All Parts | Control | Real Stories of grooming and exploitation

From the creators of Alfie's Story, we introduce Control feature film from Not in our community based on real stories of victims of grooming and exploitation.
This series-come-film following the story of Sarah and her stepbrother Kyle as they are groomed by a gang after a vulnerable period of losing Sarah’s dad. We see how sexual (CSE) and criminal (CCE) exploitation impacts their friends and family as both of them become increasingly tangled in the manipulation of gang-leader, Sami, and exploitative couple, Lee and Nikki.
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Special thanks to:
Hornsea School
Lucy Jenkins
Funded by the Office of Police and Crime Commissioner for Humberside.
Written, directed and produced by eskimosoup and Storyboard Media.
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All music, sound and visuals owned/fairly sourced by Not in our community.

[@sarahlamb2333]

Any parent that allows children to hang around with adults and know what is happening need prosecuting as facilitators.. I know the scenario in video isn't about parents knowing.. But it definitely happens

[@celtictarotreadings333]

That’s why education on such matters is needed

[@sarahwynn6486]

Yeah that’s right let’s blame the victims . Because that helps …. Fgs

[@Cutest1TheGame]

Single mothers are working so hard they don’t have time to keep an eye on their kid. More money for single moms would help them have more time for their kids. This wasn’t her fault. She tried. Wasn’t even her kid, but she still tried.

[@sarahlamb2333]

​@@sarahwynn6486 that isn't what I was meaning I said about other situations not the scenario in video... some children parents enable abusers Access to their kids..for eg 13 year olds going to drink/drug fuelled parties with adults without parent present but with permission..I was pointing out other ways grooming happens..

[@sarahlamb2333]

​​@@sarahwynn6486 who blamed the victim I don't see what you're getting at? Must be a missing comment you replied to

[@Brook_Nichelle]

My mom and brother did that to me when I was raped they laughed at me. While I was telling them what happened in tears... they were laughing.

[@liverbirdxoxo1984]

I'm so sorry that they did that!! You deserved love, support n compassion in that moment!! I'm gutted for you xx

[@ARS-jw3os]

How are You Now ? Please seek a psychotherapist to heal inner wounds. They Will help You to vent out Your Anger & feelings in a good way as well as Guide You correctly. All good wishes with You.

[@Brook_Nichelle]

@@ARS-jw3os I'm fine it was when I was 17. I'm 35 now.

[@LoneWolf-bs3go]

Is it Western culture?

[@Brook_Nichelle]

@@LoneWolf-bs3go huh?

[@goparetraitors4156]

They are poor and the wealthy didn't care.
This is a disgusting.... shameful

[@isabelmariereynolds]

He is grommg her I was being grommg and it still hurts

[@stevielogan8848]

The girl who plays the mum is a good actress

[@offkiofficial5363]

shame about the rest though eh? 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@imransiddique8794]

100 % agreed. We Pakistani come Britain with dream of white cheeks. Actually, there are many organised Pakistani men groups, are actively involve in this scams. Many of those are familiar to me.😂😂

[@Arsenal_Fan11]

Are you admitting to been a rapist?

[@pexie7755]

6:21 the way she smacked him xD

[@andrejlazarevic1842]

bruh at 4:55 the pasta looked so good why did she not like it

[@spicypeppermushroom8708]

if that dried up pasta looked good to you then i feel sorry for you

[@isabelmariereynolds]

I Think Lee is OK but I don't know if he is good or not

[@benjiboy111111]

Hes a paedophile grooming and sexually coercing a minor

[@Chxnook]

8:59 Of course adam johnson would be in this

[@neeeeoow]

Sammy looks like Adam Johnson

[@jackfoley2192]

Poor girl

[@roxy8148]

what does grooming mean cuz i never heard of it

[@trinleywangmo]

It's a way to make you complicit with your own abuse. It's a form of manipulation. When a pedo gives you "candy" then guilts you into doing disgusting things... that's grooming. The most disgusting form of abuse, in my experience. It'll destroy you mentally for life.

[@Cutest1TheGame]

Grooming is a technique used to get someone to trust you. After gaining your trust, they exploit you and make you do things you don’t want to do. Lots of love bombing and lies and manipulation and deception and storytelling is used. When you are inside the manipulation, you don’t see the manipulation and that’s how they trick you. (If you saw the manipulation, it wouldn’t work.) it happens a lot to children because they haven’t had enough life experience to see the manipulation. But it can often happen to adults, specifically someone who is vulnerable (just experienced a big loss of some kind and doesn’t have the support system they need).

[@isabelmariereynolds]

So much

[@user-er7dr8oy6e]

Worst actors in the world 🤣🤣

[@isabelmariereynolds]

They are so bad

[@queenh6430]

this is based in hornsea and bridlington omg i live in bridlington

[@isabelmariereynolds]

It is like that in ireland

[@solavill]

Stop spamming

[@cannabisnj]

it might be better if you watch the whole video then post a single comment about your feelings on it after

[@isabelmariereynolds]

That look very rough

[@solavill]

No shit

[@isabelmariereynolds]

Like hell

[@jackfoley2192]

Sarah looks cute

[@sarahwynn6486]

Fancy kids do you

[@isabelmariereynolds]

I don't like these guys

[@adamjones7691]

The acting 🤢

[@blairewilkie1214]

First

[@torriemullineaux8085]

Only

[@blairewilkie1214]

Torrie Turner I know

[@ashaabby3998]

Wow only fist stay juicy

[@benjiboy111111]

Nobody cares