how Aaliyah’s quiet confidence made her magnetic

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  • @sonya.danielle
    @sonya.danielle  หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    1:11 Aaliyah’s Background
    3:40 Aaliyah’s Character
    5:38 Characteristics of quiet confidence

  • @miud2201
    @miud2201 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +289

    i feel like her and kali uchis are very much alike in this aspect. they’re both very soft spoken, confident, kind women

    • @Melinanextdoor
      @Melinanextdoor 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

      Kali uchis mentionned 🩷🎀

  • @cerenasejour
    @cerenasejour หลายเดือนก่อน +353

    Amen there's a verse 1 Peter 3:4 that talks about how the gentle and quiet spirit is precious to God and how our beauty should come from within🦋

    • @sonya.danielle
      @sonya.danielle  หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      such a beautiful verse 🥹

    • @cerenasejour
      @cerenasejour หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      @@sonya.danielle literally and God has been teaching me humility and to walk in humility it’s been a bit hard but this verse reminds me of what’s precious to God🦋

    • @sakuraesther6309
      @sakuraesther6309 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@cerenasejouris that verse for women only?

    • @cerenasejour
      @cerenasejour 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@sakuraesther6309 I think it can be for both genders tbh

  • @rahbeeuh
    @rahbeeuh 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +158

    I liked that Aaliyah seemed to have a quiet confidence. It was balanced from what I saw. That balance is ideal imo. Not too overstated but not understated either.

  • @shesslucky
    @shesslucky 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +90

    People in the industry say she was the kindest, that’s why they all want to remember her.

  • @proverbs31university
    @proverbs31university 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +55

    Aaliyah was a tomboy but her personality was very feminine and mysterious and that's what makes people especially men interested in a woman it also helps that she was gorgeous too!
    When she passed I remember it very well and it's amazing how her legacy still lives on ❤

  • @0003-t6x
    @0003-t6x 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    She really never tried to be anyone else by herself, she wasn’t in competition with anyone but herself. And she was quite mysterious towards the public. She was confident enough to be private and not give too much away. A lot of her looks maybe considered simple or popular at the time, but they only became trendy when she wore it because she always wore what she was comfortable with. She didn’t have to do the most to have sex appeal which is why she wore everything with confidence. You can tell her style was a real expression of her, not her trying to be someone else.

  • @fashiongoddezz3462
    @fashiongoddezz3462 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    I always idolize her as a child....i always wanted to study her❤❤❤

    • @sonya.danielle
      @sonya.danielle  หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      she was so graceful in everything she did 🤍 it’s something i look up to for sure

    • @Redd91ful
      @Redd91ful 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      truly. I love how articulate she is

  • @thevictoriacbrown1
    @thevictoriacbrown1 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +44

    To me personally the best confidence is the type that Aaliyah had like quiet, mysterious, cool, but confident and self assured. Idk just something about it! I enjoyed your video friend ❤

  • @SweetpeaC
    @SweetpeaC หลายเดือนก่อน +74

    I remember the day she passed smh. I love Aaliyah.

    • @sonya.danielle
      @sonya.danielle  หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      we were robbed! i would’ve loved to see how her music & fashion would’ve evolved over time 🥺

    • @SweetpeaC
      @SweetpeaC 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      @@sonya.danielle she would've forever been a fashion icon. A trendsetter indeed.

  • @LoloHaru-q8u
    @LoloHaru-q8u 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    quiet confidence is so real. just the other day, i had a girl literally try to insult me. it was giving pick me. i just met her, and it was such a let down. she wouldn't talk to me in conversation, because she was too focused on the guy who was with us. she doesn't ask me questions when we talk in a group. she tries to undermine me as best she can. for her sake, and for mine, i choose to let her see the error of her ways. i want her to realize it, and then, when the time is right, confront her confidently and purely. she is not being very demure and mindful 😭 it upsets me the most when many women like this try to put down other women. i thought this girlw as beautiful. i looked up to her, and even took inspiration from her. but there is darkness in her. a darkness that needs to see the light.

    • @sammy69831
      @sammy69831 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Amen 😂 when they start doing too much, you cant stoop and do too much with them............., let them look foolish and keep shining 🌟😊

  • @dovemendez3132
    @dovemendez3132 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    She’s was so beautiful and delicate ❤

  • @morgangreenwood7495
    @morgangreenwood7495 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    This was really good! You should continue this series. This is helping me. Aaliyah was really good in being kind but having wisdom in the public eyes of everyone. I look up to her in that area.

    • @sonya.danielle
      @sonya.danielle  25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I will! i genuinely enjoyed making this video & it’s something i haven’t felt for a little while now 🥲 & i agree she had such grace about her and she was wise beyond her years. thank you for watching 🩷

  • @tswelos_tales
    @tswelos_tales 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +48

    girllll, lemme take notes. I know I have the potential to be so, however insecurity sometimes creeps in uggghhh. This was a great video man. Also, I love your style ; )

  • @boothefool2198
    @boothefool2198 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    I love Aaliyah!! Loose rap, giving you more, don’t know what to tell ya are some of my favs🩷🩷🩷

  • @jacque8236
    @jacque8236 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    She made it cool to be gentle and kind but also fierce and ambitious. You rarely see that balance in people nowadays. I really miss her ❤️

  • @ThondieSade08
    @ThondieSade08 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    She was one of my favorite female artists still to this day❤️ she seemed so down to earth , sweet and humble but we were very robbed of what she would’ve done if she’s hadn’t passed

  • @riaddict
    @riaddict 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You spoke absolutely facts she carried herself with Grace & class & beyond her beauty she was super humble & extremely down to earth 🥹🥹

  • @MayaMatseletsele
    @MayaMatseletsele 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    I love how gracious she was about everything. It's a type of gratitude that is so rare, too. I watched one interview where she talked about how she loves what she does and even if it gets hard on some days, she realizes that she is living her dream. She is grateful always because sulking about it or not seeing whatever she has to do through would be ungrateful of her. Much like you I was born a little later lol but her energy is something that one doesn't need to know or see her personally to feel. She had a way about her that I had been trying to figure out and this video made me realize that it was her quiet confidence.
    Oh and 4 page letter and I Care 4 You are amazing honestly her whole discography lmao.

  • @cerenasejour
    @cerenasejour หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I also love four page letter by Aaliyah

  • @pinkmoondoll9shihtzu
    @pinkmoondoll9shihtzu 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    this was a sweet video, u made a lot of great points that totally clicked for me on why I always loved aaliyah so much. i used to work with a girl who would pick on me a lot, everyone noticed it. One day she admitted to me that it really gets under her skin how "laid back" i am, like nothing bothers me, so she'd try to ragebait me, just like you said in this video lol! definitely gotta watch out for that but if you're really earnestly self-assured it won't phase you. "She knows she's a that girl but she doesn't need to make you feel like you're not that girl for her to know she's that girl" you nailed it with that statement!

  • @zoe.plc7
    @zoe.plc7 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    I also was too young to have met Aaliyah and her music during her active time but was heavily influenced by my parents (more my mothers) music taste to the point where I kinda grew up with her music.
    Been playing her discogrophy on repeat ever since. Can't imagine how far she would've come if she hadn't passed away, she truely was a pure soul and from what I've seen in interview very much down to earth.
    Fav track is so hard to choose but some top five runners (not in order) would be: More than a woman, At your best (You Are Love), Back & Forth, One In A Million and Try Again

  • @derrickhighsmithjr8005
    @derrickhighsmithjr8005 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Don't Know What to Tell Ya is one of my faves ❤

    • @mylayaboo7403
      @mylayaboo7403 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I like this song by her and if your girl only knew .❤😊

  • @angel-k8i5m
    @angel-k8i5m 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I heard her voice at the beginning of the video and immediately though of MJ and i appreciate confidence being quiet and i think that applies to our life as chtistian women because growing up in chruch as girls whenever they wanna shut u up theyll whip out 1 peter 3 and say women should be meek and quiet but being meek isn't being weak and easily imposed on. being meek is strength under control and being quiet isnt being silent its a calm stillness within yourself and inner peace. Not taking ish from people and being silent. Confidence isnt loud because it doesn't need to be Ego is loud because its value is in being seen and wanting people to think you're confident even though you only like youself when you have their attention. Anyways tysm for this videooo i loved itttt AND I SEE THE BANGS HAVE MADE A COMEBACKKK and the og pfp is here toooo. Luv u bookieeee💗

  • @bonniemartinez-jackson
    @bonniemartinez-jackson 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    GREAT video i’ve been leveling up into this space and this was a great way to see what i’m doing and what i could add. you’re def a quiet confidence ❤

  • @StarGirl11Galaxy
    @StarGirl11Galaxy 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I love Aaliyah (rest in peace), inspired me so much as well, and the music is outstanding (darn u r kelly for tainting some of it)-- A girl like you and heartbroken are my faves

  • @TheGlamourBOXinc
    @TheGlamourBOXinc 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    I love you hair , you are sooo beautiful!! & LOVE your channel . I’m 44. I saw her IRL‼️🥰🥰🥰 Aaliyah was beautiful & graceful. She is truly missed. New subscriber.

    • @sonya.danielle
      @sonya.danielle  28 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Thank you so much 🤗

  • @arianaaxo6823
    @arianaaxo6823 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Ty for just bringing up Aaliyah and just recognizing her as not only an artist but as a young woman and just what she was like. Shes inspired me so much and she was wayy ahead of her time 🥺. My favorite songg also is It’s Whatever.

  • @Shanice-p7p
    @Shanice-p7p 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Do Janet Jackson next!

  • @seven-11
    @seven-11 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    AALIYAH- STREET THING will always be my favorite.

  • @emmy3543
    @emmy3543 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Girl omg your makeup is so beautifel!!!😫😍

  • @daijaporter5389
    @daijaporter5389 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Good video! I like Try Again, One in a Million, and 4 Page Letter, I don’t know it’s hard to choose just one Aaliyah song.

  • @StarlightKii
    @StarlightKii 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm a 90s baby and lemme tell you, I've loved that woman my WHOLE life. I'm so pleased to know that a young woman of your age admires and loves Aaliyah as much as us who were here when she was here. You picked the PERFECT role model! ❤❤❤❤

  • @commandery3574
    @commandery3574 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    ATE THIS LOOK TF F UO, MISS PRETTY!

  • @cinderella458
    @cinderella458 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Yayyy Quiet Girls !! We must stick together

  • @whitneybrown4067
    @whitneybrown4067 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This is 4 Sure Gonna b Excellent Sonya…. Yesss cause Everyone loves Aaliyah💐n I can’t Believe it’s Been 23 Years that She’s Been gone🥲🙏n Thanks🔥🔥🔥👍n Happy Wednesday😀!!!….

  • @theotr1811
    @theotr1811 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Aint none celeb on this planet who gon reach her level.. #queenAaliyah4L

  • @BIGwillTHEGAME
    @BIGwillTHEGAME 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    TH-cam Recommended
    Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

  • @rheaannamunthodoo3604
    @rheaannamunthodoo3604 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Don’t forget “Rock The Boat”

  • @sinethembamagasela1833
    @sinethembamagasela1833 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    FACTs Sonya your accomplishments are not your identity 💯, that is so powerful.

  • @ashley11179
    @ashley11179 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I just wanna say you look stunning 😍💕

  • @Goyarxrd
    @Goyarxrd 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Aaliyah was getting ready to dominate the early 2000s it’s sad she was taken too soon

  • @destinyfierro3587
    @destinyfierro3587 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Fun fact the original third album had a bonus track called messed up. Idk why they put try again on that album if it wasn’t part of that album. One of my favorites

  • @GoodJuju333
    @GoodJuju333 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Aaliyah is my Roman Empire

  • @tabitham.321
    @tabitham.321 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sooo good! My favorite song by her is I don’t wanna 🥰

  • @DumbBroadAdventures
    @DumbBroadAdventures 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    love this video 💕

  • @athenasol1723
    @athenasol1723 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hey im new subscriber love this video❤

  • @savannahv3874
    @savannahv3874 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Loved this video !

  • @shelleyshelley247
    @shelleyshelley247 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    People don't know what they like. They'll be like "you're too quiet" then when you become more extroverted they'll say "why are black people so loud". This never ends.

  • @fromnanaland
    @fromnanaland 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks for the message of your vidéo ! By the way you look so good, where did you buy your wig please ? thanks for your video 🩷

  • @kourtneyjohnson1557
    @kourtneyjohnson1557 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Also the movies Honey & Sparkle were written with her in mind to be the least actress on both

  • @Artandtings
    @Artandtings 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Is your glasses prescription? I so ❤

    • @sonya.danielle
      @sonya.danielle  28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      unfortunately no just for fashion! thank you ❤️❤️

    • @PhoenieFroe313
      @PhoenieFroe313 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@sonya.danielle - they look fly 🙏🏽❤

  • @AmorDior777
    @AmorDior777 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Don't know what to tell ya

  • @cjabrams8803
    @cjabrams8803 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    👀

  • @Ashley-cc7wo
    @Ashley-cc7wo 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    All that only to end up with old weird men. It's sad.

  • @NadineMbonga
    @NadineMbonga หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can this industrial machine that acting like a mean high school kid doesn't make her the heir to Aliya's charisma?

    • @NadineMbonga
      @NadineMbonga หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@sonya.danielle For real, it pisses me off that every fan Tell her she's getting out of here The same energy

    • @Essence-v4c
      @Essence-v4c 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Who?

    • @rayeparis7016
      @rayeparis7016 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      who are you taking about tyla? that’s the only one I saw getting compared to aaliyah but the way she carries herself is very different from aaliyah’s

    • @Essence-v4c
      @Essence-v4c 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@rayeparis7016 I haven’t seen anyone compare her tbh, just rihanna. It’s like she can’t decide who to market herself after so she changes every few months

    • @rayeparis7016
      @rayeparis7016 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@Essence-v4c I’ve seen her be compared to Rih, Bey, Aaliyah, & Christina Milian. I agrée it does change cause it seems like her team pulls from a lot of different people.

  • @CoveredEmpress
    @CoveredEmpress 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Try again, one in a mil. 4page. I care 4 u. Its whatever. Some of my faves❤ fun fact we have the same bday🫶🏼i love her