My husband passed away 7 months ago. He died a horrible death after many years of declining health. I was sorry he was sick and sorry he suffered during his passing, but it was a new beginning for me. He was a malignant narcissist and he had controlled and minimized my life for almost fifty years. Our children had all fled and wanted nothing to do with us. My friends were offered by many of his actions and comments. I was lonely and quite damaged. But, life is starting to bloom again. My friends call, I get invited to join in, some of my kids have reconnected, and I have met a gentleman who sees goodness in me. I am having fun. People are helping me with chores and projects that are too heavy for me to do alone. Yes, I was married, but I was sooooo alone. I am old and my remaining years are few, but I am feeling alive and seeing beautiful things all around me everyday. I always feared I would die alone, but I know that I no longer need to even think like that.
You give me hope. My dad was a malignant narcissist and married to my mom 50 years. Both in heaven. He had death bed conversion. I am married to an overt narcissist of 44 years. Jekyll and Hyde. Walking on eggs most times. It is lonely Age 16 to 60. We are still married. It is hard. But one day at a time with Jesus. God bless you.
I am a 79 yr old widow and retired nurse. After I lost my husband I started working at an antique shop part time. Then about 5 months ago my daughter and son-in-law and I bought an 1899 house and we have turned it into an inn. It’s been a lot of hard work but so much fun. I feel that I had to reach out and connect and not sink into despair after losing my husband of 48 yrs. He was the love of my life. My faith in God and my family and church family have sustained me. I am grateful and blessed. You are such a dear sweet soul. I have also adopted three rescue dogs so now my house is full of life . God bless you.
I enjoy isolation ❤. I am 68, retired , endured a train wreck of a marriage and ultimate divorce, raised two successful children, and took care of both of my parents. I love coming into my own home, wearing what I want, pouring myself a glass of wine and enjoying my free time. During the week I study the Word and I completed my doctorate at a seminary so yea, my bucket list is somewhat complete and my life is full of twists and turns so I expect it to end full and abundant -nothing missing and nothing broken. Blessings to you and your family!
I, too, enjoy having my time alone, but I also love being with my son and my family, cats, dogs, pigeon, and friends. Also, I am 71, but feel 33. And now that I paid my house off, a load has been taken off my back. Thanks be to God for my family, friends, and pets.
Good for you....I love doing what I want also...But I do admit I do need structure.....I always dreamed of the day, when I had NOTHING to do! And here I am....and some days...I do nothing 😂
susan , i am your age and i feel blessed and grateful everyday . i am still learning from my 91year mom who is on hospice but her mind is as sharp as ever. i notice everytime someone comes to see her or take care of her, she tells everyone she loves them, even if she just met them. in the end, that's all that matters is that we place our energy on loving one another. God bless
Ah, such a sweet lady your mom is. God bles her with a long and good life ❤. I wasn´t so lucky as you. My mom was the worst you can imagine...but I´m fine. I choose to see the light in life. I love and adore my daughter❤.
Lucky you are to have a mom with such a glorious heart and attitude. My 88 year old mom is completely opposite…she is pretty healthy, lives independently in a beautiful villa in an upscale senior community, has anxiety issues but chooses to be miserable and constantly complain…no one wants to be around her as she is just so unpleasant.
@@marcialane8235 i do understand for reasons i won't go into, but for your sanity, choose to love her just as she is and let go of any unforgiveness, it gives you peace. and always end goodbyes with i love you
It is sweet Susan, my mom used to say the same thing about the angels bowling to me and I said the same to my children and grands! I love my life at 68. It is entirely different than I thought it was supposed to be. I had a hard time actually until recently, now however, I have decided to stop mourning the life I thought I would have and enjoy the one I have. You know our 16th President, Abraham Lincoln said it best: " Most folk are as happy as they make up their minds to be".
I'm 60 and single. What keeps me going is 1. The excitement of getting the chance every day to grow and become who I was meant to be so I can best serve this life. 2. The opportunity to learn about as many things as I can absorb in one day. From connecting to my creator and higher self to how to master the best pizza dough. 3. Feeling so good everyday I feel I can move mountains. After wasting so many years hung over and functioning at half capacity I have learned to take better care of myself spiritually, nurtrionally, and mentally. I look forward to every day now.
I'm 66 years old, and your message resonates with me. I've spent the last few years on a journey of self-discovery - May God continue to guide and steer your path as you continue to walk into newfound adventures and experiences!🙏🏾
I rarely comment, but I have to this time. Your channel is a part of my life. I look forward every saturday night for your post. I cant begin to tell you how much richer you have made my life. Your posts are enriching and I'm so happy I found your channel. I am 66 and I enjoy every day. Thank you Susan for being a part of my life.
I can relate to what you are saying Ruby. I enjoy seeking out her latest video and most times it resonates with what I am thinking or doing at this point in my life. I am now over 60 and have moved, downsized went through a turbulent relationship and now trying to find my path in life in a new area. at times I find I am isolated but that is by choice, because it is so hard to let new people into your life when you feel that it can cause more negativity. it is a wonderful place to be feeling joy and happiness and I am starting to get there. I feel I have a lot to offer to this world and trying to keep the negative people and situations out of my daily life is a struggle at times, but I am persevering and putting on a smile when I go out when the world sees me. they only see a smiley happy person. Have a wonderful day. Further comments welcome. ❤
After fighting cancer and progressing into stage 4 ten years ago my wants are minimal. I never thought I would live to 73, but here I am. My family is gone, I have one living relative and sometimes it is lonely. I remember the good times because it's a waste of life to think about the negative.
I love helping the Veterans that are on a low income they have so much Love and pain and sometimes they just need a friend. I help them get what they need to survive I even bring them food and items they need. I Love Our Soldiers who have served and were forgotten. Thank You for reminding us of having a wonderful life. Love you Susan and Desi! GBY!
What a gift you are to our wonderful Veterans! That is absolutely precious that you do this and I just know they are so grateful to have you! ❤❤ Love your heart! We need more humans like you…
@@shannapink801They tell me just a smile makes their day or a Thank you lifts them up. It doesn't matter what you look like. They are in the most least likeliness places you would think. They are so lonely Most of them. Praying for them and asking the Lord to send you where they are. That's how I started helping them.🙏❤️
Ahhh what a sweet story about your granddaughter. She's already learned that being selfless is better than being selfish at such a young age. What an angel she is.
*I often think about the time you described meeting Desi for the first time and how much he needed someone to understand his situation.* You took him on, and turned him into the dapper, debonair little gent we look forward to seeing each week. I am sure he is happy that you have expanded his family with the addition of the grand children. Wishing a great week to you ALL and looking forward to another Saturday video next week.
What keeps me going daily after first losing my cat who was like my child then my husband 4 months later and soon I’ll have to sell my home, my faith is how I keep going or else I’d have had a breakdown with so much loss all at once. I know my future is in Gods hands. ❤
I love that you are putting your future in God's hands!! No one better to handle it. Take care of yourself and do something you never thought you would do. One step at a time with God's help you will be okay!!!❤
I am going to be 79 years old in November, and I love this life I live today. I lost my oldest to suicide 10 years ago. And it was then I decided to start looking at life differently. I wanted to live! Every single day! I would look at every day f4o. The point of love and gratitude. To take every opportunity to help my neighbor first. To find joy …. To live my life forward, for the rest of my days. ….. and I do, every single moment of every single day. I find happiness in the simple things..I find God in the rain and the sunshine.. I hope I live till I’m a hundred and 99 years! Thank you for asking..love your stories here.. thank you for loving and giving to this world.. each step at a time❤️
I hope I get to the beautiful place you are now. So sad about you child. So very sorry for your heartbreaking loss. You are an inspiration to me. I love that you find God in the rain and sunshine. I want to want to live until I'm 199 years old, too. I don't right now. But I have hope I will get there someday. I just turned 69. I'm pretty strong mentally, my faith, and my heart of gratitude grounds me. I'm burnt out and have adrenal fatigue. Coping with these things is a new challenge for me.
As a woman in her mid 70s I refuse to live in the negative. I enjoy each day and do all I can to make sure those around me enjoy being with me. Don't be a sterotype grumpy old person. Live every day as the gift it is.
I served my family and their negativities until it was no longer required. Life without that has served me well! I must also say, what a wonderful story about your grandbaby. Special moments.
I’m 62 and I love life. My husband has had some health issues and it’s been tough the past few months but we have relied on each other and it makes me realize what a good life we have. He’s on the road to recovery thankfully.
Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, love 💚 , and peace all over the world 🌏. I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust so as time goes on it will bring something great for us in the future, hope you don't mind? I'm Frank Lange from Brooklyn New York, where are you from if I may ask?❤
@@michigangirl1 thank you! Amen, I know God has removed negative people out of my life for a reason. I too am ok and am using this time to delve into Gods Word and working in a closer, intimate relationship with Jesus Christ. I know he is preparing me for worse times in the days to come. Being alone, there are so so many of us more mature women that prefer to be alone.
You taught me something today Susan and it brought me to tears. Your story about how your one little comment during a thunderstorm can change a child's life from fear to care....Just by shifting the focus to Desi. Oh my. I'm still wiping tears. It is the learning that keeps me going. Curiosity, happiness and tears. Yes...all of it to treasure.
I will turn 69 years old on August 4 th. I am so proud of that. I am so prevaliged to be here on earth to love my husband of 48 years, my three daughters and my 7 grandchildren. I have a few aches and pains but that’s ok, it reminds me that I am alive and fortunate to have caring doctors who help me to feel better with medications that my mother or grandmother would have given anything to have had when they were suffering with arthritis as I do. I give thanks to God everyday that I can still feel and love snd receive love from my family. I am so grateful to be turning 69. Life is good. I am happy.
Susan, I wish I had the strength and zest for life that you do. I’m having a bad week this week. I’m asking you if you are a praying lady to please pray for me. And, any of your other viewers that are watching this. Thank you and God bless you and Desi. Also, your grandchildren too. That was so sweet for your granddaughter to comfort Desi during the storm. ❤️🙏🏻
I just "lost" a good friend today, she was a client of mine and as I reflect back, I realize how isolated she kept herself,,,makes me soooooo sad for her and mad at myself for not checking on her mental state. thank you for your videos...I enjoy them a lot...
I love this video! You brought to mind this verse: “Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one another, for whoever loves others has fulfilled the law.” Rom.13:8
I love living in the mountains of West Virginia I love getting to see you every week and I love living in a country where we are free to express ourselves in any way we want but first and foremost I love that we’re free to love God without question love and hugs Susie
I am so thankful I found your channel. You have such an amazing way at looking at life and enjoying each day. It is the simple things of life that are the most important. My husband passed when I was 51 but I was so blessed to have had an amazing life that some never get. I have two amazing sons and 6 grandchildren. Two of them came to us from Bulgaria. My life has not been easy but God has always been there form. At 32 I had cancer and our sons were 12 and 9 at the time. There has been many losses in my life but without God I would never have made it. This year I have lost three family member three weeks in a row and I do suffer from depression but I know I serve a living Savior and in my darkest times He is always there. I am 75 now and have lived alone every since my precious husband passed. I known this is probably to long but I just want others to know when you start feeling down you can start counting your blessing and you will be surprised what The Lord has done. Life is not easy and we all have down times. You are never alone.
I was also widowed at 51. I am 65 now. It's so hard when all the plans you thought were in the future suddenly vanish. You have to rearrange your thoughts. It's hard and it's lonely. I count my blessings and talk to my Savior every day. It keeps me going. Blessings to you ❤
Your granddaughter and Desi story is so precious. I love my backyard when the wind chimes play, I love watching my dog Annie sleep, I love playing in the ocean like a mermaid, I love dancing to an old familiar song, I love laying on the ground watching clouds....❤
"Life is good, no matter what"... I decided early on, as a child born to older parents, that I would do my best to make people smile and forget their pains or "grownup troubles" the best I could. Little did I know my life would be a solitary one, where the the early lesson of looking for any and all reasons to smile would allow me to be so happy, no matter what. Really appreciate your sharings, and most of all, that constant honest smile. Thank you so much for it !!!
Susan, I’m a little younger than you, 57. But I don’t see much of a difference and you enrich my life every Saturday. Three things I live for are: 1. God, he has given me so so much I try to be a good daughter. I try everyday to live to please Him. 2. Love myself. At last I have learned that I deserve and need my own love. If I don’t take care of myself, who will? 3. My two adult children, the man I love, my friends and family. I have so much love to give, I have so much to share and learn, I feel blessed to be able to do so. Love from Costa Rica.
I recently turned 70 and it has been life changing. I have been a care giver my entire life taking of this family member and that family member. It cost me my marriage and my identity. I will probably leave this life care giving as I now take care of my disabled sister. I have figured out that maybe God wants me to do this. I try to do things for me when I can. I recently started cross stitching again and finding actually I am enjoying it more. I look forward to your video every week. You keep me connected to what is important. Thank you Susan!
After many losses & starting my life over in a new city, all by myself, I have never felt more strength & more at peace, inner peace. This is an exciting yet calm journey now. This is the time to give back, volunteer, enjoy nature & simple pleasures. I'm retired now. The one thing that stands out after all the losses is; "Don't fear a broken heart, the cracks are where the new light comes in." Love, learn, live and grow. Then, fall in love with your new life. Enjoy the next several chapters. We deserve this & much more.
Susan, I love that you are a songwriter like I am. 😊 I also started writing poems and songs at a young age. Unfortunately my parents discouraged my songwriting and at age 38 I moved from Michigan to North Carolina where I knew no one but was guided to move there by an angel, really! 😇 Anyway, over the next 18 years my songwriting dreams all came true. I even performed for Dr. Maya Angelou. I am 63 now and proud that I followed my dream. ❤
I learned a long time ago to just accept people for who they are. Love them if you want no matter what or part ways with no anger or regret. This allows me to be me without fear because I accept me with all my flaws. I want to surround myself with all the goodness I can. I want to squeeze every last bit of happiness out of this world and take it with me!
Thank you for sharing your life experiences each week! Because of a chronic back problem and staying in during the pandemic I have isolated my self way too much, depression has crept in, my eating habits are suffering and I sleep to much. I need to work on feeling better physically so that I have the energy to connect once more. Life is a gift and I want to be the best me I can be.
Elaine, blessings to you so that you can make the changes that will lift you up. I hope you are letting all the thoughtful, loving comments from Susan and this group fill your soul with healing because this love is meant for you and everyone who reads it. What an amazing group Susan has fostered! ❤
I am 62 and divorced since 1998. We raised the kids by joint custody for 13 years in another country. Eventually I moved back to the States to take care of my mother by way of nursing home. So I have been by myself for a long time. Sometimes I dated. Sometimes I have intentionally gone through dry spells. What I love is what I wanted while I was a mother - time to myself. I can read whatever I want, put the book down and find it in the same spot. I can journal without interruption. I can watch all the TH-cam vlogs and news that I want. I can keep whatever food that I want/need in my cabinet and fridge. I enjoy going out for a cuppa tea or window shopping by myself - sometimes with a friend. My children are now parents and are going through that stage, while I am in and enjoying my stage. And you are so right about connection. It is something we need to be careful about - with friends and family. Staying healthy in all of that is very important.
I get up in the morning start my day around 530. Have coffee, feed Otis go back upstairs, look at some TH-cam videos start my Bible study and journaling. Hop in the shower say my prayers go for a long walk with Otis. I also have a breathing app on my phone it’s called just breathe absolutely love it❤ it’s free. I download it and you can set the intervals I do four times a day, which works out perfectly for me and believe me the stress disappears after doing each one. My faith in God is all encompassing . That is the main focus in my life.. then comes my family and Otis.❤ I really don’t worry about anything anymore. I had one of those weeks like you did about a month ago. Everything seemed to break😜 you know what? I just fixed it and moved on.😊 have a blessed weekend, love from me and Otis🐶 to you and little man🐶
Such a heartwarming story about your granddaughter ‘s fear of thunderstorms and how she comforted Desi. Little things in life make me happy. Seeing a butterfly or hummingbirds on the flowers I planted . Knowing that my family is healthy and that they enjoy their life is important to me. Being thankful for every little thing , even my morning cup of coffee. Having total quiet around me when I’m feeling anxious about something . It’s also important to laugh . As we get older, we don’t laugh enough. Someone once told me that for every time we laugh , we will add a year to our life. Let’s keep on laughing. 😂. Thank you for your beautiful videos. We love you. ❤
Right now I’m cultivating a new life. Retirement occurred not according to plan because of health issues. I’m pushing forward to get the treatment I need while recognizing that my long held vision for my retirement (which was also in response to a serious pivot I had to take years ago) would need to pivot again. While recovering from a stroke I started a new business and I’m successful thus far. I have decisions ahead, but I’m grateful for my sweet home and the few friends I have left. I’m only in my 60s, yet I’ve lost quite a few friends over the last 12 years. Good memories. I’m making way for new friends and more good memories. Thanks for asking.
Such a sweet story of your granddaughter and Desi. I cried. Today I cried when I saw my husband climb down to the floor to read a book to our toddler grandson and his little friend. Moments like that make everything else seem unimportant.
Although aging can be hard, as a former Oncology Nurse, I know aging is a privilege. I agree with you. I'll never give up on my life either. I loved school also. Curiosity has kept me going.
When I sit and think about it, I love almost everything about my life. I love that the past is gone. I love the blessings I have now - my grandchildren, my sweet daughters, my house, my independence. I love that there are so many possibilities for tomorrow. I’ve navigated the minefields to reach this point - and my minefields were treacherous. Now I can brush off the dust of the past and anticipate each new day. I’m 72.
I just turned 66 last Monday and having moved so many times in my life with my father in the Air Force, and then my husband in the Air Force as well, we have actually grown roots in this home and have lived here 20 plus years now. What I love the most is my family and my home and I love that when my children visit with my grandkids, they say things like, "O! it's so good to be home again", and "this house at Christmastime is incredible" or "Momma! the garden is so beautiful!". I'm glad they love being here, because I love being here too! I was so frightened of thunderstorms when I was a child! My family was living in Japan at that time, and I just knew that it must be Godzilla stepping on the earth each time the thunder cracked! I guess I grew out of that as I quite enjoy a good thunderstorm now. May God bless you, your family and your friends Susan! XO
I wait for your video every Saturday, it's always an inspiration! Love the life I'm enjoying at 83! You always are inspiring and make me grateful for each day. You ARE connecting!!! Priscilla from Washington state.❤
At 73 and having an alarm for 45 yrs and lots of responsibilities. My most favorite is NO alarm and doing pretty much what we want or if someone needs something, to help them. 10 Grandchildren. Reading to/with them, snacks, learning small chores, Going camping together.
Dear Susan im 66 my husband us 70. This February my husband was diagnosed with a cancerous brain tumor. Luckily he received treatment and the tumor is gone. We still have alot more treatment for him to stay cancer free but believe me we feel blessed. Every day is a gift. We enjoy life's little things. Our garden the wildlife in it. Our wonderful children and family our pet kitty and beautiful blue skies and sunshine . I have a silver bracelet with the inscription Don't look back. I got it years ago. I always look forward and think positively. It's worked for me all these years. I wish you and Desi all the best. Your healthy outlook on life lifts us all up!❤
Susan I learn so much from you and desi x I was a single mum for years after a nasty divorce,met my soul mate and then I became disabled...he stuck around! Been together 9yrs and he now has cancer...were young late 40s/50s and we love life! ... family,laughing,nature,music x
I’m 72 and enjoying life every day. I thank God I can still ride my bike or hike a trail. I can still see and hear. I have important friends and a church I love. I love my children and grandchild. I love my husband. I’m determined to be thankful for all my blessings forever.
My husband and I got covid this winter and long covid after. We were no longer able to care for our adult handicapped son and he had to be relocated. He participated in the process, is happy, and thriving! Me, not so much. My doctor got me a health coach, and I learned about letting grief and suffering wash over me like a wave. Lots of waves, lol! Sometimes we are just living in the backwash, but always looking ahead. Thanks for a special video.
As a woman of 66, I've experienced so much in my life. But one commonality that served me well is my curiosity. I too was the kid in school with my hand up, ready to ask yet another question! And I love the fact that I always find the beauty that is around me. Sometimes it's hard to find, but I find it! It's my "attitude of gratitude" routine. Curious, Grateful and empathetic. That's me!
My top 3 things? My family (grandkids), my aesthetic fascination for beautiful things, and being able to afford a lovely little one bedroom condo all by myself. Music too...I love to dance like nobody's watching. At 70, it brings me joy.
Loved the story about your Granddaughter's courage to protect Desi. I've been depressed last two days... But working on that❤️ thanks for the inspiration ❤❤❤
I must say, I’m looking forward to leaving life. My life has been horrible. I’m thinking of writing a book. People have said to write this book. I’m 62. There is no happiness. I’m married 42 years. I’m currently in therapy. Just started. I don’t want or need for anyone criticizing me. I’ve had that for 62 years. I watch you and you do inspire me. Can’t say much else. You do inspire me. Thank you
Great video! Getting older is a privilege and we should not debate about our pasts and worry about future. We need to count our blessing. Thank you, Susan.
All truth here. I am truly enjoying living at almost 67 and hoping for 50 more years. I love life so much. I feel so sorry for the friends I have lost already who died in their 60s. Such short endings.
Loved the story about your granddaughter and Desi -- so sweet! I smiled when you mentioned the angels bowling. As a child I wasn't too fazed by thunderstorms, but my cousin was terrified. She and our Italian-American grandmother were visiting when a storm rolled through. My cousin started to cry, and Grandma said, "Oh, that's just the angels bowling!" I helped Grandma with the narrative: "Look at that big flash! One of the angels must've gotten a strike!" Pretty soon the 3 of us were having a grand time imagining which claps of thunder and flashes of lightning meant a strike, a spare, or an open frame.
Being 68 my top 3 that keeps me inspired are. 1. My personal relationship with my Saviour. Growing in him daily,; 2. Healthy mind ; 3. Healthy relationships with family and friends
Oh you are so kind...thank you so much for being here and sharing a bit of your life...you keep me going and I always hope with each day I can do better...be better for those around me...xxoo Happy T Day! xxoo Susan
I’m 66 and I am loving life- listening to music reading my Bible studying the Word of God enjoying my kids and grandkids and forgiving the absolute worst people have done to me- just as my Father in Heaven forgives me- so freeing and once you get that revelation it’s like you have wings! Freedom from bitterness and a flood of happiness and it’s there for EVERYONE ❤
Susan, I just look forward to our visits so much. You always have beautiful video footage, beautiful music and such great stories and perspectives on life that give me encouragement and hope as an older woman now on my own for the first time. I'm going through a divorce that I didn't want, but it's happening anyway. My life has been blown to pieces at 64 and I'm having to start over now. Watching you and seeing how you have thrived in life gives me courage and hope that maybe I can too. God bless you and sweet little Desi. Have a beautiful week.
Susan what I love about me life is that I got to bring my mama back to where she grew up and was born. She's almost 88 next month. It's so wonderful to see her get so excited to drive around and say I remember when..vshe so happy now my three things that keep me going is our heavenly father . My beautiful children and the desire to live. Thank you for this video. I really needed it. Much love
It's amazing how much I learn from you each week. You always make me reflect on my life - the good, the bad, what I need to work on and of course how grateful I am for all the beauty in life. Thanks Susan!
What a good video, thank you, Susan! I look forward to you every weekend😊 I am 64 and I do enjoy my life! My life started when I finally went SOLO ! Since the day I live alone I started growing, becomming stronger, becomming myself, enjoying who I am! I am alone since 21 years and it is a PRIVILIDGE! I now hear my soul, my inner voice, instead of beeing distracted by relationships. When you live alone the possibilities are ENDLESS and you get more connections with people! I only regret one thing: that I did not go solo much earlier... but at the other hand: thanks to the fact that I have been in relationships and 2 marriages, I now really, really KNOW how fantastic and beautiful it is to live without ! Thank you for your inspirational and stylish video,s!! Greetings from Belgium 💝🐴🌹
What an amazing little girl, and you tell the story so well. Thank you. Some things I love about my life........... Knowing that I am safe from harm..........knowing I'll meet my daughter soon, who is in heaven, oh and my best friend too. She was murdered when she was 13. And my relationship with Jesus most of all. I'll see him face to face soon too. And I love to sing and I often sing to him and about him........I love summer rains, warm and loud as it dances off the metal roof of the cottage. I check the level of the water in the old row boat and wonder how much we'll have to bale before we leave the dock. I love warm, freshly baked bread when it comes out of the over. Slicing it and slathering it with butter is a joy also.....Catching fireflies at night in a jar then letting them go before turning in for the night......sliding between crisp white sheets is so comforting. These precious things are merely a few small touches of my grateful life.
Thank you for today’s message..Your granddaughter without knowing brought me and everyone a wonderful lesson..when you care for others in pain how less your own pain becomes…Thanks for your channel ..I can’t wait for your next video so that I can have coffee with you..God Bless🌹
This video was wonderful and touch me very personal, four years ago, I had a routine colonoscopy done and the doctor broke an abscess and I suffered for 6 months until they discovered I had Sepsis, they gave me 24 hours to live, and here I am, I had to live , I have only one son who was away at university, I am so grateful for everyday , that I can garden, or walk , take a drive in the car, I love it, so happy I found your videos, so positive, hope you had a beautiful time at the wedding, I bet you looked fabulous in your dress❤️it’s a hard thing to grasp the present , this helps, so God bless❤️🇨🇦🇺🇸❤️🙏💐
Susan, you are special. You were born that way. I know what you’re thinking. Isn’t everybody special? Of course they are. But , your specialness comes from a God give ability to connect with others.
I love the little trinkets of magic I have interspersed throughout my apartment home. I love my tiny garden. I love the sound of the cicadas as sit on my patio at night. I love the faint hum of crickets.
Everything you talked about today is Everything I have been thinking about today! Being 65 and retired a little over a year. Looked so forward to this time of life. Now I do feel isolated. I'm very grateful for everything I do have but sometimes I wonder, what now? I was a "why kid" also. My mother nicknamed me that! I want that spark back. Thank you for this time you and Desi share with us weekly. You are so relatable, kind and thoughtful. You encourage me. ❤ I also wanted to thank the people who share their hearts in the comments. This is truly the only you tube channel that feels safe to do that. I'm sure not everyone is always kind but the majority are. I learn so much from them as well.
Hi! I totally understand your "what now" feeling! One goes through those types of feelings for quite a while. It is a big challenge. It is important to look for things that bring meaning for you.... brings joy too to yourself and others! It is important to learn about oneself, grow (not easy :)) and follow new paths that you haven't had time for before this time. I have worked on reaching out to new ladies I feel I can build a connection with... even a wonderful understanding friendship with. Also I've identified what crafts I really enjoy and also use them to improve others lives like I love knitting warm scarves, beanies and prem baby clothes for the underprivileged. It brings me great joy to know the items I make so lovingly will help someone else that I will never even meet! It's a journey but be sure to build your life positively, based in as much connection, meaning and purpose as possible. Life is a precious gift! May God Bless you as you navigate this new season of life! May it be a wonderful learning experience for you and bring you to a point of joy and gratitude! ❤
What a Beautiful response from the lady above. So thoughtful and caring. I felt the same after retiring from fulltime work. I'm single, never married, no children; a cat 😊. I got a very part time job in retail. It's easy to do, and my young coworkers are so much fun! Makes me feel needed just by being really kind and accepting of them. I enjoy the customers, and its fun to help them find the pickles, or the peanut butter ! 😂 I also go to 12 step support groups. They are wonderful because they meet weekly, and its a way to form friendships and connection. Blessings to you!
I love the rain! I love your chats! I love my furry kid and grand babies! What keeps me going is my faith. If you experience faith and hope then life will be ok.
I enjoy following your story, Little Poet. My sweet Italian gramma used to tell me that thunder was just empty wine barrels being rolled down from heaven ! 🌩🍇👣🍷💕
I wake up everyday just to see what's newly coming out in the garden...or to hear a bird sing again... I live each day for my husband and I to travel and see new things and meet new people.... I live each day because I know the end will come one day and I'll be darned if I'm not going to live it while I can....❤
Thank you Susan. So happy to see you connect with old friends. It seems to fill our batteries when we do. Your granddaughter story touched my heart as I know it did others. Desi is one lucky dog to have found you. I am so fortunate to be blessed with great friends in my life. Am retired now for a while and love the slower pace of lazy mornings. I downsized to a small cottage by the lake and am awakened by birds instead of an alarm clock. I share my life with a rescue dog also who gets me up and moving. My days are my own and I love that. Worked hard all my life so this is now my time to do as I please. Love your channel and it has become part of my Saturday evening enjoyment. Thank you for that.
What a touching story of your granddaughter. I had some sad times as a child - alcoholic father . After my parents divorced when I was 16 my life has been upward since and I am now 76 blessed with excellent health. Wonderful husband of 57 years, two beautiful children and the best grandchildren, wonderful friends and extended family. I feel like one the luckiest people in the world. Thanks for your uplifting videos.
I love your story about the thunderstorm. My mom used to tell us the angels were bowling too. Thank you for bringing back a fond memory. I love your channel and Desi too! :)
At 76, soon 77, I too am full of curiosity and wonder. Thank you for your deep and moving stories…you have a beautiful gift of “connecting” with us and it enriches all of our lives. Thank you!
Hello Susan!! I’m not even going to list anything negative!! My top three- God, because I’m lost without Him!! ) my family, and best friend of 40+ years, and a great book!! Sadly, I tend to dwell on the negatives at times, but deep in my heart, these are the best things in my life!! These things, and your wonderful heart & spirit are what brings me joy!! As always, love& prayers to you, Desi and the family!!😍😍😍🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
I am lifted up by your gentle spirit, your gentle presence and I am inspired by your beautiful journey…I am separated from my husband of 29 years and we are both going through counseling to reconnect our lives…you have given me courage to forgive and be open to reconciliation…bless you sweet friend 🌹❤️
Bless your beautiful little Grand- daughter showing such strength and compassion in her worst moment,( I'm not surprised as she has seen all you can do,) moments like that make me so happy I have three grandbabies two boys and a girl and they are my happy my heart and soul . The things they do and say and who they are just makes me the proudest of proud and so very blessed to have them in my life.Hugs to Desi my dogs use to shake too. ❤
The key that keeps me going is learning more about God and myself. Since I've gotten older and retired my time seems to allow me to focus. Looking back and seeing how God has taken me through things the bad and good and not giving up.
As I read some of the comments it's interesting to learn how peoples' lives are so similar and yet we think 'it's only me' a lot of the time. We are unique but we're not. What keeps me going (I'm 69( is family, exercise and learning - they all make me feel alive, healthy and well.
My current goal in life aligns with the values you expressed today. To shake off the fear and isolation of the recent past and to start to really live again! 👍🏼♥️🇨🇦
What I love about my life is .... I got to live with my grandchildren and helped them see the world, share feelings helped with homework and comforted them. I'm ok.
Thanks for this uplifting video, Susan! I love your street. There's something so sweetly American about it. Your friend Randy is awesome, your grandkids are awesome, Desi is awesome, and YOU are awesome! I don't know why I'm still here, really, but maybe God has some little thing in mind that I can still do for someone else. Meanwhile, I sit on the patio and watch the bats at twilight, under a waxing moon, and think, "this is good." Like the hymn says, "Help me, Lord, when toil and trouble meeting; E'er to take, as from a Father's hand; One by one, the days, the moments fleeting; Till I reach the promised land." Have a terrific week!
Hi. I just wanted to share with you how much I love & appreciate your videos. I live in a retirement village & sad to say we have a number of aged orphans. One such lady who is the sweetest kindest person you could meet. She turned 96 years young last Friday. She came to our gathering in our community centre which we have every Friday. The bar is open & we all bring nibbles to share. When she entered we all sang happy birthday. I got a card which everyone signed & took 2 birthday cakes one for her & one for another who turned 80 plus the next day. They were both thrilled especially my 96 year young friend as she has not seen her heard from her children in 30 years except for a niece. It’s so sad but she told me that she is happy. Has her lovely home & garden. She still garden, cooks for herself. But she sees her family as the friends in the village. Connection is what makes her happy, the connection to her home her garden & her friends. But most of all the connection she has with God. She was a Salvation Army officer until 90 + where she volunteered until her retirement. Love your garden 🪴 cheers & 💙 Lynne from Victoria Australia.
My Grandmother told us the angels were moving the furniture around…..it helped us a little bit. Glad I ran into your channel, you make me slow down and feel calmer. I’m 67 and trying to refocus on what’s important in Life.
Susan thank you for sharing so much today! We are having a thunderstorm right now as I read about your darling Granddaughter comforting Desi during your thunderstorm! I love your positive attitude of being over sixty five and keeping connections, just a beautiful video! Thank you for being with us every week 💕
Thank you for this video. They always give me something to ponder. I love the decorating in your new home. I have so much to learn from you. I am 72 and became a widow 3 years ago. I am an introvert to I have to force myself to go places. Unfortunately it is very hard for me now as I have a very bad back and am waiting to have both my knees replaced. I know many people live in constant extreme pain. I force myself to endure the pain to go to church on Sundays, and enjoy the days my 6 1/2 year old granddaughter comes to stay for the day. I'm trying to find joy in everyday and everything I do. That is what my late husband told a young soldier once. That young soldier told me a story at my husband's celebration of life that he was on manuvers in a foreign country. It was pouring rain and he slid into a ditch filled with well you know what, making sure he held his rifle over his head. He started to laugh. His buddies came to help him and asked him why he was laughing when he was standing knee deep in filth. He said, "Someone once told me to find joy in everything". It so touched my heart. I need to remind myself of that every day. I look forward to your videos each week. Thank you.
I’ve watched you for a very long time and by far my favorite story is about your precious granddaughter❤️❤️❤️it is just so so sweet! I’m nearly 73 and I’m more at peace and content then I’ve ever been. My heart is full of love for those around me even strangers and I appreciate life. God bless and keep you dear friend, hugs
My husband passed away 7 months ago. He died a horrible death after many years of declining health. I was sorry he was sick and sorry he suffered during his passing, but it was a new beginning for me. He was a malignant narcissist and he had controlled and minimized my life for almost fifty years. Our children had all fled and wanted nothing to do with us. My friends were offered by many of his actions and comments. I was lonely and quite damaged. But, life is starting to bloom again. My friends call, I get invited to join in, some of my kids have reconnected, and I have met a gentleman who sees goodness in me. I am having fun. People are helping me with chores and projects that are too heavy for me to do alone. Yes, I was married, but I was sooooo alone. I am old and my remaining years are few, but I am feeling alive and seeing beautiful things all around me everyday. I always feared I would die alone, but I know that I no longer need to even think like that.
God bless you, EW. 🙏
I don't know you Emily but I love you and I'm so happy you made it through what you endured. You're lovely and strong honey. ❤️😊
Lord fill you with the oil of joy for the rest of your life ❤😊
You give me hope. My dad was a malignant narcissist and married to my mom 50 years. Both in heaven. He had death bed conversion. I am married to an overt narcissist of 44 years. Jekyll and Hyde. Walking on eggs most times. It is lonely
Age 16 to 60. We are still married. It is hard. But one day at a time with Jesus. God bless you.
Much love and happiness to you!
I am a 79 yr old widow and retired nurse. After I lost my husband I started working at an antique shop part time. Then about 5 months ago my daughter and son-in-law and I bought an 1899 house and we have turned it into an inn. It’s been a lot of hard work but so much fun. I feel that I had to reach out and connect and not sink into despair after losing my husband of 48 yrs. He was the love of my life. My faith in God and my family and church family have sustained me. I am grateful and blessed. You are such a dear sweet soul. I have also adopted three rescue dogs so now my house is full of life . God bless you.
Never give up
I get everything that Karen has said
I’ve had to do the same
There are so many beautiful people in this world
Roxann
Sounds just lovely and so engaging. Just like a sweet Hallmark movie!❤️
Dogs are the Best therapy❤ full of loyalty and unconditional L❤ve. They rescue us😂
I enjoy isolation ❤. I am 68, retired , endured a train wreck of a marriage and ultimate divorce, raised two successful children, and took care of both of my parents. I love coming into my own home, wearing what I want, pouring myself a glass of wine and enjoying my free time. During the week I study the Word and I completed my doctorate at a seminary so yea, my bucket list is somewhat complete and my life is full of twists and turns so I expect it to end full and abundant -nothing missing and nothing broken. Blessings to you and your family!
Your words are a blessing to me.
God bless you. Love your testimony!!!
I, too, enjoy having my time alone, but I also love being with my son and my family, cats, dogs, pigeon, and friends. Also, I am 71, but feel 33. And now that I paid my house off, a load has been taken off my back. Thanks be to God for my family, friends, and pets.
Good for you....I love doing what I want also...But I do admit I do need structure.....I always dreamed of the day, when I had NOTHING to do! And here I am....and some days...I do nothing 😂
So wonderful!🙏🌟 I agree.😊
susan , i am your age and i feel blessed and grateful everyday . i am still learning from my 91year mom who is on hospice but her mind is as sharp as ever. i notice everytime someone comes to see her or take care of her, she tells everyone she loves them, even if she just met them. in the end, that's all that matters is that we place our energy on loving one another. God bless
❤ this story. What really matters in this world and the meaning of a rich life filled with love and gratitude.
Ah, such a sweet lady your mom is. God bles her with a long and good life ❤. I wasn´t so lucky as you. My mom was the worst you can imagine...but I´m fine. I choose to see the light in life. I love and adore my daughter❤.
Lucky you are to have a mom with such a glorious heart and attitude. My 88 year old mom is completely opposite…she is pretty healthy, lives independently in a beautiful villa in an upscale senior community, has anxiety issues but chooses to be miserable and constantly complain…no one wants to be around her as she is just so unpleasant.
@@marcialane8235praying for your mom, maybe she’s just lonely and it’s hard for her to make friends🙏🏻❤️
@@marcialane8235 i do understand for reasons i won't go into, but for your sanity, choose to love her just as she is and let go of any unforgiveness, it gives you peace. and always end goodbyes with i love you
Depression is thinking about the past. Anxiety is worrying about the future. Doing one or both. We miss the PRESENT!
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Well said.
You are so right, live for today and make the most of it 😊
Thanks needed that today x
Yes, VERY well said! At times hard to follow
What A Fantastic Saying! I'm writing that out and putting it in a frame!
Thank you for this wisdom!
It is sweet Susan, my mom used to say the same thing about the angels bowling to me and I said the same to my children and grands! I love my life at 68. It is entirely different than I thought it was supposed to be. I had a hard time actually until recently, now however, I have decided to stop mourning the life I thought I would have and enjoy the one I have. You know our 16th President, Abraham Lincoln said it best: " Most folk are as happy as they make up their minds to be".
I’m in that process too. Thanks for the inspiration. Blessings.
I'm 60 and single. What keeps me going is
1. The excitement of getting the chance every day to grow and become who I was meant to be so I can best serve this life.
2. The opportunity to learn about as many things as I can absorb in one day. From connecting to my creator and higher self to how to master the best pizza dough.
3. Feeling so good everyday I feel I can move mountains. After wasting so many years hung over and functioning at half capacity I have learned to take better care of myself spiritually, nurtrionally, and mentally. I look forward to every day now.
I'm 60 too. Will be 61 soon.
Amen Sister! Me, too!❤
I'm 66 years old, and your message resonates with me. I've spent the last few years on a journey of self-discovery - May God continue to guide and steer your path as you continue to walk into newfound adventures and experiences!🙏🏾
I rarely comment, but I have to this time. Your channel is a part of my life. I look forward every saturday night for your post. I cant begin to tell you how much richer you have made my life. Your posts are enriching and I'm so happy I found your channel. I am 66 and I enjoy every day. Thank you Susan for being a part of my life.
I can relate to what you are saying Ruby. I enjoy seeking out her latest video and most times it resonates with what I am thinking or doing at this point in my life. I am now over 60 and have moved, downsized went through a turbulent relationship and now trying to find my path in life in a new area. at times I find I am isolated but that is by choice, because it is so hard to let new people into your life when you feel that it can cause more negativity. it is a wonderful place to be feeling joy and happiness and I am starting to get there. I feel I have a lot to offer to this world and trying to keep the negative people and situations out of my daily life is a struggle at times, but I am persevering and putting on a smile when I go out when the world sees me. they only see a smiley happy person. Have a wonderful day. Further comments welcome. ❤
I never miss a video! Her videos are magical!
They are magical, she hits home with me so many times. I feel trully blessed to have found her posts!
Mine. Too!❤
Yes, she really has such a special gift!
After fighting cancer and progressing into stage 4 ten years ago my wants are minimal. I never thought I would live to 73, but here I am. My family is gone, I have one living relative and sometimes it is lonely. I remember the good times because it's a waste of life to think about the negative.
Love to you!❤
@@dianaschoen4485 Thank you.
three things i live for.... my disabled husband (stroke]... AND MY TWO PRESCIOUS SONS! I AM 80 YRS OLD... AND I WATCH EVERY WEEK!
I love helping the Veterans that are on a low income they have so much Love and pain and sometimes they just need a friend. I help them get what they need to survive I even bring them food and items they need. I Love Our Soldiers who have served and were forgotten. Thank You for reminding us of having a wonderful life. Love you Susan and Desi! GBY!
What a gift you are to our wonderful Veterans! That is absolutely precious that you do this and I just know they are so grateful to have you! ❤❤ Love your heart! We need more humans like you…
@@shannapink801They tell me just a smile makes their day or a Thank you lifts them up. It doesn't matter what you look like. They are in the most least likeliness places you would think. They are so lonely Most of them. Praying for them and asking the Lord to send you where they are. That's how I started helping them.🙏❤️
Ahhh what a sweet story about your granddaughter. She's already learned that being selfless is better than being selfish at such a young age. What an angel she is.
I agree. I loved that story!❤️
*I often think about the time you described meeting Desi for the first time and how much he needed someone to understand his situation.* You took him on, and turned him into the dapper, debonair little gent we look forward to seeing each week. I am sure he is happy that you have expanded his family with the addition of the grand children. Wishing a great week to you ALL and looking forward to another Saturday video next week.
What keeps me going daily after first losing my cat who was like my child then my husband 4 months later and soon I’ll have to sell my home, my faith is how I keep going or else I’d have had a breakdown with so much loss all at once. I know my future is in Gods hands. ❤
Sending you strength and a hug. So sorry for all of your losses and hard times now. You are not alone. Praying for you.
Praying now 🙏
I love that you are putting your future in God's hands!! No one better to handle it. Take care of yourself and do something you never thought you would do. One step at a time with God's help you will be okay!!!❤
@@barbiec4312 I thank you so much
@@barbaradejaynes7612 Thank you very much
I am going to be 79 years old in November, and I love this life I live today. I lost my oldest to suicide 10 years ago. And it was then I decided to start looking at life differently. I wanted to live! Every single day! I would look at every day f4o. The point of love and gratitude. To take every opportunity to help my neighbor first. To find joy …. To live my life forward, for the rest of my days. ….. and I do, every single moment of every single day. I find happiness in the simple things..I find God in the rain and the sunshine.. I hope I live till I’m a hundred and 99 years! Thank you for asking..love your stories here.. thank you for loving and giving to this world.. each step at a time❤️
What a strong and inspiring woman you are!!! ❤
I hope I get to the beautiful place you are now. So sad about you child. So very sorry for your heartbreaking loss. You are an inspiration to me. I love that you find God in the rain and sunshine. I want to want to live until I'm 199 years old, too. I don't right now. But I have hope I will get there someday. I just turned 69. I'm pretty strong mentally, my faith, and my heart of gratitude grounds me. I'm burnt out and have adrenal fatigue. Coping with these things is a new challenge for me.
Three things to go on for in life:
1) coziness
2) fragrances
3) laughter
4) sounds: birds singing, raindrops, wind chimes, music boxes, a soothing voice
Snuggling with your fur-baby!🐕🦮🐕🦺
I SO AGREE WITH YOU BOTH! 🙂
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1. Dancing.
2. Reading a good book.
3. Feeling the loved and appreciated🥰
As a woman in her mid 70s I refuse to live in the negative. I enjoy each day and do all I can to make sure those around me enjoy being with me. Don't be a sterotype grumpy old person. Live every day as the gift it is.
“I refuse to live in the negative”. YES! Me either!!!!!!
I served my family and their negativities until it was no longer required. Life without that has served me well! I must also say, what a wonderful story about your grandbaby. Special moments.
I’m 62 and I love life. My husband has had some health issues and it’s been tough the past few months but we have relied on each other and it makes me realize what a good life we have. He’s on the road to recovery thankfully.
Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, love 💚 , and peace all over the world 🌏. I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust so as time goes on it will bring something great for us in the future, hope you don't mind? I'm Frank Lange from Brooklyn New York, where are you from if I may ask?❤
Hi Susan, at 62 I am isolated. I have no friends, but it’s ok. I have God! He is my best friend and He sustains me thru everyday and I am so blessed.
@@michigangirl1 thank you! Amen, I know God has removed negative people out of my life for a reason. I too am ok and am using this time to delve into Gods Word and working in a closer, intimate relationship with Jesus Christ. I know he is preparing me for worse times in the days to come. Being alone, there are so so many of us more mature women that prefer to be alone.
You taught me something today Susan and it brought me to tears. Your story about how your one little comment during a thunderstorm can change a child's life from fear to care....Just by shifting the focus to Desi. Oh my. I'm still wiping tears. It is the learning that keeps me going. Curiosity, happiness and tears. Yes...all of it to treasure.
I had a similar reaction. Life lesson: when you're afraid reach out to help another and you forget your own fears. Love this precious story!
Yes, I was touched by the story of thunderstorms and seeing that child’s hand comforting Desi! We have to face our fears, learn, and grow everyday!
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I loved this too. Thank you Susan. ❤
I will turn 69 years old on August 4 th. I am so proud of that. I am so prevaliged to be here on earth to love my husband of 48 years, my three daughters and my 7 grandchildren. I have a few aches and pains but that’s ok, it reminds me that I am alive and fortunate to have caring doctors who help me to feel better with medications that my mother or grandmother would have given anything to have had when they were suffering with arthritis as I do. I give thanks to God everyday that I can still feel and love snd receive love from my family. I am so grateful to be turning 69. Life is good. I am happy.
🎂 Happy Birthday... upcoming : ) The best is yet to come.
Happy birthday, and many more 🎉
Happy birthday 🥳🎂🎉hope you have a great time, with cake! If you’d like
Susan, I wish I had the strength and zest for life that you do. I’m having a bad week this week. I’m asking you if you are a praying lady to please pray for me. And, any of your other viewers that are watching this. Thank you and God bless you and Desi. Also, your grandchildren too. That was so sweet for your granddaughter to comfort Desi during the storm. ❤️🙏🏻
I’m thinking of you. I’m struggling to. I know I need to find joy. I hope your next week brings you better days.
Sending you love ❤ and will pray for you! Sending you a warm smile of understanding too! 😊 May you be Blessed!!
I just "lost" a good friend today, she was a client of mine and as I reflect back, I realize how isolated she kept herself,,,makes me soooooo sad for her and mad at myself for not checking on her mental state. thank you for your videos...I enjoy them a lot...
Sorry for your loss. My condolences.
Sorry for the loss of your friend.
I love this video! You brought to mind this verse:
“Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one another, for whoever loves others has fulfilled the law.” Rom.13:8
Amen. 🙏🏻❤️✝️❤️🙏🏻
I love living in the mountains of West Virginia I love getting to see you every week and I love living in a country where we are free to express ourselves in any way we want but first and foremost I love that we’re free to love God without question love and hugs Susie
Susan you are like that peace in the storm. Your a place us ladies can gather and not be so afraid.
AMEN 🙏
Yes! Love you Susan!❤
I am so thankful I found your channel. You have such an amazing way at looking at life and enjoying each day. It is the simple things of life that are the most important. My husband passed when I was 51 but I was so blessed to have had an amazing life that some never get. I have two amazing sons and 6 grandchildren. Two of them came to us from Bulgaria. My life has not been easy but God has always been there form. At 32 I had cancer and our sons were 12 and 9 at the time. There has been many losses in my life but without God I would never have made it. This year I have lost three family member three weeks in a row and I do suffer from depression but I know I serve a living Savior and in my darkest times He is always there. I am 75 now and have lived alone every since my precious husband passed. I known this is probably to long but I just want others to know when you start feeling down you can start counting your blessing and you will be surprised what The Lord has done. Life is not easy and we all have down times. You are never alone.
I was also widowed at 51. I am 65 now. It's so hard when all the plans you thought were in the future suddenly vanish. You have to rearrange your thoughts. It's hard and it's lonely. I count my blessings and talk to my Savior every day. It keeps me going. Blessings to you ❤
@@JenJean1234 so true it is very hard. I met my husband at 15 and married him at 19. Always expected to grow old together. It is hard and lonely ❤️
You are my Sunday morning inspiration ❤
Your granddaughter and Desi story is so precious. I love my backyard when the wind chimes play, I love watching my dog Annie sleep, I love playing in the ocean like a mermaid, I love dancing to an old familiar song, I love laying on the ground watching clouds....❤
"Life is good, no matter what"... I decided early on, as a child born to older parents, that I would do my best to make people smile and forget their pains or "grownup troubles" the best I could. Little did I know my life would be a solitary one, where the the early lesson of looking for any and all reasons to smile would allow me to be so happy, no matter what. Really appreciate your sharings, and most of all, that constant honest smile. Thank you so much for it !!!
Susan, I’m a little younger than you, 57. But I don’t see much of a difference and you enrich my life every Saturday.
Three things I live for are:
1. God, he has given me so so much I try to be a good daughter. I try everyday to live to please Him.
2. Love myself. At last I have learned that I deserve and need my own love. If I don’t take care of myself, who will?
3. My two adult children, the man I love, my friends and family. I have so much love to give, I have so much to share and learn, I feel blessed to be able to do so.
Love from Costa Rica.
Me too. Thank you for sharing.
Susan is such a lovely blessing to us all!❤
I recently turned 70 and it has been life changing. I have been a care giver my entire life taking of this family member and that family member. It cost me my marriage and my identity. I will probably leave this life care giving as I now take care of my disabled sister. I have figured out that maybe God wants me to do this. I try to do things for me when I can. I recently started cross stitching again and finding actually I am enjoying it more. I look forward to your video every week. You keep me connected to what is important. Thank you Susan!
After many losses & starting my life over in a new city, all by myself, I have never felt more strength & more at peace, inner peace. This is an exciting yet calm journey now.
This is the time to give back, volunteer, enjoy nature & simple pleasures. I'm retired now. The one thing that stands out after all the losses is; "Don't fear a broken heart, the cracks are where the new light comes in." Love, learn, live and grow. Then, fall in love with your new life. Enjoy the next several chapters. We deserve this & much more.
Thank you for sharing. Your words ring sooo true to me and my experience too! Blessings to you on your journey! ❤
Susan, I love that you are a songwriter like I am. 😊 I also started writing poems and songs at a young age. Unfortunately my parents discouraged my songwriting and at age 38 I moved from Michigan to North Carolina where I knew no one but was guided to move there by an angel, really! 😇 Anyway, over the next 18 years my songwriting dreams all came true. I even performed for Dr. Maya Angelou. I am 63 now and proud that I followed my dream. ❤
I learned a long time ago to just accept people for who they are. Love them if you want no matter what or part ways with no anger or regret. This allows me to be me without fear because I accept me with all my flaws. I want to surround myself with all the goodness I can. I want to squeeze every last bit of happiness out of this world and take it with me!
Thank you for sharing your life experiences each week! Because of a chronic back problem and staying in during the pandemic I have isolated my self way too much, depression has crept in, my eating habits are suffering and I sleep to much. I need to work on feeling better physically so that I have the energy to connect once more. Life is a gift and I want to be the best me I can be.
Elaine, blessings to you so that you can make the changes that will lift you up. I hope you are letting all the thoughtful, loving comments from Susan and this group fill your soul with healing because this love is meant for you and everyone who reads it. What an amazing group Susan has fostered! ❤
Susan is such a blessing to us!❤
You owe no dept to anyone but to yourself to be happy and have joy
I am 62 and divorced since 1998. We raised the kids by joint custody for 13 years in another country. Eventually I moved back to the States to take care of my mother by way of nursing home. So I have been by myself for a long time. Sometimes I dated. Sometimes I have intentionally gone through dry spells. What I love is what I wanted while I was a mother - time to myself. I can read whatever I want, put the book down and find it in the same spot. I can journal without interruption. I can watch all the TH-cam vlogs and news that I want. I can keep whatever food that I want/need in my cabinet and fridge. I enjoy going out for a cuppa tea or window shopping by myself - sometimes with a friend. My children are now parents and are going through that stage, while I am in and enjoying my stage. And you are so right about connection. It is something we need to be careful about - with friends and family. Staying healthy in all of that is very important.
I get up in the morning start my day around 530. Have coffee, feed Otis go back upstairs, look at some TH-cam videos start my Bible study and journaling. Hop in the shower say my prayers go for a long walk with Otis. I also have a breathing app on my phone it’s called just breathe absolutely love it❤ it’s free. I download it and you can set the intervals I do four times a day, which works out perfectly for me and believe me the stress disappears after doing each one. My faith in God is all encompassing . That is the main focus in my life.. then comes my family and Otis.❤ I really don’t worry about anything anymore. I had one of those weeks like you did about a month ago. Everything seemed to break😜 you know what? I just fixed it and moved on.😊 have a blessed weekend, love from me and Otis🐶 to you and little man🐶
Such a heartwarming story about your granddaughter ‘s fear of thunderstorms and how she comforted Desi. Little things in life make me happy. Seeing a butterfly or hummingbirds on the flowers I planted . Knowing that my family is healthy and that they enjoy their life is important to me. Being thankful for every little thing , even my morning cup of coffee. Having total quiet around me when I’m feeling anxious about something . It’s also important to laugh . As we get older, we don’t laugh enough. Someone once told me that for every time we laugh , we will add a year to our life. Let’s keep on laughing. 😂. Thank you for your beautiful videos. We love you. ❤
We really DON'T laugh enough.
Right now I’m cultivating a new life. Retirement occurred not according to plan because of health issues. I’m pushing forward to get the treatment I need while recognizing that my long held vision for my retirement (which was also in response to a serious pivot I had to take years ago) would need to pivot again. While recovering from a stroke I started a new business and I’m successful thus far. I have decisions ahead, but I’m grateful for my sweet home and the few friends I have left. I’m only in my 60s, yet I’ve lost quite a few friends over the last 12 years. Good memories. I’m making way for new friends and more good memories. Thanks for asking.
Txs for sharing. May you be Blessed with health and joy going forward! ❤
Such a sweet story of your granddaughter and Desi. I cried. Today I cried when I saw my husband climb down to the floor to read a book to our toddler grandson and his little friend. Moments like that make everything else seem unimportant.
Although aging can be hard, as a former Oncology Nurse, I know aging is a privilege. I agree with you. I'll never give up on my life either. I loved school also. Curiosity has kept me going.
Hospice nurse here. Not everyone gets to get old. It truly is a blessing.
Totally agree. I was an Oncology Nurse for 45 years and now am a hospice volunteer. Grab and enjoy every minute
Bless all you ladies. ❤
When I sit and think about it, I love almost everything about my life. I love that the past is gone. I love the blessings I have now - my grandchildren, my sweet daughters, my house, my independence. I love that there are so many possibilities for tomorrow. I’ve navigated the minefields to reach this point - and my minefields were treacherous. Now I can brush off the dust of the past and anticipate each new day. I’m 72.
Well said (or written) I love your words... which is inspiring as well...
I just turned 66 last Monday and having moved so many times in my life with my father in the Air Force, and then my husband in the Air Force as well, we have actually grown roots in this home and have lived here 20 plus years now. What I love the most is my family and my home and I love that when my children visit with my grandkids, they say things like, "O! it's so good to be home again", and "this house at Christmastime is incredible" or "Momma! the garden is so beautiful!". I'm glad they love being here, because I love being here too! I was so frightened of thunderstorms when I was a child! My family was living in Japan at that time, and I just knew that it must be Godzilla stepping on the earth each time the thunder cracked! I guess I grew out of that as I quite enjoy a good thunderstorm now. May God bless you, your family and your friends Susan! XO
I wait for your video every Saturday, it's always an inspiration! Love the life I'm enjoying at 83! You always are inspiring and make me grateful for each day. You ARE connecting!!! Priscilla from Washington state.❤
At 73 and having an alarm for 45 yrs and lots of responsibilities. My most favorite is NO alarm and doing pretty much what we want or if someone needs something, to help them. 10 Grandchildren. Reading to/with them, snacks, learning small chores, Going camping together.
Dear Susan im 66 my husband us 70. This February my husband was diagnosed with a cancerous brain tumor. Luckily he received treatment and the tumor is gone. We still have alot more treatment for him to stay cancer free but believe me we feel blessed. Every day is a gift. We enjoy life's little things. Our garden the wildlife in it. Our wonderful children and family our pet kitty and beautiful blue skies and sunshine . I have a silver bracelet with the inscription Don't look back. I got it years ago. I always look forward and think positively. It's worked for me all these years. I wish you and Desi all the best. Your healthy outlook on life lifts us all up!❤
Susan I learn so much from you and desi x I was a single mum for years after a nasty divorce,met my soul mate and then I became disabled...he stuck around! Been together 9yrs and he now has cancer...were young late 40s/50s and we love life! ... family,laughing,nature,music x
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I’m 72 and enjoying life every day. I thank God I can still ride my bike or hike a trail. I can still see and hear. I have important friends and a church I love. I love my children and grandchild. I love my husband. I’m determined to be thankful for all my blessings forever.
My husband and I got covid this winter and long covid after. We were no longer able to care for our adult handicapped son and he had to be relocated. He participated in the process, is happy, and thriving! Me, not so much. My doctor got me a health coach, and I learned about letting grief and suffering wash over me like a wave. Lots of waves, lol! Sometimes we are just living in the backwash, but always looking ahead. Thanks for a special video.
The story about your granddaughter was the most precious thing I've heard in a long while. What a big heart she has!
As a woman of 66, I've experienced so much in my life. But one commonality that served me well is my curiosity. I too was the kid in school with my hand up, ready to ask yet another question! And I love the fact that I always find the beauty that is around me. Sometimes it's hard to find, but I find it! It's my "attitude of gratitude" routine. Curious, Grateful and empathetic. That's me!
Your photography is beautiful. I love when you say “come back - we’ll be here!” Hearing that is a such a comfort to me. 😊✝️
Exactly
I tear up just a bit each time in a great way....
I love one you say “it’s a deal”:)
@@juliefizpatrick513 its a deal..thank you for coming back!
My top 3 things? My family (grandkids), my aesthetic fascination for beautiful things, and being able to afford a lovely little one bedroom condo all by myself.
Music too...I love to dance like nobody's watching. At 70, it brings me joy.
"People that I haven't even meet yet I have to lead the best life I possibly can." What a profound statement I would have never thought of
Hello to my Saturday evening tv show! Life with the Little Poet.
Loved the story about your Granddaughter's courage to protect Desi. I've been depressed last two days... But working on that❤️ thanks for the inspiration ❤❤❤
I must say, I’m looking forward to leaving life. My life has been horrible. I’m thinking of writing a book. People have said to write this book. I’m 62. There is no happiness. I’m married 42 years. I’m currently in therapy. Just started. I don’t want or need for anyone criticizing me. I’ve had that for 62 years. I watch you and you do inspire me. Can’t say much else. You do inspire me. Thank you
Great video! Getting older is a privilege and we should not debate about our pasts and worry about future. We need to count our blessing. Thank you, Susan.
All truth here. I am truly enjoying living at almost 67 and hoping for 50 more years. I love life so much. I feel so sorry for the friends I have lost already who died in their 60s. Such short endings.
Loved the story about your granddaughter and Desi -- so sweet! I smiled when you mentioned the angels bowling. As a child I wasn't too fazed by thunderstorms, but my cousin was terrified. She and our Italian-American grandmother were visiting when a storm rolled through. My cousin started to cry, and Grandma said, "Oh, that's just the angels bowling!" I helped Grandma with the narrative: "Look at that big flash! One of the angels must've gotten a strike!" Pretty soon the 3 of us were having a grand time imagining which claps of thunder and flashes of lightning meant a strike, a spare, or an open frame.
Your sweet granddaughter comforting Desi is so precious!❤
Susan, this episode left me speechless. God bless you for giving back from your abundance of experiences and lessons learned along the way.❤
Being 68 my top 3 that keeps me inspired are.
1. My personal relationship with my Saviour. Growing in him daily,; 2. Healthy mind ; 3. Healthy relationships with family and friends
Oh you are so kind...thank you so much for being here and sharing a bit of your life...you keep me going and I always hope with each day I can do better...be better for those around me...xxoo Happy T Day! xxoo Susan
I’m 66 and I am loving life- listening to music reading my Bible studying the Word of God enjoying my kids and grandkids and forgiving the absolute worst people have done to me- just as my Father in Heaven forgives me- so freeing and once you get that revelation it’s like you have wings! Freedom from bitterness and a flood of happiness and it’s there for EVERYONE ❤
Susan, I just look forward to our visits so much. You always have beautiful video footage, beautiful music and such great stories and perspectives on life that give me encouragement and hope as an older woman now on my own for the first time. I'm going through a divorce that I didn't want, but it's happening anyway. My life has been blown to pieces at 64 and I'm having to start over now. Watching you and seeing how you have thrived in life gives me courage and hope that maybe I can too. God bless you and sweet little Desi. Have a beautiful week.
You can do everything you set your mind to do! You will surprise yourself!
Susan what I love about me life is that I got to bring my mama back to where she grew up and was born. She's almost 88 next month. It's so wonderful to see her get so excited to drive around and say I remember when..vshe so happy now my three things that keep me going is our heavenly father . My beautiful children and the desire to live. Thank you for this video. I really needed it. Much love
It's amazing how much I learn from you each week. You always make me reflect on my life - the good, the bad, what I need to work on and of course how grateful I am for all the beauty in life.
Thanks Susan!
What a good video, thank you, Susan! I look forward to you every weekend😊
I am 64 and I do enjoy my life! My life started when I finally went SOLO !
Since the day I live alone I started growing, becomming stronger, becomming myself, enjoying who I am! I am alone since 21 years and it is a PRIVILIDGE! I now hear my soul, my inner voice, instead of beeing distracted by relationships. When you live alone the possibilities are ENDLESS and you get more connections with people! I only regret one thing: that I did not go solo much earlier... but at the other hand: thanks to the fact that I have been in relationships and 2 marriages, I now really, really KNOW how fantastic and beautiful it is to live without !
Thank you for your inspirational and stylish video,s!!
Greetings from Belgium 💝🐴🌹
My goal is to simply share loving kindness to whom so ever crosses my path…every day .
Your little grand daughter is a wise little girl. I'm 76 years old and I believe by helping others is how we heal ourselves.
Your front garden is lovely. 🌳🌸💗
What an amazing little girl, and you tell the story so well. Thank you. Some things I love about my life........... Knowing that I am safe from harm..........knowing I'll meet my daughter soon, who is in heaven, oh and my best friend too. She was murdered when she was 13. And my relationship with Jesus most of all. I'll see him face to face soon too. And I love to sing and I often sing to him and about him........I love summer rains, warm and loud as it dances off the metal roof of the cottage. I check the level of the water in the old row boat and wonder how much we'll have to bale before we leave the dock. I love warm, freshly baked bread when it comes out of the over. Slicing it and slathering it with butter is a joy also.....Catching fireflies at night in a jar then letting them go before turning in for the night......sliding between crisp white sheets is so comforting. These precious things are merely a few small touches of my grateful life.
Thank you for today’s message..Your granddaughter without knowing brought me and everyone a wonderful lesson..when you care for others in pain how less your own pain becomes…Thanks for your channel ..I can’t wait for your next video so that I can have coffee with you..God Bless🌹
This video was wonderful and touch me very personal, four years ago, I had a routine colonoscopy done and the doctor broke an abscess and I suffered for 6 months until they discovered I had Sepsis, they gave me 24 hours to live, and here I am, I had to live , I have only one son who was away at university, I am so grateful for everyday , that I can garden, or walk , take a drive in the car, I love it, so happy I found your videos, so positive, hope you had a beautiful time at the wedding, I bet you looked fabulous in your dress❤️it’s a hard thing to grasp the present , this helps, so God bless❤️🇨🇦🇺🇸❤️🙏💐
Susan, you are special. You were born that way. I know what you’re thinking. Isn’t everybody special? Of course they are. But , your specialness comes from a God give ability to connect with others.
I love the little trinkets of magic I have interspersed throughout my apartment home. I love my tiny garden. I love the sound of the cicadas as sit on my patio at night. I love the faint hum of crickets.
Everything you talked about today is Everything I have been thinking about today! Being 65 and retired a little over a year. Looked so forward to this time of life. Now I do feel isolated. I'm very grateful for everything I do have but sometimes I wonder, what now? I was a "why kid" also. My mother nicknamed me that! I want that spark back. Thank you for this time you and Desi share with us weekly. You are so relatable, kind and thoughtful. You encourage me. ❤ I also wanted to thank the people who share their hearts in the comments. This is truly the only you tube channel that feels safe to do that. I'm sure not everyone is always kind but the majority are. I learn so much from them as well.
Hi! I totally understand your "what now" feeling! One goes through those types of feelings for quite a while. It is a big challenge. It is important to look for things that bring meaning for you.... brings joy too to yourself and others! It is important to learn about oneself, grow (not easy :)) and follow new paths that you haven't had time for before this time. I have worked on reaching out to new ladies I feel I can build a connection with... even a wonderful understanding friendship with. Also I've identified what crafts I really enjoy and also use them to improve others lives like I love knitting warm scarves, beanies and prem baby clothes for the underprivileged. It brings me great joy to know the items I make so lovingly will help someone else that I will never even meet! It's a journey but be sure to build your life positively, based in as much connection, meaning and purpose as possible. Life is a precious gift! May God Bless you as you navigate this new season of life! May it be a wonderful learning experience for you and bring you to a point of joy and gratitude! ❤
What a Beautiful response from the lady above. So thoughtful and caring.
I felt the same after retiring from fulltime work. I'm single, never married, no children; a cat 😊.
I got a very part time job in retail. It's easy to do, and my young coworkers are so much fun! Makes me feel needed just by being really kind and accepting of them. I enjoy the customers, and its fun to help them find the pickles, or the peanut butter ! 😂
I also go to 12 step support groups. They are wonderful because they meet weekly, and its a way to form friendships and connection.
Blessings to you!
@@patricia753 What is 12 steps
@@cats2ishwould like to know as well
I love the rain! I love your chats! I love my furry kid and grand babies! What keeps me going is my faith. If you experience faith and hope then life will be ok.
Also Susan I forgot to tell you…the story of the storm, Desi and your sweet granddaughter brought me to tears. What a precious moment in time!🌹❤️
I enjoy following your story, Little Poet. My sweet Italian gramma used to tell me that thunder was just empty wine barrels being rolled down from heaven ! 🌩🍇👣🍷💕
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I wake up everyday just to see what's newly coming out in the garden...or to hear a bird sing again... I live each day for my husband and I to travel and see new things and meet new people.... I live each day because I know the end will come one day and I'll be darned if I'm not going to live it while I can....❤
Thank you Susan. So happy to see you connect with old friends. It seems to fill our batteries when we do. Your granddaughter story touched my heart as I know it did others. Desi is one lucky dog to have found you.
I am so fortunate to be blessed with great friends in my life. Am retired now for a while and love the slower pace of lazy mornings. I downsized to a small cottage by the lake and am awakened by birds instead of an alarm clock. I share my life with a rescue dog also who gets me up and moving. My days are my own and I love that. Worked hard all my life so this is now my time to do as I please. Love your channel and it has become part of my Saturday evening enjoyment. Thank you for that.
What a touching story of your granddaughter. I had some sad times as a child - alcoholic father . After my parents divorced when I was 16 my life has been upward since and I am now 76 blessed with excellent health. Wonderful husband of 57 years, two beautiful children and the best grandchildren, wonderful friends and extended family. I feel like one the luckiest people in the world. Thanks for your uplifting videos.
My goodness...
You do know that your little granddaughter is going to grow up to be just like you 💗
I love your story about the thunderstorm. My mom used to tell us the angels were bowling too. Thank you for bringing back a fond memory. I love your channel and Desi too! :)
At 76, soon 77, I too am full of curiosity and wonder. Thank you for your deep and moving stories…you have a beautiful gift of “connecting” with us and it enriches all of our lives. Thank you!
Hello Susan!! I’m not even going to list anything negative!! My top three- God, because I’m lost without Him!! ) my family, and best friend of 40+ years, and a great book!! Sadly, I tend to dwell on the negatives at times, but deep in my heart, these are the best things in my life!! These things, and your wonderful heart & spirit are what brings me joy!! As always, love& prayers to you, Desi and the family!!😍😍😍🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
At my age of 76 I don't worry about what people think of me. It frees me to concentrate on others and what makes them happy.
Dezi is so lucky to have some children to love him too. Life is good. ❤️
I am lifted up by your gentle spirit, your gentle presence and I am inspired by your beautiful journey…I am separated from my husband of 29 years and we are both going through counseling to reconnect our lives…you have given me courage to forgive and be open to reconciliation…bless you sweet friend 🌹❤️
Bless your beautiful little Grand- daughter showing such strength and compassion in her worst moment,( I'm not surprised as she has seen all you can do,) moments like that make me so happy I have three grandbabies two boys and a girl and they are my happy my heart and soul . The things they do and say and who they are just makes me the proudest of proud and so very blessed to have them in my life.Hugs to Desi my dogs use to shake too. ❤
The key that keeps me going is learning more about God and myself. Since I've gotten older and retired my time seems to allow me to focus. Looking back and seeing how God has taken me through things the bad and good and not giving up.
As I read some of the comments it's interesting to learn how peoples' lives are so similar and yet we think 'it's only me' a lot of the time. We are unique but we're not. What keeps me going (I'm 69( is family, exercise and learning - they all make me feel alive, healthy and well.
My current goal in life aligns with the values you expressed today. To shake off the fear and isolation of the recent past and to start to really live again! 👍🏼♥️🇨🇦
What I love about my life is .... I got to live with my grandchildren and helped them see the world, share feelings helped with homework and comforted them. I'm ok.
Thanks for this uplifting video, Susan! I love your street. There's something so sweetly American about it. Your friend Randy is awesome, your grandkids are awesome, Desi is awesome, and YOU are awesome! I don't know why I'm still here, really, but maybe God has some little thing in mind that I can still do for someone else. Meanwhile, I sit on the patio and watch the bats at twilight, under a waxing moon, and think, "this is good." Like the hymn says, "Help me, Lord, when toil and trouble meeting; E'er to take, as from a Father's hand; One by one, the days, the moments fleeting; Till I reach the promised land." Have a terrific week!
Hi. I just wanted to share with you how much I love & appreciate your videos. I live in a retirement village & sad to say we have a number of aged orphans. One such lady who is the sweetest kindest person you could meet. She turned 96 years young last Friday. She came to our gathering in our community centre which we have every Friday. The bar is open & we all bring nibbles to share. When she entered we all sang happy birthday. I got a card which everyone signed & took 2 birthday cakes one for her & one for another who turned 80 plus the next day. They were both thrilled especially my 96 year young friend as she has not seen her heard from her children in 30 years except for a niece. It’s so sad but she told me that she is happy. Has her lovely home & garden. She still garden, cooks for herself. But she sees her family as the friends in the village. Connection is what makes her happy, the connection to her home her garden & her friends. But most of all the connection she has with God. She was a Salvation Army officer until 90 + where she volunteered until her retirement. Love your garden 🪴 cheers & 💙 Lynne from Victoria Australia.
My Grandmother told us the angels were moving the furniture around…..it helped us a little bit. Glad I ran into your channel, you make me slow down and feel calmer. I’m 67 and trying to refocus on what’s important in Life.
That is awesome!
Susan thank you for sharing so much today! We are having a thunderstorm right now as I read about your darling Granddaughter comforting Desi during your thunderstorm! I love your positive attitude of being over sixty five and keeping connections, just a beautiful video! Thank you for being with us every week 💕
Thank you for this video. They always give me something to ponder. I love the decorating in your new home. I have so much to learn from you. I am 72 and became a widow 3 years ago. I am an introvert to I have to force myself to go places. Unfortunately it is very hard for me now as I have a very bad back and am waiting to have both my knees replaced. I know many people live in constant extreme pain. I force myself to endure the pain to go to church on Sundays, and enjoy the days my 6 1/2 year old granddaughter comes to stay for the day. I'm trying to find joy in everyday and everything I do. That is what my late husband told a young soldier once. That young soldier told me a story at my husband's celebration of life that he was on manuvers in a foreign country. It was pouring rain and he slid into a ditch filled with well you know what, making sure he held his rifle over his head. He started to laugh. His buddies came to help him and asked him why he was laughing when he was standing knee deep in filth. He said, "Someone once told me to find joy in everything". It so touched my heart. I need to remind myself of that every day. I look forward to your videos each week. Thank you.
I’ve watched you for a very long time and by far my favorite story is about your precious granddaughter❤️❤️❤️it is just so so sweet! I’m nearly 73 and I’m more at peace and content then I’ve ever been. My heart is full of love for those around me even strangers and I appreciate life. God bless and keep you dear friend, hugs