Gaslighting & Systematic Dishonesty // 4 types of Gaslighting Experienced by Betrayed Partners

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ก.พ. 2025
  • Gaslighting and Systematic Dishonesty are just two of the main issues that partners of betrayal trauma experience with a sexual addictive/compulsive partner. Betrayal always includes secret keeping, lying and other forms of dishonesty. This webinar will explore the role reality manipulation plays in betrayal. We will describe the four types of gaslighting commonly experienced by betrayed partners and will identify the steps that lead out of the fog of gaslighting back to clarity.
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    The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life by Robyn Stern - www.amazon.com...
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ความคิดเห็น • 12

  • @wonder7798
    @wonder7798 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Gaslighting makes you feel crazy. Not just because of the apparent lying, but the fact that we thought our partner was mentally intact, come to find they dont grasp morality, decency, common sense and unaware of hypocritical double standards. The fact that the partner would rather appear immoral and hypocritical then choosing to either be honest or stop behaving in ways that pushes them to lie. I finally grasped that this is insanity.
    Lying is also false portrayal of self. Then the individual has no moral ground to stand upon, they become hypocrites, almost delusional in appearanceYou start thinking about the moments you were intimate, and how now knowing what you know that attaches to the false intimate connection

  • @wonder7798
    @wonder7798 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    We start to become investigators, damn good ones too. Documenting everything. We never knew we would become psychologist in the mean time. Lol Although completely toxic, through my discovery I found my true self, reflecting where I was in my beliefs, fears and past trauma. My entanglement with the NPD set me on the journey to my purpose. Now certified advocate i am able to educate others. Grateful!

  • @carolynwilliams6235
    @carolynwilliams6235 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It’s always she’s just a friend

  • @ann-margarett3789
    @ann-margarett3789 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I took pictures of the messages before I confronted him. So he could erase them, but I had the evidence on my phone.

  • @phoenixrising2231
    @phoenixrising2231 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I personally know and feel your pain ❣️🙏
    🥂 to both of our complete healing, restoration and freedom any and all forms of psychological abuse and often associated, trauma and❣️🎁🗝️🕊️

  • @ladylove34
    @ladylove34 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Amazing! I keep watching it to boost me up now that I've found out my husband has been doing me wrong for yearssss. Anyone know the link to the full episode?

  • @marlynbrown8671
    @marlynbrown8671 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you this information was very clear and helpful!

  • @aliacollao4689
    @aliacollao4689 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you.

  • @gigibtsurvivor3348
    @gigibtsurvivor3348 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This is a good characterization. However, believing everything is a lie is sometimes true. Sometimes the perpetrator is more than *just* a “sex Addict”. Sometimes there is no recovery or healing. Sometimes the perpetrator is an abuser and sexual predator, perhaps even personality disordered. Getting clarity about which is key. Otherwise, you are setting yourself up for a lifetime of deceit, abuse, and misery.

    • @bestdeals7295
      @bestdeals7295 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      how does one get clarify about that?

  • @victoriagrow30
    @victoriagrow30 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing and validating video!!!

  • @tearthangel373
    @tearthangel373 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    There is no hope with a Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist