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- Sometimes your crush starts dating someone else and that hurts a heck ton. Let's talk about that kind of rejection.
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I'm Connor Manning! Welcome to my channel! I'm a video blogger who makes videos every Monday and Friday. This channel is really about me. I talk about things like relationships and dating, sexuality, bisexuality, mental health (depression, addiction, anxiety, etc.), and a lot of feelings. I like to take my experiences and turn them into something creative, whether that's through vlogging or other projects. Subscribe for more!
most of my crushes never even acknowledged my feels.
Jaden Casarez same
Jaden Casarez all of mine did 😂
all of my actual relationships were Catfish soooo lol
Jaden Casarez one did but got friend zoned
Ain't that the dang diddliest
When your crush knows you like them and likes someone else but still keeps giving mixed signals and never tells you straight up if the like you or not.
Bruh this is my life I can just say our crushes are toxic lol
same condition .... how to react
So trueeeeeeeeeeee😭
Same damn condition.
She recently asked me to vote her since she is becoming vice governor on a partylist
And when i said sure
She said want to be friends again?
And when i sometimes look at her she looks at me also but only for like a millisecond.
LOWKEYYY. That’s why I’m infuriated.
I'm just going to keep telling myself that I still might get a chance.
Hien Le same
^
Hien Le Same I agree.
Is that a good idea?
Hien Le same 🤣🤣🤣
My crush just asked his crush out today and I keep seeing pictures of them hugging and I hope for the best for him but I’m really sad now
Why are you sad ?
@@RelicOfTwo because her crush rejected her
@@lghulkgaming8899 tell me the results okay?
@@lghulkgaming8899 preparing your muscles for the fight? ....ahahah tell me you are joking
@@lghulkgaming8899 haha lmao yo have you fought him yet? If you don't respond under 24 hours you lost
i get deppressed everyday, cause of a broken heart...
I hate having friends...
Sholitotz I know the feeling
Sholitotz same sometimes people wouldn't understand you..Or even yourself
Sholitotz don't trust your friends too much. Just saying. Because, one time, my guy friend is close friends with my crush. And I usually told my guy friend that I like my crush and I talked some things about him. The worst part is when I found out that my guy friend told my crush about me liking him and stuff. I guess I realized that my guy friend sort of does have a crush on me. 😂 but he said never.
AC56372 xD..
Same
0:06-0:20 my entire life.
I'm so crushed.
Literally
Carmyna ah yes, i'm literally getting my spine crushed
So relatable
"it's just a crush" actually that thing you said helped me a lot. You are right.
It's just a crush. Love you! xxx
I just watched this for comments lol my crush likes me
@ii_bxby_sami you are to much of a nice guy
I kept telling my head that it's just a crush but that god damn head is a rock... There's something in there kind of dirt.. Stopping receiving things ....I can't get over her.. She's always there.. In my life
@@Beanyboi123 why you here bro 😒😒
@@kira_yt8465 to make fun of us
"It's just a crush." No it's not... to me it's more than just a crush...
“More then a crush”
Do you mean that you really like them? Or is it Lust (You take it to far)
I understand you
same
Same
more then a like, like more then a love..sorry i just had to
I look at it like this...don't dwell on someone who doesn't have time for you? Don't obsess over a crush that is being pleasured by someone else...I've been there and it will drive you insane
Yep 👏👏
Fr🤡
I know I'm in asking this 4 years later. How did you get over them?
omg i needed this
Mate truer words just happened to me there but I will get over it big and better for me back to the phone being a graveyard
It hurts and the pain doesn’t go :(
he's extremely under rated in TH-cam. he's one of the realest.
wow!
My heart hurts...
Literally.
Same, it sucks a lot to hurt like this.
Same sis
same.
Doesn't it feel heavy and just feel like lying down
@@salt5458 you said it
Sometimes, regret comes from action as well.
I relate, I confessed to my crush way too early? So we didnt even have the time to know each other that well while still being only friends.. so we had to chat awkwardly because he always had the idea of me crushing on him to death lmao, I really wish I talked to him normally as only friends and try to understand each other deeply then confess in the right time..
@@ItachiAmiraLucy samee samee 💔😣
@@ItachiAmiraLucy how are you doing now?
@@oliviascarlet123 apparently I still kinda like him but I've moved on by focusing on my life and solving my own problems you see, but still if a stranger asks me do I love someone romantically, this crush of mine from 7 years ago will still be the first thing I imagine
@@ItachiAmiraLucy i see…the situation i’m in right now is kind of sticky. there’s this guy i’ve been crushing on for a while now, we go to this summer camp type thing and are in the same friend group. he’s super antisocial and nerdy. one of my “friends” told him that i liked him and he stopped responding to my messages and even reading them. he’ll text in the groupchat, but never reply to me…i don’t understand and it hurts so bad. it makes me feel like i’m ugly or unworthy of love.
"Please avoid blaming yourself"
...oops
Fml I'm in love with someone and she likes my friend😭😞
MertHD me too bro 😭😭
:(
bad guitar we will get our crushes to be our gf bro good luck :D
MertHD yeah mission #getthegfback 😂😂
😂😂👊🏼👊🏼
You say it's just a crush but it's always been so much more than a fling
I've never felt as happy as when I'm around this girl and it kills me knowing she doesn't feel the same way
Same😭😭😭
Ya, I get that. I feel the same exact thing bro.😢😢😢😭
I Pine every day.
Jamie Pine lmao
Hi your the best youtuber ever
When I went to school I did
why is life so cruel. it’s so hard to find love.
Ya for sure bro, especially when the person you like doesn’t like you back and you know that…😭
I know my crush likes my bully and yup everything is fallling apart from me..
Okay, so i told my crush i liked them and they said that they were crushing on someone else, then they followed it up by saying "if it makes you feel any better, if you'd asked me out i would have said yes" and that really got to me, because that most likely means they liked me at one point but now they are obsessing over some girl. And of course im his friend and im there for him, and im giving him advice with his crush (Even though i have a huge crush on him) and he was saying about how he feels useless, and he's being really pessimistic about everything (and i feel the exact same way towards him). It's really awkward and I want him to be happy but I'm still obsessively crushing on him. How the hell do i stop liking him?
Harambe We don't go to the same school, we see each other like twice/three times a year
ItsKyleMcIntyre sames. We're in da club
Arianna Annels lol I'm such a mess
ItsKyleMcIntyre nevertheless, we useless folks better stick together
like me instead, you'd be the only person that did, I can't stand myself; can't stand being, hate existing. Anyway I hope you actually get some useful help rather than my painfully insular misery and self loathing. I am in serious crisis, I've been imagining driving a pair of scissors through my neck at work....shit
She's my first crush after 9 years of having none. I'm always focus on my passion and study. Never tried to get into relationship because of my beliefs that more than love, I should provide as a man and I need to have a stable job first. I met her unexpectedly and things started to change. But I saw her with someone else today and my heart is literally shattered into pieces.
Ive always found it's much better to ask and be rejected than to not ask and never find out if you had a chance. I have done both things and I still find myself wondering what if on the chances that I never took to ask someone out, or to tell them how I felt about them. Not as much as I use to because with time I have gotten over them but there were times I just kept thinking what if. At least with the chances I took I know where I stood
im too scared to ask
@@ejgplays1949 same but will ask , i have never asked anyone out b4 and alwaya rejected the guys , so now i am scared what if they do the same
The situation changes once this person is in a friendgroup and you’re afraid to not only blow your chances as a friend, but also making things awkward within the group and being left out for it…
Sometimes it's better not to ask because she and her friends are going to make fun of you especially when you see each other everyday, that's embarrassing
@@LifeUncut07then you’d know how it feels.
0:33 oh god, I started to cry on this moment. Dude, THANK YOU! O already started to watch this video but I’ve got so many support
"Regret in life comes from inaction", I love this, and definitely relate to this! I never do anything about a crush therefore I never really know, and so have trouble moving on from it. I'm only just now starting to really think that I should start actually doing something about any crushes, so seriously thank you so much for your videos, they're always so helpful!
“I need to readjust my expectations of this person’s role in my life”
Perfectly said
ugh i'm in love with my best friend and he likes my friends..kms
Try being gay and seeing after 3 months finally get your crush's phone number and actually get the point where you're like hey wanna come over and then see him holding hands with a girl at school. It's really hard especially because I knew for a fact that he was
He was somewhat gay (probably bi) and trust me my gaydar has never been wrong
Do
SAME
I feel horribly for all of u...
Work out when I’ve hurts you, feels good and makes them jealous. You are better than them! You gonna be so good that they can’t ignore!
when i heard that my crush liked one of my friends I felt despair and yet she's still in my mind.
Btw this happend recently.
Nicholas Lum how r u now?!
@@oliverdavis2422 It hurts, I still feel that throbbing pain i get in my chest every time I think about it. but some day Im eventually going to have to move on and let go of theses feelings with a smile!
Same bro I feel you
same it happened a year ago and i still think about her bro... it sucks
@@ericperalta8949 😭
"I want to be with someone who wants to be with me. I want something mutual"
This is what I picked up. Thanks bro for cleaning my glasses and clearing my paradigm!!!
Your right! It’s his loss anyway! And to everybody who can’t get over there crush, remember that it’s you crush’s fault if they don’t like you cause they are missing out on a wonderful person
ugh i feel so bad, my crush liked me back but we never really dated and eventually we just lost the feelings we had, but now he’s dating my friend and they haven’t even met in real life, only through groupchats, and i’m just now realizing that i’m not over him yet, and i still have feelings. hearing her tell me how he is so nice and how he texts her good morning every day just breaks me because he used to do that with me, and now he never will again.
I’ve had a crush on this guy for so long and we’re good friends, today I found out who he likes and.. I just can’t get over it 😭😭
LpsBlueDiamond d I know it's the worst feeling ever ....I used to chat with him daily and since his crush replied him he doesn't talk that much with me and it's such a disgusting feeling I swear
oml same :(
Here about me... well he was my bestie and I was his most closest person.. I swear we were so close and I was with him at his every hard situation and I was sure about it that he would accept me if I confess my feelings but.. before I say something.. he accepted someone else... I don’t know whether to tell him that I like him or just to ‘let it be’ but we didn’t talk properly ever since he got into a relationship... my first question to him is why he suddenly went to a relationship when we were so close :”) I can’t even leave him-
Is there anyone who can help? Like it hasn’t even Been a month since he got into a relationship...I wonder should I tell him or not...telling him means losing him after all this cause if I tell him all this and if we keep the friendship then you know how awkward it will be but I can’t also continue with the pain.. accepting it and moving on is really hard...
I am an over thinker and every time I think of a solution.. a problem would always come with it... gosh I can’t even leave him 😭😭😭
Bro he has a type of vibe that you don’t want to go away.
I wanna get in your feels
Yooooo, so truuuueeee 😆😏
Bruh moment
I remember i litteraly cried when this happened but not because she liked someone else but because, i liked her and she pretended to like me and i became so attached to her that i was thinking about asking her out but then i saw her with the other guy as soon as i was about to ask her out, and soon as i got home i litteraly cried. And she was special to me. I never felt that way about a crush, only for this girl. I felt like she was perfect. She was nice,cute, and had a great personality. But although i cant forget her, she has no place in my heart and i dont like her anymore. And remember she even said i kinda liked you in a blushy voice and i think she still does but im just not feeling it anymore
you're a very kind person, dude. i dig it
I thought I finally had a chance until she talked about her crush, pain man just pain
I went to a football game at my highschool.
My crush told me and my friends to come and we'll have a good time there.
I show up in my best comfortable outfit.
Me and my friend go to the concession stand to grab some drinks.
I come back to the bleachers only to find her kissing some other dude,
That hurt, but also.. Kind of made me smile knowing she was having a good time.
They talked throughout the game.
Knowing me and her had our laughs and talks.. made me feel hope.
When I got home I bawled my eyes out.
Thanks a lot, Gracie.
-josh
The thing with me is I liked someone and I also thought she liked me, so I expressed my feelings for her, but it turned out she didn’t liked me, and already had another crush. She actually liked me more than a friend and also talked with me more than usual. So even after rejecting me I kept trying with hope to win her back, we talked in insta dms hours after hours and also many nights went we didn’t sleep and went on texting, but in the end she went to the other guy :)
So what was I, did she just took fun of me, kept me hanging, does she treats every boys like this, but one thing I still love her even if she is in another relationship.
Right now I am in a maze and don’t know how to get out. 😭
Please any GENEROUS SOUL!!!!!PLEASE HELP
She appreciate your feelings for her. In fact she was grateful. She is a good person. Unfortunately, her heart is somewhere else.
Be patient be there for her and when and if she lets go then you go however don't chase her let it be consent cuz then she will have too high expectations from you if u do get together
তো ভাই, আপনিও একই রকমের ছেকা খাইলেন?
আমিও ক্রাশ খাই, দুইজনের উপর। প্রথম জন আল্লাহর রহমতে আমার জীবন থেকে গেছে। কিন্তু দ্বিতীয় টা আমার খুব ভালো লাগে। কালকে রাতেই আমি জিজ্ঞেস করলাম যে, তার pfp কার সাথে ম্যাচিং করা। সে রিপ্লাই দিলো যে, ওই ছেলেরে সে পছন্দ করে। এইতো ভাই আমিও বাঁশ খায়া হাজির
Hey man, If you don’t mind we can pray together sometime.. I am having the same situation too
You actually made me feel better
LOVE SUCKS
It’s funny that this popped in my recommendation list and today I got my heartbroken
Same
No way sams
he’s the most beautiful person i’ve seen i hope i can get over this
My crush likes someone else, he goes with my best friend! I’m considering telling him I like him once they break up but I’m way too scared l! He is my best guy friend and I don’t want to ruin our friendship 😩😩
telling someone you like them after they've gone through a bad breakup is not the best move 😓😓😓
Did you say anything? Are you sure about it that they will break up-??
this video is legit so well explained u shud be famous
What if you love them and they love you, but you still feel like they’re starting to like someone else?
I want to know that too. lol. I have a crush and we've said our I love you's but they seem to gravitate to a best friend...a lot. So I start to wonder if they thought I was just being an enthusiastic friend or they know I meant I'm in love romantically speaking. T_t
GarlicKiss ha, yeah.. now the two of us had an argument and I feel super awkward talking to him. I think I’ll just stick to walking anime XD
Now, he has a girlfriend :l He hardly talks to me too. It’s like we’ve just distanced. He talks to my friends more than me.
Omg me too!!! I cry every night!💔
ishmall ! Awww... I’m so sorry.. that sounds awful... it’ll get better, trust me. It usually gets worse before it gets better. You just have to be strong. You got this 👍🏼❤️
She knows I have a crush on her and she too has a crush on me....confessed to each other around 4 months ago, been talking since then, we haven't thought about our relationship yet...but we've become best friends...now at this point, she talks to me all day we have fun... and a few weeks back I dedicated her a song that was only for her from my side..that was kinda our song.... today, saw that same song in a joint playlist of her and another guy (she aded that in the playlist)...as if her talking to my friend who is trying to hit on her wasn't enough to crush my heart. My friend also tries to hit on her, he texts her about like 10 times a day and she talks to him for like once in a week ignoring him... I strongly believe in the quote that IF SHE LOVES YOU, YOU DON'T HAVE TO CARE WHO TRIES TO HIT ON HER but for that quote to be true first she needs to stop talking to people who are hitting on her and adding our special song to their playlist....just once again, left heartbroken
when i heard my crush was loving another guy she told us that in front of all my friends i was trying not to cry but it was hard but i managed to keep my tears and not be embarassed in front of ALL my friends so it took me two days to finally watch that video that i will always remember ''i dont want to be with someone that dosnt want to be with me''
"please avoid blaming yourself and thinking that you're not good enough" very true
You are some how able to make so many videos about things that I really need to hear and I definitely needed to hear this at this particular time in my life. Thank you for sharing your A+ advice!
He likes someone else. They aren't together anymore but then again they were never a "thing". He's completely in love with her. I couldn't ignore him because he's such a good friend... Although giving him advice about "them" hurts so much... I've known him for years since we were toddlers. I had a crush on him since we were kids and it hurts to see him like someone else. We've been so close all these years that it just stabbed me when he said he's in love with someone....
I've missed you, this was so nice to hear thank you. X
Story time. There’s this girl, we met around 2 years ago. The night we met, she asked for my number and a few days, went on to say she liked me. Of course, I liked her back. Over the past 2 years, I developed extremely strong feelings for her. I’m not sure what “Love” feels like in a romantic context, but I’m pretty sure this was it. And over the past 2 years, we have grown closer and closer, and made so many memories. But I’ve noticed she started losing feelings a while back, but we remained great friends. Now there is another guy that she seems to have an eye for, and she talks about it TO ME. And I’ve just witnessed the girl in my life that makes me feel whole, admit to have feelings for this other dude, whom mind you, she doesn’t even really know. It really sucks wasting all your time and energy on someone just for them to abandon you in the end when it matters most.
I told my friend, that I like this guy from school. Keep in mind, we were on grade 4 back then. Then my friend said “ He likes another girl.” I didn’t believe her at start. Then at our Christmas concert, which is basically like an event at school were we give each other gifts to other people on stage. Then when my crush was giving a present to the girl he ‘liked’ and was looking at her like he never looks at me. After that, I saw him holding hands with her. That honestly broke my heart, when I got home I slammed my door and cried in my room. I was thinking in my mind that I was never good enough, I was ugly and fat, and all that stuff. I never moved on from him, I tried getting him to like me. But, the only problem was I was too afraid to talk to him. So, I decided to use Subliminals which are supposed to change something about yourself. I stopped cause.. He knew that I liked him. I still try, I say all those mean words to myself, and I try so hard to get him to like me. He’s just so sweet, cute, and kind. I don’t have a crush on anyone else except him.. I’ll never forget him. 😭
There isn’t a single day where I don’t think about my crush, Everyday i think about her and it’s driving me insane.
My crush kissed someone else :'(
OMG
Yeah..same my crush kissed my bff and she knew i liked him
Yup same here 😵
@@eleanorduffy7936 that happened to me as well. I was gonna ask her out when I found her with someone else. I cried for days XD
@@FreezingDodge same tbh xD but they're together now tho so i guess I'm happy for him :)
This week has not been my favorite.. well my crush, my best friend, and me are all in a friend group and since I have caught feelings for that guy and I he was just that perfect catch there are rarely anyone like him in the whole school. But the problem is that for a bit I thought my best friend liked him aswell but then I just brushed it off. And then exactly a few days later my crush told me they were dating. I have just been shattered by the truth and I have just been denying it the whole time and blaming myself and questioning on some stuff I did and what I should have did and what I shouldn’t and just been thinking about my looks and just thinking I wasn’t good enough for a lot of people but when I saw this video it made my feel a bit better about myself and had me realize that it’s time I should just not look back to the past and just keep moving and find the one person who is for me.. thank you🥀💗
I thought i move on with him but today i see him and her laugh together and flirting i cry for no reason bro it hurts 😭
You know it can hurt, you lose someone you never even have
Well it hurts even more when you find out he/she likes your bully
That’s what happened to me.
The worst thing is when your crush likes your best friend and you have to act that your OK with that...😢😢😭
that happened to me. my best friend told me that she like my crush ( she didn't know that i liked him too ), and i pretended that i was fine with it because i didn't want to cause any scene. fast foward three weeks later and my crush and my best friend are dating. it hurts so much to see them together. but i guess having a crush keans that you're going to have to accept to be hurt sliently.
It's also good to remember that a person's preference or choice in partner isn't them ranking people as "better" or "worse" than others. Me having feelings for one person and not another isn't seeing one of them as having more value as a person than the other. So it's good to remember that, if you're the type of person who puts your sense of self worth in how others feel about you. I remember a period in my life where I felt like I couldn't want to be friends with some people more than others because I felt like that was me saying some people were more worthwhile than others. But it's not about that. It's about who I get along with, who I'm compatible with, and who I'm naturally drawn to spending time with, free of judgements about how worthwhile or deserving people are of having their own friendships.
I have a crush and I really like him. I never spoke to him and I discovered that he likes somebody else. I felt like my heart broke but this video helped me a lot. Its just a crush and you will have plenty of crushes so this crush is just one of them.
Thank you so much!!
Although my crush sees me only as a good friend, somehow
I feel like I want to continue to support her even though I’m not the lucky guy because
seeing her happy means the world to me
“When I get into my feels I get into my feels” I know man I know
My “crush” (old crush) I use to like her in third grade and she liked me but then this kid came to school and she started liking him so you know what I told my self I said “screw it I will just be lonely till I will find someone better” I still have feeling for her but what ever
She's been my crush for like more than 8 years, just found out she's in relationship with another guy..... I can't forget nor ignore her.... I was always afraid of rejection....
same man, same 😔
I saw this girl in my workplace.. I fell for her.. First it was just a physical attraction.. then I spoke to her and I realized she was beautiful inside out.. I wanted to be with her for rest of my life I felt.. I even spoke about her to my mother and she too liked her.. That actually made me fall for her more.. Before confessing my love for her, I wanted to make sure that she wasn’t in a relationship.. One day she confessed that she is in love with someone else.. and it broke my core.. I’m literally crying everyday thinking about that.. I can’t distance myself from her coz she is my teammate in the workspace and we have to be in constant touch with each other.. as she is very close to me, she runs to me for any help,. I can’t really ask her to give me a space.. I’m depressed.. Idk what to do.. 😞😞😞😞
And what did you do after that? For the past 1 year?
I have liked my crush for a little more than 2 years now and I had just recently told them I liked them. When I told her she was in shock for 1 day and then everything seemed back to normal. She didn’t say if she liked me or not and it feels like rejection. It’s even worse because she’s in one of the only friend groups I’m in so I’m constantly staring and thinking about her all the time. Just recently she started talking about how she had a crush on someone and that was the worst part. I cried all night that night and didn’t feel a single bit better. There’s one person in the friend group that pretty much leads us and is really trust worthy and nice. She was the first to know about my crush and I told her that if possible if they could try to avoid talking about crushes when I’m around. I know it’s not always possible but it seems to have helped. I’m not sure that I’ll ever get over it. The only thing that gives me hope in this is 2 things. 1. Whenever it’s just me in her in like a group setting without our other friends, she constantly like looks at me in like a desperate look. She do cute waves to me but when we are around friends she acts like she almost hates me. 2. I keep thinking that there might be a possibility that she could be lying about having a crush that isn’t me. Because I too lied about it before I told her. Also whenever there’s a group message, the texts almost always seem to end with just us talking. Just today she had me take a “friend quiz” and I got all of the important questions right.
Edit: just realized how long this is. Probably because this is 3 months worth of feelings and events. God I hope she doesn’t see this
you got over it?
@@tellemfran I know it’s not really inspiring or anything but no I didn’t. I know it’s stupid but I’m prob not ever going to try to date just because I don’t think I’ll ever get over it. I couldn’t see myself with anybody else. I hope nobody ever feels the way I do on any situation like mine.
Also I forgot to mention that I’ve lost hope in it and she still in the friend group so I hope over time it just goes back to the way it was.
@@blakesaupe129 i lowkey feel the way you feel, i'm in love with a girl and she's dating another guy. i just try to think that she's not THE ONE, and that i'll find another girl. But it's gonna be hard to get over her. i wish you luck bro
@@tellemfran yeah, it’s like you want them to be happy but you want them to be happy with you. Good luck man
Thank you for posting this. My friend was in a similar situation with a best friend and her best friend chose someone else. I have been trying to help her but now I'm going to send this video to her. Thank you and it's good to see you back, hope all is well
harrypotterpuppylove same is with me
Me and my crush used to like each other and then she said she didn’t like me anymore to our friends in front of my face. I said the same thing but deep down I still liked her and even considered myself fallen in love with her because I think of her everyday even now. Last night me, her and one of our friends was on a FaceTime. They then started talking about there crushes. My crush then basically started describing me and I thought she liked me but I soon realized it was one of my friends. I was shocked because my personality was better and I looked better and had better style. I left the FaceTime and said don’t text or call me again. She gives me so many mixed signals but she doesn’t like me. I’m truly heartbroken.😢
My crush was dating someone since before I liked him
Chloe Miller ☹️
Sameee both of them gave gf
srry 4 u
Yeah I had no idea she had a bf cuz she never talked about it. Then I saw her hug some dude and gave him a kiss on the cheek
I haven't like someone in a really long time. I wouldn't let myself, simply because I know that it only leads to hurt and rejection. But I finally let my guard down I again and the second I did, I fell head over heels for someone, then watched them slowly develop feelings for someone else. And I know its life and it's normal to feel like this, but it just really hurt. It's hard not to ask yourself what's wrong with you or why dont they want me. Other girls have a line of guys just waiting for them to get out of a relationship. And I have myself. It's just hard doing this alone.
Well there was this one girl who I thought was really pretty, I anonymously told her that on ask fm, she told me to DM her, then I did and she replied once. After that I tried to make conversation by asking her if she was going to the school hockey game, and guess what? She blocked me. The first time I try to make things happen for myself because life's too short, and I get blocked. Sorry for the rant, great video as always Connor
+Not So Cool Dude I think you did the right thing, and it was also very brave. Because it happened once with that one person, it doesn't mean it's gonna happen every time. Keep trying for who you want to be a part of your life.
(Btw, I anonymously talk on my crush on ask.fm like every day and am wayyyy too shy to DM him, so I definitely think you're brave for DMing that girl.)
this is 7 years old BUT THANK U I JUST NEEDED SOMEONE TO TELL ME THIS
so I’ve liked this boy for like 2-3 years and originally, he liked me first! since we went to different school campuses we never saw each other and didn’t talk all that much.
Eventually that campus moved to mine and we have classes together; he was still into me at some point and yeah.... he was aware of my feelings towards him and now he’s bragging about this girl that he’s not officially dating and seems to like her a lot :(
I’m really happy for him but it’s really upsetting since y’know I have such strong feelings for him and he knows that. but I hope this thing works out with the girl!
Him: *its just a crush there are many people in the world*
Me: MY CRUSH IS LITERALY THE ONLY PERSON WHO MADE ME PEE IN MY PANTS
Mellon Plays: I have a class with my crush and I literally started bawling and shaking lol that was bad 😂
I wanted to hang out with a girl over the summer, just to start out, before asking her if she wanted to go on a date with me next time around...didn’t even get to the hanging out part because she “preferred to do it with small group”.
A few months later, one of my new friends asked her out and it seemed to go well for him....so that left me soooo confused about myself & made me question what is wrong with me....but after watching this video, I think it will help me deal with my problem
whats even worse is when they have a crush on your much prettyer older sister and are so stuck into the friend zone you are the one they come to for advice
Watching it happen is the worst part. Like hearing him complement her wholeheartedly and sitting between them is a whole gut puncher
Thats exactly me at work. Im seated in between and can very much sense theyre texting each other.
@@markg.3315 I agree… but he’s just flirting with her right in front of me and it makes my heart hurt.
My crush is finally someone I could relate to. They share all the same interests that I have. But one day, I found out he had an alternate FB page and was truly devastated. It really tore my heart just to see my crush with someone else than me... it really hurts...
Very natural video with genuine thoughts being shared. Much better than these buff men standing there being objective about their advice
I just aknowledged this with crush yesterday, I've had dreams about her, and all that. And she's just fucking perfect man, like wtf, and my problem was definitely from being super inactive and being scared to show interest, playing hard to get and so on, like what nut job I am, and now it's bite back
I woke up today crying a bit because I had a dream.I was at a school dance and my crush rejected me and a few moments later, I see her with my best friend who I trust, he asked her to hang out and she said yes.That stuff had me sad all day when i woked up.I wouldn't get out of bed.I see this girl perfect for me she always makes me smile, but now I just listen to music so put myself to sleep.It's worse because I remembered that this is true. My crush stopped talking to me and started nonstop with my best friend. No depressed way but, I just wanna go to sleep and never wake up again.Its just that I can't ever seem to let go or stop thinking about her everyday, it's hard.I even miss her every time I go out of school.I honesty just think I'm in love with her. I've been crushing over a year now.
I just know my crush love someone else today.
You're not alone, me too.
Me too
Me too. Our prom. :) im fine tho its just a crush. Now i have a reason to distance myself more
I can total relate to him, I didn't do anything and just stayed in the background
i feel sad to my self 😭😭😭..
I think I should give up on life
I will never get subscribers and viewers that actually listen to me
Only my friends, and how can I get a girlfriend in my life
@@imsocringeandidocringestuf7301 dont give up bro
i hate myself they dont love me but they act like they do
She was one of my best friends but once I heard my heart just broke.
my crush likes me................
but she prefers someone else.
and the funny thing is that her crush likes someone else more
Stay strong man ❤️ we have all been there
Man I see her every day at school it breaks my heart 100 times a day
"Ask them out sooner"
Ya, but first how the hell do i go to the 2d world😭😭
My supposedly “best friend” said yes to my crush that i’ve had a crush on for years, and it hurts.
This is legitimately really helpful to hear
What i do is have my expectations really low so if something goes wrong I don’t get hurt but then I also get hurt so
I NEEDED THIS MY CRUSH SPENT 2 HOURS FLIRTING WITH MY FRIEND AND ALL THAT MAKES ME SO SELF CONSCIOUS
i’ve liked the same guy over 3 years. he knew all along. but he ended up liking my bestfriend. today, he just told me he likes her but doesn’t at the same time. i just can’t get over him
The moment i was going to tell my crush i like her i saw her telling a guy she loved him 😭
That's life showing that she is not the one, which hurts.
Thank you so much, I've actually been at my lowest for so long and I figured it was time to reach out and I'm glad I did :)
Thank you for doing this video. I wanna have space but it's just impossible...😞
1:51, this is so true. I've gotten rejected and the clarity itself was enough to make me snap out of my crush lol
so since you missed the last couple of Mondays and Fridays does that mean we can give you a punishment? cuz in one of your videos a while ago you said you might do that!