One day I woke up, rubbed my eyes, shuffled about and out of nowhere it just hit me HARD. We are more ghosts then living at this point. we made everything so stale, so lifeless, so transactional that we killed what life was in us, just to exist in stasis comfortably sedated from potential. Good, and bad. . .
Teddie Kackz was right in the end, this is what happens when you trade uncertainty for security an stability, it kills the primal instincts/beast inside you, just look at universe 25 experiment, that's what we are going through right now...
1:43 When do I feel most alive? I feel most alive when I work out, when I practice martial arts, when I travel, when I go hiking, when I meet with like-minded individuals.
its crazy how life changed so much when i was little, i always played fought my friends and fighting was pretty much my life that time. As i grew older that urge to fight became more tamed and that fire faded
Well, women existed before, but got destroyed, thanks to the "patriarchy". And, i'm not blaming the "Patriarchy", I freaking loved it. What I am saying is, even though men were in charge, there were men who gave women power in the past as well. And every time that happened, those women did disastrous things that you don't want to talk about.
I love this guy telling me about primal masculinity as he flicks his luscious hair over his shoulder. No hate lol he seems like he would be a cool dude to hang out with.
I do agree with the essence of what you are saying but just a few points to add. I think its easier now to have sex then its ever been and if you want to fight you can join a local grappling, mma or boxing gym. Back in the day you didn't have dating apps where you can potentially meet people extremely easily. Back in the day you had to go out and actually make things happen for yourself, yes it was maybe more violent back then but not in a positive way. Combat sports has helped cannel aggression in a way that is more safe and productive. Also nothing is stopping anyone from leaving the front door to go out and talk to girls in real life, which is easier to do because less people do it and you stand out more. The truth is men are having less sex because they probably want the very attractive girls which takes effort to get regardless of what era you're living in as there are in higher demand. When i was growing up. I encountered a lot of violence and it was extremely destructive, a lot of the people i knew involved in it all are dead or in prison. that is a much worse fate than spending your evenings on tiktok. I guess one should distinguish the difference between violence and fighting.
Hi. I wore my hair your length in the early 1970s. I would have different connections with people , sexual ones. But i think thats unhealthy now. Im celibate now. I like dancing 🕺. I think to move my body is freeing.
Amen brother! I would rjou that those two things are two different manifestations of the same thing:violence. Sex is violent in essence, it has to be. I'm not talking about beating up anyone I'm talking about the act of it. So basically yeah you learn a lot about someone fighting him. On you're on the god dam point about what makes us confident as a man. Keep it up.
You hit the nail on the head when you said repressing is definitely making things worse. But you have shared in this platform before that you should become the most authentic version of yourself. This always means fixing your relationship with masculinity, which you have already taken your first steps towards, and you're doing in a way that is authentic to you, but not everyone is going to find authenticity in what you say. This part is your ego talking about it's very personal relationship with these activities and then projecting it into some sort of universal clause, but not everyone will find truth in it. Masculinity means imposing, femeninity means flowing. These are not societal or even biological concepts, these are two different ways of seeing and interacting with the world. Masculinity is taking the straightest path, while femeninity is letting the path take you wherever it wants. Sparring, or any physical activity, is a great way to let yourself be in the moment. You are imposing your body onto another, feeling it's force, reacting to it, it requires you to be present, to be intuitive, but the mere act of being able to hurt another human being physically is not really part of the equation. Fighting when there is no simulated environment has no other real on your psyche other than anxiety, and in fact, when practicing a martial art, most will also train you to get rid of this anxiety as a way to become conscious of your physical actions before you start fighting. So, in the end, practicing the martial art, or in your case, sparring with friends, is the important bit. Not the actual violence part. I strongly believe any sport can do this without a problem, and a lot of people will find it a lot more genuine to themselves to do competitive swimming or to practice Rugby than to do play pretend fighting. I'm not putting it down, but that's how someone that is into another practice could see sparring. And there's a million ways to go about this as well. Someone who skates is fighting a bunch of different forces, from their own balance, to gravity, to their own biological bias towards physical safety, it's a very complete sport. When done in groups, it becomes competitive, and it's a much more complex level of competitiveness because you can't out-skate someone. You have to know what people like to see as well as what you and your oponent can do to place yourself in a multi-leveled hierarchy that you can climb over time. Owning the room in conversation is another one. If you're a curious person, and feel like yourself while learning, learning anything, skills, books, videos, talking to people, any way to impose your ideas is also masculine. So, for those people, teaching people, guiding people, being the leader of a dynamic, proposing a dynamic, healhty debates, being a boss, these are all ways you can impose your ideas and masculinity. For me and for many others making money is the most direct way to feel masculine. Thriving in business meetings, thriving in the art of persuation, of strategy, of subtext, being good at re-framing somehting in different ways, these are pretty darn violent conversations if you know how to read the sub-text, so it is a good way to also practice attacking and defending yourself. In fact, these are a little bit more essential in today's world than straight up knowing how to fight (although i am biased, because admittedly, THESE (business related) are the activities I feel the most LIKE A MAN doing, and DAMN do they invigorate me. If I didn't do them I would actually be less genuine, and would repress my masculinity). I prefer to work on my body directly, I take my workout very seriously, but I could live without it. I have practiced BJJ for a few years now with the intent to be able to use my body as a weapon, and while it has been a very fulfilling experience, I could honestly live without it. I've never really had to use it either, but i am stil lprepared for the day that i do. Anyway, sorry for the long text, thak you for sharing your thoughts and experiences. Sending you love!
Not all of us enjoy being in a world full of violent and lusty men! How wonderful that some bit of empathy and awareness has happened and there are more efforts at tolerance and communication in some parts of the world. I would suggest moving to where what you are missing is still alive and well. Please, lets not go backwards-- the idea is to evolve.
What do you mean sex ? WIth a condom ? I mean do you think that contraception is natural ? Even in ancient times if they did not want the kid they killed it.....only Elon musk can have sex without condom and even he should be weary ....please explain in detail, because sex is not a hobby....
Karezza sex, (tantra) Watch Marnia robinson interviews for the science of sex, orgasm and pair-bonding. More than one orgasm per week diminishes dopamine production etc causing partners to want to separate to mass progenate etc
@@KwstasMakariou hey bro, I agree with you but did you hear anything I said? I'm talking about karezza, Tantric sex that is the optimal form of sex that you can have as much as you want just about, as long as you do it right and bring the energy up to the heart I'm not talking about sport sex, talking about real lovemaking that's not addictive, depleting or destructive to the pair-bond, etc..
You should really look into criminality, mental diseases and treatment of elderly. Compare between Muslims and others, my friend is a revert and he married intentionally an old Muslim lol creed wise for that specific reason, for being in a society where even the outcome of Islam is observable and he’s very very very happy in Algeria
One day I woke up, rubbed my eyes, shuffled about and out of nowhere it just hit me HARD. We are more ghosts then living at this point. we made everything so stale, so lifeless, so transactional that we killed what life was in us, just to exist in stasis comfortably sedated from potential. Good, and bad. . .
Teddie Kackz was right in the end, this is what happens when you trade uncertainty for security an stability, it kills the primal instincts/beast inside you, just look at universe 25 experiment, that's what we are going through right now...
Great stuff. I’m over 60 but your content still relevant
"Back in my time, men used to be men" aaah video
Love men, just a joke
I'm a woman and I feel most alive in same situations as you + I love riding bike in a fast pace, especially in the forest
1:43 When do I feel most alive? I feel most alive when I work out, when I practice martial arts, when I travel, when I go hiking, when I meet with like-minded individuals.
Men had a much more fun time back in our ancestors time. This is a woman's world now. Sad.
its crazy how life changed so much when i was little, i always played fought my friends and fighting was pretty much my life that time. As i grew older that urge to fight became more tamed and that fire faded
That's not correct. Women are being lied to. They don't own anything. This is a world of those who own the banks.
It’s not a woman’s world. Many are miserable.
Well, women existed before, but got destroyed, thanks to the "patriarchy".
And, i'm not blaming the "Patriarchy", I freaking loved it.
What I am saying is, even though men were in charge, there were men who gave women power in the past as well. And every time that happened, those women did disastrous things that you don't want to talk about.
Too much time alone syndrome. "Balance, young Jedi," said Yoda. 😂
I feel most alive when I'm watching Gilligan's Island
why what's that?
The Hero’s Journey goes deep
I love this guy telling me about primal masculinity as he flicks his luscious hair over his shoulder.
No hate lol he seems like he would be a cool dude to hang out with.
what a great title, and video. Makes me want to take some MMA classes. I'm also probably going to copy the title for a video
Put vitality and wildness FIRST-my take-away 😉
Well said! Thank you for speaking your truth!
Have you read “wild at heart” by John eldredge? You sound a lot like him the points you raise good points by both 🙏
I do agree with the essence of what you are saying but just a few points to add. I think its easier now to have sex then its ever been and if you want to fight you can join a local grappling, mma or boxing gym. Back in the day you didn't have dating apps where you can potentially meet people extremely easily. Back in the day you had to go out and actually make things happen for yourself, yes it was maybe more violent back then but not in a positive way. Combat sports has helped cannel aggression in a way that is more safe and productive. Also nothing is stopping anyone from leaving the front door to go out and talk to girls in real life, which is easier to do because less people do it and you stand out more. The truth is men are having less sex because they probably want the very attractive girls which takes effort to get regardless of what era you're living in as there are in higher demand. When i was growing up. I encountered a lot of violence and it was extremely destructive, a lot of the people i knew involved in it all are dead or in prison. that is a much worse fate than spending your evenings on tiktok. I guess one should distinguish the difference between violence and fighting.
I agree, sadly there is nothing to do offline.
Lost in the matrix. Get out neo.
Hi. I wore my hair your length in the early 1970s. I would have different connections with people , sexual ones. But i think thats unhealthy now. Im celibate now. I like dancing 🕺. I think to move my body is freeing.
Amen brother!
I would rjou that those two things are two different manifestations of the same thing:violence. Sex is violent in essence, it has to be. I'm not talking about beating up anyone I'm talking about the act of it. So basically yeah you learn a lot about someone fighting him. On you're on the god dam point about what makes us confident as a man.
Keep it up.
Integrated was the best word in this video
TY for posting
I feel you. I put my son in bjj for 4 years and it’s a bit mundane. Im just starting him in boxing at 16 years old. I feel like I waited too long. 😅
You hit the nail on the head when you said repressing is definitely making things worse. But you have shared in this platform before that you should become the most authentic version of yourself. This always means fixing your relationship with masculinity, which you have already taken your first steps towards, and you're doing in a way that is authentic to you, but not everyone is going to find authenticity in what you say. This part is your ego talking about it's very personal relationship with these activities and then projecting it into some sort of universal clause, but not everyone will find truth in it.
Masculinity means imposing, femeninity means flowing. These are not societal or even biological concepts, these are two different ways of seeing and interacting with the world. Masculinity is taking the straightest path, while femeninity is letting the path take you wherever it wants.
Sparring, or any physical activity, is a great way to let yourself be in the moment. You are imposing your body onto another, feeling it's force, reacting to it, it requires you to be present, to be intuitive, but the mere act of being able to hurt another human being physically is not really part of the equation.
Fighting when there is no simulated environment has no other real on your psyche other than anxiety, and in fact, when practicing a martial art, most will also train you to get rid of this anxiety as a way to become conscious of your physical actions before you start fighting. So, in the end, practicing the martial art, or in your case, sparring with friends, is the important bit. Not the actual violence part. I strongly believe any sport can do this without a problem, and a lot of people will find it a lot more genuine to themselves to do competitive swimming or to practice Rugby than to do play pretend fighting. I'm not putting it down, but that's how someone that is into another practice could see sparring.
And there's a million ways to go about this as well. Someone who skates is fighting a bunch of different forces, from their own balance, to gravity, to their own biological bias towards physical safety, it's a very complete sport. When done in groups, it becomes competitive, and it's a much more complex level of competitiveness because you can't out-skate someone. You have to know what people like to see as well as what you and your oponent can do to place yourself in a multi-leveled hierarchy that you can climb over time.
Owning the room in conversation is another one. If you're a curious person, and feel like yourself while learning, learning anything, skills, books, videos, talking to people, any way to impose your ideas is also masculine. So, for those people, teaching people, guiding people, being the leader of a dynamic, proposing a dynamic, healhty debates, being a boss, these are all ways you can impose your ideas and masculinity.
For me and for many others making money is the most direct way to feel masculine. Thriving in business meetings, thriving in the art of persuation, of strategy, of subtext, being good at re-framing somehting in different ways, these are pretty darn violent conversations if you know how to read the sub-text, so it is a good way to also practice attacking and defending yourself. In fact, these are a little bit more essential in today's world than straight up knowing how to fight (although i am biased, because admittedly, THESE (business related) are the activities I feel the most LIKE A MAN doing, and DAMN do they invigorate me. If I didn't do them I would actually be less genuine, and would repress my masculinity).
I prefer to work on my body directly, I take my workout very seriously, but I could live without it. I have practiced BJJ for a few years now with the intent to be able to use my body as a weapon, and while it has been a very fulfilling experience, I could honestly live without it. I've never really had to use it either, but i am stil lprepared for the day that i do.
Anyway, sorry for the long text, thak you for sharing your thoughts and experiences. Sending you love!
Thanks Kristian ! You are changing my life.
You won a new subscriber!! Salut from barcelona!
Are you aware of Warren Farrel’s work on this topic. Most recent book, The Boy Crisis. You’ve framed it sharply, clear.
Love it!!
Have you read “the moral equivalency of war” by William James? You would like it. AMERICAN bred philosopher
Can't relate on both, sex and violence😅...
Not all of us enjoy being in a world full of violent and lusty men! How wonderful that some bit of empathy and awareness has happened and there are more efforts at tolerance and communication in some parts of the world. I would suggest moving to where what you are missing is still alive and well. Please, lets not go backwards-- the idea is to evolve.
If a society lacks violent and lusty men then another society that does comes and takes them over or kills them. Story of history.
Why violence?! Tf u mean work ,gas, and adventure
Yes exactly this
I watch loads of great non woke old movies to get my high of sex and violence 😂👍
This video is better than all those hundreds of BS videos about Stoicism.
God does not love violance and agressors ,I was also like you still I am but God Karma punishs you
What do you mean sex ? WIth a condom ? I mean do you think that contraception is natural ? Even in ancient times if they did not want the kid they killed it.....only Elon musk can have sex without condom and even he should be weary ....please explain in detail, because sex is not a hobby....
Karezza sex, (tantra)
Watch Marnia robinson interviews for the science of sex, orgasm and pair-bonding.
More than one orgasm per week diminishes dopamine production etc causing partners to want to separate to mass progenate etc
@@ejRecording bottom fcking line.....sex is not a sport....people talking about sex dont know what the fck they are talking about.....
@@KwstasMakariou hey bro, I agree with you but did you hear anything I said? I'm talking about karezza, Tantric sex that is the optimal form of sex that you can have as much as you want just about, as long as you do it right and bring the energy up to the heart
I'm not talking about sport sex, talking about real lovemaking that's not addictive, depleting or destructive to the pair-bond, etc..
@@KwstasMakariouthe pornography industry made it a sport. Some celebrities like jack nickleson claim to have been with over 10k+ women.
What's the next video, why fascism is important for the people?
You should really look into criminality, mental diseases and treatment of elderly. Compare between Muslims and others, my friend is a revert and he married intentionally an old Muslim lol creed wise for that specific reason, for being in a society where even the outcome of Islam is observable and he’s very very very happy in Algeria
Stop trying to recruit our best and brightest to your primitive cult
Bruh why you’re forehead so big
big brain need big space, d'oah
His head and face seem perfectly proportional to me.
like as if he could do something about it
so much wisdom... same thing happened to me T_T
a teacher once taught us the eyes are half way up the head
People love sex
People love watching action movies so I get ur point 😅
But there should be a limit
Pleasure to listen, regards 🫠
cant do both of these if you have garbage genetics of failed to grow fully during puberty
Are we coocked ?