The Conflicted Mindset of The Dumper (Podcast 816)

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 ธ.ค. 2024

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  • @sadiqua7
    @sadiqua7 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Guy left because he’s not financially where he wants to be, and we had a pregnancy scare, romantic attraction remains..it was a slow withdrawal that includes physical contact for months, he’s just avoidant and doesn’t know how to talk things out or be vulnerable, he thinks that’s weak. I don’t chase, but I do try to facilitate healthy conversation. I don’t know if I want him back since he refuses to even try to open his mouth and use his words. No fights were had. I would like to get him to have an honest conversation with me so I can understand him better. But since he won’t reply, that’s my answer. Done deal.

  • @VanlifeNoonan77
    @VanlifeNoonan77 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    after a year of no contact, I would not go back with her . maybe a hotel meet up. that’s all

  • @anthonywild9040
    @anthonywild9040 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    She dumped me, on a really pathetic reason, so after reaching out 2 times via text without response, I have decided to go NC. Now I don't want her back, just don't care. Im on a road to self improvment, with a positive mindset.

  • @jamesphiri3718
    @jamesphiri3718 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    She dumped me but at some point she reached out and went cold and broke no contact even though I do respond to her but I maintain no contact

    • @paulsell2438
      @paulsell2438 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same here

  • @TheHighwinder
    @TheHighwinder 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    There is no conflicted mindset if the dumper is an SA (securely attached).

  • @rolandking3376
    @rolandking3376 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lol she blocked me then moved to another state.

  • @aha2507
    @aha2507 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😊👍