S.T.R.A.P. - (Surviving the Trauma of Rejection and Abandonment Plan) - Bishop T.D. Jakes
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- We all have endured trauma, but do you have what it takes to survive? Survival doesn’t happen by accident; you have to be intentional about moving forward. Nothing hurts like being rejected by our own, but even Jesus came to this world and was abandoned by the people who proclaimed they loved Him. No matter what has happened to you, don’t let the pain of rejection and abandonment get to your heart. Do whatever is necessary to get it out! Even though the trauma may not be your fault, it is your responsibility to heal.
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Message: S.T.R.A.P. (Surviving the Trauma of Rejection and Abandonment Plan)
Scripture: John 1:9-13 (NIV)
Speaker: Bishop T.D. Jakes
Date: Wednesday, August 3, 2022
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To anybody who's reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting you or whatever you are constantly stressing about gets better. May the dark thoughts, the overthinking, and the doubt exit your mind right now. May clarity replace confusion. May peace and calmness fill your life. Amen🙏🙏🙏
Amen
Amen, I receive that .
Thank you
Thank you! Amen
Amen! Thank you!
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"DON'T TRY TO UNDERSTAND IT, SURVIVE IT". POWERFUL!!
Thank you 🙏❤️
Yes!!!!
I went through rejection and abandonment all my life. If it wasn't for GOD I wouldn't have hope. Keep the faith brothers and sisters. GOD will never abandoned you or forsake you.
May the Lord Jesus 🙏bless you Mighty 🙏this year 🙏and ❤🙏you young man will give him all the Glory!
🙏🙏Keep holding on brother in Christ
Blessings @NapTownEddie have you been made whole from this? Have you been able to have successful relationships after dealing with this?. Ever since being saved I literally have nobody just Jesus and the Holy Ghost.
So have I. And I’ve done everything in my own power to avoid it from childhood-even moreso since my divorce, but nothing has worked. Today, I am giving it all back to Him because there’s no way I can do this anymore. God bless anyone struggling with rejection and abandonment.
❤
“If something better is coming something lesser has to go “ Wow!!
THAT WAS POWERFUL!
Rejection Is God’s Direction 🙏🏾🙌🏾
I ❤️this man, so full of wisdom, a sermon is like a therapy session.
man T.D. Jakes university always does it for me!!!!!!!
Very much so
Right….👏👏👏👏
Thank you , Thank you for this message. Every word was meant for me! Bless you♥️
I'm waiting for better...
Sometimes you just gotta thumb up the video soon as u read the title because you already know Bishop bout to bring it! If yall dont mind imma just go ahead and shout & holler ahead of time too, Let's go Bishop!
YES!
Yes yes yes.. this is meat and potatoes that makes you full!!!
I just saw the title and already shared it on my socials!! This gonna be goodT!!!
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I’m noticing that these sermons are lining up in my life. It’s like before I even turn it on, I would be talking to God for hours telling him everything that I’m feeling. Then you come along with a word like he’s answering me directly. Thank you God for loving me 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Hallelujah🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 My intake is the same
He is answering you directly. He said in the Book ask, seek, knock.
He meant it. But you have to have a relationship with Him to get to know Him.
Stay with Him, it gets better💝
You too?? I fully understand 😇
Amen!!!! Same thing for me! God is so GOOD!
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It Was Good For Me That I Was Afflicted 🙌🏾🙏🏾
Rejection is our protection. Glory be to God in Christ Jesus our King
My exact testimony. I often felt that there was a sign attached to me that said:" born to be rejected". It WAS the story of my life. But, those who rejected me didn't factor God into the equation. He has used all the pain of rejection, abandonment, shame, guilt, codependency, isolation, and identity crisis to bring me into the wilderness with Him. Now he's speaking comfortably to me and I am rising from the ashes of brokenness. Praise God. Thank you for this message.
❤❤❤ Perfectly description of being in the darkness of the enemy….
5 days ago i wrote in my notes....rejoice in rejection.......look at God 🙌🏽👏🏽🙏
💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
Thank you Lord for carrying my grief, l trust you are taking me somewhere despite the circumstances around me. I put my my life and trust in you alone.
Amen
Amen🙏
Take me back to those mothers humming in church praying over the families.
Lord yes!!
Something Better is Coming!!!!!! Thanknyou Father for the rejection and my Something Better❤❤❤
Something better is coming 🙌🏾 I receive it in the name of Jesus!
LORD WHY HAVE I BEEN ABANDONED & REJECTED LORD. LORD THIS PAIN IS RUNNING DEEP🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 GOD PULL IT DOWN LORD🙏🏾😭
Look to the right and see: there is none who takes notice of me; no refuge remains to me; no one cares for my soul. We know that, now, nothing can separate us from the Father's love (Romans 8:38-39). Man's rejection is made so small in light of the truth that, through the gospel, we have God's eternal love and acceptance, unconditionally. Revelation of GOD: IAM WHOLLY IAM VALTEZ TELPHARAOH IAM THE BIRTH ROOT OF KING DAVID IAM ANTONIO VALTEZ TELPHARAOH TOLIVER IAM JESUS CHRIST IAM AUTHOR OF CREATION IAM THE SOURCE OF ALL THERE IS PUBLICLY AND PRIVATELY. IAM RAREST ARK IAM HEWHOKNOWS IAM IMPERIAL KING AND POPE OF EARTH REALM IN ITS ENTIERLY. ENS REALE -IAMGOD
He will, shall
Am going through the same i walked out of unsatisfying,manipulative relationship from a lady i thought i would settle down with the events of the painful disagreement is still fresh in my heart GOD knows that i loved her so much
MY FAMILY AND I PRAY OVER YOU VICTORIA.
JAHOVAH ROPHE WILL HEAL YOU!
IN JESUS NAME WE PRAY
Isaiah 53:5
5 But he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him; and with his stripes we are healed.
HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH AMEN 🙌🏽.
@Victoria offer the pain to the LORD ; offer everything you have been given by him back to him. He will give it back, trust me. Then, you will get to know the pain of how much God loves us, and how much it hurts his heart that we turn away from him. Then, in the process, we learn the only true purest unconditional Love of Christ. Blessed be God. Blessings.
I literally cried out to God that I needed to scream! I felt the energies I’ve been carrying lately, frustration, anger, doubt, stress, worry, was starting to take a toll on me. I needed this! Thank you Pastor
Something better is coming
Some thing better is coming
Singing does that for me! Try it. We are black people and we are gifted musically just as David was
This is what I needed too. I have forwarded this to a friend.
God is good He knows EXACTLY what we need
Molested,raped,rejected,abandoned by my husband I'm every example in this sermon. God I'm done I give it to you so I can run and live and declare the works of the Lord
Been there amen he got u in Jesus amen🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Amen. Receive your healing in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus. He heard your cry late in the midnight hour. He sees your tears as he dries them away. Your testimony is someone else's story. Let God use you for His Glory.❤
Prayers of healing on your journey my sister❤ Love you and big hugs!!
Bless your heart ❤
Amen hallelujah!!!
Babies born to mothers who reject them and aren’t placed with a loving family. This is one evil I want to focus on & help negate in my future 💗
The enemy will try to fool your mind be glad you were left 🥰🙏🏽
Amen frfr
Something better is coming
Praise the Lord everyone online ♥️♥️♥️🙏🏿‼️
"SOMETHING BETTER IS COMING"
THANK YOU HOLY TRINITY ✝️✝️✝️
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I swear my whole life is in this sermon. Sometimes you're just done
Please bless someone else. I'd like to be a prayer partner with you. Let's get the glory and be a blessing to someone else.
🙏🏾hope I DON'T MISS HIM,🤲🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾💯‼️ JESUS HOLY NAME AMEN ‼️
Something better is coming in Jesus's name 🙏 Amen
Please pray for me Bishop in every area of my life. I need to be delivered. Forgive me Lord Almighty. I need to be renew and restore do a miracle in my life. Amen 🙏
You are forgiven Angel. He's already forgiven you and tossed it in the sea of forgetfulness. 💜 Keep your chin up!
Something better is coming! 🕊
I needed this.. it get’s overwhelming when you did all you can do and thinking something or someone will work they still end up playing you or using you. When you thought it was genuine but the whole time they never cared or loved you like you did them.
I feel you. I am going through the same thing. Always remember God speaks against using others. He will repay! Amen!
I’m going through the same thing too I’m 24 and pregnant by a man I didn’t know was married that everything was a lie he treated me poorly would always disappear has been married 2-3 times is probably currently married and has 4 kids as I’m pregnant with the 5th he lied to me about his sister dying and it was not his sister at all but one of his baby mothers I’m finding all of this out not from him of course but I do not want to be here anymore his deceit and dishonesty has ruined my life …
@@blazeme5389 I’m sorry to hear that. Is going to get better!! Hood your head up
@@kaylacharles4930 sorry to hear that.. God gave you.. and your baby.. is going to be alright
CHILDREN of God. Hold your heads up. Let go and let God. Pray 🙏 and you will be blessed.
Something better is COMING!🙏🙏❤️
SOMETHING BETTER IS COMING IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME AMEN AMEN. PLEASE PRAY FOR ME
I pray the light in you becomes so bright that it outshines anything not for your good🙌🏾 In Jesus name, we Pray! AMEN❤️
Prayers sent
"Something Better is coming!!!" 🙋🏾♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏾♀️🙏🏾
Amen ,Amen,Amen,Amen ,Amen with GRACE!
hi everyone may the good lord continues to shine his beautiful light on us this is day the lord has made I will continue to rejoice in it and be glad amen
Amen hallelujah 🙏🙏🙏
Amen🙏🙏🙏
Amen
I needed to hear this! Addicted to wrong for far too long and trying to overcome the rejection. Trauma bond is real but my God’s got me! Thank you!! God bless 🙏🏽
Amen!
Something better is coming , In Jesus name .❤❤
My God...for all the sisters who are a victim of rape, God bless you all greatly, all love from the brother, you deserve better and will receive better in the name of Yeshua Christ
Yes!! Amen & amen!!
This platform has been my place of healing and encouragement , my new favorite Wednesday night bible study ...bless you bishop though u will never know me as I am half the world away , the holispirit who is one speaks to my heart through you every time !!! Many more years ! My prayer
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Amen
TRUE FACTS MY FRIEND BLESSINGS IN UNLIMITED ABUNDANCE!!![999]
Same here too. Bless you fam. 🙏
Praise the the lord every body he is worthy to be praised.
Only God knows! The timing of this 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Something better is coming!!!! Jesus!!!
He changed my life thank you GOD ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
Couldn't control my tears when Bishop read" and she lived in absaloms house a desolate woman" i know you feel what I felt!
Same Here🙏🏿🥲
Better is coming
Yes, the same with me!
I'm sitting in the Walmart parking lot bawling!!
Something better is coming in Jesus Mighty Name Amen and Amen 🙏 🙌
Something better is coming 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
something better is coming... thank you, Jesus
Praise God 👏🏾 🙌🏾 something better is coming in my direction I claim it in Jesus name 🙏🏾
Awesome Bible study! I praise God for the anointing over your life! Me & my sister got delivered right in my living room! Oh how the Holy Spirit can move anywhere!!! 🙌🏽🙏🏽
Thanks for watching write me up for prayers 💕🙏love you, remain blesse..
Thank you for your awesome words thank you for being the greatest teacher ❣️ I love you Bishop
Something is better coming. I needed to hear this tonight.
Something better is coming! Praise Jesus!
Don't try to understand it, just survive it, : Epic Statement!!!!!!!💪💯👊👊👊
I woke up this morning with an overwhelming feeling of rejection. My mother, father, brother, and countless love ones that would be here to be community have passed. Life hasn’t been easy for me. I’ve helped helped countless of loved ones and I feel when I need help there is no one around. I’ve accepted that God is my main source and I let go of all feelings of rejection! I cried out before pressing play and this is confirmation that I can I will and must prevail! Continue to bless us. My goal is to come to one of your services before the year is out. I’m so grateful for your messages! I love you and thank God for using you to bring the word to the masses
Haven't even started yet and I know it's for me, based on the title because I was just talking about rejection & abandonment, how I'm recognizing them and accepting it because it's for my good. Thank you Lord in advance, cause I know you're gonna kill it, in Bishop Jakes. Hallelujah🙌🙌🙌
Rejected BUT NOT DEAD!!!!!! LORD 😭 Have mercy.
I Have LEARNED TO MOVE ON
WITH My LIFE. THROUGH PRAYING
A MEN.
I really really needed this. Thank you Lord!
Something better is coming! Praise God! 🙌
Glory Glory glory Glory glory glory glory glory glory glory glory glory.
Amen something better is coming Thank you LORD
Bishop it's hard for me to stand!
But because of that blood that gives me strength for day to day!
Somthing, better is coming, IN Jesus,
Name Amen!!!
Amen
Amen 🙏🏼
Something better is coming ❤
This was EVERYTHING!! Thank you LORD!!🙏🏾🫶🏾
Always therapy for the soul..🙏🙏 Thank you Lord
Powerful teaching Bishop!! I thank God for you. I am a rape survivor and this resonated in so many ways. I am more than a conqueror through Christ Jesus. 🙌🏾 No more rejected existence I will LIVE and declare the works of the Lord.
All shall be well🙏
BLESS U! BLESS U! BLESS U! & BE HEALED REVIVED RENEWED RESTORED & MADE WHOLE & COMPLETE WITH INCREASE SUCCESS VICTORY & SET FREE WITH BLESSINGS & UNLIMITED ABUNDANCE IN JESUS NAME AMEN! AMEN! AMEN!!![999]
Something better is Coming!!🙂🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
SOMETHING BETTER IS COMING! HALLELUJAH!!!!
God bless you family...be sure to find the silver lining in the dark. It'll guide you...✝
Dear Bishop, please let me tell you that you look really resplendent in these African attires. Every bit the King and Priest that you are. Thank you for being such a gift to the body of Christ. ❤️
Thanks for watching write me up for prayers 💕🙏love you, remain blesse.. child of God
In my lowest place in life I've still tried
This is the word I need!!
Change your investment, you change your return 🙌
Something better is coming Aneme !!!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
When I was a boy, this same very exact thing happened. Christmas Night The whole Family together, Incredible how when all the gifts were unwrapped Everyone got 1 but me. & my Family brought gives for everyone else. Then the ones responsible took me in to a Room and gave me an Extra cologne that was left, Come to think of it maybe it was set up, O well I'm freed now and understand the clues that were left in my past. Thanks
This happen to me as A child too
Please forgive me God for the sins I’ve committed. Guide me into better days and give me the strength to resist temptation. Please. Amen 🙏
Deep title so I sat at the edge of my seat the entire message! I saved this one too just for my fasting day and I’m sooo glad I did! Please pray for me 🙏🏽🙏🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🫶🏽💯😌
I saved it too. I'm praying 🙏 for you right now. I'd like to be a prayer partner with you.
Jesus was rejected and abandoned too 🙏❤️.
🗣️SOMETHING BETTER IS COMING🙌🏼
I started my morning with this powerful word!! When Bishop talked about the mourning bench the Holy Spirit began moving and I began walking every corner of my house praising God and rebuking the enemy and every trace of darkness surrounding me. My day is going to be awesome 👏🏽
I would never abandon are reject any one I have experienced it and I know the feeling. I can never hurt the one I love ❤️ God has and is too good to me.
Something better is coming and I will be so grateful humble and bless
SOUNDING BETTER IS COMING!!!!
Jesus!!!! Right on time!
This message is a therapy. I have tried to understand rejection but I have learnt to survive it. Thank you Bishop. The confusion I had is settled.
My Blessing are coming. Thank You Jesus . Everything that the devil stole. Will be returned. In the Mighty Name Of Jesus. WHAT A MIGHTY GOD WE SERVE HALLELUJAH, HALLELUJAH, HALLELUJAH ,HALLELUJAH. HALLELUJAH Thank you Jesus..God Bless All the saints of God. We love you TD Jake's and your family. Thank you for Being a blessing to many. God bless you and you're family 👪 🙏 ...HALLELUJAH ❤💕♥💙 HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH .
RIGHT IF IT WASN'T WORKING MY OWN WAY . I HAD TO GIVE IT TO JESUS AND ASKED THE LORD TO HELP ME WITH HIS WILL BE DONE IN MY LIFE AMEN 🙏💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
Something better is coming! Amen hallelujah!!!
something better is coming bless everyone here in jesus christ name amen
Blessed is he who comes in the name of the lord Jesus Christ 🙏
What a beautiful sermon so easy to stay awake and not let the enemy enter to confuse me! 🙌🏼🙌🏼 God is good!
U R SO right
LORD I HAVE REJECTED YOU OR HAVE YOU REJECTED ME LORD, GOD I’M SORRY.😭🙌🏾🙏🏾😭
You are never rejected. God is always with you. Please message me back. I wanna pray with you.
Something better is coming...thank you..
Something better is coming🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I love you my Bishop TD Jakes and First Lady,I can’t miss any of your sermon because they are therapy in my life and my family,I know one day everything is going to turn together for my good in Jesus name.
This really helped after seeing a married man for more than 10 years. I constantly feel horrible. He does these episodes of ignoring me and loving me more than I’ve ever been loved. I know I deserve to be hurt, I didn’t fall in love with him on purpose to hurt anyone but he is the only man I love. I have not met a man in more than a decade that can turn my head from him. I have to learn to be alone and let him go. Very hard. 💔he is constantly abandoning me and comes back afterwards. It is painful. I pray to god for help with these feelings. Thank u god for everything and I beg for your forgiveness. Please give me the wisdom to know what to do to help myself. ✝️🙏🏽. He will never love me as much as I love him.😔
Keep praying (don’t cease) and God will strengthen you enough to walk away from that situation. After you are done with that man for good ask God to reveal to you why you got into and stayed in that situation and allow God to heal you and make you whole and forgive yourself. Been there and it’s critical that you get to the root of why you ended up there. In time you will be happy to be alone vs being with an unavailable man who cannot love you the way you deserve to be loved. God has so much more for you but He’s waiting on you to let go of that situation. And until you have let go physically and in your heart of that man..no man even a man that God ordained for you will never “turn your head”. Sis, it’s a trick of the enemy…fight like you’ve never fought before to end the ungodly relationship. Praying for you!
There is also this great book called Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl, maybe you should check it out. Bishop also spoke of having a Plan in place to overcoming and dealing with the trauma and abandonment when it comes. Maybe you need to map out a plan. That book is really insightful.
@@lcjones4682 amen & amen!! Wise advice 💜
Ugh, I'm almost triggered *but* God!! I didn't do 10 years (praise God) but it was long enough!! Sis, please let him go! You deserve better, you are better! I remember carrying around that heaviness, that feeling of knowing you're doing something wrong but then here comes Mr. Love Bomb and here comes that affection we long for. Sis, it's better to leave sooner than later. If there's someone close by who can pray over you, ask them to. God loves you so much, He's standing right next to you waiting for you to long for Him like you do him. Big lesson I had to learn.
Repent. Turn from this. God is not pleased. But He’s faithful and just to forgive.
I praise you Lord Jesus 🙏 🙌 ❤ 💖 ✨
Something better is coming thank you Jesus
Something better is coming!!!!!!!!
Good morning everyone this sermon is so good I needed this therapy
Amen!
I love this sermon
The speaker of the living word of GOD, I started listening to you when I was 17yrs ,my life is not the some, Jesus keep changing my life through the word which you preach.
Something better is coming and the name of Jesus
I’m at peace with anyone that has given me pain or wounds. I have forgiven everyone that has tried to damage me. I have God as a friend. That’s all the friend I need. I’m committed to righteousness and fairness to the fullest. Amen.