As a 55 year old single woman - most of my adult life, yes never went on dates!I feel like this episode doesn't fully represent someone of my age. I can't relate to a 27 year old, like someone said in the comments you should have had Lisa Harper on your panel. Perhaps do a part 2 with her and I will happily share it with my mature women singles group - formed cos the church forget us!!
I'm so grateful for each woman on this platform especially this segment. I've been struggling at times wirh being single im glad to finally know i wasn't wrong about being overlooked it hurts but. U will have to take myself seriously
Being lonly it hurts but God will turn it for Good he give us chance to Love him before we start Loving our future men so we will know how to lead our family life 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
What I think is not being addressed in many conversations on single(ness) is not that we are not whole. It is a season for some, a calling for others. Where we need help or what I think needs to be talked about is how God does the connecting, the season of single(ness) being fulfilling and at the same time preparing us for the assignment of marriage. How the mate is in His plan and on the path He has for us. I heard one preacher say, if you are following and fulfilling God's plan for your life, you would have to basically back slide on God to miss your mate. We need to be more intentional within the church walls and in the church at large on building opportunities and connections between single men and women to meet and connect. Too much focus on being "single," not enough teaching on being a wife.
I liked how they touched on being single and being married are BOTH gifts. A lot of times even church being single is looked at as being an ailment. I'm so glad I came across this as a single 36 yr old woman with no kids. God knows what he's doing 😉 i would like to see a platform about single men discussing being single at thos day and age as well
Thanks for mentioning divorces women who chose to be single for a variety of reasons. As someone in my 50’s I wish there was more of a focus on mature single women.
Say what you want to Mandisa But Honeey Bunches Don't Be Shocked if God just might Send You A Big Tall Good Looking Dark Skinned Fine Bald Headed Bad Boy Holy Ghost Filled White Man With A Gotee 🤣 Love Has One Color and That's RED💕 God Bless You Ms.We All Bleed The Same 🤣🙏🏼💕💕🙏
Havlah that part. It’s not about randomness. It’s about a partnership that glorifies God. The content, contend part is real. I am looking for the church glorifying the wonder of marriage because apart from the wedding day marriage appears to be a difficult drag. I think being single is amazing. For some of us Christian women who are 40/50 and still have yet to be married when we do want partnership it can be extremely hard. At this point in life we feel like we are grown it is time. Especially if we want kids haven’t had kids and we haven’t had awful relationships. We just want someone stable, who loves God. We work hard we have made space for a God fearing loving man. Where is he?!?! I know it’s about perfect timing. However at this stage of one’s life then when?🤷🏾♀️
I'm glad that Mandisa has spoken her truth about how she desires to be married and how sometimes she cries herself to sleep because of loneliness. That is what I go through as well, days are not the same and I know God's ways are higher than our ways but reality and flesh strikes sometimes where you question why isn't God blessing us with a man so we can have kids because time ain't on our side. Other day your spirit is uplifted and the faith is strong but it is not always like that. May God bless us with men who will LOVE HIM and love us as God commanded men to
I will probably miss talking and having fun with God , if I got married now,but I need someone to help me ,My man I don’t know if he is alive we never found each other and I’m in my Fifties,I don’t want to talk about it
The person who is not incomplete is the one that dose know who God is 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 i am complete since i have Jesus HALLELUJAH 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 """" 👉👉👍👍👍 i will just cheek on Jesus "" "🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Jesus and Paul these great men were single so 🤣🤷🏾♀️ The way they troll us "singles" for me its like I dont even pay attention or car anymore. The man dont have me. Im the favor factor
Having said We don't hug or kiss or get into the Jacuzzi we keep it Clean Now 🤨 Sorry Sister that sounds Fake and I'm wondering how long y'all gonna be able To keep it Clean as you call it Before that Young Man is Going to Want Intimacy Again and Start Looking Else Where?? 🤦
Sorry, but there comes a point where singleness is a curse. Let's not dress it up; it's the opposite of blessing and fruitfulness. We're not helping hurting people by telling them lies.
So eye opening ❤
As a 55 year old single woman - most of my adult life, yes never went on dates!I feel like this episode doesn't fully represent someone of my age. I can't relate to a 27 year old, like someone said in the comments you should have had Lisa Harper on your panel. Perhaps do a part 2 with her and I will happily share it with my mature women singles group - formed cos the church forget us!!
I'm so grateful for each woman on this platform especially this segment. I've been struggling at times wirh being single im glad to finally know i wasn't wrong about being overlooked it hurts but. U will have to take myself seriously
Thank you for this word
Being lonly it hurts but God will turn it for Good he give us chance to Love him before we start Loving our future men so we will know how to lead our family life 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I am whole!🙌🏽🙌🏽
21:33 I Am Whole🙌🏾🙌🏾
What I think is not being addressed in many conversations on single(ness) is not that we are not whole. It is a season for some, a calling for others. Where we need help or what I think needs to be talked about is how God does the connecting, the season of single(ness) being fulfilling and at the same time preparing us for the assignment of marriage. How the mate is in His plan and on the path He has for us. I heard one preacher say, if you are following and fulfilling God's plan for your life, you would have to basically back slide on God to miss your mate. We need to be more intentional within the church walls and in the church at large on building opportunities and connections between single men and women to meet and connect. Too much focus on being "single," not enough teaching on being a wife.
Im glad to have listened to this discussion
Amen thank God I am whole
Ladies ,this discussion is so healing 💕 and timely for me
Thank you so much for sharing your Heart 💓 out .God bless you All
I liked how they touched on being single and being married are BOTH gifts. A lot of times even church being single is looked at as being an ailment. I'm so glad I came across this as a single 36 yr old woman with no kids. God knows what he's doing 😉 i would like to see a platform about single men discussing being single at thos day and age as well
Thank you for fixing the sound problem 😊 I really appreciated this message.
Thank you Lasies!!!
' Iam Contend and Iam Contending '- Melinda
Thanks for mentioning divorces women who chose to be single for a variety of reasons. As someone in my 50’s I wish there was more of a focus on mature single women.
I would have appreciated to have the panel all single instead of married women discussing singlehood.
If the church really believed singleness is a gift, where are the high-profile single pastors/teachers/ministry leaders?
True. Hence, I love watching Lisa Harper.
Say what you want to Mandisa But Honeey Bunches Don't Be Shocked if God just might Send You A Big Tall Good Looking Dark Skinned Fine Bald Headed Bad Boy Holy Ghost Filled White Man With A Gotee 🤣 Love Has One Color and That's RED💕
God Bless You Ms.We All Bleed The Same 🤣🙏🏼💕💕🙏
😄 I love that saying "love has one color". You're right, sometimes I think the Lord laughs at our plans.
Thank you for addressing this topic, but could you speak to the mature widows. Our reality and life circumstances are much different.
Beautiful! Thank you, Ladies. Sister's in Christ Jesus. Hallelujah 🎶🎵! Amen. Praise the lord.
Havlah that part. It’s not about randomness. It’s about a partnership that glorifies God. The content, contend part is real. I am looking for the church glorifying the wonder of marriage because apart from the wedding day marriage appears to be a difficult drag. I think being single is amazing. For some of us Christian women who are 40/50 and still have yet to be married when we do want partnership it can be extremely hard. At this point in life we feel like we are grown it is time. Especially if we want kids haven’t had kids and we haven’t had awful relationships. We just want someone stable, who loves God. We work hard we have made space for a God fearing loving man. Where is he?!?! I know it’s about perfect timing. However at this stage of one’s life then when?🤷🏾♀️
That is my life too n am just trusting God, mine u d right man can come now just keep a joyful heart. I pray grace for us.
I'm glad that Mandisa has spoken her truth about how she desires to be married and how sometimes she cries herself to sleep because of loneliness. That is what I go through as well, days are not the same and I know God's ways are higher than our ways but reality and flesh strikes sometimes where you question why isn't God blessing us with a man so we can have kids because time ain't on our side. Other day your spirit is uplifted and the faith is strong but it is not always like that. May God bless us with men who will LOVE HIM and love us as God commanded men to
Amen ❤️❤️❤️😊🙏
I will probably miss talking and having fun with God , if I got married now,but I need someone to help me ,My man I don’t know if he is alive we never found each other and I’m in my Fifties,I don’t want to talk about it
The person who is not incomplete is the one that dose know who God is 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
i am complete since i have Jesus
HALLELUJAH 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
"""" 👉👉👍👍👍 i will just cheek on Jesus "" "🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Jesus and Paul these great men were single so 🤣🤷🏾♀️
The way they troll us "singles" for me its like I dont even pay attention or car anymore.
The man dont have me. Im the favor factor
I just can't! Don't ya love it when married women talk about singleness.
But single at one time...be open to Godly wisdom from different Godly sources.
Exactly, just doesn't make sense! So not relatable, the world has changed so much!!!
Having said We don't hug or kiss or get into the Jacuzzi we keep it Clean Now 🤨 Sorry Sister that sounds Fake and I'm wondering how long y'all gonna be able To keep it Clean as you call it
Before that Young Man is Going to Want Intimacy Again and Start
Looking Else Where?? 🤦
It was a joke
Sorry, but there comes a point where singleness is a curse. Let's not dress it up; it's the opposite of blessing and fruitfulness. We're not helping hurting people by telling them lies.
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