I know I’m just 15 but all my friends in Dubai are Toxic, fake, and cyber bully me. Congrats! This video got recommended to me and I truly now know that I’m not the only one who feels like this :(
People are fake, relationships are fake, feelings are fake..etc, you have to be always ready for activities eather mentally or imotionally or materially.... Lot of people around you but you feel lonely, never expect help whenever you need like from real friends!!!! I had that experience in Dubai realized it late!
I feel you man! It's like most people there live for the next event in town and then they won't stop talking about it until they go to another event and the cycle keeps going on.. As for the "i'll get back to you" part, i've found this to be true for most of the middle east and not just Dubai.
I have found the same Vlad! People seem to do something then it's "done that, what's next?" No time to relax and be "real". I'm guilty of it too in someways! Keep up the good work with the videos!
Great video my friend . yes it does take a while to get use to the fake people in this city . I've been here 5 yrs and I've only just realised it. Glad that it's not just me :)
I think any place that people come just to make money is full of fake people because it attracts opportunist... but then thats where the job opportunity is... there's allot of nice people in villages or rural areas but lack job oppurnity .n the business ethics isnt kindness but competitiveness n harshness.this applies for any top conglomerate environment.most of them r trying to outdo u.not be ur friend.nothing personal just business but a terrible vibe to raise kids in
Good video! But I think it's not Dubai. Fear of missing out: This is our generation and mainly in western and wealthy nations: We know that there are so many things possible for us and we wanna do it all and if we cannot do it all, we feel bad. We can never get enough, we feel we didn't do enough, therefore we feel this sense of something is still missing. About being not so honest: I lived in 8 countries and I learnt that from 90% of the people you cannot expect honesty. Being straightforward and honest is a very difficult thing for most people. And when I say 90%, I'm being extremely generous. Regardless nationality! But of course in different cultures people are not so straight or not so honest for different reasons to different degrees/extent. Take for example, Japan, Germany or Morocco. I experienced the same in all these countries. However, the reason is different in each cultures. I know people in Dubai are all from different cultures originally, but after some time they all become alike. You know the saying, the people you surround yourself with, you become. For example, German culture is the most selfish culture, I've ever seen. And you know what I noticed, foreigners keep changing here and even though they keep critisizing Germans for beings selfish, they also become like that. People not texting you back: people are damn busy with their own life and they focus on themselves: their job, their body, their car, whatever. Relationships are not so important anymore. This is not what we planned, but this is what happened to us. Priorities shifted, people became superficial ... It's the same in Germany where people actually plan to live their whole life. PS: I've never been to either Canada or the UAE. But I wanted to give you my insights about these issues in other parts of the world.
The Globetrotting Detective Fully agree! Just the way the world are now, as well as people. Yet I am one of the less superficial people. Still want to practice honesty and believe in relationships.
Hi Vlad The possibility to have “second options” is normal in our fast technologized culture with WhatsApp etc.. You don't have to say it face to face anymore. Everyone plays with these excuses and then you feel often that you are the second option. I live in Germany and here are the same problems with those “fake people”. I would say this is not a Dubai phenomenon !!! By the way i love your TH-cam Chanel - you are doing great ! At the moment I work on my dream to move to Dubai. I am a physiotherapist and i’m looking for a new challenge. I hope to see you soon on youtube or Dubai ;-) Have a good Easter
Like before completing the vid, That is so true.. I thought I am the only person, maybe you find a little of these ppl everywhere but in UAE it's overrated.. like if you found one honest person that is karma, The fact is no body that busy as they say.. who want to see you or help you will just do it !
Wish you are not one of them.Here a very thoughtful and sensitive girl. Felt sad, lonely, distressed... Not a place for everyone specially if you move by yourself. Middle East lover though.
Dubai is Dubai just like any other place. You come with different cultures, behaviours and it shoots you in the face when expectation is different from reality. Dubai is sort of a transit come here with a plan do what you got to do and jump out as fast as you can. If your not careful you can waste a big chunk of your life then start complaining. For example i come from a country where weekends are Saturday and Sunday, Here weekend is a Friday and Saturday for people who have 2 days off. I'm a massive football die hard in my country i never worked on weekends cos it was match day only football and Rally for 48hrs when i moved to Dubai somedays football is on a sunday which is like a Monday(first day of the week) it was really tough but no complaints that's how it has been it was up to me to adapt and sorted myself out with online football streaming on mobile though it was completely different no chanting during games and drinks with mates but that's life i came with a target and i knew this will be for a short time. Dubai isn't a place to plan your life the world has got so much to offer. Go get the money and get on the move!
No body cares about your achievements this guy is giving us his opinion about people in Dubai if they are fake then they are fake and there is nothing you can do to change that but they still phony and fake and that's the point that's it don't fckn hate on him if he makes a video speaking about his experience .
My kids go to private school in dubai n many many kids tell my son n daughter ' if u dont buy me a toy i will not be ur friend'.. a whole lot of them.i lost count.cos so many times n so many of them.but yeah. I wouldnt choose dubai to raise good kids.but its tough.cos in a nicer place with nicer people theres less jobs
I live in USA and I don't find it to be the case. On the contrary, people for the most part are bit conservative. In 23 years living in USA I had come across people with money and with no money and some times no difference is noticeable.
Alsam aliom i realy like the way you're honest and real!! well i have been thinking to moving to dubai but still need a help to develop better understanding of how life are like there, the point behind my will to work there is that they are applying high services standards gov and commercial which kinda of make better quiality of living and and wider options for my kids , so my point is how much would it cost to buy a 4room house in decent area such like akoya oxygen, i am not very sure of the location but it seems good area to live at
Yeah that must be one of the reasons but the fact that I went to the U.S without a family and made rlly good friends from places like walking around in the park
Sounds the same as the whole world to me. Humans often do want to always achieve something bigger and want the next biggest event to happen. That's why our civilization is so advanced. Secondly, people often are so busy they FORGET to call someone back. I've had people act like it was some conspiracy that I did not call them back when in reality I cannot answer my phone at work then after work I'm working on my MBA so yes I forget about them. When they then get dramatic about it I will then start to avoid them because it is just a pain in the ass to keep a friend happy who is constantly accusing people of being fake. The more you complain that your friends are fake the more your friends will avoid you. Think about it.
I know I’m just 15 but all my friends in Dubai are Toxic, fake, and cyber bully me. Congrats! This video got recommended to me and I truly now know that I’m not the only one who feels like this :(
@@indrajithb7778 bro shes 15
People are fake, relationships are fake, feelings are fake..etc, you have to be always ready for activities eather mentally or imotionally or materially.... Lot of people around you but you feel lonely, never expect help whenever you need like from real friends!!!! I had that experience in Dubai realized it late!
I feel you man! It's like most people there live for the next event in town and then they won't stop talking about it until they go to another event and the cycle keeps going on.. As for the "i'll get back to you" part, i've found this to be true for most of the middle east and not just Dubai.
Thank God it's a sleepy town in July and August.
I have found the same Vlad! People seem to do something then it's "done that, what's next?" No time to relax and be "real". I'm guilty of it too in someways!
Keep up the good work with the videos!
Great video my friend . yes it does take a while to get use to the fake people in this city . I've been here 5 yrs and I've only just realised it. Glad that it's not just me :)
I think any place that people come just to make money is full of fake people because it attracts opportunist... but then thats where the job opportunity is... there's allot of nice people in villages or rural areas but lack job oppurnity .n the business ethics isnt kindness but competitiveness n harshness.this applies for any top conglomerate environment.most of them r trying to outdo u.not be ur friend.nothing personal just business but a terrible vibe to raise kids in
DANG IT 😂 Being raised here made me think that I’m not normal and there’s something wrong with me. Everyone thinks abt money and I hate that
Good video! But I think it's not Dubai. Fear of missing out: This is our generation and mainly in western and wealthy nations: We know that there are so many things possible for us and we wanna do it all and if we cannot do it all, we feel bad. We can never get enough, we feel we didn't do enough, therefore we feel this sense of something is still missing. About being not so honest: I lived in 8 countries and I learnt that from 90% of the people you cannot expect honesty. Being straightforward and honest is a very difficult thing for most people. And when I say 90%, I'm being extremely generous. Regardless nationality! But of course in different cultures people are not so straight or not so honest for different reasons to different degrees/extent. Take for example, Japan, Germany or Morocco. I experienced the same in all these countries. However, the reason is different in each cultures. I know people in Dubai are all from different cultures originally, but after some time they all become alike. You know the saying, the people you surround yourself with, you become. For example, German culture is the most selfish culture, I've ever seen. And you know what I noticed, foreigners keep changing here and even though they keep critisizing Germans for beings selfish, they also become like that. People not texting you back: people are damn busy with their own life and they focus on themselves: their job, their body, their car, whatever. Relationships are not so important anymore. This is not what we planned, but this is what happened to us. Priorities shifted, people became superficial ... It's the same in Germany where people actually plan to live their whole life. PS: I've never been to either Canada or the UAE. But I wanted to give you my insights about these issues in other parts of the world.
The Globetrotting Detective Fully agree! Just the way the world are now, as well as people. Yet I am one of the less superficial people. Still want to practice honesty and believe in relationships.
Not sure if your "ironic" shirt was an intended joke, but given the topic it gave me a good LOL. 😂
Beth K haha good catch, i noticed after i shot the video, decided to keep it in ;)
Hi Vlad
The possibility to have “second options” is normal in our fast technologized culture with WhatsApp etc.. You don't have to say it face to face anymore. Everyone plays with these excuses and then you feel often that you are the second option.
I live in Germany and here are the same problems with those “fake people”. I would say this is not a Dubai phenomenon !!!
By the way i love your TH-cam Chanel - you are doing great !
At the moment I work on my dream to move to Dubai. I am a physiotherapist and i’m looking for a new challenge.
I hope to see you soon on youtube or Dubai ;-)
Have a good Easter
Vlad, thanks for the videos. You did a good job. Should I go directly to Job agency or send them my CV first? Thank you.
Like before completing the vid,
That is so true.. I thought I am the only person, maybe you find a little of these ppl everywhere but in UAE it's overrated.. like if you found one honest person that is karma,
The fact is no body that busy as they say.. who want to see you or help you will just do it !
Wish you are not one of them.Here a very thoughtful and sensitive girl. Felt sad, lonely, distressed... Not a place for everyone specially if you move by yourself. Middle East lover though.
Dubai is Dubai just like any other place. You come with different cultures, behaviours and it shoots you in the face when expectation is different from reality. Dubai is sort of a transit come here with a plan do what you got to do and jump out as fast as you can. If your not careful you can waste a big chunk of your life then start complaining. For example i come from a country where weekends are Saturday and Sunday, Here weekend is a Friday and Saturday for people who have 2 days off. I'm a massive football die hard in my country i never worked on weekends cos it was match day only football and Rally for 48hrs when i moved to Dubai somedays football is on a sunday which is like a Monday(first day of the week) it was really tough but no complaints that's how it has been it was up to me to adapt and sorted myself out with online football streaming on mobile though it was completely different no chanting during games and drinks with mates but that's life i came with a target and i knew this will be for a short time. Dubai isn't a place to plan your life the world has got so much to offer. Go get the money and get on the move!
No body cares about your achievements this guy is giving us his opinion about people in Dubai if they are fake then they are fake and there is nothing you can do to change that but they still phony and fake and that's the point that's it don't fckn hate on him if he makes a video speaking about his experience .
My kids go to private school in dubai n many many kids tell my son n daughter ' if u dont buy me a toy i will not be ur friend'.. a whole lot of them.i lost count.cos so many times n so many of them.but yeah. I wouldnt choose dubai to raise good kids.but its tough.cos in a nicer place with nicer people theres less jobs
u seem lonely in Dubai ...
Everyone is
i see ur point Vlad... anw, get well soon
I live in USA and I don't find it to be the case. On the contrary, people for the most part are bit conservative. In 23 years living in USA I had come across people with money and with no money and some times no difference is noticeable.
Hector Serna Go to Los Angeles lol
Just be real with yourself. And, hope you feel better...
Alsam aliom
i realy like the way you're honest and real!! well i have been thinking to moving to dubai but still need a help to develop better understanding of how life are like there, the point behind my will to work there is that they are applying high services standards gov and commercial which kinda of make better quiality of living and and wider options for my kids , so my point is how much would it cost to buy a 4room house in decent area such like akoya oxygen, i am not very sure of the location but it seems good area to live at
Your videos are so useful
Could you please give some tips about how to find a job in the field of sales in a short time?
Hi Jana, you might find some useful information on my channel:)
thank you OKSY
hi, sir, i have a couple of queries would u like to answer.
awww I'm sorry, you must get lonely because you don't have family
Yeah that must be one of the reasons but the fact that I went to the U.S without a family and made rlly good friends from places like walking around in the park
Sounds the same as the whole world to me. Humans often do want to always achieve something bigger and want the next biggest event to happen. That's why our civilization is so advanced. Secondly, people often are so busy they FORGET to call someone back. I've had people act like it was some conspiracy that I did not call them back when in reality I cannot answer my phone at work then after work I'm working on my MBA so yes I forget about them. When they then get dramatic about it I will then start to avoid them because it is just a pain in the ass to keep a friend happy who is constantly accusing people of being fake. The more you complain that your friends are fake the more your friends will avoid you. Think about it.
In short people here are politically correct. You know because of some rules and stuff that if you offend someone they can sue you LOL