My husband is not a fan of the members at all, and I have to remind him that they are probably all dealing with traumas we will never understand due to the types of people they would have been around as teens.
@Victoria yes, good reminder. Many ppl have childhood trauma hard for them to deal with later in life, if ever. Glad you have the huge fandom to engage with since your husband doesn't share your interest. The stars are also very personally interactive w/their fans these days. Hope you have great experiences w/your appreciation for 1d!
@@alesiafitzpatrick8244 how did 1 d suddenly became sexual abused? this is ridiculous. liam only saw sheryl back years later when he was 21 and he put in the moves. stop making a deal of it .
Facs everybody is explaining the seriousness of the situation and I’m over here thinking did bro really just say that with that goofy ass wannabe Justin Bieber Haircut
He expressed that he really likes her when he came to audition, she was polite with him, that's it. When he became adult he made moves and she let him. That's what I know Edit: to people who keep accusing Cheryl of grooming. "switch the gender roles u'll see blah blah.." He was 22 when he made a move and she let him! 22!! 🙄
Yeah that's what I think too. If she had made any moves on him when he was younger I would have said it was equally as wrong as if genders were reversed. But they were both consenting adults when they started a relation. Before that she was respectful.
Facts: the pair first met in 2008 when Liam was 14 and Cheryl was 24 but they started dating eight years later in 2016; when Liam was 22 and Cheryl was 32. Not judging, you can. I'm just giving facts. I do not need any help with my thoughts on age related relationships. Ty
That’s still highly inappropriate and I’m sorry but if you need it explained to you why then you will probably not get it. If HE were already 32 then it’s different but 22 is still young. Leonardo Di Caprio vibes.
now what i don't understand is people were not okay with their relationship because the age difference and i agree but people are perfectly fine with Harry and Olivia MAKE IT MAKE SENSE
This is such deceptive editing. Cheryl didn’t do anything inappropriate when Liam was an underage X-factor contestant. He went on X-factor in 2008 and he didn’t start dating Cheryl until 2016. They have very similar careers and life experiences, Cheryl also got her start as part of a teen pop star group that was put together as part of a reality TV competition show, so it’s really not hard to see how they could’ve found the common ground to be in a relationship as adults.
@@copperme You can’t exactly groom someone you have no contact with… It seems as though the outrage is exaggerated as people want to prove a point of how women can be predatory too - which is a good message, however, not applicable to this scenario
My husband was 7 when I met him. I was 12. We met again when he was 13 and I was 18. We met again when he was 15 and I was 20. Then we met again for the last time when he was 18 and this was the first time we had a conversation. We connected immediately and became involved when he was at the later end of 19. We married 6 years later. We have just celebrated our 10 year wedding anniversary with our 9 yr old son. Sometimes fate throws you together.
Nah, you two met more than once at different ages, at times when you were both kids. They meet when he was barely a teen and she was mid twenties, that is COMPLETELY different. Would you be okay with your kid getting with an 18 year old? Or that 18 year old showing interest in them? It’s disgusting and wrong and boys are constantly taken advantage of because no one talks about how woman can be predators.
@@Bsky89 bruh READ! They married 6 years later!!!! If it feel so wrong, at least take a quick moment to think. British legal age is 18, they can also marry at the age of 18. Sometimes you gotta see that there are DIFFERENT cultures and family traditions. If I would envisioned it for you, if you EVER get married at such young age... boy, I would envisioned you drowning. Because that's how stone people are. And also, like I said... THINK. God put your brain on top, not at your tip toes.
@smithsunleashed it would feel that way if you're imagining an 18yr old dating a 13 yr old which was not the case. We didn't start dating til he was 23.
5 years is not too much of an age gap but 9 years and the woman is older and he's still not even finished growing with his brain development and maturity is totally inappropriate. She should've known better as a fully grown adult.
He wasn’t prayed upon. Cheryl is considered one of the most attractive women in England- and for good reason. He was of age (in his 20s!) and their relationship was consensual. She is a gorgeous person inside and out.
No Cheryl wasn’t in touch with Liam from his age of 14 until they got together and had a kid, if she was then that’s grooming but she seen him at age 14, didn’t really much again then started going out with him years later, it’s not the same as Caroline Flack & Harry Styles at all, Styles was only 16!!
Im really sorry for him. Hearing him talk in that podcast just broke me, cause I understood how young he was when fame hit, when he got married, when he had a child, when the band broke apart, when he had no support system cause he was trying to play the older brother = im independent and fine no matter what happens, even though he was hurt by everything.
He auditioned at 14, but they didn’t stay connected then. They reconnected when he was in his 20’s. She wasn’t lurking in the background ‘grooming him’. She was married to someone else in that time. That marriage failed after her footballer husband cheated, she and Liam reconnected again when he was well old to make his own decisions. Having NOT been groomed by her.
To insinuate that Cheryl fell in love with him or had inappropriate feelings at that point is absurd. A woman's mind doesn't work the same as a man's, it's not like wow look at him (especially a teenager) and bam, give her a little more credit.
Every one wants to find something to cry about. They started dating long after that first audition. They have a baby together. And btw, Liam acted like he was proud to have gotten with a gorgeous older woman back then. So just shut it and move on.
Ok you didn’t clarify that he didn’t date Cheryl at 14...Simon set him up on a date with her when he was an adult in his 20s. Then they dated, then they had a child together called Bear.
Notice how they only say that he auditioned in front of her when he was 14, not that she dated him when he was 14? According to another comment, this woman from X Factor didn't date him until he was 20. Click bate.
@@Jayxroberts that’s the stupidest thing I ever heard! A. Who says she went after him? B. Once someone is an adult, it doesn’t matter that they met previously. With your idiotic thinking, none of the thousands of people who married after being high school sweethearts should have married since they “met as children”. For your information, Cheryl was married back when Liam was on the TV show. Then, eight years later in 2016 her husband famously cheated on her, causing her to divorce him. It was later in 2016 that she and Liam started dating. My guess is that Liam went after her.
@@Jayxroberts so? he was 14 after the show they didn't see eachother back until he was 21 and he was the one pursuing her. so just because you know someone when they were young you can not start something with them when they are adults?
You make it out like she groomed him, when she didn’t . His X factor days were long over and he was an adult in his 20s when they got together . She’s not a peadophile .
@@angelinaroyal9050 This isn’t funny you sicko. If your child has a 24 year old teacher when they are 14 and then they have sex when they are 22, you don’t think that’s grooming? Hope it happens to your child
I wish this was talked about more often. No one ever talks about how woman can ALSO be predators 😮💨 I remember being touched & being asked to touch so many times as a kid & it was always by a girl older then me rather it was a relative or babysitter 🤦🏾♀️ Majority of the men I know , lost their virginity at the age 11 & all by girls older then them or by grown women. They weren’t even teens yet before being sexualized by woman who couldn’t even love men their own ages properly. These women need to be held accountable !! Statutory r@pe shouldn’t only be for boys older then girls ! We should let our kids stay kids , no matter how old they look ! At 11 a boy barely knows how to properly wash his @ss and shouldn’t be worried about getting some. It can teach boys sooo many bad habits. Turning a boy into a man too early is so dangerous but instead of talking about it early to prevent it , society shames the aftermath instead 💯 So many traumatized, unhealed & broken men get shamed EVERY day no matter the race. It’s so unfair. Sometimes I even have to catch myself from judging certain men because you never know what they went through to make them that way. Imagine the amount of codependency issues , abandonment issues, & identity issues that can come from a boy being treated like a man 🫤 It’s time we teach our kids to speak up when being touched and make sure they know to speak up rather it felt good or not because not all abuse hurts.
He was in his 20s when they started dating. Long after his x factor days. And she didn’t keep in close contact with him. No grooming at all. Take that energy to all the men in Hollywood actually doing that 🤧
@@skierx And she was 10 when he was born. Who fucking cares! Only small minded idiots are making it gross. He was an adult when they got together…. end of story. 😊
I can't help but roll my eyes at stupid ignorant people who twist things around to make a situation into a very hurtful and negative situation especially for these two people. He met her when he was 14. Met her again 8 or 9 years later who then became a father at age 23. There was no ongoing relationship since he was 14 with that woman. RECAP AND CONCLUSION, he was an adult when he met up with that woman again, and made an adult decision to have a sexual relationship which led to him becoming a father at the age of 23. STOP trying to create negativity and STOP trying to ruin people's lives.
It’s especially bad when they have a kid together and their poor kid has to grow up in a world with people talking about this bullshit about their parents. He was an adult. End of story.
@@Vall-so3ts correction..... He met her when he was a child and he met her again years later as an adult. She can tell her child that she met his father originally when he auditioned for a singing show. But the main story would be how they met again years later and the start of their romantic relationship. That would be the more memorable loving memory they will share . Again, stop trying to twist things
@@Imowe_ knowing someone as a child Children grows up turns into a men/women they don't stay as children but 22 is too young to be with someone who's 32 it would have been fine if he was 25 at least that would not be weird
@@samiaoishy7862 if you knew someone when they were a child & you were a grown adult, how could you consider wanting to sleep with them after they grew up and NOT consider that weird?? And she was clearly attracted to him when he was underaged too. Just cause she waited doesnt make it any less weird
They were both adults when they got together in the video it didn’t look like she was crushing on him or more so looked like a parent calling their kid cute in a way but it eventually changed when they were both older. Idk
In college I knew a lot of my guy friends that got hit on and hooked up with older women. This was in the early 2010s. It honestly didn’t seem like such a big deal. Most of these men loved showing off that they could get older women lmao. I mean, they’re grown men at that point. They’re allowed to make choices.
They met later in life...more importantly when he was over the age of consent. There was two individuals to that relationship and he made that choice. If anything he was probably over the moon to get his knob out for someone he had a crush on.
I love the instant jump to the conclusion that she's a predator and not they were two consenting adults that met, hung out, liked each other and started a relationship. My uncle met my aunt when she was 13 and he was 20, they barely talked until she was 25. Like sometimes it's simple and not a deep matter that just helps you make content and gain followers.
I can't be thankful enough for this conversation where his situation is being sensitively discussed rather than attacking him for everything he does or says ❤
Idk about Harry but y’all reading way too much into Liam & Cheryl, they first met on the x factor but then 8 YEARS later ended up going out, had a baby a year later and broke up shortly after so Cheryl didn’t groom Liam
I can't speak for Liam or what he's been through, but she wasn't dating him when he was 14. Also as a 14 year old I'm sure he hated getting attention from Cheryl Cole...
See, if the genders were reversed and it was a male X factor judge and a 14 year old girl…..the X factor judge would be in jail! But because it’s a woman preying upon a boy 1. They can’t be charged with rape like a man would be because under the law rape is not only about consent but penetration (I.e. a man can rape a woman/girl or another man or boy but a woman can’t rape anybody) 2. The most they could get charged with is sexual assault but even then they would receive a lesser sentence because they’re a woman. Equality should be in all thing’s not just equal pay. But especially in things like rape, child molestation and sexual assault!
He wasn’t abused. This video is misleading and they use deceptive editing to seem like Cheryl Cole groomed him. But they don’t mention is that he met her on the X factor, didn’t see her for 8 years, then met her again as an adult and only then did they start dating. There’s so many actual abusers in the entertainment industry, idk why they had to lie about Cheryl Cole
They didn’t keep in close contact. Yes they met when he was still underage but nothing weird was going on. They met up again as adults and ended up hitting it off.
The clip is trying to make it seem like Cheryl was abusing him since he was 14 which isn’t true. It’s so disruptive. He didn’t meet Cheryl for the first time when he was 14, but then they didn’t see each other for several years, and started dating when he was in his 20s
You people are psychoanalyzing someone you’ve never even met, let alone had a conversation with. This is ridiculous, please leave the man alone, then if he DID have an issue with it, he’ll talk about it when he’s ready, odds are he doesn’t even care
Cheryl was married to someone else at the time when they met, and didn't start dating Liam until he was in his 20's. Look into Styles being 16 and actually dating a 32 year old woman.
I was 12 when men started treating me like a sexual being. And I was in the early 90s, when girls wore really baggy clothes still. When I look back at the way that kind of attention shaped the way I thought of who I was, it really does sink in.
Liam first audioned in 2008 when he was 14 but didn't get through the judges houses after that he went back in 2010 and was put in one direction. Cheryl who's ten years older than him was a judge both times. Some years later they started dating and now they have a son named Bear but aren't together anymore. Don't know if that's what you wanted to know but yeah that's pretty much it
When you hit puberty your developed enough to get married and pregnant. It's only since 1885 the law changed. Men and women were getting married at 14 since the begining of time. So long as your around similar ages 10 years max. It's fine. Do you know how many kids you can have if you marry young. You'll have a big happy family and be young enough to enjoy your kids.
Thank God fr the comments, majority says they weren't in contact much until he was 22 which is when he made a move on her. The video really made me think some grooming was present here, man.
He was in his twenties and she was in his thirties when they dated. Just like Nick Jonas and Priyanka Chopra. Yet no one's bothers them the way that you do. Stop creating drama for no reason.
💔💔💔💔💔💔 one direction is my whole childhood been there since they auditioned up until today and forever will be a fan and so will my kids I’m telling you it’s a promise to God they are going to have a 2000’s childhood this new generation isn’t it 🤮💀 at all there’s no childhood this generation it’s just a fk up. Anyways this is messed up and I’ve noticed this growing up how uncomfortable the boys were when they were being talked to inappropriately and touched and ugh
I was literally talking to my mum about this. They was literally groomed and preyed upon and these women didn’t get done. If it was a man gosh he’d probs be behind bars
Grooming a child is when an adult starts a relationship with a child and builds on that relationship while they are still a child using the age difference as a means of undue influence/control on the child for an extended period of time resulting in an illegal sex act with the child while the child is still under age. A 24 year old meeting a child at 14 and then not seeing them again until the adult is 34 and the tween is now 23 going on a first date did not "groom a child." As for age difference... I am 16 years younger than my husband. He was 41 and I was 25 when we met, 44 and 28 when we married and now we are 61 and 45. I love my husband more every day and I would not trade our lives for anything. Had Cheryl Cole built a relationship with Liam when he was 14 while she was 24 and it was revealed she had started spending extra time with Liam and using her position of power to influence Liam to have sex with her before Liam was the age of 18... that would be grooming a child.
Didn't Cardi B sue one of these silly bloggers/influencers/bottom feeders for defamation? I hope all celebrities jump on that bandwagon and start suing these fake news channels (like Goalcast) for these ridiculous stories. Talk about reaching 😂
One can truly, only imagin what these boys went through.... ( I kind of mentiond this in a comment to someone a bit ago but...) I mean, lets talk about Zayn's eatting disorder, the poor guy was starved and past the point of exsaustion. Louis's and Niall's mics were always turnd down because they were considerd the weakest ones... And Harry.... See, I am disgusted that these older women were throwing themselves at him. It would be a different story if Harry were like maybe 20s but at 16- 17.... What the frick. He lost his verginity to a women in her 30s. What do you expect a young boy or girl at the time to think? Their minds may be grown enough but still young to have a full and compleat grasp of what is real. Think of Taylor Swift's song 15 with the lyrics " When you're 15, somebody tells you they love you you're going to believe them" so true. And how about being locked in their Hotel rooms... I mean why didn't anyone call the police for them? Or get these boys some help? I wouldn't be surprised if these boys now men came out with being sexualy assulted. I am just glad though, that they are doing well for the most part and having their own success.
i am a 24 year old woman. i cannot even fathom a world where a 17 year old is attractive to me. that’s absolutely disgusting and she should be ashamed of herself. i cannot stand women like this. also- she actively flirted with him when he was underage. sure he didn’t reach out until he was an adult but she was absolutely flirting with him.
nobody messed with children. he was 21 when he saw her again and made his move. i don't know what this video is trying to imply but if i were them i would have sued them.
they didn't get together until many many years later and we'll.after the show ended, he had toured extensively and was a full fledged adult. there's nothing to process
If it was the other way around, like a young woman having a child by an older x factor judge, EVERYBODY would scream 'abuse'. Yet, because they are guys, people somehow think it's okay...🤔🤷🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
Cheryl was married twice before him ?!?! And they didn’t reconnect until he was 22? Makes no sense. They did not keep in contact while he was still growing up.
So? He got older, became an adult. Not like she made a move on him romantically or physically when he was 14. So, doesnt matter. They took decisions after BOTH were adults.
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likely these 1d children were victimized in many ways neither they nor others fully understand?
I Agree
My husband is not a fan of the members at all, and I have to remind him that they are probably all dealing with traumas we will never understand due to the types of people they would have been around as teens.
@Victoria yes, good reminder. Many ppl have childhood trauma hard for them to deal with later in life, if ever. Glad you have the huge fandom to engage with since your husband doesn't share your interest. The stars are also very personally interactive w/their fans these days. Hope you have great experiences w/your appreciation for 1d!
I agree. A lot of children in show business are victims of sexual abuse ,it's terrible that theure exposed to those things. 💔
@@alesiafitzpatrick8244 how did 1 d suddenly became sexual abused? this is ridiculous. liam only saw sheryl back years later when he was 21 and he put in the moves. stop making a deal of it .
"When I was 14, I was hot" 💀💀💀
Facs everybody is explaining the seriousness of the situation and I’m over here thinking did bro really just say that with that goofy ass wannabe Justin Bieber Haircut
Likely something Cheryl said to him
@@Inaazxo shouldn’t have been is all I’m saying
Yikes. Makes me wonder how he feels about 14 yr old girls
14 nnnnnnn! Oh my lord
He expressed that he really likes her when he came to audition, she was polite with him, that's it. When he became adult he made moves and she let him. That's what I know
Edit: to people who keep accusing Cheryl of grooming. "switch the gender roles u'll see blah blah.." He was 22 when he made a move and she let him! 22!! 🙄
Yeah that's what I think too. If she had made any moves on him when he was younger I would have said it was equally as wrong as if genders were reversed. But they were both consenting adults when they started a relation. Before that she was respectful.
And that is how we should take it unless said otherwise. The people making something out of nothing in here are embarrassing.
Wasnt she married at the time too
@@beatricekwarteng5007 no she wasn’t
@@hi2978 yeah she was to ashley cole the footballer
Facts: the pair first met in 2008 when Liam was 14 and Cheryl was 24 but they started dating eight years later in 2016; when Liam was 22 and Cheryl was 32.
Not judging, you can. I'm just giving facts. I do not need any help with my thoughts on age related relationships. Ty
That’s still highly inappropriate and I’m sorry but if you need it explained to you why then you will probably not get it. If HE were already 32 then it’s different but 22 is still young. Leonardo Di Caprio vibes.
I’m currently 24 and that is disgusting
It's the facts not a judgement. Leaving that in your capable hands.
now what i don't understand is people were not okay with their relationship because the age difference and i agree but people are perfectly fine with Harry and Olivia
MAKE IT MAKE SENSE
@@rttnmlk9013 you're an adult, so there is nothing wrong here.
Not to mention at the time, when he did audition in 2008. Cheryl was still married to Ashley Cole, it kinda weird that she likes him.
It kinda weird that Cheryl seems to interest in him, it wasn’t his singing what she interested in.
Liam just needs more love 😩
This is such deceptive editing. Cheryl didn’t do anything inappropriate when Liam was an underage X-factor contestant. He went on X-factor in 2008 and he didn’t start dating Cheryl until 2016. They have very similar careers and life experiences, Cheryl also got her start as part of a teen pop star group that was put together as part of a reality TV competition show, so it’s really not hard to see how they could’ve found the common ground to be in a relationship as adults.
It’s still predatory.
Still disgusting, it's like she groomed him.
@@copperme You can’t exactly groom someone you have no contact with… It seems as though the outrage is exaggerated as people want to prove a point of how women can be predatory too - which is a good message, however, not applicable to this scenario
@@copperme how exactly did she "groom" him? If you can't provide facts and timelines, you're doing nothing more than using the latest buzzword.
@@copperme how did she groom him when she had no contact with him after the show, they got together years later
Wtf is wrong with these women?!
They are what their male counter-parts are.......
There sick
People in general. You don’t hear many women being accused but it’s just some people are sick don’t matter gender.
Pedophiles
@rickroli893 only rhe person whos put this togther needs suing for defamation, Liam was 22yr old grown MAN when he got with Cheryl
Wtf... Why can't females get put in jail regardless of how famous, rich they are? Smh I don't understand society anymore
Seeing this after the traumatizing news about his death, Oh Liam! Rest in peace buddy, you'll be remembered forever...
My husband was 7 when I met him. I was 12. We met again when he was 13 and I was 18. We met again when he was 15 and I was 20. Then we met again for the last time when he was 18 and this was the first time we had a conversation. We connected immediately and became involved when he was at the later end of 19. We married 6 years later. We have just celebrated our 10 year wedding anniversary with our 9 yr old son. Sometimes fate throws you together.
Nah, you two met more than once at different ages, at times when you were both kids. They meet when he was barely a teen and she was mid twenties, that is COMPLETELY different. Would you be okay with your kid getting with an 18 year old? Or that 18 year old showing interest in them? It’s disgusting and wrong and boys are constantly taken advantage of because no one talks about how woman can be predators.
@@Bsky89 bruh READ! They married 6 years later!!!! If it feel so wrong, at least take a quick moment to think. British legal age is 18, they can also marry at the age of 18. Sometimes you gotta see that there are DIFFERENT cultures and family traditions.
If I would envisioned it for you, if you EVER get married at such young age... boy, I would envisioned you drowning. Because that's how stone people are. And also, like I said... THINK.
God put your brain on top, not at your tip toes.
Ngl, it still feels weird you being 18 and him being 13. And then marrying him afterwards. Idk
@smithsunleashed it would feel that way if you're imagining an 18yr old dating a 13 yr old which was not the case. We didn't start dating til he was 23.
5 years is not too much of an age gap but 9 years and the woman is older and he's still not even finished growing with his brain development and maturity is totally inappropriate. She should've known better as a fully grown adult.
He wasn’t prayed upon. Cheryl is considered one of the most attractive women in England- and for good reason.
He was of age (in his 20s!) and their relationship was consensual. She is a gorgeous person inside and out.
No Cheryl wasn’t in touch with Liam from his age of 14 until they got together and had a kid, if she was then that’s grooming but she seen him at age 14, didn’t really much again then started going out with him years later, it’s not the same as Caroline Flack & Harry Styles at all, Styles was only 16!!
Im really sorry for him. Hearing him talk in that podcast just broke me, cause I understood how young he was when fame hit, when he got married, when he had a child, when the band broke apart, when he had no support system cause he was trying to play the older brother = im independent and fine no matter what happens, even though he was hurt by everything.
He auditioned at 14, but they didn’t stay connected then. They reconnected when he was in his 20’s. She wasn’t lurking in the background ‘grooming him’. She was married to someone else in that time. That marriage failed after her footballer husband cheated, she and Liam reconnected again when he was well old to make his own decisions. Having NOT been groomed by her.
To insinuate that Cheryl fell in love with him or had inappropriate feelings at that point is absurd. A woman's mind doesn't work the same as a man's, it's not like wow look at him (especially a teenager) and bam, give her a little more credit.
@Peter Engert sorry about that man and I agree predatory behaviour isn’t specific to one gender
Don’t say that. That’s such a double standard
Every one wants to find something to cry about. They started dating long after that first audition. They have a baby together. And btw, Liam acted like he was proud to have gotten with a gorgeous older woman back then. So just shut it and move on.
Ok you didn’t clarify that he didn’t date Cheryl at 14...Simon set him up on a date with her when he was an adult in his 20s. Then they dated, then they had a child together called Bear.
That's still creepy
@@milacruz3970 how? Because they initially met when he was younger?
@@milacruz3970 and you're just jealous that she was able to date Liam Payne when you never had a chance.
Cheryl and Liam always looked happy together
Notice how they only say that he auditioned in front of her when he was 14, not that she dated him when he was 14? According to another comment, this woman from X Factor didn't date him until he was 20. Click bate.
Lies. He and Cheryl were adults when they started dating.
Either way it’s still predatory of her to go after him. She knew him when he was a kid.
@@Jayxroberts that’s the stupidest thing I ever heard! A. Who says she went after him? B. Once someone is an adult, it doesn’t matter that they met previously. With your idiotic thinking, none of the thousands of people who married after being high school sweethearts should have married since they “met as children”.
For your information, Cheryl was married back when Liam was on the TV show. Then, eight years later in 2016 her husband famously cheated on her, causing her to divorce him. It was later in 2016 that she and Liam started dating. My guess is that Liam went after her.
@@Jayxroberts so? he was 14 after the show they didn't see eachother back until he was 21 and he was the one pursuing her. so just because you know someone when they were young you can not start something with them when they are adults?
You make it out like she groomed him, when she didn’t .
His X factor days were long over and he was an adult in his 20s when they got together . She’s not a peadophile .
so if u were a grown women and knew a kid then when they got older u had s*x w them that’s fine?
there’s something wrong w u
Yes she is
@@jacobsed6665 so having sex with someone who is in their 20’s is peadophilia ?
@@jacobsed6665 talking from experience? 😂
@@angelinaroyal9050 This isn’t funny you sicko. If your child has a 24 year old teacher when they are 14 and then they have sex when they are 22, you don’t think that’s grooming? Hope it happens to your child
Lol bro isn’t “coping with anything” they really reaching
OH FGS !! Liam was a grown man when he got with Cheryl...stop twisting the narrative and what really happened ya freaks
I wish this was talked about more often. No one ever talks about how woman can ALSO be predators 😮💨 I remember being touched & being asked to touch so many times as a kid & it was always by a girl older then me rather it was a relative or babysitter 🤦🏾♀️ Majority of the men I know , lost their virginity at the age 11 & all by girls older then them or by grown women. They weren’t even teens yet before being sexualized by woman who couldn’t even love men their own ages properly. These women need to be held accountable !! Statutory r@pe shouldn’t only be for boys older then girls ! We should let our kids stay kids , no matter how old they look ! At 11 a boy barely knows how to properly wash his @ss and shouldn’t be worried about getting some. It can teach boys sooo many bad habits. Turning a boy into a man too early is so dangerous but instead of talking about it early to prevent it , society shames the aftermath instead 💯 So many traumatized, unhealed & broken men get shamed EVERY day no matter the race. It’s so unfair. Sometimes I even have to catch myself from judging certain men because you never know what they went through to make them that way. Imagine the amount of codependency issues , abandonment issues, & identity issues that can come from a boy being treated like a man 🫤 It’s time we teach our kids to speak up when being touched and make sure they know to speak up rather it felt good or not because not all abuse hurts.
He was in his 20s when they started dating. Long after his x factor days. And she didn’t keep in close contact with him. No grooming at all. Take that energy to all the men in Hollywood actually doing that 🤧
Exactly she was married woman when she was on the panel back then
EXACTLY!!
its still weird to have sex with someone who was 14 and u were 24 when you first met
@@skierx And she was 10 when he was born. Who fucking cares! Only small minded idiots are making it gross. He was an adult when they got together…. end of story. 😊
Haha bravo! Good one!
I can't help but roll my eyes at stupid ignorant people who twist things around to make a situation into a very hurtful and negative situation especially for these two people. He met her when he was 14. Met her again 8 or 9 years later who then became a father at age 23. There was no ongoing relationship since he was 14 with that woman. RECAP AND CONCLUSION, he was an adult when he met up with that woman again, and made an adult decision to have a sexual relationship which led to him becoming a father at the age of 23. STOP trying to create negativity and STOP trying to ruin people's lives.
It’s especially bad when they have a kid together and their poor kid has to grow up in a world with people talking about this bullshit about their parents. He was an adult. End of story.
I agree w u
All just for clicks 🙄
He didn’t “meet her again” they already met she’s gonna always remember the way she met the father of her child…. And he was a child..
@@Vall-so3ts correction..... He met her when he was a child and he met her again years later as an adult. She can tell her child that she met his father originally when he auditioned for a singing show. But the main story would be how they met again years later and the start of their romantic relationship. That would be the more memorable loving memory they will share . Again, stop trying to twist things
He wz dreamy & had a swagger to him. I thnk each of them have unique attractiveness and charm. But im partial to Zayn & Harry
Dude it was 8 years later when he was in his early 20s.
But it’s still gross to prey on someone you knew when they were a child
Still weird
@@Imowe_ knowing someone as a child
Children grows up turns into a men/women they don't stay as children but 22 is too young to be with someone who's 32 it would have been fine if he was 25 at least that would not be weird
@@samiaoishy7862 if you knew someone when they were a child & you were a grown adult, how could you consider wanting to sleep with them after they grew up and NOT consider that weird?? And she was clearly attracted to him when he was underaged too. Just cause she waited doesnt make it any less weird
@@denisereadstarot Nope they had no contact with each other probably forgot about their existence especially if it was 8 years later.
They were both adults when they got together in the video it didn’t look like she was crushing on him or more so looked like a parent calling their kid cute in a way but it eventually changed when they were both older. Idk
"...and as Liam was going in that DIRECTION, Harry was just..." Killed me 😂
In college I knew a lot of my guy friends that got hit on and hooked up with older women. This was in the early 2010s. It honestly didn’t seem like such a big deal. Most of these men loved showing off that they could get older women lmao. I mean, they’re grown men at that point. They’re allowed to make choices.
Men are desperate participants in the victimhood race in the west
They met later in life...more importantly when he was over the age of consent. There was two individuals to that relationship and he made that choice. If anything he was probably over the moon to get his knob out for someone he had a crush on.
He is clearly struggling with this
Exactly, people need to stop blaming Liam just because he is a man
Cheryl said he was cute, nothing sexual about that! They got together years later! Stop with the nonesense
I love the instant jump to the conclusion that she's a predator and not they were two consenting adults that met, hung out, liked each other and started a relationship. My uncle met my aunt when she was 13 and he was 20, they barely talked until she was 25. Like sometimes it's simple and not a deep matter that just helps you make content and gain followers.
It’s like people forget how aging works. If there was minimal to no contact involve, there’s no grooming.
He said "i had my son when i was 23" ... therefore how was he prayed upon??
I love how sad and depressed everyone gets about these rich folks but can't feel sorry for our homeless
What have you done for the homeless? Gave your own home?
@YourNightmare OMG nothing idk what I was talking about ... I feel bad for the rich person now! Poor guy almost made me cry
Well.... now he died at 31 years old, so it seems like rich people can have a tragic life too
I been wondering why nobody calls her out for this
I can't be thankful enough for this conversation where his situation is being sensitively discussed rather than attacking him for everything he does or says ❤
Idk about Harry but y’all reading way too much into Liam & Cheryl, they first met on the x factor but then 8 YEARS later ended up going out, had a baby a year later and broke up shortly after so Cheryl didn’t groom Liam
Seriously, and in the meantime Cheryl got divorced, married and divorced again lol. She certainly wasn’t “waiting” for him.
She was like your cute and girls will love you, then years later they started dating. Had a kid, then broke up. It was not grooming.
I can't speak for Liam or what he's been through, but she wasn't dating him when he was 14.
Also as a 14 year old I'm sure he hated getting attention from Cheryl Cole...
She didn't groom him they reconnected when he was older it's not like she kept in touch with him. He pursued her.
See, if the genders were reversed and it was a male X factor judge and a 14 year old girl…..the X factor judge would be in jail! But because it’s a woman preying upon a boy 1. They can’t be charged with rape like a man would be because under the law rape is not only about consent but penetration (I.e. a man can rape a woman/girl or another man or boy but a woman can’t rape anybody) 2. The most they could get charged with is sexual assault but even then they would receive a lesser sentence because they’re a woman.
Equality should be in all thing’s not just equal pay. But especially in things like rape, child molestation and sexual assault!
He’ll see it differently as his own child reach his age of growing and abuse. Then two and two will come together. It’s so sad and sickening.
He wasn’t abused. This video is misleading and they use deceptive editing to seem like Cheryl Cole groomed him. But they don’t mention is that he met her on the X factor, didn’t see her for 8 years, then met her again as an adult and only then did they start dating. There’s so many actual abusers in the entertainment industry, idk why they had to lie about Cheryl Cole
"That direction" got me dead😶🌫️
She didn’t date him till he was 22 years, why did they make it seem like she dated him when he was 14? 😒😒
They didn’t keep in close contact. Yes they met when he was still underage but nothing weird was going on. They met up again as adults and ended up hitting it off.
Ok. Wait. He stated he was 23. What is this clip trying to say?
The clip is trying to make it seem like Cheryl was abusing him since he was 14 which isn’t true. It’s so disruptive. He didn’t meet Cheryl for the first time when he was 14, but then they didn’t see each other for several years, and started dating when he was in his 20s
Something stupid...lol
I already knew this happened but it still makes me wanna throw up
Me too.
You people are psychoanalyzing someone you’ve never even met, let alone had a conversation with. This is ridiculous, please leave the man alone, then if he DID have an issue with it, he’ll talk about it when he’s ready, odds are he doesn’t even care
To be fair, this makes it sound like she started dating him when he was underage, he was in his 20s.
They are sick people doing that to them.
Who else have they done this too? 😢
This makes me lose all trust for your videos….Liam Payne was so much older when he had got together with Cheryl.
Cheryl was married to someone else at the time when they met, and didn't start dating Liam until he was in his 20's. Look into Styles being 16 and actually dating a 32 year old woman.
Ick. Wtf.....????
I was 12 when men started treating me like a sexual being. And I was in the early 90s, when girls wore really baggy clothes still. When I look back at the way that kind of attention shaped the way I thought of who I was, it really does sink in.
Americans crack me up. They started dating when he was of age.
Why isn't she in jail???
'The mom was a judge on x factor'
Cheryl is unofficial British royalty.
Now sit down with me and imagine
A 14 girl being hit on by a man a *decade* older
No one would’ve be cool with that, I’ll tell you that.
So so glad people are talking about this. She was fd up for that.
those women are sick
Glad I’m not the only who saw it that way
God bless and heal you Liam he is our healer
If she did that to him she should be indicted
Yeh. The liamn Cheryl thing is icky
But Harry styled always goes for older women
That's a him thing n mummy issues
wait can someone explain
Liam first audioned in 2008 when he was 14 but didn't get through the judges houses after that he went back in 2010 and was put in one direction. Cheryl who's ten years older than him was a judge both times. Some years later they started dating and now they have a son named Bear but aren't together anymore. Don't know if that's what you wanted to know but yeah that's pretty much it
Thank you so much
He's not making jokes he's bragging.
She literally watched him go through the awkward stage of growing up then had a baby with him, if genders were reversed it would be classed as pervy
When you hit puberty your developed enough to get married and pregnant. It's only since 1885 the law changed. Men and women were getting married at 14 since the begining of time. So long as your around similar ages 10 years max. It's fine. Do you know how many kids you can have if you marry young. You'll have a big happy family and be young enough to enjoy your kids.
Some of these comments are shitty but Liam, I’m proud of you but not what you did and said is always right ❤️
That’s messesd up.. ugh
STOP giving people TRAUMA that YOU think they should have!!!!
they were both over the age
Thank God fr the comments, majority says they weren't in contact much until he was 22 which is when he made a move on her. The video really made me think some grooming was present here, man.
me when i also find out sam taylor Johnson and aaron taylor Johnson who is now married first met when he was 18 and she was 42……
So sorry...
FINALLY SOMEONE SAYING THIS IS DISGUSTING.
He was in his twenties and she was in his thirties when they dated. Just like Nick Jonas and Priyanka Chopra. Yet no one's bothers them the way that you do. Stop creating drama for no reason.
It’s STILL WEIRD
💔💔💔💔💔💔 one direction is my whole childhood been there since they auditioned up until today and forever will be a fan and so will my kids I’m telling you it’s a promise to God they are going to have a 2000’s childhood this new generation isn’t it 🤮💀 at all there’s no childhood this generation it’s just a fk up. Anyways this is messed up and I’ve noticed this growing up how uncomfortable the boys were when they were being talked to inappropriately and touched and ugh
I was literally talking to my mum about this. They was literally groomed and preyed upon and these women didn’t get done. If it was a man gosh he’d probs be behind bars
Grooming a child is when an adult starts a relationship with a child and builds on that relationship while they are still a child using the age difference as a means of undue influence/control on the child for an extended period of time resulting in an illegal sex act with the child while the child is still under age.
A 24 year old meeting a child at 14 and then not seeing them again until the adult is 34 and the tween is now 23 going on a first date did not "groom a child."
As for age difference... I am 16 years younger than my husband. He was 41 and I was 25 when we met, 44 and 28 when we married and now we are 61 and 45. I love my husband more every day and I would not trade our lives for anything.
Had Cheryl Cole built a relationship with Liam when he was 14 while she was 24 and it was revealed she had started spending extra time with Liam and using her position of power to influence Liam to have sex with her before Liam was the age of 18... that would be grooming a child.
Didn't Cardi B sue one of these silly bloggers/influencers/bottom feeders for defamation? I hope all celebrities jump on that bandwagon and start suing these fake news channels (like Goalcast) for these ridiculous stories. Talk about reaching 😂
That’s astonishing . He winked at her .
liams fake accent is sending me over the edge 😂
One can truly, only imagin what these boys went through.... ( I kind of mentiond this in a comment to someone a bit ago but...) I mean, lets talk about Zayn's eatting disorder, the poor guy was starved and past the point of exsaustion. Louis's and Niall's mics were always turnd down because they were considerd the weakest ones... And Harry.... See, I am disgusted that these older women were throwing themselves at him. It would be a different story if Harry were like maybe 20s but at 16- 17.... What the frick. He lost his verginity to a women in her 30s. What do you expect a young boy or girl at the time to think? Their minds may be grown enough but still young to have a full and compleat grasp of what is real. Think of Taylor Swift's song 15 with the lyrics " When you're 15, somebody tells you they love you you're going to believe them" so true.
And how about being locked in their Hotel rooms... I mean why didn't anyone call the police for them? Or get these boys some help? I wouldn't be surprised if these boys now men came out with being sexualy assulted.
I am just glad though, that they are doing well for the most part and having their own success.
Well...😢😢
i am a 24 year old woman. i cannot even fathom a world where a 17 year old is attractive to me. that’s absolutely disgusting and she should be ashamed of herself. i cannot stand women like this. also- she actively flirted with him when he was underage. sure he didn’t reach out until he was an adult but she was absolutely flirting with him.
He wasn't a child when they got together .
It’s disgusting that she would do this
I didn’t know he was 14, I thought he was like 17/18. He looked more mature for his age
These grown adults messing with children. It’s rampant. 😢
nobody messed with children. he was 21 when he saw her again and made his move. i don't know what this video is trying to imply but if i were them i would have sued them.
they didn't get together until many many years later and we'll.after the show ended, he had toured extensively and was a full fledged adult. there's nothing to process
If it was the other way around, like a young woman having a child by an older x factor judge, EVERYBODY would scream 'abuse'. Yet, because they are guys, people somehow think it's okay...🤔🤷🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
Cheryl was married twice before him ?!?! And they didn’t reconnect until he was 22? Makes no sense. They did not keep in contact while he was still growing up.
So? He got older, became an adult. Not like she made a move on him romantically or physically when he was 14. So, doesnt matter. They took decisions after BOTH were adults.
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