First Time Meeting My Korean Mother-In-Law After 11 Years Of Disapproval | At The Hospital 2023
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 ต.ค. 2024
- Is this really happening??
If you've been following along our story from the very beginning, this might be the miracle that we've all been waiting for.
To our TH-cam family and supportive LoveWithstanders, this video is for you...
![Neverending feud between Indian mother-in-law and Korean daughter-in-law [Part 2] | K-DOC](/img/n.gif)
Justin's family is so incredibly lucky to have such a sweet, caring and loving daughter in law/sis in law. I'm so happy that this family is starting to come together and welcome you.
True so so true.
This is it. She’s so beautiful inside and out. I’m so so happy for them all
Exactly...they are very lucky to have her in the family.
Imagine they’re missing out. Terrible shame.
Yes
Mom doesn’t disapprove because you aren’t Korean, but more likely because you are part black. I am 25% black (father’s side) and my mother is Korean. Growing up in Korea, they called me Gahm-doong-ee (n-word in Korean) all the time. If you were white, she wouldn’t treat you with so much vile. It really makes me sick, watching you all these years and you yearning for her acceptance, being shunned and refused even in their garage way back when, etc. Your heart is beautiful, your children are beautiful, your love story is beautiful. Your little family is deserving of all the love in the world. ❤
So sad you had to go through that. Something tells me Koreas love of whiteness and anti-blackness comes from the Christian religion that most of the nation was indoctrinated into by the American government during and after the Korean War.
It’s an odd coincidence that anywhere on this earth that is not majority white, but is majority Christian has the same type of bigotry and white favoritism.
that is not true. I am white and my korean MIL calls me a prostitute and showed up to my wedding with an extra bride. During our first thanksgiving as a married couple, my MIL tried to talk my husband into seeing another woman on the side who is korean. she also told me Im lucky because i get to keep their name. as a result, i have not seen nor talk to her for 5 years. so being white wouldnt improve your situation
@@MultiDarkAngel91 well being white is totally enough for some Korean families, just not yours unfortunately.
@@cookie22100 WOW! I live in the 3rd highest korean community in usa. all of the stores are in hangul. I can speak and read Korean. The hair salon, grocery stores and book stores would charge me more than their Korean counterparts. At a Korean wedding, most of the female koresn guests gave me the silent treatment. The mother of the groom wanted me kicked out for being white and called me a slut. She was very embarressed when I spoke Korean to her. from my personal experince, Korean women hate outsiders
@@MultiDarkAngel91not all some people unfortunately like many places in the world are just ignorant and sometimes you just need to stay away from people like that
Please refrain from trusting his sister with your children at this time. Regardless of how smiley she is in front of you, she has allegedly told Justin that she would harm your kids. No matter how sweet she may seem, she is still supposedly mentally unstable. Be extremely vigilant and continue to protect your babies.
I feel bad for these kind souls because they want so badly to have a connection with evil people just because of blood ties. I speak from experience. I cut my evil uncle off years ago because I knew he would never change. I wish the best for this family.
Still be cautious around them and please be with your kids when they around your in laws. Happy for the change but still be careful
She might not listen to your words of caution. Self-hatred and inferiority complexes in many Black people will cause them to believe what non-Black people tell them as if they are the Gospel. Frankly, if one of my relative despised a person, I would never take her to my sick relative's hospital bed.
@@sandraatkins2539imagine insinuating she has an inferiority complex. You're not okay upstairs, you are only getting on part of what is happening, you have no idea what they discuss bts.
The relationship you have with these people is a parasocial one, idk where you got it into your head that you were in any way educated enough to assume and I sinuate what you have.
Yeap, and I hope she doesn't expect her to take care of the mother. She has three children to take care of so it's not happening.
Stopped watching this channel years ago, because it was too sad. The amount of abuse, and stress you had to undergo was off the roof. Glad to see that you are parents now.
You deserve the best in life for being so resilient and loving for all these years.
Same. I have popped on and out over the years but those first couple of years was really rough I felt bad for her 😢
Yes, I had to stop watching as well, that was when the garage thing happened. And to be sure it is clearly understood by black people that this isn't prejudice, because she's not Korean, this is anti blackness because she's got blackness in her ethnicity.
@@lynnelliott9038
What garage thing?
@@SoWhat59 It was one of the videos where they tried to visit with Justin's mom. Years ago. I believe she was newly pregnant with their first child if I recall correctly.
@@lynnelliott9038what happened
It's amazing how you are so patient with your husband's racist family. I'd never have half your patience.I'm glad your kids have great parents.
Just remember, her father didn’t approve either!
@@stacyrich113was it cause of race or religion?
@@happyface3216her father's disapproval had nothing to do with race but religion. Because she didn't marry a Muslim man.
I think there is a big difference about wanting your child to marry someone with a shared faith than because of race. Unlike this wonderful lady, I could NEVER trust a relationship with anyone who has that viewpoint. You would never get an audience with me or my children.
She's good! She's been trying to connect with her in-laws for years with no luck. Their racist behinds would never get the opportunity to meet their grandkids nor would I ever stoop so low as to beg for their acceptance.
Black folk always have to be the bigger people in these situations. I don’t think I could never do what you did. God bless you.
NEVER!!! I still remember how the mother humiliated her in the garage. SMH
Nope me neither
Exxxxactly! I don't understand why we feel like we have to be. It's sickening.
I’m not black I’m Latina Hispanic but I feel the same way if someone doesn’t accept me because my skin is a few shades darker and still has that ignorant mentality well I feel sorry for you cuz it’s your loss. This young lady is a great compassionate person with all this she still has shown this family that she’s the better person. Unfortunately it saddens me that still in this day and age people can’t look at us all as being human beings we come in all shades and sizes.
@@musicjunkieaddict6600 latina Hispanic is not a race but carry on
Yes, I understand your happy, but; be careful and don’t get used. People do not change overnight. Don’t put your whole heart out there to get it crushed.
My thoughts exactly. I would be very cautious to make sure that I was not being used.
May God sustain her 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
You are the kindest and most forgiving and positive person to still care so much about your in-laws who haven't been that nice to you. God Bless you, Sarah, and Justin and your beautiful babies! I hope your in-laws will eventually be kinder to you.
Havent been that nice? Thats putting it mildly. They have been downright horrid to her.
Honestly, I couldn't be so forgiving. They were so hateful and racist.
Facts. Their treatment of her was absolutely disgusting.@@book_worm22
That is exactly what they are racist. @@Cloudfive55
@@Cloudfive55she’s SUCH an angel because it’d be hard to forgive that for me too :(
Maybe seeing Jayden gave your mother-in-law a will to fight and be around for them. Hopefully, she will have a speedy recovery and you guys will begin to bond as a family.
My thoughts exactly. It seems the baby gave her incentive to get better or talk, and eat. Her progress was phenomenal.
Yep and it also gave her a really easy way out to start new
yay first of all i just want to say, baby steps with justin's family work! and yes i agree Jayden is the miracle for this to happen! Jayden is the reason that she is fighting this stroke and for sure she will ask for more visits with all her grandkids! happy for all of you! ❤
Hopefully she and the sister will apologize (and maybe even get therapy to work through their prejudice) at some point for treating Sarah and her children so poorly for years.
soon as she gets better she will be back to her old ways. They never change
you are such an amazing person Sarah. you have truly shown me how to be forgiving, kind and graceful. I pray that you and your family will be blessed for many many years to come.
Jayden gave her strength. Kids can totally turn a situation around. I can only believe that the mom is realizing how many years she's wasted without being in those kids life. Things are going to be different now.
I hope so. This family deserves the best of everything life has to.offer. 👍💕💕🌻
Beautifully stated 👏 👌 ❤️
Sis, you are full of grace. To have that level compassion has for her mother in law who has treated you like trash or worse, non existent. I don’t know if I could have endured. You set a great example of how each day is a new start and how we can make conscious choices to do good or not lower ourselves to the way others treat us. Your joy at this wee crack is overwhelming and melts my heart.
@@pitoufo 9
I was thinking this too.
You are nicer and more forgiving than they deserve.
I totally agree
Which says a lot about her character
It just breaks my heart that you were treated so bad for so long and how happy you are with the bare minimum. You’re an amazing person and you deserve so much more! They really missed out for YEARS on such a beautiful person you are.
I agree!! Sorry, but they (in-laws) don’t deserve it.
I'm not married, but sometimes it takes something like this to bring a family closer.
I truly feel they’ll regret that
Agreed, it makes me SO sad that she accepts the bare minimum as a silver lining. She deserves SO much better than this.
@@kira8808 100%
My 90 year old Mom always tells me, be careful how you treat people. You never, never know who you will end up needing in times like these.You have handled his family with nothing but respect, even through their cold treatment of you. I’m so happy for this moment for you.
I was taught the same. If you do not have to burn bridges then don’t.
I feel bad for her because she loves a guy who has an awful family. It is always best to try to be a bit choosier with who you decide to marry as the person and/or family can break you.
Has her husband ever tried speaking to the family?
OMG Sarah!!!! I’m literally in shock!!!! I’ve been following your journey since the beginning, and I never thought this day would come! And I can’t believe how nice the sister was… She’s the one I expected to be the hardest on you. This is great Sarah.. very good news and I celebrate with you🎉💜
It's truly sad that the woman had to be half-de@d in order to show you a modicum of human decency. 😢
Your patience and compassion are admirable. Your husband and children are lucky to have you.
Usually they are on their death bed before they realize that all human beings bleed red.
For some people, it does have to take that. Unfortunately, this happens more often than you know.
You are the epitome of patience and grace. There is no way I’d be able to do what you are doing for anyone who has treated you the way they have. I am so happy for you and your family! I hope and pray you all continue to grow positively ❤
Completely agree. Sarah’s grace is astounding.
I'm happy for you Sara. You're a good person and your humility, understanding and patience is paying off. Justin's mother and sister will realize that her son and her brother is fortunate to have a wife like you. I wish your mother-in-law a speedy recovery. God bless ❤
I'm so happy for you Sara.Justin must be ecstatic .And you being a nurse will be a great help.💕🇨🇦💕
Im so happy for Justin, I know his days are just so much happier now that his mom and sister are involved with you and his son.
Make sure your husband will stand by you and lets his mum know in no uncertain terms that any disrespect Or racist behaviour towards your children is not going to be tolerated.
The Aunt who raised me did not approve of my choice in life partner because of his nationality. I left home at 16. At the age of 28 I made the decision ON MY TERMS to offer her the opportunity to form a relationship with my young children (2 & 3 years old at the time).
My first duty as a parent is to protect them from abuse.
I informed her that if I felt she was demonstrating any behaviour toward them that was derogatory or negative then she would never see any of us again.
It was in the third visit that I overheard her making an off Color comment to my cousin about my son growing up to be a wife basher ( because italians can’t control their emotions and anger apparently?).
I promptly informed her that she had been warned and that we were leaving.
She looked shocked. She was arrogant enough to believe I would let it slide.
My kids didn’t need to grow up feeling there was something wrong with them and they were not worthy of respect. The world is a tough enough place without your grandparents treating you with disrespect.
Good for you!!!!❤
THIS ^ no one should ever be treated as less than
Wow. It's amazing to me how people can attribute entire behaviors and personality traits to a skin color/nationality... without ever speaking to the person. 👏 good job leaving and protecting your impressionable children from that nonsense
Good for you❤
@@RainingPouringSnoring Black Children definitely need to be protected from racist nonsense that will affect their self esteem even if from their own family members. Black Ancestry is not a crime or a disease and these relatives who are also minorities have absolutely nothing to feel themselves superior about.
The progress your Mother-in-law is making is very hopeful. She can eat, talk, and walk and is feisty enough to improve rapidly. I'm so happy for you and the progress you made with the family and the ice has been broken. Your children are all so cute and sweet, it will bring joy to the family to see them and give them a happiness they've never had before.
I would never tell them about this channel. I think it would undermine things
They know l feel
@@pearltoomer6392I feel like if they did know they'd definitely say something to Justin with how blunt they are
I would definitely NOT vent to the sister!
Oh Sarah, your happiness is just emanating! My cheeks hurt from smiling so big this entire vlog with you. You're such a good person. You are an inspiration to me. You'd have every right to be bitter and angry for being judged just for the color of your skin by them, yet you're graceful, forgiving and loving. You're amazing. ❤ I'm so happy for you guys. You're teaching a huge lesson to them. We are all each other has in this crazy world, it doesn't matter what color we are.
🫶🫵 my friend!
Love Sara 😘
I know right !!! she's amazing she have a good heart
@@sharonb4339 100%❤️
Sarah youre smile is amazing when talking about the love your mother in law shown her grandson. I always remember the sadness in your eyes when you was first talking about his parents now to see your eyes actually smiling when talking about your mother in law is amazing xx
As a white mother of 3 children their father being black I am proud of my children and if either side of our families didn't like we were mixed couple we would walk on. Didn't need anyone's approval.
You are White, so you probably do not suffer from an inferiority complex. As is typical, this Black woman is basing her self-esteem on her acceptance by those non-Black people. She is the type who will accept degradation and humiliation just to be in their company. Respectfully and a word of caution, please make sure that your non-White children do not have this sense of self-loathing, even if others are not aware of it. This woman is really sad, and the old lady is afraid of facing God because she is closer to death than not and fear she will be reprimanded for her hatred.
Praying for your mother- in-law's full recovery. I see your amazement and happiness that they are accepting you after all these years, I get it, but why did it take so long and a medical emergency for it to happen. You are amazing not to harbor resentment as some would. Blessings to you all and prayers for family healing, physically and mentally.
I think it has more to do with the fact that they have a son now.
@@Ambi1021 Bingo!
What a sweet, patient, and caring heart you have Sarah. I can’t imagine the peace Justin must feel having his hopes come true. God bless, and continue to heal you guys family. Your example strengthens others Sarah.
I am happy for you, Sarah.
I hope they continue to treat you this gracefully when things return to normal.
Sarah you are an absolute angel! If not for you and Justins resilience and determination to make his family see your love, i dont think it would ever have happened. I know one day Justin's parents will be thankful for it. You're kids will be thankful for all the hard work you guys put into it too.
Tred softly and cautiously. Keep your antennas up and alert Justin and Sarah. Blessings to you both and the babies. Continuous prayers ascending. Jayden is her reason for fighting to live. ❤❤❤❤
True advice given, and hope taken.
I agree just watch for the future and they may change back to their old ways.
I am quite amazed how it took a major illness to unite the family together. Silverlining 💗
Are they united? Did the mother ever acknowledge Sara or only happy to see her grandson😏
@@traceejohnson290I don't think so.
@@traceejohnson290and eat her food😮
nobody said anything about "united".
From the latest episode, it sure sounds like they are all being welcomed into the home. Sister is on talking terms with Justin and Sara. Whole family welcomed into parents home. I'd say they are getting there.
Korean mother-in-laws are notoriously difficult in general. I am sorry that she was so disapproving of you. You are incredibly kind, patient and generous. I hope that she loves you and accepts you for the beautiful soul you are. Any mother-in-law should very so lucky! Prayers for all of you to heal and move forward ❤
I will continue to send positive vibes full of healing to Justin's mother.
Wow, thank you Jesus!! Amazing! I have been praying for you and your family! I am glad you had a positive experience with them. You absolutely supported them and also gave them a positive experience with Jayden, bringing food and advocating for them at the hostpial. Such a blessing that Justin's mom recovered so quickly, that's a miracle!
I hope your husband lets you know every day how blessed he is to have a wife like you. You’re an incredibly genuine, caring, kind, and sweet woman. Most people wouldn’t do what you’ve done for his family. As a Christian woman, you have Christ like love.
This is wonderful news Sarah! I'm so happy for you guys. Sending love and prayers that Justin's mom continues to improve.
You’re such a sweet person. This is great news! So happy for you & your family ♥️♥️
I can see the joy all over you. I'm so happy that Justin's family is beginning to accept you into the family. ❤
I thought your husband's family was fully aware of your youtube channel. If they haven't been aware of your youtube channel up to now, boy, are they in for a rude awakening. With Asian people, as I am sure you know and Justin know, saving face is a huge thing. Even though you and your husband may have honestly and fairly chronicled your actions with your in-laws, I'm pretty sure they won't see it that way. So, if you guys are really intent on pursuing a familial relationship with Justin's family, you're going to have to get rid of all the videos where you guys discuss your interactions with them where they are presented in an unfavorable light. Particularly if Justin's mom doesn't recover. Severe illness or worse can sour a family dynamic more than anything. If they find out about the existence of your youtube channel now (and before they never had an inkling it existed and what was said on it), I'm afraid it will drive a wedge between your two families that will not be overcome.
I've watched them for a long time and I'm speechless. Just listening to Sarah and knowing what her & Justin have gone through is just crazy. No disrespect, but I hate that it's taken Justin & Sarah having a baby boy & a stroke for his family to acknowledge this beautiful family. I'm happy for them and I really hope this is nothing but happiness going forward.❤❤❤❤
You are getting back all that you have unconditionally given. Justin is so fortunate to have a family with you.
Hi Sarah! You look amazing, you are strong and an amazing wife and mother ❤❤❤
It was Jayden that gave her the will to work at getting better. She wants to hold and love him. I believe if you follow your instincts to visit with the baby when lead, everything will fall in place. Your mother in law is very happy to see her grandson.
OMG this just does my heart so good! I am praying for continued healing for her physical health and I pray for emotional healing and bonding between you all! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💗💗💗
Sarah you and Jayden are the blessings for Justin’s mother and his sister. You are so loving and forgiving. ❤
You are a very patient and non judgemental person. You are someone that doesn't hold grudges. Thats how I see you. I would be angry that so much time was lost not having a relationship with their grandchildren. Me being a grandmother, that kind of relationship is so important and cannot be replaced by anyone. And it must've been very painful just to think what your husband was going through knowing his Mother wanted nothing to do with his children. But, thats just me. I hope things continúe to become more friendly and close as a family. My advice is to take it slow. Justin's mom seems to be a person that becomes overwhelmed very easily. Don't become pushy about visits. She'll have her daughter to help her along at home. I wish the best for all of you.
Not good circumstances to meet her for the first time. She may feel guilty for treating you bad now she facing stroke. She should have welcomed you in good health not when death is a possibility.
Sarah you have so much grace. You are such a wonderful, strong person.
I am praying for everyone. Peace in a family is so important.
The mother-in-law has wanted a reunion before but her ego was prohibiting her from making the move. I knew it when she took the dad to the birthday party and was looking in the windows. She understood that she is aging and missing out on the time with the little ones.
I think she had her aha moment after the dad stayed at the hospital. Now that she’s had her own medical emergency she will now realize her pride means nothing and was only getting in the way. We’ll see how things develop as things go forward.
I am so happy that Justin's family now gets to experience the light and amazing human being that you are. You have handled all of this with grace , patience, humbleness and humility. I pray that his family will now open their doors and hearts to you and your kids so that they can enjoy whatever time they have left knowing that their grandchildren love and adore them. Your children will grown up experiencing that love as well. God bless you and your family. I pray that Justin's mom makes a full recovery.
I am extremely happy for you guys. I hope you and your sister-in-law and mother-in-law will continue this relationship 😂😂❤
My face hurts from smiling the entire video. I have happy tears and I'm so happy to hear this. I am praying for her recovery. It's been a long time coming. Hopefully, you all are able to build a strong, lasting relationship.
Right????
A grandparents will power to live on for their grandchildren is so powerful. I say this because my dad had chronic pain and and other illnesses since before my nephews and nieces were born. He would tell me he couldn’t leave until he saw them older and they graduated. He was basically like a father figure to them. I’m sure your little one gave her strength when she saw him and probably reminded her of her son as well.
Justin's family is FINALLY getting to know what an awesome person you are! I'm so thrilled for you!
Sarah I admire your ability to take the high road and putting your self on the other persons shoe and be so understanding. The world would be a better place if people had your mindset . You and Justin inspire me to be a better person and for that I thank you ❤
Justin's parents and sister have had an epiphany. The Lord truly works in mysterious ways and is always a great leveller. In this time of adversity, they have been moved to acknowledge the existence of Sarah who has been part of their extended family for so long and has,with Justin, created three of the most delightful grand children, neices, nephew they could ever have dreamed of. So much able bodied time has been wasted, now, the mother in law will be learning many things some again, some for the first time. I sincerely hope she makes the best recovery body and soul so that this fractured family can at, long last, heal. Bless you all.
This video literally brought me to tears. You are the sweetest, most kind, genuine and loving daughter in law they could have ever asked for. I pray your relationship with them continues to grow and will be also praying for 엄마’s health
Can you imagine someone having to take up the courage having to put everything they got, having to gather alllll their strength to finally meet you after disapproving of you not because you are a bad person. Not because you have done something so unforgivably wrong. Not that you got some criminal record or something. But because of the color of your skin, your skin…something you had no control over. God given ❤🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ chilllle anyways. ❤❤
Colour yes but also cultural differences. Some Koreans also have problems accepting light skin filippinos or Chinese who look like them. Many Asian families prefer own race for fear that a foreigner won't be a good fit in the family. I know of Indian families who got their sons to break up or divorce White women too because they didn't want any mixing. Am not justifying anything. Just explaining. It's changing now with the younger generation. However you are partly right, there will be more objections when the outsider is Black.
Preference is one thing but how we treat others is a matter of your heart not culture.
Sarah I totally proud of you!! You are a wonderful daughter in law!! She will see that! Kept doing what you doing and be supportive of your husband and his mother/family. It will work out in the end!! Also who won’t change after seeing Jayden and your daughters
Sarah you are beautiful on the outside and the inside.
So all that time u guys saying the sister was off it shows that she was just racist… now they need u guys also the fact u now have a treasured son to carry on the family name… it’s beautiful to forgive but not to grovel for others acceptance … wish u all well
I totally agree. We'll see how the mother behaves toward Sarah and the girls when she recovers.
My exact sentiments, well stated! It is classy of them to be kind, however it would do them well to remember Why they are being nice-not to hold it over their heads, buT because true respect and love comes voluntarily, not through force or misfortune!
That’s so nice. People don’t realize how important family is until something dramatic happens. Happy for you and the family. 🙏🏼
My mother-in-law didn't accept me until I was expecting her first grandchild. We were married eight years before we had a baby. Once my mother-in-law accepted me, then my husband's sister and brother started talking to me. My inlaws were divorced, so thankfully, my father-in-law accepted me from the beginning. The division was over religion in our case. You were very kind to bring food and of course, your baby boy! I hope things are continuing to improve. Life is too short. ❤
Well " Hold back tears, hold back tears" did not work for me. I have been a blubbering mess watching this wonderful revelation. It is unfortunate that such a profound health event triggered these truly life changing moments. I think that staring at one's own mortality can have a profound influence on behavior. I am thrilled for you all. Even if your mother in law reverts to her old habits, I feel that you have witnessed her true feelings, and that your sister in law has always wanted to embrace all of you but felt obliged to fall in line. You have just made my weekend, and maybe my week a more joyful one. So happy for you all. Grab hold of these moments, and cherish them, regardless of what happens in the future. Jon
@LoveWithstanding , The Power of God ❤. You and Justin have always been humble and respectful. God intervened and humbled his mom and sister. You and Justin continued to be who you are, kind, respectful, and humble. You showed them Grace during a devastating time. Their hearts softened and opened. They FINALLY see YOU❤❤❤. CHEERS TO HER RECOVERY AND THE HEALING OF YOUR FAMILY. So very happy for you all. Especially your babies ❤❤❤
I wouldn’t tell them about the TH-cam channel at all.
Sarah im so proud of you. Dude, this almost got me teary eyed. I really hope justins mom makes a speedy recovery. I hope you can have a relationship with his sister and parents. Do your best.
I don't think u should tell them about ur channel. They might be embarrassed that their personal business is broadcasted across the world, such as racism, illness, money problems, etc...I'm afraid it would remove any progress to become 1 big happy family. But that's just my opinion. Think carefully. Maybe you could delete the specific videos that pertain to them. But I fee SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!
Family =the good, the bad, the ugly, and the love!!😂 always a full course.
😅
I am smiling from ear-to-ear watching you talk about a situation that has taken a HUGE TURN for the better, thank the Most Highest for this blessing! 🥰❤️🥰
Awww Sarah , so happy for you and Justin
I am happy to see that is some positive progress for your mother in law's health :) Lots of love!!!
You are an amazing human being! The fact that you never gave up just says a lot about your character. Your intentions were pure You never badmouthed them but was just disappointed about the situation. I hope they get to see that now. This put a lump in my throat & nearly started balling for you. I’m so happy for you & Justin. Hate really never wins & your love really prevailed! I hope this is the start of good things. Kinda going through something like this but a little different. Watching this made me realize that hate doesn’t solve hate. And you always have to be the bigger person. May God continue to bless you & your fam. Thank you for sharing & I’m so happy for you both. Such a beautiful person you are! I hope they see that.
Sarah, those of us that have been watching everything from your wedding till today will know exactly why you lit up like a Christmas tree in this video. This makes my heart so happy and Sarah, did you see yourself on this video? Girl you are glowing with so much excitement and happiness and most importantly the love you showed to Justin's family . I can guarantee all of us had goosebumps while you told this story. I'm so happy that they will finally get to see how amazing you are. Justin, sending love and prayers for your mom that she makes a full recovery. Love always
I told you Sarah!!! Is there anything too hard for the Lord? “No!” You deserve all the love that his family can give you, you have been so faithful and left the door open for this to happen. Your followers love you too🥰!!!
Keep rising shining stars as light shines around you all.
They have abused you for 5 years and are now pretending that nothing has gone on. This is not normal. Please be careful.
There couldn’t be a more fitting name for your channel Sarah, I guess love can withstand and overcome anything. You did that. I had tears in my eyes. God bless you and your entire family.
How wonderful that God turned this whole thing around. Sending love and prayers for continued healing from Atlanta, Georgia. 💗
Hi Sarah, I followed your channel for the past few years. Wonderful to see your family grow and flourish. It is also a blessing that your children and yourself are able to enjoy time and memories with Justin"s family. Your grace, forgiveness and willingness to reach out to your in-laws despite of what they did in the past shows how an amazing person you are. May God continue to bless you and your loved ones.
I have been praying for this since before your 1st was born. I have been a long time sub and followed your story. This is such a great start to a beautiful family! I pray it all goes great.
Hugs!
Your video is making me cry. This is so wonderful that you've been finally able to meet the family. I'm always amazed how tragedy often opens closed doors and brings families together. What a gift that your little one (and you and your kindness) helped Ralley your mother-in-law and give her the want to live and recover. You may say, well I don't know, but it's clear to me it's true. FYI atrial fibrillation biggest risk is stroke. My husband had it and also had a stroke. I hope your mother-in-law continues to recover and that your father-in-law stay safe and healthy. ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏
In tears listening to this. I’ve been waiting to hear this news for so long. Im glad it finally happened, I wish it was under better circumstances but this is good news. Looking forward to hear about your continued good progress with the family relationships.
Please do not show your TH-cam channel to them. It would ruin any possible progress. I’d even delete some older videos. And did Justin not go to see his own mom in the hospital with you?? I don’t mean to be disrespectful, but sometimes I feel he’s too spineless when it comes to you and his racist family. You deserve to be defended and supported more with all that.
This whole video made me smile and made me happy. I’m just as shocked about how this moment actually happened. I just hope that someday they will acknowledge all they did, especially the mom, and apologize for it. And I deeply hope that once things go back to normal, the mom won’t close you out again once she’s been back home in her usual place. Not especially after all you’ve done for her and them during this time. Don’t let them take advantage of your kindness. I’m cautiously hopeful. You deserve only kindness for who you are and for all you’ve done for them after the ways they treated you. Just please don’t let your walls fully down yet.
I wonder if they have ever seen pictures of you. I'm guessing the sister may have via the internet. They should be apologizing to you for having given your husband such angst in the mid of his own happiness .
aw i commend your guys’ patience with justin’s family. this is so awesome to see progress!
I’m so happy Jason’s mom is healing. I’m also happy that Jason’s family and you are talking and communicating. So wonderful! Thank God!🙏🏽
Justin
Sarah, I’m glad you’re such a kind and sweet person. You deserve being happy knowing that you can see your husband breathe again. What a relief. Sending you and your family love and strength 😊🫶🏽🙏🏽❤
You are too kind because I'm sure they would not have done any of this for you, you would still not have met them, smh.
That is awesome. Jaydon could be her therapy to getting better and stronger. I'm so happy for you all. Praying for Justins mom to fully get better.
Sarah, I’m so happy that you have finally had the opportunity to meet your mother in law and get the acceptance as her daughter in law. Unfortunately sometimes tragedy has to come in order to have people realize what is important in life. This was a blessing for You, Justin and the whole family. ❤❤❤
I cant lie, looking at this title, I would have neeeeeever met the mom unless it was super important.
The things she said about you really stuck with me for years and made me look at interracial dating so much differently as well as the struggles that come with it.
Sarah you are the sweetest daughter in law to them. They are so blessed to have you apart of their family. You’re so caring and kind.
Does your mother in law plan on having a day nurse? Does your government offer in home care for early stroke patients? 40:44
Hi Sarah , Are the ladies ok with you sharing details of the hospital stay and health? I pray it doesn’t affect the relationship specially with the sister knowing English and could see this videos 🙏🏽😊happy for the family communication and sharing love!
Could you have dared to wish for more....continued healing for Justin's mother and prayers that the family grows even closer. Thank you for sharing the story betw your in-laws (mother/sister) and yourself as it evolved, it was like watching it happen....and, each part was like a gift being unwrapped. (* You're right to take it slow, you don't want to step on any sensitive toes or be pushy...the connection is still new and fragile.)💓
Her grandchildren will continue to be motivated in getting better.
Sarah you are a beautiful and loving person. I'm so glad you had a breakthrough with Justin's mom and sister. It was a long time coming. I hope the relationship continues and I wish your mother-in-law a speedy recovery.
You are a such a graceful woman❤much love to you Sarah!