What I wish I knew before asking for a Divorce / Co-parenting / What to expect

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  • @jennifersmart-l3v
    @jennifersmart-l3v 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +80

    This can’t be serious!! You’re still at 18.4k!! I am going to be shouting now “ you yes you reading this . Are you subscribe to the channel, did you like the video? Come on man let’s take her to a next level man”. I didn’t bother to shout ok

    • @kcoyclay
      @kcoyclay 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      You nuh! Is how people tan suh? They acting as if it’s a commitment. Why persons just watching and not signing up? Is suh dem hard wid dem subscribing finger? It must have rigamortus.

    • @trasiebanton7964
      @trasiebanton7964 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I have subscribed. Thanks Jennifer. My heart goes out for this young lady. I think she needs to upload videos more often.

    • @jennifersmart-l3v
      @jennifersmart-l3v 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@kcoyclay don’t ??

    • @marciawynter5155
      @marciawynter5155 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      😂😂😂😂 yes I am subscribed !

    • @_Natalia24
      @_Natalia24 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Just subscribed 🙈

  • @donnaromain7318
    @donnaromain7318 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

    Jay, for someone who is young as you have so much knowledge, is smart and intelligent, you also have a loving heart. God bless you.

  • @patriciarobinson5172
    @patriciarobinson5172 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    This is so helpful… actually great, mature talk … I’m proud of you 👏🏽 👏🏽🤗🤗

  • @jackiehart7293
    @jackiehart7293 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    Good advice young lady!! You are definitely beyond your years!! God got us👍🏽

  • @karenlamont8312
    @karenlamont8312 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    That man wasn't all the way into you.Thank God for your deliverance.Girl you're blooming.Keep strong. You're thriving .

    • @pkd6327
      @pkd6327 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      She was alone in that marriage.

    • @mariedames3240
      @mariedames3240 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      I believe he thought he was in love with this young girl he realized he was not because he kept cheating and I'm curious is he just into young black women.

    • @hildaaybar9042
      @hildaaybar9042 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Her ex husband was just weird,the way he acted when they were talking about separating, he was smiling,she is better off with out him, May God bless her & her little girl !

  • @shirleyjulal8869
    @shirleyjulal8869 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    Jay i agree with you. People just be spiteful and dont think of the child or children. Your knowledge is mature.

  • @kayp7412
    @kayp7412 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Kudos to you Jaye, you're handling this with so much maturity grace & professionalism inspite of everything ...proud of you girl 👋👋👋

  • @ev830
    @ev830 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Hi Jay...great content and no the video wasn't long. I was separated 3 years before we got divorced. My ex and I have a respectful relationship because we both very much love our children

  • @charmainelowrie-davis4023
    @charmainelowrie-davis4023 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Hi Jay! This is a well done video, so very informative. I'm happy you're able to reflect and learn from this experience. You are so right, I've heard from others that a divorce is like a death so there is a process of grief. I remember at the beginning, Tim did ask us to give you both some time to process what was happening and decide the way forward. I realize you were done, and as you said, you are highly emotional so may not have given yourself enough time to process everything before making a decision. At least you have learnt a lot from this experience and I hope this video will help many others who may face this type of decision. Please continue to lean and depend on God, give your life totally to Him and He WILL work everything out. You have really matured. God bless you and Neveah. I will not be one of those persons bashing Timothy. He made wrong decisions but God is still able to change and save him. Please continue to take the best care of Neveah and all the best as you coparent❤.❤❤🙏🏽

    • @animetycoon6419
      @animetycoon6419 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I did watch it and I think that it should get lots of views because of the information being provided for free lol, you are a true trooper

  • @ShakinaRiley-v1j
    @ShakinaRiley-v1j 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    I believe in everything you said Jaye. Even though I'm happily married. But you're saying all the right things ❤❤

  • @valeriehughes7221
    @valeriehughes7221 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Jaye don't worry everything will work out for you and your baby girl just keep the faith God is in control 🙏

  • @karenlamont8312
    @karenlamont8312 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I love how you picked up the pieces with the help of God you're moving forward. Love you and you precious baby girl Nevi.

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thanks so much, it hasn't been easy but I'm grateful for my strength ❤️

    • @normacoote9856
      @normacoote9856 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      So proud of you! You are going places!!! Proud of you…❤

  • @marlenehenry8961
    @marlenehenry8961 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    You are truly a smart and strong woman. The video wasn't long it was quite interesting and informative. May God continue to bless you and Nevie.

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks so much, I appreciate the kind words! 🙏🏾

  • @marvajoao278
    @marvajoao278 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Oh man, Jay you have been through the fire and came through with wisdom & resilience ❤

    • @IreneGulliver
      @IreneGulliver 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That’s so true.

  • @TheMav941
    @TheMav941 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    You’re such smart young lady. Wishing you all the best

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I appreciate that hun ❤️

  • @rosemariebrown3748
    @rosemariebrown3748 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Blessings in the New Year darling. God is good all the time.

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks dear same to you

  • @amyrowe-smith2821
    @amyrowe-smith2821 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Wise talk girl, don't give no reason to doubt you, stay on the right ❤

  • @Marelva100
    @Marelva100 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    Jordan I’m really proud of you. You are wise beyond your years.

  • @ANIT421RAM
    @ANIT421RAM 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I love your hair. It definitely suits you 😍

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much 😀

  • @minawilliams5552
    @minawilliams5552 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Well done keep going you’re doing a fantastic job with your life and taking care of Nevea iam so proud of you for you ❤❤❤

  • @AriAnnaMommyWorld
    @AriAnnaMommyWorld 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love and admire your maturity Jaye. The tips you gave are excellent and I hope those in need of it follows them.

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I appreciate your kind words. 🙏🏾

  • @cecileb.2207
    @cecileb.2207 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Love the jacket and Christmas shirt! Adorable! ❄️❄️❄️

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ikr it’s so cute, right❤️

  • @WendyRose876
    @WendyRose876 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So proud of the woman you’re becoming everyday ❤ and I love this hair on you

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Awhh thanks honey

  • @helenebanks2467
    @helenebanks2467 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Jaye you are extremely smart God bless and keep you in his loving care

  • @Marelva100
    @Marelva100 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I’m loving the hair Jaye

    • @pameliaphillips993
      @pameliaphillips993 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Well said Jaye so proud of you of how mature,smart,intelligent you're; love ,LOVE the way that you're handling your divorce. Girl you're young and this whole matter are just valid lessons for you going forward.My next Jamaican youtuber base in USA Alicia Kim that I follow recently went through divorce and she handled herself smartly just like you.Good luck to you Jaye and your sweet,smart dsughter Nevi🇯🇲🇯🇲❤❤👏👏Good luck to you also in future studies📚📚

    • @sandratomlinson2633
      @sandratomlinson2633 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Am so proud of you Jaye very interesting video blessings to you and Neveah ❤❤❤❤

    • @normacoote9856
      @normacoote9856 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Video is not too long…

  • @Limitlesskkz2022
    @Limitlesskkz2022 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Jaye you are NOT in your 20s. No way‼️ You are so mature. Nuff blessings ❤️🇯🇲

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ❤️❤️

  • @IreneGulliver
    @IreneGulliver 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That’s a great equipment to acquire. Thanks.So sorry to hear that the weather is affecting you.Good advice,Jaye.based on your experience.

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for watching dear

  • @cathysturry3670
    @cathysturry3670 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Very good advice I totally agree with you on all of this.

  • @yolandaarnold6046
    @yolandaarnold6046 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You know Jaye, God has a reason for everything that happens in our lives. Listening to you first shows how mature you are. Like I said before, seems like you've been here before. Such a mature woman in a young body. Your story has given so many women and maybe men too, food for thought. Your videos offer so much necessary and helpful advice. This is your purpose in life. God has touched you in so many ways. You are favored by God and He is using you to help others. You are such a beautiful and intelligent woman with a wealth of knowledge. You're an amazing mother AND you were an amazing wife and those attributes are who you are. That can never be taken away. You're also very humorous which is also good. Although I personally can't benefit from this video, I can share it if needed. Be blessed Jordanne. ❤

  • @murielmclean684
    @murielmclean684 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hi Jaye and Neveah big up yuh selves. Good Advice to Parènts who are going through similar situations .Blessings Girl ❤❤❤❤👍👍👍👍🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

  • @blessings7015
    @blessings7015 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Jaye you always have a Nice Personality and you are a Strong woman.God is able to keep you from falling, And i am very proud of you.God Bless you and Baby Girl,And you are Truly amazing.

  • @Shenayrose
    @Shenayrose 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    One of the smartest young lady I know
    Your maturity and growth is unmatched
    Blessings Affi flow Jaye God and God alone …
    You’re a superwoman 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤

  • @novelinperry4672
    @novelinperry4672 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Happy New Year Jay and Nevaeh. Blessings for 2025 love you both.

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks so much, wishing you a wonderful year too! ❤️

  • @nickeshaallwood431
    @nickeshaallwood431 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Aww! Jay I'm loving those hairstyle you have been sporting they look so good on you girl

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks so much

  • @tardiatomlinson
    @tardiatomlinson 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Hey hey hey, jaye you are looking lovely. And no, the video is not too long😅I always enjoy watching 😊❤keep up the good work and blessings to you and baby girl ❤😊

  • @cynthiathompson6830
    @cynthiathompson6830 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Jay I agreed with you

  • @nadinekerr6569
    @nadinekerr6569 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Amen and Amen Jay real talk 🙏🏼 God bless you and your family just leave it to time for real I'm here enjoying your video always

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I agree, time heals everything!❤️

  • @jannetmorais9382
    @jannetmorais9382 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You’re so on point Jaye

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ❤️❤️

  • @georgetucker6376
    @georgetucker6376 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Good afternoon!! Job well done!! That smile look good on you❤❤😂😂

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you!❤️❤️

  • @susanandfamilycookingtv
    @susanandfamilycookingtv 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    That is true,alot of people go into divorce, without thinking first what is really the meaning of divorce and what goes with divorce.They forget to think also of the kids,if divorce is okay for the kids and if divorce is the only option.Have done alot of videos about divorce and marriage counseling 🙏🏾🥰Try watch the videos 🥰 Big hug to cutie Nevi 🥰 beautiful family 🥰

  • @cecileb.2207
    @cecileb.2207 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Love your heart! 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ❤️❤️

  • @vivenegordon1024
    @vivenegordon1024 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    God bless you Jay .God’s word is powerful. Ephesians 3:20 God is able to do the exceedingly, he is that God 🙏 amen 🙏 ❤. God is really good to you ❤

  • @IngridWint
    @IngridWint 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hi Jaye this is my first time commenting but i always like your vlogs. I find your vlogs clean entertaining and healthy you are a class act keep doing you🎉.

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks so much, I’m glad you enjoy them! 🥰

  • @traceymckay3286
    @traceymckay3286 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love the new hair.Looks good on you.Gteat info for person who will be in such situation.

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I appreciate it! 🙏🏾

  • @jennifersmart-l3v
    @jennifersmart-l3v 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Hello!! Hello! Thanks for bringing me into your life. Thanks for sharing. Sound advice in regards to vengeance 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @mureenporter9981
    @mureenporter9981 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Jaye you have your facts right and you are honest.❤

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ❤️❤️

  • @clairehall8518
    @clairehall8518 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Well said and very good advice. However just be careful and have a very keen eye on him you left him, it's a shock to him, he played the fool with her passport, if he sees you getting on with life and he sees you are doing well you don't need him he will try to make life uneasy for you. Like I am not going to pick her up and seeing her. Be careful. Good on you for choosing to tell the people out there. Please do not feel guilty you gave him several chances and when you came out about what he did he did not show any remorse. He thought you would not leave him he just wanted to cheat and keep you as well.

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      You know the thing is I’ll have peace knowing i did my best, So for now I’ll just continue to do my part I only have control over myself . My priority is to make sure Nevy sees me not settling for any less than I deserve . Lol started out late but better late than never

    • @clairehall8518
      @clairehall8518 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @jayesparkle you are handling the divorce with maturity and knowledge continue with what you are doing. Perfect advice. Extremely nice to share with others. Nevi is extremely happy with you and in most divorces it's the mother who is stable and is there for the kids 100 percent of time. I am proud of you I read the messages when people were saying go back to Jamaica etc. that's surely not the best move. When you move perhaps ask nevi do you like the room etc. Regarding the move to apartment or house, write down pros and cons, yes house have garden to maintain and you may have to pay but it's the same for a gated community house you have to pay monthly maintenance etc. Noise level and neighbors and the schools and being with the ethnicity

    • @clairehall8518
      @clairehall8518 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Exactly better late than never. You are a perfect example of how to deal with what you have gone through your mom and family and friends should be proud of you I am sorry that you have to go through this situation at a young age, it's just as bad for older people. I saw cracks from very begining you continued to act maturity. You did the right thing, and with God and family and true friends in your life will continue to build you up and can rest in your pillow that you are doing the right thing. I am not a you tuber I am over fifty and tend to be motherly over you and nevi. Continue with what you are doing. Your relationship between you and your daughter reminds me of what mysrkfcand daughter has before passing away at 19;years old.​@@jayesparkle

  • @valeriehughes7221
    @valeriehughes7221 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Jaye everything you are saying is on point

  • @karenlamont8312
    @karenlamont8312 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Looking so nice and renewed .Shine ,girl Shine.

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I appreciate you, I'm trying😊

  • @marlynmorgan3658
    @marlynmorgan3658 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Very informative! Good job Jaye! 👍😊

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Thanks so much, I'm glad you found it helpful! 😊

  • @soniaabrahams2091
    @soniaabrahams2091 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Jay your hair is looking great

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks dear

  • @brendabryan5150
    @brendabryan5150 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You did well Jay very informative.

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much, I'm glad you found it helpful 😊

  • @charmainebennett2226
    @charmainebennett2226 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Hey hey hey proud of you girl

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks honey

  • @sansiascott2722
    @sansiascott2722 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Well said Jay

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ❤️❤️

  • @TraceyNelson-e4q
    @TraceyNelson-e4q 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi Jaye ❤ these are some very useful information thanks.

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm glad it's helpful, you're welcome!💕

  • @taneishawilson8995
    @taneishawilson8995 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I remember i commented not to leave the house until you speak with a lawyer I've been through a divorce here so i know .

  • @maxinesimmonds5085
    @maxinesimmonds5085 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Strong young lady u talk ✔️💯 love ur vlogs 🙏❤️

  • @siebergirl23
    @siebergirl23 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Moving away with the child is considered kidnapping in most, if not all the states. Jaye, you’re correct

  • @rubyparris8456
    @rubyparris8456 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Jaye you are well knowledgeable for your age. Kudos to you and much blessings 🙏🙏🙏❤❤

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you! You too!

  • @Grace4DA
    @Grace4DA 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great advice ❤

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thanks for watching 😊

  • @brendabryan5150
    @brendabryan5150 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    But Jay question what if you have to move to somewhere for safety

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      many resources are available for vulnerable persons

  • @gailm.4324
    @gailm.4324 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Jaye you are still very young….with regards to you not wanting spousal support…etc…I hope you at least discuss it with a professional….as we live we learn….i pray for peace and happiness for you and Nevi💕💕💕🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @goldgirl8771
      @goldgirl8771 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      She should have taken it bank it and buy a house later

    • @goldgirl8771
      @goldgirl8771 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      He is very disrespectful

    • @gailm.4324
      @gailm.4324 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@goldgirl8771 my sister is like Jaye… I am different… but I do hope… she rely on professionals to make certain decisions… just like there are things she is finding out..she could have done differently in the divorce proceedings… it’s good to arm yourself with professional information…

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Absolutely hun , have to use professionals to guide us through it

  • @sadie4289
    @sadie4289 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thanks hun.

  • @VeroniqueBeckford-Scott
    @VeroniqueBeckford-Scott 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great job Jaye

  • @c.G7133
    @c.G7133 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It's good to see you again ❤

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much for stopping by! ❤️

  • @ronabrown9917
    @ronabrown9917 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My first comment, and please support her by watching the commercial also, that's one of the way she can make some money from yutube. Thanks all.

  • @Resilientqueen-c1b
    @Resilientqueen-c1b 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Your hair is beautiful ❤️

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thanks hun, I'm loving this look!

    • @Resilientqueen-c1b
      @Resilientqueen-c1b 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @jayesparkle nice 💯

  • @marciamiller5392
    @marciamiller5392 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Love your hair. ❤

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      thanks honey

  • @Resilientqueen-c1b
    @Resilientqueen-c1b 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Was very interesting.

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @marciabrown8330
    @marciabrown8330 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Time is the master ❤❤

  • @sharonalphonso1058
    @sharonalphonso1058 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amen Jay!tell them.

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ❤️❤️

  • @karenlamont8312
    @karenlamont8312 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love your hair, what color is it?

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      More of a 350

  • @sugardiamond.
    @sugardiamond. 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hi Jordanne 💜💜💜 Blessings

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Blessings hun

  • @amari2714
    @amari2714 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Girl, i don't want to say anything, but u look much better and young from I left your husband

    • @mauvalynlynch1287
      @mauvalynlynch1287 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      and much happier

    • @ccurley2562
      @ccurley2562 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Absolutely I so agree with your comment.

  • @andriacampbell3604
    @andriacampbell3604 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Well said Jaye...❤

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ❤️❤️

  • @paulinebowen4681
    @paulinebowen4681 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    He doesn’t seem like he is too interested you can get alimony for a while you don’t have to keep getting it you have to think if you’re working and you get sick or you’re child how are the bills going to pay you are still young and you have a lot to learn don’t forget he was a lot older than you don’t give too much of advantage make sure you get child support for that child don’t act because you are working you can do everything that is child also daycare is expensive food clothing trips why should be covering everything it takes two to tango don’t let pride get in your way take it from a older person that been there wishing you all the best for you and daughter ❤

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I have faith it will all work out for her best interest everybody’s playing their part for her ❤️

  • @dahliafoster6576
    @dahliafoster6576 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Good advice. Also, if you move with the child, apart from the law, that child might blame/resent you for the separation from the other parent.

  • @ingareid8680
    @ingareid8680 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I pray that God's blessings overflow in your life as you celebrate another year of His goodness and faithfulness.

  • @sharonclarke5371
    @sharonclarke5371 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Don't ever think about the cheater the decision was made when they cheated.

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I know Im just an empath so its hard sometimes

    • @shirleyjulal8869
      @shirleyjulal8869 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@jayesparkle Jaye everyone does wrong, at weight your situation and deal how you want or need to.. .Your advice is spot on.

  • @blossombrown2546
    @blossombrown2546 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Very good information

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks! ❤️

  • @mariedames3240
    @mariedames3240 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    No matter how good you co-parent it is always hard on the child❤

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I totally agree

  • @charmainebennett2226
    @charmainebennett2226 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Loving heart ❤️

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ❤️❤️

  • @sharonalphonso1058
    @sharonalphonso1058 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Jay did u ever visit an ENT doctor? Sounds like u have a sinus problem. U always sound stuffy. You really should go or is it allergies?

  • @tracey-anntreadwell4709
    @tracey-anntreadwell4709 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    For real, girl! God and time! Sit back and watch Father God work.🙌🏾🙏🏾

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Amen ❤️

  • @genuinecathy2947
    @genuinecathy2947 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Your marriage had some red flags. One of which was the moment he told you that Nevi would know when she was 18 years old. That is a giant red flag.

  • @vernabrown7369
    @vernabrown7369 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Where l live and America the Cheater loose house Your daughter need accomadation the cheater needs to provide for Neve

  • @jannetmorais9382
    @jannetmorais9382 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Jaye now you need a battery starter. They come together in one unit

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Omg thanks I never thought of getting one ❤️

    • @jannetmorais9382
      @jannetmorais9382 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes they are selling at a discount on Amazon

  • @sweetbrown2256
    @sweetbrown2256 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @ANIT421RAM
    @ANIT421RAM 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Jaye, my darling ♥️ I'd like to wish you and your family an amazingly blessed and favoured New Year.
    I'm blown away with your level of confidence, common sense, level- headedness, and maturity. I'm thankful that God is in the mix of all that has been happening 🙏🏼 🙌. It's true knowledge is key and it's for our own good to be able to allow wisdom to prevail.
    I also agree that SAME should be used when it comes to children. So we'll down on having a set routine for Neveah.
    Thank you for sharing, and you were very tactful. Bless you for that.
    I learnt quite a lot from this video.
    You're a marvellous mom and home maker. I wish you all the very best as you get prepared for your next chapter....home searching and moving.
    Much love and God bless you 💖 😊 🙏🏼 ❤️

  • @marvaroberts9307
    @marvaroberts9307 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi jay😇🙏❤

    • @marvaroberts9307
      @marvaroberts9307 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Happynewyear jay n neve😇🙏❤🫂🇯🇲🇺🇲

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Heyyy hun ❤️

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ❤️❤️

  • @JulianRichards5825
    @JulianRichards5825 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Looking beautiful ❤❤

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you 😊

  • @cynthiathompson6830
    @cynthiathompson6830 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Amen

  • @jestinabrown9072
    @jestinabrown9072 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hey honey remember with everything you do seek God, you are smart and wise.

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      absolutely

  • @pearlinejackson3932
    @pearlinejackson3932 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hey beautiful ❤❤

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You're so sweet! 💕

  • @Heritha-ju7pn
    @Heritha-ju7pn 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Please watch the ads guys ❤

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ❤️❤️yess

  • @collettereynolds9944
    @collettereynolds9944 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Heyyy

  • @stacyannhibbert9929
    @stacyannhibbert9929 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

  • @Resilientqueen-c1b
    @Resilientqueen-c1b 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That's very nice ❤❤❤❤

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ❤️❤️

  • @genuinecathy2947
    @genuinecathy2947 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    If the man is violent, in the home, you have to leave the home with the child. Every circumstance is different.

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      That’s why I made sure to mention to go the correct route and go to a Domestic Violence Center where there are resources for victims , from there they’ll assist with putting a protective order in place, that’s better than running off with the child because if there’s no proof that there was ever violence in the home that can be used against the parent if the abuser challenges the parent and then can be forced to share custody especially if there’s no report ever made , it will be a he said she said situation

  • @chocolatechip8170
    @chocolatechip8170 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    A my girl jaye sweet soh. Love love the hair hon looks really nice. All the best for 2025 and beyond ❤❤❤❤ kiss nevi for me.

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      lol I’m trying hun❤️😊 thanks hun wishing you a wonderful new year too