I can't believe there are still parents like this out there. Where it takes an actual suicide attempt for them to realise something is wrong. It makes me hate things.
truth. most of asian parents are sooooo orthodox and i've got to admit my mom is one of them (orthodox) and it's difficult to talk to them about everything. felt like lonely sometimes, you've got parents but feel like you don't have them at the same time.
I think it s easy for you to say it since you probs have white parents but I have asian parents and I have exactly the same problem with mine but thank god we have nhs in the uk otherwise I wouldn't be able to say this rn
This one hurts. IMO Its hard to portray a suicide attempt/depression in TV and have it be tasteful in any way, this is handled so gracefully the entire time
I've seen lots of clips from this show and they usually get things wrong. However, this was a really good portrayal of mental health and cultural stigma. It often takes something drastic for someone to ask for help and having a supportive family is a big part of that. I was lucky because my family congratulated me for finally taking the step to start therapy. They knew I'd been struggling and always had my back. I can't imagine how much more difficult it is for those who grow up in an environment where mental illness is seen as a weakness
I remember watching this when it came out on TV a few years back. I recall desperately wishing my parents would believe me when I wanted to seek help for the anxiety and depression I was experiencing.
1:31 this moment made me tear up a little. my mom is asian and has the exact same viewpoint - she doesn't trust psychiatrists at all and tells me they're just out for money and that we shouldn't talk to strangers about our problems. she drinks on a weekly basis and has anger management issues, and I've been trying to get her to get some help, but she remains adamant that she doesn't need any help, especially from strangers.
8.03 The symptoms she describes amazingly sounds like undiagnosed/untreated ADHD, very commonly overlooked or misdiagnosed in girls and women as just depression and anxiety, when they may actually be comorbities. I relate to this.
@@JoelEmmettMcGarrity it's not opression, it's that conditions like ADHD, autism and other neurological conditions like that can be overlooked in girls/women as they very often display different symptoms than boys/men. One of the differences is for example that they can mask their condition better than boys
do i need to try to kill myself to be able to get help, to be able to get my "caring family"s care and attention and their understanding. they never understood
Sadly people still don't believe us even after attempts. They think we're seeking attention or are psychopaths that need to be locked up. The world is messed up.
Sadly, family is either part of the problem or part of the solution. If they can't acknowledge your problems, they can't be part of the solution. It's a scary but necessary part of fighting depression, cutting toxic people EVEN if they are family. I wish you strength and courage.
I can't believe there are still parents like this out there. Where it takes an actual suicide attempt for them to realise something is wrong. It makes me hate things.
Some parents still think the same way even after
truth. most of asian parents are sooooo orthodox and i've got to admit my mom is one of them (orthodox) and it's difficult to talk to them about everything. felt like lonely sometimes, you've got parents but feel like you don't have them at the same time.
@@aliyahreid41 yeah and when you tell them it was insensitive and victimise themselves 🥲👍
I think it s easy for you to say it since you probs have white parents but I have asian parents and I have exactly the same problem with mine but thank god we have nhs in the uk otherwise I wouldn't be able to say this rn
@@tszwaicheung2133 even white parents ignore their children’s needs to uphold some “visual” standard of their family unit.
This one hurts. IMO Its hard to portray a suicide attempt/depression in TV and have it be tasteful in any way, this is handled so gracefully the entire time
I've seen lots of clips from this show and they usually get things wrong. However, this was a really good portrayal of mental health and cultural stigma.
It often takes something drastic for someone to ask for help and having a supportive family is a big part of that. I was lucky because my family congratulated me for finally taking the step to start therapy. They knew I'd been struggling and always had my back. I can't imagine how much more difficult it is for those who grow up in an environment where mental illness is seen as a weakness
I remember watching this when it came out on TV a few years back. I recall desperately wishing my parents would believe me when I wanted to seek help for the anxiety and depression I was experiencing.
The last minutes of her ranting and the mom hugging her made me start sobbing
Wonderful and heartbreaking representation of depression and anxiety
1:31
this moment made me tear up a little. my mom is asian and has the exact same viewpoint - she doesn't trust psychiatrists at all and tells me they're just out for money and that we shouldn't talk to strangers about our problems. she drinks on a weekly basis and has anger management issues, and I've been trying to get her to get some help, but she remains adamant that she doesn't need any help, especially from strangers.
8.03 The symptoms she describes amazingly sounds like undiagnosed/untreated ADHD, very commonly overlooked or misdiagnosed in girls and women as just depression and anxiety, when they may actually be comorbities. I relate to this.
Yes yes we know, women are oppressed, down with the patriarchy 🙄
@@JoelEmmettMcGarrity That's what you drew from that? Really? 🙃
@@JoelEmmettMcGarrity it's not opression, it's that conditions like ADHD, autism and other neurological conditions like that can be overlooked in girls/women as they very often display different symptoms than boys/men. One of the differences is for example that they can mask their condition better than boys
It took me 32 years of my life to learn that my lifelong anxiety was because of untreated ADHD.
"She won't love me the same."
And that's a BAD thing? Sounds like the way she loves you now kind of sucks.
Why is it, that getting help, is seen as being weak? It's a way to keep us strong. Weak people are blind to the problems before them.
Sweet & touching!
do i need to try to kill myself to be able to get help, to be able to get my "caring family"s care and attention and their understanding. they never understood
Not at all, do you have other people in your life you can talk to?
Sadly people still don't believe us even after attempts. They think we're seeking attention or are psychopaths that need to be locked up. The world is messed up.
Sadly, family is either part of the problem or part of the solution. If they can't acknowledge your problems, they can't be part of the solution. It's a scary but necessary part of fighting depression, cutting toxic people EVEN if they are family. I wish you strength and courage.
god i hate onions man this onion smacked me right across
jag gråter jag får daglig gås hud när jag ser detta.
How is she still alive?!
They mentioned she fell down too early to be struck by the train head on and the position she fell into allowed most of the train to pass over her
Was wondering that too but Isaac Lee's comment makes sense
7:40 I'm sorry I can't clap at my mother's back??
She said "I can’t go behind my mother’s back.”
@@JimInYamaguchi for real though?
Hw a medical student in India can become a doctor in Netherland??
Look up "Erasmus Program" within the EU
"New Amesterdam" takes place in America
New Amsterdam is the name of the hospital. This takes place in America.
And in any case, immigration is a thing you know?
Amsterdam is a place in the Netherlands
New Amsterdam is the original name of New York City.
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Anupm kherrr🙄🙄🙄
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@@kit-nun5476 he's talking about Vijay