You are a very good man for even thinking about your wife's feelings. Most people would act before thinking. Thank goodness you didn't go see her. Don't know what acting she's going to pull on you.
I am so proud of this man! It takes a tough man to stand up for themselves but a real man to walk away from unnecessary situations! Something I tell my husband that all men should have in mind. And as a person who have good intentions I would never even contact any old flame to express my regrets. I would want that person to be happy.
The fact that u almost agreed to meet with her says a lot. You still have deep feelings for her and ALMOST couldn't resist her! If she continues to push you in the future, one day you WILL fall weak for her. Stay away from her! Women like her have no good intentions at all! Selfish!
I don’t believe him 💯 because men alway go back to their first love! But if it’s true like he told the whole world then I admired him for be faithful to his wife and himself!
Yog koj ncaj npaum koj zaj neej neeg no ces koj yog ib tug txiv neej (educated and smart) tiag. Koj tsis yog cov txiv dev ruam ntsab tses txiv neej hmoob. Very glad there are still man like you in this world.
So proud of you uncle...you are a man, she wasn't woman enough to keep her words. Keep looking ahead of your future with what you have. Some people never made it to your future for a purpose.
You made the right choice by not seeing your ex. She never loved you and is trying to break your marriage. Love and cherish your wife as she is the woman who love you.
Nws pom tias koj muaj zoo neej, muaj great job with great pay and off course a Master degree so she just wanted to ruin your marriage. I am glad you knew her darkside!
I have a similar situation where she decided to cheat and marry another Man. I was so much in love with her, and I didn't care much if it was a one sided love. I was blinded by love for her. I was left single for 10 years after she had left. She left me tears, pain, misery and heart aches for those many years. Within a few years she got divorced and came back to town while I was still single at the time. I heard about it and thought about it, but I never went back to her. I am a Man with dignity and no matter how much I cared for her in past or the pain she put me through, I was not going to stoop myself very low to want her back. I am married now with three kids and I love wife with all my heart. She may not have the same vibe as my ex, but she has a good heart.
You did the right thing. Your wife doesn't deserve to be cheated on. Your ex is an ex for a reason. If Your ex loves you, she would of never left you in the first place.
Cov poj niam uas xav rhuav lwm tus lub neej yeej tsis muaj hnub nws tau lub neej zoo ua vim nws lub siab tsis ncaj ntuj yuav tsis cia nws tau lub neej zoo. Tus poj niam no xav rhuav tsem koj lub neej yog koj yog ib tug txiv dev li nws ces koj yeej mag kiag nws lub nkuaj lawm tabsi zoo qhov koj tsis ruam li ib txhia txiv neej. Koj yog ib tug txiv neej zoo thov hlub2 koj tus poj niam es kom nws lub plawv nres kiag os.
This is and will always be a one sided love-his side. Sai will always be a second choice to Kia. I’m glad, Sai, that you are wise and hurt enough to choose being the first choice to your faithful wife.
You are married now, the only promise you should keep are those made to your wife and children. Don’t feel obligated to someone who’s not in a committed relationship with you.
When he agree to meet her, tells me he stilled love her deeply inside. He will go meet her when his wife and he have a disagreement. A husband who loves his wife, he'll not even talk to his ex that long or even think about it. Don't try to make a good role when you have second thoughts already.
Cancer was his karma for being greedy. A kind heart wins all. There is a quote that says: "NO MATTER HOW EDUCATED, TALENTED, RICH, OR COOL YOU BELIEVE YOU ARE THE WAY YOU TREAT PEOPLE TELLS ALL. INTEGRITY IS EVERYTHING." Haven't you notice? Greedy people have very few friends.
Mab koj lub npe tiagๆ yog kab lia lis yog mab na. Siv lub npe twg ces siv lub ntawd xwb ma. Thov qhuas koj yog kuv tus nas ej uas tham neeg lub tau ntxim siab heev tag nrho ib tsoom cov los siv you tube nrhiav noj. Koj yog tus thij ib rau ntawm kuv kev mloog neej neeg
If he met up with his ex behind his wife's back I don't believe him one bit. People in their right mind will tell their ex over the phone to never call again unless they still want them. I doubt he is telling the truth.
Your wife is fortunate enough to have you! And misery loves company, that’s why your ex wanted to reach out to you. If she reaches out again in the future, let the door hit her on the way out. An ex is an ex for a reason. Not many ppl have cordial exes - be aware of that and draw a line. Don’t be the crazy ex. Be the cordial one (and put them on ignore).
Leej twg kom koj nyiam tus neeg nws twb tsi hlub koj nas tus pojniam twg yog koj hai nws es nws tsi kam es dag hnub dhau hnub ces yog nws muaj lwm tus lawm mas tus nus aws
This is HIS side of the story. It doesn’t sound like they are nkauj raug to start off with. I think it’s all in his head that they’re together. She played him but I think it’s because they are related she was just being nice and couldn’t tell him no. She got married but life wasn’t what she expected so she regret and reached out to him. 😂
A real man stays committed to his wife, keeps promises to his wife only. She's an ex who lied to you in your face, she doesn't deserve your time at all. The nerve she's got after she played you. Now that her life sucks, she wants to make yours suck too.. Good thing you are smart and did not fall for the, "you not a real man" crap.
Zam txim rau tus neeg uas tau ua txaum rau yuav hluas77....los mas....zam txim thiab os txiv tsev aw.....thaum hluas yeej tsis txawj xav lis os...peb ib cov ces yeej ua yuam kev in yam thiab. Niam no mam muab xav los txog kuv ntau77 siab thiab os.
Good job! Nxt time koj yuav tau teb nws haistias koj yeej yog txiv tseeb2 tabsi koj tsis yog tus tciv us sab hauv tabsi koj yog cov ua sab sauv xwb no mas...hehe. remember that in this country, a real will just walk away n be faithful to his decision and moved on...only an idiot will do what shes said or bow to hmoob ruam los lus..."koj tsis txiv neej yawg"
Es tus txiv tsev, yog muaj li koj hais no, tus me muam no nws tsis respect koj li os yom. Nws yeej tsis pab hlub koj hais tias cia koj happy yom. Nws Yeej xav txog nws qhov happiness xwb yom. Thov kom koj yog ib tug strong protector rau koj lub neej.
If I were your wife, knowing you even waste your time and energy to write this past history to as a story, you have some explaining and convincing for our marriage to go forward again. You should of told your wife about her dirty trick and took your wife along to meet this classy ex-girl friend .
You did the right thing not meeting her after married. Keep being a good Hmong role model for the next generation.
Omg i like how you change your voice into her voice crying ....you are really good at acting
Thank you!
Mab, you're so good at imitating people lol
To the brother in the story, I'm glad u decided not to go see her. You made the right decision.
Thank you it wasn't easy..lol
Omg I love how you imitated the crying voice!!! 😂😂😂😂
Thank you!
You are a very good man for even thinking about your wife's feelings. Most people would act before thinking. Thank goodness you didn't go see her. Don't know what acting she's going to pull on you.
I am so proud of this man! It takes a tough man to stand up for themselves but a real man to walk away from unnecessary situations! Something I tell my husband that all men should have in mind. And as a person who have good intentions I would never even contact any old flame to express my regrets. I would want that person to be happy.
The fact that u almost agreed to meet with her says a lot. You still have deep feelings for her and ALMOST couldn't resist her! If she continues to push you in the future, one day you WILL fall weak for her. Stay away from her! Women like her have no good intentions at all! Selfish!
Sister Mab Vaj, the fake cry 😢 was great. Made the story much more better..lol
Mab aws....you've just won an Oscar for the crying moment over the phone. 👏👏👏👏👏
Thank you so much!
I second that 😂
We need the world have more real man like this guy.
You did the right thing and a real man, do not fallen into temptation. Your wife is a lucky to have a man like you.
Mab you are a very good actress. I bet you can dub movies. That's why I keep listening because you're good and funny.
Thank you!!
Hahahaha 2nd time listening again....love the crying voice imitation
Thank you’ I can’t wait for you next story! I love ur scary stories also! 😭
Koj lub suab zoo2.kawg li OS, thiab koj txawj hais sab sij huam heej
You did the right thing. I wish all married men think the same way as you did.
Strong conviction, hard to find a man like this man.
I don’t believe him 💯 because men alway go back to their first love! But if it’s true like he told the whole world then I admired him for be faithful to his wife and himself!
Yog koj ncaj npaum koj zaj neej neeg no ces koj yog ib tug txiv neej (educated and smart) tiag. Koj tsis yog cov txiv dev ruam ntsab tses txiv neej hmoob. Very glad there are still man like you in this world.
😆 Mab, I swear u are the best story teller! ❤️
kuv nyiam qhov koj quaj ua kiab tug mas khws tas2 li os niam neej vam. i love your story thiab kuv nyiam mloog koj hais txhua2 zaj li os
Ua tsaug os!
Niam neej vam aws, i love your impersonation of her crying 😆🤣! It was so convincing and something different! I love it!!!
Thank you!
Niam neej vam koj quaj tau phim kawg nkaus
Hais tau zaj neej neeg no qog quaj los zoo kawg
Thank you!
Hais tau zoo kawg. Yog kawg twb xaiv lawm tus lawm hnub no rob qab los thab, tsi yuav mog
Been waiting all day to hear you share stories thank you and be safe this holiday season mab vaj 💞
Thank you so much and same goes to you!
Good!...a smart Man would go back and see his ex...but a wise Man will not go back. Because he has a loving heart and a good Man.
Very good !!!
Lol. I love the way you tell stories and imitate people voices i could picture your face!. Lol keep it up!. You should dub in movies!
Thank you!!
Mab, you should be an actor 😊
So proud of you uncle...you are a man, she wasn't woman enough to keep her words. Keep looking ahead of your future with what you have. Some people never made it to your future for a purpose.
Don’t let your ex-girlfriend ruin your marriage. If she loves you, she would have married you long time ago.
Good job Niam Neej Vam on doing the voice of the lady in this story Haha. Please do more it make your story entertain 😂
Thank you!
The story teller is very good imitator. I feel sad that our Hmong audiences are limited, otherwise, she will do well on her show
Thank you!
You’re such a loyal man to your wife. I’m adore you!
Kab Lia aw....koj mas quaj tau khws kawg li os.
Mab koj mas hais tau zoo tshaj plaws li hos.
Ua tsaug os!
You made the right choice by not seeing your ex. She never loved you and is trying to break your marriage. Love and cherish your wife as she is the woman who love you.
Nws pom tias koj muaj zoo neej, muaj great job with great pay and off course a Master degree so she just wanted to ruin your marriage. I am glad you knew her darkside!
I have a similar situation where she decided to cheat and marry another Man. I was so much in love with her, and I didn't care much if it was a one sided love. I was blinded by love for her. I was left single for 10 years after she had left. She left me tears, pain, misery and heart aches for those many years. Within a few years she got divorced and came back to town while I was still single at the time. I heard about it and thought about it, but I never went back to her. I am a Man with dignity and no matter how much I cared for her in past or the pain she put me through, I was not going to stoop myself very low to want her back. I am married now with three kids and I love wife with all my heart. She may not have the same vibe as my ex, but she has a good heart.
like your acting.
Thank you!
KOJ HAIS DAB NEEG TAU ZOO HEEV KUV MLOO KOJ EVERYDAY
You did the right thing. Your wife doesn't deserve to be cheated on. Your ex is an ex for a reason. If Your ex loves you, she would of never left you in the first place.
Lomzem heev. Uatsaug ntau.
I think u should tell her u are a real man. A man that doesn’t fall back into the same holds ever again.
I'm glad you made the right choice! She deserves everything she's going through right now! She's evil, stay away!
Zoo siab koj ua siab ncaj rau koj pojniam
@28:51 love your voice acting💯! 😁
Thank you!
Did this inspire "Leej muam dai siab"? Asking for the community.
Xais, koj yog txiv neej yawg kawg, yog koj tsis yog txiv neej ces, koj tus poj niam neb lub neej mag kiab muab rhuav puas ntsoog tag lawm nav, zoo kawg koj tig rov los saib koj tus poj niam tseem zoo zoo nkauj es koj thiaj tsis mus ntsib kiab, zoo heev, zoo heev.
Thov qhua tus txiv tsev no.
Tus nus aws koj ua yog lawm nawb. Yog kiab mus tau lub neej zoo ces nws yeej tsis moog txog koj os. Hlub tus tus poj niam os
Tsawg tus txiv neej siab thiaj zoo li no os
Mab koj lub suab quaj khw kawg thiab laiv hahaha
Glad you didn't go meet the ex. Love your wife.
Tus me viv ncaus aw cas koj nim tau ib tug txiv siab zoo ua luaj li os viv ncaus!!!
Cov poj niam uas xav rhuav lwm tus lub neej yeej tsis muaj hnub nws tau lub neej zoo ua vim nws lub siab tsis ncaj ntuj yuav tsis cia nws tau lub neej zoo. Tus poj niam no xav rhuav tsem koj lub neej yog koj yog ib tug txiv dev li nws ces koj yeej mag kiag nws lub nkuaj lawm tabsi zoo qhov koj tsis ruam li ib txhia txiv neej. Koj yog ib tug txiv neej zoo thov hlub2 koj tus poj niam es kom nws lub plawv nres kiag os.
This is and will always be a one sided love-his side. Sai will always be a second choice to Kia. I’m glad, Sai, that you are wise and hurt enough to choose being the first choice to your faithful wife.
Good job there man. She really is trying to ruin your life.
You are married now, the only promise you should keep are those made to your wife and children. Don’t feel obligated to someone who’s not in a committed relationship with you.
Stay away from the flirtatious ones, only trouble and worries awaits
When he agree to meet her, tells me he stilled love her deeply inside. He will go meet her when his wife and he have a disagreement. A husband who loves his wife, he'll not even talk to his ex that long or even think about it. Don't try to make a good role when you have second thoughts already.
She is not worth your time!!
cas nej yuav txawj qog luaj.
Xais xais thov kom koj ncaj ncees li ko rau koj tus puj nam kom tag tiam no nawb be the real man for ever nawb
Cancer was his karma for being greedy. A kind heart wins all. There is a quote that says: "NO MATTER HOW EDUCATED, TALENTED, RICH, OR COOL YOU BELIEVE YOU ARE THE WAY YOU TREAT PEOPLE TELLS ALL. INTEGRITY IS EVERYTHING." Haven't you notice? Greedy people have very few friends.
I'm glad you make the right decisions wants she betray you she will destroy your precious life especially your marriage.
Mab koj lub npe tiagๆ yog kab lia lis yog mab na. Siv lub npe twg ces siv lub ntawd xwb ma. Thov qhuas koj yog kuv tus nas ej uas tham neeg lub tau ntxim siab heev tag nrho ib tsoom cov los siv you tube nrhiav noj. Koj yog tus thij ib rau ntawm kuv kev mloog neej neeg
Kablia thiab Mab puas leej yog kuv 2 lub npe tib si. Es ua tsaug koj tseem pab nyiam kuv hais thiab os mog.
Koj tseem mus ces koj sab li lawm os thaub aws
If he met up with his ex behind his wife's back I don't believe him one bit. People in their right mind will tell their ex over the phone to never call again unless they still want them. I doubt he is telling the truth.
Hmmmmm.....If you’re so faithful to your marriage and wife, why take all night thinking about this meeting with your ex love. What a waste !!
Tus me nws aw cas koj lub siab yuav zoo ua luaj li os.cos zoo li koj tsis muaj li os.
Your wife is fortunate enough to have you! And misery loves company, that’s why your ex wanted to reach out to you. If she reaches out again in the future, let the door hit her on the way out. An ex is an ex for a reason. Not many ppl have cordial exes - be aware of that and draw a line. Don’t be the crazy ex. Be the cordial one (and put them on ignore).
Leej twg kom koj nyiam tus neeg nws twb tsi hlub koj nas tus pojniam twg yog koj hai nws es nws tsi kam es dag hnub dhau hnub ces yog nws muaj lwm tus lawm mas tus nus aws
Tus aib pog kiab no khij xuaj heev nawb !!!txawj dag dhau lawm, tsis tsim txiaj kiag li nawb, kav tsij mus noj tshuaj ntxuav nyiaj kom tuag mus los tau.
Cov niag neeg ua siabphem thiab ntxeev-siab lino mas, zoo txhob tau nws. Nws tustxiv yeej ntse kawg es thiajli muab nws tso povtseg mus caum niam Mos Ab lawm. Ntshe nws yeej yog ib niag Pojniam ntxim-ntxub.
Koj yog txiv neej yawg es koj thuab tsi hu. Yog koj hu ces koj tseem yog txiv deb thiab os brother aws... zoo qhov koj xav yog lawm os.
This is HIS side of the story. It doesn’t sound like they are nkauj raug to start off with. I think it’s all in his head that they’re together. She played him but I think it’s because they are related she was just being nice and couldn’t tell him no. She got married but life wasn’t what she expected so she regret and reached out to him. 😂
Ham tsis kuv cais tsis ntsia li lawd tsawg tsis sawd !
You should of gave her a taste of her OWN medication; stood her up and not show-up.😂😝🤣😛🤣😁
A real man stays committed to his wife, keeps promises to his wife only. She's an ex who lied to you in your face, she doesn't deserve your time at all. The nerve she's got after she played you. Now that her life sucks, she wants to make yours suck too.. Good thing you are smart and did not fall for the, "you not a real man" crap.
Zam txim rau tus neeg uas tau ua txaum rau yuav hluas77....los mas....zam txim thiab os txiv tsev aw.....thaum hluas yeej tsis txawj xav lis os...peb ib cov ces yeej ua yuam kev in yam thiab. Niam no mam muab xav los txog kuv ntau77 siab thiab os.
Good job! Nxt time koj yuav tau teb nws haistias koj yeej yog txiv tseeb2 tabsi koj tsis yog tus tciv us sab hauv tabsi koj yog cov ua sab sauv xwb no mas...hehe. remember that in this country, a real will just walk away n be faithful to his decision and moved on...only an idiot will do what shes said or bow to hmoob ruam los lus..."koj tsis txiv neej yawg"
Definitely did the right thing. Not worth your marriage for a dumb explanation from a person who didn't see your value.
Zoo qhov koj tsis zoo nraug koj thiaj siab zoo yog lam zoo nraug no ntshe koj twb mus pauj kua zaub ntsuab rau kiab lawm os thiab ntshe neej twb tawg tag los ua nraug nrab phim kiab lawm os
Pog no maiv kaus lawm xwb j muag meb cab poj nrab ntawv nas
koj tseem mus ntsib nws thiab ces koj yuav keb nawb
Kab lia koj txhob ua lub suab ua txuj quaj lawm os tsis khws li muaj ntsis xu siab nas cia li hais kiag mus xwb os me phooj ywg
Should have set up a meeting and not show up. Give her a taste of her own medicine
tus no yog hom poj niam dag dag hais lus tsis muaj tseeb os
Es tus txiv tsev, yog muaj li koj hais no, tus me muam no nws tsis respect koj li os yom. Nws yeej tsis pab hlub koj hais tias cia koj happy yom. Nws Yeej xav txog nws qhov happiness xwb yom. Thov kom koj yog ib tug strong protector rau koj lub neej.
Yes! Every boy man kawg tuag rau hauv poj niam qab tiab xwb hahhha
TUS TXIV TSEV, PUAS TSEEB OS....??? KOJ TIAS KOJ TSIS KAM MUS NTSIB KOJ TUS QUB HLUAS NKAUJ!!! VIM COV TXIV NEEJ XUAM COOB MAS HNOV TSIS TSEEB TIAS YUAV ROV MUS NTSIB TUS QUB HLUAS NKAUJ, YOG KOJ TSIS MUS NO CES KOJ YOG IB TUG TXIV TSEV UAS NCAJ NCEES RAU KOJ TUS POJNIAM TIAG 2!!! YOG KOJ MUS NTSHE POG YUAV QHIA POG LUB MAV TAIS CES KOJ KAWG TUAG RAU POG OB CEG....
Kia have no respect
If I were your wife, knowing you even waste your time and energy to write this past history to as a story, you have some explaining and convincing for our marriage to go forward again. You should of told your wife about her dirty trick and took your wife along to meet this classy ex-girl friend .
Yuav tus me phem tsawv los tsuav nws hlub yus xwb os
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