Do Looks matter? | How to be confident if you are not beautiful? | Sahil Adeem Explained

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  • In this enlightening session on emotional independence of women, Sahil Adeem addresses a heartfelt question from a concerned mother. She seeks guidance on how to instill confidence in her daughter, who faces constant criticism due to societal beauty standards. Sahil Adeem's expert response offers invaluable insights and practical advice on nurturing self-esteem and resilience.
    Join us in this empowering video as Sahil Adeem shares his intellectual perspective on building confidence beyond external appearances. Discover how to shift the focus towards inner qualities, strengths, and accomplishments, helping individuals embrace their unique beauty. Learn about the importance of self-care, positive self-talk, and surrounding oneself with a supportive community.
    Don't miss this opportunity to gain expert knowledge and guidance on cultivating emotional independence and empowering the next generation. Join us for this transformative discussion on TH-cam and embark on a journey towards self-acceptance, self-love, and unshakeable confidence.
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ความคิดเห็น • 110

  • @skl5918
    @skl5918 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    It damages emotionally very very much... If some one is criticized about their looks in childhood then in adulthood they develop many psychological problems. They spend their life coping with these issues.

  • @hafsabano2208
    @hafsabano2208 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This was advice always given my mother that be educated ,intellectual and simple and people will respect you and like you rather then do makeup and wear expensive cloths
    My mother raised all of us five daughter like that so 3 became doctors and 2 also graduated

    • @DontOpenThisChannel
      @DontOpenThisChannel ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's good but remember not to reach children to care about respect from others instead do the right things whether people respect you or not.

    • @ghazanhussain2070
      @ghazanhussain2070 ปีที่แล้ว

      Girls don't have any intellect at all

  • @Basirat81
    @Basirat81 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    The best 16 minutes of my life.

  • @Saadia1117
    @Saadia1117 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm Speechless 😶 ... Literally

  • @madmomji
    @madmomji ปีที่แล้ว +10

    No creation can be ugly. We just can't accept difference. I know I look different but I will never let anyone make me think that I am ugly

  • @BeenaAltaf-f3n
    @BeenaAltaf-f3n ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Allah has sent u as our thought leader❤

  • @fakhranoureen3425
    @fakhranoureen3425 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Change the definition of success ❤

  • @muslimidentity123
    @muslimidentity123 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Character has to be beautyful - That's whats important in this duniya and for the Akhirah.
    Agr looks khoobsoorat hai our akhlaq bhoora hai - to aap khudh andazaa laghayen - kya characteristics majhood ho sakte hain. .......Allah is not watching our looks Allah is watching our behaviors- character - akhlaq - muamalat- aml❤

  • @spiritualawakening2753
    @spiritualawakening2753 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sir with all due respect the problem is the society we are living in and impact of social media setting fake standards

  • @muhammadwahajbrothers7273
    @muhammadwahajbrothers7273 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Best best best answer 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @noorulain9684
    @noorulain9684 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    MASHALLAH very thought provoking......

  • @toobausman6139
    @toobausman6139 ปีที่แล้ว

    Salute to Sahil bhai

  • @abik344
    @abik344 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ma's ha Allah ....thanks Sir

  • @syedahyder3730
    @syedahyder3730 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    zabardast sir
    perfect explanation 👌

  • @spiritualawakening2753
    @spiritualawakening2753 ปีที่แล้ว

    U have a gem of wisdom MashAllah

  • @momi5684
    @momi5684 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    jazak'Allah...

  • @MyRaahim
    @MyRaahim ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sir,the wife you are talking about was his 2nd wife ,whom he lived with 7 years,he lived 20-25 years with his first wife .

  • @AbbasShakir-c5c
    @AbbasShakir-c5c ปีที่แล้ว

    Ustad Sahil adeem

  • @laibajavaid4479
    @laibajavaid4479 ปีที่แล้ว

    How someone can be so true۔۔۔

  • @hizarhayat-jv9co
    @hizarhayat-jv9co ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ALLAH aap ko jazaekhair day dain ameen

  • @tausiyakhizar9750
    @tausiyakhizar9750 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The best video ever ❤❤

  • @afzal76548
    @afzal76548 ปีที่แล้ว

    wise man

  • @samrasiddique5852
    @samrasiddique5852 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great Great Great... 👍👍👍👍

  • @shaziakhan8948
    @shaziakhan8948 ปีที่แล้ว

    great talk

  • @childeducationgalleryforal1630
    @childeducationgalleryforal1630 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ameen

  • @yasmeenimran486
    @yasmeenimran486 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow...Brilliant

  • @chocomengal
    @chocomengal ปีที่แล้ว

    Mind blowing JAZAK ALLAH

  • @asmatshaheen1674
    @asmatshaheen1674 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Zabardast

  • @adeelali5948
    @adeelali5948 ปีที่แล้ว

    Woww 😮

  • @childeducationgalleryforal1630
    @childeducationgalleryforal1630 ปีที่แล้ว +2

  • @iharis9767
    @iharis9767 ปีที่แล้ว

    The best video

  • @gamerdudd2884
    @gamerdudd2884 ปีที่แล้ว

    O my god Sahil bhai ap ne Tu ankhen khol den ufff life kaisi mushkl thi pahle

  • @mnmlibra6025
    @mnmlibra6025 ปีที่แล้ว

    ربنا ھب لنا من ازواجنا وذرياتنا قرت أعين وجعلنا للمتقين إماما.. ربي اني لما انزلت الي من خير فقير.. ربي هب لي من الصالحين.. ربي هب لي من الدنك زريتًه طيبتًه انك سميع الدعاء.. ربي لا تذرني فرداً وانت خير الوارثين ❤

  • @hafsabano2208
    @hafsabano2208 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    External beauty was never a discussion in our family

    • @israakhan84
      @israakhan84 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Priyank are you muslim?

    • @israakhan84
      @israakhan84 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Priyank It will happen soon InshaAllah...... by the way you know enough about Islam....keep it up...

    • @hafsabano2208
      @hafsabano2208 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Priyank dear one nobody is born non Muslim .we are all offsprings of hazrat Adam aliah Salam who was nabi and was Muslim ,however as time passed Later on because of own nafs and shaitan teachings human left worshiping one Allah and started new ibadah and aqeedah which slowly and gradually lead them to aquire different types of religion.
      Like you can see Muslims nowadays they are not following real Dean that is what sir sahil is teaching all about
      Inshallah if you listen to sir sahil more and read islam both Inshallah you will inshallah revert

    • @mdfarhan-ni7dy
      @mdfarhan-ni7dy ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@Priyank everyone has to find islam even if they born muslim. As our prophet saw said every child born in fitarh their parents make them jews Christian and fire worshipper. So don't doubt allah as he said in quran allah doesn't burden a soul beyond it can bear. Just research about allah you will soon know what is deen. Everyone is equally tested it they are born up in muslim family

    • @hafsabano2208
      @hafsabano2208 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Priyank inside every human the soul strives for the truth it is our perverted nature which hold us from following truth
      Believe me anyone in this world or any where pray or strives for truth will be guided by Allah even if you are alone in middle of a forest with no light ,Inshallah you will be guided by Allah if you truly strives for it
      There are so many Muslims who left Islam either openly or secretly ,because of their perverted nature
      I under stand your question
      Now you have Internet search yourself for unbelievable stories of people who reverted or guided by Allah in unbelievable circumstances

  • @sumerawaqas8384
    @sumerawaqas8384 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sahil sb , yeh wala topic mazeed discuss krain r aapny kaha k pretty woman pr zayda emtehaan hai tu kiya hai wo emtehaan ??
    Humy kyun achy lagty preety face kiya yeh buri baat hai?

  • @zubairkhankharooti3621
    @zubairkhankharooti3621 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am short this kills me from inside And this is the only reason some times i feel like this world is not for me whatever i do i cant increase my hieght so i better leave the comptetion of this world and do whats real

    • @ghazanhussain2070
      @ghazanhussain2070 ปีที่แล้ว

      Chota pathan 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

    • @ghazanhussain2070
      @ghazanhussain2070 ปีที่แล้ว

      Forever child 😂😂😂

  • @np3247
    @np3247 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sir apne ek video m kha th ki ek hadees h ki shakal pasand na aye to nafarmani shirk(shohar) k liye khyal aye nazdeek na aye to biwi khula le skti h wo konsi hadees h?

  • @marianoor853
    @marianoor853 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not looks kismat plays a big role

  • @kinzafarooqi218
    @kinzafarooqi218 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Theres problem with people who look at those girls not beautiful!!!! Other people look at girls with the eyes and heart of love, and they Achieve everything

  • @talhafaisal8360
    @talhafaisal8360 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hazrat Khadija ki description AI ha Ayesha ki apni Hadees mein...
    Question poochny wali sister search kryn..

    • @lifewithAysha
      @lifewithAysha ปีที่แล้ว

      Kia description aaya hai?

    • @malikking_444
      @malikking_444 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes I also listen

  • @memy7030
    @memy7030 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sahil os larky ka kia hua, jisy ghar sy utha k lay gay thy, Al Balagh channel wala, white imama pehn ne wala, bari support thi oski apko, ap ne naam lia kabi oska jab sy uthaya tha osy, koi update ha oski?

  • @malikking_444
    @malikking_444 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😢i got tears i am girl i love to study i am at age of 18,i always listen taunts ,let you know girls are prepared for only marriage from childhood ,for good husband our girls get study ,if not that condition then our parents will never even focus for education

    • @malikking_444
      @malikking_444 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Girls of big cities will mock at me 😂but literally it's true

    • @ZainabNaqib
      @ZainabNaqib 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@malikking_444I am a girl of big city. Ap pe koi nai hase ga. Jo banda hase wo farigh insan hain. Confident raho

  • @asmatshaheen1674
    @asmatshaheen1674 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aap she Duuas ki guzarish hai

  • @AhmedAli-mw4eg
    @AhmedAli-mw4eg ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @hafsabano2208
    @hafsabano2208 ปีที่แล้ว

    Subhanallah

  • @luckyrose105
    @luckyrose105 ปีที่แล้ว

    Khuch bhi khly koi kitny hi mahaan comments de den log in our society look is very important for a girl aur jo log is sy inkaar krty hain woh jhoty hain sirf parsa bannay ka drama krty hain

  • @AyezaKhan-jw1uk
    @AyezaKhan-jw1uk ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hm yh to bas girl ki khubshurt he mane rakhate h ..........,

    • @muneebdogar1970
      @muneebdogar1970 ปีที่แล้ว

      that's what we have to change now

    • @ghazanhussain2070
      @ghazanhussain2070 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tu aur kis mainay rakhey ga???? Aqal wese hi nahi hoti 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @AyezaKhan-jw1uk
      @AyezaKhan-jw1uk ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ghazanhussain2070 jada khusa nhi hona chaheya allah ki ghar jana jawab be dena .....

    • @ghazanhussain2070
      @ghazanhussain2070 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AyezaKhan-jw1uk larkion ko bhi dena hai 🙄🙄🙄 zara si kisi chiz mai achi hon tu uqat bhool jati hain......takabur karnay lagti hain 🤮🤮🤮🤮 chutiya gender

  • @040walidqureshi9
    @040walidqureshi9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Howto increase emotional intelligence....?imam ahmad ibn hambal ,imam shaafi imaam malik...who was the fourth imam...what should be the competence I should set to marry a woman ..I AM ALSO IGNITED BY BEAUTY ..but I never talked to any GIRL ALHAMDULILLAH BECAUSE OF HAYA BUT EVERY GIRL
    I SEE I REMEMBER..WHEN I RECALL I AM NOT ABLE TO CONTROL...❤ WHAT QUALITIES IN CHARACTER SHOULD I ENQUIRE ..PLZ MUJHE BATAAE SAHIL ADEEM BHAI..BY THE WAY WHO WERE THE CHILDREN OF AHMAD IBN E HAMBAL...

    • @ayeshakhurram9672
      @ayeshakhurram9672 ปีที่แล้ว

      The most important quality to inquire before marriage is the Deen and iman of both woman and man. It is recommended by our prophet.
      You should also observe what you have to offer in return to a Muslim woman with high standard of Iman .

    • @ayeshakhurram9672
      @ayeshakhurram9672 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@Priyank i donot agree with this suggestion..... It is not according to the teachings of Islam.

    • @tifnitifni301
      @tifnitifni301 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@priyankdhyaniyou're thinking is messed up .. 😶 .. ajeeb ..itni niyat khrab k czns ko bi buri nzr se dekho taubah .. treat your czns like sisters please ..also they are na-mehram so be respectful like that as well

    • @muneebdogar1970
      @muneebdogar1970 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tifnitifni301 agreed with you.

    • @DrAreebasArtGallery
      @DrAreebasArtGallery ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​​​​​@Priyank astagfirullah brother are you Muslim?
      This is not the teaching of Allah and Hazrat Muhammad SAW that if you can't control your desires you go to your cousins.
      Infact Muhammad SAW said " 0 young men, those among you who can support a wife should marry, for it restrains eyes from casting (evil glances). and preserves one from immorality; but those who cannot should devote themselves to fasting for it is a means of controlling sexual desire." hadees from sahih bukhari 1400a
      Stop spreading fake Islam. And if you are non Muslim then brother please don't spread knowledge which is against the teachings of Quran and hadees.

  • @foseem-mi5fr
    @foseem-mi5fr ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ye jitny b bol rahay k beauty matter ni krti,jb shadi krni hti inki yes Sirf beautiful face pr hi hti bhaly wo practicing Muslim na ho,so be honest

    • @ghazanhussain2070
      @ghazanhussain2070 ปีที่แล้ว

      Han tu kon pagal hoga jo aik gandi shakal wali larki se shadi karega 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

  • @MuhammadYahya-tn2zg
    @MuhammadYahya-tn2zg ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where to find spouse who have true vision of muslim identity

  • @Bintehameedofficial
    @Bintehameedofficial ปีที่แล้ว

    We want seerah books starting from nabiwwat ends in Karbala incident, books Hain but tukro m Hain tempo toot jata h sequence m Kuch ni milta, tamam ghazwat ummahatul momineen ka Rasool e Khuda ki Zindagi m ana SB sequence m chahye, SAHIL ADEEM SAHAB ap hi likh len esi books please Yaha koi molvi authentic Deen nahi deraha hamein.. poora Deen tukro m Bata hua hai..

  • @faisalsheikh4581
    @faisalsheikh4581 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nafsiati mariz

  • @PreciousAdvice419
    @PreciousAdvice419 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Man bap hi tabah krte han apni qabil olad ko...dosron k bacho ya siblings se comparison kr k

  • @bluelightning6711
    @bluelightning6711 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😭

  • @Qaisersharif-lv1bb
    @Qaisersharif-lv1bb ปีที่แล้ว

    Assalamuolaikumplacestacetheyquaenandislamicknowledge

  • @emews7612
    @emews7612 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ladkio ko face toon par jitn adepression milta hai otna hee dukh achay ladko ko kam amdani par rejection par hota hai k istakhara naeh acha aya or sorat kee bat par ladko ko bhee rejection miltay hai mard ko lagay to khair hai orat par guzray to dukh hai wah gee wah double standard

    • @DrAreebasArtGallery
      @DrAreebasArtGallery ปีที่แล้ว

      Liken at the end larkoun ko larki mil hi jati hai. Chahy wo single hu ya divorced.
      But larkiyoun ke sth aesa nhi hai pehly aik tou shadi Allah Allah krky Kahen na Kahen compromise krky krlo then agar divorce hujaye tou ousky bdh shadi krna aur mushqil hujata hai.

    • @emews7612
      @emews7612 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DrAreebasArtGallery main widowed ho, or 3 Saal guzar gay hai itna asan nahe hai ab achay rishtay milnay, istakharay par bat tal kar sab side ho jatay hai, Reason Rent k Ghar hai

    • @farahali9132
      @farahali9132 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@emews7612AssalamoAlikum wrwb Sister.
      App kasrat se Astaghfirullah parhen InshaaAllahTala her mushkil asaan hojaegi AllahPak k karam se.Aameen Ya Rabbi.

  • @childeducationgalleryforal1630
    @childeducationgalleryforal1630 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Allah kry
    Aap jesa damage ho jaye hr mard or aurat ka

  • @deenislam705
    @deenislam705 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    apne upper sharam aati hai

  • @husynahmad5488
    @husynahmad5488 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If you ugly But you're Good from heart You're still Ugly xD xD

    • @alaya9629
      @alaya9629 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Boht cool.ban gy tum🙂

  • @mnmlibra6025
    @mnmlibra6025 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gluttony is a sin

  • @sportsonly9452
    @sportsonly9452 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sahil Bhai ap ko siyasat main ana ho ga agar sub theak karna hai tu apni party mutarif karwiayein siyasat main jo haal ho chukaa hamarey mulk ka ab koch na koch karna parhey ga agar ham ney pori dunia main koch karna hai tu

  • @sobiawaseem4695
    @sobiawaseem4695 ปีที่แล้ว

    Zabardast