THE TRUTH ABOUT MY PREGNANCY

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    thank you for your love and support through these years

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  • @farahdhukai
    @farahdhukai  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3643

    I am not very good at articulating how i feel because talking about how I feel is so foreign to me, but I just wanted to say THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart for sharing all of your personal stories, your kind words, your love, support and words of encouragement. I will never be able to thank you enough for the amount of light that you are all shining on this dark cloud that has been over me the last while. I have been sobbing reading all of your comments and feel so grateful to have you all as part of my family. I wish I could personally thank and hug all of you.. I have no idea what i did to ever deserve the kindness that you are all showering on me but i will be forever and ever grateful. Sending so much love to every single one of you.

    • @infhal
      @infhal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Everything will be okay❤️ you are not alone

    • @kashifshamsi6751
      @kashifshamsi6751 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      My duas are with you

    • @tomil8784
      @tomil8784 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @hamamataabdullahi
      @hamamataabdullahi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Just know we love you right back 💘💘 and it will happen at God's given time...

    • @hibaii1014
      @hibaii1014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      U are soooooook beautiful inside out ,enshallah u will have a baby trust me I know someone who had a baby after 15 years and it was a surprise to them , when the right time comes it will happen please stay positive everything happens for a reason and u r a beautiful woman ❤️

  • @Sanaalikhanvlogs
    @Sanaalikhanvlogs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1226

    Who came to this video after watching farah pregnancy announcement miracles do happens just believe in them ❤️💓💓💓🤗🤗🤗⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

    • @basmalamostafa
      @basmalamostafa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me😂♥️

    • @shewygirl
      @shewygirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Me ... My question is ... did she know she was pregnant in this video 🤔 Congrats Farah & Sal ❤️

    • @saoudatoubarry2869
      @saoudatoubarry2869 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      💓💓💓🥺

    • @Pyaraamukta
      @Pyaraamukta 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@shewygirl I don’t think so...

    • @symahussain2437
      @symahussain2437 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So happy for u may x

  • @latchmiramkaran8681
    @latchmiramkaran8681 3 ปีที่แล้ว +696

    Who is here after finding out Farah is now pregnant 🤰🏻 😍♥️

  • @Cynthia123
    @Cynthia123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +828

    I was diagnosed with infertility. I felt just as you. Then over 5 years since husband and I started trying to conceive, I became pregnant. No fertility treatment. Life is full of surprises and miracles, have faith! When it happens you will be a great mother. ❤

    • @Virgoloveee
      @Virgoloveee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Did you do anything different? Congrats 🥰😍

    • @AKASweetPears
      @AKASweetPears 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Virgoloveee possibly

    • @Cynthia123
      @Cynthia123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Virgoloveee I didn't do anything different. My son was conceived during a rare moment that I was naturally fertile. It's been 2 years since he was born and I haven't become pregnant since.

    • @Cynthia123
      @Cynthia123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Virgoloveee And thank you! ❤

    • @blrughhhhhhhhh
      @blrughhhhhhhhh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      And now... farah IS pregnant!!!! What a miracle ❤️❤️

  • @bilalhussain1500
    @bilalhussain1500 4 ปีที่แล้ว +417

    My uncle and aunt have been trying for 14 years and now they expecting with their first child. Keep faith.

    • @pilotz7975
      @pilotz7975 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Allhumdullilah ❤️ Allah is great ❤️

    • @misshaya9304
      @misshaya9304 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Really? 👀

    • @madiha.g
      @madiha.g 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alhumdolilah ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @HhAndoussi
    @HhAndoussi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2260

    🥺 ive been trying to conceive for 20 years, never achieved a pregnancy and still holding on to hope at the age of nearly 41.
    May God bless all those desperate for a baby 💞

    • @yltirado
      @yltirado 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Halima Hussain Andoussi 💕

    • @LE1101
      @LE1101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Ameen. May Allah bless you sis.

    • @Mera1011
      @Mera1011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Insha Allah ❤️

    • @shehzinkhanpathan684
      @shehzinkhanpathan684 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Plz try hijama on your stomach inshallah that will work

    • @zahraenn
      @zahraenn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Praying you are blessed with a child soon!!

  • @erika-noel
    @erika-noel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +550

    I came back to say, this is the exact reason why I don’t ask why people don’t have children. You never know a person’s struggle.

    • @hallykay4367
      @hallykay4367 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @Candy2Bossy
      @Candy2Bossy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      True.

    • @yulia9589
      @yulia9589 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      respect you girl !

    • @rebecap3026
      @rebecap3026 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very true

    • @weltschmertzz
      @weltschmertzz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I wish everyone has this realization. Too many people intrude one's private life and push their opinions/judge. Let's all be respectful of each other and just be sensitive of each other's feelings and the world will be a better place.

  • @srijuhari5079
    @srijuhari5079 3 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    My cousin been trying for over 10 years and to mark their 10th anniversary, they are currently expecting their first born 🥰🥰 i pray to Allah, every women who is TTC will be bless with a baby. Aamin Ya Rabb

    • @Iqracorner6
      @Iqracorner6 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ameen

    • @sweetkokii
      @sweetkokii 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amin 💗

    • @wonderfulbeautiful9389
      @wonderfulbeautiful9389 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      How old are they, if you don't mind me asking? I've been trying for a while. And I feel like at 40 now it may be too late 😥

    • @srijuhari5079
      @srijuhari5079 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@wonderfulbeautiful9389 my cousin is approaching 40. ☺️ She is 38 this year.

  • @yomayradlopez
    @yomayradlopez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +800

    “He gives the childless woman a family, making her a happy mother. Praise the Lord!”
    ‭‭Psalms‬ ‭113:9‬ ‭

    • @Godisgreat.79
      @Godisgreat.79 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Amen

    • @xoxohayaati
      @xoxohayaati 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She’s Muslim

    • @rosali2554
      @rosali2554 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      @@xoxohayaati doesn't matter! we can still pray for eachother.

    • @FatimaKhan-vi2my
      @FatimaKhan-vi2my 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@rosali2554 this is the good side of humanity 😄

    • @lionelluva
      @lionelluva 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen!

  • @claudiaigsa6900
    @claudiaigsa6900 4 ปีที่แล้ว +680

    Never forget this: you're never less of a woman just because you can't have children.

    • @dessykate713
      @dessykate713 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ahh agree😍😍

    • @Indiasplace
      @Indiasplace 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      So true! Unfortunately, lots of cultures regard you as less of a woman if you are infertile.

    • @razer0072073
      @razer0072073 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Indiasplace I'm not sure whether to leave my infertile wife or not

    • @nikinireti959
      @nikinireti959 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is true however sometimes other people communicate in various ways that you aren't a woman unless you have kid's.

  • @user-yg4hq1ob4j
    @user-yg4hq1ob4j 4 ปีที่แล้ว +468

    I seriously want to fight those of you who feel like it's ok to bully her. She's the sweetest woman on TH-cam!

    • @MaryMercy01
      @MaryMercy01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ill help on that fight.people need to mind their business

    • @shirinpatel1148
      @shirinpatel1148 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same here. My extended family & in laws keep questioning when we will have kids & if I have a problem that I don't have kids yet. It hurts. So I definitely will join in

    • @taifal-ali5140
      @taifal-ali5140 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’ll join you I hate when people try to involve in celebrities personal life!

    • @mwritesabout
      @mwritesabout 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'll join you. I'm preparing to give a beat-down!

    • @valeriasanchez5434
      @valeriasanchez5434 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agree!!

  • @yasminsaavedra8852
    @yasminsaavedra8852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    Watching this after your pregnancy announcement. You described just how I feel. Trying for over 3 years now & nothing. I’ve been so depressed lately over it. But seeing you finally getting your miracle makes my heart so happy. Congratulations beautiful, you’re going to be an amazing mother.

    • @danny172011
      @danny172011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m gong on a yr of trying and I feel so depressed. I can’t imagine 3+ yrs. I hope and pray all women TTC get their miracle

    • @minariaz5890
      @minariaz5890 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sister read surah maryam subhanallah it worked for me

    • @karianajamieson
      @karianajamieson 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have been trying for about 3 years and nothing.. My husband already has kids, so when he told me he wanted a baby I was the happiest, I have always wanted to be a mom, I helped raise my siblings, and now my stepchildren. I honestly want to adopt or something, but I understand the emptiness in you, feeling you can't do it.
      Hope it happens for you guys! ❤🥺

    • @yasminsaavedra8852
      @yasminsaavedra8852 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@karianajamieson I just want to make my husband a daddy & the fact that I can’t right now just breaks my heart every single day 😞 I pray it happens for you too!

    • @minariaz5890
      @minariaz5890 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@karianajamieson sister read surah maryam I swear this worked wonders for me I was reading religiously after every namaaz and when I had time to read or even listen subhanallah I have 4 now mashallah. Just remember to have tawakal and you will have it all xxx let me know how it goes xx

  • @ellanest
    @ellanest 4 ปีที่แล้ว +238

    This is literally why I hate when people ask “why don’t you have a baby yet?”. It’s such a common question in my Slavic culture. You don’t know if the person has been trying to conceive and is failing or they just don’t want a kid right now/ever! Stop asking this damn question!! It’s none of your business.
    Stay strong Farah ❤️ take care of yourself and your mental health.

    • @IndecisivegurrlAlex
      @IndecisivegurrlAlex 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was asked that by a nurse last week......

    • @ellanest
      @ellanest 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Alex Miller that’s unacceptable especially being in healthcare, the nurse should know better. People need to learn to mind their business.

    • @IndecisivegurrlAlex
      @IndecisivegurrlAlex 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ellanest Yeah she didn't just ask either, she hounded as to whyyyyyyy on earth I didn't have children and wouldn't want any.

    • @ButterflyTG
      @ButterflyTG 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I totally agree I was asked that during a time I was in the middle of an ectopic pregnancy. People just don't consider these things. People should really stop asking that question like seriously. Farrah keep your head up my friend⚘

    • @nikinireti959
      @nikinireti959 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      As a child my mother taught me that it was rude/impolite to ask someone when they were having kid's as you don't know whether that person has been trying to conceive with no success or has recently lost a child eg. Had a miscarriage. I'm always grateful my mum taught me this from a child age.

  • @joceebarrera
    @joceebarrera 4 ปีที่แล้ว +368

    My parents tried for 10 years. They had 3 miscarriages and were told they would never be able to conceive. They prayed so hard and then I was born! And after 2 years my sister as well. Never lose your hope💕

  • @sah071
    @sah071 4 ปีที่แล้ว +629

    This broke my heart. My mom had me after 7 years of trying so don't give up hope. Sending love and prayers your way. ❤️

    • @selveenaersapah4766
      @selveenaersapah4766 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      And my mum 10 years my sisters are 44,34 and I’m 30.

    • @juliauribe1144
      @juliauribe1144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Awww take me long time to get pregnant by my 2 daughter you need change your diet you need drink a lot tea that make you calm high cortisol make us difficult de be pregnant I have to cut sugar and flour basically be come vegetarian and only eat fish and eggs not milk not cheese I used drink apple cider vinegar then 3 months after I got pregnant same thing happen when I have my son not caffeine also

    • @juliauribe1144
      @juliauribe1144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mama you’re so gorgeousssss this ones who send you a mean comments is a hater don’t let this get to your heart for 3 that hates you is 1000 who loves you and admire you 🥰

  • @stephiesun1145
    @stephiesun1145 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Dearest Farah, watching this felt all too familiar. My husband and I tried for 6 years. We too went through that same struggle. In Asian families it can be so hard. So many people spoke about us, people got pregnant and wouldn't tell us because they would think we were jinxed. Please do not give up, I know Sal and you will be blessed with your own children. After 6 years of trying we were referred for IVF. I finally let go and stopped being hard on myself, I relaxed and thought to myself if it happens, it happens. Then a month before IVF I suddenly got pregnant I couldn't believe it. I am now the happy Mama of 3 beautiful children. So do not give up hope. I will pray for you I know God is capable. Sending you lots of love xxx

    • @jakla4988
      @jakla4988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I have a similar story. My husband and I tried for 5 years. We were ready for treatment. I waitet for my period to start injections, but the period didn't come, I was pregnant. I couldn't believe it either. Now I have my child in my arms. And so will you. Don't give up hope, there are sooo many people who struggle with fertility. That's when I learned that I will never ask someone again, when they will have kids oder if they even want to,because those questions hurt so much. People,who have no problems with fertility, they don't understand,how hard it is.
      So don't give up, you will get pregnant.

    • @emank8137
      @emank8137 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This line is everything - “ I finally let go and stopped being hard on myself, I relaxed and thought to myself if it happens, it happens”
      Let go and trust God that it will happen when He wills it ❤️

    • @stephiesun1145
      @stephiesun1145 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@emank8137 Amen

    • @alamalradio2831
      @alamalradio2831 ปีที่แล้ว

      are they twins?

  • @dramohand9771
    @dramohand9771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    OMG I come from the future and guess what? YOU ARE PREGNANT!!
    May Allah bless you both ❤❤❤

  • @esmaealma2204
    @esmaealma2204 4 ปีที่แล้ว +838

    The number of people watching this is insane. I would like to make a suggestion to all; why don’t we ALL make a sincere prayer from the HEART for this beautiful soul. Surely the prayer of at least 1 of the MILLIONS that will be viewing this will be heard. Do not underestimate the power of prayer. So much love for you guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @rubs63
      @rubs63 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I did my part !! Be happy dear !!

    • @lasestrellasnight4993
      @lasestrellasnight4993 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I did my part too. Love the idea.❤❤❤

    • @yousramez
      @yousramez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙏🙏🙏

    • @nancyingrace
      @nancyingrace 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙏🏽

    • @Oluwabunmi22
      @Oluwabunmi22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙏🏽

  • @AlexFlores-sk2xu
    @AlexFlores-sk2xu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +402

    Girl, don’t EVER be sorry or apologetic for how you’re feeling, ever.

  • @bonnieboo8886
    @bonnieboo8886 4 ปีที่แล้ว +477

    My mother gave me the best advice ever when me and my husband were trying to get pregnant. She said “Mija, you need to stop stressing over it. You need to relax. The reason you are having difficulty is because your body is reacting to your stress level.” Once I stopped stressing, I was able to conceive. So, I say to you beautiful Farahdhukai, stop stressing and feeding into these stupid people and their comments. Find your zen space and let go of the negativity. You will find peace and the babies will come💕💕. Que Dios le bendiga!!!!!💕💕💕💕💕

    • @natalialutsenko3429
      @natalialutsenko3429 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same happened to me

    • @butterification
      @butterification 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen 🙏🏽

    • @rosebud4467
      @rosebud4467 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Did you even watch this video?
      Do you have any idea how many people have heard that line and failed to get pregnant?
      Phrases like that are literally pouring salt in an open wound.

    • @myamuney5094
      @myamuney5094 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@rosebud4467 do you have a better suggestion? If so let us know!

    • @corazondigno3424
      @corazondigno3424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I can understand that you’re coming from a good place by saying this but the reality is that “not stressing” is not going to magically make someone who doesn’t ovulate, ovulate; or someone who doesn’t produce mature sperm, produce mature sperm. Sometimes there are actual physiological issues that can only be corrected through medical intervention. I’ve tried “not stressing” for over 8 years and here I am having to go through IUI’s with donor sperm because my husband does not produce sperm. Please refrain from telling someone going through infertility that they need to stop stressing.

  • @sameenaarr9595
    @sameenaarr9595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Watching again this after your pregnancy announcement... I can’t explain how happy I am for you and Sal. M A 😍❤️

  • @SaraMargaridaMusic
    @SaraMargaridaMusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +283

    My mom tried to get pregnant for 12 years and the doctors told her she wouldn’t be a mom. When she gave up from trying to get pregnant... I showed up in her life ❤️ I know that great things are about to happen in your life. Sending you a hug from Portugal 😘

    • @Cuthy22
      @Cuthy22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly.. same thing happened to my mom.. she has endometriosis.. after 11 years she finally got pregnant and here I am. I think you should let everything happen at the time that it's supposed to happen.. let lose a little.. let it be.. and the least expected moment you'll get pregnant.. not everything has to be mecanic and planned.. unexpected things are just the bestest..

    • @soniam2690
      @soniam2690 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      How old was she?

    • @SaraMargaridaMusic
      @SaraMargaridaMusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sonia M she started with 23 and got pregnant at the age of 35!

    • @Cuthy22
      @Cuthy22 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@soniam2690 36 when she had me..

    • @Cuthy22
      @Cuthy22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SaraMargaridaMusic Pretty much the same

  • @darjaruzic8515
    @darjaruzic8515 4 ปีที่แล้ว +371

    My parents tried to have a child for more then 5 years and when they succeeded my mum had a miscarriage but two years later she found out that she is pregnant with me and well here I'm 19 years old writing this don't loose hope and even if you can't have kids of your own thin about adopting one

    • @deedykayry6033
      @deedykayry6033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m so sorry to hear this, sometime after contraception it can take long to have your fertility back, also I have been advised that keeping ur feet up with ur back on a pillow for 15 mint right after intercourses helps ( and it does really help )

  • @SorayaUnlimited
    @SorayaUnlimited 4 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    This is why I like animals over humans, people can be so cruel..

    • @tlazo
      @tlazo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Animals can ve cruel as well

    • @highlyfavoredMG
      @highlyfavoredMG 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Than I hope an animal will take care of you if you ever get sick.Or be your doctor nurses etc...

    • @SorayaUnlimited
      @SorayaUnlimited 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@tlazo But they simply react out of instinct though, an animal is not going to say or do mean things just because they can and are safe behind their screens, if you get what I'm saying

    • @SorayaUnlimited
      @SorayaUnlimited 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@highlyfavoredMG I shouldn't even dignify this with a response, but I have time, so.. Does it say I hate humans or am I not grateful for most of them, no. But will I prefer animals who react out of instinct over humans who can be so mean without even a reason why and say mean things on the internet they probably wouldn't dare to say standing in front of you and do messed up things to eachother, yes I will

    • @vvmn9442
      @vvmn9442 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SorayaUnlimited animals don’t react over instinct if it’s an emotional situation. They are fully capable of processing emotions and comforting each other in times of needs. This is the reason why I’m vegetarian going to be vegan because I know how intelligent and caring animals can be for eachother🌱

  • @nellemryazkhan
    @nellemryazkhan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    You just made me cry for something I haven't experienced. I am single and I could feel the pain in your voice. You are just perfect. Sometimes things don't go well in lifs. I am 24 now but when I was 14, I lost my eyesight completely when I woke up the next morning. I was perfectly alright before that and I am blind with my right wye eversince and it hurts so muxh to see people being able to see clearly but you don't have to be sad because Allah will reward you soon. Don't be sad, love you. ❤

  • @joannydiez8179
    @joannydiez8179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    Don’t stop trying! My sister tried for 9 years and finally had a beautiful baby boy after about a year of fertility treatments. You’re such a beautiful person Farah, you deserve a beautiful family and I know you and your husband will have an amazing family. Don’t give up, and please I know it’s hard to stop thinking of yourself as less of a woman because you’re having trouble conceiving but know that is not true! You’re amazing and I will pray for you and your family.

    • @hillaryh.5197
      @hillaryh.5197 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Joanny Diez thank you for this

  • @JamesLopez-
    @JamesLopez- 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2327

    My parents were trying to have a second kid for 11 years. Finally they got a heartbeat, but instead their were 2 heartbeats. I’m currently 14 years old with my twin sister 😌

    • @zoeysanchez5550
      @zoeysanchez5550 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Gay

    • @levihooper8605
      @levihooper8605 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      zoey sanchez you dad shoulda been gay

    • @levihooper8605
      @levihooper8605 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Will Smiff I hope your infertile

    • @radamirabdulle3559
      @radamirabdulle3559 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Will Smiff looooooooooooooooooooool

    • @muaviyahrahman1746
      @muaviyahrahman1746 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Will Smiff I mean like what ....you are no one to give a certificate

  • @mahinhossain5446
    @mahinhossain5446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    AND NOW SHES PREGNANT ALHAMDULILLAH. So happy for you and Sal

    • @Lee-fw9mr
      @Lee-fw9mr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't know where to post this but I have to say it.... When Farah said Desi families don't talk about feelings.. "you have anxiety? Just drink some milk and pray." BRUH, I laughed SO hard. My Dad was Punjabi and that was his answer for everything. Milk. Just milk. Headache? "Did you drink milk today?" Feel tired? "Drink milk, you need energy." After an argument where I cried, "Okay bacha, go, go, wash your face and I'll warm up some milk, okay? Chulo, go." Farah, I love you dude. It's so good to see some representation on TH-cam

  • @hassanjawad5140
    @hassanjawad5140 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    "And Allah is going to give you and you will be satisfied." Al Qur'an surah ad-duhaa (5) Just have faith in him & fill your heart with patience 🙏🏻

  • @khaoularmb2196
    @khaoularmb2196 4 ปีที่แล้ว +707

    As a Muslim we are in Ramadan and I it is 2 am morning and I just prayed for you to be a mom amin

    • @Ella-ns9ps
      @Ella-ns9ps 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I did too, for her and every women out there who can't have kids

    • @zuzu6483
      @zuzu6483 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Pray for me to get married please

    • @lisha3441
      @lisha3441 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@zuzu6483
      me too and have kids inshallah🤲🏽❤️

    • @gauripuranik8145
      @gauripuranik8145 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Khaoula RMB amen

    • @Glisten2glory
      @Glisten2glory 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same!

  • @kcouture1000
    @kcouture1000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1254

    Hi Farah, I lost 6, 4 misscarriages I buried 2 one fullterm. I can truly relate... Giving birth to my daughter knowing she wasnt alive was so hard 4 days of labour she was stillborn but still born, holding my baby girl in my arms with no cry just silent that silence that I knew I could not take her home broke me. Many days I sat in the mortuary holding her asking why... So many questions and emotions ran through my mind throughout the years of trying and losing I too was so so broken BUT finally in 2017 I gave birth to my miracle son at 6 months weighing 1IB.4 the size of my hand he was on life support and in hospital for so long but he made it .... now he is my proof to say to you it will happen beautiful maybe not in the timing we want but please will you never lose vision and hope you too will get your blessing. God is able and amazing x

  • @edu2288
    @edu2288 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    This is tough to watch so I can’t even imagine what it’s like to be going through it. Praying and hoping so hard for you that your hearts desire will come to pass. 🙏🏾

  • @LBCLary
    @LBCLary 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    2:40 “every month.. for 3 years you hope something is going to happen...” and staying positive... I think someone is cutting onions near me.. I felt it. I really felt it. 😭

  • @Eightfive342
    @Eightfive342 4 ปีที่แล้ว +401

    NEVER.EVER. Tell a woman she’s less or tell a couple “so when are y’all having a baby”

  • @saeharbokhari1424
    @saeharbokhari1424 4 ปีที่แล้ว +511

    Your worth does not lie in your ability to have biological children

    • @christenawashburn8193
      @christenawashburn8193 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      🙌🙌🙌❤❤❤❤🙌🙌🙌🙌❤❤❤❤🙌🙌🙌❤❤❤❤If there is one comment you read Farah, let this be the one!

    • @poojapotdar2737
      @poojapotdar2737 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I'm a woman and I absolutely agree. A woman's worth as a human being has nothing to do with her fertility and capability to produce a child. But it's sad and heartbreaking that we live in a society where people feel it's okay to question a woman about her barren nest. That's very unfair and a personal question. A woman can be fertile and not want to reproduce. If she and her partner/husband have decided on not having kids then it's nobody's damn business to question them or the woman any further.

    • @Emmiee114
      @Emmiee114 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      this comment is SO important! i was literally told that women who don’t have kids (even by choice) are “useless and incomplete” and it doesn’t matter how successful/happy/content they are……it makes me so upset to think that a lot of people think like that.

    • @ye23.
      @ye23. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Em X yep Ive heard this too. Ive also been told a man who marries a woman who cant have kids has the right to leave her and remarry another woman. As if not being able to have a kid only falls on the woman’s shoulders...

    • @lizziee6559
      @lizziee6559 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      As someone who is adopted and who cannot have biological children, reading this comment means a lot for so many different reasons.

  • @tc_917
    @tc_917 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Love that you had the courage to speak about this, let alone publicly. You are love, strength, and inspiration.
    I hope people have understood that kindness carries us forward and kept the comments positive. Thank you for sharing.

  • @ykubba
    @ykubba 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    My love, I’m so, so sorry you’ve been going through this for 3 years in silence. I’m sorry you’ve been feeling alone. We are all here for you. It’s okay to cry ♥️ Take your time with healing, there’s no deadline. We love you beautiful. I’ll be making a lot of dua for you and your husband. Sending lots of love your way ♥️

  • @wardasheikh5748
    @wardasheikh5748 4 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    Don’t loose hope, Allah is Al-wahab which means he is the giver of everything! So keep on asking and stay hopeful, he won’t let you down! Nothing is impossible. Sending you lots of love!❤️

  • @amiejobe7010
    @amiejobe7010 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This’s heartbreaking! You’ll have children inShaAllah it can happen anytime, don’t let the comment gets to you and your man should not be saying that I can’t wait stuff, it’s not good when men saying I want a son or can’t wait for a child cuz it makes women feel guilty and it’s not about that it’s about the love and determination that person has for you. You’re young it’ll happen I knew people whom waited longer then have children. Sending you love ❤️❤️🙏🏿

  • @TheChocolatelegZ
    @TheChocolatelegZ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Just want to state something we as women forget; it’s not always our “fault” people never look to the man as the issue so be kind to yourselves ladies.

    • @rosebud4467
      @rosebud4467 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree, but what does it matter?
      Who cares who is "at fault" ??
      No one chooses to be infertile... placing blame on anyone for not being able to concieve when they want to is horrible.

    • @TheChocolatelegZ
      @TheChocolatelegZ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Starlight Glow Bc women internalize and it’s not always our bodies but that’s where doctors start. At least they did with me. All the test all the appointments and finally they looked at my husband’s health and found the issue lied within him. I had torn myself apart thinking it was something I did or I waited to long.

    • @SuchaCaligrrl
      @SuchaCaligrrl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@rosebud4467 I don't think KNO was placing blame on either of them for not being able to conceive, nor pointing fingers on whose fault it is. Woman's worst critics are other woman or themselves, it can drive a woman to fall into a deep depression, she clearly blames herself, she is sad, empty and feels broken, she has been going through this for 3 years and she has obviously been going through this alone (she feels alone, her words). She's going through a lot and social media obviously hasn't helped her situation. But I agree with KNO its not always the women's reproductive organs that are at fault, sometimes the issue lies on the man, but yes even if it were the woman's body that wasn't able to conceive that doesn't make it "her" fault, she hasn't done anything purposely (that we know) that has prevented them from being able to conceive. We do not know her situation/story 100%, but it sounds like they should both get tested so they can get to the bottom of the problem, and maybe some marriage counseling wouldn't hurt, she is in too much pain and doesn't sound like she is happily married either.

  • @Jade_fawkes
    @Jade_fawkes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +449

    YOU ARE SO BRAVE for posting this, & I applaud you for speaking out! We had 60 negative tests, 5 years of trying before we got our miracle positive test! Please don't give up hope!

    • @namritamanoo2545
      @namritamanoo2545 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      be strong stop stress out please you will have babies God will bless you with boy and girl.

    • @giselleburton
      @giselleburton 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me and my husband We have 7 years and nothing!

    • @yasmeenhussain2721
      @yasmeenhussain2721 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@giselleburton don't give up hope ever x
      Sending lots of prayers x

    • @giselleburton
      @giselleburton 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yasmeenhussain2721 thank you 🙏💕

  • @lilibunny17
    @lilibunny17 4 ปีที่แล้ว +262

    THIS IS NO ONE’S BUSINESS! People don’t know boundaries. I feel so bad

  • @Destinay4lyf
    @Destinay4lyf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Look at God farah, his timing is always perfect. I’m guessing within a month or 2 after this video you found out that he accepted our prayers. Continue to say alhamdulilah ❤️

  • @lulugonzalez4284
    @lulugonzalez4284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Ive been with my partner for 9 years and i got pregnant in 5 years all these thoughts went through my head until one day i was like okay god whenever you're ready to make me a mom ill be waiting . Now i have 2 blessings .

  • @cegecej
    @cegecej 4 ปีที่แล้ว +271

    I had a friend that thought she couldn't get pregnant. After 10 years, she and her husband thought they couldn't get pregnant. Then......out of no where, she had a beautiful baby girl.

    • @IamJustMe1234
      @IamJustMe1234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I know this was with all good intentions and hope for her, but it's comments like this that hurt in a different way as she said.

    • @cegecej
      @cegecej 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IamJustMe1234 We have a different perspectives and I didn't get that from her video that these were the type of comments that hurt her. If she posts and confirms that then I'll be sure to take it down but not because of someone else's erroneous interpretation. Thanks for your concern though.

  • @GunjanKushwah
    @GunjanKushwah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    Don’t loose hope! My parents tried to have a kid for 8 years before I was born. Please be strong, lots of love to you ❤️

    • @maridg4378
      @maridg4378 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm sending you love and big hugs I believe in you you're going to be able to have one one day❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @daniellegarraway1561
    @daniellegarraway1561 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I was in the same position thinking I couldn’t until I gave up and I’m now 6 1/2 months pregnant - watching your story makes me so emotional with these hormones 😭 // I’m so happy for you these tears you’re crying now better be tears of joy girl embrace it you will be an amazing mother !!!

  • @sesethusam9623
    @sesethusam9623 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I’m so happy to be here right now after the announcement 😩♥️🤍♥️🌸♥️🤍♥️☺️ You are loved, worthy and ADEQUATE

    • @nikinireti959
      @nikinireti959 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She is and not because she's now with child. She was and is loved, worthy and adequate even when she was struggling with fertility. 😊. No one's worth or value is in how fertile they are but simply because they are created in the image of God.

  • @kudzaimari
    @kudzaimari 4 ปีที่แล้ว +641

    May God bless any person reading this who wants the blessing of a child 💗💗💗

    • @violetgutierrez5315
      @violetgutierrez5315 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Amen! I recieve it. God's timing is always perfect🙌🏽💜

    • @irie7iv
      @irie7iv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💕

    • @claudiam.541
      @claudiam.541 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🙏

    • @rhenesiacloete6776
      @rhenesiacloete6776 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same here, praying for children and the uncertainty is weighing heavy on ones heart especially when all your friends and loved ones are getting married and having babies

    • @user-ot5rx6yx1g
      @user-ot5rx6yx1g 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If there will be a God this nice young woman here would already have a child.. If God would bless someone with a kid. Than people like her would have a kid and not people who are abusing their kids or something

  • @laurawatson6259
    @laurawatson6259 4 ปีที่แล้ว +310

    She’s the kindest sweetest person yet people are so rude? I’m speechless.

    • @jenniferm9010
      @jenniferm9010 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Laura Watson because misery wants company unfortunately :/

    • @laurawatson6259
      @laurawatson6259 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jennifer Moreno I really want her to be happy now...I hope her life becomes easier n she achieves what she desires n deserves💜

  • @queenc8280
    @queenc8280 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    OMG people are ruthless! Mental health is serious guys....be fkn kind!!!!!!!!

  • @Sg-oi3qq
    @Sg-oi3qq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Im so hurted and shocked strangers talk like this about other peoples like this! I hope they feel ashamed for their disgusting actions 💔

  • @girlinthe_garden
    @girlinthe_garden 4 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    Sweet girl, can I just tell you that this video touched my heart soooo deeply. In 2016 my husband and I got pregnant with our first child. Our dreams had come true, and just as soon as we started celebrating, I lost the baby. At 7 weeks. I was more heartbroken than I had ever been. My husband reassured me that when my body was healed we would start trying again. Well, we tried for 3 years. 3 years. With the 3rd anniversary of our miscarriage coming up I was feeling SO incredibly sad. Every month we got negative tests and I felt so alone. All my friends were having kids. Even friends who didnt want kids were getting pregnant. It was so incredibly hard.
    My husband and I kept trying. You and Sal NEED to stay strong. Stay positive. Talk to your body and tell it that you love it and that you cant wait for it to be a home for your sweet little baby that you WILL have.
    3 years after trying and trying and trying my husband and I were finally successful! It was a miracle. When I look back on our miscarriage I just know that things weren't right for us then. STAY. POSITIVE. BABE. It will happen. Relax and when you least expect it a miracle will evolve.
    I love you, Farah! I always have. I'm a big fan and I will pray and send all the baby dust to you and your husband.
    ❤❤❤❤❤🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸

    • @candylover1991
      @candylover1991 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hey just curious, did you do anything to ensure you had a successful pregnancy? Been trying with no luck after 2 miscarriages, so all ears if you have any tips to ensure a successful pregnancy..sending good vibes to everyone trying for a baby xxx

    • @girlinthe_garden
      @girlinthe_garden 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@candylover1991 I prayed. And prayed. I also ate very healthy and tried to stay active without over exerting myself. I'm so sorry you had had to go through two miscarriages. Even though I have my baby now, that worry just never goes away. Right up until i was 38 weeks pregnant and delivered, i worried. I remained positive, though. Our bodies are amazing and when it's right you will have your sweet little miracle. Goodluck and baby dust ❤🌸❤🌸❤

    • @Anayaaa666
      @Anayaaa666 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@candylover1991 any luck on getting pregnant

  • @sheilalang581
    @sheilalang581 4 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    Hey hun, it took me well over 2 years of trying to get pregnant. I got referred to a great doctor at mount Sinai's fertility clinic. It took a year but we were lucky to finally get pregnant. I think your in Toronto too, so maybe you could check them out. Your not alone hun and I hope with all my heart you have all the babies you want. You deserve everything you wish for big hugs.

  • @ruthsalazar1502
    @ruthsalazar1502 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Have faith baby girl, don't give up. Your miracle is on it's way! Believe in God! He's faithful whether it's sooner or later Your baby is coming.

  • @GwenOpooh1
    @GwenOpooh1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My prayers are lifted to God to bless you and hubby to conceive. Don't give up trying. My husband and I tried to get pregnant and after 4 years we gave birth to a beautiful daughter. We tried for 6 more years for a second child. God blessed us with only one because he passed away from Sickle Cell Anemia. I was crushed, but everything was/is in God's hands. A friend of mine was so depressed because her and hubby weren't able to get pregnant. We prayed, cried, and prayed again. They adopted a beautiful little girl and are amazing parents. After 12 years, not trying to get pregnant, just enjoying each other she became pregnant. They gave birth to a beautiful healthy baby boy. God knows your prayers, desires, and pain. Don't give up sweetie! I will continue to lift you in prayer. Hugs, love, and prayers🙏🏽❤️💐

  • @cubeekable
    @cubeekable 4 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    At the age of 20, I had my first of many ovarian surgeries. I was told I was infertile. I have PCOS and endometriosis. Last year, I met my person. I had given up that dream of motherhood... I’m 36 and raised my niece who is now almost 17.
    Without trying, being on birth control and taking option B, I got pregnant. Imagine my shock. Imagine my doctors shock. I’m due 11/09. The last thing one should ever lose is hope.

    • @tiffanyhhan
      @tiffanyhhan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kelly M God is good ❤️

    • @mahjabeenhassan3511
      @mahjabeenhassan3511 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Congratulations ♥️♥️

    • @tabithamedina9584
      @tabithamedina9584 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congratulations what is option B I suffer from pcos

    • @thiszme2000
      @thiszme2000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is so good. Congratulations!

    • @pavanbrar8144
      @pavanbrar8144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What is option b

  • @jackiehardman7284
    @jackiehardman7284 4 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    I've never been able to have children and I'm 46....its been the hardest thing ever to go through because as women we were designed and engineered to reproduce. I feel like a failure and that I'm broken. I know your pain Farah. Dont be too hard on yourself. I'm here if you want to talk ever

    • @abeersharief7737
      @abeersharief7737 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Don’t be sad .. everything has a reason :). Have faith in god. You are alive and god has sent you here for a purpose ❤️.

    • @shqypehusiq3368
      @shqypehusiq3368 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are not broken.

  • @mubashshirahmansuri6566
    @mubashshirahmansuri6566 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    we as society really need to mind our business, especially when something is private.

    • @daliamejia7532
      @daliamejia7532 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But she is putting her business out there

    • @mubashshirahmansuri6566
      @mubashshirahmansuri6566 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@daliamejia7532 There's a difference. Our own personal information are always bound to be out to either friends or relatives, so point is to either be an influencer or person close to us, let us not be so meddling in their private affairs

  • @bonitosojitos21
    @bonitosojitos21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You may not read this. But don’t lose hope! I was also infertile. I was diagnosed with uterine cancer. I was able to beat that. Started IVF last year and I was blessed with a baby girl this past April! Please keep your faith strong with God all is possible. I’m praying for you. 💗

  • @sharigagopal1792
    @sharigagopal1792 4 ปีที่แล้ว +373

    You're not less as a woman without a kid, never feel inadequate. But trust in his process & timing! Never lose hope..

    • @ye23.
      @ye23. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Dont know if this is insensitive but I dont understand why women get so overly emotional about this. Theres always adoption or IVF. But Im not really fussed about having kids so I guess I cant relate. Also kids ruin relationships and people’s lives. I know a lot of miserable people with kids.

    • @brookailjennings8274
      @brookailjennings8274 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      CookieDough she seems to have a huge platform so I hope and pray for her that anything is possible. I truly don’t believe money is a problem here..

    • @betternow1906
      @betternow1906 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tell that to the trans community that LOVES using infertal women as an example-

    • @betternow1906
      @betternow1906 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ye23. hey I'm 23 and can't have kids. I found out at 20. It sucks. I don't even know if I wanted kids but its knowing I can't do what my body is built to do hurts.
      I don't think about it now because I don't want to end up like this girl crying in the video. But it hurts knowing pregnancy is either impossible or life threatening.
      Its a natural biological feeling women get. And yes IVF and adoption but its not the same. Some women want a bio child and not being able to HURTS!

    • @marilynseptember21
      @marilynseptember21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ye23. I never wanted kids until 3 years ago when I was diagnosed with fibroids. I have had 2 surgeries. Now breaking up with someone I love because he already has 2 kids and I want one. Feelings change.... there's no control over emotions. I can't talk to anyone about it because my family and friends are practical people....my mum has already mentioned adoption.....it's not that easy. Adopted kids in the eyes of the government are not 💯 your kids....I am only coping because had experienced bad depression years before and learned from that and know travel helps...being stuck indoors is not letting me cope. Right now need to get away. I spend time talking about going to the beach. I might change my mind but now that I am single feel less pressure.

  • @jaymmxii7332
    @jaymmxii7332 4 ปีที่แล้ว +259

    It’s so hard to talk about infertility. My only dream in life was to be a mom and wife but after 6 yrs of trying we have not gotten pregnant. It’s a very lonely, very heartbreaking place to be. So thank u for sharing your story, u are not alone! ❤️

    • @blacksheep1069
      @blacksheep1069 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same...i married for 4 years now..my husb had two kids and married before we both meet..after he divorced we both had relationship..we trying so hard to get pregnent..but my husb so undersanding..he never said anything..he just said..if we can get babies its blessing if not maybe god had plan for us to dating longer..sometimes when my friends pregnent..i broke down..he said im so stupid..because care about that..its make me more broken.because he was so nice and im not deserve him..he said if one day we still didnt get own babies..maybe he gonna adopt one girl..maybe..but not now

    • @SelaTavarez
      @SelaTavarez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      JayMMXII You aren’t alone either! My husband and I tried for 7 years to get a baby and we finally got one when my son turned 11. Keep going! Don’t ever give up! 🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @saminabibi2015
      @saminabibi2015 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      May GOD BLESS YOU never loose faith ❤️

    • @jaymmxii7332
      @jaymmxii7332 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sela Sanchez thank u 😊

  • @mirkadelgado8339
    @mirkadelgado8339 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This video made me cry, I felt your hurt so much, even tho I haven’t been trying for 3 years, I have been trying for over a year and half now and nothing, I feel the same way so unable. But I wish you so many blessings, I pray you can one day have a baby🥺❤️

  • @sherubyne5441
    @sherubyne5441 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    To all couples reading this and going through something similar, I promise your day will come, a way or another. 🙏🏽 you are not alone and don’t be hard on yourself. More and more women have to deal with.
    Please DON T LOSE HOPE

  • @yamsaharni984
    @yamsaharni984 4 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    I feel your pain my sweet sister, i have been trying to get pregnant for almost 20 years now. May Allah answer our dua❤
    May Allah give us a healthy baby soon Ameen❤

    • @Cats_m0m
      @Cats_m0m 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aaameeen

    • @ojuice83
      @ojuice83 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Keep trying sister! May God grant you your heart desires

    • @BilanBella
      @BilanBella 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ameen.

    • @princessalaia3544
      @princessalaia3544 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ameen

    • @ImaaniBeauty
      @ImaaniBeauty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ya Msaharni inshallah ameen

  • @dbatista1260
    @dbatista1260 4 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    I have learned to not ask why someone doesn’t have kids. Everyone’s process and situation is different and you don’t know what someone is going through.
    Thank you for talking about this, I can only imagine how difficult this is and can be. You are amazing!! You are not alone

    • @intisaryacoub3036
      @intisaryacoub3036 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It's a very painful question people need to learn to keep them self out of other people life's

    • @rjo7143
      @rjo7143 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I had people telling me I needed to have a baby but I was already trying unsuccessfully. That wasn’t something that I felt I needed to disclose.

  • @AhorreYgane
    @AhorreYgane 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It took my husband and me 8 years, and when he finally join the army so I can have a treatment I got pregnant with a girl before he left for training we will pray for you, you stay strong, we now have another 2 years old boy 💗💗💗💗

  • @jacintanoronha2774
    @jacintanoronha2774 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    It breaks my heart to see someone wanting to hav a child and care for him so badly... When people like myka stauffer just gave away her baby boy.. I hope u feel better soon...sometimes God has better plans for all of us. ♥️♥️

  • @taintedlove245
    @taintedlove245 4 ปีที่แล้ว +362

    My cousin tried to have kids for 8 years. She desired a child so hard that I saw her with my own eyes crying to God for a baby. She has two babies now, a boy and a girl. Don’t give up, keep trying!

    • @persianmuneca6264
      @persianmuneca6264 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      God is good

    • @elcuhhh2140
      @elcuhhh2140 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Idk why people want to get pregnant I mean adopting is better it saves a child in need and gives them a home

    • @the1law500
      @the1law500 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@elcuhhh2140 it's a child, not a puppy. Idk i feel like pregnancy and child birth and starting a biological family is different.
      *i was adopted. First of 4 in a combined family of 7. So i get that, too.

  • @nicolecampbelll
    @nicolecampbelll 4 ปีที่แล้ว +328

    My husband and I wanted children so bad. It ate me up inside. We tried since I was 20. I'm now I'm 33. We still do not have children.
    When I tell you, I know it hurts, I mean it. As a woman, you feel " We are supposed to be able to have children". I felt useless. I had to MAKE myself, move on. It was destroying me and started to affect the way I was treating my husband. I just said to myself " Nicole, if it happens it happens". And unfortunately it never did. I promise you it will get better. You are not alone. I'm sending you lots of love & good vibes to you & your husband. We would have adopted, but it was thousands. If you are in a position to adopt, think about it. There is a child out there, who would love you forever.
    I hope you read this. I just wanted to share my genuine feelings. If you wanted to message me, for support, I'm here. Please take care. Lots of love
    Nicole ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @mero.unseen
      @mero.unseen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Your beautiful words deeply touched my heart ❤

    • @firdowskalu1
      @firdowskalu1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Girl this touched me too. 😢 I can’t even imagine what you are all going through. I pray and hope that you all are blessed with a family be that your own children or living and taking care of another child who is in need of a family 💕

    • @samajanah3694
      @samajanah3694 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Keep going it's not late yet

    • @chun1310
      @chun1310 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      May God bless you

  • @everythingguyanese7820
    @everythingguyanese7820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I had my baby 3 months ago after 5 years of marriage. Dont give up dear ❤❤❤

  • @samoconnor-hall5179
    @samoconnor-hall5179 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Having PCOS and trying for years, I know the feeling of being “broken” all to well. Feeling like I’m a failure for not being able to do the one thing a woman should be able to do. I’ve pushed my husband away for the last 4 years just because I felt like I was useless to him. It wasn’t until two weeks ago that he sat me down and we had a big heart to heart telling each other exactly how we felt. And now we are back to being our silly selfs and it feels like we are brand new. My husband and I have been trying since we were 19 and we are 23 now. We are praying and hoping that one day we can have a big, happy family. You give me hope! You’re a beautiful soul and you are going to be a great mom. Your baby will be so blessed to have such a great parents. May you have a big happy family! I wish nothing but the best for you and Sal and your sweet bundle of happiness! I’ll be praying for you to have a wonderful safe pregnancy! Keep it up queen!!

  • @sweetsadie79
    @sweetsadie79 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Im 40 and Ive been trying for 3 year. I went through IVF 2 cycles, 2 miscarriages. I needed to take a break to gather my strength back.
    Thank you for being strong and speaking your truth. Your strength will return.

  • @lindaclopez95
    @lindaclopez95 4 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    I cried with you because I know the feeling so well..😔 the emptiness is a horrible feeling...I have lost 3 angels in the last 4 years...from struggling to become pregnant, then to loosing my babies, still praying to be blessed here on earth ...GOD leads the way!🙏❤👶

    • @SavortheMomentblog
      @SavortheMomentblog 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bussit Love222 I’m so sorry for your loss. My friend has lost 3 angels within a few years and then when she became pregnant a 4th time the doctor suggested bed rest for most of the pregnancy. She was able to carry the baby to term. She became pregnant for the 5th time and was able to carry that baby to term as well. It may be extreme but it worked for her. Sending you love 💕

    • @lindaclopez95
      @lindaclopez95 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SavortheMomentblog thank you love!! Really appreciate the love... I pray that when it does happen again for me...it will be full term, I've been so afraid to try again in the last year & a half..but I definitely would do anything for my rainbow baby!!❤🙏

    • @elisaaguiar9303
      @elisaaguiar9303 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Im sorry for you’re lost I know how you been feeling I was feeling like that to I had 2 miscarriage I only been married for a year and a half and I was so Depress and alone even if I had my husband support . but God has bless me I’m now pregnant again and going on 20 weeks having a baby girl . But with all I been through I always wake up with a fear of loosing my baby but I pray to God that my pregnancy continue to be healthy don’t loose hopes girl ❤️

  • @roxannedavis9362
    @roxannedavis9362 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing; know that there are others holding up your burden with you, praying for peace and blessings on your behalf. The fact that you’re here, is evidence that you can make it, that you are strong and I salute you. The grace and beauty that you provide this community oh followers, gives you GREAT significance. We love you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @veeemm9605
    @veeemm9605 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am so sorry people’s rude comments have affected you negatively. We all need to reminder to be kinder to one another. Sometimes it’s the little things. A Starbucks barista told me I looked nice & wished me good luck in my day & I was on my way to an interview. It honestly meant the world to me! That small comment made my day it was super sweet. God bless you & your family!!!!

  • @kaysharivera9470
    @kaysharivera9470 4 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    Farah I tried for more than 10 years to have a child and I had 3 miscarriages. And last year the beginning of the year I fasted and prayed to God that if children is not in his plans for me to at least help my be the best aunt I could be. 4 weeks later I found out I was pregnant. I was so scared I was gonna miscarry again. But in Oct of 2019 I gave birth to a beautiful boy. Farah enjoy your marriage, your travels, your family because one day you will be a mom. My dream was always to be a mom too. So I know how you are feeling. And I am overweight I always have been. And i looked like i had 4 kids when i had none. And I was bullied on social media by women all the time. But in looked to God and started focusing on what I do have. YOU ARE GOING TO BE A GREAT MOM!!!

    • @berregok6411
      @berregok6411 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kaysha Rivera i just have tears in my eyes of reading your story. God bless you and your beautiful child 💕 there is always hope and i pray for God to give Farah also a beautiful family❤️

    • @huda9914
      @huda9914 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Your Don hey don't you know about "Say good or be silent"?!
      try to be respectful people it won't hurt you

    • @harveenadoowa3649
      @harveenadoowa3649 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your Don what a Keyboard warrior. Do you like getting attention for writing shit?

  • @Tasiaevansss
    @Tasiaevansss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +403

    Listen to me when I tell you Farah, THIS ENTIRE EXPERIENCE WILL BE YOUR TESTIMONY! You're helping SO many people right now by sharing this, and you have NO IDEA how many people you are going to help in the future when you're able to look back when you have your beautiful angel and be able to say that this is where you were. You're going to give people HOPE. This is Allah's doing because everything is going to turn out MUCH better than you could even imagine!!! Your blessings are going to overflow. We are all SO proud of you and lifting you up during this time and even after. YOUR BLESSING IS COMING. You would never have gone through this if your blessing wasn't coming on the other side. Just hold on a little bit longer baby girl!

    • @fma2279
      @fma2279 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🙏💜 she is truly inspirational for posting this!

    • @Candy2Bossy
      @Candy2Bossy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @salinarivera7
    @salinarivera7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m grateful for you making this video. I needed this, you are not alone and congrats on the wonderful new blessing you guys are about to embark on.💓✨
    & all negative things, BYE FELICIA. We don’t need that energy.

  • @brendee_bee
    @brendee_bee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can relate to that feeling, I rather say I don’t want kids instead of trying to explain how it feels not being a “full” woman, I’m so happy you finally got pregnant and even though I don’t know you and I don’t really follow your life, I’ve seen some of your videos and I finally found someone who can understand me, you have no idea how happy I am for you and to be honest seeing you and knowing you got pregnant gave me something I lost long ago, faith and hope. My heart melted and I honestly cried my heart out of happiness, thank you for being so brave and talk for all of us in the same situation ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @laurenlaboy4459
      @laurenlaboy4459 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I do the same thing . I say I don’t want them yet then have to explain I have pcos and how difficult it is for me to conceive how Even at my smallest 5’6 180 pounds they kept telling me to loose more weight so it can happen .

  • @alishakhan3375
    @alishakhan3375 4 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    In this holy month, you’re in my dua! Love you x

  • @violapanoni2192
    @violapanoni2192 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    A woman can be a woman even without a children, we are strong and we are not ONLY mothers, we are much more.♥️

  • @marizachavez9597
    @marizachavez9597 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are very strong for talking about this. I pray your dreams will come true soon.

  • @serenitybeauty
    @serenitybeauty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    “If you have anxiety, it’s not real, if you’re sad it’s not real”.
    I have never relate to a phrase than this😭😭😭 Asian culture is not a culture of validation.
    Or at least my family.

  • @FitKaurTraining
    @FitKaurTraining 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    "When you grow up in a desi household, your feelings aren't really at the forefront of conversation" The hard truth right here. Talking about these things openly is how things will change. Thank you for your courage Farah.

  • @phenomenalswagx3
    @phenomenalswagx3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    “Like I’m broken and there’s something wrong with me as a woman.” I’ve never related more. Keep positive and I believe we will be blessed one day 💗

  • @shandrablount2922
    @shandrablount2922 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Never give up you a strong person. Don't think of the bad stuff or the things that make you feel afraid. Think of the things that will happen and make you feel happy think of that the stuff you can do. Somethings in life feels hard but beliving your self. Where's the confidence

  • @renalleanthony4432
    @renalleanthony4432 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im so sorry you've been going through so much. And to those who have been so rude and ugly towards you, are immature and don't understand the consequences it puts on the people they direct mean comments towards.
    You will grow and just remember, it doesn't necessarily mean you aren't a mum if the child isn't of you and your husband's blood. Being a mum means loving and nurturing a little one who needs that sort of support and connection from someone. You're so strong and I admire you so much for going through all of this. You are beautiful and so amazing. Keep on waking up each day and stay positive! You will get through this

  • @tenwaystowearit
    @tenwaystowearit 4 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    I’m crying with you. I can’t imagine how hard this must be.
    🙏🏾God please bless this beautiful, loving family with the child they desire so that they can share the love they have for each other. Lay your healing hands on both of them and bless them. Anything is possible through you Lord. Bless this family. 🙌🏾🙏🏾

    • @zanafrezi1909
      @zanafrezi1909 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤲🏻 𝒶𝓂𝑒𝑒𝓃

  • @thealvezfamily4639
    @thealvezfamily4639 4 ปีที่แล้ว +268

    God bless Farah only in the Lord we can find strength. He has a purpose for each one of us.

    • @Erikajmartinez78
      @Erikajmartinez78 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The AlvEz FAmily well said! We love you Farrah 💕

    • @girlyessencee5273
      @girlyessencee5273 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen 🙏. He does, he will make a way where there's seems to be no way.

  • @najibasiddiqi5306
    @najibasiddiqi5306 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aww...This brought tears to my eyes, it took me back to when i was in the exact same position as you are now! PLEASE don't lose hope! It took me 7 years to conceive, I had 2 rounds of IVF and both failed.
    I started to just accept being childless as my fate and then i got my miracle positive and now 9 years into my marriage i have a 10 month old baby girl.
    Don't lose hope! I'll keep you in my prayers ☺

  • @ruthadiku5639
    @ruthadiku5639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am here because I know Babygirl is pregnant. God bless you Farah.

  • @rrccdd
    @rrccdd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +400

    I am so over women judging women over every single little thing. “She’s too fat, too skinny, too pale, too dark, too tall, too short” and the “are you gonna keep having babies?” to the “why aren’t you having babies?” SO OVER IT! You get nothing out of ripping every other woman apart. It just shows how much ugliness you have inside.
    And to Farah and every other women out there dealing with this type of issue: my heart goes out to all of you.
    Life doesn’t always work the way we want it to and it sometimes seems unfair.
    I personally, am the type that has to be in control of everything but I have been forced many times to just let go. And those times where I have pushed and pushed and have no strength left is when I realize that I must let go and let God and the universe do its will.
    And not only letting go physically(of control) but also mentally and emotionally. Allowing myself to be open and accepting of whatever it is that God has for me...even if it’s not what I had planned or envisioned. Happiness sometimes ends up being not what we thought it’d look like.
    Farah, feel out every emotion. Don’t pay mind to other people’s opinions. Do whatever you can and what’s in your reach to achieve your goal but do it with a healthy mind, heart and soul.
    I hope you heal soon and wish you happiness.

    • @zahid66able
      @zahid66able 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow thank you, we need more people like in our lives

    • @Umbilal271
      @Umbilal271 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      dzcr people are rude

    • @karendrives970
      @karendrives970 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Often I suspect it's not women, but men making nasty comments.

  • @babblegammm_xox7533
    @babblegammm_xox7533 4 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    The fact that she had to write in the description box “pls be kind” fully broke me🥺we love you Farah and I pray Allah gives you strength and happiness. Ameen ❤️ you’re in my prayers.🤲🏻

    • @salwazaidi546
      @salwazaidi546 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      babblegammm _xox ameen

    • @Dymvnd
      @Dymvnd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ameen🤲🏼

  • @Sarahsultan41
    @Sarahsultan41 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm so happy for you.. Knowing you're pregnant! God bless you with tons of happiness and good health 😁

  • @nataliamejia9269
    @nataliamejia9269 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    GOD plans are perfect, and he's going to bless you with a family. Just have faith

  • @TheBSMF
    @TheBSMF 4 ปีที่แล้ว +535

    What kinda monsters are leaving comments like this? Other adult women are saying this to her, who raised some of y’all?

    • @shihtzulover2374
      @shihtzulover2374 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      They are probably jealous of her and so they attack with hate.

    • @rubyredtravels
      @rubyredtravels 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tiffany Marie I was just thinking exact that!

    • @elizabethdelapena3766
      @elizabethdelapena3766 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      They just want attention, and always why people are being so f***** mean all of us are still human , some with fame and some not some with money and some not life is that no one is perfect no one

    • @candicefandrei4922
      @candicefandrei4922 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I definitely agree with what you're saying people hide behind their screens and say terrible things about people that know. But I definitely appreciate the comments you're awesome I wish there were more people like you in the world. Take care and God-bless good bye.

    • @jhurbon12
      @jhurbon12 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Indeed they are monsters. I am so appalled that people can be so heartless!

  • @user-ug9hc6lt4s
    @user-ug9hc6lt4s 4 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    Hi everyone it's the holy month of ramadan right now and I urge you who are fasting/muslim please make dua for Farah and all couples who are struggling with infertility in the world. So many couples are dealing with this at the moment so please make prayers❤🙏🤲

  • @wondernessful
    @wondernessful 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I know what you’re going through, girl. Been there. BEEN THERE. Just never give up hope, faith, keep praying and believe in miracles. I sought fertility care. Both my OB and my fertility specialist though it couldn’t happen. And here I am pregnant with twins. Miracles do happen ❤️

  • @manojreka
    @manojreka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have gone through allllll this for 13yrs..... NO ONE must go through what i went through...Not even to any worst enemy...
    God finally bless me with a beautiful girl..
    I pray for every single women who desire children..
    @farah i will pray for you..
    Farah.. You WILL have kids.
    Not one not two but three.....
    Those who mocked you, will swallow their own tongue...
    Farah... I wont tell you not to cry..because i went through what you are living..
    Cry.. Close your room..Cry to god...talk to him..he will answer your prayer..
    My God is a Great God !!