How To Know if You Have Childhood Trauma
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ก.พ. 2025
- Most people incorrectly assume that childhood trauma is only created by the typical devastating mistreatment.
In todays video I help you understand that in fact, it is created by something every parent does and has done. In other words, all of us have been through childhood trauma.
The goal of this video is to bring that truth into reality and consciousness. This is critical because currently, everyone is searching for solutions to their life but looking in the wrong place.
All the answers start in our childhood experiences and this fact must be accepted and faced for us to live the happy, healthy and safe lives we deserve.
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You where picked for this Kenny....you explain it so .....real. I m so grateful for you to share your wisdom and faults with me....to better myself, my relations.... One of a kind....you are. So imperfect..... perfectly.
Thank you I’m very happy to hear that it helps you
Hello dear Kenny!
I just was looking for a video about trauma until I saw this video that you have created; I wished to tell you that I learned something new from you and I will hopefully try my best to become a much better parent to my unborn future children!
My sincere appreciation. 🙏
Something I came across in early therapy, some 40 years ago, was an event that happened when I was a 2 year old toddler; I'm 74 years old now. It was the 1,000th time that I was told, "No, no, Jeanne, no no!" combined with a smack on my hands or butt or face. It continued, in different ways, for 20 more years.
“How do you know if you have childhood trauma?” …. Are you breathing?… Kenny, thank you for addressing this issue for those of us who are new to this topic and for those of us who need a reminder (me) that we still have work to do.
You’re welcome 😁
It's my life mission to stop the Pattern.
I feel the same way!!
Same!
I determined to never have kids by age 10. I would NOT treat someone like this, and knew even then, that I would, because I had no other patterns. I paid dearly for this, but, I STOPPED it.
Mine too. I focus on it everyday. My heart breaks for my children that I have caused them so much trauma. But I have hope in the process of repair and I look forward to moments of breakthrough. I just want them to know they’re loved so deeply even if I don’t show it some times.
Thank YOU!.. for helping US realise this.
As a maturing adult we are called to growth and sanctification. God doesn’t want you to stay in dysfunction. He wants you healed and whole. Their is a life of joy despite past unfortunate circumstances. I have learned to yield to Gods grace. Thank you for sharing how we are all perfectly imperfect parents, doing the best we can with the lot in life we have been given. The greatest love chapter in the Bible in 1 Corinthians 13 says this… When I was a child, I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child. But when I grew up, I put away childish things. Now we see things imperfectly, like puzzling reflections in a mirror, but then we will see everything with perfect clarity. All I know now is partial and incomplete, but then I will know everything completely, just as God now knows me completely.
Hello “Woman at the Well.” In response to some of the content, the following has come to my mind. I’m struggling to reconcile this with some of this content, and I’d love the hear your thoughts on it (Preface: these thoughts might come across a bit scattered. As previously illustrated, I’m still untangling some things. Also, I don’t spell out the Divine Name. That’s why any reference to “G-d” will look like a typo):
- Christ was fully G-d and fully human. As Christ was fully human, he was the fullest (perfect) expression of what it means to be human. Therefore, to become more like Christ is to more fully live into your humanity. Becoming more like Christ calls us to love like Christ. He came to serve. Christlike love gives itself away, freely. Perfect love gives itself away. At the Last Supper, even the person Jesus knew would betray him had a seat at the table. Christ’s compassion “suffers with.” It makes itself near to the broken. Christlike love makes others’ burdens its own.
- We are called to surrender everything at the foot of the Cross, including our desires. We are called to surrender to the will of the Father, just like Christ yielded to the will of the Father.
- The writings of C. S. Lewis come to mind. In ‘The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe,’ Aslan is the character that represents G-d. He is described in the following manner: “He isn’t safe. But he’s good.” Surrendering to the Father might not keep you safe, but He is good. G-d’s goodness is better than safety.
-In it’s authenticity, all of creation exists to magnify G-d. In our native-most authenticity, our definitive created purpose is communion with the Trinity. Claiming that authenticity will make a claim on you. It will shape you. Surrendering to that claim yields freedom. Continually surrendering to that claim delivers you into your truest authenticity.
Again, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this. I’m still learning how to view this content in light of faith.
@@marymargaret1750 hello, I am sorry I am just seeing your note today. I love how deeply you consider our obligation to surrender to our Father. I love my Messianic brothers and sisters. I will share my humble two cents. In the case of emotionally abusive or ongoing relationship dysfunction, I would look to passages and see how Jesus handled these difficult people. In particular the Pharisees, though knowledgeable and outwardly do good, they were always looking to set a trap for Jesus…find some fault, twist His words, accuse Him of violating the law. The way Jesus handled them is He spoke plainly to them, even had a few choice names, and He had firm boundaries because their hearts were not inclined to the truth, and they were not surrendered or self reflecting on their motives. They were deceived by their knowledge and works. While Judas was allowed a seat at the table and in Jesus inner circle, he was particularly chosen to fulfill a pivotal role in the redemption of mankind. Love does cover a multitude of sins, but this is forbearing with each other’s weaknesses, and overlooking an offense. This does not apply to those whose treatment of others is habitually sinful. Here is a few passages that may help in light of dealing with difficult people. 2 Timothy 3: 1-8, Ephesians 5:5-11, 1 Cor. 5:9-13, 2 Thess. 3:6-15. I too am always learning and growing and our sanctification is a lifelong process. Their are some online Christian ministries that deal with various abuses and I can certainly point to towards them if you like.
@@womanatthewell9603 Thank you for your gracious response. I’ll certainly give this some consideration. I might reach back out later for further discussion.
I work with my 26 year old daughter now and for the past year and a half. We have candid conversations about everything. This video will help me see some of the trauma, hopefully and fix it. Thank you. I know how to see it now, I think.
You’re welcome
Hes amazing. I wish i could get a good therapist like he is. I'm always suffering in pain as there is no way out. And I'm not wealthy enough to sfford consistsnt therepy that i need
Thank you Kenny, I have healed as parent , I went to celebrate recovery, I enjoy watching your videos. I have raised my children difference then how I was raised. Yes, I get told from my family that's not how to raise your children. I know growing up that the way I was raised by my parents wasn't the right way when I was a teenager. I knew I was set apart. I am a single mother, I did married a narcissist and it wasn't easy to get out of my marriage but I was brave to get a divorce from my x husband. I been single for over ten years. I am a Christian. God has changed me alot and still is changing me. The best thing I ever did was accept Jesus as my Savior. God is Good All the Time
Damn.... mind= blown. Good stuff!!!!!
wow huge eye opener for me
Well Said!
It’d be interesting to see research on how/if premature birth affects the trauma of birth
I have a similar interest regarding c-sections and breech births...very interesting
10 minutes in he talks about doing the dishes before coloring one of the things that we do in our house is say "well let's handle our responsibilities first and then we can play" so what is wrong with this?
Thank you 🥹
Happy to help!
But do u think parents owe their kids their 24/7? If yes how do we teach kids to respect our time alone
Wow all I got to say is wow
Then you got parents who have children then send them to boarding school. It just doesn't make sense. I take my kids to and from school, if they want to watch a film we watch a film, and they choose. The older they get the less time they want to spend time with their parents. You won't get that time back.
Well said
This is the ancient teaching of the Christian Church called Original Sin. Pope Benedict XVI wrote about it in a book about Creation. Amazing stuff.
But do u think parents owe their kids their 24/7? If yes how do we teach kids to respect our time alone
I would say it’s all about how you handle it with the kid. If you can handle it in a way so kid doesn’t feel abandoned then you’re on the right track.