@@fouziasiddique6536 Husbands are NOT top priority of a woman first comes Allah n His Rasull SAW but even for other women kids are their priority n they also should be
Ok now i really want feed back for this. You said financially women need to be independent if husband reamarries. But as soon as women get married they are expented to abandon their career job etc pressure from own parents, inlaws husband that they are neglecting their home and kids. When she is fully into home busy even neglects herself them husband finds a new better looking or whatever wife due to HIS midlife crisis. Yea you are reassuring sister here not to be emotionally dependent on her husband and to be more connected with our Dean i agree. But when our Prophet SWT married he treated and provided for his wives equally. Here especially in Pakistan men show off and fully neglect their first wives and kids. Your whole society and their expectations do not match. People pick and choose dean what suits them. Yes if one's spouse dies she is expected to work and provide fine but why should one do it whe husband remarries?? The whole point of having multiple wives is so you can treat them equally in this day and age i dont think pakistani men are capable of this.
Yes, Allah didn't say women to earn ,allah made husband the provider for wife. so it is a man responsibility to take here of her.I always find these man talks about 4 marreige n NV talk about hukooks which is most difficult to do justice among 2 wives. By misleading the umat ,they are only accounting sins on their accounts n making their akhirat ruined May Allah give them hidayat. Even if husband died ,she didn't need to work she can really on her husband properity n get remarry so that other man will take care of her expenses n this is the reason four marreige are given in islam, that if any one wants support the women in society so that exploitation of women will not happen.
@@hannahcameron158 I have married a divorce lady with 2 kids n in my 20 years of marriage me n my first wife never fight. After my second marriage I have increased finance of my first wife much more than b4 n she is very deendar. But after second marriage which occured after her permission I don't have a single hour where my first wife don't taunt me. I m much more caring then b4 for my first wife she has no financial issue she is deendar but she is behaving cruely with me n have negative remarks for second wife. Financial is not the issue it's the mindset
In my 20 years of marriage I can swear that my wife never left the door alone without me even to buy a lemon from 10 feet distance vegetable shop. Now she says she want to go alone any where like to park for walk without me. She want to do every thing that would hurt me
@@masroorkashif1369Everyone needs independence that makes them brave I mean it gives them confidence. It doesn't mean she doesn't like ur company or something like that trust me I have been there too at times u feel dependent and it makes u feel dumb. May Allah Subhnanahuta'ala make it easy for both of u n may u understand each other n find a solution that suits u both n makes u both grow together in ur marriage n individually as well. Ameen
Doesn't all husband has jealousy to his wife if his wife earns more than him?? Y do men forces to abandon career ..There are so many successful women who can manage home n work place equally the only condition is if husband is supportive ...but yaha to husband ko 4 shaadi ni kare to unhe momin ka crown 👑 hi ni milega ...
Listen buddy ... Rizk agar likha hua hai too it will come just to trust in Allah. It is a blessing that we have shameful males who do not want their mothers and their sisters to be labouring for their bosses. Do you consider it ideal that your female relatives do laborious work? At the end of the day female should work on building their ties stronger with their own family instead of finding independance by relying on work. That is more honorable. In islam we there are prohibitions relating to free mixing and working in environemnt filled with men is no good at all so i do not think it is ideal that you should encourage female to work and are portraying men as evil for not allowing their wives to work.
High earning woman has masculine traits, she is combative, non agreeable and usually egoistic and these traits are unattractive to men. High earning men dont care about woman career they want a feminine woman that give him peace. Men dont want to marry a dude. In contrast woman dont dont like men that dont earn and sit home and just chill and dont take responsibility such men are not attractive to woman.
I actually Wrote something in my diary years ago when I used to be in so much anxiety, depression and loneliness so one evening I wrote that if you want to be happy and contented you have to be independent emotionally and psychologically your happiness shouldn’t be dependent on any person you shouldn’t rely on any person on this planet that he will help you make you happy and satisfy you if you are dependent over anyone beyond limits, then you are in great mess although I I don’t act upon this consistently, but watching this video I can relate
I love my first wife so.much n i did second marriage to help a divorce lady with her 2 kids but my first wife n my own brothers n sister became my enemy n it seemed that i m the most characterless human on the phase of the planet.
Just tell me one thing...was marrying that divorced lady the only way to help her...there were so many other ways to assist her...u don't love your wife..had u loved her u won't have even thought of hurting her... I'm myself a male but I know that how difficult it is to share especially something very precious ... had u been a female then u would have realized her pain...I am not perfect but all the time afraid to hurt others...by crashing someone's heart to countless pieces,don't claim to love her... it's the insult of the word, the feeling and everything attached to it
@@muhammadhassanmuhammadhass990 if this was so why would ALLAH have legislated or made it halal for man in sura nisa to marry 2 or 3 or 4. Secondly no one can bare responsibility of other others unless they r bonded in a relation of wife n husband
I know that my opinion is going to be unpopular here. I believe that Muslim women should first and foremost be financially independent because all the ISLAM of the Muslim guys (now-a-days) starts and ends with 4 marriages. Second they should never settle for the guy with this mindset of multiple marriages. They argue that females are more than males in number but don't look into the details for that. Females are more than males only beyond a certain age limit of 60s if someone bothers looking at statistics. Now, will a Muslim bro marry a widow above 60 to support her? Second they say that we do not have good enough men who can play the role of a provider person. Yes we don't because we spent all our efforts in raising the girls properly and perfect while men can do as they please. This person is gaslighting the lady completely, using his so-called knowledge of Psychology. Every household needs a father and a mother in order for the kids to grow well. We do look into the role of mother in kids growth but ignore that the father should also be a role model for his/her kids. And this perception is valid for both the son and daughter. I have a question to all Islamic bros saying "MashaAllah and SubhanAllah" to his videos. Will your father still be your role-model if he brings a 2nd, 3rd or 4th wife in the presence of your mother and you see your mother suffering day-in and day-out because of that? If your answer is NO, it is time to look into your own hypocrisy. This man not just completely ignored but also invalidated the woman's experience saying that she should be emotionally strong to face that. I am telling that no man or woman is emotionally strong enough to face that. In our society, men cannot even put up with the past male partners or previous marriage a woman has had. And this INTELLECTUAL here is asking for emotional independence on the woman's part. I think it has more to do with the attachment that a person grows while living with their husband/wife and has nothing to do with emotional dependence (If Mr. Sahil Adeem barely knows any Psychology, he shall know the difference between the two). And lastly, even a financially independent woman cannot put up with a man having another wife. A financially independent woman would, at the most, end up leaving her husband and live her own life with their kids which will mess up the kids life and personality in the end. Irrespective of that, I don't think any middle class man in today's world (except Sheikhs or millionaires) is capable of both financially and morally supporting more than one wife plus kids which is basically a pre-requisite for multiple marriages.
Sb se khubsurat justification r clarification..jo aj tk mein ne suni...you covered all aspects.... U were totally right when you said k male r female dono hi nai kr skte bardasht third party ko....hq ada kr dia.... Hmare mashre ko is mindset ki zaroorat hai❤
Ap Dr ha ap KO pata hoga mard ke Harmons Ka isliye Allah ne mard KO ijazat Di ha dusra aurta zyada paida Hoti ha poori dunya ma Woh kaha jayengi baaki ap musalman ha Allah ne quran ma ijazat Di ha manna ha mana Nahi manna na mana
@@komaljavaid6794if u don't follow Islam no problem ap west ki aurat KO Zara dekhe to tissue paper ha use Karke chordiya American website ne jaka research Kara 1 mard shadi SE pehle on an average 8 SE 20 larkiyo ke sath sooya Hota ha isliye Allah ne mard KO ijazat di ha ke larkiya public property na bana aur ghar ki malka bana isliye mard ko 4 ki ijazat ha ap ko quran nahi mana woh apka deen aur iman ha marna apko bhi ha allah ko kya jawab denge
Dear bro.. To me, the real problem today is not regarding 2 3 4th marriage.. It's actually abt romancing, dating doing haram n absurd things n flirting around. Today coz of co edu n mix atmosph of male female working n i teracting with each other, attraction n temptation is inevitable,marriages r no doubt permissible but even Rasoolullah sallellahu alahiwasallam said Insaf na kar paoge Ek per Iktefa karo..M not against polygamy, if Allah has permitted for something you don't feel good about it's rather your Azmaish,you should bow down n accept but what should b done for those bhatke hue admi jo dating chatting n adultery me doobte jare h n ending up marrying 2 3 4 women, un per zina ki had jari q na kare?
May Allah forgive our mistakes, both knowing & unknowing. “May Allah forgive us, Guide us, cleanse our tongues, purify our hearts, and rectify our affairs.” May Allah replace your sadness with something Beautiful.
سورت یوسف 12 آیت 28 فَلَمَّا رَاٰ قَمِیۡصَہٗ قُدَّ مِنۡ دُبُرٍ قَالَ اِنَّہٗ مِنۡ کَیۡدِکُنَّ ؕ اِنَّ کَیۡدَکُنَّ عَظِیۡمٌ ﴿۲۸﴾ پھر جب شوہر نے دیکھا کہ ان کی قمیص پیچھے سے پھٹی ہے تو اس نے کہا کہ : یہ تم عورتوں کی مکاری ہے ، واقعی تم عورتوں کی مکاری بڑی سخت ہے.
Totally agree acc to islam ✅but I have a question ab jesy k pakistan men dusri shadi ke bry men emotionally independent and strong ni hain tw ab suppose agr koi aurat us bndy se shadi krti ha usko tw pehli bv aur pura khandan baduan deta rhy ga k is ny shadi shuda mrd ko phasa diya like is trhan tw dono aurton aur us mard ki b life tabah hogi tw ab is peer pressue se kesy bch skty hain??
Exactly i agree...female should think positive the coming second wife has her own fate she is utilizing her right her part not yours...husband is not a property of one wife dnt consider him your slave he is made for other 3dnt snatch the right of other 3s
Attention Dear girls Meri bat Goor Sy sun lo mard ky Sath wafadar rehna chor do yehi wahid Hal Hy apny liye jeyooo bus selfish hojao ye Tum logon ka zehani sakoon khrab krdety Hain tu Tum kiyn inki parwah krrahi ho sirf apna socho in py kabhi bi tras mat Khana yehi Hal Hy sakoon Sy Zindagi jeeny ka
@@86sharique hahaha Allah sy jorna or bat hy or insani strong nature hona or bat hy Khair ap jesy mardon ko ab free ki wafadar masiyan milna bnd hojani hai or qareeb me hi aurat ky pass mard ziyada progress or taraqi hogi or dominant ban jain gi mardon ki feroniyat khatam hony lagi hai wo wala zamna any lga inshallah
Aslamaualikm bhai mari shadi ko 19 sal ho gy boht mushkil waqt gozara hr qadam py sath diya bohr ghorbat dakhi ab jb us k pas pasa h to wo dosri shadi karna chahta h mujh kahta h k agr ni ki to mary gona tumary si r py jo m bahir karonga plz m kya karo plz replay maa bap bi ni h 2 bachy h
Ap ky sar pe kaise uska koi gunnah ho sakta ha? Ap tou sirf dosri shadi se mana kr rhi, usko zina krny ko tou nhi na keh rhi. Apko sharminda honay ki zarurat nhi, sharminda usay hona chahiye kh aj usky paas paisa aaya ha tou wo apka ehsaas nhi kr rha
Jb 20 sal aik rishty py investment ki ho sacrifice ki ho har tarah say to easy nhi hota buht tough hota bardasht karna..... Jealousy is lye hoti k dusri shadi huu aur Usk lye policy change hoti h...
Sir jin females k husband out of country hn wahan extra Martial relationship mn h or biwi se bat tk krna gawara na kry is k bary mn b plz guide kren ... Is topic py b bat krne plz
@@warrior1541 bilkul lkin aorat kia kry uska mard bahir ayashi kr rha or us se call py bat tk ni kr raha usk ghr ka sara kam kry usk bachy sanbhaly kia uska itna b haq ni k Apni biwi se bat hi kr ly
@@Dailyroutinelife786 alaidgi ikhtiyar ker leni chahye aysy insaan se, aur khud ko independent bena'ay, bachy sirf us k tou ni hein na.. agr wo aysa hai to bachon ki terbiyat ki zimadari ap lein..
Sir wo larky jo pehly haram relationships ma involve hoty hen or phr unki family unki shadi apni mrzi se krwadti ha or phr wo apni wife ko baby hony ke bwjood chordty hen divorce dy dty hen dubara us larki se shadi krny ke leay or phr wae family jo apni marzi ki bahu ly kr gi hoti ha us bahu ko physically abused krti ha or larka sth mil jta ha or kehti ha tm hmary larky ke like ni ho or dubra udhr uski marzi ki shadi krwa ke us masoom lrki ki or uski family ki life brbad krty hen wo jo larki jsny apny shohar ke sth sincerity se relation rkha hr chees p comprise krti rahi uski life kharb krdty hen phr sir esy 2 no ghtiya lrkon ki dusri shadi jaiz honi cheay ya inko jail ma dal kr juty prwany cheay ??? sir please is topic py bhi video bnnaden
Is sab case mein aik hi problem hai larki bechari kun hai. Jab aj ka mard itna zalil ho sakta hai to larki bechari kun hai. Dosri ghalti larki ke parents ki hai. Ek to unhon ne aik larki ki asi tarbiyat ki ke woh BECHARI ban gai aur Phir apni bechari bete ki shadi ek characterless aur spineless mard se kar di. Spineless es liye ke jab usko kisi aur se karni thi shadi toh maa bap ki baat kun mani. Aur ab aj 3rd ghalti us larki ki hai. Woh aik bachay ki maa hai she should realise woh ab larki nahi aik aurat hai woh bechari nahi she should stand up for herself either educate herself ya koi hunar sekh la lakh lanat bheje shohar par aur apni life banaye
@@spiceitupwithus maa bap ke sth scam kea unk apny hi relatives ny rishta krwa kar or larki within 3 months kesy pehchanti asliyat esy mard ki or jb usny apny leay stand Lea to us mard ny divorce dy di na usny apny baby ma socha na us larki ka
@@spiceitupwithus wo Jo apni mrzi se bahu banna kr ly kr gy thy ly ja kr uskoo brbad kr ke ghr se nikl dea esy in laws ke bary ma Kya khayal Jinp maa bap trust kr ke beti dty hen
@@spiceitupwithus it's very easy to say ke wo aurat ni ha maa bangae ha agar wo maa banni ha to wo bhi to baap banna ha oski bhi to olad ha zimydari uthaey khrcha dy bchy ka bivi ka guts ni hen esy mardon ma
@Laiba Laiba I agree ghalat howa. Dhoka mila larki ko. Ab kia sari zindagi yahi soch ke roti rahe? Insan ka accident ho jata hai paralyse ho jata hai hum usko kehte hain sabar karoo look at the positive things in life. This girl is not paralysed she is perfectly fine she should come out self pity and do something for herself and her child before it's too late
@@KiNgAmMuRi It is just a hypocritical excuse to avoid ones responsibilities while enabling poor behavior towards women. I have seen men who raise their kids single handedly even after their wives are expired, without any 2nd marriage. Don't blame it on nature, as a human being men are very capable of evolving to better, given that they stop making such excuses about themselves.
1)But when you do more than one marriage whole family faces various forms of fight and children faces the consequences of it , when you couldn't raise your next generation properly what's the use of your first marriage 2) husband never does justice between thier viwes 3)whats the use of producing so much babies Just to increase number as our prophet said Muslims will be good numbers but not in deed 4) destroying the children environment where mum and dad live happily
Sharm aana chaheye aise log preacher bne pde h Jo endorse kr rhe h ke second marriage ko bardast kre aurte,taqat lae Aur aisa logo se log counselling kara rhe h Had h behudgi ki Jb ek mard do teen char shadi kr skta h To aurat apne mard ke rehte huye kyu nhi kr skti Lekin ye es mard samaj ko bardast nhi hoga Aur Mze ki baat ye h fir aise he kuch log samjhane lgta h aurat kyu nhi kr skti Ye aisa y vo aisa h Sharm kro Behtr h unfollow kro aise logo ko
Tank you samjany k lia 😭😭😭💔💔 ma 1 sal say mari ti k mery hasband ny ki shadi karai gai zabardasti us k maa bap ny wo nae karna cjara ta per bhot zabardasti kar k us ki shadi kia uno ny to ma nazar ho kar usy chor dia😭😭😭
Mr shahil Adeem allah didnt say women to earn n be financial independence. You talk about deen over duniya but it comes to women your duniya will be over deen. Why ? Allah didnt say to earn to a woman. Bina parda bina separation aur haram kaam aurat nahi jar sakti, nabuat tak that is at least 12 years bacha palna hai. To earning ki responsibility allah ne di hi nahi hai. Jab earning bola hi nahi to ku sawal hoga, aurat ka talaq ho ya windows ho to uski jimedari uske wali that is father per ati hai father na ho to bhaio per. Sawal to baap aur bhai se hoga ki bewa beti ya bhahan ka hukook pura nahi kiya. Biwi ka pura haq rahega uske shahur ki dolat per App apna sahi deen kare, app logo ko gumrah kar rahe hai Yaha apo practice solution de rahe hai ye deen nahi bolta .
Islam Deen ftriat he Allal NY ye kinyat chalani he is me Kiya nizam ho ga ye insaan k jajbat se nahi chalye gi I m a woman ye Sach he k sokan bardasht krna muskil he lakin is pr Jo swab he wo Soo sheedoo k brabr he is laye AK Muslim woman ko Islam ka ye nazam maloom hona chaye
Most financial independent woman file for divorce, all I worry is broken homes and children sufferings. Financial Independent woman still must be sumbissive to their husbands and husbands should take care of their wive/wives gently
Ye kya fazool bat ki hy jesy mard ki nature hy wesy aurat ki bi nature hy yar mardon ko kitna faida dia hy auratein ziayda rakhny ka 😢ik aurat ka dill nhi kry ga apny mard sy sexual relationship ka agr oss ka mard dosri aurat me intrested ho
Ye solution thori na howa Ap west ko daikh lain whn females multiple partners ko enjoy krti hain lein 35 ki age k baad ya moti ho Jane k baad koi puchega b ni WO akeli Marti hain. Plastic surgery weghara bilkul aam baat hai. Try to find a responsible man who is also good at making money WO apka khayal rkhay ga financially b pr emotionally b.
@@hafizumer1620 bakwas bat hi ki hy Western women hamari trhan kamzoor nhi Hoti independent or self established Hoti hain or rahi bat aurat ki beauty ki tu tumari maa ko tumary baap ny chor dia hoga Jo aisa bol rahy tumary jeson ko me apni joti ki nok py rakhti hon beta chohy ky moo Waly auraton py bat aisy krraha Hy jesy khud Kisi paristan ka shehzada ho phir acha Hy auratein utuber bnny tictokers bnny lykin Kisi ki dosri biwi na bny or rahi bat aurat ko koi Nhi pochta 40 ky bad tu tumari maa ko lagta tumary baap ny pochna bnd krdia tha🤣🤣🤣 aurat ik bar social media py Yan apna app dikhana shoru krdy tu line lag jati hai
Husband must not be the top priority of a wife.
She is a Muslim first.
Obey Allah
She is a mother, a daughter, a sister, a member of society.
@@fouziasiddique6536 Husbands are NOT top priority of a woman first comes Allah n His Rasull SAW but even for other women kids are their priority n they also should be
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Ok now i really want feed back for this. You said financially women need to be independent if husband reamarries. But as soon as women get married they are expented to abandon their career job etc pressure from own parents, inlaws husband that they are neglecting their home and kids. When she is fully into home busy even neglects herself them husband finds a new better looking or whatever wife due to HIS midlife crisis. Yea you are reassuring sister here not to be emotionally dependent on her husband and to be more connected with our Dean i agree. But when our Prophet SWT married he treated and provided for his wives equally. Here especially in Pakistan men show off and fully neglect their first wives and kids. Your whole society and their expectations do not match. People pick and choose dean what suits them. Yes if one's spouse dies she is expected to work and provide fine but why should one do it whe husband remarries?? The whole point of having multiple wives is so you can treat them equally in this day and age i dont think pakistani men are capable of this.
Yes, Allah didn't say women to earn ,allah made husband the provider for wife. so it is a man responsibility to take here of her.I always find these man talks about 4 marreige n NV talk about hukooks which is most difficult to do justice among 2 wives.
By misleading the umat ,they are only accounting sins on their accounts n making their akhirat ruined
May Allah give them hidayat.
Even if husband died ,she didn't need to work she can really on her husband properity n get remarry so that other man will take care of her expenses n this is the reason four marreige are given in islam, that if any one wants support the women in society so that exploitation of women will not happen.
Totally agree ,
men don't do justice between them
@@hannahcameron158 I have married a divorce lady with 2 kids n in my 20 years of marriage me n my first wife never fight. After my second marriage I have increased finance of my first wife much more than b4 n she is very deendar. But after second marriage which occured after her permission I don't have a single hour where my first wife don't taunt me. I m much more caring then b4 for my first wife she has no financial issue she is deendar but she is behaving cruely with me n have negative remarks for second wife. Financial is not the issue it's the mindset
In my 20 years of marriage I can swear that my wife never left the door alone without me even to buy a lemon from 10 feet distance vegetable shop. Now she says she want to go alone any where like to park for walk without me. She want to do every thing that would hurt me
@@masroorkashif1369Everyone needs independence that makes them brave I mean it gives them confidence. It doesn't mean she doesn't like ur company or something like that trust me I have been there too at times u feel dependent and it makes u feel dumb. May Allah Subhnanahuta'ala make it easy for both of u n may u understand each other n find a solution that suits u both n makes u both grow together in ur marriage n individually as well. Ameen
All men quotes sunnah of 4 marriage rather than being attentive on Fajr n Isha prayer 🤲 ....
first marriage is invalid if ur husband not praying. divorce him.
The majority of women are intellectual migits and their priorities are sadly looking pretty. Do not mind us when we are not satisfied with one.
Not even one now, thanks to economics and women these days come with too much baggage
Doesn't all husband has jealousy to his wife if his wife earns more than him?? Y do men forces to abandon career ..There are so many successful women who can manage home n work place equally the only condition is if husband is supportive ...but yaha to husband ko 4 shaadi ni kare to unhe momin ka crown 👑 hi ni milega ...
Listen buddy ... Rizk agar likha hua hai too it will come just to trust in Allah.
It is a blessing that we have shameful males who do not want their mothers and their sisters to be labouring for their bosses. Do you consider it ideal that your female relatives do laborious work? At the end of the day female should work on building their ties stronger with their own family instead of finding independance by relying on work. That is more honorable. In islam we there are prohibitions relating to free mixing and working in environemnt filled with men is no good at all so i do not think it is ideal that you should encourage female to work and are portraying men as evil for not allowing their wives to work.
High earning woman has masculine traits, she is combative, non agreeable and usually egoistic and these traits are unattractive to men. High earning men dont care about woman career they want a feminine woman that give him peace. Men dont want to marry a dude. In contrast woman dont dont like men that dont earn and sit home and just chill and dont take responsibility such men are not attractive to woman.
Thank you Sir for clearing this issue.
I actually Wrote something in my diary years ago when I used to be in so much anxiety, depression and loneliness so one evening I wrote that if you want to be happy and contented you have to be independent emotionally and psychologically your happiness shouldn’t be dependent on any person you shouldn’t rely on any person on this planet that he will help you make you happy and satisfy you if you are dependent over anyone beyond limits, then you are in great mess although I I don’t act upon this consistently, but watching this video I can relate
That's so greatfull
@@sabaarshad7142 Woman are not the only ones depending on their husbands. Husbands depend on them too its give n takes thing ur thoughts are wrong
@@86sharique han tu kis ny kaha tha burhapy me ishiqi Krny ka 🤣
I love my first wife so.much n i did second marriage to help a divorce lady with her 2 kids but my first wife n my own brothers n sister became my enemy n it seemed that i m the most characterless human on the phase of the planet.
@@Salman_Esp no
V live separately but all my bro n sisters are attached to me n my first wife a lot
@@Salman_Esp I don't listen to Sahil. I normally don't seek or listen to any scholar regarding polygomy
Just tell me one thing...was marrying that divorced lady the only way to help her...there were so many other ways to assist her...u don't love your wife..had u loved her u won't have even thought of hurting her... I'm myself a male but I know that how difficult it is to share especially something very precious ... had u been a female then u would have realized her pain...I am not perfect but all the time afraid to hurt others...by crashing someone's heart to countless pieces,don't claim to love her... it's the insult of the word, the feeling and everything attached to it
@@muhammadhassanmuhammadhass990 if this was so why would ALLAH have legislated or made it halal for man in sura nisa to marry 2 or 3 or 4.
Secondly no one can bare responsibility of other others unless they r bonded in a relation of wife n husband
I know that my opinion is going to be unpopular here. I believe that Muslim women should first and foremost be financially independent because all the ISLAM of the Muslim guys (now-a-days) starts and ends with 4 marriages. Second they should never settle for the guy with this mindset of multiple marriages. They argue that females are more than males in number but don't look into the details for that. Females are more than males only beyond a certain age limit of 60s if someone bothers looking at statistics. Now, will a Muslim bro marry a widow above 60 to support her? Second they say that we do not have good enough men who can play the role of a provider person. Yes we don't because we spent all our efforts in raising the girls properly and perfect while men can do as they please.
This person is gaslighting the lady completely, using his so-called knowledge of Psychology. Every household needs a father and a mother in order for the kids to grow well. We do look into the role of mother in kids growth but ignore that the father should also be a role model for his/her kids. And this perception is valid for both the son and daughter. I have a question to all Islamic bros saying "MashaAllah and SubhanAllah" to his videos. Will your father still be your role-model if he brings a 2nd, 3rd or 4th wife in the presence of your mother and you see your mother suffering day-in and day-out because of that? If your answer is NO, it is time to look into your own hypocrisy.
This man not just completely ignored but also invalidated the woman's experience saying that she should be emotionally strong to face that. I am telling that no man or woman is emotionally strong enough to face that. In our society, men cannot even put up with the past male partners or previous marriage a woman has had. And this INTELLECTUAL here is asking for emotional independence on the woman's part. I think it has more to do with the attachment that a person grows while living with their husband/wife and has nothing to do with emotional dependence (If Mr. Sahil Adeem barely knows any Psychology, he shall know the difference between the two).
And lastly, even a financially independent woman cannot put up with a man having another wife. A financially independent woman would, at the most, end up leaving her husband and live her own life with their kids which will mess up the kids life and personality in the end.
Irrespective of that, I don't think any middle class man in today's world (except Sheikhs or millionaires) is capable of both financially and morally supporting more than one wife plus kids which is basically a pre-requisite for multiple marriages.
Sb se khubsurat justification r clarification..jo aj tk mein ne suni...you covered all aspects.... U were totally right when you said k male r female dono hi nai kr skte bardasht third party ko....hq ada kr dia....
Hmare mashre ko is mindset ki zaroorat hai❤
Spot on!
I am strongly agree with u 💯💯💯
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Well Explained Sahil Bhai,
May Allah grant you Jannah and help you to accomplish your goal.
Very well done thanks
Jitni krna h utni kro bhai lekin apni betiyo ko emotionally independent bnao aur unko y sikhao ki Allah ke sewa koi b ni
Unka
One shouldnot be emotionally dependent on her husband .....this is the real goal of marriage
Woman mostly give bad advice
Ap Dr ha ap KO pata hoga mard ke Harmons Ka isliye Allah ne mard KO ijazat Di ha dusra aurta zyada paida Hoti ha poori dunya ma Woh kaha jayengi baaki ap musalman ha Allah ne quran ma ijazat Di ha manna ha mana Nahi manna na mana
Wow Sahil Adeem sb ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Heart touching and thought changing
MashaAllah ❤ sahil ADEEM ❤
Sir aap n kitni shadia ke hyn?
Ar apk behnooyu nay kitny?
Aur Abba na kitni
@@komaljavaid6794if u don't follow Islam no problem ap west ki aurat KO Zara dekhe to tissue paper ha use Karke chordiya American website ne jaka research Kara 1 mard shadi SE pehle on an average 8 SE 20 larkiyo ke sath sooya Hota ha isliye Allah ne mard KO ijazat di ha ke larkiya public property na bana aur ghar ki malka bana isliye mard ko 4 ki ijazat ha ap ko quran nahi mana woh apka deen aur iman ha marna apko bhi ha allah ko kya jawab denge
Khu ap ny rishta dena hai sir ko?😂😂😂😂
Dear bro.. To me, the real problem today is not regarding 2 3 4th marriage.. It's actually abt romancing, dating doing haram n absurd things n flirting around. Today coz of co edu n mix atmosph of male female working n i teracting with each other, attraction n temptation is inevitable,marriages r no doubt permissible but even Rasoolullah sallellahu alahiwasallam said Insaf na kar paoge Ek per Iktefa karo..M not against polygamy, if Allah has permitted for something you don't feel good about it's rather your Azmaish,you should bow down n accept but what should b done for those bhatke hue admi jo dating chatting n adultery me doobte jare h n ending up marrying 2 3 4 women, un per zina ki had jari q na kare?
Sir. Co education abhi se nahi hai
Very well explained
Its not jealousyl sir
Men dominated society h behnooo dont argue with men,
@@sarakhan6221 right
❤❤❤ Jazakallah
May Allah forgive our mistakes, both knowing & unknowing.
“May Allah forgive us, Guide us, cleanse our tongues, purify our hearts, and rectify our affairs.”
May Allah replace your sadness with something Beautiful.
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Which ayat is he talking about? at 8:30 & which case study is he talking about? at 19mins
سورت یوسف 12 آیت 28
فَلَمَّا رَاٰ قَمِیۡصَہٗ قُدَّ مِنۡ دُبُرٍ قَالَ اِنَّہٗ مِنۡ کَیۡدِکُنَّ ؕ اِنَّ کَیۡدَکُنَّ عَظِیۡمٌ ﴿۲۸﴾
پھر جب شوہر نے دیکھا کہ ان کی قمیص پیچھے سے پھٹی ہے تو اس نے کہا کہ : یہ تم عورتوں کی مکاری ہے ، واقعی تم عورتوں کی مکاری بڑی سخت ہے.
I am married and i suports second 3rd n 4th mariages of man
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Assalam O Alaikum
Sir
Reverse engineering Kya hoti hai?
Wo Jo CHINA karta hay😁
Real maal ke copy banaay ko kehty hean😜
Aoa sir mja ap ke guidence ke zarorat ha bohat ....
Allah Aapki Madad Farmaye 🤲
Meri divorced jiss Shaks ne karwayi uss se mai Aisi Tawaqqo hargiz nahi rakhta tha
Totally agree acc to islam ✅but I have a question ab jesy k pakistan men dusri shadi ke bry men emotionally independent and strong ni hain tw ab suppose agr koi aurat us bndy se shadi krti ha usko tw pehli bv aur pura khandan baduan deta rhy ga k is ny shadi shuda mrd ko phasa diya like is trhan tw dono aurton aur us mard ki b life tabah hogi tw ab is peer pressue se kesy bch skty hain??
the study case of the man 🥺🔥 16:05
Exactly i agree...female should think positive the coming second wife has her own fate she is utilizing her right her part not yours...husband is not a property of one wife dnt consider him your slave he is made for other 3dnt snatch the right of other 3s
Attention
Dear girls Meri bat Goor Sy sun lo mard ky Sath wafadar rehna chor do yehi wahid Hal Hy apny liye jeyooo bus selfish hojao ye Tum logon ka zehani sakoon khrab krdety Hain tu Tum kiyn inki parwah krrahi ho sirf apna socho in py kabhi bi tras mat Khana yehi Hal Hy sakoon Sy Zindagi jeeny ka
@@lazymano11 Allah se Wafa Kijiye Uss Rabb ka Qanoon Maniye, Saaray Rishton mein Apne Aap Waffa Mil jayegi
@@86sharique hahaha Allah sy jorna or bat hy or insani strong nature hona or bat hy Khair ap jesy mardon ko ab free ki wafadar masiyan milna bnd hojani hai or qareeb me hi aurat ky pass mard ziyada progress or taraqi hogi or dominant ban jain gi mardon ki feroniyat khatam hony lagi hai wo wala zamna any lga inshallah
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@@86sharique mard tu pesy Sy Kam chala leta aurat ko tu namazein parhni parhti
اللہ اکبر۔۔۔۔۔ ۔ کوئی الفاظ ہی نہیں اب۔۔۔۔
Aslamaualikm bhai mari shadi ko 19 sal ho gy boht mushkil waqt gozara hr qadam py sath diya bohr ghorbat dakhi ab jb us k pas pasa h to wo dosri shadi karna chahta h mujh kahta h k agr ni ki to mary gona tumary si r py jo m bahir karonga plz m kya karo plz replay maa bap bi ni h 2 bachy h
Ap ky sar pe kaise uska koi gunnah ho sakta ha? Ap tou sirf dosri shadi se mana kr rhi, usko zina krny ko tou nhi na keh rhi. Apko sharminda honay ki zarurat nhi, sharminda usay hona chahiye kh aj usky paas paisa aaya ha tou wo apka ehsaas nhi kr rha
Jb 20 sal aik rishty py investment ki ho sacrifice ki ho har tarah say to easy nhi hota buht tough hota bardasht karna..... Jealousy is lye hoti k dusri shadi huu aur Usk lye policy change hoti h...
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Assalamu alaikum saheel bhai mujhe ek sawal karna hai
اے الللہ ہمارے ان بند دماغوں کھول دے
Sir jin females k husband out of country hn wahan extra Martial relationship mn h or biwi se bat tk krna gawara na kry is k bary mn b plz guide kren ... Is topic py b bat krne plz
@@warrior1541 bilkul lkin aorat kia kry uska mard bahir ayashi kr rha or us se call py bat tk ni kr raha usk ghr ka sara kam kry usk bachy sanbhaly kia uska itna b haq ni k Apni biwi se bat hi kr ly
@@Dailyroutinelife786 alaidgi ikhtiyar ker leni chahye aysy insaan se, aur khud ko independent bena'ay, bachy sirf us k tou ni hein na.. agr wo aysa hai to bachon ki terbiyat ki zimadari ap lein..
Mazrat ke sath pehle wife hi Jaan ke usko foreign country bhejti ha ap Thora Kam tankhua pe raazi Raha lekin Raha sath
@@kareemulhaq12wife ni bhejti jo shadi se pehly hi foren country gy hon
Sir wo larky jo pehly haram relationships ma involve hoty hen or phr unki family unki shadi apni mrzi se krwadti ha or phr wo apni wife ko baby hony ke bwjood chordty hen divorce dy dty hen dubara us larki se shadi krny ke leay or phr wae family jo apni marzi ki bahu ly kr gi hoti ha us bahu ko physically abused krti ha or larka sth mil jta ha or kehti ha tm hmary larky ke like ni ho or dubra udhr uski marzi ki shadi krwa ke us masoom lrki ki or uski family ki life brbad krty hen wo jo larki jsny apny shohar ke sth sincerity se relation rkha hr chees p comprise krti rahi uski life kharb krdty hen phr sir esy 2 no ghtiya lrkon ki dusri shadi jaiz honi cheay ya inko jail ma dal kr juty prwany cheay ??? sir please is topic py bhi video bnnaden
Is sab case mein aik hi problem hai larki bechari kun hai. Jab aj ka mard itna zalil ho sakta hai to larki bechari kun hai. Dosri ghalti larki ke parents ki hai. Ek to unhon ne aik larki ki asi tarbiyat ki ke woh BECHARI ban gai aur Phir apni bechari bete ki shadi ek characterless aur spineless mard se kar di. Spineless es liye ke jab usko kisi aur se karni thi shadi toh maa bap ki baat kun mani. Aur ab aj 3rd ghalti us larki ki hai. Woh aik bachay ki maa hai she should realise woh ab larki nahi aik aurat hai woh bechari nahi she should stand up for herself either educate herself ya koi hunar sekh la lakh lanat bheje shohar par aur apni life banaye
@@spiceitupwithus maa bap ke sth scam kea unk apny hi relatives ny rishta krwa kar or larki within 3 months kesy pehchanti asliyat esy mard ki or jb usny apny leay stand Lea to us mard ny divorce dy di na usny apny baby ma socha na us larki ka
@@spiceitupwithus wo Jo apni mrzi se bahu banna kr ly kr gy thy ly ja kr uskoo brbad kr ke ghr se nikl dea esy in laws ke bary ma Kya khayal Jinp maa bap trust kr ke beti dty hen
@@spiceitupwithus it's very easy to say ke wo aurat ni ha maa bangae ha agar wo maa banni ha to wo bhi to baap banna ha oski bhi to olad ha zimydari uthaey khrcha dy bchy ka bivi ka guts ni hen esy mardon ma
@Laiba Laiba I agree ghalat howa. Dhoka mila larki ko. Ab kia sari zindagi yahi soch ke roti rahe? Insan ka accident ho jata hai paralyse ho jata hai hum usko kehte hain sabar karoo look at the positive things in life. This girl is not paralysed she is perfectly fine she should come out self pity and do something for herself and her child before it's too late
Aslam O Alaikum
Why men think of 2nd marriage
How may I assist others to stop thinking about it as it is not going to happen
It's 10am in Florida USA
it's man's nature you can't change that
@@KiNgAmMuRi It is just a hypocritical excuse to avoid ones responsibilities while enabling poor behavior towards women. I have seen men who raise their kids single handedly even after their wives are expired, without any 2nd marriage. Don't blame it on nature, as a human being men are very capable of evolving to better, given that they stop making such excuses about themselves.
1)But when you do more than one marriage whole family faces various forms of fight and children faces the consequences of it , when you couldn't raise your next generation properly what's the use of your first marriage
2) husband never does justice between thier viwes
3)whats the use of producing so much babies Just to increase number as our prophet said Muslims will be good numbers but not in deed
4) destroying the children environment where mum and dad live happily
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Sharm aana chaheye aise log preacher bne pde h
Jo endorse kr rhe h ke second marriage ko bardast kre aurte,taqat lae
Aur aisa logo se log counselling kara rhe h
Had h behudgi ki
Jb ek mard do teen char shadi kr skta h
To aurat apne mard ke rehte huye kyu nhi kr skti
Lekin ye es mard samaj ko bardast nhi hoga
Aur Mze ki baat ye h fir aise he kuch log samjhane lgta h aurat kyu nhi kr skti
Ye aisa y vo aisa h
Sharm kro
Behtr h unfollow kro aise logo ko
Sahi kaha aurat ki nature ko neglect krraha Hy
Aap mujay ye batain k ap is banday ko galat kah rahi ha k quran ko agar quran ko to tum prr lanat hoo aurat
وہ بڑا کام کیا ہے
Tank you samjany k lia 😭😭😭💔💔 ma 1 sal say mari ti k mery hasband ny ki shadi karai gai zabardasti us k maa bap ny wo nae karna cjara ta per bhot zabardasti kar k us ki shadi kia uno ny to ma nazar ho kar usy chor dia😭😭😭
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Islam k ilawa koi solution nhi hai ❤
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Mr shahil Adeem allah didnt say women to earn n be financial independence.
You talk about deen over duniya but it comes to women your duniya will be over deen.
Why ? Allah didnt say to earn to a woman.
Bina parda bina separation aur haram kaam aurat nahi jar sakti, nabuat tak that is at least 12 years bacha palna hai.
To earning ki responsibility allah ne di hi nahi hai.
Jab earning bola hi nahi to ku sawal hoga, aurat ka talaq ho ya windows ho to uski jimedari uske wali that is father per ati hai father na ho to bhaio per.
Sawal to baap aur bhai se hoga ki bewa beti ya bhahan ka hukook pura nahi kiya.
Biwi ka pura haq rahega uske shahur ki dolat per
App apna sahi deen kare, app logo ko gumrah kar rahe hai
Yaha apo practice solution de rahe hai ye deen nahi bolta .
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Islam Deen ftriat he Allal NY ye kinyat chalani he is me Kiya nizam ho ga ye insaan k jajbat se nahi chalye gi I m a woman ye Sach he k sokan bardasht krna muskil he lakin is pr Jo swab he wo Soo sheedoo k brabr he is laye AK Muslim woman ko Islam ka ye nazam maloom hona chaye
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Sir app kar lona dusri shadi muje ple muje app bhut pasand ho
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Bs kr bhai rulay ga kea
Hahahahaahah
Sharam kro
Lol🤣🤣
I ask you only one why Pakistani people not talk about Chinese Muslims why you're scared china please gives answer
Most financial independent woman file for divorce, all I worry is broken homes and children sufferings. Financial Independent woman still must be sumbissive to their husbands and husbands should take care of their wive/wives gently
Which thy dont
Ye kya fazool bat ki hy jesy mard ki nature hy wesy aurat ki bi nature hy yar mardon ko kitna faida dia hy auratein ziayda rakhny ka 😢ik aurat ka dill nhi kry ga apny mard sy sexual relationship ka agr oss ka mard dosri aurat me intrested ho
Ye solution thori na howa
Ap west ko daikh lain whn females multiple partners ko enjoy krti hain lein 35 ki age k baad ya moti ho Jane k baad koi puchega b ni WO akeli Marti hain.
Plastic surgery weghara bilkul aam baat hai.
Try to find a responsible man who is also good at making money WO apka khayal rkhay ga financially b pr emotionally b.
@@hafizumer1620 bakwas bat hi ki hy Western women hamari trhan kamzoor nhi Hoti independent or self established Hoti hain or rahi bat aurat ki beauty ki tu tumari maa ko tumary baap ny chor dia hoga Jo aisa bol rahy tumary jeson ko me apni joti ki nok py rakhti hon beta chohy ky moo Waly auraton py bat aisy krraha Hy jesy khud Kisi paristan ka shehzada ho phir acha Hy auratein utuber bnny tictokers bnny lykin Kisi ki dosri biwi na bny or rahi bat aurat ko koi Nhi pochta 40 ky bad tu tumari maa ko lagta tumary baap ny pochna bnd krdia tha🤣🤣🤣 aurat ik bar social media py Yan apna app dikhana shoru krdy tu line lag jati hai
@@hafizumer1620 khoty ki tatti jesa moo ly kr agya muje batein Krny 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@hafizumer1620 Tum Meri joti ki braber ho ai samj 4 feet qad uper Sy tatti jesa moo or batein suno itni onchi 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@hafizumer1620 chal hath khusri
AJ Kal sb se bra masala urtoo ko Deen ka PATA hi nahi he
Plzzz talk with Adam seeker or uska channel bhi hai ab jayo apni rocket science lekar and. Uske doubts clear kro otherwise stop nonsense
No need to waste time on those guys.
Lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣 us jse chwal logo k lye tmhe ye platform mila h???
Very well explained