some of y’all?
They are probably jealous of her and so they attack with hate.
Tiffany Marie I was just thinking exact that!
They just want attention, and always why people are being so f***** mean all of us are still human , some with fame and some not some with money and some not life is that no one is perfect no one
I definitely agree with what you're saying people hide behind their screens and say terrible things about people that know. But I definitely appreciate the comments you're awesome I wish there were more people like you in the world. Take care and God-bless good bye.
Indeed they are monsters. I am so appalled that people can be so heartless!
Been married 8 years and since day one ppl have asked when “I “ am having kids. Somehow it became singularly my problem. Have changed jobs and done so many other things and yet the lack of a child is how what ppl focus on as if that defines me. The one thing I do believe... not having a child does not making me less of a person. God has a plan for me... just as he does for you. It will all work out. You spoke on a subject that affects so many and no one really feels comfortable talking about. Thank you for having the bravery to share. You are not alone.
My mother had me and my twin after 10 years of trying, don't lose hope !
Nermeen. Wow really happy for your mom ♥️♥️♥️♥️
My love, I’m so, so sorry you’ve been going through this for 3 years in silence. I’m sorry you’ve been feeling alone. We are all here for you. It’s okay to cry ♥️ Take your time with healing, there’s no deadline. We love you beautiful. I’ll be making a lot of dua for you and your husband. Sending lots of love your way ♥️
Girl I was in the same situation! After 4 years of trying I’m finally expecting my first baby ❤️ have hope, keep trying and remember it’s just not your time, but it doesn’t mean your time will never come. Sending you positive vibes and praying for you 💕
I just wanted to say, there’s no need to apologize for crying or feeling the way you do. There’s a lot of women in our world who understand what you’re feeling right now. I am one of them 🙋🏻♀️
You’re so brave to speak out and you’re feelings are valid. I couldn’t imagine how hard it is to deal with all of the comments.
I've been crying through out the whole video 💔 we're here. We're listening. You are adequate! You are perfect! We LOVE and support you. Everything is gonna be alright.
Look at God farah, his timing is always perfect. I’m guessing within a month or 2 after this video you found out that he accepted our prayers. Continue to say alhamdulilah ❤️
Me and my husband tried for 8 years now I'm finally preg 16 weeks to be exact. fingers crossed it all turns out well. Your beautiful and I hope you 2 all the best.
I wish you the best for you too
Congratulations
hope you have a safe pregnancy and wish the best for you and your family x
Wishing you and your family all the best hun! 😘
Farah, you should go to your old video “Draw My Life” and take in consideration how far you have come in life and how things worked out for you. I know that your situation is tough but each person goes through hardship in different stages so you’re never the only one sis, but sometimes our plans don’t go by the way we want it. We get tested in various ways with wealth loss, health, tragedies, etc. This life is meant for challenges and there definitely is mystery. Allah states that he won’t change the condition of someone who doesn’t try. Don’t lose hope and don’t give up please! Life is short and your mental health is important. Keep trying and things will eventually workout after hardship, inshAllah. Make dua since it’s ramadan and you’re in my prayers also. Give into charity and you get back the same deed. Also, watch out for vitamins you take and make sure you get a good amount of magnesium, vitamin D, and Folic Acid. 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍 love you!
Asking somone about pregnancy is a Personal Question, that SHOULD NOT be asked about or commented on. Let that person bring it up. We need to be more respectful and loving people.
I agree! It’s so sad that in our culture it’s apparently appropriate to comment on childless marriages or gaining weight, not being married etc so many things I disagree with. I hope all of these comments give her strength.
@@mrsjpunt3924 I totally agree. Every time someone sees me they always say "oh you've gained weight, not taking care of your health, etc". Mind you, I'm not overweight. I'm small (5 feet flat) so weight fluctuations are more apparent. I get offended every time but somehow manage to reply civilly (though at night I toss and turn wishing I could tell people off for eyeing my weight when in fact they've been overweight for years and I don't do what they do because it makes people feel bad).
It's really hard when they ask you are you pregnant? When are you going to have a baby? They don't think that maybe you have been trying and you just can't. It's the family, friends, and just anyone who you are talking to😣 Just because we are married we had to have a kid and when I gained weight they began saying that maybe I'm pregnant and didn't want to say it
This’s heartbreaking! You’ll have children inShaAllah it can happen anytime, don’t let the comment gets to you and your man should not be saying that I can’t wait stuff, it’s not good when men saying I want a son or can’t wait for a child cuz it makes women feel guilty and it’s not about that it’s about the love and determination that person has for you. You’re young it’ll happen I knew people whom waited longer then have children. Sending you love ❤️❤️🙏🏿
Sending love to you! I've tried to conceive for 5 years, when I finally got pregnant I lost my 1st baby :(
Next year we tried again and we had success! Now I have 2 beautiful kids on earth and 1 in heaven.
When you lose hope completely then Allah is there to make you remember that he is there. It is Ramadan now ... please pray. I believe it will take place... when you don't expect it ☺
ممكن ترجمة حبيبتي نقطع قلبي عليها ومفهت
@@hafsadeco عندها تأخر في الحمل و الناس صايرة تكتب تعاليق جارحة بها الموضوع
how can people dislike a video like this. She has sat here and poured her heart out. Some people are truly evil.
I agree. Those people that disliked this video are pure evil. How can they even do such a thing. Farrah's babies are coming in Gods timing. And God's plan is the best plan. 💚
Maybe they didn’t like seeing her being all sad and broken
Because when she was in tears there were no tears coming out of her eyes it seemed fake
Sarah .G if you truly support someone you will show it at all times.
Crystal dominique the video has been edited she may have cut it out. As she said she has troubles expressing emotions
Just want to state something we as women forget; it’s not always our “fault” people never look to the man as the issue so be kind to yourselves ladies.
I agree, but what does it matter?
Who cares who is "at fault" ??
No one chooses to be infertile... placing blame on anyone for not being able to concieve when they want to is horrible.
Starlight Glow Bc women internalize and it’s not always our bodies but that’s where doctors start. At least they did with me. All the test all the appointments and finally they looked at my husband’s health and found the issue lied within him. I had torn myself apart thinking it was something I did or I waited to long.
@@rosebud4467 I don't think KNO was placing blame on either of them for not being able to conceive, nor pointing fingers on whose fault it is. Woman's worst critics are other woman or themselves, it can drive a woman to fall into a deep depression, she clearly blames herself, she is sad, empty and feels broken, she has been going through this for 3 years and she has obviously been going through this alone (she feels alone, her words). She's going through a lot and social media obviously hasn't helped her situation. But I agree with KNO its not always the women's reproductive organs that are at fault, sometimes the issue lies on the man, but yes even if it were the woman's body that wasn't able to conceive that doesn't make it "her" fault, she hasn't done anything purposely (that we know) that has prevented them from being able to conceive. We do not know her situation/story 100%, but it sounds like they should both get tested so they can get to the bottom of the problem, and maybe some marriage counseling wouldn't hurt, she is in too much pain and doesn't sound like she is happily married either.
Dont lose hope farah😢my mom had me after 10 years of waiting.
Oh man, my heart is breaking just listening to this, may Allah grant you a baby, may Allah grant you peace my sister, i know you've made this video for your followers but all of this you need say to your lord, the creater and the giver, just alone time between you and him, he will listen...you will not feel all this once you've poured your heart out to your lord, i promise you...it is the holy month of ramadan, connect with your maker...i will keep u in my dua my sister, you beautiful soul, don't let these mindless ppl takeaway your smile...keep smiling and have hope...
I am so tired of internet bullies literally ruining peoples' lives on the internet. They even bully little kids on here like why? why is it so hard to just be kind? Farah, I've been watching your videos for so long and it has helped me deal with my insecurities. I want you to know that we are all here for you and i admire your strength. your feelings matter and im glad you could share it with us. i love you a lot!
They're so hard on others because they are very insecure themselves! And internet is a broad place to shove out stupid comments that make em feel better!
OMG people are ruthless! Mental health is serious guys....be fkn kind!!!!!!!!
I totally understand where you’re coming from. I too hide my feeling with a smile, a joke, a laugh. I also wanted to be a mom. My problem was not getting pregnant, it was keeping the baby. I had about 6 miscarriages. I thought there was something wrong we me too. I had lost all hope. Kept all this quiet. One day in the shower.... I had a conversation with God. I said “I’ve tried so bad to be a mom. I keep loosing them. If I can’t have kids I’ll understand. Pleas help me understand. I’m sorry for being mad. If it’s not for me just help me heal.” I said more but you get the idea. I then got pregnant in about 2 months. I now have a beautiful 3 year old boy. Once I removed the stress of trying & just let it be. It just happened. I pray you heal from the pain. I pray it happens for you. God bless you.
Not getting pregnant is terrible in itself. I was thinking about women like you who have been able to get pregnant and miscarry. I am not a mom, nor is that in my plans for another 3 years or so, but I feel for you both. I cant imagine going through that. It takes a lot of strength. Congratulations to you on your baby boy. ❤
In this blessed month of ramzaan I pray Allah fulfill your heart's wish and bless you with best. Ameen
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Farah my lovely. I was diagnosed with Endometriosis at the age of 21 and declared infertile the same year. I was told that I would not have children and that I should look at other means... I went through hormones supplements and others stuff and it did not work... and I stopped hoping an I accepted that I might not carry a child... it is okay not to be okay and then you need to be okay... after 6 months of acceptance of my condition and the fact that I won't have children ... I got pregnant and now my daughter is a beautiful 8 year-old and she is a miracle!!! I think you should just let it be ... accept life as it comes and need fresh head space... it'll happen on it's own trust me!!!! ❤
7 years of marriage,5 miscarriages and the last lost was 2 years ago so all this while I’ve been trying so hard,crying and been depressed but in February I told myself I won’t be trying anymore I’ll just leave everything I’m Allah’s hand The Raheem 🙏🏾🤲🏾 and in my surprise I got pregnant that month mashallah,on my previous pregnancies I never passed the 1st trimester but Alhamdoulillah I’m 4 month pregnant and I’m so grateful to Allah I’m still praying for everything to go so smooth in sha Allah,keep me in you douas and in sha Allah Farah if it meant to be it will happen in sha Allah I’ll keep you in my prayers 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I 100% agree and believe it as my mom says so.
Having PCOS and trying for years, I know the feeling of being “broken” all to well. Feeling like I’m a failure for not being able to do the one thing a woman should be able to do. I’ve pushed my husband away for the last 4 years just because I felt like I was useless to him. It wasn’t until two weeks ago that he sat me down and we had a big heart to heart telling each other exactly how we felt. And now we are back to being our silly selfs and it feels like we are brand new. My husband and I have been trying since we were 19 and we are 23 now. We are praying and hoping that one day we can have a big, happy family. You give me hope! You’re a beautiful soul and you are going to be a great mom. Your baby will be so blessed to have such a great parents. May you have a big happy family! I wish nothing but the best for you and Sal and your sweet bundle of happiness! I’ll be praying for you to have a wonderful safe pregnancy! Keep it up queen!!