I used to struggle with perfectionism when I was much younger e.g I always wanted my room to be always perfect that I would rather lay on a tiny space on the floor than sleep on my perfectly made bed, but I came to realise how limitung perfectionism made me, and I'm glad to say I'm in a much better place now. Thanks for sharing Marie.
Some mistakes imperfections are beneficial and may give you new insight on why it was a mistake or new perspective. Theres pots that break.. I think in japan .. they reseal the pots with gold, and it looks so much more unique than before. Also we are human not robots making Mistakes is just stepping stones to learning many things like we fell when first were learning to walk...we stumbled across words when learning to read, but we kept at it and that's when we see the reward grow and gain skills
Marie, I so needed to hear this as I often have this fear of not being good enough, or not being relevant enough! Thank you!! I'll get back to work now and focus on PROGRESSSSS!!!!!!! YEEEESSS!!!!!
When we live our lives approaching certainty, it influences us to focus on our identity. When we live our lives embracing uncertainty, it influences us to enjoy the process. Identity Vs. Process. Marie, I've been following you since 2015 and the inspiration for my Channel. I love you to the moon and back!
"Focus on Progress, not perfection!" I wrote it down on a sticky note right away and put it on my screen. I needed to hear that and keep reminding myself of this! Thanks, Marie!
What an amazing lady u are Marie. A total package of Fun,humour,beauty,attraction,kindness,friendliness,Wisdom,knowledge,purity ❤️😻Love u alotttt God bless u
I just love her. I go back and forth with this. I have to keep reminding myself of how I felt perfect when I put the progress out there and didn't dwell that it wasn't so perfect.
It keeps me from taking the next step... when I believe the part of me that is pointing out everything that is not ok about things. So I'm learning to acknowledge every step forward and be kind to myself.
The real progress in your dreams can only be done if you stop worrying that you are not good enough!!! Perfectionism is a destructive way of thinking or doing things! I love when you said “progress not perfectionism”
I go back and forth between perfectionist tendencies to saying f it I don’t care about anything anymore. I wish I could find that middle ground. I’ve never felt like I was doing enough. I find it easy to critique what I’m doing, but don’t celebrate my wins nearly enough.
I just completed a series of articles as a reporter. I may have heard a little voice in my head saying: "you're not as good as others." It was a huge project, but it turned out to be my best work yet. Thanks for reminding me to say nice things about myself. 👍💕
Marie, I think the universe uses you to get me out of my head, I was thinking some shitty thoughts about my work, then this popped into my timeline. Happy Friday yall!!
Marie, You and Brendon Burchard are the 2 most genuine advisors that actually have meaty stuff to share. Every time I hear either of you, you bring something insightful and impactful. It’s not the same recycled jargon. Then again, maybe it is, but I needed to hear it from Jersey Marie for it to land. Haha Thank you for sharing your wisdom!
🙏🏻😊💖 Thank You so much Marie! I needed to hear this once again. And it does so good to hear and see this really happens to everyone; no matter where you are in life #discoverenjoyfeelgood2
so timely!! My next video is all about why my YT channel sucks 😂 at least I don't feel so alone in trying to make everything just perfect....such a waste of time
I used to struggle with perfectionism when I was much younger e.g I always wanted my room to be always perfect that I would rather lay on a tiny space on the floor than sleep on my perfectly made bed, but I came to realise how limitung perfectionism made me, and I'm glad to say I'm in a much better place now. Thanks for sharing Marie.
We're glad for you too. Thank you for sharing in such an honest way.
Some mistakes imperfections are beneficial and may give you new insight on why it was a mistake or new perspective. Theres pots that break.. I think in japan
.. they reseal the pots with gold, and it looks so much more unique than before. Also we are human not robots making Mistakes is just stepping stones to learning many things like we fell when first were learning to walk...we stumbled across words when learning to read, but we kept at it and that's when we see the reward grow and gain skills
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🥳 go sistah
High standards + progress
Yes! There’s where I am now. Perfection was killing my entire vibe!
Who else is sitting at home thinking everyone else has everything figured out lolol ??
Ha ha this January is showing many do not 👀
Hahahaha
Marie, I so needed to hear this as I often have this fear of not being good enough, or not being relevant enough! Thank you!! I'll get back to work now and focus on PROGRESSSSS!!!!!!! YEEEESSS!!!!!
This came just when I needed it the most.
THANKYOU for sharing all of this with us...MARIE....YOU ARE AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
When we live our lives approaching certainty, it influences us to focus on our identity. When we live our lives embracing uncertainty, it influences us to enjoy the process. Identity Vs. Process. Marie, I've been following you since 2015 and the inspiration for my Channel. I love you to the moon and back!
Thank YOU for being with us all this time. WOW. Your commitment means the world to us.
Thank you so much for sharing this Marie, this was a message that I really needed to hear right now!
"Focus on Progress, not perfection!" I wrote it down on a sticky note right away and put it on my screen. I needed to hear that and keep reminding myself of this! Thanks, Marie!
Hope it's a mantra that serves you well, Mariska.
What an amazing lady u are Marie. A total package of Fun,humour,beauty,attraction,kindness,friendliness,Wisdom,knowledge,purity ❤️😻Love u alotttt God bless u
I just want to say Thank You, you are one of the few people that has given me allot of inspiration to grow myself.
I just love her. I go back and forth with this. I have to keep reminding myself of how I felt perfect when I put the progress out there and didn't dwell that it wasn't so perfect.
Thank you. This is what I needed today: progress instead of perfection. Please, keep on creating such great content.
It keeps me from taking the next step... when I believe the part of me that is pointing out everything that is not ok about things. So I'm learning to acknowledge every step forward and be kind to myself.
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The real progress in your dreams can only be done if you stop worrying that you are not good enough!!! Perfectionism is a destructive way of thinking or doing things! I love when you said “progress not perfectionism”
You're so right! It can totally get in the way. So glad you had that a-ha.
I go back and forth between perfectionist tendencies to saying f it I don’t care about anything anymore. I wish I could find that middle ground. I’ve never felt like I was doing enough. I find it easy to critique what I’m doing, but don’t celebrate my wins nearly enough.
Reward yourself for the journey...the effort. Establish a Growth Mindset and drive forward every day :-)
very thoughtful discussion. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thanks to Marie..! I've overcome my perfectionism.. BIG TIME!
Yeeeeeess :-) Well Done!!
Amazing, Marie! 🤣 Yes... better done than perfect! Thanks 🙏🏻
Absolutely. Strive for Perfection daily, yes. However, embrace the Process, the Progress...each day is a Gift :-)
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Preach sistah 🙌🏻 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
We creatives need to hear this! It will help with enjoying the journey 🥳
Marie you are great enough.
To inspire and show that there is a way to have things done without being slaved by perfectionism.
Thanks!
I love the way you describe the real path to achieving a goal. Thanks so much for sharing this
I just completed a series of articles as a reporter. I may have heard a little voice in my head saying: "you're not as good as others." It was a huge project, but it turned out to be my best work yet. Thanks for reminding me to say nice things about myself. 👍💕
We hope you keep up that positive self talk, Katina. Congrats on the awesome work!
Marie, I think the universe uses you to get me out of my head, I was thinking some shitty thoughts about my work, then this popped into my timeline. Happy Friday yall!!
Yeyy! Exactly!! 👏🏻👏🏻🤗✨✨
Marie, You and Brendon Burchard are the 2 most genuine advisors that actually have meaty stuff to share. Every time I hear either of you, you bring something insightful and impactful. It’s not the same recycled jargon. Then again, maybe it is, but I needed to hear it from Jersey Marie for it to land. Haha Thank you for sharing your wisdom!
Well, Jersey Marie IS really unique, Sasha ;) We're so glad it helps!
I am a task-oriented perfectionist. Thank you for explaining why someone like me is not considered the fun one. 👍
Fantastic video, Marie. I have learned so much from your channel. Thank you so much ❤
Mam your the best 😃
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Thank You so much Marie! I needed to hear this once again.
And it does so good to hear and see this really happens to everyone; no matter where you are in life
#discoverenjoyfeelgood2
She is just wonderful! REALLY!!! ✨✨✨👍
Yeah that's real progress for some people ✌️ i luv the way you said
Thanks Marie!
YESS! We're not alone..I struggle with this..
This was just perfect😉😘
I watched this talk live. 😀☺️
same! so helpful to hear this again :D
We're so glad you were able to be there. YAY!
This is fantastic!
thanks for sharing 👍👍👍
Wow, Marie, I just needed to watch this video now.. Progress, not Perfection! THANK YOU!💕🙌
Thanks so much for watching, Penelope.
100% right on!!! Celebrate every inch of progress. You got this :-)
@@bobrodgersperformance thank you! :)
I was there! ❤️
Thank you
so timely!! My next video is all about why my YT channel sucks 😂 at least I don't feel so alone in trying to make everything just perfect....such a waste of time
oh yeah, that takeaway is soooo important. You just need to "reset" your opinion of it. Thus, "it doesn't suck. it's a work in progress" :-)
Its not perfectionism as such, but all my desires are unrealistic and so I can never be happy.
Done all,
Take action
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Always
Progress, not perfection! ❤️
Lol yeah so true 👌
Perfectionist without knowing
Progress not perfection.....a recipe for peace of mind and success.
You & I could probably talk for HOURRRRS.. 👁😎😏