I Don't Want to Lose Her
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Sweet DeeJay, my daughter is 35 and she still needs her Momma. That bond never is broken. It changes and actually gets stronger. Big hugs to you.
I fully agree with you. I am 81 years old my daughter who is the baby of the family ....two older brothers...she is 55 years old and calls me every night before she goes to bed and tells me all about her day, the good and bad. She always wants my advice about something. So my dear Deejay have no worries the best is yet to come as you watch her grow into an adult and even when she goes off into the big world she will always be with you and want Momma's advice. Hugs and prayers to you and your wonderful family
I'm nearly 60 and still close and need my mom. She is my rock
Hi DJ thank you so much for the encouraging words our life is never easy and God always puts us through these tough challenges but no matter what we still have to keep pushing through to get through that door before the devil closes it so I hope and pray that you and your kids never lose that special bond between you and your kids and tell your kids never to disrespect you or Danielle because you only get one set of parents in life and once you’re gone there is no more mom and dad and I know you have a great kids and they are going to do well so take care and may God bless you and keep you all safe and I’m so glad to see Kelsey is doing really well so take care from your friend here in Oswego New York from Denise-6-18-2024-✝️❤️✝️❤️✝️❤️✝️❤️✝️
A drivers license will not change that bond. You fostered a great relationship with your daughter, that will continue even with that freedom.
And it will be so much more sweeter because she will have her freedom but will choose to hang out with her momma.
My late husband and I raised 2 daughters. With freedom comes growth. The relationship you have with her will change, and that's a good thing. You and Daniel have provided her with a strong foundation, and a driver's license is a baby step in her feelings of freedom. Stand on your faith, and God will help you through this. All of your children are blessed to have you and Daniel as parents. There are many blessings coming your way. ❤❤
Your foundation is strong that you have built with her. She will always come back to you for advice and understanding. Change is good as that is how you both will grow and with God's help you'll achieve this new growth.❤❤❤❤❤
@@susanblair3701well said!
are you for real!? I had 3 boys!, and I lost my oldest son to Fentanyl poisoning, a yr after his dad died of cancer! Just be happy you have all your family!!!!!, crying over a drivers license GIVE me a break! PLEASE
Have you ever heard the expression, a son is a son until he meets his wife, a daughter is a daughter for the rest of your life. I have 3 daughters and that is the truest statement ever. Your daughter is a sweet girl and loves her Momma. Don’t worry, just enjoy her like you do. Hugs to both of you. 🤗🤗🥰🥰
And my kids are totally opposite. Son is always here, daughter moved 1800 miles away & does way more with in-laws. Love our 14-20 days a year we are together but I think it depends more on personality. Son is WAY more like me.
You will always have these feelings till the end I lost my first 2 girl babys 1 at birth 1 at 2 was hit with a car
And I lost my last daughter at 48 for medical reasons and I live every day with losing them I live for my grandkids now
So true, well said 😊
Yep mom to three sons ...but that is how it is meant to be ...raise them up in the way they should walk means giving them away when they take their wives....
Honey she will always NEED her momma, I am 63 yrs old . my mom got her angle wings in October, We had her for 88 years, And we still need her today, just charish every minute, every memory,
I,too, am 63. Tomorrow, April 6, is the third anniversary of my Mother's death. I hope I can make it through the day without bawling all day.😢
No need to apologize. It's a normal feeling when your kids grow up and we feel they don't need us as much.
If I don't hear from my kids , just a "hi, how ya doin'" at least once a week...They are 51and 53! Just want to know they're ok! Just a Momma who loves her kids!
Very true.
You've given her the secret sauce. She you raised her to be the fledgling she is. She will fly back to your nest for all that love and reassurance that you have given her. You can see the bond through the lens. I felt the same way. I think I see her more now than when she was living with us. Best part now is that she brings her 2 little girls with her. I'm so blessed. You will be too.
It's pretty wild as a parent you spend every day with your kids, and then one day we don't. Time is a thief !! it's absolutely different when a son moves out vs a daughter. Thank you for sharing.
I remember when you watched Weston go away to school. It's normal to feel this way. She's gotta find out who she is and a parent has to grieve the loss of their baby. Hugs
YOU DO DESERVE HER!
YOU ARE CHOSEN TO BE HER MOMMA!
💞🙏💞🙌💞
I learned after raising two girls that they get to an age that they do not need you "as much" but they will come back. You've given her great guidelines, trust her and remember, she'll always need you!
Been there, done this - Trust and Pray!! ❤️🙏
D jay, I know the feeling, but it was my grand daughter. I helped raised her as a child, & when got to High school, It was me that kept her in sports, Basketball Volleyball, softball, & even 1 season of soccer. I was there with her 24/7. We were always together.
The thing that got me to where you are right now was when she Graduated High school, She joined the Marines, Left me for her country. She served 4 years in Cali, we live in Louisiana. I hurt so bad I cried daily.
What I found helped me so much, was prayer. Believe me the serenity prayer is not only for just alcoholics or addicts. I said the serenity prayer every time I thought of her so far away. I didn't want her to go into the military, but it helped her.
Just want to say to you that prayer help me out of some very trying days without her. Good luck & always know, You are not alone in this heartache. I lived thru it & if I can do it I know you can too.❤
It's not just daughters, it's son's too. I figure that tears are just another form of love. ❤😊
She’ll always need you regardless of how old she is DeJay. My mother passed away 8 yrs ago. As old as I am, I still wish she was here. I talk to her daily even though she is in Heaven. DeJay you are going to be ok. Emmalee will always need you. Love to all❤️
I'm the daughter. teaching her independence is a great thing. I have a great relationship with my mother. My cousins were not taught independence and their lives were tough. Keep up the good work.
You two are so close, a drivers license will not change that bond. It won’t be the same, but it will be great. She is so wonderful due to her loving parents. Sending love to you!
Honey, The older they get, they still are talking. About different things. You are good mom. You are Blessed my dear. Keep smiling and be happy always.
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Awww mama, your baby girl will always need, want, cherish her mama. You have a very nice family unit. I'm 73 and I was always best friends with my mother and now she's moved to heaven and I still miss her fellowship. You'll go through changes for the rest of your life as the seasons change. God bless you all with His wisdom and peace and strength. Blessings and love and prayers and hugs from beautiful Wisconsin 😍 💖🇺🇲🙏
I know this isn't the same but I was very similar as a teen. I loved being home with my parents. I wasn't a teenager that was trying to sneak out or anything like that. After I got my license, I did go hang with friends but, I was still home by 9 chillin with my parents. Things are changing for you but, I bet your little girl will still always find her momma because it is where she feels at home! big hugs momma!
Oh mama, you'll never lose her❤ things will change but you'll always be her mama.
She will always need her mom. Believe me i have gone there before and my daughter is 46 and still calls me to talk. You will always have that girl.
DEEJAY THE SING THAT GETS ME IS YOU’ER GOING TO MISS THIS BY TRACE ADKINS. MAKES ME CRY EVERY TIME I HEAR IT.
I still cry at that one and I have a great grandson. ❤
I have raised 2 daughters trust me they always need there mother !!!❤
No secret sauce! I went through the same thing when my baby girl was getting her license! And listening to you is making me cry again. My baby and I may not be living close, I'm in Florida and she is in Washington State, but we keep in touch and our closeness is still there! Love my baby girl! 💖✌
I had the same setup as far as children boy first, then girl .don't worry, she will always need her mama .Just be there for her
You and Daniel have set good boundaries and morals in her life. Just keep letting her understand life and to make good choices. She'll do fine. It's the loss of her growing up that you fear. But you've done good sister
You and Daniel have raised a wonderful group of kids Emlee is a great kid and just be proud of her and know that she is covered by God lots of love from Arkansas ❤❤❤❤❤
You will always still close to your daughter. She will need in college, in marriage, and children. The bond goes deeper.
There may be a little bit of freedom love, but your daughters love you and always have things to share and questions to ask Don't cry hon, it will be ok
Mama DJ ... All you need to remember is you raised her, she will do right, do safe, and come back!! And ALWAYS ALWAYS LOVE YOU!!
The worry for your children never goes away even when they are.50. Your daughter is blessed with great parents. Prayers your way.
The way you described your relationship with Emalee means you are a wonderful Mom and you do deserve her and that relationship. You've worked hard for it and put in the time that a lot of mothers do not. Rejoice in it, sweetheart. You are awesome and so is she. Blessings to you both.
Believe me I’m a grandma with 2 granddaughters and a grandson and they still need us
Also plan date nights my son takes all 3 out on date nites at least once a month
@@trrgutierrezso confusing. What ever happened to one at a time? How can you trust your feelings or intuition?
@@mamabear1260 they all have separate dates and they also have one family date
Ohh Deejay, I have felt your pain. Please believe that this too shall pass! I am a mom of two beautiful girls, now grown with their own families! And yes, I did go through that with both of them! I tried so hard to not let it bother me, however as you know…🤷♀️ I just had to trust them and pray that God would protect them, and yes, with The Good Lord’s help, we all made it through! I just followed the two “P’s”, Prayer and Patience! I now have two beautiful grandsons and one beautiful granddaughter!💙💙🩷
From a daughter’s standpoint she will always need her momma and as she does explore the world more she will crave more mother and daughter time! ❤
She will always be back to momma for advice and leadership ❤️ Stewart's to be with ya because of the bond and job you have done raising her❤
Don’t ever say you don’t deserve her. Dear you raised a beautiful young woman. And you are what has made her what she is. She will never forget her momma to the point she won’t want to spend quality time with you!!!!! Everyone on here can see how special you and Dan is in her life. I will send prayers to make sure everything goes well
Bless your heart😢. Girls are very different and letting them fly is so hard but ‘Em has a good foundation so pray, smile and hug her tight.
I raised 2 daughters, and my youngest just spread her wings in May. The oldest now lives 7 states away, and we talk every day. Hugs and hang in there. It may be a rough patch, but she will always want you.
She will always need her momma
Just remember that their growing is also a growing time for us too. Remember each step brings us to another so remember to breathe deep and just keep putting your Mama heart where belongs.
You are an amazing mom and I have three daughters that are 28,25, 23 years old and you will have your days filled with tears but when they grow up you get to see them walk down that isle and have a beautiful I have a granddaughter it melts your heart all over again.
I have a 32 yr old son and he still needs his momma! We are always the first in their hearts 🥰!
You are a great Mother and she is blessed to have you. I have adult daughters and know your feelings but it will pass and she will still need you even more at times.
There is nothing that can replace a hug from Mom. My mom has passed and I miss our hugs. So cherish
those hugs and the closeness and know within your heart that she does also ....forever and forever.
I've never had children, so I can't really relate. However, I remember my grandmother always told me, "A son's a son till he takes a wife. A daughter's a daughter all of her life." I have faith your relationship will change, but you two will be stronger in the end.
I remember you being like this when Weston went to university. You're human and you will miss her, but she'll be there with you always ❤. Im in UK, my son is in texas and my daughter is in Wales (4 hours away). I miss them terribly but im so proud that i raised wonderful independent children. You are human! You feel and its ok to cry xxx
You got this! You brought her up right! It will not go away! ❤❤❤❤ I did everything with my mom... I made sure we kept it. Now my mom is gone 2 yrs now. That is a big hole in my heart. Love you and prayers! Big hugs!
It’s not gonna be as bad as you are fearing DeJay! I have one daughter and I feared that too but we became friends and now I live with her! After her daddy, my husband died she couldn’t stand it! She and her husband both wanted me there so she could take care of me now. I’m 70 and have MS and live in a wheelchair. And your daughter is going to become your best friend just like mine has. Proverbs 22:6. Train up a child in the way he will go and when he is older, he will not depart from it. You’ve trained up your children in the Lords ways! Hang on to what the Lords promise.
Thank you for being real! I have raised 3 daughters, 2 granddaughters and 3 grandsons. You are a great mom! Bless you and many prayers.
I know exactly how you feel and it’s been really tough for me. My daughter and I are super close and it’s like a part of you has left. It’s been a few months for me and it’s still tough.
Your relationship with your daughter will get redefined. You will both come out doing better ❤
You have a bond that will never change. She’s wonderful because you raised her. Take care and stay strong. God bless
You are her rock and safe place no matter how far she goes. She will always come back. Mom of two adult daughters
DeJay, YOUR THAT WONDERFUL!! & Of course you deserve her!! ❤❤❤l love you girl. Our TH-cam Angel 😇 💖 ❤️ ♥️ 💓
Girlie, I have missed you. You have normal feelings. This always hits when we Moms are going through menopause and that makes it harder too. Hugs, love, and prayers for you Sister.
Be proud of the lady you created. Girls and guys will always need their mommas.
You cry all you want, my daughter is 53 yrs old and the best friend I ever had! We talk every day and I love her so much❤❤❤❤❤
You are a wonderful mother who raised a great daughter! Just be patient she might be independent until she’s 18 but she will be back in your lap before you know it! Love you Deejay. You & Daniel are my favorite channels! ❤ from NorCal.
From Ontario,Canada
Big hugs! It never gets easy when our children grow up. Especially our daughters. But you have a good bond with her, and that will last a lifetime. 💖💖💖
She will always need you! It will just be in ways that you don't see at the moment. She will cherish the time you've spent with her and be thankful for it. You're doing a great job, Momma!
Talking is helpful. Praying always. Thank you for sharing and being a blessing to others❤😊
You got this mama! God knew what He was doing when He made you to be her mama 💕💕
You are a great Mom! I think it is beautiful that you cry that she is growing up!
The bond will always be there. I have felt like you. It a transition that tugs at your heart
She grown up and there be times you don't get to spend as much time with her Just treasure every moment you get with her she is a very good kid but she will always need her mom no matter how big she gets and you are a very good mom you both are very lucky love y'all Great Video D.J
Oh my I cried for you..❤The bond you have will never break but will only get stronger.Hugs to you both.❤
She will always need you. She loves you and you love her and you are a very good Mama❤❤❤
She will always need you, You are her best friend. God Bless Y'all.
You know the funniest thing, after she has grown up, married and kids of her own you'll look back and smile of these moments..
You are such WONDERFUL MOM YOU AND YOUR DAUGHTER WILL BECOME EVEN CLOSER OLDER SHE GETS .
She will always need her momma.
Please don’t apologize it’s very normal when a momma has a special bond with her children ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
DJ you got this. EMILY will allways need you and want you around. Hug her.
You've done a good job at raising her. You will never lose her, she is always gonna need her mama. That will never change. We all grow up. You and God have done a great job with her. So all you have to do is love and be there for her.
My daughter is 40 and still calls me on her drive home from a long day teaching, just to unwind. I’m happy being an ear or a shoulder, because I know she chooses to call ME, rather than any of the countless friends she has. I love my only girl so very much!
Beautiful song hang in there she’s loves you so much 😊
And another thing! 😅😊 beautiful ending with the pond & waterfall!❤❤❤
Today I am wearing the Do Your Best shirt.. You will be just fine, she will always be your mommas girl even into adulthood..❤
FYI - I’m 53 and it makes me feel like I wish my mom was still around. Don’t be so sad. She will now show you what she has learned from you and will love you till the end.
DeJay, a daughter always needs her mother. You won't lose EmmaLee as the bond you two have may change a little but will never be broken.
Bless your heart. I only had a son, so what you’re experiencing I’m not familiar with. However, you & Daniel have given her the foundation she will build on.
God bless you all.
Sending hugs.
Howdy from west Texas!! 🤠 oh my Deejay! Flashback…I remember my mother telling me about this as I got my drivers license. No words, no advice! You’ll get through it though. God bless….I’ll be praying for you!
I’m 67 years young and still remember how my Mom cried when I moved out at 20. She said I was not ready to be on my own. I said Mom let me try while you’re still here in case I need you. She cried harder. Been on my own ever since. The relationship you have built with Emily will only grow stronger.😊😊
I promise it doesn’t go away. I have two daughters in their 20’s and one live far away from me. I was there for a work convention recently and my oldest called her baby sissy in tears when I left. I had no clue. They will always need their mommas. Your secret sauce is Communication but not suffocating communication. My youngest moved away and moved back and we go on our “night” drives just to talk. She fills me on her life.
You got this Momma! ❤
You’ll make it through sweetheart ❤️🙏
Love your videos and enjoy watching them. May the lord bless and protect you and your family and the animals
My son and I were that close. He joined the service out of school and was sent to Okinawa for three years. I was devastated. Cried a lot. What got me through it was praying, new hobbies, and just staying busy. She will always need you. I read something one day.
Our children are God's children.
They are simply loaned to us for a short while.
Cherish those times.
You have done your job well my child raising your child.
There is much more for you to do.
I will pray for you. I was a single parent. At least you have your family with you.
You will still be her best friend on this earth ❤ God gave You her because he know what hehe was doing.
Girls always need their momma. You will get closer as she flies away and comes back. ❤
CJ, one day at a time and a lot of phone calls.
With five daughters age 62 to 57 when you let them fly they come back with such love and caring. Enjoy her excitement with her
As a daughter, i remember all that I shared with my Mom. I miss her every single day. Your relationship will grow.
Daughters will always need their mom. Im a daughter. My mom and dad both passed away. Every day I wish they was still here. She will go out and have her fun and explore but she will need you. Hang in there. It will work out ❤
My middle daughter and her oldest were and still are like that. Actually at one time they were like joined at the hip 🤣. She is a grand mother now and her daughter still sits on her lap when she gets the chance. ❤️❤️
No need to worry DJ. Our daughters do distance themselves for a short time. Then there is another change that comes with maturity and your bond will be stronger than ever. Trust that you and Daniel have raised her with love and care. If the weight of change grows too much for you to bare, remember, God has got this. 🙏❤🐨
Just love her no matter what. Hugs and kisses are the best. We all know grow up is not easy and we have all learned from our mistakes. Hang in there momma. She loves you like you love her.
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My daughter is 29 and you are NOT alone. Although you may feel like you lose her at times or your relationship is strained at times (girls seem to have that affect more than boys), she will always come back to Mom. You seem to have built a really strong foundation for her.
O Deejay. I’m one of those daughters that am very close to my mom. I have always been. Softball horses life. I’m now 55 and cherish my relationship with her. It’s a special thing. She is such a strong resilient person I’m so grateful to have her to look up to. If only all kids had someone as strong and loving as you, this world would be a better place I’m sure of it . Thanku for being u and for doing what u do. 🐾❤️🐾
They drift away but they come back with more love than before. My daughter are great friends but I am her momma. ❤❤❤❤
❤❤ Always need our moms. The older we get, the wiser they become. Great song choice. The lyrics resonate. It will change, but all atages are precious.