She married education and money hoping it will make her happy. But comes to find out, she's more miserable. A sad story with great lessons to be learn.
Leave that man alone, you've made your choice, now live with it! I wouldn't even dare go to his store if I were you. Just because you're miserable, don't try and ruin someone else's happiness!
Am I the only one that noticed the story started out with her being maiv choo and then all of a sudden changed to nkauj ntsuv and then to nkauj sua??? 😂🤣😂
Is understandable for someone with that kinda degree. He probably has his own stress. People with those degrees they are heartless. He probably has someone on the side.
Money don't buy love sister. You can't have it all. I rather have love than money. Txomnyem khwv ib hnub noj ib hnub xwb los tsuas sib2 hlub yog qhov nplua nuj. Kev nplua nuj yog kev hlub.
Not trying to be mean, but you got exactly what you wanted! You wanted to married your dab laug b/c he's educated and has money, so you should live with the consequences. Anyways, I'm glad you let your BF go since he deserves better. I'm pretty sure if you were to married your BF, you will be here telling your story about how you regret marrying him and wish you married your dab laug.
Sister, being married to a highly educated person is a very different lifestyle. Especially medical doctors...they are busy and always on call. The lifestyle of a hard worker who is not highly educated is also a different lifestyle. Sounds like you have the lifestyle you chose..don't be sad...make the best of you have.
I don't see what misery about her life. she has more freedom and live like a queen but she regret not marrying her ex and sell vegetable. she need to has her mind check.
Sister, txhob tu siab os. Tsis yog yus hmoov os nawb. Nco ntsoov tias nyias muaj nyias hmoov...txawm koj mus tau koj tus qub hluas nraug los xyov neb lub neej puas yuav zoo li koj tus qub hluas nraug thiab nws tus poj niam lub thiab. Tej zaum kuj txawv thiab los tsis paub. Nothing in life is guaranteed. Don't feel too bad.
Tus txomnyem mus yuav tus muaj ces kawg mus ua luag qhev. Tus nruam yuav tus ntse ces kawg raug thuam. Yog li peb ib txhiaj txiv neeg thiaj tsuas yuav tus kom hauv thiab phim peb xwb mas, ib tsoom me hluas nkauj aws.
What do you mean you don’t care if the person you love don’t have money or not smfh. You married your husband right now bc he has a high degree and gunna make money for you. Now you’re gunna be a hypocrite saying you want love from a man even if he doesn’t have money smfh. You got what you deserve, no offense. Plus being a doctor is very stressful, you can’t expect him to give you time everyday.
Koj paub tsawg!!! There's already a life story in here or on May Vang about a doctor who does his American side-chick on the side and only married his hmong wife for his parents. Bet that's your hub's story. Let me be clear: I work with lots of doctors. They can't wait to take time off to go spend with their children and spouse! And my sister is married to a doctor (he went to med school after they martied). She is the back bone of her household! My BIL helped raised and wipe my kids' boogers, even after he was a doctor. Your diamond is fake!
It’s very true worthy lesson for everyone to learn to earn to understand to make corrections anyway. The Hmong’s people are telling that beautiful face of a girl has blue heart (evil) heart and handsome man is truly unworthy because he is proclaiming himself very handsome guy. He is foolish anyway haha, that’s true life because he is truly foolishness to married you after the marriage of the real beings partner anyway. Things are going to be worse for no details of the real life in this real world. Thank you for sharing your life with your wrongfully married man anyway.
Can't have it all! You had to choose and it appeared you chose money over love. You don't even know the stress your husband has due to his work. All you think about is you and your wants/needs. You need to be more supportive to your husband. He's right, you are a very lucky woman and rotten spoiled. Any women would love to be his wife.
Even if you go married the poor guy you probably will be complaining that you have a poor life and you could’ve married your rich guy .. so just be bless and happy. Being a doctor required a lot.. please be understanding of that .. if you want love all the time then married someone who just sit at home and make love with you all the time and eat dirt. Lol You’re actually a lucky person to even be with a doctor..
Tau cov txiv zoo li no mas nyuaj tshaj g paub ua neeg li ler. Xav tias kuv thiaj ntsib cov neeg zoo li no xwb no neeg mas muaj coob coj li thaub no yom
Sister, your husband is right. You are lucky to still have money to spend. And since he is not cheating on you, you need to stop complaining. You had love but seemed you didn't want it. So you chose money instead. But you cannot complain that your husband's heart is not with you. The Bible says that wherever man's money is, that's where man's heart is. So like your husband is saying, you dont understand about being a doctor and how educated people spend their time. It is a life long learning.
You got what you wanted. Money. Make the best of what you have. If your spouse is too busy with work, make time with family and friends. To have money, the gotta work hard. Just be grateful for what you have and that he's not cheating on you. At least I hope he isn't. A job can be extremely stressful depending on what it is.
Coming from a man, I be looking else where too if I'm making that kind of money. He only keeping around because of child support. Doctor or not. I know plenty of doctors that spent lots of time with there wife. Some years never, but not for 15 years like you said. Leave him and get child support. You will still be rich, but be used a lot by guys. Good luck!
Koj yog nyab hmoob ces koj tus txiv lam yuav koj rau niam pog thiab txiv yawg lawv xwb hos nws muaj nws ib tug nyob tom tej nws cov time thiab vacation nws twb muab siv tas rau tus nws hlub lawm mas. Txawm li ntawd los koj yuav tsum tau ua siab ntev uv thiab pab koj cov me nyuam kom txhob txom nyem thiab ua kom zoo kom tej laus thiaj tsis nyuaj siab thiab ua kom zoo li zoo - saib puas muaj ib hnub koj yuav rov tau koj txoj kev hlub rov los lawm xwb nawb mog vim lig rau koj lawm yus muab nws nrauj los yeej tsis zoo qhov twg tuaj lawm nawb kav tsij tuav kom ruaj ruaj xwb
Cov txiv zoo li koj yeej meej tham hluas nraug e rau siab lomzem nrog law xb. Tiamsi may sure your kids r over 18 so when u get caught u don't have to pay child support. Or just divorce him.
Kev npam rau tus tub ntsuag tub txom nyem ntshaw tus uas koj lub siab twb qhoa los koj tseem yuam qees yuam tus npaum es koj hmoov ywb tsis txog ne. Ib tug Medical Doctor hais li koj tus txiv yog kuv nrauj 1 hlis nws nyiaj hlis yuab faib 10 phav rau yus na. Yog kuv ces kuv nrauj lawm os haha..
😂. Wow! I am the opposite! Used to think that only married the poor and orphan guy cuz they all have good hearts not like the rich and educated guys that are selfish and inconsiderate. Haha! Cuz we both are silly to think such a way like that sister. Don’t be too sad sister you are lucky to have money. Some women have nothing just a loser okay.
1: tus tsis tau yeej ib txwm yog tus zoo tshaj 2. He is not the only one to do that 2 their women. He is a smart el cheater somehow he does not really care about your activities but $$$$ in your hands. lot men not even leave $$$ to their women. doors open to u for others things that you enjoy after him so. . . .. why not be el cheater . just like he does. ever his decide/want to dirvoce, remember that 50 50 2 u both so . . . . something else. . . we people are tender to each other only begenning of la ove . . . after that. . . . the tender will slowly disapear . . .and
Dang…still complaining? I will take all the kids and vacation every weekend 😅 if he ok with everything and whatever you do. Let him be as long as he didn’t cheap like you say. Be happy with a hard working husband. Enjoy life lady. My husband is a high education too but not at your husband level yet and I’m happy with my husband even he didn’t have much time with me and the kids. Take your husband to the spa and get him a nice message. That’s what I did to mine because he work hard and he need’s that kind of relax too. Chill lady and be happy 😃
Tus sister aws...along with a lot of things in this world, nothing lasts forever - including money and love or infatuation. You probably would've regret your decision either way because you never know what the future holds. Make the best out of the situation. Hopefully your husband will learn to love you and accept you.
Kuv qhia rau koj paub hais tias cov neg txhawj ntse yeej tsis muaj kev hlub los yog paub kev hlub li koj xa os. Koj yuav tshum ua tu qhia txoj kev hlub rau koj tu txiv hais tias koj xa tau txoj kev hlub zoo li cas los ntawm nws.
You should've married someone who loves you and you two can work together to build your wealth. Then you would've both wealth and a loving husband like many of us.
Woman like you that got everything and everything is never enough!!!! Living like a queen and your husband don’t even control you but dammmmm why most woman that don’t work and freely always thinking of cheating. Sounds like you need a job so you don’t think too much. Staying home all day with $$$$ in the bank is making you crazy and lonely. Idk about most woman but for me as I’m older now I just need a men that bring in the money and take care of me. Been working since 15 year old and so sick of working. Just be happy that this is the life you choose.
Sister, he’s showing you he’s doing great in life without you. That is your biggest regret in life you have to live with. No need to be sad cuz that’s what you wanted.
Es tej laus thiab neeg twb tias muaj nyiaj, nyiaj txiag muaj nqis tshaj txhua yam no ne......Es koj tias nyiaj puag pw tsis sov no es yog li cas tiag ne? Vim kuv tsis muaj nyiaj ne
Tus niam Dr. no tsis txawj ua niam Dr. ces zoo li no mas vim nws tsis ntshaw nyiaj nws ntshaw kev hlub xwb es ua cas sib haum tau li cas , twb ua tus txiv dhuav lawm es tus txiv thiaj tsis xav nrog ua ke . Txhais tau tias, tus txiv yuav tua hneev kom txog lub hnub qub , tus niam tsuas ntshaw txoj kev hlub xwb ne. Yog li no, tus niam tseem xav pom tus qub hluas nraug .nov, yog sau ua kev kawm xwb, txhob xav li cas .
So sad. She does not even realize that psychological torture is worst than physical abuse. If you don’t love someone, don’t string them along. Karma is inescapable.
You know what he does when he takes trips... There is a reason why he refuses to let you go with him. You're in denial because you're afraid to lose the $$$. Can't have everything in life, got to choose your poison!
I honestly don't think you would have been happy if u had married your ex and became a farmer's wife. You would be mad about why you're so poor and live such a hard working life and why u didn't marry a doctor.
Hoyo qhov koj yuav nws twb yog xav tau tus txiv txawj ntse, muaj mooj mom thiab muaj nyiaj xwb ne. Your wish home true qhov ntawv twb yog qhov koj xav tau ne, ua twj ywm tsam nws tsis yuav koj os. The way he acted, he might have unfair relationship for you.
Tus niam tsev no yog hu Maiv Choo... los Nkauj Ntsum... los Sua ne... lol. Yeej piav li no lod Unfortunately everyone is flawed... including this lady. She got what she wanted... she just didn't know what comes with that kind of life. Sounds like she had such variety of men... she chose poorly.
Kuv xav tias nyaj yuav tsis yog txhua tus uas ua Dr tab sis cov txiv zoo li koj tus ko tsua muaj ib txhia thiaj li coj li koj tus txiv ntawm koj os yog coj li koj tus txiv ko mas nws tsav nws lub hwj chim xwb os Tab sis yog hnub tug koj tus txiv Doctor ko tsis muaj tus poj niam nyob hauv nws lub neej ces nws twb tsis tseem ceeb dab tsi lawm thiab os
Tu txiv Dr. Ko yog hom Dr. Es tsav tsav hwj chim nws saib nws tu kheej muaj nqi nej hais lu nws teb ntawm qhov ntswg...mloog koj hais mas xyov kwv tij neej tsa muaj noj luag puas xav hu koj niag txiv as....
Who is this arrogant Hmong Dr? What a jerk! Just because she chose him and he became an MD, doesn't mean he acts with arrogance like he's the only one deserving on a high pedestal.
Your husband might still mad at you from the time your ex-boyfriend showed up infront you at the funeral with your husband?? Guys are like that if you make them mad or know that you’re a cheater once they married you they will still keep it to against you!
First thank you of being honest. Hopefully this will be a life lesson for those are good diggers. Sounds like you husband is overworked which is very normal for Doctors. Secondly sounds like he doesn’t respect you because he saw ur true colors when u didn’t claimed your bf in front of him. Your husband knew you married for money. In returned he married for lust. What I find interesting is that you were not raised to value education and to be independent like most Hmong women. Ever since I would speak my mom always embedded that we girl just not depend on a man. That we must make our own money. I feel bad for you. If I was in your situation I would leave. A famous quotes says you never fail if you give it your best. You can go to school and still get a career and take care of yourself.
Ua zoo nawb tsam koj tus txiv tsis yuav koj ces koj yuav tsim nyeem ces koj ho yuav rov xav tias ua cas es ho tsis yuav koj tus txiv twj ywm es ntshe koj yuav tsis Txhaij txog nyiaj no nawb
Stop complaining, you will complain as well if you were to married a poor husband that have to work 2 jobs to support you and kids, you will complaining and divorce him so if that is too bothersome just stay single.
Txawm txawj ntshe npaum twg los txhob hnov qab ua neeg zoo thiab saib taus lwm tus thiab yog neeg zoo txhua feem nawb Tus me txiv Tsev Dr aw. Hos tus me niam tsev ua ib siab os mog vim koj show koj qhov ces ntshaw rau nws es nim no nws thiaj hais lus tsis txuag koj. Txhob tu tu siab os raws li nws hais rau koj ces nws tsis nyiam koj os tsuas yuav li tej laus hais xwb. Nej txhua tus hauv zaj story no nej yuav kev tag nrho os.
Hahaha khiav qav mus ntsib nab vim koj saib tus neeg ruam tsis muaj nqi es koj ntshaws tus txiv doctor hnub no koj thiaj ntshaws kev hlub ua luaj ntag lauv
Don’t be sad or have regrets. You didn’t wish for love and happiness, instead you wished for wealth and education of a husband and you got exactly that. You should be proud of yourself. Most people don’t even get their wish to come true.
I think your husband married you to fulfill his parents' dream and not his. But, he knows spousal support is going to be a huge chunk of his paycheck. Good luck to you!
Your doctor husband might be cheating behind your back with a white lady at work but he hang onto you because of his honor in the families they respect him so much. I think you will need to prepare yourself for that day to come. People who act like your husband he have his own mistress in the corner. It time for you to go hunt for your happy life making friends out there. You need to make him pay more attention to you and not your mistress. I work for 3 clinics and doctors do have lot of vacation time. Your husband have a mistress and you need to find your sugar daddy as a friend and make you heart live on. Good luck!
Stop complaining. Some of us don’t have that luxury. Just be happy with your money and focus on yourself, go back to school if you’re bored and love your kids. Just find a hobby. Rich people like you can do anything you want to do. Love is nothing. Your husband is a busy man. Your husband is right. You are a very lucky woman to be married to him. If you know how to have fun, you do not need your husband. He isn’t cheating on you, he isn’t beating you and he lets you control his money. Learn to love him and don’t expect anything in return because his love to you is through his money.
I know right! Why she complaining about love when she got money to buy everything she wants! Crazy! She just need find some good friends n go enjoy the luxury life. Stop depending on him for money n love!
Don't think too much!! He does loves you! He was just busy on his work and he need some time to do his work too becuase that needs alot of thime and it not easy task need it take times too and also he might be so tired and need time alone after those hard work too that makes him don't want to do or talk?Think of the positive things too if he doesn't love why he let you do whatever you want
This is what happens when you're too lazy to work for what you want and want an easy way out only. Want a doctor? Go to school for it. Want a lot of money? Work for it. Easy come easy go
Such a sad story.. like everyone in here say.. you chose money over love.. lucky your husband doesn’t show you love if he does and you see your ex boyfriend.. your nose gonna be so high up in the roof that you won’t even see him..
Your husband knew you chose him because he’s a doctor and rich only, that is why he ignore you. It’s not because he doesn’t love you.May be he did love you but he don’t trust your love too. Doctor keeps their feeling hidden for loosing too many patients. And you just ruin it. Tseem khuv xim tus qub.
Koj yog ib tug neeg uas ntseeg tsis tau. Yog koj tau tus txom nyem ntshe hnub no koj txoj neej neeg no koj twg ho yuav hais tias koj khuv xim tus kawm tau docter lawm thiab. Neeg siab tsis tus li koj ces ntshe tau tus twg los yuav muaj chaw tib.
She wouldn't have been happy with the bf. He's better off wothout her, shes a princess that would not work. She married him for money and he married her for vanity and his parents. She gets to eat well, sleep well, dress well, and freedom to do things. It's better than most in abusive and controlling life.
Money doesn’t just walk into your bank account, if you haven’t put in the work to trade. Same with love. It won’t just show up at your door step to love on you, when you yourself haven’t give love. Now you don’t have both, because you are poor at both. Can’t expect to withdraw when you haven’t deposited. Zero in = zero out, lady. You deposited yourself for his little and money. So now all you can withdraw is that. You yourself don’t love him, how can you expect him to love you? Your husband knew your true color. He knew what you are after. He could buy you with a master student status. He knows he can keep buying you with the niam dovtawj title & 💵. When he got the $, buying you as his personal cook, cleaner, and bed partner isn’t an issue. Happiness, he can find elsewhere, who loves him and compatibles.
Life is not perfect. I bet so many woman would trade their lives for yours!! So many married the love of their life, but is super poor and can’t even buy a pair of shoes whenever she wants, and now Love means nothing when broke as hell. Remember, there’s no love when your stomach is empty. In order to love, you have to have a home to live in and food on the table. But some people who have a very privileged life are blind and complain they don’t have the love they want. But remember, if he isn’t cheating, doesn’t beat you, and provides a good life for you and you’re very comfortable financially, then life is pretty darn good!!!
Yog li kos mas koj tsi paub xwb nws nyiam koj tsi tag nawb nws tag kev lawm es nws tsua lam yuav koj raw li niam txiv yuam xwb nws lub siab yeej tsi hlub koj nws lub siab muaj nws lwm tus lawm os cov txiv neej zoo li kos qhov nyiaj txiag tso rau koj vim muaj me nyuam lawm xwb ntawm nws lub siab tsi muab tag rau koj li os cov txiv neej coj li kos. Tus siab tshaj lub neej zoo li kos sim neej no peb ua neeg txoj kev sov siab yog thib ib ntawm ob niam txiv yog dhau kev sov siab lawm ces txhua yam tsi muaj nqe dabtsi os lawv aws.
Sister you have too much time on your hands!!!It’s a very demanding career as a doctor. It’s almost a 24/7 responsibility. What you can do is be a supporting/understanding spouse. You already know what you got yourself into in the first place. Money can’t buy love just material goods. And he’s a good provider. Go get a job so you won’t have all the time in the world to wait for his love!!!!
New couple now is, living n founding a family but each 1 has own lover beside the one in family U got 2 be el cheater in order 2 alive. Understand, put this in ur minf. Stay w him 4 $%$$$ ok. Let $%%%$$% why not u. Anyway u go would be worse. None has golden heart. U might find rock if search more. Good luck.
Ntawm kuv tus kheej mas kuv xav tias koj tus txiv dr muaj dua ib tug tshiab from his work lawm os. He doesn’t want to divorce you because he doesn’t want to pay child support and spousal maintenance. Doesn’t matter how stressful a person’s job is if they love you they will make time for you especially for someone who’s so educated haj yam paub ntxias neeg tshaj yog nws hlub koj. But, you deserve it what you got. Not hating just saying
Tau no ce khuv xim Tus Tom xwb o mog Koj Tus txiv Dr yeej hlub koj koj thiaj Li tau Nws nyiaj sib ov Tab si koj cov lus hlub ..yog .1.koj xav nrog koj Tus txiv ua ke.. 2..koj xav hnov los lus zoo los ntawm koj tau txiv lub qhov ncauj xwb ..o
Haub yau. Complain dabtsis na? You forgot to look at yourself in the mirror before you decided to marry for money. Stop making a fool of yourself and start enjoying life with your kids. Money isn't an issue so travel often and make memories for yourself. The last thing you need is your ex laughing at you now that he's heard your sorry life.
You made your bed now lie in it lady. No pity for you what so ever! But on the real tho, if he's letting you splurge on his money then by all means do use it. Just saying! 😂🤷♀️
Leave that man alone, you've made your choice, now live with it! I wouldn't even dare go to his store if I were you. Just because you're miserable, don't try and ruin someone else's happiness!
Am I the only one that noticed the story started out with her being maiv choo and then all of a sudden changed to nkauj ntsuv and then to nkauj sua??? 😂🤣😂
Is understandable for someone with that kinda degree. He probably has his own stress. People with those degrees they are heartless. He probably has someone on the side.
Money don't buy love sister. You can't have it all. I rather have love than money. Txomnyem khwv ib hnub noj ib hnub xwb los tsuas sib2 hlub yog qhov nplua nuj. Kev nplua nuj yog kev hlub.
Not trying to be mean, but you got exactly what you wanted! You wanted to married your dab laug b/c he's educated and has money, so you should live with the consequences. Anyways, I'm glad you let your BF go since he deserves better. I'm pretty sure if you were to married your BF, you will be here telling your story about how you regret marrying him and wish you married your dab laug.
Yog kawg tus pog no ces tau tus txiv txomnyem los ntshe nws yuav coj tuaj complain hauv youtuber no
Agree
Sister, being married to a highly educated person is a very different lifestyle. Especially medical doctors...they are busy and always on call. The lifestyle of a hard worker who is not highly educated is also a different lifestyle. Sounds like you have the lifestyle you chose..don't be sad...make the best of you have.
Mab you are a wonderful sport teller. Some people are just DULL. Keep up the good work.
I don't see what misery about her life. she has more freedom and live like a queen but she regret not marrying her ex and sell vegetable. she need to has her mind check.
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Pojniam rhuav plhu! Tau txiv Doctor los tsis txaus siab. Tau txiv txomnyem los tsis txaus siab. Lol
Txoj kev ntsaw nyiaj txog thaum kawg tuag tug qhov pim qhuav qhawv . You got what you want
Sister, txhob tu siab os. Tsis yog yus hmoov os nawb. Nco ntsoov tias nyias muaj nyias hmoov...txawm koj mus tau koj tus qub hluas nraug los xyov neb lub neej puas yuav zoo li koj tus qub hluas nraug thiab nws tus poj niam lub thiab. Tej zaum kuj txawv thiab los tsis paub. Nothing in life is guaranteed. Don't feel too bad.
Tus txomnyem mus yuav tus muaj ces kawg mus ua luag qhev. Tus nruam yuav tus ntse ces kawg raug thuam. Yog li peb ib txhiaj txiv neeg thiaj tsuas yuav tus kom hauv thiab phim peb xwb mas, ib tsoom me hluas nkauj aws.
Tsis tau txaus .poj niam saib phem xav tau txiv txawj ntse ces tau txiv siab phem mus ua lawv qhev thiaj npam
Txhob tu siab vim Koj hlub nyiaj xwb koj tsis hlub tus neeg uas hlub koj thiab koj xav txog kev zoo nkauj xwb thiaj li tau raws li koj lub siab ntshaw
What do you mean you don’t care if the person you love don’t have money or not smfh. You married your husband right now bc he has a high degree and gunna make money for you. Now you’re gunna be a hypocrite saying you want love from a man even if he doesn’t have money smfh. You got what you deserve, no offense. Plus being a doctor is very stressful, you can’t expect him to give you time everyday.
Money is everyone first priority
Tos lawv hais tias txhob ua neeg siab hlob siab coob thaum kawg yus thiaj yog tus poob kua muag ntag. Txhob tshaw neeg txawj ntse neeg muaj nyiaj txiag thaum kawg yus thiaj tsis khuv xim poob kua muag.
Koj paub tsawg!!! There's already a life story in here or on May Vang about a doctor who does his American side-chick on the side and only married his hmong wife for his parents. Bet that's your hub's story. Let me be clear: I work with lots of doctors. They can't wait to take time off to go spend with their children and spouse! And my sister is married to a doctor (he went to med school after they martied). She is the back bone of her household! My BIL helped raised and wipe my kids' boogers, even after he was a doctor. Your diamond is fake!
Nrog koj tu siab koj tsis tau tus me txiv siab zoo
Love yourself and go find a hobby or back to school and see your worth. You have his money and body but not his love.
It’s very true worthy lesson for everyone to learn to earn to understand to make corrections anyway. The Hmong’s people are telling that beautiful face of a girl has blue heart (evil) heart and handsome man is truly unworthy because he is proclaiming himself very handsome guy. He is foolish anyway haha, that’s true life because he is truly foolishness to married you after the marriage of the real beings partner anyway. Things are going to be worse for no details of the real life in this real world.
Thank you for sharing your life with your wrongfully married man anyway.
Koj tus txiv twb khav2 tias nws yog ib tug Doctor muaj2 nyiaj no ces yeej meem tas mav siv kom txaus nkaus es lwm hnub thiaj tsis khuv xim
Pias tau kho kho siab kawg.
Can't have it all! You had to choose and it appeared you chose money over love. You don't even know the stress your husband has due to his work. All you think about is you and your wants/needs. You need to be more supportive to your husband. He's right, you are a very lucky woman and rotten spoiled. Any women would love to be his wife.
Time to design yourself! Life is short and yolo!
Hwj koj tus hluas nraug ko ces yog ib tug quav dev xwb thiaj yuav quaj. Kuv ces twb tsis ntsia thiab kkiav deb li deb lawm osss.
Pom nyiaj muaj nujnqi txawmyog doctor los qhovmuag dig!
He is embarrased u...u r not in his level....in life u need to marry for love n compatible with someone his level
Even if you go married the poor guy you probably will be complaining that you have a poor life and you could’ve married your rich guy .. so just be bless and happy. Being a doctor required a lot.. please be understanding of that .. if you want love all the time then married someone who just sit at home and make love with you all the time and eat dirt. Lol You’re actually a lucky person to even be with a doctor..
Tau cov txiv zoo li no mas nyuaj tshaj g paub ua neeg li ler. Xav tias kuv thiaj ntsib cov neeg zoo li no xwb no neeg mas muaj coob coj li thaub no yom
Sister, your husband is right. You are lucky to still have money to spend. And since he is not cheating on you, you need to stop complaining. You had love but seemed you didn't want it. So you chose money instead. But you cannot complain that your husband's heart is not with you. The Bible says that wherever man's money is, that's where man's heart is. So like your husband is saying, you dont understand about being a doctor and how educated people spend their time. It is a life long learning.
On a serious note, money can't buy happiness
Txhob tu siab tau tus txiv tsis muaj sij hawm rau yus zoo dua tau tus txiv tsis txawj khwv siab ti khoo yus mus twg los tsis kam nawb
❤️❤️❤️all your gorgeous outfits!
Zoo kawg, ua rau niam neej vam yuam kev tag li lawm os. Nkauj sua, nkauj ntsum, thiab maiv choo. Es yog li cas tiag niam neej vam a?
Haub yau nej ua ntsuas thais lais kuv dhau lawm os. Kuv mistake lawm mas sorry os. LOL
You got what you wanted. Money. Make the best of what you have. If your spouse is too busy with work, make time with family and friends. To have money, the gotta work hard. Just be grateful for what you have and that he's not cheating on you. At least I hope he isn't. A job can be extremely stressful depending on what it is.
Coming from a man, I be looking else where too if I'm making that kind of money. He only keeping around because of child support. Doctor or not. I know plenty of doctors that spent lots of time with there wife. Some years never, but not for 15 years like you said. Leave him and get child support. You will still be rich, but be used a lot by guys. Good luck!
Koj yog nyab hmoob ces koj tus txiv lam yuav koj rau niam pog thiab txiv yawg lawv xwb hos nws muaj nws ib tug nyob tom tej nws cov time thiab vacation nws twb muab siv tas rau tus nws hlub lawm mas. Txawm li ntawd los koj yuav tsum tau ua siab ntev uv thiab pab koj cov me nyuam kom txhob txom nyem thiab ua kom zoo kom tej laus thiaj tsis nyuaj siab thiab ua kom zoo li zoo - saib puas muaj ib hnub koj yuav rov tau koj txoj kev hlub rov los lawm xwb nawb mog vim lig rau koj lawm yus muab nws nrauj los yeej tsis zoo qhov twg tuaj lawm nawb kav tsij tuav kom ruaj ruaj xwb
The majority of human beings would pick money over love. Be happy. You have money.
Cov txiv zoo li koj yeej meej tham hluas nraug e rau siab lomzem nrog law xb. Tiamsi may sure your kids r over 18 so when u get caught u don't have to pay child support.
Or just divorce him.
Kev npam rau tus tub ntsuag tub txom nyem ntshaw tus uas koj lub siab twb qhoa los koj tseem yuam qees yuam tus npaum es koj hmoov ywb tsis txog ne. Ib tug Medical Doctor hais li koj tus txiv yog kuv nrauj 1 hlis nws nyiaj hlis yuab faib 10 phav rau yus na. Yog kuv ces kuv nrauj lawm os haha..
😂. Wow! I am the opposite! Used to think that only married the poor and orphan guy cuz they all have good hearts not like the rich and educated guys that are selfish and inconsiderate. Haha! Cuz we both are silly to think such a way like that sister. Don’t be too sad sister you are lucky to have money. Some women have nothing just a loser okay.
1: tus tsis tau yeej ib txwm yog tus zoo tshaj
2. He is not the only one to do that 2 their women. He is a smart el cheater somehow he does not really care about your activities but $$$$ in your hands. lot men not even leave $$$ to their women. doors open to u for others things that you enjoy after him so. . . .. why not be el cheater . just like he does. ever his decide/want to dirvoce, remember that 50 50 2 u both so . . . . something else. . . we people are tender to each other only begenning of la
ove . . . after that. . . . the tender will slowly disapear . . .and
Be careful of what you wish for. Just spoil yourself with his money.
Dang…still complaining? I will take all the kids and vacation every weekend 😅 if he ok with everything and whatever you do. Let him be as long as he didn’t cheap like you say. Be happy with a hard working husband. Enjoy life lady. My husband is a high education too but not at your husband level yet and I’m happy with my husband even he didn’t have much time with me and the kids. Take your husband to the spa and get him a nice message. That’s what I did to mine because he work hard and he need’s that kind of relax too. Chill lady and be happy 😃
Tus sister aws...along with a lot of things in this world, nothing lasts forever - including money and love or infatuation. You probably would've regret your decision either way because you never know what the future holds. Make the best out of the situation. Hopefully your husband will learn to love you and accept you.
Tuag JeTuag hahahaha
Kuv qhia rau koj paub hais tias cov neg txhawj ntse yeej tsis muaj kev hlub los yog paub kev hlub li koj xa os. Koj yuav tshum ua tu qhia txoj kev hlub rau koj tu txiv hais tias koj xa tau txoj kev hlub zoo li cas los ntawm nws.
You should've married someone who loves you and you two can work together to build your wealth. Then you would've both wealth and a loving husband like many of us.
Woman like you that got everything and everything is never enough!!!! Living like a queen and your husband don’t even control you but dammmmm why most woman that don’t work and freely always thinking of cheating. Sounds like you need a job so you don’t think too much. Staying home all day with $$$$ in the bank is making you crazy and lonely. Idk about most woman but for me as I’m older now I just need a men that bring in the money and take care of me. Been working since 15 year old and so sick of working. Just be happy that this is the life you choose.
Sister, he’s showing you he’s doing great in life without you. That is your biggest regret in life you have to live with. No need to be sad cuz that’s what you wanted.
Es tej laus thiab neeg twb tias muaj nyiaj, nyiaj txiag muaj nqis tshaj txhua yam no ne......Es koj tias nyiaj puag pw tsis sov no es yog li cas tiag ne? Vim kuv tsis muaj nyiaj ne
Tus niam Dr. no tsis txawj ua niam Dr. ces zoo li no mas vim nws tsis ntshaw nyiaj nws ntshaw kev hlub xwb es ua cas sib haum tau li cas , twb ua tus txiv dhuav lawm es tus txiv thiaj tsis xav nrog ua ke . Txhais tau tias, tus txiv yuav tua hneev kom txog lub hnub qub , tus niam tsuas ntshaw txoj kev hlub xwb ne. Yog li no, tus niam tseem xav pom tus qub hluas nraug .nov, yog sau ua kev kawm xwb, txhob xav li cas .
So sad. She does not even realize that psychological torture is worst than physical abuse. If you don’t love someone, don’t string them along. Karma is inescapable.
Kab Lia koj puas koj tus xov tooj raukuv muab dab neeg koj hais kuv laus tsis tus fev nbuj
Tus niam tsev nco ntsoov yog ib tug neeg quaj txhos caug rau koj es koj tseem hlas dhau nws lub hauv caug mus lawm ces koj mus ua lub neej tsis xyom haus xyom seem nawb koj thiaj ntsib kev tus siab li ko.
Nco ntsoov nawb tus niam tsev Heev neeg mus Heev neeg tsim
Heev neeg muaj Heev neeg los lim
Ces yog koj ntag ov
Vim koj saib tsis taus koj tus hluas nraug txom nyem ntsuag nos
Nco ntsoov nawb koj phem phem rau lwm tus
Ces yuav muaj ib tug los ua phem phem rau koj thiab ov true nawb
Yog li tus niamtsev no hais ces yus yuav tsum Smart thiab tau degree li tus txiv doctor hmong ces nws thiaj li Fwm yus.
You know what he does when he takes trips... There is a reason why he refuses to let you go with him. You're in denial because you're afraid to lose the $$$. Can't have everything in life, got to choose your poison!
I honestly don't think you would have been happy if u had married your ex and became a farmer's wife. You would be mad about why you're so poor and live such a hard working life and why u didn't marry a doctor.
Hoyo qhov koj yuav nws twb yog xav tau tus txiv txawj ntse, muaj mooj mom thiab muaj nyiaj xwb ne. Your wish home true qhov ntawv twb yog qhov koj xav tau ne, ua twj ywm tsam nws tsis yuav koj os. The way he acted, he might have unfair relationship for you.
Tus niam tsev no yog hu Maiv Choo... los Nkauj Ntsum... los Sua ne... lol. Yeej piav li no lod
Unfortunately everyone is flawed... including this lady. She got what she wanted... she just didn't know what comes with that kind of life. Sounds like she had such variety of men... she chose poorly.
Kuv xav tias nyaj yuav tsis yog txhua tus uas ua Dr tab sis cov txiv zoo li koj tus ko tsua muaj ib txhia thiaj li coj li koj tus txiv ntawm koj os yog coj li koj tus txiv ko mas nws tsav nws lub hwj chim xwb os Tab sis yog hnub tug koj tus txiv Doctor ko tsis muaj tus poj niam nyob hauv nws lub neej ces nws twb tsis tseem ceeb dab tsi lawm thiab os
Tu txiv Dr. Ko yog hom Dr. Es tsav tsav hwj chim nws saib nws tu kheej muaj nqi nej hais lu nws teb ntawm qhov ntswg...mloog koj hais mas xyov kwv tij neej tsa muaj noj luag puas xav hu koj niag txiv as....
The lives of a niam doctor...boring,n alone.
Who is this arrogant Hmong Dr? What a jerk! Just because she chose him and he became an MD, doesn't mean he acts with arrogance like he's the only one deserving on a high pedestal.
Your husband might still mad at you from the time your ex-boyfriend showed up infront you at the funeral with your husband?? Guys are like that if you make them mad or know that you’re a cheater once they married you they will still keep it to against you!
wowo koj niag txiv doctor yog neeg twj aij tshaj li os nyob ntiaj teb no kev hlub muaj nqes tshaj txhua yam nawb nyiaj txiag tsuas muaj zog txhaj txhua yam xwb n vim nyiaj txiag yuav tsis tau kev hlub
First thank you of being honest. Hopefully this will be a life lesson for those are good diggers. Sounds like you husband is overworked which is very normal for Doctors. Secondly sounds like he doesn’t respect you because he saw ur true colors when u didn’t claimed your bf in front of him. Your husband knew you married for money. In returned he married for lust. What I find interesting is that you were not raised to value education and to be independent like most Hmong women. Ever since I would speak my mom always embedded that we girl just not depend on a man. That we must make our own money. I feel bad for you. If I was in your situation I would leave. A famous quotes says you never fail if you give it your best. You can go to school and still get a career and take care of yourself.
Ua zoo nawb tsam koj tus txiv tsis yuav koj ces koj yuav tsim nyeem ces koj ho yuav rov xav tias ua cas es ho tsis yuav koj tus txiv twj ywm es ntshe koj yuav tsis Txhaij txog nyiaj no nawb
Stop complaining, you will complain as well if you were to married a poor husband that have to work 2 jobs to support you and kids, you will complaining and divorce him so if that is too bothersome just stay single.
He has a mistress....men n women with behavior usually does!
Ua cas koj ho tsis mus lawm ntawv ntxiv kom koj ntse me ntsis lo pob, cas koj ho xum ua tus neeg tsuam mas
Txawm txawj ntshe npaum twg los txhob hnov qab ua neeg zoo thiab saib taus lwm tus thiab yog neeg zoo txhua feem nawb Tus me txiv Tsev Dr aw. Hos tus me niam tsev ua ib siab os mog vim koj show koj qhov ces ntshaw rau nws es nim no nws thiaj hais lus tsis txuag koj. Txhob tu tu siab os raws li nws hais rau koj ces nws tsis nyiam koj os tsuas yuav li tej laus hais xwb. Nej txhua tus hauv zaj story no nej yuav kev tag nrho os.
Hahaha khiav qav mus ntsib nab vim koj saib tus neeg ruam tsis muaj nqi es koj ntshaws tus txiv doctor hnub no koj thiaj ntshaws kev hlub ua luaj ntag lauv
He's a good medical doctor with 💰💰 but not a good looking one. 🙅😂
Don’t be sad or have regrets. You didn’t wish for love and happiness, instead you wished for wealth and education of a husband and you got exactly that. You should be proud of yourself. Most people don’t even get their wish to come true.
I think your husband married you to fulfill his parents' dream and not his. But, he knows spousal support is going to be a huge chunk of his paycheck. Good luck to you!
Your doctor husband might be cheating behind your back with a white lady at work but he hang onto you because of his honor in the families they respect him so much. I think you will need to prepare yourself for that day to come. People who act like your husband he have his own mistress in the corner. It time for you to go hunt for your happy life making friends out there. You need to make him pay more attention to you and not your mistress. I work for 3 clinics and doctors do have lot of vacation time. Your husband have a mistress and you need to find your sugar daddy as a friend and make you heart live on. Good luck!
Stop complaining. Some of us don’t have that luxury. Just be happy with your money and focus on yourself, go back to school if you’re bored and love your kids. Just find a hobby. Rich people like you can do anything you want to do. Love is nothing. Your husband is a busy man. Your husband is right. You are a very lucky woman to be married to him. If you know how to have fun, you do not need your husband. He isn’t cheating on you, he isn’t beating you and he lets you control his money. Learn to love him and don’t expect anything in return because his love to you is through his money.
I know right! Why she complaining about love when she got money to buy everything she wants! Crazy! She just need find some good friends n go enjoy the luxury life. Stop depending on him for money n love!
Money don't buy Love
Don't think too much!! He does loves you! He was just busy on his work and he need some time to do his work too becuase that needs alot of thime and it not easy task need it take times too and also he might be so tired and need time alone after those hard work too that makes him don't want to do or talk?Think of the positive things too if he doesn't love why he let you do whatever you want
I don't think you would be happy marrying your boyfriend with the hard life he lives. You are not meant for him. Leave him alone.
Now that he is a doctor and earn a lot of money. You should just go back to school make something of you.
This is what happens when you're too lazy to work for what you want and want an easy way out only. Want a doctor? Go to school for it. Want a lot of money? Work for it. Easy come easy go
Such a sad story.. like everyone in here say.. you chose money over love.. lucky your husband doesn’t show you love if he does and you see your ex boyfriend.. your nose gonna be so high up in the roof that you won’t even see him..
Your husband knew you chose him because he’s a doctor and rich only, that is why he ignore you. It’s not because he doesn’t love you.May be he did love you but he don’t trust your love too. Doctor keeps their feeling hidden for loosing too many patients. And you just ruin it. Tseem khuv xim tus qub.
Koj yog ib tug neeg uas ntseeg tsis tau. Yog koj tau tus txom nyem ntshe hnub no koj txoj neej neeg no koj twg ho yuav hais tias koj khuv xim tus kawm tau docter lawm thiab. Neeg siab tsis tus li koj ces ntshe tau tus twg los yuav muaj chaw tib.
Sounds like your ex is pretty content with his life. The only one living with regret is you.
The lady has too many names. First, her name was mai chong, nkauj ju, then mai shoua???
She wouldn't have been happy with the bf. He's better off wothout her, shes a princess that would not work. She married him for money and he married her for vanity and his parents. She gets to eat well, sleep well, dress well, and freedom to do things. It's better than most in abusive and controlling life.
Money doesn’t just walk into your bank account, if you haven’t put in the work to trade. Same with love. It won’t just show up at your door step to love on you, when you yourself haven’t give love.
Now you don’t have both, because you are poor at both. Can’t expect to withdraw when you haven’t deposited. Zero in = zero out, lady.
You deposited yourself for his little and money. So now all you can withdraw is that. You yourself don’t love him, how can you expect him to love you?
Your husband knew your true color. He knew what you are after. He could buy you with a master student status. He knows he can keep buying you with the niam dovtawj title & 💵. When he got the $, buying you as his personal cook, cleaner, and bed partner isn’t an issue. Happiness, he can find elsewhere, who loves him and compatibles.
Life is not perfect. I bet so many woman would trade their lives for yours!! So many married the love of their life, but is super poor and can’t even buy a pair of shoes whenever she wants, and now Love means nothing when broke as hell. Remember, there’s no love when your stomach is empty. In order to love, you have to have a home to live in and food on the table. But some people who have a very privileged life are blind and complain they don’t have the love they want. But remember, if he isn’t cheating, doesn’t beat you, and provides a good life for you and you’re very comfortable financially, then life is pretty darn good!!!
Just dont think too much. You only have one in life. Either rich or love. But like other had said maybe he have another woman on the side.
Yog li kos mas koj tsi paub xwb nws nyiam koj tsi tag nawb nws tag kev lawm es nws tsua lam yuav koj raw li niam txiv yuam xwb nws lub siab yeej tsi hlub koj nws lub siab muaj nws lwm tus lawm os cov txiv neej zoo li kos qhov nyiaj txiag tso rau koj vim muaj me nyuam lawm xwb ntawm nws lub siab tsi muab tag rau koj li os cov txiv neej coj li kos. Tus siab tshaj lub neej zoo li kos sim neej no peb ua neeg txoj kev sov siab yog thib ib ntawm ob niam txiv yog dhau kev sov siab lawm ces txhua yam tsi muaj nqe dabtsi os lawv aws.
Sister you have too much time on your hands!!!It’s a very demanding career as a doctor. It’s almost a 24/7 responsibility. What you can do is be a supporting/understanding spouse. You already know what you got yourself into in the first place. Money can’t buy love just material goods. And he’s a good provider. Go get a job so you won’t have all the time in the world to wait for his love!!!!
New couple now is, living n founding a family but each 1 has own lover beside the one in family U got 2 be el cheater in order 2 alive. Understand, put this in ur minf. Stay w him 4 $%$$$ ok. Let $%%%$$% why not u. Anyway u go would be worse. None has golden heart. U might find rock if search more. Good luck.
Ntawm kuv tus kheej mas kuv xav tias koj tus txiv dr muaj dua ib tug tshiab from his work lawm os. He doesn’t want to divorce you because he doesn’t want to pay child support and spousal maintenance. Doesn’t matter how stressful a person’s job is if they love you they will make time for you especially for someone who’s so educated haj yam paub ntxias neeg tshaj yog nws hlub koj.
But, you deserve it what you got. Not hating just saying
Tau no ce khuv xim Tus Tom xwb o mog
Koj Tus txiv Dr yeej hlub koj koj thiaj Li tau Nws nyiaj sib ov
Tab si koj cov lus hlub ..yog .1.koj xav nrog koj Tus txiv ua ke..
2..koj xav hnov los lus zoo los ntawm koj tau txiv lub qhov ncauj xwb ..o
Haub yau. Complain dabtsis na? You forgot to look at yourself in the mirror before you decided to marry for money. Stop making a fool of yourself and start enjoying life with your kids. Money isn't an issue so travel often and make memories for yourself.
The last thing you need is your ex laughing at you now that he's heard your sorry life.
You made your bed now lie in it lady.
No pity for you what so ever!
But on the real tho, if he's letting you splurge on his money then by all means do use it. Just saying! 😂🤷♀️