Kehlani - Valentine's Day (Shameful) [Prod. by The Rascals]

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  • @fedtfupche4937
    @fedtfupche4937 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4797

    Heartbreak is a terrible thing, but damn it creates some amazing music.

  • @victoriajoy9672
    @victoriajoy9672 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2605

    Holy fuck did this come at a perfect time for anyone else??? 😳😳

  • @najis1795
    @najis1795 4 ปีที่แล้ว +663

    “My heart was so pure and I’m never ashamed of my love” 🥺

    • @momobaby143
      @momobaby143 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I really FELT dat 🥺💕

    • @ThatGirlOnYourTV
      @ThatGirlOnYourTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I felt that too

    • @marcusbangemu6041
      @marcusbangemu6041 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Best part of the song for me ❤😢she has nothing to be ashamed about

  • @tiannamonae6495
    @tiannamonae6495 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4622

    “The immature me hopes the world sees who you are” 😩

    • @rosemosqueda6624
      @rosemosqueda6624 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Tianna Monae I felt that part 💯

    • @tiannamonae6495
      @tiannamonae6495 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Everyone else will always be outsiders looking in. The ones who will ever feel how we feel. Are the ones who’s been through it. I haven’t had a song on repeat in so long.

    • @tyannadunn843
      @tyannadunn843 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Now that’s a lyric honey

    • @ty2hated
      @ty2hated 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      i knoww right that part frkin got mee

    • @shakiraturner8132
      @shakiraturner8132 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Favorite part 😩😫

  • @chrissybbeauty
    @chrissybbeauty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1619

    She just knows how to articulate wtf we be feeling sometimes and that’s why I love her. Why tf is she not bigger 😩♥️

    • @chrissybbeauty
      @chrissybbeauty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      HOMIE LB lol I know I freaked out I love her so much 😩♥️🙌🏽

    • @shahadalqurashi9414
      @shahadalqurashi9414 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      and that’s on being a Pisces moon. She feels everything so deeply :(

    • @chrissybbeauty
      @chrissybbeauty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Shahad Alqurashi I would know about feeling things deeply I have a Scorpio sun

    • @HoneyBLUclue
      @HoneyBLUclue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm a fan of putting people in their feelings! If you love her...check out my sounds. Get ready to be in your FEELS! th-cam.com/video/z39in9TuomI/w-d-xo.html

    • @kinghype821
      @kinghype821 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yo she’s just talking about her situation 😂

  • @aaliyahrenee95
    @aaliyahrenee95 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1713

    “I’m bigger than you, so I can’t meet you where you are” wow I felt that 😫

    • @Jr-bk7ix
      @Jr-bk7ix 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      This better not be you

    • @rai_kwon
      @rai_kwon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Kehlani be like big dick energy

    • @saigethealchemist1376
      @saigethealchemist1376 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      When youre a Queen, you dont entertain peasant energy

    • @saraa5381
      @saraa5381 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @hi-xl4um
    @hi-xl4um 4 ปีที่แล้ว +626

    Kehlani is just so talented 😩

  • @landonsamilton3958
    @landonsamilton3958 4 ปีที่แล้ว +665

    Kehlani is hands down the best artist right now.‼️

    • @jade6387
      @jade6387 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Landon Samilton agreed. Queen of the bay!

    • @brandixxl
      @brandixxl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Top comment

    • @ifrahjama2215
      @ifrahjama2215 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yuppp👏💪😍

    • @jewlzn7130
      @jewlzn7130 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Err no! Absolutely not. Where are her hits? Shes got a beautiful voice, but nowhere near the best artist. That's bs

    • @sweetsexysavage_5641
      @sweetsexysavage_5641 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@jewlzn7130 shut up 🤦🏾‍♀️ it's always a hater .... The music speak for itself

  • @thatgirldash8386
    @thatgirldash8386 4 ปีที่แล้ว +786

    When she said “You called me crazy but it was my intuition” I FELT THAT😭😭😭

  • @veronica6058
    @veronica6058 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1395

    On a serious note, thank you Kehlani for opening up ur heart and expressing ur feelings so publicly (like u always do), for maintaining a pure heart in such a cruel world 🙏🏽You done been thru a lot and are still standing on both feet. That’s something that u should be proud of. You don’t understand how much ur music helps us fans. Our situations may not be the same, but the feeling is definitely felt thru ur music. I send lots of prayers ur way and I hope u shine brighter than ever ☀️ You are coming in full effect 2020 and there’s nothing that can stop u. Remain true to yourself, and remember we love you..forever and always ❤️

    • @ifrahjama2215
      @ifrahjama2215 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      👏👏👏

    • @Vanessa-cf6my
      @Vanessa-cf6my 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly!

    • @lovelife9011
      @lovelife9011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yah love fake relationships lol nice song though Kehlani. Fine as hell

    • @Nani_dasani
      @Nani_dasani 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Veronica PERIODT I really felt that and I agree with you Kehlani is the best and she shows that threw her music and she inspires a lot of us

  • @latonyaransom8668
    @latonyaransom8668 4 ปีที่แล้ว +456

    Kehlani music is like therapy when your having HARD time in your life and also in relationships too. I ❤ U KEHLANI SO MUCH!

    • @babygirl3615
      @babygirl3615 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yessss honey🗣🗣

    • @kendrawilliams198
      @kendrawilliams198 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fr I love that .

    • @latonyaransom8668
      @latonyaransom8668 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@babygirl3615 Yes boo! Kehlani nail this song to a T... 🗣🗣🗣PERIOD honey!

    • @babygirl3615
      @babygirl3615 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@latonyaransom8668 Yesss honey! She nailed it as usual and I felt every word of it... Period honey‼🗣❤🎶

    • @latonyaransom8668
      @latonyaransom8668 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@babygirl3615 Yesss! Especially the ending part of the song was on fire honey! 💪❤💯✔🔥

  • @ygoniekabongo
    @ygoniekabongo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1494

    Kehlani: *opens her mouth*
    me: OMG I LOVE THIS SONG!😭

  • @roset8098
    @roset8098 4 ปีที่แล้ว +316

    I love how she just frequently releases singles when she feels like it I love her so much ❤️

  • @Chantellem28
    @Chantellem28 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2331

    “You called me crazy but it was my intuition” EVERYYYYYYY girl has experienced the man she’s singing about I swear

    • @TiaJoy1372
      @TiaJoy1372 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yep😢

    • @lifegoeson1007
      @lifegoeson1007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Chantelle Mpofu 😓

    • @chadbryan4553
      @chadbryan4553 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nope

    • @lilyiliopoulos7460
      @lilyiliopoulos7460 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Summer Princess ok.. good for you

    • @brioche8123
      @brioche8123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Genesis you’re being smug about the fact that you haven’t been in an emotionally abusive relationship... congrats, want a cookie?

  • @b6byboy
    @b6byboy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    2 years later, still on repeat. Everything Kehlani touches is healing. I LOVE YOUUUU LANI 🥺

  • @edithsanchez8761
    @edithsanchez8761 4 ปีที่แล้ว +616

    “They say God gives his toughest battles to his strongest soldiers and what doesn't kill you makes you stronger” you got this. ❤️ stay positive

  • @ty2hated
    @ty2hated 4 ปีที่แล้ว +447

    "the immature me hopes the world sees who you are" felt that one a whole new level damn kehlani you frikin did that like on everything you did that.

    • @Thequeenpre
      @Thequeenpre 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Tyler Sistrunk “facade only gets you so far.” She snapped.

  • @aaronarrieta1845
    @aaronarrieta1845 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1254

    Torn between crying for help
    And not letting them see me sweat
    But it’s certain shit I can’t forget
    I won’t get over it easy
    Shit makes me queasy
    I am making amends with myself
    Forgiving me for loving you
    I took a risk loving loudly
    Defended you proudly
    Ignored all the signs, yeah it’s true
    And, the immature me wishes that I could make it known
    That you should be left alone
    Don’t deserve words or thoughts from me
    I can go heal on my own
    And, the immature me hopes the world sees just who you are
    A facade only gets you so far
    And I’m bigger than you, so I can’t meet you where you are
    I’d say your name but you don’t deserve recognition
    You played the hero but you really are the villain
    There ain’t a bone in me that wants to spare your feelings
    You called me crazy, but it was my intuition
    Used me for status and the fame and recognition
    It’s fucking crazy what they do for recognition
    I’d say your name but you don’t deserve recognition
    I’d say your name but I won’t, uh
    I got to give myself credit for loving as hard as I did
    I helped you fight your addiction and change your whole life
    Just to find myself played in the end
    Ain’t no regrets cause I’m proud that my heart was so pure
    And I’m never ashamed of my love
    Now I’m finding strength in the fact that your nothing to me
    And I know the things I am above
    And, the immature me wishes I could just runaway
    To somewhere I still feel sane
    ‘Cause truth is I’ve been fucking lost since that very day
    And, really I’m wishing that I could just catch a break
    It’s been hell every couple days
    And now I’m here broken expected to carry the weight
    I’d say your name but you don’t deserve recognition
    You played the hero but you really are the villain
    There ain’t a bone in me that wants to spare your feelings
    You called me crazy, but it was my intuition
    Used me for status and the fame and recognition
    It’s fucking crazy what they do for recognition
    I’d say your name but you don’t deserve recognition
    I’d say your name but I won’t, uh
    That’s just you (That’s just you)
    I always land on my feet
    Bounce back getting clean and neat
    Wish I didn’t check your text when you was drunk sleep
    I’ve seen everything I didn’t want to see
    That I needed to see
    That I needed it to be
    Hope you live happily ever after with the bitch
    Fly to France wine and crackers honeymoon with the bitch
    I hope you fuck around and have the son you wanted with the bitch
    You might be so amazed after all of this (So)
    Out on the table your friends and your family, even your label
    Everyone love me, damn its so shameful
    I kept you stable, you should be grateful
    Ain’t find out sooner that you was unfaithful
    Damn you’re so shameful
    So fucking shameful
    Damn you’re so… fucking ungrateful

    • @arijay2461
      @arijay2461 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      WITH THE BiTcH

    • @janellem.5582
      @janellem.5582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      smh felt every word... its been hell every couple days

    • @kobekold
      @kobekold 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😉😉😉😉

    • @oroporro1882
      @oroporro1882 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Word

  • @DOOBISOFT
    @DOOBISOFT 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3446

    “Wish I didn’t check your texts when you was drunk sleep I seen everything I didn’t want to see, that I NEEDED to SEE, that I Needed to be”

    • @shirleybutler2623
      @shirleybutler2623 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      OMG Sadie that part just hit the ball out the ballpark 4SURE!!!

    • @dianev.5487
      @dianev.5487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Yes that hit hard

    • @ifrahjama2215
      @ifrahjama2215 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      😭😭😭

    • @lisetterenee3087
      @lisetterenee3087 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      My heart 🥺♥️

    • @jenniferb.1021
      @jenniferb.1021 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yea that one sucks..forsue 😔...

  • @idfcleslie
    @idfcleslie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +557

    YG didn’t deserve you either way. You’re way up top with the kind of strength you have Kehlani.

    • @iamshawnwilliam
      @iamshawnwilliam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂😂 Nigga stop it

    • @doms5755
      @doms5755 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Y'all need to chill. Didn't she cheat on kyrie?

    • @idfcleslie
      @idfcleslie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Cactus Jack CapStar? Bruv why you so pressed for? I just put my opinion on Kehlani out there. You don’t gotta be all negative.

    • @idfcleslie
      @idfcleslie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shawn William Just my opinion man, that’s all.

    • @doms5755
      @doms5755 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Idfc leslie but where was this energy when she did kyrie bad?

  • @honestdugotti4300
    @honestdugotti4300 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3171

    Somebody go get Bryson. We need a feature

  • @victoriajoy9672
    @victoriajoy9672 4 ปีที่แล้ว +282

    I-
    have never clicked so fast in my life
    this kehlani >>> slapppppsss so hard ❤️💋

  • @kissablekadian
    @kissablekadian 4 ปีที่แล้ว +671

    “Really I’m wishing that I could just catch a break” I felt that

    • @scottgrigio5543
      @scottgrigio5543 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      babygirlkay_kay line definitely was real af

    • @kissablekadian
      @kissablekadian 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Scott Grigio this whole song hits like a tornado

  • @BrandyW855
    @BrandyW855 4 ปีที่แล้ว +349

    “There ain’t a bone in me that wants to spare your feelings” Whoo definitely feel this verse!!!

  • @juliam1738
    @juliam1738 4 ปีที่แล้ว +555

    "You played the hero but you really are the villian" 💔 Manipulation

    • @Thequeenpre
      @Thequeenpre 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Julia Rivas *pisces 😭😭

    • @showyouthewhey5742
      @showyouthewhey5742 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      pre119 my sis just said they deserve a category of their own😭😭 me, my mom & my sis all been w Pisces idk what’s up with them dudes😩

    • @melaninprincess.5237
      @melaninprincess.5237 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      pre119 what the fuck does your zodiac sign gotta do w anything

    • @HoneyBLUclue
      @HoneyBLUclue 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm a fan of putting people in their feelings! If you love her...check out my sounds. Get ready to be in your FEELS! th-cam.com/video/z39in9TuomI/w-d-xo.html

    • @MsLove-sq6km
      @MsLove-sq6km 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@showyouthewhey5742 Pisces men tend to be emotionally immature and manipulative. It's A sick game they play.

  • @LexusAngeli
    @LexusAngeli 4 ปีที่แล้ว +364

    “ i kept you stable, you should be grateful “ tssss 😩!!

    • @Redapachy
      @Redapachy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lexus Angeli 🔥🔥🌊🎶👍👎? th-cam.com/video/f5KaiGc3PpQ/w-d-xo.html

    • @kiantesamuels6261
      @kiantesamuels6261 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mannnnn I got a chill thru my body when she said that

    • @LexusAngeli
      @LexusAngeli 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      kiante samuels HONESTLY !!

    • @marilynb1913
      @marilynb1913 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      !!!!!

  • @sihle_moye
    @sihle_moye 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1078

    It’s crazy how many women relate so much to this... we’ve all had a “him”

    • @sihle_moye
      @sihle_moye 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🔥🔥🔥

    • @bryankelly335
      @bryankelly335 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Us guys all had a "her" too though

    • @flipk6486
      @flipk6486 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Gay ppl too

    • @sihle_moye
      @sihle_moye 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bryan Kelly yeah...

    • @sihle_moye
      @sihle_moye 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      flipk yeah I guess we suck as humans.

  • @sunshinesunshine2714
    @sunshinesunshine2714 4 ปีที่แล้ว +661

    To know your WORTH as a WOMAN is so powerful! Know your WORTH ladies!! . Never settle , never take a excuse over the truth. Whats there to see is there to SEE for a reason.. When a person shows you their true colors pay attention!!

    • @jc_80
      @jc_80 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💯

    • @tylorwilke2188
      @tylorwilke2188 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I start off showing mine

    • @Jabree
      @Jabree 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Know your worth as a person

    • @abdulelahalkhaibari4350
      @abdulelahalkhaibari4350 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      What the fuck being a woman has to do with it? You should know your worth as a person. Gender doesn't matter.

    • @shmackbunz1917
      @shmackbunz1917 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@abdulelahalkhaibari4350 Women will always feel like they're special or that they are "worth" more just because they are women. Entitlement is in female nature

  • @JenCouture716
    @JenCouture716 4 ปีที่แล้ว +304

    I gotta give myself credit for loving as hard as I did. I helped you fight your addiction and change your whole life, just to find myself played in the end. Ain’t no regrets cause I’m proud that my heart was so pure and I’m never ashamed of my love. Now I’m finding strength in the fact that you’re nothing to me and I know the things I’m above.

    • @ilianam453
      @ilianam453 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💔💔💔💔 fucked me up!

    • @TiaJoy1372
      @TiaJoy1372 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hits hard

    • @MF_YOUTUBE
      @MF_YOUTUBE 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Who the fuxk are you talking to?

    • @mattiexo
      @mattiexo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Alex Bardsley you so dumb it’s the lyrics at 1:35. Did you even listen to the song?

    • @MF_YOUTUBE
      @MF_YOUTUBE 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mattie absolutely not.

  • @amf_2171
    @amf_2171 4 ปีที่แล้ว +357

    My favorite part is when the beat switches up and I feel like it's a 2013 Drake track where you know the best verse has yet to come.

    • @laikonicole1983
      @laikonicole1983 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      The distortion of the beat in the transition is DEFINITELY drake & 40's signature move.

    • @sweetnikki94
      @sweetnikki94 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Facts!! I thought I was the only one, well said.

    • @jademathea3406
      @jademathea3406 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ashley Faria SAME!!!

    • @QueenBluntdanae
      @QueenBluntdanae 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts

    • @jeromekudah4980
      @jeromekudah4980 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts

  • @Raiderperson1322
    @Raiderperson1322 4 ปีที่แล้ว +297

    I’d say your name but you don’t deserve recognition 👏

  • @ObeyMySupremacyx3
    @ObeyMySupremacyx3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3092

    “I’d say your name but you don’t deserve recognition”

    • @scottgrigio5543
      @scottgrigio5543 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      That line hit

    • @sontiyo7113
      @sontiyo7113 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      YG knows

    • @kellybrown4926
      @kellybrown4926 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ...and I'm bigger than you so,I can't meet you where you are..."

  • @faproductions1357
    @faproductions1357 4 ปีที่แล้ว +264

    “Ain’t no regrets cuz I’m proud that my heart was so pure and I’m never ashamed of my love “ damn this has to be the perfect line.Having a pure heart is essential no meaning behind what you feel just pure love it’s crazy tho not everyone can be like this not everyone can say that there heart is pure

  • @Snoopii27
    @Snoopii27 4 ปีที่แล้ว +379

    “Ain’t no regrets cuz I’m proud that my heart was so pure and I’m never ashamed of my love” 💖😪😔

    • @lexigarcia1975
      @lexigarcia1975 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Snoopii27 AMÉN, I FELT THAT!!! SHES A QUEEN, GOD BLESS HER SOUL 🙏🏼💙👑

    • @Snoopii27
      @Snoopii27 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lexi Garcia 🙌🏼 she definitely is a queen 💕 may she live forever 😩

  • @princessxmya5689
    @princessxmya5689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    I can listen to Kehlani all day..KEHLANI never DISSAPOINTS‼️🗣️💯

    • @nivea8120
      @nivea8120 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Princess X Mya factss💫

    • @princessxmya5689
      @princessxmya5689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nivea8120 she needs alot more credit

  • @corinuk
    @corinuk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    Here are the lyrics:
    [Verse 1]
    Torn between crying for help
    And not lettin' them see me sweat
    But it's certain shit I can't forget
    I won't get over it easy, shit makes me queasy
    I am making amends with myself
    Forgiving me for loving you
    I took a risk loving loudly, defended you proudly
    Ignored all the signs, yeah, it's true
    [Pre-Chorus]
    And the immature me wishes that I could make it known
    That you should be left alone
    Don't deserve words or thoughts from me
    I can go heal on my own
    And the immature me hopes the world sees just who you are, oh
    A facade only gets you so far
    And I'm bigger than you, so I can't meet you where you are
    [Chorus]
    I'd say your name but you don't deserve recognition
    You played the hero but you really are the villain
    There ain't a bone in me that wants to spare your feelin's
    You called me crazy, but it was my intuition
    Used me for status, and the fame, and recognition
    It's fuckin' crazy what they do for recognition
    I'd say your name but you don't deserve recognition
    I'd say your name but I won't, uh
    [Verse 2]
    I got to give myself credit for loving as hard as I did
    I helped you fight your addiction and change your whole life
    Just to find myself played in the end
    Ain't no regrets cause I'm proud that my heart was so pure
    And I'm never ashamed of my love
    Now I'm finding strength in the fact that you're nothing to me
    And I know the things I am above
    [Pre-Chorus]
    And the immature me wishes I could just run away (Ah, ah, ah)
    To somewhere I still feel sane
    'Cause truth is I've been fuckin' lost since that very day
    And really I'm wishing that I could just catch a break (Ah, ah, ah)
    It's been Hell every couple days (Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh)
    And now, I'm here broken, expected to carry the weight
    [Chorus]
    I'd say your name but you don't deserve recognition (Nah)
    You played the hero but you really are the villain
    There ain't a bone in me that wants to spare your feelings (Ah)
    You called me crazy, but it was my intuition (Ah)
    Used me for status and the fame and recognition (Ah)
    It's fucking crazy what they do for recognition (Ooh)
    I'd say your name but you don't deserve recognition
    I'd say your name but I won't, uh
    [Post-Chorus]
    That's just you (Deserve recognition)
    [Bridge]
    I always land on my feet
    Bounce back game clean and neat (Ah, woah-woah, ah)
    Wish I didn't check your text when you was drunk 'sleep
    I've seen everything that I ain't wanna see
    That I needed to see, that I needed to be
    Hope you live happily ever after with the bitch (Bitch), uh
    Fly to France, wine and crackers, honeymoonin' with the bitch
    Hope you fuck around and have the son you wanted with the bitch
    [Outro]
    Y'all might be soulmates after all of this, so
    Out on the table your friends and your family, even your label
    Everyone love me, damn, it's so shameful
    I kept you stable, you should be grateful
    I ain’t find out sooner that you was unfaithful
    Damn, you so shameful
    So fucking shameful
    Damn, you're so, uh, fucking ungrateful, uh

    • @Akisaxoxo
      @Akisaxoxo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      corina ty u deserve more likes

  • @xobabygirl
    @xobabygirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +440

    songs like these hurt deeply in your soul when you can relate....

    • @hazelbaby10
      @hazelbaby10 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same somehow I started to tear up

    • @bavelicious
      @bavelicious 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts

    • @HoneyBLUclue
      @HoneyBLUclue 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm a fan of putting people in their feelings! If you love her...check out my sounds. Get ready to be in your FEELS! th-cam.com/video/z39in9TuomI/w-d-xo.html

  • @bbwprincesss7348
    @bbwprincesss7348 4 ปีที่แล้ว +323

    I deadass just hung up the phone to hear this 😍😍

    • @sultanalketbi9862
      @sultanalketbi9862 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wtf 😂😂😭😭

    • @ifrahjama2215
      @ifrahjama2215 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Haha priorities

    • @HoneyBLUclue
      @HoneyBLUclue 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm a fan of putting people in their feelings! If you love her...check out my sounds. Get ready to be in your FEELS! th-cam.com/video/lWHJiAf611A/w-d-xo.html

  • @katherinegarcia3185
    @katherinegarcia3185 4 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    Today I broke up with boyfriend who I thought was my everything. Coincidentally the tile of this song is also his birthday and everything about this song speaks volumes to me. I don't know how I'm going to get through this and writing a comment is something I have never done but reading everyone's comments and listening to this masterpiece has been bringing me comfort. Thank you Kehlani.

    • @dangerouswomen8978
      @dangerouswomen8978 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hi sis..how have you been

    • @KweenOfHeartz-
      @KweenOfHeartz- 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Time heals all wounds, keep your head up 👑💜

    • @katherinegarcia3185
      @katherinegarcia3185 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      dangerous women still trying find myself 3 months later it’s been a rollercoaster but trying to heal and find self love

    • @katherinegarcia3185
      @katherinegarcia3185 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      KweenOfHeartz- thank you!!!

    • @yuh4454
      @yuh4454 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@katherinegarcia3185 hey sis we’re here for you months later❤️

  • @eddiebernal9170
    @eddiebernal9170 4 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    This is hitting so damn hard

  • @alexialiburd2011
    @alexialiburd2011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    Her songs hits differently when you can relate. And equally therapeutic

    • @HoneyBLUclue
      @HoneyBLUclue 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm a fan of putting people in their feelings! If you love her...check out my sounds. Get ready to be in your FEELS! th-cam.com/video/lWHJiAf611A/w-d-xo.html

  • @mariaaugusta4103
    @mariaaugusta4103 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    This is my favorite of kehlani's bc it's so raw you can feel it in every word she sings. Her lyrical talent is just on another level she never disappoints but in this one she hit hard I have bruises in my heart girl...

  • @francinymena9931
    @francinymena9931 4 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    I love how she releases shit straight from the heart right away and have it be amazing. Some of these other artists could neverrrrr

  • @riannaextras7697
    @riannaextras7697 4 ปีที่แล้ว +303

    Need this on apple music immedately. This song is speaking volumesss

  • @marazellman4611
    @marazellman4611 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Kehlani, he never deserved you. Now you are stronger for it💜

  • @rellywhite6655
    @rellywhite6655 4 ปีที่แล้ว +264

    Pain brings growth, with growth brings knowledge.

    • @ifrahjama2215
      @ifrahjama2215 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      👏👏👏👏

    • @RiahIvy
      @RiahIvy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      A message 🙌🏾

    • @HoneyBLUclue
      @HoneyBLUclue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts

  • @SKYYLOVE
    @SKYYLOVE 4 ปีที่แล้ว +341

    *you called me crazy, but it was my intuition*

    • @brendakagyekum92
      @brendakagyekum92 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I remember you from AG333 channel yesterday, big up soul sis!!! "We recognize them by them fruits"

    • @SKYYLOVE
      @SKYYLOVE 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Brenda K Agyekum *haha aww* 🖤

  • @danniellechastity101
    @danniellechastity101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +433

    No bc when she said: “I always land on my feet. Bounce back game clean,indeed!” I FELT THAAAT!!!!!
    edit: stfu I’m now realizing what she said. RELAX 🤣🌚

  • @22purpleayam22
    @22purpleayam22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    lani i hope you’re doing okay😔

  • @КристинаБожиновска
    @КристинаБожиновска 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    :LYRICS:
    Torn between crying for help
    And not letting them see me sweat
    But it's certain shit I can't forget
    I won't get over it easy
    Shit makes me queasy
    I am making amends with myself
    Forgiving me for loving you
    I took a risk loving loudly
    Defended you proudly
    Ignored all the signs, yeah it's true
    And, the immature me wishes that I could make it known
    That you should be left alone
    Don't deserve words or thoughts from me
    I can go heal on my own
    And, the immature me hopes the world sees just who you are
    A facade only gets you so far
    And I'm bigger than you, so I can't meet you where you are
    I'd say your name but you don't deserve recognition
    You played the hero but you really are the villain
    There ain't a bone in me that wants to spare your feelings
    You called me crazy, but it was my intuition
    Used me for status and the fame and recognition
    It's fucking crazy what they do for recognition
    I'd say your name but you don't deserve recognition
    I'd say your name but I won't, uh
    I got to give myself credit for loving as hard as I did
    I helped you fight your addiction and change your whole life
    Just to find myself played in the end
    Ain't got regrets cause I'm proud that my heart was so pure
    And I'm never ashamed of my love
    Now I'm finding strength in the fact that your nothing to me
    And I know the things I am above
    And, the immature me wishes I could just runaway
    To somewhere I still feel sane
    'Cause truth is I've been fucking lost since that very day
    And, really I'm wishing that I could just catch a break
    It's been hell every couple days
    And now I'm here broken expected to carry the weight
    I'd say your name but you don't deserve recognition
    You played the hero but you really are the villain
    There ain't a bone in me that wants to spare your feelings
    You called me crazy, but it was my intuition
    Used me for status and the fame and recognition
    It's fucking crazy what they do for recognition
    I'd say your name but you don't deserve recognition
    I'd say your name but I won't, uh
    That's just you (That's just you)
    I always land on my feet
    Bounce back getting clean and neat
    Wish I didn't check your text when you was drunk sleep
    I've seen everything I didn't want to see
    That I needed to see
    That I needed it to be
    Hope you live happily ever after with the bitch
    Fly to France wine and crackers honeymoon with the bitch
    I hope you fuck around and have the son you wanted with the bitch
    You might be so amazed after all of this (So)
    Out on the table your friends and your family, even your label
    Everyone love me, damn its so shameful
    I kept you stable, you should be grateful
    Ain't find out sooner that you was unfaithful
    Damn you're so shameful
    So fucking shameful
    Damn you're so... fucking ungrateful

    • @lovealways_alexa
      @lovealways_alexa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      satan These words just cut right through your heart 💔 Praying for Kehlani’s peace of mind, complete healing, strength, and the love that she truly deserves-one that’s nurturing, faithful, and withstanding the test of time.

  • @janets.1505
    @janets.1505 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    no words can describe how much you’ve impacted me kehlani. you are the woman i want to be when i grow up. when i listen to your songs, i feel the emotions you convey and the message you want everyone to hear. whatever you’re going through right now, remember that it’s temporary. you don’t deserve absolutely anyone like that. you’ll get through this beautiful, we’ll be here for you. i love you so much

  • @foxymama20789
    @foxymama20789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    Kehlani brings out the locked up emotions and makes you deal with them right then and now

  • @najmaj
    @najmaj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +822

    3:23.....definitely don't miss those days of having to play detective just to get the truth and confirm to myself that I wasn't "crazy" like how they try to make you seem for being suspicious. Smh

    • @lelaariana4367
      @lelaariana4367 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      najmaj my favorite part 😂🔥

    • @Ohohkaybye
      @Ohohkaybye 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sheshh

    • @melaninunicorn531
      @melaninunicorn531 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maaaan 😫

    • @preetikaushal799
      @preetikaushal799 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Going thru this .. I myself started questioning my sanity ..dunno why they lie

    • @najmaj
      @najmaj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@preetikaushal799 yeah, it will literally have you almost thinking you're the crazy one. Smh....Idk why they just can't tell the truth.

  • @madelinereyes3631
    @madelinereyes3631 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    "My heart was so pure and I'm never ashamed of my love" 😩 That was so beautiful, considering so many people like to pretend they don't care after they get their feelings hurt. But you loved with all you had and that really shined through your song 😭

  • @sorryicantcomprehendtheflu7634
    @sorryicantcomprehendtheflu7634 4 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    “Playing the hero but you really are the villain”
    💯
    Real talk
    Gotta trust that intuition and blatent facts
    Dope track Kehlani 💛✨

  • @Hedoneo0
    @Hedoneo0 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Love this queen!
    She can't make a bad song

  • @user-ux3vw6mb4k
    @user-ux3vw6mb4k 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    This is honestly one of her best songs.

  • @johnnywishbone3573
    @johnnywishbone3573 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Kehlani we're patiently waiting but it's hard AF!! 💯

  • @ariannasanchez4307
    @ariannasanchez4307 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2102

    I’m 3 months pregnant. A couple of days ago my boyfriend (the father of my child) left me for someone else after everything I had done for him, trying to get him to move forward and be someone better, I was there when he had nothing and lost his job, he was very irresponsible, so I pushed and insisted for him to be so much better. He got tired of me trying so hard so he decided to leave me for another girl. So this song and most of her songs have been helping cope with the loss, because I thought he was the love of my life...

    • @harmonyjean7570
      @harmonyjean7570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      Arianna Sanchez if you ever need to talk you can message me. I went through the same. My insta is blossombunzz

    • @Monce08
      @Monce08 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Damn 😔

    • @ariannasanchez4307
      @ariannasanchez4307 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Harmony Jean thank you 🙏🏼

    • @ariannasanchez4307
      @ariannasanchez4307 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Monchis Vlog yeah, it’s hard. I found out through Facebook. Two days before He came home took some of his stuff kissed me, hugged me and promised to be back..

    • @ailabolmoreira5136
      @ailabolmoreira5136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      Fuck him!! hold your head up high and stay strong for yourself and your baby. The greatest blessing are only now coming your way 🙏🏾 xx

  • @tejchi3751
    @tejchi3751 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    "I'm never ashamed of my love" Needed to hear this ❤️

  • @sneakness9086
    @sneakness9086 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    "Ain't got no regrets cause my heart was so pure. And I'm never ashamed of my love" 💜😌

    • @rarabeautyvlogs6160
      @rarabeautyvlogs6160 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sneakness I felt that a little too much ☹️

  • @nashantigerrald3095
    @nashantigerrald3095 4 ปีที่แล้ว +248

    I had to run that shit back it hit so different😭

    • @arlettepryor2206
      @arlettepryor2206 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ongg

    • @HoneyBLUclue
      @HoneyBLUclue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm a fan of putting people in their feelings! If you love her...check out my sounds. Get ready to be in your FEELS! th-cam.com/video/z39in9TuomI/w-d-xo.html

    • @dikagardiner8941
      @dikagardiner8941 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts mannn

  • @destaniepignataro9393
    @destaniepignataro9393 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    "you called me crazy, but it was my intuition" YESSS, GIRL

  • @shawn8836
    @shawn8836 4 ปีที่แล้ว +329

    “The immature me wishes I can just run away to somewhere and still feel sane” I felt this so much

    • @Safa-vy8xy
      @Safa-vy8xy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      probably talking about an ex

    • @shawn8836
      @shawn8836 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Samiha Malik yea she talking about YG

    • @caitlynjones45
      @caitlynjones45 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dracarys but they were just together on Valentine’s Day 🤔

    • @shawn8836
      @shawn8836 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Caitlyn Jones she made this song in 3hrs possibly on the 16 a lot can happen in a day or two

    • @HoneyBLUclue
      @HoneyBLUclue 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm a fan of putting people in their feelings! If you love her...check out my sounds. Get ready to be in your FEELS! th-cam.com/video/z39in9TuomI/w-d-xo.html

  • @intermusicult
    @intermusicult 4 ปีที่แล้ว +357

    I don't have a girlfriend but my heart is broken now

    • @kaylapanashe
      @kaylapanashe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Righttt😂😂😂

    • @HoneyBLUclue
      @HoneyBLUclue 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm a fan of putting people in their feelings! If you love her...check out my sounds. Get ready to be in your FEELS! th-cam.com/video/lWHJiAf611A/w-d-xo.html

  • @yupmonk3yzrul3
    @yupmonk3yzrul3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    “a facade only gets you so far” listen and really take that in. when people treat you poorly and wear this guise so nobody sees it? know that the truth about them comes to light

  • @breguest5730
    @breguest5730 4 ปีที่แล้ว +278

    Yes ma’am 🥺I’m not even single but I feel like he broke up with me

  • @empressjah9521
    @empressjah9521 4 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    "You called me crazy but it was my intuition. "
    Sis. ♥
    We ALWAYS feel it.
    I'll show you crazy

    • @Redapachy
      @Redapachy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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    • @empressjah9521
      @empressjah9521 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Redapachy track is 🔥🔥🔥

    • @Redapachy
      @Redapachy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      NeeNee 🙏☝️😊

    • @h3n.u871
      @h3n.u871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      NeeNee th-cam.com/video/3aoyp0QVYDU/w-d-xo.html

    • @empressjah9521
      @empressjah9521 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @TheInkinJapan dude, triggered much? Sorry she fucked you up like that. Seek help n stop spewing your nonsense n personal issues to strangers. 😘

  • @juiccyrae
    @juiccyrae 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I absolutely felt this. The guy I loved was talking to a female that I associated with and I told him in the beginning when he came back in my messages again wanting me to reply. I gave him a second chance and told him I did not want to speak to him if he had a potential female and that I was willing to try shit out again. But she posted him on her story and I can't get mad at her, so I told him to have fun w her and that I hope he gets what he wants because I am through with his bullshit and his games. I had a say in it because he was the first to tell me he loved me. He ended up telling me bs and an excuse ofc lol, so I liked his message and deleted his number and text thread and kept it pushing. He also told me in the message that I was tripping..but nah it was right in my face the entire time. I hope he finds what he is looking for but I won't let A BOY demolish my value, self-worth, or sanity. He can kiss my voluptuous beautiful brown ass. :)

  • @niknorthover7772
    @niknorthover7772 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    You can just feel her soul in this song. Kehlani you are so beautiful. 💖 what a shameful valentine's

  • @micahdaniel7255
    @micahdaniel7255 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    She dropped this at the perfect time. Hard🔥I’m proud

  • @ninamora1521
    @ninamora1521 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    DAMNNNN SHE WENT OFF !! always knew she was too good for him !!

  • @finnthehuman7159
    @finnthehuman7159 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1417

    Literally the whole comment section is full of lyrics. Everybody hurt.

    • @stephgaitan
      @stephgaitan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Amanda Winfrey 🤣

    • @wadijadaa8186
      @wadijadaa8186 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Amanda Winfrey 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Malik_Hoff
      @Malik_Hoff 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Kehlani is a musical drive by.

    • @amandav.3304
      @amandav.3304 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hahahahaha

    • @user-uc2ox8qw9m
      @user-uc2ox8qw9m 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Its crazy cuz ian even hurt but this shit is hitting my heart 😩😭

  • @brandonheroguyrobinson8980
    @brandonheroguyrobinson8980 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    " A Facade only gets you so far".
    Damn Kehlani kept it all the way real in this song that verse hit hard.

  • @arayxo3931
    @arayxo3931 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    this song hittin my soul rn , especially since i found out i was cheated on

  • @asiamalone5298
    @asiamalone5298 4 ปีที่แล้ว +430

    “There ain’t a bone in me that wants to spare your, feelins
    You called me crazy but it was my intuition”
    Woooo, I felt that shit😖

  • @Vagiskills
    @Vagiskills 4 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    Everytime Kehlani releases a relatable song, I'm always going through the same exact shit as how she expresses it.

  • @kaylamattie
    @kaylamattie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Just take the song konclusions back. We don’t even want it no more kehlani🥺💞

  • @MarkRod268
    @MarkRod268 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I just love how she’s always so damn honest in her music and how she’s not afraid to be extremely vulnerable in her lyrics, it truly is amazing.

  • @drwho8393
    @drwho8393 4 ปีที่แล้ว +728

    “Your friends and your family, even your label, everyone loved me, that was so shameful”

  • @simplyylashaee
    @simplyylashaee 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I always come back here !!

  •  4 ปีที่แล้ว +246

    Drake vibes with the switch up at the end 🖤

  • @breyonnaj97
    @breyonnaj97 4 ปีที่แล้ว +449

    “You play the hero but you really are the villain “ that hit different ...

    • @NamelessViking01
      @NamelessViking01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @TheInkinJapan That is in English. Black, white or any color. But if you really need help here example. Let say that your bestfriend started and nasty rumor about you and still acts nice to you and is two faced.

  • @THEPHX96
    @THEPHX96 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    To sound like she does and tap into emotion as she does, she has to sing from her past. From her sorrow and pain. Its a curse and a gift all intertwined. When I listen, I hurt for her and myself all at the same time. She helps others to “bleed it out” and let it go. She is an artist like I haven’t heard from in quite some time.🖤🖤🖤

  • @relaxwithme__
    @relaxwithme__ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +370

    Wow, this song hits real hard. Being in love with and realizing the person is a narcissist is a painful experience.

    • @Redapachy
      @Redapachy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      relaxwithme 🔥🔥🌊🎶👍👎? th-cam.com/video/f5KaiGc3PpQ/w-d-xo.html

    • @ifrahjama2215
      @ifrahjama2215 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😭😭😭

    • @drodriguez1010
      @drodriguez1010 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      relaxwithme same hun. Dont get jaded tho. Love yourself, cater to u. Do you first. All else will follow

    • @shian3sjourney837
      @shian3sjourney837 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      relaxwithme soooo true😢

    • @bavelicious
      @bavelicious 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Been there this song hit hard

  • @tigerbailey2678
    @tigerbailey2678 4 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    "The imature me wishes that I could make it known, that you should be left alone. Dont deserve words or thoughts from me, I can go heal on my own." Yess ma'am.

    • @arb519
      @arb519 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That part right there!! 💅💅

  • @angelajimenez8478
    @angelajimenez8478 4 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    We need to stop validating men who aren't even worth it

  • @xobabygirl
    @xobabygirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    my girl didn’t need auto-tune at the the end bc her voice is so soothing and amazing but she did the thing on this and i feel bad for her and her pain. sis, cannot catch a break. :/

    • @HoneyBLUclue
      @HoneyBLUclue 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm a fan of putting people in their feelings! If you love her...check out my sounds. Get ready to be in your FEELS! th-cam.com/video/z39in9TuomI/w-d-xo.html

  • @denzelmagagula6738
    @denzelmagagula6738 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Kehlani's lyircs will make those who have never been in a relationship feel like someone broke their heart. 😢 Forever #Baelani❤

  • @roskywalkerr
    @roskywalkerr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    “I helped you fight your addiction and change your whole life just to find myself played in the end” DAMN I FELT THAT😔

  • @Itsyourgirlarianna
    @Itsyourgirlarianna 4 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    Pls do a break up song featuring Jhené and summer I need it 😩❤️

  • @cassie6805
    @cassie6805 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    “And now I’m here broken expected to carry the weight...”

    • @thehairaccessory
      @thehairaccessory 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I feel this verse every time!

  • @jamiehnm
    @jamiehnm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    “ain’t no regrets cause I’m proud that my heart was so pure and I’m never ashamed of my love” I FELT THAT. I love that you’re always so raw and honest, queen. ain’t no shame in this pure heart life 🧡

  • @leahrenee0525
    @leahrenee0525 4 ปีที่แล้ว +194

    She NEEDS to make a song with H.E.R. 😍

  • @jaed4379
    @jaed4379 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This sounds like Kehlani when she first came out. The authenticity of her as an artist. Put and Keep God first and he will direct your path. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @victoriajoy9672
    @victoriajoy9672 4 ปีที่แล้ว +266

    Every Kehlani stan is here right now 😂

  • @danielarocha6676
    @danielarocha6676 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Ain’t no regrets cuz I’m proud that my heart was so pure and I’m never ashamed of my love ❣️ 😭

  • @classassignment3643
    @classassignment3643 4 ปีที่แล้ว +297

    This is the most Taurus album ever. Says a fellow Taurus goddess.

  • @TaylorAshton
    @TaylorAshton 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    this was deep and a reminder that you can't change a man that doesn't truly want to change! honestly, they never change