So... are you a minimalist yourself? How would you describe your lifestyle? Are you collecting more things or trying to trim down your possessions? Looking forward to your thoughts 💜
The more I learn about the planet the more I shift to the minimalistic life style. Everything seems so useless now😂 I love air and light at home so it's a big plus to have less clutter
@@evelinapushkash6827 good thinking! Joy of enjoying clean and healthy environment is above all. Less we buy less we discard means cleaner the environment.
Justine Leconte officiel I’m still searching for a balance in buying clothes and food. But I am happy to say that I don’t buy any detergents anymore. I make my own soap, and use it for clothes as well. Also for the house, vinegar and essential oils. We really don’t need 10 types of cleaning products. Plus, most of them have the same base ingredient, no matter the purpose on thr label. While trying to recreate my own cleaning products, I was reading all the labels and noticed that some are identical ingredients but different smell, so different “purpose”.
I'm definitely a minimalist in skincare products, mainly use soap, solid shampoo, natural oils and butters for skin hydration, homemade masks from natural ingredients... Since I moved in 2017, I also started destashing clothes as well, big time. I'm not yet ready for the capsule wardrobe, but everything too old, too small, not to my taste anymore, gets recycled with no second thoughts. Trying to avoid plastic bottles, and plastic containers. My weak spot is still processed food, because of bad time management and currently health issues. But I'll get back there too...
BTW, what Justine says about shoes works perfectly for partners as well: 1- Don't take them just because they are pretty 2- Don't take them in the hopes that they will improve (they won't) 3- It should feel comfortable right away.
"it's more about getting rid of the physical possessions that don't make me smarter or happier" - that is so true, thank you! I needed to hear that so clearly!
I know someone who collected mugs and cups, and literally had well over a hundred. This person decided to start filling them with goodies, wrap them decoratively, and give them as gifts. Things don't have to end up in a landfill. There are many ways to recycle, up cycle, repurpose, donate, etc. items that are no longer useful to us. Kudos to you, Justine for being an inspiration for thoughtful, realistic reasons for being more minimalist.
As a woman who's old enough to be your mother, let me say how proud of you I am! You are wise beyond your years, and heading in an even better direction. Bravo!
Retirement is a natural incentive for minimalism. I don't need a work wardrobe. I can't wear anything over a 2" heel anymore. We got rid of about 800 books. Who is going to reread 1000 books in their lifetime. We moved to a climate with milder winters - less heavy clothing needed. We had to pay by the pound to move so we really thought about what we wanted and loved (and how much it weighed). I have a capsule wardrobe now, an efficient and low maintenance home, and spend our expendable income on cultural experiences, entertaining and travel. We have a fabulous library that supplies us with books and a fresh fruit and vegetable stand right down the street. I love living with and maintaining less. Next on the agenda -determining what arts and crafts I am truly interested in, not what I think I should be doing.
@Nancy Ferrier This is very thought provoking! Even though I am approximately 15 years away from retirement age, I started challenging myself to life more simply in preparation for the time when I will be living on a fixed income. Every month, I challenge myself to not buy anything in a particular category (January was clothing, and February is non-replenishment beauty items). The one area that worries me is dining out, as I love to go out to eat and to hang out at coffee shops.
@@songbirdforjesus2381 Hope you are trying Kon Mari. Have fewer things that you really love. Hoping to hear more from Justine on her thoughts on that method. It strikes me that careful choices are a thing that comes naturally to the French.
"Instead of collecting things, I try to collect memories." Madame, chapeau. This is why I continue watching your videos, you have a very good perspective regarding life, it is something I look up to.
Love this idea. I think I've done this many times over until very recently due to be strapped for cash but I think it would be really nice to do it as a project. :-)
I can't. Doctor copays. Price gouged meds. Plus need to get out for an evening or a day trip to keep from going stir crazy. Maybe get myself something nice here and there usuable.
Same! Gosh, I can't believe how much makeup I used to buy and how many trends I used to jump on. Now I just use things that I actually like and use and work instead of someone on TH-cam telling me how great something is.
Me too, all I wear is sunscreen and chapstick during the day and palmers clinical intensive relief lotion at night. With my rosacea, my face is too red anyway.
Good for you! I only wear full-face (almost) make-up for special occasions. Lipstick and moisturizer are my daily "make-up." It works for me, may not for everyone. Also saves on make-up remover. :)
I totally agree about buying less. I really like Marie Kondo's books, and show and philosophy. It seems difficult for many of us to wrap our heads around because we have been gradually pushed by advertisers into over consumption. I remember as a child how much less we had, used, needed, AND wanted! I was born in 1946 and have see many changes in buying, use of credit, packaged and processed foods. It is very interesting to look back on these changes. I am glad you are taking the approach you are.
Totally true! For souvenirs I've also found a different solution that works; buy something very functional that you'll regularly use. So for instance a mug (a nice one, not a touristy one) or a nice basic shirt (not a touristy one again). Even if it's not a touristy item it totally reminds me of the destination and it's functional as I actually get to use it almost every day😁 Thanks for your cool videos!
If you are visiting a place where you do not live, you are a tourist. (Ironically, even if all you do is lie on a beach, with never a thought of touring anywhere..) This idea that if you don't do/buy the most obvious/tacky things, you're not a tourist but an Enlightened Traveller.. Is delusional.
@@cheshirefox4726 Well, yes. But the "artisans" are very often aiming for the tourist market too. Probably the most authentic goods, the ones that really represent the way people live in a place, are to be found in the local supermarkets.
I do not buy (anymore): -fast fashion -useless decoration -things wrapped in plastic -prepared food (bcs I cannot stand not knowing what I am eating) -schoolstuff (bcs I might have enough material for my whole life) -jewellery - skincare or makeup (unless I have to replace sth) -tea that comes in teabags bcs I now found way better tea in bulk What I still need to reduce or correct: - my bookshelves (I keep on buying books bcs I am a bookworm, and I need to change that!)
useless decor is something I true don't miss not buying because I completely forget it's a thing until shopping with friends. And for books because I was in the same boat before and I tried to get as many as I could from the library or borrow from friends. The books I already had I picked out my favorites that I would (not might but would) read again and donated the rest to a shelter/women's home. I found donating to a shelter really motivating because I feel like they will appreciate it a lot more than just a big library.
All of the above, and more! We try to avoid "fast" products and packaging as much as possible, i.e. we ditched shower gels and bottled shampoo and switched to soap bars for body and solid shampoo for hair; I use a menstrual cup for me and cloth diapers for the babies instead of disposable products; always carry cloth bags and multi-use veggiebags for groceries. We use all of our stuff til it breaks, or we sell or donate it. And so much more. THANK YOU for this video. More people need to reconsider their choices
I like to take a good cup of coffee with me when I'm doing errands, and enjoy a little "me time". Better than yakking incessantly on the phone as I see so many people doing. But I don't consider eating/drinking a somber, silent enterprise that you have to focus on exclusively.
@@calicoquilter4472 Good for you....but just in case you ever come across the idea behind 'mindfullness and life" you can relate to what Justine and I are coming from.... :)
@Ganga Din I make very good coffee at home in my vacuum pot. Since I make decaf it's not self-medicating - I just like the coffee. Unfortunately, what I can't make at home is espresso so if I want something like that it's going to come from a coffee shop, and I recognize their straight coffee isn't as good as mine
Finally! Someone I can identify with. I had started feeling crazy for doing most things in your video when people around me are doing otherwise. I find people buying clothes in bulk and then selling them cheaper than cost price without even removing the tags. I bring a refillable bottle with me everywhere I go since I do not want to buy bottled water to generate more plastic waste. Also, I carry washable, cotton handkerchiefs instead of single use tissues. We need to mend our ways back towards sustainable lifestyle. Watching your videos is so refreshing, you are the best Justine! 🥰❤
Dear Justine, I call your lifestyle basic, like mine. I am a contractor and renovate houses in Amsterdam. I see so much interior styles and decoration, I do what you do. I wait to buy the perfect lamp, chair, mirror or whatever that fits my taste. I don't wanna spend money on items that are trendy. So just basic shelves and a lot of stainless steel, wood and plain porcelain. Almost no plastic. Tip for travel: I buy a reusable grocery bag everywhere instaat of souvenir. Every time you use a bag, you have a reminder of lovely memories of, in my case, Bali, Australia, Florida, Canada. A boring day lightens up that way. XO Louise
Louise, I will be in Amsterdam for one day in May this year. I do like to buy a little something from places that I been BUT they have to be practical and something I will use often. I guess I will look for a reusable bag in Holland ....anything else you might suggest ? thanks!
@@RosemarieSKikel See Amsterdam in one day is not easy. So many highlights to suggest. Like to see the water, canals and old buildings eat cheese, and visit ancient cafés? Do some groceries and buy the bag for one Euro €: Red at DIRK, Yelliw at Jumbo, Blue at AH. Enjoy from Louise Amsterdam
Reusable totes and shopping bags as souvenirs are a GREAT idea. Now that I think of it, the "souvenir" I use the most from my travels is a textile grocery bag I got in Paris. Bought it because I needed it at the time, but I literally use it all the time now!
Rosemarie S. Kikel a flessenlikker would be a great idea too 😄 i am Dutch and work in Germany. When my co-workers found out about this tool, they wanted to have one too. It is also only one or two euro👌😃 there is a video about it on the channel of learndutch.org
I buy too many pieces of thrifted clothing. I am a sewist and so always see a way to “refashion” a piece. Here in Canada the Marie Kondo series has resulted in lots of people donating thus the selection and sales have increased significantly! It’s like a giant fabric stash. I am working on it. I like the idea of building memories. I have stopped giving gifts at Christmas and birthdays and now give experiences like a concert ticket or membership to the space science center...feels much more authentic. Enjoy your videos as always
I have rarely purchased fast fashion. If I have it's something I've kept for years. I am not a minimalist in my own style or home style but I appreciate it. I'm fascinated by a capsule wardrobe. Love your channel Justine, you are so professional, I am learning so many things about style from you. Thanks Justine x
I'm various occasions I've been to houses of a person that have passed away and that the family are cleaning the house, getting rid of stuff etc. I made the promise to myself that the day I die and someone else has to sort through my things, they will find a clean, organize home with the essentials and not a house full of junk. that's the reason why when it comes to decoration a stuff I'm on the minimalist side. the reason why I have little clothes is to reduce my decision time making and manage my time better.
I really like how pretty shoes are, but i dont buy them because i dont go anywhere where i need to use shoes. I just have the one pair i really like that i use when i have a wedding, etc. I like sneakers more, and i dont like to buy cheap because they dont last and then feet hurt...
@@eyeshadowaddict7637 I suggest you go for the 100% sterling silver shops, that's what I do, I either buy Gold , silver or crystals, if I can't afford I than I wait until I have saved enough money
I know that you already know this but your green jumper looks so lovely with your skin tone, and your nail colours compliment it too. At finding joy in colours. Lovely. And things I've stopped buying: magazines, ready made sauces, and novelty items.
I consider myself a work in progress. When you start to prefer quality over quantity I think everything in your life starts to change. Could you do a video on fine jewelry please.
Yes. I, as most people, used to look for pretty clothes that are cheap, but now I have so many clothes I don't like! This is fast fashion! THIS WEEK I'm going to start getting rid of clothes that don't make me happy or feel pretty and I'm not gonna look too much at the price tag from now on. If I can't afford it, I won't buy it. Better than having lots of clothes making me feel messy.
@Jacquline Ard In clothes, I look at the seams. Would my secondary school textile work teacher approve? What about the material, is it appropriately close-knit and thick for the use? If it has a lot of different fibers, especially if it has more elastane, it will lose its shape, wear out and be hard to recycle or reuse. Natural fibers and recycled materials are the better choise if you really know what to get and will wear it out. Once they break, you can reuse them for a lot of things: rag mattresses, handkerchiefs, sauna cloth, garden chair covers, cloth bags, patchwork, rags, reusing parts like zippers, buttons and patches of the material for fixing something else... More people should know how to sew, it would make people notice bad materials and bad handiwork better and make lives so much less wasteful.
I stopped buying newspapers and magazines about 15 years ago. I stopped buying specific cleaning products - realising washing up liquid, a big bottle of vinegar, bicarb and some essential oils, and a bottle of bleach is all you need.
Cleaning supplies at a dollar store is what.I mostly use but for cat puke on the carpet, Resolve is most effective and won't turn the carpet yellow. Pods are cost efficient I found. One pod does one load. I get 72 packs for about 16 bucks. Liquids went too fast. No more dryer sheets or fabric softener. Only smells good for a short time.
I would call that being disciplined and intentional with purchases... much like your capsule wardrobe. It's a concept that can apply to a lot of areas of our lives. Thank you.
I stopped buying clothes OR anything for my house that doesn't make me gasp and maybe have a tear of joy. 3 years later I have less clothes than my bf AND everything in my house (curtains, mugs etc) makes me smile. Cuz I chose them purely on how they made me feel. Once I have one mug that I love, no need to buy a single more. Also stopped buying two piece clothes. Buy more and more just dresses. No need to compromise. I still have problem with shoes tho. Living in Finland requires it. But everything else is kinda under control. Also when I'm upset, instead of buying something, I looks for something to throw away. Maybe something with bad memory/ doesn't make me happy.
@Medusssa this is very interesting -- just buying dresses. I love dresses, but I have always bought skirts and tops because they seem so versatile. I can wear a skirt 2-3x per week, but mix it with different tops. Lately, I have been wearing mostly dresses because it's so simple: undergarments, dress, and cardigan or jacket = done!
@@lumay1966 me too. I love love dresses mostly because you don't have to think about what to match it with other than shoes and a cardigan I am not a suit jacket type of person I feel too constricted. If it's soft and flexible I love it. Also, you could elevate a dress with a pretty necklace and kitten heels or down with sandals Etc plus it elongates your body.
THIS IS PERFECT. Goals. That's one of my goals this year! I'm 21 and I already have SO MANY CLOTHES it's unbeliavable. And I not even wear 80% of them!
@@Myllkka I would recommend dresses! And blazers to jazz it up/ glam it up for work or parties. You'll feel so much better! go through your closet and throw away clothes that you won't wear this week or haven't wore for 6 month+
Justine, I just today came across your vlog. I’m delighted to e-meet you! This is the sixth consecutive I’ve watched and I must tell you how excited I am. I retired last year from an NGO I founded on combatting modern slavery. It’s now an international academic journal. The documentary, The True Cost was an invaluable tool for connecting people who did not engage in other ways, to the problem. I listened to you in this video (and the others as well), with such happy recognition. Every lesson you’ve taught in your videos demonstrates that you understand the underlying humanitarian costs and impact of all of these areas. It was a difficult thing for me to convince people of; that they could live well, while not harming others and the environment. And I enjoyed the video’s content for their light-hearted level as well! I hope we meet someday! Warm wishes!
For seasonal decor, I love using natural things like real pumpkins which I will eventually eat, or fallen evergreen branches. Then the scrap goes in my garden.
I think minimalism is a good attitude toward life in general. It allows you to pay more attention and be focused on what you really love and need. Lovely video, Justine. Thank you.
I totally agree about being mindful about the way we are impacting the earth and our budget. I noticed that once we adapt this mentality you start to feel more at ease and actually appreciate our things. Also, we can learn how to adapt this philosophy with people, some people just don’t need to be in our lives. 🧘🏽♂️
I like you Justine! you are just the right voice for us to hear at this time in the world. Thank you for spreading common sense and still upholding beauty.
I very much agree with everything you said and I do most of the things you mentioned myself already, but I just feel like we need to point out that minimalism is in many cases quite a privileged lifestyle, despite the money it sometimes saves - it's much easier to afford a magnet than a paragliding experience for example, and for many people cooking from scratch is simply not an option, be it for time or health reasons. This is not meant as a complaint, just adding something to perhaps think about when we're talking minimalism.
I agree! Additionally, wealthier people are more comfortable throwing away say, a tool they may only use once or twice a year, because they know they'll be able to afford to buy it again should they need it. For those less privileged, who often could not re-buy something so easily, throwing it away wouldn't be in their best interests.
I’m with you on almost all of this, particularly the comment about not compromising on home decor. My motto is if it’s something I need I might have to compromise, but if it’s something that’s not essential I will wait until I find the exact perfect thing. Unfortunately I can’t do the preparing food from scratch as I have chronic fatigue which minimises how much energy I can expend. I still go for low carbon footprint frozen veg though so it’s not so bad. Not anywhere near as tasty as fresh but it’s what I have to do. I rarely eat meat of my own accord but will eat it if it’s served up to me. Giving up meat is something that makes a huge difference to the environment. Anyway, I did really enjoy this post and found it very inspiring along with many of the comments below.
So many souveniers are mass produced somewhere far away from where you are visiting. I have never understood the appeal. I do love to buy things that are made by local craftspeople though.
While I do not consider myself a minimalist, I have just declutered my Christmas decorations to handmade or sentimental items. Oh the freedom it gives. Everything in my home at Christmas is meaningful.
I have never heard someone to think the way you think! I just love watching! And your sincere smile values more than anything . Majority of people are so lost in the material world, that's why I believe depression is what destroys people life. We need to stop wanting more "junk" and stop to appreciate life, the smell of flowers, the songs of the birds...and then depression goes and joy returns.
I love this! I started knitting my own clothes (sweaters and a couple of really picky shirts), and it really got me to seriously go over my wardrobe. Fast fashion tends to go out of fashion because of how poorly it’s made, it loses shape and just looks... meh at best. Having the abilities to knit and sew my own stuff has given me the ability to be more critical of how to judge what should or shouldn’t be in my wardrobe, and, much to my boyfriends delight, has caused me to cut off fashion buying completely. And, I only own one foundation, eyeshadow palette, eyeliner, mascara, and blush. I feel lighter and more devoted to what I love. 😊
I lean toward minimalism. When I travel, I use my camera to capture images of what might otherwise have become a purchase. I also focus on "telling the story". As well, I make the focus on those I travel with, capturing them as they enjoy themselves rather than totally focusing on the location itself... googled images can do a much better job than me! When I return home, I create collages or photo books as my souvenir.
I buy 90% my family’s clothing used. We are able to afford better quality clothing than if we had purchased it new. I am in the process of simplifying to a capsule wardrobe from my thrift store attire. Hope that your health continues to improve. Thank you for an excellent video.
Yes, I love buying used clothes too! We have several stores close by with good quality used clothes. I like that my money stays local when I shop there.
I admit i like to splash a 100 or 200 on an item that is fair-trade/bio/quality materials that suit me (almost) perfectly, is in my color palette, will be worn a lot, will flatter my face shape, my body shape, my body type, will go well with the items i already own, will last for many years to come and is in my style. I used to spend much more on fast fashion per year and see people dragging home full bags of that trash just to be thrown away after a few washes. Even second hand pieces I bought as a teen more than a decade ago hold up the quality and all the above mentioned requirements better than fast fashion. I have less of things but they bring me much more joy.
I wear my mother's leather jacket that she bought in the 80's, so it's older than me. I don't know if she bought it new, because it's a "men's" jacket and she was a student, but who knows. Anyway, these things last forever and old ones have character. There's no reason to buy new ones.
Oh Justine! You are the reason I no longer randomly buy clothes! I mostly make my clothes now. Still working on paring down stuff. You are making a difference in the world. Thank you!
It used to be that I'd buy decorations for seasons, but now I just have one thing for each season, and it makes me appreciate and think about the blessings of that seasons so much more.
I’ve quit keeping books I’ve read and won’t be reading again and I’ve quit collecting things!! As Marie Kondo would say, they don’t bring me joy anymore!! They just feel like clutter!! Your videos are always good-thank you for taking the time and energy to do them!!
I'm in Seattle, the coffee nexus of the US; here to-go coffee is more than just drinking your caffeine on the move, it is a security blanket, a baby bottle for adults. It gives you something to do in awkward conversation lulls, of which there are many in Seattle!
Great video Justine...I found myself nodding my head in agreement throughout because I have been doing the exact same things. I have recently moved and downsized considerably. I looked at all my beautiful possessions that had no place to go. I cried initially & thought of paying for storage. But no...Letting go was cathartic. I also prepare my own food, make my own coffee, make my living spaces enjoyable with my own aromatherapy products. I do buy 🍷though...Good red wine!
Justine, love this video. I did the Konmari method of tidying up every room three years ago. It is an emotional journey but in the end so freeing. Still finding, as time goes on, that I’m still getting rid of things I no longer need, use, or that don’t “bring me joy”. And YES my walls are still bare until I find the perfect piece to decorate them. Thanks for sharing.
Glad to hear you're feeling better, Justine! It's a great video, and very current. I read MK book 3 years ago, and started decluttering. Now it's just good very slow, because we're both book worms. I stopped buying uncomfortable shoes quite a while ago. Always had a shoe buying problems as I wear custom made inserts. But I bought very aimed black and nude 3 pairs, that are very soft and comfortable, 2 flats and 1 high heels, that can be worn with everything and anything. I really hate the plastic bottles, and have recently bought a glass bottle with bamboo and plastic top on the inside for water and I love it. I used to have a metal bottle, but I didn't like the taste of water from it. I insist on buying glass bottles of sparkling water, and try to buy as little plastic as possible. Jewellery, same as you pretty much: like the metals or something really specific and/or unique that I really love and enjoy wearing. Do you always buy your fruit and veg from the markets? I presume you have a lot of those in Berlin... I rarely buy paper books nowadays, unless it's something I really want to go back to and read again or reference. Same with DVDs and CDs. Never was into fast fashion, but I bought the basics I needed that were decent quality and lasted me until they didn't fit any more or until they fell apart. Same with shoes. I'm ready trying hard to let go of more stuff, books, etc that I have over the years, but I think a lot of that will hopefully be resolved soon and I'll be able to let go of it. I don't have Netflix, so can't watch MK series, but, from what I understand she doesn't address the psychology behind all the accumulation of all the stuff. I recently bought a book by Francine Jay, The Joy of Less to help me continue on my journey. I think a lot of clutter is a symptom of the 1st world countries and consumerism. I grew up with grandparents born just after WW1 or between the wars, and in the socialist country, so we didn't have much, but what we did have was a really good quality and lasted for a long time, and was well appreciated and looked after. The efforts that went into buying it or manufacturing it are appreciated even today. Thank you for this fantastic video, Justine! Stay well and healthy xx
We haven't used a microwave oven in 13 years after we learned how detrimental microwaving food is to health. Fast food? Chop up a nice fresh salad, add some leftover baked or broiled chicken and a bit of homemade dressing. Done!
I like how your basic principle is to appreciate what you have instead of adding and adding lots of clutter and useless things. Lots of 'Things' don't make you happy, but memories are forever, you have the right idea, I love your 'organic, down to earth way' of thinking Justine x
I, too, appreciate the Marie Kondo "spark joy" concepts. After reading her book, I immediately reorganized my drawers and find that it actually takes less time than how I organized them before. I do want to caution people about getting rid of things ruthlessly. When I watch videos now on home decor and interior design, many of the rooms are so plain that they could belong to anyone or no one. Your home should reflect you! Many of the high end designers pack the rooms with art, books, lots of conversation areas with comfy chairs and low tables for gathering friends and loved ones. Those are the homes I most relate to. Also I am so grateful that Amazon and other sites have the "list" section that allows you to save things for later. That has saved me so many times from impulse buying. I come from a family of women who loved knick knacks and beautiful dishware, so I do have that gene. I am so grateful to have some of those old, antique pieces that I display in a china hutch. Some of my favorite pieces are a pair of pink ceramic flamingos from the 40's that belonged to my Grandma Margie, a large, gold rimmed white serving platter from my Grandma Alta, and a bone china teapot that has a rotating ballerina in the center and still plays "Tea for Two" as the ballerina turns. That was my mom's. Thank you for sharing your common sense suggestions with us!
My souvenirs are clothes items. Arrive to a destination with half full suitcase and I buy a sweater or scarf (in colder city) or pretty blouse (like in Milan).
Love your videos! I used to buy souvenirs when I traveled, now I take pictures instead. I was at a shop in Turkey a few years ago and was drawn to items that I would have loved to buy and take home but took pictures inside the shop of a whole inventory of goods. My pictures give me a lot of pleasure and take me back to the memory of that trip. That has helped ween me off buying things. Now that I always have a camera with me (my iPhone) I just snap a picture of it and take that home with me. I’m amazed at how well that has worked for me.
Understand where are coming from re decorations. For our house it does create and remember memories as we have collected decorations from all the places we have traveled. Now back in Perth, Australia my children remember the decorations we collected in "real" winter so they are snow reminders which are enjoyed. Also understand the "do I really need these now?" Love the deep green jumper on you great colour.
I get around not having pictures on the wall by painting my own. Personally I like to paint and when I have a painting in my head and have successfully brought it to life I always love looking at it and feel so proud of it. It’s unique, it’s my style, it’s what I wanted.
Hi Justine. I'm from the Philippines 🇵🇭 and I am a big fan. Your content has definitely helped me with how to dress for my body type and how to keep it classy. I, too, has become sort of a minimalist over the years (I'm in my early 30's). I have outgrown the habit of buying unwearable shoes and dresses that would not work for my daily routine. Most of the things you have mentioned holds true for me as well. Keep these great content coming. Much love.
I’m so excited you talked about this Justine! I always call myself an “aspiring minimalist” - I’m not quite all the way there, but I’m working towards it!
100% on the same page with you, Justine! Been a minimalist before it had this name. I believe it’s because I was raised all over the world and realized early that one really doesn’t need much. Even though we’re very different, my only brother is the same way. I love beauty in all it’s multiple expressions but I don’t need to own it! 🌷🤗
So TRUE. it you want to own all beautifull things your place would not be HOME but a beauty museum for to collect dust. of cause you still can have some but do not NEED IT>
check, check, check - I agree with all of your points, and I act accordingly. I have followed these guidelines my entire life. When I struggled financially in my twenties and thirties, I just didn't buy anything, waiting for the day that I could afford quality. That day has come, and every meaningful purchase is a sweet and celebrated reward. Go Justine - your voice is important, appreciated and heard thanks to your intelligent, thoughtful, charming and sweet delivery. Bravo, Justine!
I found you a couple months ago and I told my daughter that she should follow you since she is also a TH-camr and Fashion Designer because since I am getting old I think that less I more I don’t follow trends and I am going minimalist... but I love your channel!!! Stylish, beautiful, clean and very elegant!
Love this video Justine!! I agree with everything you’ve said. I used to buy so many magazines, mostly food and home decorating ones. I bought them to get ideas. I made myself stop. It was almost like an addiction. I would look through each a couple times but very soon forget what was in each one that I had liked so much.They really just added to the clutter that I was always trying to conquer - crazy. I’m so happy that I got rid of almost all of them.
I have been going through a similar transition myself! I had a breast cancer scare last summer and after that, I stopped using all traditional deodorants with aluminum. I use the brand Native. It’s becoming pretty popular in the US and it is a natural deodorant that actually works!
I made my own with coconut oil and baking soda but I didn’t like it. Now I use just apple cider vinegar and I’m loving it. I still sweat when it’s really hot but I don’t smell. Both coconut oil and ACV are antibacterial
I enjoyed this video, I am a minimalist, 4 years ago, I decided to donate everything I didn’t love, need or use. I think very much like you on this topic . I now have a capsule wardrobe, and only go shopping if I need a particular item, I do not browse the stores anymore. I have found that now that I am living a minimal lifestyle, I find I appreciate more what I do have.. I also changed my eating and 4 years ago I started to eat plant based Whole Foods. I also do not eat meat,fish,dairy, processed foods, and oil I do have one weakness and I have about 12 healing crystals. I do not buy fast fashion, costume jewelry, shoes that hurt my feet, same as you .I never settle anymore on anything, I think long and hard before I purchase
Merci, Justine! Glad you're feeling better. I love the idea of being a "minimalist in progress" & am now borrowing (stealing ?) that term & applying it to myself. I've got a long way to go, but I've been paring down my physical possessions & generally simplifying my day-to-day routines. For instance, I tried natural deodorant, then made my own for a couple of years (works great, no staining), & now I've transitioned to not wearing any at all. I just make sure my armpits are clean, & there's no odor & no stains on white shirts. Sounds a bit crazy, & but it actually works. And I'm right there with you on the shoes. I finally culled all the beautiful but uncomfortable shoes from my closet. Strangely, it feels like I've got more shoe choices now, possibly because I can actually wear & walk in any pair I choose. Cooking your own meals can make the biggest difference in anyone's life: you eat healthier, you truly appreciate your meals, & you save lots of money!
I read Marie Kondo's book last summer and I got rid of tons of stuff in my apartment, including seven bags of clothes 😅. It seems the air became more breathable. And now when I plan to buy something I use the rule "one in - one out", it helps a lot thinking of what thing I'm going to get rid of, if I buy something new instead. I love the minimalism religion because it taught me to own the stuff I really loved and to value it 😊
My husband and I moved from a 4,000 square foot home, plus an almost 2,000 square foot garage full of farm equipment, parts for vehicles ranging from a bicycle on up through to a transport truck and trailer parts, to Ecuador with about 20 suitcases. We sold or gave away most of our stuff. I moved here first with 2 suitcases and a carry on bag. I felt totally naked! We now live in a very small two bedroom house with no yard, just small patios. I love it! It's so freeing! Now we don't just go out and buy something impulsively. We wait, keep a wish list of things we'd like to get, keep an eye out everywhere we go and wait for the right one at the right price. I've been trying to find the perfect coat tree for the past 6 months and nothing yet.
You make me smile! I've been a sort of minimalist for quite some time without realizing it and my friends just don't understand me. Don't buy things I want but buy things I need. As for decorations you should frame your fondest memories; only the fondest memories that are great pictures (account for perspective, detail and excitement). Those pictures help your mind relive them. As for fashion and trends, I never understood it; I am probably the most boring person to look at but the most interesting person to listen to. As much as people love to see things, music to your ears help you feels things. Enjoyed the video!
I am the same way with shoes! Not only have I had two foot surgeries, I am on the go frequently enough That I don’t want to take the time to decide which shoes are good for travel, which shoes are good for being on my feet all day, which shoes I can wear for just part of the day… All of my shoes need to work for me almost all of the time. And if they don’t, out they go!
Lu Harvey Skechers GoWalk2 models are the best for me. I bought 5 pairs of these. Each pair supposed to last 2 years at least but they're washable too so I am still using my 1st pair only.
I knew you'd move over to our dark side, Justine. It was only natural for someone as smart, wise and ever-evolving as you seem to be. I would call your current phase "intentionalism", which is a great start. Once you gain momentum you might be able to weed out even more objects and habits that are now an integral part of your routine but in reality you could do well without. Keep it up!
I love your tips Justine. These are all completely doable and applicable to me. Just a note: you should try filling in your eyebrows with a color that’s slightly lighter than your natural hair color and that’s slightly cooler than your hair color. Go for a more taupe color than a sienna brown. It would soften your look and it would look great with your blue eyes and fair complexion. Love you and your content!
I'm so happy to know someone else who does not buy seasonal decor! I've even been accused of not liking Christmas simply because I don't deck every possible hall and corner and surface. I have a few cherished items and it takes perhaps an hour to decorate. Others become exhausted and frazzled buying and hanging and displaying, while I enjoy the season peacefully.
I am a blue blood ( meaning a royal and aristocrat ) here in Europe . What I learned you DO NOT OVERDEVORATE the house . Christmas tree is a must and we had white table clothing white china and only pine bit for decoration on the table with flower. NOT a HUGE one only a size it is not take to much attantion nor dessapear in the meaning. and candles. It smell so nice and fresh from the pine which also cleans the air and the lungs for to breath in. You do not over do it. Just little bit more like somewhere but THAT IS ALL. Christmas is about a PEACE of a spirit and not a HOLA HOLA PARTY IT WAS and is HOLY for us where we give and gave restpect to PEACEFULLNESS So if you feel as you do you maybe is a blue blood too with out to know it
Love the bit about shoes. "Oh, they'll become more comfortable and flexible with time. The soles that you can put in the blah blah blah. NO." hahaha. I WISH I'd heard and internalized this advice years ago--because I wouldn't buy shoes that I knew I'd hate walking in (like sky-high stilettos), but I did believe the whole "they just need broken in" line. Sure, some leather will soften a bit with time, but that doesn't mean that putting on the shoes should initially feel like torture! So I am really picky about shoes now. Edited to add: I believe that what you are doing IS minimalism! (I think only the most hard-core feel that you have to live out of a suitcase.) I'm on the same journey. For me, minimalism is about "trimming the fat," so to speak: not having things that aren't useful or joyful to me, things that I only have just because everyone else has them. What's the point of having that kind of stuff? And Tidying Up with Marie Kondo is so great! My bf and I are going to do our house soon :)
While I can certainly understand not buying more things in the categories you listed, but I grew up with very little in the way of material possessions, so I’ll just have to be a “Moderate Minimalist!” 😀
I do SO AGREE with you on SCALING down. No more souvenirs such as magnets, etc... the only ones, BESIDES photos, could be a piece of GOOD QUALITY, USEFUL, clothing or shoes. Thanks for yet another delightful episode. 👍😊💖
I LOVE your philosophy. I find that while I have many items in my closet that will not ever be "trendy," I am only keeping those things for which the upkeep, cleaning, dusting (ugh!) and re-arranging only brings me joy. I no longer have to worry about being fashionable at my work, so I have saved many items for wear that only please me, and might "go with" items like vests or jackets that I do keep au courant. I LOVE your statement about keeping one or two walls empty in your home. Good place to meditate, and eventually, find what pleases you.
Have been a minimalist for years, which includes my clothing, shoes, home and lifestyle choices. Being that I enjoy creating/making, I do have some extra "stash" items. Definitely prefer quality over quantity.
When I'm looking at my husband I doubt, if I could call myself a minimalist ;D But in fact I am rather minimalistic. I would say, that I have even troubles buying things - I plan and look for the best option and then I go to see how it looks, I come back home to think of it again and then eventualy I buy it. And last year I was even a bit forced to be more minimalistic because my husband and I moved abroad with our things packed in only one car. But there is one thing I really love to buy, when I'm travelling - I always visit a museum and choose one or two paintings that I like and I buy a postcard with the painting on it and on the back I write a date and place of travell. And this is the main decor in my house :)
Love your idea for an art postcard as your only souvenir! I spent a month in France last summer and got a few more things than that (a couple of small pamphlet-sized books from museums we visited), but nothing else. I might get something special locally made on future trips, though it would need to be very special and also otherwise have a place in my house/life.
Love these ideas. “Want” vs “need” theory. I moved a few times in the past 6 years and while saving up for a house I stopped buying things that I “wanted” and only now buy things that I “need”. Living in NYC temptation is everywhere. I ask myself do I “need” this and will this make me look good and feel confident and comfortable. Over the years I’ve discovered what looks great (tailored) and I say no to what I now know makes me look frumpy. I am busty so I have to be very careful about my tops otherwise I end up looking pregnant. I also stopped buying expensive mascara and eyeshadow compacts with colors I end up never using (e.g. Chanel quad or Dior). I only buy expensive lipsticks as it is very close to my skin. I find as I get older eyeliner, mascara and lipstick is all I need. Now i splurge more on skincare.
This made me feel so much better about my naked home... I know exactly what I want, and I want to buy the perfect piece for that space ONE time only. I am committed to living authentically and not wastefully. Cheers!
I agree with you 100%. I think it's a lifelong process. Stuff seems to sneak into my house and it takes awareness and discipline to remove bits and pieces regularly.
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So... are you a minimalist yourself? How would you describe your lifestyle? Are you collecting more things or trying to trim down your possessions? Looking forward to your thoughts 💜
The more I learn about the planet the more I shift to the minimalistic life style. Everything seems so useless now😂 I love air and light at home so it's a big plus to have less clutter
@@evelinapushkash6827 good thinking! Joy of enjoying clean and healthy environment is above all. Less we buy less we discard means cleaner the environment.
Justine Leconte officiel I’m still searching for a balance in buying clothes and food. But I am happy to say that I don’t buy any detergents anymore. I make my own soap, and use it for clothes as well. Also for the house, vinegar and essential oils. We really don’t need 10 types of cleaning products. Plus, most of them have the same base ingredient, no matter the purpose on thr label. While trying to recreate my own cleaning products, I was reading all the labels and noticed that some are identical ingredients but different smell, so different “purpose”.
Hi Justine. I am a huge fan. Can you also share your view on how mqny bags a woman should own? Thanks!
I'm definitely a minimalist in skincare products, mainly use soap, solid shampoo, natural oils and butters for skin hydration, homemade masks from natural ingredients...
Since I moved in 2017, I also started destashing clothes as well, big time. I'm not yet ready for the capsule wardrobe, but everything too old, too small, not to my taste anymore, gets recycled with no second thoughts.
Trying to avoid plastic bottles, and plastic containers.
My weak spot is still processed food, because of bad time management and currently health issues. But I'll get back there too...
BTW, what Justine says about shoes works perfectly for partners as well:
1- Don't take them just because they are pretty
2- Don't take them in the hopes that they will improve (they won't)
3- It should feel comfortable right away.
Letícia Fonte Boa This is so true!
@Watcherwoman You're right, it's not always love at first sight. I was kind of joking a little bit. :)
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Excellent! Same with friends, too.
Cant get to the like button fast enough! lol
Dear Justine, I would call it Essentialism, not Minimalism. Buy the essentials and appreciate life. Nice to see you again.
oh. Did you just find the exact right word after I spend half a day thinking about it while preparing this video?...
*spent
@@justineleconte You're wellcome to use it anytime :-) Minimalism is a diminishing term in my mind, so I prefere this expression better
This is what I am also going for this 2019 -- Essentialism! Thanks Justine and Lorelei! 😊
Lorelei yeah I don't call myself a minimalist either, because labels just make people weird and angry when you decide to step out of the box.
"it's more about getting rid of the physical possessions that don't make me smarter or happier" - that is so true, thank you! I needed to hear that so clearly!
Shopping as a hobby is unhealthy and so wasteful. Justine, that green sweater makes your eyes look so green and gorgeous.
I agree, perfect color and I love the hairy fabric! What is this fabric called?
@Jane lane Maybe for people
like you.
Zuzanna Sołtys cashmere
I agree with you on both counts.
Couldn’t agree with you more on shoes!
I know someone who collected mugs and cups, and literally had well over a hundred. This person decided to start filling them with goodies, wrap them decoratively, and give them as gifts. Things don't have to end up in a landfill. There are many ways to recycle, up cycle, repurpose, donate, etc. items that are no longer useful to us.
Kudos to you, Justine for being an inspiration for thoughtful, realistic reasons for being more minimalist.
"I stopped buying things that don't make me smarter or happier" this video in a nutshell 🙆
As a woman who's old enough to be your mother, let me say how proud of you I am! You are wise beyond your years, and heading in an even better direction. Bravo!
Retirement is a natural incentive for minimalism. I don't need a work wardrobe. I can't wear anything over a 2" heel anymore. We got rid of about 800 books. Who is going to reread 1000 books in their lifetime. We moved to a climate with milder winters - less heavy clothing needed. We had to pay by the pound to move so we really thought about what we wanted and loved (and how much it weighed). I have a capsule wardrobe now, an efficient and low maintenance home, and spend our expendable income on cultural experiences, entertaining and travel. We have a fabulous library that supplies us with books and a fresh fruit and vegetable stand right down the street. I love living with and maintaining less. Next on the agenda -determining what arts and crafts I am truly interested in, not what I think I should be doing.
@Nancy Ferrier This is very thought provoking!
Even though I am approximately 15 years away from retirement age, I started challenging myself to life more simply in preparation for the time when I will be living on a fixed income. Every month, I challenge myself to not buy anything in a particular category (January was clothing, and February is non-replenishment beauty items). The one area that worries me is dining out, as I love to go out to eat and to hang out at coffee shops.
Too bad there will probably no longer be such a thing as retirement when I'm your age...
Yes!!!, this is exactly what I am doing. So much happier now.
@@cgg2621 Not to worry. UBI may very well be the solution.
@@songbirdforjesus2381 Hope you are trying Kon Mari. Have fewer things that you really love. Hoping to hear more from Justine on her thoughts on that method. It strikes me that careful choices are a thing that comes naturally to the French.
You're one of those few TH-camrs who talk so much sense in this current era of consumerism. Thank you for that. You brightened my day, Justine. Xo
"Instead of collecting things, I try to collect memories." Madame, chapeau.
This is why I continue watching your videos, you have a very good perspective regarding life, it is something I look up to.
Does this channel spark joy?
Oh yes :D
They all do!
I am on a 90-day No Buy. I can’t buy anything to bring into my home unless it’s groceries. I love this video!
Love this idea. I think I've done this many times over until very recently due to be strapped for cash but I think it would be really nice to do it as a project. :-)
Sarah Ledbetter thank you so much for the great idea! I am going to try it 🙏🏼 Seems like going on a diet 😧
Sarah Ledbetter how did it go?
I can't. Doctor copays. Price gouged meds. Plus need to get out for an evening or a day trip to keep from going stir crazy. Maybe get myself something nice here and there usuable.
Er.... Yeah. This is just My Life............
Something I stopped buying - makeup. I used to buy way more much than I needed or used.
Same! Gosh, I can't believe how much makeup I used to buy and how many trends I used to jump on. Now I just use things that I actually like and use and work instead of someone on TH-cam telling me how great something is.
@@katherinealbin I'm trying to get there and I have made progress.
Me too, all I wear is sunscreen and chapstick during the day and palmers clinical intensive relief lotion at night. With my rosacea, my face is too red anyway.
Good for you! I only wear full-face (almost) make-up for special occasions. Lipstick and moisturizer are my daily "make-up." It works for me, may not for everyone. Also saves on make-up remover. :)
Baby oil is a cheap effective make-up remover. Learned this from a model.
I totally agree about buying less. I really like Marie Kondo's books, and show and philosophy. It seems difficult for many of us to wrap our heads around because we have been gradually pushed by advertisers into over consumption. I remember as a child how much less we had, used, needed, AND wanted! I was born in 1946 and have see many changes in buying, use of credit, packaged and processed foods. It is very interesting to look back on these changes. I am glad you are taking the approach you are.
Totally true! For souvenirs I've also found a different solution that works; buy something very functional that you'll regularly use. So for instance a mug (a nice one, not a touristy one) or a nice basic shirt (not a touristy one again). Even if it's not a touristy item it totally reminds me of the destination and it's functional as I actually get to use it almost every day😁 Thanks for your cool videos!
I used get postcards, but now I just take pictures, and those suffice as souvenirs for me generally. Especially since I like to pack light.
I keep a few coins in the local currency. & paper items that end up in my journal.
If you are visiting a place where you do not live, you are a tourist. (Ironically, even if all you do is lie on a beach, with never a thought of touring anywhere..) This idea that if you don't do/buy the most obvious/tacky things, you're not a tourist but an Enlightened Traveller.. Is delusional.
@@cheshirefox4726 Well, yes. But the "artisans" are very often aiming for the tourist market too. Probably the most authentic goods, the ones that really represent the way people live in a place, are to be found in the local supermarkets.
I try to buy real traditional clothes or jewelry that I can mix with my existing wardrobe. Like a traditional skirt or earrings etc.
I do not buy (anymore):
-fast fashion
-useless decoration
-things wrapped in plastic
-prepared food (bcs I cannot stand not knowing what I am eating)
-schoolstuff (bcs I might have enough material for my whole life)
-jewellery
- skincare or makeup (unless I have to replace sth)
-tea that comes in teabags bcs I now found way better tea in bulk
What I still need to reduce or correct:
- my bookshelves (I keep on buying books bcs I am a bookworm, and I need to change that!)
Very pragmatic & structured list 😊
Bookworm too!
useless decor is something I true don't miss not buying because I completely forget it's a thing until shopping with friends. And for books because I was in the same boat before and I tried to get as many as I could from the library or borrow from friends. The books I already had I picked out my favorites that I would (not might but would) read again and donated the rest to a shelter/women's home. I found donating to a shelter really motivating because I feel like they will appreciate it a lot more than just a big library.
if the books make you happy does it really need to stop? sure theres libraries but still
Nah, you can never have too many books.
All of the above, and more! We try to avoid "fast" products and packaging as much as possible, i.e. we ditched shower gels and bottled shampoo and switched to soap bars for body and solid shampoo for hair; I use a menstrual cup for me and cloth diapers for the babies instead of disposable products; always carry cloth bags and multi-use veggiebags for groceries. We use all of our stuff til it breaks, or we sell or donate it. And so much more. THANK YOU for this video. More people need to reconsider their choices
'How can anyone have a coffe on the go,walk ,drink and then also enjoy it" I thought I am the only one who thinks this.
I like to take a good cup of coffee with me when I'm doing errands, and enjoy a little "me time". Better than yakking incessantly on the phone as I see so many people doing. But I don't consider eating/drinking a somber, silent enterprise that you have to focus on exclusively.
@@calicoquilter4472 Good for you....but just in case you ever come across the idea behind 'mindfullness and life" you can relate to what Justine and I are coming from.... :)
@Ganga Din I make very good coffee at home in my vacuum pot. Since I make decaf it's not self-medicating - I just like the coffee. Unfortunately, what I can't make at home is espresso so if I want something like that it's going to come from a coffee shop, and I recognize their straight coffee isn't as good as mine
i also think it...i prefer to drink a coffie for a longer time and enjoy it instead of drink it very fast
Cappuccino is best enjoyed at home. First thing in the morning, for me.
Finally! Someone I can identify with. I had started feeling crazy for doing most things in your video when people around me are doing otherwise. I find people buying clothes in bulk and then selling them cheaper than cost price without even removing the tags. I bring a refillable bottle with me everywhere I go since I do not want to buy bottled water to generate more plastic waste. Also, I carry washable, cotton handkerchiefs instead of single use tissues. We need to mend our ways back towards sustainable lifestyle. Watching your videos is so refreshing, you are the best Justine! 🥰❤
It’s actually liberating only buying shoes you can walk in!
Dear Justine, I call your lifestyle basic, like mine. I am a contractor and renovate houses in Amsterdam. I see so much interior styles and decoration, I do what you do. I wait to buy the perfect lamp, chair, mirror or whatever that fits my taste. I don't wanna spend money on items that are trendy. So just basic shelves and a lot of stainless steel, wood and plain porcelain. Almost no plastic.
Tip for travel: I buy a reusable grocery bag everywhere instaat of souvenir. Every time you use a bag, you have a reminder of lovely memories of, in my case, Bali, Australia, Florida, Canada. A boring day lightens up that way. XO Louise
I bought reusable grocery bags when I went to Spain. It’s a nice memory and practical.
Louise, I will be in Amsterdam for one day in May this year. I do like to buy a little something from places that I been BUT they have to be practical and something I will use often. I guess I will look for a reusable bag in Holland ....anything else you might suggest ? thanks!
@@RosemarieSKikel See Amsterdam in one day is not easy. So many highlights to suggest. Like to see the water, canals and old buildings eat cheese, and visit ancient cafés? Do some groceries and buy the bag for one Euro €: Red at DIRK, Yelliw at Jumbo, Blue at AH. Enjoy from Louise Amsterdam
Reusable totes and shopping bags as souvenirs are a GREAT idea. Now that I think of it, the "souvenir" I use the most from my travels is a textile grocery bag I got in Paris. Bought it because I needed it at the time, but I literally use it all the time now!
Rosemarie S. Kikel a flessenlikker would be a great idea too 😄 i am Dutch and work in Germany. When my co-workers found out about this tool, they wanted to have one too. It is also only one or two euro👌😃 there is a video about it on the channel of learndutch.org
I buy too many pieces of thrifted clothing. I am a sewist and so always see a way to “refashion” a piece. Here in Canada the Marie Kondo series has resulted in lots of people donating thus the selection and sales have increased significantly! It’s like a giant fabric stash. I am working on it. I like the idea of building memories. I have stopped giving gifts at Christmas and birthdays and now give experiences like a concert ticket or membership to the space science center...feels much more authentic. Enjoy your videos as always
Caught myself on the thought that i didnt want this video to end, kinda hoped it would last and last forever 😊 loved it!
I have rarely purchased fast fashion. If I have it's something I've kept for years. I am not a minimalist in my own style or home style but I appreciate it. I'm fascinated by a capsule wardrobe. Love your channel Justine, you are so professional, I am learning so many things about style from you. Thanks Justine x
I'm various occasions I've been to houses of a person that have passed away and that the family are cleaning the house, getting rid of stuff etc. I made the promise to myself that the day I die and someone else has to sort through my things, they will find a clean, organize home with the essentials and not a house full of junk. that's the reason why when it comes to decoration a stuff I'm on the minimalist side. the reason why I have little clothes is to reduce my decision time making and manage my time better.
Same here!
That's loving your family😊
The shoes that I can't walk in part is 100% relatable, I also Just stopped buying fantasy jewelry completely and I go for the handcrafted pieces
Zahra Day I find handcrafted pieces problematic. So many of them are cheap and tarnish quickly, though they cost the same as high-quality pieces!
I really like how pretty shoes are, but i dont buy them because i dont go anywhere where i need to use shoes. I just have the one pair i really like that i use when i have a wedding, etc. I like sneakers more, and i dont like to buy cheap because they dont last and then feet hurt...
@@eyeshadowaddict7637 I suggest you go for the 100% sterling silver shops, that's what I do, I either buy Gold , silver or crystals, if I can't afford I than I wait until I have saved enough money
I know that you already know this but your green jumper looks so lovely with your skin tone, and your nail colours compliment it too. At finding joy in colours. Lovely. And things I've stopped buying: magazines, ready made sauces, and novelty items.
Yes, she does look lovely in that color and her nails do compliment her coloring as well; I’m glad someone else noticed!
Exactly what I taught when I saw her nails. Glad to see more people noticed it ☺️☺️☺️
I also loved that green on her. Beautiful!
Indeed. It matches Justine's eyes amazingly well, it's quite transfixing ( in a good, non creepy way).
@@cish6047 exactly and Justine's eyes 🇦🇺
I consider myself a work in progress. When you start to prefer quality over quantity I think everything in your life starts to change.
Could you do a video on fine jewelry please.
Yes. I, as most people, used to look for pretty clothes that are cheap, but now I have so many clothes I don't like! This is fast fashion! THIS WEEK I'm going to start getting rid of clothes that don't make me happy or feel pretty and I'm not gonna look too much at the price tag from now on. If I can't afford it, I won't buy it. Better than having lots of clothes making me feel messy.
@Jacquline Ard I want to know too!
@Jacquline Ard In clothes, I look at the seams. Would my secondary school textile work teacher approve? What about the material, is it appropriately close-knit and thick for the use? If it has a lot of different fibers, especially if it has more elastane, it will lose its shape, wear out and be hard to recycle or reuse. Natural fibers and recycled materials are the better choise if you really know what to get and will wear it out.
Once they break, you can reuse them for a lot of things: rag mattresses, handkerchiefs, sauna cloth, garden chair covers, cloth bags, patchwork, rags, reusing parts like zippers, buttons and patches of the material for fixing something else...
More people should know how to sew, it would make people notice bad materials and bad handiwork better and make lives so much less wasteful.
I would also love a video on buying jewelry!
That’s a great way to say it!
“preferring quality over quantity”
I stopped buying newspapers and magazines about 15 years ago. I stopped buying specific cleaning products - realising washing up liquid, a big bottle of vinegar, bicarb and some essential oils, and a bottle of bleach is all you need.
Cleaning supplies at a dollar store is what.I mostly use but for cat puke on the carpet, Resolve is most effective and won't turn the carpet yellow. Pods are cost efficient I found. One pod does one load. I get 72 packs for about 16 bucks. Liquids went too fast. No more dryer sheets or fabric softener. Only smells good for a short time.
I would call that being disciplined and intentional with purchases... much like your capsule wardrobe. It's a concept that can apply to a lot of areas of our lives. Thank you.
I stopped buying clothes OR anything for my house that doesn't make me gasp and maybe have a tear of joy. 3 years later I have less clothes than my bf AND everything in my house (curtains, mugs etc) makes me smile. Cuz I chose them purely on how they made me feel. Once I have one mug that I love, no need to buy a single more. Also stopped buying two piece clothes. Buy more and more just dresses. No need to compromise. I still have problem with shoes tho. Living in Finland requires it. But everything else is kinda under control. Also when I'm upset, instead of buying something, I looks for something to throw away. Maybe something with bad memory/ doesn't make me happy.
@Medusssa this is very interesting -- just buying dresses. I love dresses, but I have always bought skirts and tops because they seem so versatile. I can wear a skirt 2-3x per week, but mix it with different tops. Lately, I have been wearing mostly dresses because it's so simple: undergarments, dress, and cardigan or jacket = done!
@@lumay1966 me too. I love love dresses mostly because you don't have to think about what to match it with other than shoes and a cardigan I am not a suit jacket type of person I feel too constricted. If it's soft and flexible I love it. Also, you could elevate a dress with a pretty necklace and kitten heels or down with sandals Etc plus it elongates your body.
I love dresses as well. Will wear my linen dresses from Spring thru Fall. I don't have much more than sandals and boots.
THIS IS PERFECT. Goals. That's one of my goals this year! I'm 21 and I already have SO MANY CLOTHES it's unbeliavable. And I not even wear 80% of them!
@@Myllkka I would recommend dresses! And blazers to jazz it up/ glam it up for work or parties. You'll feel so much better! go through your closet and throw away clothes that you won't wear this week or haven't wore for 6 month+
Justine, I just today came across your vlog. I’m delighted to e-meet you! This is the sixth consecutive I’ve watched and I must tell you how excited I am. I retired last year from an NGO I founded on combatting modern slavery. It’s now an international academic journal. The documentary, The True Cost was an invaluable tool for connecting people who did not engage in other ways, to the problem. I listened to you in this video (and the others as well), with such happy recognition. Every lesson you’ve taught in your videos demonstrates that you understand the underlying humanitarian costs and impact of all of these areas. It was a difficult thing for me to convince people of; that they could live well, while not harming others and the environment. And I enjoyed the video’s content for their light-hearted level as well! I hope we meet someday! Warm wishes!
My wife and I try not to buy disposables. Everything from napkins to sanitary products. It saves space in our house, our budget and in landfills.
For seasonal decor, I love using natural things like real pumpkins which I will eventually eat, or fallen evergreen branches. Then the scrap goes in my garden.
I think minimalism is a good attitude toward life in general. It allows you to pay more attention and be focused on what you really love and need. Lovely video, Justine. Thank you.
I totally agree about being mindful about the way we are impacting the earth and our budget. I noticed that once we adapt this mentality you start to feel more at ease and actually appreciate our things. Also, we can learn how to adapt this philosophy with people, some people just don’t need to be in our lives. 🧘🏽♂️
I like you Justine! you are just the right voice for us to hear at this time in the world. Thank you for spreading common sense and still upholding beauty.
I very much agree with everything you said and I do most of the things you mentioned myself already, but I just feel like we need to point out that minimalism is in many cases quite a privileged lifestyle, despite the money it sometimes saves - it's much easier to afford a magnet than a paragliding experience for example, and for many people cooking from scratch is simply not an option, be it for time or health reasons. This is not meant as a complaint, just adding something to perhaps think about when we're talking minimalism.
I agree! Additionally, wealthier people are more comfortable throwing away say, a tool they may only use once or twice a year, because they know they'll be able to afford to buy it again should they need it. For those less privileged, who often could not re-buy something so easily, throwing it away wouldn't be in their best interests.
@@liafleur yes it's a syndrome we like to all "growing up poor"...we tend to hoard somewhat. Hard mentality to break out of. We're trying :)
This was a great insight. People put others down for not being “minimalist enough”. Remember that no matter what at least you’re trying.
I’m with you on almost all of this, particularly the comment about not compromising on home decor. My motto is if it’s something I need I might have to compromise, but if it’s something that’s not essential I will wait until I find the exact perfect thing. Unfortunately I can’t do the preparing food from scratch as I have chronic fatigue which minimises how much energy I can expend. I still go for low carbon footprint frozen veg though so it’s not so bad. Not anywhere near as tasty as fresh but it’s what I have to do. I rarely eat meat of my own accord but will eat it if it’s served up to me. Giving up meat is something that makes a huge difference to the environment. Anyway, I did really enjoy this post and found it very inspiring along with many of the comments below.
I'm almost mid-50's and you just listed everything I've cut out for about a decade! Welcome to a simpler peaceful life.
So many souveniers are mass produced somewhere far away from where you are visiting. I have never understood the appeal. I do love to buy things that are made by local craftspeople though.
While I do not consider myself a minimalist, I have just declutered my Christmas decorations to handmade or sentimental items. Oh the freedom it gives. Everything in my home at Christmas is meaningful.
I have never heard someone to think the way you think! I just love watching! And your sincere smile values more than anything . Majority of people are so lost in the material world, that's why I believe depression is what destroys people life. We need to stop wanting more "junk" and stop to appreciate life, the smell of flowers, the songs of the birds...and then depression goes and joy returns.
I love this! I started knitting my own clothes (sweaters and a couple of really picky shirts), and it really got me to seriously go over my wardrobe. Fast fashion tends to go out of fashion because of how poorly it’s made, it loses shape and just looks... meh at best. Having the abilities to knit and sew my own stuff has given me the ability to be more critical of how to judge what should or shouldn’t be in my wardrobe, and, much to my boyfriends delight, has caused me to cut off fashion buying completely. And, I only own one foundation, eyeshadow palette, eyeliner, mascara, and blush. I feel lighter and more devoted to what I love. 😊
I lean toward minimalism. When I travel, I use my camera to capture images of what might otherwise have become a purchase. I also focus on "telling the story". As well, I make the focus on those I travel with, capturing them as they enjoy themselves rather than totally focusing on the location itself... googled images can do a much better job than me! When I return home, I create collages or photo books as my souvenir.
I buy 90% my family’s clothing used. We are able to afford better quality clothing than if we had purchased it new. I am in the process of simplifying to a capsule wardrobe from my thrift store attire.
Hope that your health continues to improve. Thank you for an excellent video.
Amanda Kerr
I buy clothes new, only in solid color and when they are at least 80%-90% discounted or below USD20.
Yes, I love buying used clothes too! We have several stores close by with good quality used clothes. I like that my money stays local when I shop there.
I admit i like to splash a 100 or 200 on an item that is fair-trade/bio/quality materials that suit me (almost) perfectly, is in my color palette, will be worn a lot, will flatter my face shape, my body shape, my body type, will go well with the items i already own, will last for many years to come and is in my style. I used to spend much more on fast fashion per year and see people dragging home full bags of that trash just to be thrown away after a few washes. Even second hand pieces I bought as a teen more than a decade ago hold up the quality and all the above mentioned requirements better than fast fashion. I have less of things but they bring me much more joy.
I wear my mother's leather jacket that she bought in the 80's, so it's older than me. I don't know if she bought it new, because it's a "men's" jacket and she was a student, but who knows. Anyway, these things last forever and old ones have character. There's no reason to buy new ones.
You inspired me earlier this year to not buy any new clothing items in 2022.
So far I am succeeding 😁thank you Justine.
Justine, you're my hero! I love how thoughtfully and succinctly you communicate.
Oh Justine! You are the reason I no longer randomly buy clothes! I mostly make my clothes now.
Still working on paring down stuff.
You are making a difference in the world.
Thank you!
I love the green jumper on you :)
Good points! I collect magnets from each place where I travel, but I now realize that I don't really enjoy looking at them!
and they look really tacky, too. pekadeb
Not as bad as stickers. Lol
I collect these too, but really love looking at them. They are all on a fridge in my basement. Perfect!
I bought some in Portugal and just love them
It used to be that I'd buy decorations for seasons, but now I just have one thing for each season, and it makes me appreciate and think about the blessings of that seasons so much more.
I’ve quit keeping books I’ve read and won’t be reading again and I’ve quit collecting things!! As Marie Kondo would say, they don’t bring me joy anymore!! They just feel like clutter!! Your videos are always good-thank you for taking the time and energy to do them!!
I'm in Seattle, the coffee nexus of the US; here to-go coffee is more than just drinking your caffeine on the move, it is a security blanket, a baby bottle for adults. It gives you something to do in awkward conversation lulls, of which there are many in Seattle!
Great video Justine...I found myself nodding my head in agreement throughout because I have been doing the exact same things. I have recently moved and downsized considerably. I looked at all my beautiful possessions that had no place to go. I cried initially & thought of paying for storage. But no...Letting go was cathartic. I also prepare my own food, make my own coffee, make my living spaces enjoyable with my own aromatherapy products. I do buy 🍷though...Good red wine!
Aromatherapy is something I really enjoy too. And smells can transport you to another place, can't they? 😁
Justine, love this video. I did the Konmari method of tidying up every room three years ago. It is an emotional journey but in the end so freeing. Still finding, as time goes on, that I’m still getting rid of things I no longer need, use, or that don’t “bring me joy”. And YES my walls are still bare until I find the perfect piece to decorate them. Thanks for sharing.
Glad to hear you're feeling better, Justine!
It's a great video, and very current. I read MK book 3 years ago, and started decluttering. Now it's just good very slow, because we're both book worms. I stopped buying uncomfortable shoes quite a while ago. Always had a shoe buying problems as I wear custom made inserts. But I bought very aimed black and nude 3 pairs, that are very soft and comfortable, 2 flats and 1 high heels, that can be worn with everything and anything.
I really hate the plastic bottles, and have recently bought a glass bottle with bamboo and plastic top on the inside for water and I love it. I used to have a metal bottle, but I didn't like the taste of water from it. I insist on buying glass bottles of sparkling water, and try to buy as little plastic as possible.
Jewellery, same as you pretty much: like the metals or something really specific and/or unique that I really love and enjoy wearing.
Do you always buy your fruit and veg from the markets? I presume you have a lot of those in Berlin...
I rarely buy paper books nowadays, unless it's something I really want to go back to and read again or reference. Same with DVDs and CDs.
Never was into fast fashion, but I bought the basics I needed that were decent quality and lasted me until they didn't fit any more or until they fell apart. Same with shoes.
I'm ready trying hard to let go of more stuff, books, etc that I have over the years, but I think a lot of that will hopefully be resolved soon and I'll be able to let go of it.
I don't have Netflix, so can't watch MK series, but, from what I understand she doesn't address the psychology behind all the accumulation of all the stuff.
I recently bought a book by Francine Jay, The Joy of Less to help me continue on my journey.
I think a lot of clutter is a symptom of the 1st world countries and consumerism. I grew up with grandparents born just after WW1 or between the wars, and in the socialist country, so we didn't have much, but what we did have was a really good quality and lasted for a long time, and was well appreciated and looked after. The efforts that went into buying it or manufacturing it are appreciated even today.
Thank you for this fantastic video, Justine! Stay well and healthy xx
We haven't used a microwave oven in 13 years after we learned how detrimental microwaving food is to health. Fast food? Chop up a nice fresh salad, add some leftover baked or broiled chicken and a bit of homemade dressing. Done!
I like how your basic principle is to appreciate what you have instead of adding and adding lots of clutter and useless things. Lots of 'Things' don't make you happy, but memories are forever, you have the right idea, I love your 'organic, down to earth way' of thinking Justine x
I, too, appreciate the Marie Kondo "spark joy" concepts. After reading her book, I immediately reorganized my drawers and find that it actually takes less time than how I organized them before. I do want to caution people about getting rid of things ruthlessly. When I watch videos now on home decor and interior design, many of the rooms are so plain that they could belong to anyone or no one. Your home should reflect you! Many of the high end designers pack the rooms with art, books, lots of conversation areas with comfy chairs and low tables for gathering friends and loved ones. Those are the homes I most relate to. Also I am so grateful that Amazon and other sites have the "list" section that allows you to save things for later. That has saved me so many times from impulse buying. I come from a family of women who loved knick knacks and beautiful dishware, so I do have that gene. I am so grateful to have some of those old, antique pieces that I display in a china hutch. Some of my favorite pieces are a pair of pink ceramic flamingos from the 40's that belonged to my Grandma Margie, a large, gold rimmed white serving platter from my Grandma Alta, and a bone china teapot that has a rotating ballerina in the center and still plays "Tea for Two" as the ballerina turns. That was my mom's. Thank you for sharing your common sense suggestions with us!
My souvenirs are clothes items. Arrive to a destination with half full suitcase and I buy a sweater or scarf (in colder city) or pretty blouse (like in Milan).
I love, love, love that color lipstick! I know French girls love their red, but a natural color like that looks so sweet, fresh, and pretty!!
Love your videos! I used to buy souvenirs when I traveled, now I take pictures instead. I was at a shop in Turkey a few years ago and was drawn to items that I would have loved to buy and take home but took pictures inside the shop of a whole inventory of goods. My pictures give me a lot of pleasure and take me back to the memory of that trip. That has helped ween me off buying things. Now that I always have a camera with me (my iPhone) I just snap a picture of it and take that home with me. I’m amazed at how well that has worked for me.
Understand where are coming from re decorations. For our house it does create and remember memories as we have collected decorations from all the places we have traveled. Now back in Perth, Australia my children remember the decorations we collected in "real" winter so they are snow reminders which are enjoyed. Also understand the "do I really need these now?" Love the deep green jumper on you great colour.
Not buying fast fashion anymore, nor fantasy jewelry, and am very cautious with shoes too. Still buying waaay to many notebooks 😂
Notebooks!! Me too. But I use them. And, they make great gifts!
Love notebooks, makes me happy 😊
I use all of my notebooks, so I say money well spent!
What is it about an pretty blank notebook that makes it so seductive? I am such a sucker for them - can't even go into the stationer's anymore.
Great ideas! I'm a mug girl too. I have stopped myself since last year. Having children makes minimalism tougher.
true with the kids, nevertheless they cope well (have 4 kids myself) and like the idea of being mindful with their items and toys!
I get around not having pictures on the wall by painting my own. Personally I like to paint and when I have a painting in my head and have successfully brought it to life I always love looking at it and feel so proud of it. It’s unique, it’s my style, it’s what I wanted.
I like my daughter's artor my 5 yr old twin grandchildrens art to look at. There is a heart connection.
Good video Justine!
I am from Nepal and that paragliding experience is truly one of a kind. 😊
I saw here in campus ... I guess
On my Bucket List!
Hi Justine. I'm from the Philippines 🇵🇭 and I am a big fan. Your content has definitely helped me with how to dress for my body type and how to keep it classy. I, too, has become sort of a minimalist over the years (I'm in my early 30's). I have outgrown the habit of buying unwearable shoes and dresses that would not work for my daily routine. Most of the things you have mentioned holds true for me as well. Keep these great content coming. Much love.
I’m so excited you talked about this Justine! I always call myself an “aspiring minimalist” - I’m not quite all the way there, but I’m working towards it!
I've learned so much from you Justine. From fabrics to minimalism. Thank you for the knowledge you share
100% on the same page with you, Justine! Been a minimalist before it had this name. I believe it’s because I was raised all over the world and realized early that one really doesn’t need much. Even though we’re very different, my only brother is the same way.
I love beauty in all it’s multiple expressions but I don’t need to own it!
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So TRUE. it you want to own all beautifull things your place would not be HOME but a
beauty museum for to collect dust.
of cause you still can have some but do not NEED IT>
check, check, check - I agree with all of your points, and I act accordingly. I have followed these guidelines my entire life. When I struggled financially in my twenties and thirties, I just didn't buy anything, waiting for the day that I could afford quality. That day has come, and every meaningful purchase is a sweet and celebrated reward. Go Justine - your voice is important, appreciated and heard thanks to your intelligent, thoughtful, charming and sweet delivery. Bravo, Justine!
I found you a couple months ago and I told my daughter that she should follow you since she is also a TH-camr and Fashion Designer because since I am getting old I think that less I more I don’t follow trends and I am going minimalist... but I love your channel!!! Stylish, beautiful, clean and very elegant!
Love this video Justine!! I agree with everything you’ve said. I used to buy so many magazines, mostly food and home decorating ones. I bought them to get ideas. I made myself stop. It was almost like an addiction. I would look through each a couple times but very soon forget what was in each one that I had liked so much.They really just added to the clutter that I was always trying to conquer - crazy. I’m so happy that I got rid of almost all of them.
I really like your way of thinking.
You inspire me 😊
I have been going through a similar transition myself! I had a breast cancer scare last summer and after that, I stopped using all traditional deodorants with aluminum. I use the brand Native. It’s becoming pretty popular in the US and it is a natural deodorant that actually works!
I made my own with coconut oil and baking soda but I didn’t like it. Now I use just apple cider vinegar and I’m loving it. I still sweat when it’s really hot but I don’t smell. Both coconut oil and ACV are antibacterial
I enjoyed this video, I am a minimalist, 4 years ago, I decided to donate everything I didn’t love, need or use. I think very much like you on this topic . I now have a capsule wardrobe, and only go shopping if I need a particular item, I do not browse the stores anymore. I have found that now that I am living a minimal lifestyle, I find I appreciate more what I do have..
I also changed my eating and 4 years ago I started to eat plant based Whole Foods. I also do not eat meat,fish,dairy, processed foods, and oil
I do have one weakness and I have about 12 healing crystals.
I do not buy fast fashion, costume jewelry, shoes that hurt my feet, same as you .I never settle anymore on anything, I think long and hard before I purchase
Excellent! The waste that we produce is frightening and so destructive. Everyone needs to become minimalists.
Merci, Justine! Glad you're feeling better. I love the idea of being a "minimalist in progress" & am now borrowing (stealing ?) that term & applying it to myself. I've got a long way to go, but I've been paring down my physical possessions & generally simplifying my day-to-day routines. For instance, I tried natural deodorant, then made my own for a couple of years (works great, no staining), & now I've transitioned to not wearing any at all. I just make sure my armpits are clean, & there's no odor & no stains on white shirts. Sounds a bit crazy, & but it actually works. And I'm right there with you on the shoes. I finally culled all the beautiful but uncomfortable shoes from my closet. Strangely, it feels like I've got more shoe choices now, possibly because I can actually wear & walk in any pair I choose. Cooking your own meals can make the biggest difference in anyone's life: you eat healthier, you truly appreciate your meals, & you save lots of money!
I read Marie Kondo's book last summer and I got rid of tons of stuff in my apartment, including seven bags of clothes 😅. It seems the air became more breathable. And now when I plan to buy something I use the rule "one in - one out", it helps a lot thinking of what thing I'm going to get rid of, if I buy something new instead. I love the minimalism religion because it taught me to own the stuff I really loved and to value it 😊
You are just the cutest person. My whole family love you xxx
sweet :-)
My husband and I moved from a 4,000 square foot home, plus an almost 2,000 square foot garage full of farm equipment, parts for vehicles ranging from a bicycle on up through to a transport truck and trailer parts, to Ecuador with about 20 suitcases. We sold or gave away most of our stuff. I moved here first with 2 suitcases and a carry on bag. I felt totally naked! We now live in a very small two bedroom house with no yard, just small patios. I love it! It's so freeing! Now we don't just go out and buy something impulsively. We wait, keep a wish list of things we'd like to get, keep an eye out everywhere we go and wait for the right one at the right price. I've been trying to find the perfect coat tree for the past 6 months and nothing yet.
You make me smile! I've been a sort of minimalist for quite some time without realizing it and my friends just don't understand me. Don't buy things I want but buy things I need. As for decorations you should frame your fondest memories; only the fondest memories that are great pictures (account for perspective, detail and excitement). Those pictures help your mind relive them. As for fashion and trends, I never understood it; I am probably the most boring person to look at but the most interesting person to listen to. As much as people love to see things, music to your ears help you feels things. Enjoyed the video!
👍 great tips! Something we all have to follow because mother Earth is getting sicker.
I recommend also to shop secondhand.
A win-win 🙏🏻
I am the same way with shoes! Not only have I had two foot surgeries, I am on the go frequently enough That I don’t want to take the time to decide which shoes are good for travel, which shoes are good for being on my feet all day, which shoes I can wear for just part of the day… All of my shoes need to work for me almost all of the time. And if they don’t, out they go!
Lu Harvey
Skechers GoWalk2 models are the best for me. I bought 5 pairs of these. Each pair supposed to last 2 years at least but they're washable too so I am still using my 1st pair only.
I knew you'd move over to our dark side, Justine. It was only natural for someone as smart, wise and ever-evolving as you seem to be. I would call your current phase "intentionalism", which is a great start. Once you gain momentum you might be able to weed out even more objects and habits that are now an integral part of your routine but in reality you could do well without. Keep it up!
Oh I love it! I am an intentionalist too!
I love your tips Justine. These are all completely doable and applicable to me. Just a note: you should try filling in your eyebrows with a color that’s slightly lighter than your natural hair color and that’s slightly cooler than your hair color. Go for a more taupe color than a sienna brown. It would soften your look and it would look great with your blue eyes and fair complexion. Love you and your content!
I'm so happy to know someone else who does not buy seasonal decor! I've even been accused of not liking Christmas simply because I don't deck every possible hall and corner and surface. I have a few cherished items and it takes perhaps an hour to decorate. Others become exhausted and frazzled buying and hanging and displaying, while I enjoy the season peacefully.
I am a blue blood ( meaning a royal and aristocrat ) here in Europe . What I learned you DO NOT OVERDEVORATE the house . Christmas tree is a must and we had white table clothing white china and only pine bit for decoration on the table with flower. NOT a HUGE one only a size it is not take to much attantion nor dessapear in the meaning. and candles. It smell so nice and fresh from the pine which also cleans the air and the lungs for to breath in.
You do not over do it.
Just little bit more like somewhere but THAT IS ALL.
Christmas is about a PEACE of a spirit and not a HOLA HOLA PARTY
IT WAS and is HOLY for us where we give and gave restpect to PEACEFULLNESS
So if you feel as you do you maybe is a blue blood too with out to know it
Love the bit about shoes. "Oh, they'll become more comfortable and flexible with time. The soles that you can put in the blah blah blah. NO." hahaha. I WISH I'd heard and internalized this advice years ago--because I wouldn't buy shoes that I knew I'd hate walking in (like sky-high stilettos), but I did believe the whole "they just need broken in" line. Sure, some leather will soften a bit with time, but that doesn't mean that putting on the shoes should initially feel like torture! So I am really picky about shoes now.
Edited to add: I believe that what you are doing IS minimalism! (I think only the most hard-core feel that you have to live out of a suitcase.) I'm on the same journey. For me, minimalism is about "trimming the fat," so to speak: not having things that aren't useful or joyful to me, things that I only have just because everyone else has them. What's the point of having that kind of stuff? And Tidying Up with Marie Kondo is so great! My bf and I are going to do our house soon :)
Stilettos just look painful. Glad I don't need to wear them any more for any reason.
I'm working towards buying less and less disposable or single-use items.
Jennifer Decker Me too. I bought silicone baking sheets so I could stop using tinfoil or parchment paper, for instance.
While I can certainly understand not buying more things in the categories you listed, but I grew up with very little in the way of material possessions, so I’ll just have to be a “Moderate Minimalist!”
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I do SO AGREE with you on SCALING down. No more souvenirs such as magnets, etc... the only ones, BESIDES photos, could be a piece of GOOD QUALITY, USEFUL, clothing or shoes.
Thanks for yet another delightful episode. 👍😊💖
I LOVE your philosophy. I find that while I have many items in my closet that will not ever be "trendy," I am only keeping those things for which the upkeep, cleaning, dusting (ugh!) and re-arranging only brings me joy. I no longer have to worry about being fashionable at my work, so I have saved many items for wear that only please me, and might "go with" items like vests or jackets that I do keep au courant. I LOVE your statement about keeping one or two walls empty in your home. Good place to meditate, and eventually, find what pleases you.
Have been a minimalist for years, which includes my clothing, shoes, home and lifestyle choices. Being that I enjoy creating/making, I do have some extra "stash" items. Definitely prefer quality over quantity.
When I'm looking at my husband I doubt, if I could call myself a minimalist ;D But in fact I am rather minimalistic. I would say, that I have even troubles buying things - I plan and look for the best option and then I go to see how it looks, I come back home to think of it again and then eventualy I buy it. And last year I was even a bit forced to be more minimalistic because my husband and I moved abroad with our things packed in only one car. But there is one thing I really love to buy, when I'm travelling - I always visit a museum and choose one or two paintings that I like and I buy a postcard with the painting on it and on the back I write a date and place of travell. And this is the main decor in my house :)
Love your idea for an art postcard as your only souvenir! I spent a month in France last summer and got a few more things than that (a couple of small pamphlet-sized books from museums we visited), but nothing else. I might get something special locally made on future trips, though it would need to be very special and also otherwise have a place in my house/life.
Love these ideas. “Want” vs “need” theory.
I moved a few times in the past 6 years and while saving up for a house I stopped buying things that I “wanted” and only now buy things that I “need”. Living in NYC temptation is everywhere. I ask myself do I “need” this and will this make me look good and feel confident and comfortable. Over the years I’ve discovered what looks great (tailored) and I say no to what I now know makes me look frumpy. I am busty so I have to be very careful about my tops otherwise I end up looking pregnant.
I also stopped buying expensive mascara and eyeshadow compacts with colors I end up never using (e.g. Chanel quad or Dior). I only buy expensive lipsticks as it is very close to my skin. I find as I get older eyeliner, mascara and lipstick is all I need. Now i splurge more on skincare.
This made me feel so much better about my naked home... I know exactly what I want, and I want to buy the perfect piece for that space ONE time only. I am committed to living authentically and not wastefully. Cheers!
I agree with you 100%. I think it's a lifelong process. Stuff seems to sneak into my house and it takes awareness and discipline to remove bits and pieces regularly.