a very personal Q&A...*body confidence & my experience, losing friends, the future*
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- a very personal Q&A...*body confidence & my experience, losing friends, the future* getting personal on the internet about these topics can be kinda scary tbh but I felt a calling to make a video like this. I know how hard it can be to be a teenager or young woman/man and go through these things, so I hope this video helps in some way! I love u, you are valued, beautiful, and you deserve the love you give to others. Comment down below your advice or worries and let's chat!
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age: 19 (born in 2000)
height: I'm 5'8''
ethnicity: Filipino, Portuguese, Italian, Hawaiian + a lot more haha I'm very mixed!
where are you from? I was born & raised on O'ahu, Hawai'i
what do you use to edit? final cut pro x
thank you for supporting me & for watching my videos!
if you see this, comment "i see u" lol
hi :) I hope this video helps at least one of you. We’ve all got our fair share of experiences & I wanted to share mine. You’re amazing and beautiful, so don’t forget to tell yourself that because you deserve it. Thank you for watching this video it means a lot 🥺
Ur literally getting me through quarantine
Thank you I needed this♥️
❤️❤️❤️
Love you so much thank you for sharing this!
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about childhood friends.
Is it just me or does anyone else feel like ava is the ultimate best friend
:') this made me so happy to read
Not just you 😅
Totally
Martha Flores facts
Total truth🥺❤
you are a REAL influencer. other youtubers call themselves influencers but what are they influencing? living in LA? wearing certain clothes? you influence the important things in life and i really appreciate that. you are NEEDED ON THE INTERNET
that's all so true! Ava is one of the most down to earth and real people on these platforms
100% agree!!!!
Exactly!!! She is so genuine and the internet needs someone to mellow us all down!
julia sitz YES
this has so many likes wow
"Other people's beauty doesn't take away from your own."
THAT HIT ME SO HARD
Love that!!
OH MY GOD SAME
Ikr💕
“It’s not realistic for me to be like I want my body from when I was 15” girl that hit me like a truck! Yes GROWTH
I can't stop staring at her teeth...her smile is literally perfect.
"Best friend breakups can hurt more than relationship breakups" is the truest thing I have ever heard
yup
YES
Cleo A yes so true and for some reason my parentes does not get that...
i feel like ava is that one best friend that everyone wants
marcella m Fr
Anyone else feel like the era of LA is kinda ending? So many youtubers are moving to different places!
Spicy Idiot yes I totally agree!
yea theyre all moving to NYC now lol; NYC is so much cooler than LA imo
I agree and could not be happier. I think it's so annoying that living in LA is like some kind of mark of success. OTHER PLACES EXIST!
thank goodness!! as someone who was born and raised in LA, it is really frustrating seeing thousands of people move here, complain about the city (bc everyone sees it as toxic and fake even tho thats bc of the people who come here), then they bash on this place. tbh it gets a lil annoying
Damn GIRL you are wise beyond your years concerning self image and body confidence! It's so incredible that you're building such a beautiful mindset and inspiring so many others :')
you both inspire me so much, so thank you for what you do as well :))
🥺 I just saw this now. Thank you Elena that means so much from you!
Ava: this year I’m turning 20
Me that has been watching her since she was 16: WTF, wow time goes fast
SAME
That was me turning 20. This year ima be 21😆😆 i still feel like im 17😂
no one:
ava: is basically a big sister to everyone🥺🥺
awww :')
It's so true tho
@@avajules you're definitely a big sister to me ❤
she made me feel better about myself
Totally right 👍
I’d love to see a collab w’ ur sister where y’all talk about your childhood, personal growth, bond & separation from each other 🥺
Seleste R yessssss
Seleste R yes!!
yes agreed!
love
"someone else's beauty does not take away your own" 😭❤️
XD
Believe me when i say this. I literally cried while watching the category where body confidence and self-image were brought up. After watching this video, i went straight to my mom and hugged her, then told her that I am about to focus on a good change. I LOVE THIS, AVA! I LOVE YOU! ♥️ Let us all be patient with the actual process. We’re all amazing, let us bear that in our minds! 🌼✨
this made me smile so much :’) i love u, you got this
Ava Jules I LOVE YOU MOST! ♥️
i love love love this video so much. I literally almost started crying because so much of this hit so close to home for me
Oh I love your channel so much!!
its so refreshing to see someone who actually has the same struggles as me w body confidence and not just a girl being extremely confident without talking about past struggles ever
yes! i agree
ava is like the big sister everyone wishes they had
yesss!!
ava: if you're lonely, maybe facetime your crush...
me: hahaHA YOU THOUGHT I HAD HIS NUMBER
Oml! So true tho
okay. as someone who has struggled SO much with body confidence, poor eating habits to be smaller, and body dysmorphia, this video was incredible. i mean SO helpful. I LUV that ava was able to talk about these topics so freely to spread awareness on body positivity through sharing her own struggles. im so proud of you ava!!
ok lets be honest ava is the only thing keeping us all alive through quarantine
ILY
ily more! 🥺💕
YES GIRL
i have heard somebody say “hating your body doesn’t make the world a better place” 💗
WE LOVE YOU AVA! YOU’RE SUCH AN INSPIRATION AND WITH ALL THESE “WHAT I EAT IN A DAY/HOW TO LOSE WEIGHT” TIKTOKS RECENTLY, THIS TYPE OF POSITIVITY IS WHAT EVERY GIRL NEEDS!!! 💞👏🏼
SO GLAD YOU LIKED! :)
you are so wise & well-spoken. you are fr an inspiration to many!
You are so pretty! Ily ♡
Oh heyyyy Nicole!❤️
her talking about her body and confidence made me SOB. this quarantine has had such a toll on my mental health, and how i view myself. seeing all of these “quarantine glowups” and “chloe ting shred challenges” made me so fucking insecure, and hearing u talk about it made me feel so much better. omg i love u ava
love this so much. body image is something i’ve struggled with for so long. it’s a weird thing because people always feel the need to comment on others bodies and i think that’s something that’s messed up. we shouldn’t feel a need to comment! not our bodies! like u can tell someone they look amazing without a label such as “fat” or “skinny” just tell them they look amazing af! thank you for posting this and being vulnerable. love u so much, YOU are beautiful ❤️
thank you for sharing your story!! I completely agree. ilysm!
you’re so underrated i literally feel like every girl and boy* need to see videos like this and be influenced by such genuine amazing people like you !!!!
you are such an incredible role model. you’re exactly the type of person who when i grow up, i would want my own daughter to watch and look up to❤️ love you ava!
THIS COMMENT MADE ME TEAR UP I love u so much :')
Aww ikr she so great 😍
When Ava says: I’m not skinny
GIRL HER BODY IS GORGEOUS LIKE WHAT
She isn’t skinny tho. That‘s not even a bad thing.. nothing against you, but when someone says „I‘m not skinny“ and you say „Noo you‘re so pretty!“ that‘s kinda rude. I know, „sOcIeTy“ but it‘s really like that, society told everyone that you can’t be beautiful if you aren’t skinny.. that‘s just not the truth. I know you probably didn’t mean it like that, but still it really reflects today’s beauty standards. I hope you can understand me haha. My point is: she is beautiful af but not skinny, she‘s medium sized :)
Me i agree but at the same time she is skinny it’s just today society has made being skinny you have to be the tinest thing ever so like i believe she is medium sized in society today but like she is skinny
alicia madison hmm I don’t think there is a specific „skinny“ in society. Skinny is skinny, society didn’t change that but the thing it DID change is that it made us think that skinny = beautiful. Like Medium-sized isn’t skinny that‘s kinda something medical. If you are like „normal“ or overweight etc.
@@Me-vh2uq finally someone said it 🤗
You don’t have to be skinny to be gorgeous all bodies are beautiful as long as you are healthy
This is kind of a long message. Sorry, I just felt the need to say this 😅😅 But we've all had struggles with body confidence, and we all *still go through* struggles with it. Personally, I've struggled with acne for about 10 years and I'm not always very confident in my body (also a size M and wear size 8-10 in jeans). It's not easy to feel confident nowadays-- especially since literally no matter what we do, people will drag us down for it. BUT-- you shouldn't let other people affect you. I know how that sounds, but seriously. Everyone has their own issues and insecurities, and those people AREN'T YOU. They have no place and no right to judge you, so take their negativity with a grain of salt. YOU decide how other people's actions and words affect you. *You are you, and that is the most beautiful thing about you, so be proud of the person you were made to be.*
On the flip side of things, I, like many others, would compare myself to everyone else and think or say rude things about them, probably to somehow feel better about myself, but one day I got tired of doing that. For every negative thing I thought about someone (or myself) I replaced it with at least 2 kind things. Instead of "wow, her hair looks bad," I'd think "wow, her eyes are so pretty!" "her makeup looks amazing!" "that outfit fits her so well!" "she seems like such a kind and inspiring person," etc etc. Getting myself out of that negative mindset was so beneficial and life-changing. It started me on the path of truly loving and accepting myself, and I'm in a much better, healthier state now.
That is amazing to read I really needed it thanks 🌷
Ava talking about body image is the best thing for me because I'm just a teen, and I have a lots of insecurities; nose, tummy, teeth... And I know that a lots of people struggle with that, but for anybody strugglining, *watch Ava* because she makes me feel better and also teaches me how to be productive & have healthy habits! I love you Ava!!❤❤❤
P.S.
Ava, you're not fat, you're not skinny, you're not even perfect because nobody is perfect. You are just you. You are your own. And, it's your life that you gotta make the happiest because, everybody reading this: YOU. YOU ARE YOUR OWN PERSON. YOU WILL NEVER BE ANYBODY ELSE. it may be sad, but later you will be glad that you read this. Have a nice day, night & beautiful & blessed life!!
_i somehow got some inspiration haha, i think its cuz of Ava❤_
YES!!! Ava is such an inspiring person and she has helped me learn a lot! I loveee her
i love u SO much. this comment made me smile a lot
@@avajules I love you too!!!💞
k a t a r i n a this is such a cute comment!🥺❤️ it‘s so nice to hear people talk about their insecurities because it shows me that it’s normal:) so thanks for that!
@@leoforlifeee1958 💜💜
Ok but she’s so gorgeous like how
Who else would LOVE to be friends with Ava?! She literally seems like such a good friend!!! ♥️
ok here’s my issue, i started crying when i looked in the mirror today because i hate the way my face looks rn, i have acne, dark circles, and i don’t have a very defined jawline and i literally felt so bad i started crying. i was putting makeup on so i didn’t have to see all the little imperfections on my face and when i finished, my boyfriend asked me if i was ok and i started hyperventilating and balling my eyes out. i recently cut my hair and i’ve never had short hair before, like a mini afro, and i feel so insecure and it sucks. this video made me tear up because it made me realize that i’m not the only one with insecurities. it just feels like i’m alone rn because i can’t go and hang out with people. i will gain confidence, but it’s just hard.
You are perfect and just remember that each day will get better when you work on it! 🌻🦋
this is literally exactly what i needed to hear, especially the body image stuff. i have struggled for so long with finding clothes or swimsuits that i feel confident in and just end up discouraged. i am constantly needing to remind myself that GOD made me like this and i should be proud of who i am. THANKYOU FOR SHARING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! so encouraging to hear:))))
She is someone that I feel like I would meet and just cry from her positivity and how sweet she is
I felt like I was acc talking to her. She’s the ultimate best friendddd🥺❤️
:') this made me happy!!!
I love how you're being honest about everything and not pretending to be perfect. I feel so inspired and motivated after watching your videos and I wish I came across your channel sooner! I don't know how I'd be staying motivated during quarantine without your vlogs. Thank you and I love you so much💕✌🏼
:') I'm so glad this helped
Agreed! Ava is so genuine and sweet!
please make more videos like this. it is so beautiful & inspiring to hear your words. ilysm ava, you're genuinely such a good person.
rewatching dis bc I love this vid u r awesome 😎✨
ILY SO MUCH
“Someone elses beauty does not take away from your own” 😩❤️
no one:
ava: is constantly posting content for us💞💞
heheheheh it has to be done!
i’m so happy she posted this and feels comfortable sharing it with all her fans
i want to say that muscle weights more than fat, so the more muscle u get, the more you weigh, so the. humber means absolutely nothin* at all
"comparison is the theif of joyness" wow i love that and its so true
be gentle with yourselves guys! especially during this time when it’s easy to get caught up in ‘perfection’. remember to let yourself grow & change, bc there is beauty in each stage of what you go through (internal/external). dont think you have to look like someone else to be beautiful. you are already. your body is yours, no one can take it away from you, so love it & nourish it well. having a body like someone else will not guarantee happiness. your body works perfectly for you. stay strong people!💜
This comment just made me cry. Thank you so much! Take care! :)
lowkey feel like this was a sign because i’ve been stressing a lot over the silliest things as well. thanks for being you ava. i love you
“please don’t fall” omg wait ,our girl can sing
watching your videos really calms me down idk why
Ava is like the person in the friend group that’s like “the good advice friend” that’s a good thing ; )
You are someone that every girl should have in their life. You are just so positive while being realistic at the same time. I love that you don't put unrealistic standards on yourself. 💕
I was on the middle of a zoom and as soon as I got the notification I rushed to this video Ava is the only thing keeping me alive through quarantine 💗
HEHE don't forget to go back after hahah
Ava Jules lol ofc 🤣
okay im in the middle of a zoom n I can’t relate more LMAO
I'm currently in eating disorder recovery, and it's just so amazing seeing someone I've followed for years talk so openly about body confidence and being insecure.
Remember you are perfect no matter what you or others think and all the best wishes for you to recover healthily!
Me too!
thanks for making this video ava🦋 my confidence is soo low at the moment and i‘m comparing myself to a lot of people. I just feel so ugly and uncomfortable in my own skin some days. But the sentence „another persons beauty doesn’t take away yours“ was so helpful❤️❤️ lots of love and strength to anyone out there feeling alone and like you’re not enough some times
Wow you have no idea how much this not only helped me, but will help so many other girls out there. I am also not skinny, I’m a tall girl and I know that I will never be “small” or weigh under a certain amount. Body image is a hard thing to deal with and hearing another girl that I can relate to helps me so much. Thank you so much and btw your body is amazing and you’re so pretty ❤️💕
This video makes me feel like Ava is giving me a hug of reassurance
I am! hehe :) just virtually
heheh right back at you
I’ve been really, really struggling with the fear of getting older recently. I feel like it’s a stupid thing to cry about, but I still do sometimes. My 19th birthday is in June and I’m so sad that it is my last year as a teen... your answer to the question was helpful, though. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!😊
Abbie Peyton wow i was crying about this yesterday! being forced to not go out and live your life has been such a struggle. i just feel like there’s so much i should be doing since i’m this young, but i can’t stop focusing on how much time i’m losing because of quarantine.
you are such an inspiration and i feel like this talk about body positivity is especially important now that everyone is at home and people are constantly posting pictures and videos about their perfect meals/workouts/bodies.
i think regarding body image, what changed my mindset the most was imagining if my body was my best friend’s. this puts in my mind the things that i would compliment her about and how i would tell her she’s beautiful. by doing that you really realize how all the little things about yourself that you criticize do not matter at all
You are AMAZING!! When Ava said "It's trendy to be self deprecating," I felt that. I always have to stop myself from just jokingly insulting myself, because I start to believe what I'm saying after a while. Thank you for all the things you teach girls & everyone who watches your channel. You have honestly changed so many of my outlooks on life
ava : I’m doing fine with youtube
me : you’re KILLING it girl💗
:') love u wow
Ava Jules thanks for replying💗
Ava ur literally my Internet best friend without even knowing me I stg u give the most honest answers n best advice 💛 thx for being so real
we do be besties though
Ava Jules Oop we do b
Honestly Ava is so inspiring and I love her energy
Preach sis! Everyone has rolls. I'm super slim and EVEN I have rolls. I've been the same size for years. I'm turning 21 in a few days and people still think I'm 16. And it gets annoying after the first 25 "how old are you's". Don't even listen to the haters Ava. I envy you sis cause clothes fit you so well, and you're super pretty just the way you are 😊. Over the years, I've also learnt to accept my body for what it is. Beautiful just the way I am.
i love how she is always so positive and amazing on her channel and she always wants to spread good vibes! i genuinely love her so much!!🥺🥺🥰🥰
you’re so inspiring and motivating we seriously need more people and influencers like you !!!! you’re so genuine and beautiful inside and out 🤍🤍🤍
Ava is literally the most pure, honest, sweet girl ever!!! I love her so much 💗
I used to overthink the way I come across so much. I’d compare my Instagram profile pictures to other‘s to see if it was „okay“ or if it was weird. I would overthink what I was saying in big group chats with people I don’t know that well and change the way I talk depending on who I was talking to. And then I realised that all those confident, outgoing people I admire so much just own their profile pictures. They own the way they talk. Like „this is me, deal with it“. And that’s what I’ve been telling myself whenever those thoughts come up. Whenever I start overthinking what other people think of me. Just own it.
amen ava this made me sobb sm. this is just so insperational and so relatable
I'm 15 years old right now and Ava, you're literally my role model. I used to struggle with my body so much (and still do!) and try out different diets and workouts that just never really did anything for me. So, I gave up and started becoming really unhealthy because I felt like I didn't even matter. Lately, you've inspired me to get up and workout to be healthy, not to be skinny. We have the same body type and I look at you glowing with confidence and self-love, thinking that I wanna be like you one day. Don't listen to any of those harsh comments because you're beautiful inside-out! I can't even tell you how many young girls you inspire to love themselves. I LUV you soooooo much and I hope you get all the happiness that you've put out into the world (which is a lot) back. Also don't be shy keep posting the vlogs cuz we love them :)
Love the fact that Ava feels comfortable to put this stuff on the internet! U really are an amazing role model!! Ilysm! ❤️
I literally start crying when Eva questions herself that she looks bad the whole time when Conor took her photos NOOO 😭
Sim Korching Ava*
her name is ava
Omg I didn’t realized I typed her name wrong. Ava ****
When u said you worry so much about little things I think that is so relatable.
girl incase nobody’s told you recently, i’m proud of you!! shedding light on these things is so important. THANK YOU for sharing your stories and your viewpoint on this. i don’t hear many female influencers talk so openly about body image and it’s nice to know that i’m not the only one who thinks these things about myself sometimes 💞
"someone else's beauty doesn't take away from your beauty" this has made me be so much kinder to myself after hearing that !! legit going to live by this now. xoxoxoxoxxo
literally the most kind hearted and real TH-cam I know 🥺
Right!?!🥺
ava is so beautiful i'm like how-?
she always looks on the positive side of everything 😭😭 teach me
"Everything always falls into place the way it needs to". I really needed to hear this, thanks Ava ❤
love u :)
I love the way your talk is so pure and realistic 💓
ahhh ava thank you for always being so genuine 🥺🤧🤧
it’s so awesome seeing someone talk about this! i really appreciate ava for opening up about this situation and being such a positive influence
I literally love how true Ava is it’s her fans
I felt this on a whole different level. I’m a senior in high school and starting college soon so I felt this and it hit and it was weird but relieving I love you🥺
not knowing what's ahead of you and thinking about all possible outcomes is SOOO scaryy i relate so much
thank you ava for sharing and talking ab body image and self confidence. i’ve been needing some reminders in my life. you’re such a real and beautiful woman. thanks again and i LUV you ava 🥺💛
I have been struggling a lot with my self confidence these days. I have been working out just to say that as I don’t have a pretty face, I could try to change my body and have the « perfect body » of those girls you see on Instagram. I have been counting my daily calories just not to be « fat ». I have also been complimenting people a lot just to put myself down. I feel like I have everything in my life to be happy but my non existent self confidence just ruins it all. I hope this video will help into having a different mind set in terms of my image. Thank you Ava ❤️ and sorry for my English
girl!!! do not workout just for the sake of it! please realize that the only reason you should be moving your body is to keep it healthy and energized! do not force urself to do anything, if you don't enjoy working out in the first place, doing it because you hAvE tO will only make you hate it even more! + it can be very dangerous for ur muscles and joints. I know it's sooo much easier said than done and I also know that words from a stranger on the Internet are not going to make any significant change in your life... but girl, been there, done that. I obviously have no clue what you're going through, it's your own journey, but I've been down a very similar road. try to sit on you bed comfortably and relax. you don't have to workout if that's not what makes you happy. maybe try some gentle stretching to calm your body and mind? you don't have to do splits or any fancy yoga positions, just move a little, get to know your body! counting calories? please! girl!!!! do not focus on calories, it is the easiest way to go crazy! just make sure you stay hydrated at all times (water, different teas, you name it!), make sure to have some fruit throughout the day and maybe minimize some deep fried foods. and you're good!!! really. it takes time and plenty of effort to change ur mindset, but YOU ARE capable of this change, just try! ask yourself deep down, honestly, if it was not for social media and """beauty standards""", would you prefer to have a pretty, exhausted body that is never "enough", or a normal, healthy body, one of the kind, that yes, you can work on, gradually get stronger or more flexible, but with which you are not punishing for being exactly what it's supposed to be? sorry for making it so long, I just really want you to consider changing ur mindset, one baby step at the time. start by getting up right now and taking a sip of water. look out the window and smile, even if you'll have to force it. fake it till you make it ;) you're amazing!!!
oh my do not work out for the sake of working out. I'm sure you are such a beautiful person inside and out, and it's visible through the way you express yourself. Work out because it makes you feel good healthy but don't work out for the sake of working out. Try to find things about yourself that you enjoy, and since you're complimenting others you should try to compliment yourself every now and then! You're a lot harsher with yourself than with other people and that's perfectly normal. I know it's hard but I also know you'll get there. I believe in you!
Zuzanna Broda okay can we please appreciate how much time you took just to write this comment and help another person🥺🥺 that‘s so nice & pure🦋
Tess Gauderlot hey! I’ve been struggling a lot with my confidence too, especially in these quarantine times:/ hope you can grow and leave those insecurities behind. you‘re so brave for sharing your insecurities with the world❤️ lots of love
Tess Gauderlot never feel you have to change for anyone. Do what makes you happy. If working out makes you happy do that. I understand sometimes watching someone else video can be intimidating. I just recently started my channel With quick and effective workouts!!! A great community!
Thank you so much for this video, Ava! I turned 20 in January and was also experiencing this fear of getting sooo old all of a sudden haha, glad I'm not alone with that! Do not take this the wrong way when I say how preciously normal you are. I really adore this about you. And I'm not even delving into your personality which is like ummm literal F I R E, but just the outside... Your body is such an average shape and size and it is amazing!!! Can't even think of how many times I've been hurting so much just because I am a size M, not an XS ever since I was like 12... I am a 100% cool with my body now and I'm all for health and improving as long as it is for good reasons, not just to squeeze into jeans that are clearly not made for me haha I am super thankful for you and hope some 13 year olds out there who are just starting to experience any physical changes and may feel lost and insecure will hear you out and learn something beneficial! Sorry for writing a literal essay in comments section XD Keep glowing, be strong and please NEVER doubt your beauty (ik I sound cheesy rn but for real girl) because you are totally gorgeous, fresh like a chilly morning at the seaside and so so so confident!!! you are a goddess, always remember that okay I need to stop talking bye love you
i love you ava. thank you for this 💘. didn’t realize how much i needed to hear this. PLEASE DON’T EVER CHANGE. you’re absolutely beautiful inside and out 🧡💜💙
Such a positive youtuber :) it helps so much to hear others go through the same thing and to hear how you push through it
Ava is literally so nice and speaks so much truth. She also knows and points out things that are VERY important for us to know. We are all human beings and there’s nothing wrong with having insecurities but don’t let them take over your life and don’t let them define you. Also if you’re feeling bad about the way you look because you feel that no one will ever want to be with you just remember there are about 7.8 BILLION people in the world and if even 1% likes that’s 7.8 MILLION choices like sis you’re BEAUTIFUL. Society puts these thoughts into our head that “skinny is pretty”, “straighten your hair”, “workout you look fat” like wth is wrong with you why do you feel the need to put people down. They do this to feel better about themselves and it’s REALLY sad and upsetting. Thanks luvs muah😘
I really liked it when you spoke about body image cause mine is killing me and after hearing this I feel so good 🌻🌻
You are a role model every girl should look up to. You’re so honest and humble. You’re such a pure soul filled with nothing but love and care like wow we need more people like you. ❤️
you can't even realize how thankful I am for this video right now, I'm currently struggling with body image and eating, and today was quite a bad day but, right now I feel positive again and I know that there's another day tomorrow.
thank u
This video is what I needed to hear.🥺🙏🏽🧿
kept tearing up during this video - it was just so nice to have a youtube not tell me how much they’re working out or show me how skinny they are but be honest and real and tell me that me & my body are valid - thank you so much!
I don’t know why but I wanted to share this just to feel like I’m not alone or maybe relate to someone idk ok here goes my rant:
I met my best friend when we were like 2 years old we went to the same day care and our moms got really close and became good friends, I remember we would do everything together however sometimes she would exclude me from certain activities or even from certain friend groups. However as we got older we got closer while still making new friends with other people but our friendship was just special because we shared so many important moments together. However when we started middle school I think that’s kind of the stage where everyone starts finding their friend group and we kind of parted ways because she liked to hang out with more of the popular girls ( which was totally ok with me honestly I was happy for her and all of her friends are super nice but I just don’t identify with them) and I hanged out with the more low key kind of people at my school. I was honestly so hurt when I started seeing how we weren’t hanging out together I tried forcing our friendship together I would try to invite her to my house as much as possible and try to do the same after school activities as her but it just wasn’t working. It’s been like 4 years and I think this year it’s the most separate we have been which is kind of sad but I found a group of friends that is freakin amazing and they accept me completo for who I am I love it because there is no drama and no one is toxic, we all help each other and support each other. I guess what I am trying to say ( I’d anyone even reads this lol) is that sometimes it’s ok to let friendships go that’s just how life works people come into your life and leave and it’s ok maybe in the future we will come closer again or maybe we will separate even more I don’t know all I know it’s that I am happy with the friends I have now and that’s all that matters. Ok wow that was a lot I’m so sorry ok
something similar happened like this to me last year! I went abroad on holiday 2 years ago and everything, but overtime our friendship grew apart and i am still friends with them, but i have new amazing friends who i have more in common with. people grow apart and everything happens for a reason- and in hindsight most of the time you realise it was for the best x
The only best friend I need on this lockdown, and the only person i can stick and watch a whole Q&A from
I love how genuine her personality is ...this video made my day
I always worry about the future too! Something about not knowing what's gonna happen can be so scary & uncomfortable. I just keep telling myself that it's a part of life & everyone goes through this.
the way i started crying halfway through and didn’t stop until the end. thank you for this video, i’ve been struggling with my confidence for the longest time and during quarantine it got so much worse. i adore your self esteem. i LUV you ava ❥