Like never ever ever!!!!! She knows exactly what to say when to say it and how to say it and it’s always 100% on point for how all females be feelingggg
"I was traumatized, suicidal n sick and tired how am I to blame?" This hits so hard. The person who loves you should be there through your mental health hardships not blame us for what we can't control. The worse thing is being all these and not feeling like no one is there for you. Not even the person you love
Stay strong I’ve been there not suicidal however my heart has been broken a few times to the point no one can do that to me anymore because I’m so whole and I pray one day you can vulnerable and myself again. Blessings to you. God never sleeps remember that
literally blasting her music rn. so heart broken, had to learn that just bc a relationship lasted a long time didn't mean it should've. Don't stick to what you're use to bc its not love its a habit
These lyrics are so true , these are valid feelings when your in a relationship especially when your deeply in love or was . It’s the worst when you love your partner more than they could ever love you .
That last sentence felt like you just personally attacked me! (joking) lol. It's true though, I feel that way sometimes and it's so painful. They might not be good together, but I love their music separate and apart. It's a shame things didn't work out.
I see how many hurt women, myself included when I first heard this song, actually overlooked Sean's verse because they were dealing with trauma. He acknowledged he couldn't give her what she needed, even almost lost himself in the process because he hadn't dealt with his trauma 1on1. She was healing him physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually and was growing weary. He realizes her impact. He was reminiscing in his verse about their moments. He brought up the sexual aspect because that's where he felt her the most. It wasn't just a man's response, it was his perspective. He didn't want her to experience him then go to someone worse off, that's why he said "but you backtracking with n***** that ain't s*** for you, don't belong around your aura!"
Na girl ima have to respectfully disagree. Sean is gaslighting her. It’s not his perspective, it’s manipulation and an inability to accept his full responsibility. She did that on her part, he did not.
Your right ! Didn’t think of it that way lol i was so on my feelings when I heard him like he has no business in this song now that I heard what he had to say after reading this it does make sense !
@@schema4775 I think what Patricia is saying is that they have broken up, and they are still managing to make fantastic music together. This has been the cleanest breakup she has ever seen.
She has so many songs that just heal your soul. She has really helped me through some really tough times to impower me that it's all going to be OK sing it out get the feelings out. Giving me the strength to realize my worth. I'm worthy of a good man and one day it will happen.
I love the whole I'm just going to take baths, drink tea, and meditate in paradise vibe. The self-care and healing message radiates through the music and the visuals.
She is that's what people are not understanding about her music every song she writes she make's sure that people can relate to it. everything is so well-crafted everyone is just trying to pinpoint fingers on when big Sean comes in talking about sex. Like this is a personal song between both of them and whoever else can relate to it I love them together. And I love her music so much it has helped me so much ✨
I agree 100%. The tone and frequency she sings at is so calming. She’s the only artist that music helps me sleep at night. It doesn’t work with anybody else. She’s unintentionally great at lullaby’s.
This song hits different now . I am at peace now. I am okay now. I do not wish evil on him anymore. I wish him the best in life and what he does is none of my concern . I am happy and have peace of mind
“I am not your girl anymore. You need to watch your tone.” Those two lines have empowered me so much that I’m not afraid to stand up for myself against men who hurt me.
First of all Jhene 🔥🔥🔥🔥!!! Big Sean's verse is getting overlooked here because he mentioned sex... but truth is, this song is just showing the perspective of how men and women generally view relationships afterwards. He misses everything about her and is expressing it the way HE feels. He also spit some deep lyrics in between the thoughts of grabbing her waist and her riding his face... 🥴🤣. As a woman I'm not gonna lie and say I never thought about my ex and said to myself "whoever he's with isn't as fun as me 👀 he's prolly bored AF over there" Nor will I act like there weren't nights that I didn't wanna call just to be intimate and have some what of a moment with him then leave 🤷🏾♀️. We are human... ego typically shines over our spiritual side. Jhene sang from a more emotional and spiritual place. Sean sang more from ego and it came off as surface because of it. Y'all don't write him off cause of it. Lol
Exactly, people are just overreacting to Big Sean's verse. His verse was just as important as Jhene Aiko. Either Big Sean's verse could've been different and better, or people can get used to it later on.
Alot of Men show how much they love women by the sex tho, 9x is alot so he was pleasing her loving her showing her how much he loves her. Men just love differently, when its real love sex def hits differently, they about the womens satisfaction not they selfs.
Jhene Aiko went from "Ain't let nobody hit it since you hit it" to "Don't worry about who it is I'm fuckin' or who I am lovin', just know that it is not you" real quick.
This song means so much to me now. I was supposed to getmarried with whom I thought was my soulmate in 2 months. We were together for 6 years and then life happened. Planning a life with someone and then breaking up has crushed my soul especially when the relationship was not toxic until the wedding planning process. In the end you have to love yourself.
I love how she always makes such therapeutic and healfully relatable music we can all relate too. Which is why she never disappoints with her music too. Like with this new record feat. Sean. That's so therapeutic, peaceful and amazing. I love how the visual with the various therapeutic and peaceful motions, ranging from wandering the beach house where she lays in bed, then sits in a tub, before going out to take in the peaceful nature of the forest really helps bring the record even more to life too. Really helping bring the therapeutic, yet peacefully siren lyrics even more to life for such a great piece of art from a truly amazing and talented artist as Jhene. The setting and backdrop looks absolutely gorgeous and glowing and makes Jhene look just as glowing and gorgeous too. Does anybody know if it was shot in Hawaii or somewhere else?
nelly4482 ok just heard of her n thought wow what beautiful natural looking scene verses gold jewelery n cars n half naked women in the video.You are so right
I feel like it sucha masterpeice an they are so brave an raw to let us in to it... It looks like they are growing and working on forgiveness , but also she know how she feel 🙏 forgiveness and boundaries are not contradictory... It's just about getting clear.. Which it seems she did💭 But it looks like he really been soul searching too and obviously misses Jheme bc duh. May god bless them always any path they choose🙏
I love Jhene she’s my favorite artist. But what they’re going thru is something we all struggle with.. only difference is their able to translate it in a beautiful song..
That point when you realize it don’t hurt anymore almost creates a different type of pain because u realize damn I’m actually over u in a way and I didn’t want that shit! Jhené u never fail me. I’m in love with their love/hate relationship ♥️
wow this comment hit me different THANK YOU. I'm at the point where I want to cry about it all again, but yet no tears are falling it just hurts different this time
Tori Zzz - First you see the surface of words and not the deeper meaning of mind body and soul connecting through the struggles! Second even if it’s just sex, what’s wrong with sex lol! But it’s not only that. Sooo...zip zip
Wale, J Cole, Kendrick Lamar, Big Sean, TJ Porter, David Burns, Token, Logic, Joyner Lucas, Hopsin, NF, Meek Mill, Joey badass, etc is all better then Jhené, don’t get me wrong I love Jhené Aiko but saying she’s one of the best is a colossal reach.
All I can say is WOW, like I just really love how she embodies her feelings of a relationship that has ended and isn't afraid to be vulnerable in the way that she has expressed it. I also love how she allowed Sean to Express his feelings in a way that relates to men once a relationship has ended. All in all, great video and an even greater vibe!!!
Exactly. Jhene captures the raw emotions of a breakup in her music. She looks so at peace and it also shows the healing process after a toxic relationship. You gotta work on yourself and restore your energy. The video really showed that in a beautiful way
Yessss!!!! I seen JHENE AIKO in Chicago She’s The Seeetest Prettiest Nicest Person You Can Meet, She Told Me My Music Was Really Dope & Followed Me On Instagram I LOVE HER FOREVER!!! 😩😫😘❤️❤️❤️ th-cam.com/video/kShgNSLZENQ/w-d-xo.html
I love you jhene. You’ve saved me and your songs continue to save me . Your song fully explains me and my baby daddy . Im trying so hard to keep strong for my son , thank you for your words . Sincerely Shanti.K 20 years old From Auckland , New Zealand ❤
Jhene really aged backwards, I remember when she started out as an artist vs now she looks so much more youthful and her makeup is lighter giving her a brighter, more youthful appearance. She’s so damn beautiful
She's obviously always been gorgeous but yes...our emotions & mind are directly connected to the body. That Dark Night of the Soul/Purging passage into Awakening & true love/realization of your soul...oof...I've been in the Dark Night for too damn long & the peace I feel when I listen to her (I'm sure even without the frequencies) is always inspiration to keep on keeping on with this journey...&get tf out my own way.
JHENE from the bottom of my heart I want you to know that you touch so many of us. You deserve a all encompassing love. Loyalty, a faithful partnership. This song came at just the right time for me too as I’m letting go of someone committed to not giving me what I deserve. Your piscean emotional rawness is so relatable and I hope through the music and your support from your loyal fans all the blessings and happiness you deserve comes through. We love you 💕
This song is like having two friends that broke up. Some time has passed now and they just happen to show up at the same party, this song is the conversation that they have...
This is literally my ex and I and we were invited to the same Halloween party when i say my face was like 😦😧 When opened the front door , thats an understatement
Ok, so this lady's music helped me so much throughout this year. Listened to Trip, Souled Out and Sail Out, nearly every song on each until the point where they would play on repeat in my mind, even Triggered helped me endure some rough spots mentally over the course of this year from some drama in my life. Now this song comes out and I'm listening again and again as though it's a therapy session.
Jhene's music lately hits different when you're on similar wave lengths.
Listen
That is so true. I'm glad to see her and Sean making another song together.💖
Hell yeah.
Wow. That’s deep. Ya don’t say!? Lmao
Have you heard her early music?! Girl it sat in my SOUL... “Mirrors”, “For My Brother” to name a couple!
She has NEVER disappointed me. Like NEVER 🤯♥️.
JuicyJ🦄 not once
Like never ever ever!!!!! She knows exactly what to say when to say it and how to say it and it’s always 100% on point for how all females be feelingggg
I felt this comment ❤️
JuicyJ🦄 took the words out my mouth!!!
EVER!
She's the underrated female lyricist of all time.
Mandilakhe Mfoboza PERIODT! 💯
A true Piscarian genius
Mandilakhe Mfoboza she’s not underrated 😂🥴 she has 3 million views in 72 hours
Perioddt
@@chokolatebella9560 she was never under rated what you mean
Jhené is the definition of "my name pretty, my face pretty, my soul pretty"
I love their relationship ❤😊
A gift from god.
but my mouth smart
Her music has never been trash.. Not once not ever.
Not never!
@@taylorxooishere facts...shit was hella trash
@@taylorxooishere that wasn't hers lol
Uhm......okay what about that bell shit?
@@nestleblack9468 1 line...that's all yall got.
Jhene Aiko said, “I’m not scared to be alone anymore, it don’t even hurt anymore” 🥺 .... That shit hit me.
She needs to drop this album now. 😭
La Brat u know if she is dripping an album ?
Seriously
@@kyliecakes9279 yeaa
Right 😫😫 I need it
Yes it hit me too.
When she said ' I'm not your girl anymore you need to watch your tone " I FELT THAT
Me too😢🙄😎💯
My soul felt that, my ancestors felt that one!
Was she ever my girl or just my time ?
Yesss
thats honestly the lamest thing ive heard
"I was traumatized, suicidal n sick and tired how am I to blame?" This hits so hard. The person who loves you should be there through your mental health hardships not blame us for what we can't control. The worse thing is being all these and not feeling like no one is there for you. Not even the person you love
Stay strong I’ve been there not suicidal however my heart has been broken a few times to the point no one can do that to me anymore because I’m so whole and I pray one day you can vulnerable and myself again. Blessings to you. God never sleeps remember that
I’m currently going through this and reading this has me in tears !
😮😮😮😢😢😢😢😢wow u just put in words how I couldn’t thnku Nuff respect thnku 😢😢😢😢again blessings mum done good with u xx 😊 😊❤❤
I felt this on every level..he left & divorced me when i was at my lowest. It still hurts & I’m scared 💔
@@HeyyMissCarterSorry you’re going through this. I’m praying for you hun.
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
literally blasting her music rn. so heart broken, had to learn that just bc a relationship lasted a long time didn't mean it should've. Don't stick to what you're use to bc its not love its a habit
You are speaking to my soul! Exactly what im going through right now! 10 years...
😫💯💯
Facts
Cami girl I’m in that current situation as well
7 years
These lyrics are so true , these are valid feelings when your in a relationship especially when your deeply in love or was . It’s the worst when you love your partner more than they could ever love you .
That last sentence felt like you just personally attacked me! (joking) lol. It's true though, I feel that way sometimes and it's so painful. They might not be good together, but I love their music separate and apart. It's a shame things didn't work out.
i felt that.. hard.. 🥺
Gosh the last sentence 😔😔
@adrianbraxton you just gave me chills with this statement
Or when you both can’t realize y’all fighting for love
Since y’all wanna collab, go ahead and drop that Twenty88 part 2
Forreal I need a Déjà vu part 2 🔥
Trueee
I need it damn
ON PERIODT
Big facts
the song is so good then big sean start talking
lmao fr
couldn't agree more. I need a version of this without Big Sean :(
Ye na wtf was that verse 😭
For real
Crappola
It takes levels of maturity and respect for an ex couple to pull this off. Well done to the both of them.
so true
industry just different tbh
Reona Finger wasn’t she on his song “Single Again”?
TheHichaechoc yepp that was her vocals in the bg
Facts and they probably got it on before and after the video
Man this was the most vibed out passive aggressive post break up argument/ wyd late night text ass song Ive ever heard.
😭🤣
Trey Moore 🤣🤣
Lmao 😂😂😂😂😂
Agreed
😁😁😁😁
“I’m not even scared to be alone anymore, it don’t even hurt anymore “ this is the year for self love.
Facts
Awwww! This is cute
Man! Ain’t that the truth
I Was Going To Call You Delusional But I Then Again I Remembered You're A WOMAN So... 🤷♂️
Truth1
I see how many hurt women, myself included when I first heard this song, actually overlooked Sean's verse because they were dealing with trauma. He acknowledged he couldn't give her what she needed, even almost lost himself in the process because he hadn't dealt with his trauma 1on1. She was healing him physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually and was growing weary. He realizes her impact. He was reminiscing in his verse about their moments. He brought up the sexual aspect because that's where he felt her the most. It wasn't just a man's response, it was his perspective. He didn't want her to experience him then go to someone worse off, that's why he said "but you backtracking with n***** that ain't s*** for you, don't belong around your aura!"
TALK TO EM!!
Na girl ima have to respectfully disagree. Sean is gaslighting her. It’s not his perspective, it’s manipulation and an inability to accept his full responsibility. She did that on her part, he did not.
Your right ! Didn’t think of it that way lol i was so on my feelings when I heard him like he has no business in this song now that I heard what he had to say after reading this it does make sense !
That part was sooo DEEP! He clearly loves and cares for her 💕 enough, to not wanting to see her hurt by someone unworthy. #AgapeLove💜
When the worthy becomes the unworthy is one thing but for him to acknowledge it shows vulnerability and growth
When she said “it don’t even hurt anymore “ my soul felt that
Same
Honestly
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This is the cleanest breakup I’ve ever seen.
They broke up a year ago 😂, and this has literally nothing to do with why or how they broke up
@@schema4775 I think what Patricia is saying is that they have broken up, and they are still managing to make fantastic music together. This has been the cleanest breakup she has ever seen.
I think they're back together
Patricia Bonilla yesssss
@@Adrienne3071 i hope they are! they are fire together
Jhené Aiko is so underrated. She’s so talented and stands out from her pairs. She deserves so much more 🤦♂️
Her company does such a shit job at promoting her
Osiris Hilfiggh but yet a lot of people don’t deserve her! I think that’s why she’ll stay underrated. Everyone too busy being into what’s “popular”
She not underrated she just got 1million views in less then a day she just not extra
Peers*
@@k.a.dolowolf2843 what im saying
She has so many songs that just heal your soul. She has really helped me through some really tough times to impower me that it's all going to be OK sing it out get the feelings out. Giving me the strength to realize my worth. I'm worthy of a good man and one day it will happen.
“I’m disappointed as the homie” whew, FELT.
OMG right?! Hit you right in the feels!
0:51 0:51 😮🎉🎉😂❤7x😅🎉@@thing1heartsu
I love the whole I'm just going to take baths, drink tea, and meditate in paradise vibe. The self-care and healing message radiates through the music and the visuals.
“Trying to make your mark but then go deeper and make a scar”💔
Sounds like cutting...to release the pain.
That line hit me HARD!
DM Unreleased nba YoungBoy x polo g
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I feel like it’s saying the harder you try to make your mark it will only end up hurting the person the deeper you try
Deep ass lyrics
I’m so glad you guys made it. Y’all really worked on your relationship. I’m so happy for both of you. Congrats on your pregnancy!
If 2019 wasn't the year for self love I don't what year is
Same here for me
Right!!
Every year boo!!! 💖
Right
I’m trying to close off the end of the year with good self care 👏🏾 just gotta think more highly of myself 💜
every time she release a song it heals some part of my heart. She is legit healing people with her music.
She is that's what people are not understanding about her music every song she writes she make's sure that people can relate to it. everything is so well-crafted everyone is just trying to pinpoint fingers on when big Sean comes in talking about sex. Like this is a personal song between both of them and whoever else can relate to it I love them together. And I love her music so much it has helped me so much ✨
Sarah Rosie literally😭pisces❤️
I agree 100%. The tone and frequency she sings at is so calming. She’s the only artist that music helps me sleep at night. It doesn’t work with anybody else. She’s unintentionally great at lullaby’s.
Yes It do ❤
And this is so factual!!! She helped me heal! So thankful for her music 🙏🏾❤️
This song hits different now . I am at peace now. I am okay now. I do not wish evil on him anymore. I wish him the best in life and what he does is none of my concern . I am happy and have peace of mind
love. i am going through it right now. it’s calming to hear you made it out. i know it takes time but your comment really helped. thank u🦋
🖤🖤🖤
Every scene with Jhene is literally art, take a screenshot everytime. Girl is a god.
"You knew I had these issues when you met me" TOXICITY AT IT'S FINEST
On God!!
My ex be like “YoU knOw I’ve bEEn hUrt BefoRe thAtS why I’m ShAdy” 🤣🤣
My boyfriend just told me this earlier today. Read this and it hit a nerve 😂😂.
Nothing but facts
@@karamcqueen7063 mood asf tho lmaooo
“I am not your girl anymore. You need to watch your tone.” Those two lines have empowered me so much that I’m not afraid to stand up for myself against men who hurt me.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️
Good all love to u🤍✨😌
Priel ThePrune thank you so much. ❤️
Period
Me too! Omg it’s so empowering
Who’s here 2024
Going through it
guess, none of your concern xD ahahahah
Yooo
This is unforgettable so imma always be here....❤❤
🙋🏼♀️🙋🏼♀️🙋🏼♀️🙋🏼♀️
It hit different when she’s says not scared to be alone anymore
Dang.... I wasn't ready when big Sean came it. Everything that she does is on repeat.
Sameee i was finna click out thought it was just a log ending
Everyone's talking about the song but this whole video is a vibe!
Yass! That space she’s in looks like peace and serenity.
Yessss it is
Is dope af
Yes!!!!
Agreed
“ don’t worry about who it is i’m fkn or who i’am loving just know that it is NOT you” i felt dat in my soul❤️
My favorite line 💖❤💕
Yesssssssssss🙌🏾❤
Absolutely 💯 in my fuckin soul
So when or if you looked bak at a relationship did he honestly naaaah nevermind
Yes!! My ex worrying about who I'm Fk' like why you care now?? 😭😂
This is what letting go sounds like.. perfection
THE ALBUM.. ITS COMING!!! WOWWWWWWW I COULD CRYY, YOU FEEEEL ME??🥺🦋
YES🙌
OMG YES🥺
HELL YEA
is it actually an album?? i looked on spotify and ig it's only a single....
WJSN Dayoung is my dorky queen I think they meant that bc of the few singles she put out that an album release is in the near future
No one:
Absolutely no one:
Jhené and Sean: **SNAPS**
LoveAbbie deadass lol
LoveAbbie so good 💕
First of all Jhene 🔥🔥🔥🔥!!!
Big Sean's verse is getting overlooked here because he mentioned sex... but truth is, this song is just showing the perspective of how men and women generally view relationships afterwards. He misses everything about her and is expressing it the way HE feels. He also spit some deep lyrics in between the thoughts of grabbing her waist and her riding his face... 🥴🤣. As a woman I'm not gonna lie and say I never thought about my ex and said to myself "whoever he's with isn't as fun as me 👀 he's prolly bored AF over there" Nor will I act like there weren't nights that I didn't wanna call just to be intimate and have some what of a moment with him then leave 🤷🏾♀️.
We are human... ego typically shines over our spiritual side. Jhene sang from a more emotional and spiritual place. Sean sang more from ego and it came off as surface because of it. Y'all don't write him off cause of it. Lol
Exactly, people are just overreacting to Big Sean's verse. His verse was just as important as Jhene Aiko. Either Big Sean's verse could've been different and better, or people can get used to it later on.
Swag.com Precisely!
@@ketrarichmond 😊😁🙂😁😊
Alot of Men show how much they love women by the sex tho, 9x is alot so he was pleasing her loving her showing her how much he loves her. Men just love differently, when its real love sex def hits differently, they about the womens satisfaction not they selfs.
@@the3flow519 Couldn't agree more
Not scared to be alone anymore. I felt that deeply 😢
Jhene Aiko went from "Ain't let nobody hit it since you hit it" to "Don't worry about who it is I'm fuckin' or who I am lovin', just know that it is not you" real quick.
But why they still collaborating?
Aaliyah Kassim maybe a different and more health approach to healing and I’m speaking from experience
But thats life thoo😬😂 we some bipolar females when we have been hurt! I love her for the relatable realness😊
Leah 22 It’s that Pisces energy. My Pisces Mars be making me feel like this 😭🤣.
Real quick where .. took her almost 2 yrs now lol
Hurts when you meet the right person at the wrong time.
Daaaaaaamn that's deeeep💯💯💯💯
Going threw that now it's fucking me up 🤕
Deeep
😭😭💔
No such thing
“The audacity to question me like you ain’t leave me out here on my own”
This hit different
Chills🥶
This shit hit on a different level!
Tears all built up after that line
Felt that!!!💯💯💯💯
This song means so much to me now. I was supposed to getmarried with whom I thought was my soulmate in 2 months. We were together for 6 years and then life happened. Planning a life with someone and then breaking up has crushed my soul especially when the relationship was not toxic until the wedding planning process. In the end you have to love yourself.
I love the range of emotions she showed in this song... She went from jealous and hurt, to strength and acceptance.... Growth
Sameeeee
Ty Dolla was sprinkled on the ad libs like parsley 😍
JaedaDemaris lmao right?! i was like, “now i know that’s ty dolla” 😂
i thought he was gonna have a verse but then big sean came outta nowhere lmao
Yes!!! I heard him just as I was reading this 😊
like parsley 😂😂👌🏽
Yessss! 🥰😂 I was like I hear you Ty
And when he said, "They don't even deserve to be around your aura." I felt that. ✊🏽
I was like oooooo
@@kendrawilliams198 Right?! I had that exact same reaction. I had to replay it 3 times.
@@NinaAngelina25 At that Moment I was like woah he sounds like he's saying that the dudes don't deserve her time .
I STILL CANNOT DESCRIBE HOW MUCH I LOVE THIS SONG. IT HITS HARD!!🥵
Self love ladies.. even when they stop loving us.. we should never lose the love we have for ourselves..
SimplyMsJay amen
Exactly. Well said.
Facts
Preach
Yes love
I love how she always makes such therapeutic and healfully relatable music we can all relate too. Which is why she never disappoints with her music too. Like with this new record feat. Sean. That's so therapeutic, peaceful and amazing. I love how the visual with the various therapeutic and peaceful motions, ranging from wandering the beach house where she lays in bed, then sits in a tub, before going out to take in the peaceful nature of the forest really helps bring the record even more to life too. Really helping bring the therapeutic, yet peacefully siren lyrics even more to life for such a great piece of art from a truly amazing and talented artist as Jhene. The setting and backdrop looks absolutely gorgeous and glowing and makes Jhene look just as glowing and gorgeous too. Does anybody know if it was shot in Hawaii or somewhere else?
nelly4482 i think so she spent a lot of time out there
She lives in the Big Island 💜
She's a PISCES 😭 we love nature and water
nelly4482 ok just heard of her n thought wow what beautiful natural looking scene verses gold jewelery n cars n half naked women in the video.You are so right
MilAh Frrd 不错。
“ the audacity to question me like you ain’t leave me out here on my own “ ..
Felt that this year
I felt that in my soul...
Reading this comment while she was singing it 😭😭😊😘
This song means even more to me, now, since they've come back together and have expanded their family. #HopefulRomantic
Their love hate relationship is everything it comes off as such a creative beautiful disaster 🔥❤️
I feel like it sucha masterpeice an they are so brave an raw to let us in to it... It looks like they are growing and working on forgiveness , but also she know how she feel 🙏
forgiveness and boundaries are not contradictory... It's just about getting clear.. Which it seems she did💭 But it looks like he really been soul searching too and obviously misses Jheme bc duh. May god bless them always any path they choose🙏
Yep I will be riding the jhene and Sean train to see where this goes I loved twenty88 and this just feel like an evolution of their relationship
I love Jhene she’s my favorite artist. But what they’re going thru is something we all struggle with.. only difference is their able to translate it in a beautiful song..
I didnt even type my response once I read yours. #PerfectlyStated #BeautifulDisaster should be the title of their album
Beautiful ruin.
That point when you realize it don’t hurt anymore almost creates a different type of pain because u realize damn I’m actually over u in a way and I didn’t want that shit! Jhené u never fail me. I’m in love with their love/hate relationship ♥️
Mocha Doll omg.. yeah man.
wow this comment hit me different THANK YOU. I'm at the point where I want to cry about it all again, but yet no tears are falling it just hurts different this time
Jailine120 so so true was just thinking that this week . Wanting to cry but nothing left to cry out. But the pain is still there just feels different
I mean you hit the nail right on the head
And you take a long time until you are able to love again... while in it you are, full of concerns, if it's worth it or if it's gonna work out.
“The audacity to question me like you ain’t leave me out here on my own” fuuuuuuuuck
Yooooo every fiber of my being felt that line
😩😩
Alejandra Flores I felt that
Oh God I hate that! They leave for a while, you start talking to someone new, they act like its a betrayal/you're the one in the wrong.
They have some audacity
“The audacity to question me like you ain’t leave me out here out on my own” that shit hit different
Where's the person that post the lyrics man. THEY SLACKIN
😅😅😅
They're up above, lol
Lol look up
Swear! Im looking hard too lol
They still stuck in they feelings because of Jhene Aiko
“ The audacity to question me like you ain’t leave me out here on my own “ 😩😩😩 hits .
I stg!!!!
Yess felt that Verse
felt that
I felt that
Facts their loss tho
"I am not your girl anymore, you need to watch your tone."
That part!
None of my concern
PERIOD
right niggas dtm
Amen
Who is here 2025?????
🎉🎉 1:43
3:25 that Big Sean reveal was surprising as hell
Yes it was I was like damn...👀🤐😨😨😨😨😨😨🤐🤐🤐🤐💀🤣i guess tho🔥
I was like umm wered you come from😭
@@athenamae3681 me too🤣
And he look hella good in this video 👅 what a pleasant surprise 😍
@@DivaDen some jcole hairstyle with the vibe of trey songz🤣🔥💚
Every heartbroken woman is like yes Jhene, you’re saying everything I’ve tried to say, and Big is responding like we wish men would!
Ineka H. lmaooo NO !!! jhené poured her heart out in her verses and all he talked about was sex😂😂
You painting a bad picture for us fellas bro no cap😂😂😕
Yeessssssss!
@@torizzz8961 you didnt listen to his verse fully, lol you just finessed a tweet and ran with it lol
Tori Zzz - First you see the surface of words and not the deeper meaning of mind body and soul connecting through the struggles! Second even if it’s just sex, what’s wrong with sex lol! But it’s not only that. Sooo...zip zip
“I’m not even scared to be alone anymore, it don’t even hurt anymore” I really really felt that 😢😣
3 years later they're having their first child together
"Not scared to be alone anymore" the stage in breakup I am approaching.
a lot of people have a hard time getting to that stage
Its hard...up you doing ok.
I hope you’re okay. It’s good to not be scared of being alone. You can make it through anything.
Kiara Moore I love it!🙌🏾 factual sis
I’m to where it doesn’t hurt n I moved on ❤️ feels amazing
from “triggered” to “none of my concern anymore” 🤝 time heals all 💗
Emmanuella Asare Check it out. King of dancehall. th-cam.com/video/EChNt9qg8XI/w-d-xo.html
💖It certainly does.
Exactly
Right this song hits all the right spots
Fr #mood
“I can feel you fading off, we’re not gonna make it long” 💔
I'm going through that now 😔
kyra williams that part!
Mannn, I’m kinda mad 😡now this shit is good 💔💔😭😭
kyra williams felt that🤧
so you end it or keep trying to see where it goes??
"Don't worry about who it is im f***ing or who I am loving, just know that it is not you" ...... PERRIOD
ouhhhhhhh featuring big sean?!?! ok jhene we see you
Her voice could put anyone in a relax state of mind love her music
yesss
Tbh😫😫
@@mzprettiblacc1948 told
Yes
I feel so different listening to her.. her voice is so soothing.. I don’t know how to explain it but I love it.
Leaving toxic in 2019 bring in citrine sage and self love 💋✨🌬
yasss!!!
Can I get a AMEN to that, yesYES ! 🙏💫
jhene: pours heart out and sings like an angel
big sean: "made u come 9 times" 🤦🏽♀
3 stages of a heartbreak:
1: wasted love
2: triggered
3: none of your concern
Bbg Rose yasss I listen to all these songs 🥺💕
The holy trilogy of a breakup lol
Bbg Rose sad truth 😩😩😩😩
Big facts 💀
Listen to them backwards.
Nobody:
Ty dollar sign on the background vocals of every song
Which other songs ?
Deee Magix Drakes Jaded
Kanye’s only one
Kanye’s and kid Cudi’s kids see ghost
YG’s really be
Chris Browns loyal
Kanye west fade
6lack switch
🤣😩
I swearrrr I was thinking this! 😂😂
That man is the salt of R&B
I can’t tell if she is preparing us for an album or not😭😫😫
Kierra Marie it’s just a song
Yeah she is check her ig
she better be lol
I've had trip on repeat way too much lol
Sean said 88
She's to beautiful ❤
This song has me emotional as hell. I wasn’t ready.
DXXP SOUL from a man this shit had me deeeep in my feelings. Sean’s verse came off very Andre 3000 ish.
She’s one of the best song writers of this generation.
CAP
PERIOD
Wale, J Cole, Kendrick Lamar, Big Sean, TJ Porter, David Burns, Token, Logic, Joyner Lucas, Hopsin, NF, Meek Mill, Joey badass, etc is all better then Jhené, don’t get me wrong I love Jhené Aiko but saying she’s one of the best is a colossal reach.
Mia Sionne seriously
Jinora I think the OP was referring to SINGER songwriters
All I can say is WOW, like I just really love how she embodies her feelings of a relationship that has ended and isn't afraid to be vulnerable in the way that she has expressed it. I also love how she allowed Sean to Express his feelings in a way that relates to men once a relationship has ended. All in all, great video and an even greater vibe!!!
Exactly. Jhene captures the raw emotions of a breakup in her music. She looks so at peace and it also shows the healing process after a toxic relationship. You gotta work on yourself and restore your energy. The video really showed that in a beautiful way
Cra'Shetta Thomas-Holloman th-cam.com/video/2jYF6c4KF_I/w-d-xo.html if you haven’t seen this video we’re have you been your whole life
Omg well said !!!
Yessss!!!! I seen JHENE AIKO in Chicago She’s The Seeetest Prettiest Nicest Person You Can Meet, She Told Me My Music Was Really Dope & Followed Me On Instagram I LOVE HER FOREVER!!! 😩😫😘❤️❤️❤️ th-cam.com/video/kShgNSLZENQ/w-d-xo.html
Cra'Shetta Thomas-Holloman th-cam.com/video/_0kLIMPjitw/w-d-xo.html
I love you jhene. You’ve saved me and your songs continue to save me . Your song fully explains me and my baby daddy . Im trying so hard to keep strong for my son , thank you for your words .
Sincerely Shanti.K
20 years old From Auckland , New Zealand ❤
Jhene really aged backwards, I remember when she started out as an artist vs now she looks so much more youthful and her makeup is lighter giving her a brighter, more youthful appearance. She’s so damn beautiful
She's obviously always been gorgeous but yes...our emotions & mind are directly connected to the body. That Dark Night of the Soul/Purging passage into Awakening & true love/realization of your soul...oof...I've been in the Dark Night for too damn long & the peace I feel when I listen to her (I'm sure even without the frequencies) is always inspiration to keep on keeping on with this journey...&get tf out my own way.
She totally caught everybody by surprise when BIG SEAN jumped in..
including you, YES! YOU!!
JHENE from the bottom of my heart I want you to know that you touch so many of us. You deserve a all encompassing love. Loyalty, a faithful partnership. This song came at just the right time for me too as I’m letting go of someone committed to not giving me what I deserve. Your piscean emotional rawness is so relatable and I hope through the music and your support from your loyal fans all the blessings and happiness you deserve comes through. We love you 💕
Exactly how I feel about her too🙏🏼💙💯
that piscean emotion❤️i think that’s why i’m able to relate to her even tho i’m not heartbroken over an ex. so raw and vulnerable
Aluna Oracle this is the one!
Back on this 2025 I’m so tired of it. Time to take a long break single focusing on myself. I love love but loving myself is more important than
When she said: "now I can say Get yo Bitchass off my phone"..i fainted 😌
The look on her face though 😂😂😂
It’s my fav part thoo
I loved it cuz thats when shit changes from 'i want us to work' to 'fuck outta here'! its like overcoming the situation...
@@bevmar yesss!
@@thriftshopprincess same...
Ty Dolla everytime he gets the call from Jhene or Sean: "Ah shit, here we go again"
TBL LOOOOOL
🤣🤣
Ty the man wish he could make good albums tho
I SCREAMED!!!
Lmaooooo
This song is like having two friends that broke up. Some time has passed now and they just happen to show up at the same party, this song is the conversation that they have...
YES
This is literally my ex and I and we were invited to the same Halloween party when i say my face was like 😦😧
When opened the front door , thats an understatement
Been there
shay2888 yesssss
😂
this song has helped me heal.
When you thought it was over then Big Sean pops up out of nowhere
Literally, I thought the same thing lol
Funny I said out of no where while I reading your statement only to see it right there.
nah frr 😭
Probably how it happens in rl
That was deadass me when i saw his hair
“Should of never dated” I felt that
Lol lowkey :((( Can yall please check out Jaylyn before she's blows by next year, i think youll all love her th-cam.com/video/kR98gFvZkGc/w-d-xo.html
I’m in my feelings when she said that
Ok, so this lady's music helped me so much throughout this year. Listened to Trip, Souled Out and Sail Out, nearly every song on each until the point where they would play on repeat in my mind, even Triggered helped me endure some rough spots mentally over the course of this year from some drama in my life. Now this song comes out and I'm listening again and again as though it's a therapy session.
I wish you all the best on your journey of healing
@@peaches44 Thank you and may you also be blessed.
Sameeee
Samuel Edwards ❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾
“I was traumatized & suicidal, I’m sick & tired, I am not to blame.” FUUCK JHENE PULLING AT MY HEART
I ain’t even going through a break up and I felt this song deep in my soul.
Jessica Castillo righhhhtttt
Didn’t see that ending coming!!!
The ending had me like wait I wasn't ready
Right!!!
Me neither !! Lol i was so surprised
What a song to feel during a painful breakup 💔
“i’m disappointed as a homie” I FELT TF OUTTA THAT
Straight uppppp 💃
Yea that line hit different
Yes. Been here. When you think so highly of a man cause you were friends first. And then when he breaks your heart it hits different.
Right!!!
@@kxh3027 exactly what I thought about me and my girl
This woman has brought me a level of peace throughout the years that cant be explained
Who was here before the premier?
This gon' be lit.
Animalhouser can’t wait
CANT WAAAAITTTT AAAH
SO FUCKIN READY JESUS
🙋🏾♀️🙋🏾♀️
🙌
it dont even hurt anymore..
Felt
This that old Jhené.... you can hear the pain in her voice. She never sings like this.
Baesetta Fly wym triggered was like this and some of songs from her last album
th-cam.com/video/hUqMwu_ADdo/w-d-xo.html
Hey guys watch this video for 1second
Roe Sanle Not as soulful as this one though..... puts me in the same vibe from one of her old songs called “Pain”
Baesetta Fly oh
Baesetta Fly right her last album was lovey dovey this is the jhene music I adore the deep stuff
She puts her thoughts together so well. Her flow is unappreciated. Most def one of my favorite singers and artist.
Music Sihlouette definitely go see her in concert, just looking at her up close singing with real emotion will blow you away!