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  • @servanthart5556
    @servanthart5556 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This issue is all over African universities. Absolutely no accountability from lecturers. Makes me sick. Thank you Ann for sharing so boldly. You’re my role model and hero.

  • @dr.obinnaajunwa9596
    @dr.obinnaajunwa9596 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    ...Thanks for the exposé Dr Ann. It takes courage to tell such. However, the 2.2 assumptions people have are very wrong, as exams are not always the true tests of knowledge. Many people had 2.2s and went on to be great in life, even as spectacular academics. True to the facts, the 1st class and 2.1s get better opportunities. However, an undergraduate study program shows how teachable a student is, not necessarily how intelligent. Many independent minded students do not do well in the conventional university study process...It was based on stuff like this I went the whole hog, bagged my Doctorate and currently work as a research scientist/university lecturer. Many of my students who were average in their undergraduate days with the right nudge, eventually go on to be successful in many fields even in academics. These kinds of students make you know how good you really are as a teacher/influencer. They really challenge you...
    On the other hand, the sexual assaults are really disheartening, and some of us have vowed to turn the marks, even if it is one step at a time. Academics and sexual favours are totally incongruous. With a more positive mindset, things will gradually improve. Thanks for telling your story. Cheers!

  • @Maria-kg1nh
    @Maria-kg1nh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So sorry this happened to you. Praying to God for your healing. God's love and blessings!!!

  • @papayaw3726
    @papayaw3726 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank God I stumbled on your videos and channel today. I'm inspired and as a man, I am emotional right now having watched about 5 of your videos. I had a 2:2 and have always felt I wasn't "good enough", I love research because I'm inquisitive. I've spent almost 8 years of my life working in the field though I have a strong desire to further my education in a research area. I have started taking that step and I thank God for you. Your videos are just the best upon all the videos I've come across. Thank you Dr. Ann.

  • @juliaocholi7263
    @juliaocholi7263 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is so heartbreaking. I have stories for days. Thank you for using your platform to share your experience and put a spotlight on these issues.

  • @madhumitaathaley551
    @madhumitaathaley551 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank You Dr. Ann for sharing your story ! You went through real traumatising stuff as a CHILD to get your education. I realise now the difference between my self-made problems and REAL problems that people face when your environment is rigged against you. I think you are brave to share your story. I am glad i found your channel.

  • @aminaobafemi8511
    @aminaobafemi8511 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    WOW at 13:38 I cried with you Ann. Just wow. May God save us women.

  • @rygy82
    @rygy82 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much, Ann! This was such a powerful account. It makes me so angry that people like these professors you had seem to fall so easily into positions of power with open access to many, many potential victims.

  • @sybillelegitime4709
    @sybillelegitime4709 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's right, BELIEVE SURVIVORS OF ASSAULT. Thank you so much for bravely sharing this with us. You are a true role model!

  • @mogekwuchukwukasamuel4462
    @mogekwuchukwukasamuel4462 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Ann, everything you said on this video is so accurate. It's like we went through the same thing. Plus we were in the same fellowship as well. Our experiences are pretty similar, I graduated by a hair's breath after having an extra year but when I moved to Canada I breezed through a post degree diploma and earned 2 Masters degrees in the space of 3years. This goes to show that the educational system in ABU and Nigeria needs to be restructured. Learning conditions are terrible and ineffective

  • @Julesadafor
    @Julesadafor 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I can relate to all of these, attending public universities in Nigeria can be really traumatizing, for someone who really likes to learn I saw myself always saying "school Na scam" after university, but just going through the process of my postgraduate application makes me so enthusiastic about learning again and I'm so grateful for that. I think I was in primary 2/3 in 2004 ASUU was not a problem for me then 🤣

  • @temiloluwajohnson
    @temiloluwajohnson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hey Ann! I love you.
    I am in 200 level in ABU, zaria. The time i have spent in this school has been the most draining. I am from lagos (state of origin and residence) and till date, i don't know why i chose to go the school 😂
    I can totally relate with your story. ABU keeps admitting students that their lecture class can't contain. Every class i had in 100level was filled with torture. Pushing, fighting, pulling and all of that. Times i finally get to gain access to the class, i am tired and gasping for breath. I am asthmatic. Sighs. When you finally get into the class, one's unable to hear a thing from the lecturer. It is almost like a waste of time. In that same not conducive class, a lecturer gives tests that determines the good part of one's result. It is serious! I am on a 2.1 at the moment(3.72) The weather, the hustle and bustle for the class, every of these reasons affects my health. During tests or exams, the crowd alone is enough to make me pass out. I am a very reserved person. Sighs. A lecturer almost assaulted me too. Lecturers are evil in public schools. Thanks for sharing your story. I can't wait to leave this school, the whole system is a mess! Thank you for sharing your story, i'm a huge fan. I follow you on twitter too.

  • @rozmalodi1645
    @rozmalodi1645 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's soooo sad that you had to go through this! On top of that, you had to continue taking his classes after being assaulted! It must have been like living in hell for you. It just... sucks. But it is indeed the reality in the developing countries. Victims are punished while the perpetrators thrive. Things in my country are eerily similar. I know this has scarred you for life, but I hope are feeling better now. My heart goes out to you and all of his victims ❣

  • @anisiobinzubechi
    @anisiobinzubechi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So sorry you had to go through that..Glad everything later worked out somehow.

  • @erioluwaoluwadiran4860
    @erioluwaoluwadiran4860 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    It took a lot for you to share this Dr Ann. Thank you for sharing this. Its very encouraging...You're an inspiration to us all!

  • @cheryludomessien
    @cheryludomessien 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing your story. It's 90% same as my husband recounting his own experience at Uni, very terrible. It's sad how the system works, we just continue to live each day hoping for the best.

  • @aminaobafemi8511
    @aminaobafemi8511 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I LOVE YOU ANN. Thank you for your courage.

  • @elenakoval3101
    @elenakoval3101 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So said! 😳 I have never thought it could be with students all over in your country

  • @beingadaora9478
    @beingadaora9478 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Also, you're such a good narrator, Ann. Your stories are never boring! Lol

  • @samuelogah4895
    @samuelogah4895 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so sorry you had to go through that. Congratulations on thriving despite that, and yes there is a kind of stinginess/hoarding of knowledge in Nigerian institutions. This isn't just about assignments but also in research by staff, I think it's toxic and needs to stop

  • @Eniolakiite
    @Eniolakiite 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So sorry you passed through that. Glad you pulled through and here you are stronger👍👍👍

    • @annondemand6607
      @annondemand6607  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you. It was a crazy experience.

  • @abutusundaypeter2464
    @abutusundaypeter2464 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Dr Ann for sharing your story. You really did turn things around. Many could not have survived such an ordeal. Those are some salient issues facing girl child education in Nigeria.
    You are just stellar, keep going ma'am. God bless you. Keep breaking all the bounds..!!!

  • @successimamun5129
    @successimamun5129 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    We need a good number of lecturers in the system who are morally right to be able to curb these nuisance. If as an individual lecturer you try to defend student rights, you will be a target. So we need the right people in the education sector.

  • @christchickboss6389
    @christchickboss6389 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, this is sad and heartbreaking. With everything, you turn out great. Thank God for victory in your life.

  • @noshintasnimzaman1266
    @noshintasnimzaman1266 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sorry for your experience, Ma'am. It happens not only in Nigeria but also in other countries in different ways. You are so strong. God bless you.

  • @christerfaakuse
    @christerfaakuse 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ann...wow....had no idea...ABU was such a hard school..
    I dont think I know anyone that didnt have one issue or the other...im proud of how much youve gone ahead to accomplish though...more power to you👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

  • @oladelemayowa12
    @oladelemayowa12 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! So sorry for what you passed through.. it's just sad that a lot of 'em predators get away with these things.

  • @adavirukudawud1359
    @adavirukudawud1359 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing your story. It must have been very traumatizing for you during those periods. I can't even begin to imagine how difficult it will be for a girl to cope with this kinds of abuses while keeping fit for learning at the same time. I am glad you moved on despite all this. Congratulations that it didn't stop you from achieving your potentials.

    • @annondemand6607
      @annondemand6607  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It was a really hard thing to experience. Thank you for your kind words

    • @adavirukudawud1359
      @adavirukudawud1359 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@annondemand6607 I finished from ABU too. While something like this didn't happen to me probably because I was a boy then, I could however relate with some of your experiences on struggling to enter some classes.

  • @IamJayneAdams
    @IamJayneAdams 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I came all the way from Twitter. Your story reminded me of what happened to me while I was in university, Very relatable.

  • @jeremiahsmarketing
    @jeremiahsmarketing 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like the fact that you share your story in all honesty with so much passion 😊

  • @gelinelo
    @gelinelo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Chai doc. I feel you. 😪it is not easy being a student in Nigeria. I had some encounter too in my undergrad days in Uni, and yes finished with 2:2...excelling in my job as a special needs instructor 💃. Devil used them but I escaped. Some lecturers are sooooo frustrated and want to dispose it on students. Shameful😬

  • @azariadecan6710
    @azariadecan6710 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    We have almost similar academic struggle, I call my experience grass to grace.

  • @george-cliffordopara6336
    @george-cliffordopara6336 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's very unfortunate you had to go through these horrible experiences. So sorry Dr!

  • @Flourish_today
    @Flourish_today 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Oh Lord!I'm so sorry that you had to go through such abuse by a university professor. Did you ever talk to anyone about this? follow another Nigerian youtuber and, she recently spoke about the issue or rape in Nigeria and how no one is being charged. It's very frustrating that women have to go through this and not even get the help they need.
    God knows how smart you are ans you were robbed of your university credits. I'm so glad you are were you are now.

    • @juliaocholi7263
      @juliaocholi7263 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Im reading your comment and crying because I have gone through so much in the hands of Lecturers in Nigeria. Many of them are scum. Thank you for you empathy.

    • @annondemand6607
      @annondemand6607  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's really really bad. I never really processed what happened but I will make sure to not shove those feelings down anymore.

    • @Flourish_today
      @Flourish_today 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@annondemand6607 Talking about it is the beginning of the healing process.

    • @Flourish_today
      @Flourish_today 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@juliaocholi7263 Oh dear me! this sounds like Uganda where girls suffer silently in the hands of lecturers. I hope you find healing. I will be praying for you on a serious note.

  • @stephanieneyle1751
    @stephanieneyle1751 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for sharing your story, you are not alone.

  • @TheGirlababy
    @TheGirlababy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I normally don’t comment on videos but I’m so sorry you had to go through this. This affects the education system in Nigeria as a whole. It really sad people in high up places get away with this and are still getting away with this. Love from 🇳🇬

    • @annondemand6607
      @annondemand6607  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its sad but I am happy we are beginning to speak up. Love from Dallas!

  • @nnadilambert731
    @nnadilambert731 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing your story. You are so strong and I admire that and also thanks for being who you are

  • @ezekielirewole5977
    @ezekielirewole5977 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing your experience, Dr. You are a source of encouragement to many, especially me.

  • @Storiesbyauntytemi
    @Storiesbyauntytemi 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, Amina! I graduated from Abu and I must say that I had a very similar experience with you, and it was with my project supervisor. Guess what? I finished with a 3.49 and I got a c in his course and a c in my project!

  • @uchechukwukenechukwu2817
    @uchechukwukenechukwu2817 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg! Nigerian Public schools lecturers
    😭
    Thank you Dr Ann for sharing. Your story really resonates so well.

    • @aminaobafemi8511
      @aminaobafemi8511 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Resonates with me too. WOW! Just imagine all the opportunities so many women have lost because of sexual harassment and fear of reporting.

  • @Elejoweweblog_NG
    @Elejoweweblog_NG 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Am so sorry about this .i cant imagine how many girls would be going through this ..but u should av mentioned this to ur dad..am sure he would have done something...

  • @naomimatthews4834
    @naomimatthews4834 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ur story is amazing. I pray they see this video. Honestly, Nigerian lecturers especially those in the public universities need overhauling. I had one that never wore underwear and was always flashing condoms around. Very disgusting!!

  • @loveejiofor7769
    @loveejiofor7769 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was powerful Ann! Love from NYC!

  • @carlettejarrett8394
    @carlettejarrett8394 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so sorry this happened to you, Ann.

  • @ajalajessica3601
    @ajalajessica3601 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for your honesty

  • @coolbanana7
    @coolbanana7 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Ann,
    Your story really inspires me. The way you fought through your circumstances is commendable. I was reminded of you when I watched the movie Citation on Netflix after watching this video. I'd recommend you to watch it. I'd be thrilled if you respond.

  • @LetLucia
    @LetLucia 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aww, thanks for sharing love. I'm so sorry you went through that. Sending you hugs and kisses 😘 ❤ 💖

  • @winifredodunoku
    @winifredodunoku 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Hi Dr Ann. Your story is inspiring because you didn't allow the low grade to define you.
    Thanks for sharing your story.
    Could you please drop your twitter handle? Thanks

  • @isieluruphina4513
    @isieluruphina4513 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Dr Ann for posting.

  • @fatimahlawal2284
    @fatimahlawal2284 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG, thank you for sharing your experience

  • @maryonowan5276
    @maryonowan5276 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing, your story is so relatable.

  • @sheriabubakar2859
    @sheriabubakar2859 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The two sets being combined did happen. It was due to an ASUU strike that prevented students from graduating in either 2002 or 2003 (no longer sure). This led to an automatic repeat for all the levels and a backlog of admissions.

    • @sheriabubakar2859
      @sheriabubakar2859 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Okay, it wasn't an automatic repeat per se. Let's just say, students spent about two years for that academic session.

  • @KadiON
    @KadiON 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Here in Nigeria, Lecturers have the power and no one can speak out, those that speak out becomes scape goats.
    Students are so stingy with knowledge. It is just heartbreaking what happens in Nigeria universities.

  • @lindachizoba8596
    @lindachizoba8596 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks doc for this video i also graduated with a 2.2 and is been hell finding schools that offers scholarships with such GPA, pls i need your help

  • @oshinowojeremiah7001
    @oshinowojeremiah7001 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks 🙏🏻 in anticipation

  • @josiahufono
    @josiahufono 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Welcome back!

  • @shyglo879
    @shyglo879 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video!

  • @Julesadafor
    @Julesadafor 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God bless your parents

  • @pearlicious6911
    @pearlicious6911 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i share similar occurrences with you but i graduated with a 2.32, still searching for schools to apply to for my MSc.

  • @seunsd
    @seunsd 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I went through a lot in ABU Zaria. I got my 2:1 though but I should have had a much better grade if the treatment was better sincerely. I was depressed throughout my five years of studies and I can't even explain what really happened to me there because they are too much to mention but I can confirm that the worst lecturer I ever met there was rumoured to have no master's degree which I believe was true at that time because I personally saw his name on the MSC admission list at that time and funny enough, he hated me personally for some absurd reasons and he made sure he gave me bad grades in most of his courses from 200 level to 500 level. I still get mad at him whenever I look at my transcript. How can you guarantee students that half of the class will fail your course and then you make sure it happens in the first and second semesters and you still repeat that every year while the Department says nothing about it? ASSU treats students the way the government of Nigeria treats them and with what I saw in the system, I wonder if they are really fighting for the students as they claim. We cannot continue like this.

  • @fallofmanbrand
    @fallofmanbrand 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    nice video it was really entertaining

  • @fallofmanbrand
    @fallofmanbrand 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    cool video I loved it

  • @fadekemifosudo1427
    @fadekemifosudo1427 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So relatable !

  • @fitnessgem8838
    @fitnessgem8838 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Second to comment!!! Havent even watched but that first 10 seconds...girrrllll what the heck?

  • @AdeyemiAlabi
    @AdeyemiAlabi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    @Ann One day, I'll will share my story on how I also finished with a 2:2 from FUTA but studying a PhD at Imperial College London as a scholar. My 100-300level experience wasn't too different from yours, I was young and indeed that was my first experience in a public school.
    On Sex for grades, it was not until my 500level that I started to hear about such stories. Being a Guy I didn't have a personal experience though.

    • @collinsnwanna7312
      @collinsnwanna7312 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sir I would like to hear from you, please can I get your email?

    • @koobae6584
      @koobae6584 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice

  • @jeremiahsmarketing
    @jeremiahsmarketing 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cute writing, gen gen 😅😅😅

  • @adeyemoadetowubo4292
    @adeyemoadetowubo4292 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You should name those lecturers to shame them

  • @moneyinvestingwithvandi7727
    @moneyinvestingwithvandi7727 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Salut, just bump on your channel

  • @jeremiahsmarketing
    @jeremiahsmarketing 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm sorry about what happened.

  • @emmanuellaamara1876
    @emmanuellaamara1876 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ofoka Emmanuella Amara
    Biotechnology
    Interested in biotechnology
    Nigeria
    Thanks for the advice

  • @graceolarewaju7143
    @graceolarewaju7143 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ann I commend your courage, harassment isn't anything funny ...

  • @yemisijaiyeoba7125
    @yemisijaiyeoba7125 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Abu is usually like that

  • @umarabdulwahab3776
    @umarabdulwahab3776 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    What did you study in ABUzaria?

  • @emmanuelchimezieb7726
    @emmanuelchimezieb7726 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing.
    So sorry you went through those experiences.
    I was punished for speaking up on an issue back then in uni.
    I was held with the only course I failed in uni, a GS course that I had to write for 4times before they could give me a D on a spill over year.
    Nigerian students suffer much in the hands of their lecturers.

    • @annondemand6607
      @annondemand6607  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow I am so sorry you went through that!

  • @sheriabubakar2859
    @sheriabubakar2859 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are really pretty, though :).

  • @toluwanimiajike960
    @toluwanimiajike960 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow. I wonder if those predator lecturers are still lecturing. If they are somebody should really do something about that.

    • @annondemand6607
      @annondemand6607  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope so. And yes, the last time I checked they were still there :(

  • @ineyemildred9445
    @ineyemildred9445 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First comment! 🤗🤗🤗

  • @simbulele.mdleleni
    @simbulele.mdleleni 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Triggerrrrred 😭

    • @Zainabkemi
      @Zainabkemi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry! Hugsies!

  • @yusufmusa8067
    @yusufmusa8067 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Annn

  • @jeremiahsmarketing
    @jeremiahsmarketing 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    International organisations 😅😅😂.....rubbish

  • @Elejoweweblog_NG
    @Elejoweweblog_NG 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How can ur mum be a lecture and not do something..am even angry at u right now...u needed to say it loud..please

  • @isieluruphina4513
    @isieluruphina4513 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Dr Ann for posting.