I'm sure you can guess what the title is about if you've been watching these vlogs... thought about cutting this part about but just kept it in in case anyone can relate & it helps
I got a very similar surgery on my lower jaw because of an overbite! The swelling went down after a couple weeks, and it was about three months before I was good as new. I'm definitely glad I had it done though! My bite and profile are a lot better! It's ok to be scared. Don't try to fight it. Recovery will be rough, but you will come out the other side glad you did it. Best of luck
Hey Shelby. I'm a nursing assistant in North Carolina at Duke University Hospital. I understand your pre-op fears. It's scary indeed. But something I always tell my patients, right before they go to surgery, is "Positive mindset; positive outcomes." It's a tradition of mine for anyone going under the knife. I'm passing my tradition on to you, and wishing you the best for your procedure. Stay strong. Know you will come out okay... and keep doing like you are doing; telling yourself that this is for the best and in 6 months, you will be glad it's done and out of your mind. Okay? Positive Mindset; positive outcomes. You got this bud. I'll keep you in my prayers.
Good luck Shelby!! 💕💕 you’ll be okay! It’s understandable to be nervous, this seems like an intense surgery, but you’re in good hands! I’m the same exact way you are when it comes to surgery. Sending you hugs and a speedy recovery!!! 💕💕💕
Thank you for keeping the reality in. I appreciate it even though it may feel very vulnerable. I would be scared too and that’s normal but you’ve got this Shelby! We’re here thinking of you and sending you love 💕
When I saw you cry it made me cry too!!! You have so much going on right now, and are still able to give us awesome vids! You kick major ass Missy! Sending you lots of love ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Shelby, I had this surgery on 2017. Before the surgery I could barely chew, it hurt when I laughed, it hurt when I ate, I dislocated my jaw twice and had to go to the emergency room to put it back and everything (which is extremely painful), and I hated my face. My jaw was too long and one side was sort of bigger than the other, which made my face look so uneven and it got even worse as I grew up; I barely had an upper lip and my smile was not that nice either. This surgery was literally the best thing that ever happened to me. It changed my life in more ways than I can count. I won’t sugar coat it and say that it is easy, because it is not, and I wasn’t able to eat normally for A LONG time, waaaay more than a month. And even when the doctor allows you to chew again, you have to gain confidence, because you haven’t chewed in a long time so you’re kind scared of screwing everything up (at least I was). I lost 8 kg in a week, but I think that wouldn’t have happened if I had been correctly advised. When my parents realized I was losing too much weight, they got really worried and called a nutritionist, and then I started this diet focused on gaining weight, which helped a lot. I know you’re nervous, but everything will be fine and like 6 months from now you’ll be extremely satisfied. Today when I look at my “before” pictures I honestly just see how unhappy I was with my whole situation. It was really hard, but I’d do it all over again if I had to
You got this Shelby! You’re stronger than you feel at this moment. I appreciate you sharing that raw moment! Mentally preparing for surgery is hard! But I truly feel you’re gonna do fine! Only advice I have for you, get up and move as much as you can. Small steps when ever possible helps. Good luck 🍀 👍
So many emotions happening in a very hectic and exciting time in your life, I hope you feel the love and support of the multitude of your followers. The fact that an army of the Shelby faithful are there to dry any tears and give hugs until all fear and doubt subside should help to ease any of the normal pre-surgery emotions. Thanks again for sharing this experience. Sending positive thoughts for the days ahead!
I had surgery last year, not the same surgery but it was a surgery that kept me not walking for a long time or even moving. I was so scared the night before, worst panic attack ever- but as soon as the day came I realized everything that was meant to happen would happen regardless of how my brain handled things- which that thought helped calm me. The surgery went amazing and I regret nothing- and you'll be saying the same thing too!!
@@veganbeth Thank you! And no problem- it was supposed to be simple gallbladder surgery but they didn't know I had lupus at the time so it caused my pancreas, liver, and kidney inflammation problems during surgery, so I ended up staying in the hospital for 2 weeks after, while recovering. My legs technically worked walking wise but I was so weak and in pain, they had me in a wheelchair for few weeks. No fun! But it was a total fluke as they didn't know I had lupus, so most people wouldn't have this issue haha. (I said the surgery went amazing because my gallbladder did get removed perfectly fine, it was my own body that had issues hah)
I'm getting this surgery next year, but the opposite, so I have an overbite, my jaw is too far back and needs to come forward with some additions. I'm in braces in preparation for it. It's a long journey and it's actually GREAT to see someone about to go through a version of what's coming for me. Please keep documenting the process, it helps. It feels like it's going to take forever for my surgery to get here. For me, like for you, this is the only option. Good luck!
Don’t be sad 😢 you make my day with your videos but I love how you trust is to see what life really makes us feel. I hope for a really speedy recovery!!
You and your sister are so real and so mature that you have allowed us in your lives and can be vulnerable to us...God bless you and He will cover you with His blood through our your surgery😊💗
It is totally normal to be scared Shelby! you know what to expect and I think that is the only mental preparation you can do at this point, you know the good and the bad so hopefully you wont be surprised by anything 😊 I am sure you will recover fast and back to making videos in your new house which I cant wait to see! YOU GOT THIS GIRL ✌️✌️✌️✌️
not the same surgery, but i had a double mastectomy last year at 22 years old. i didn't know anyone personally my age who had been thru breast cancer, and the typical recovery time for a mastectomy is 4-6 weeks. it was terrifying to think about being in pain and not being myself for 6 weeks. all that to say, the surgery went great, i recovered in 2 weeks, and was able to walk at graduation. shelby, you are so much stronger than you think and you will be happy you did it. YOU GOT THIS!! wishing you a speedy recovery 💛
I had jaw surgery two years ago it was rough but was worth the pain and once I started to heal it got better. Don’t be scared just be confident and aware of the need for your body to rest after the operation. Sending you all the best Shelby
You're going to do freaking awesome! If you ever need to hear from another patient or talk out the process, I got you! Remember that it's going to be a huge relief being done and your future self will thank you so you can comfortably bite/chew!
It’s just that your a real person! Lol. Just glad that you have support of family and friends. It’s gonna help for sure! It may be the hardest thing that you do but...then you can do anything!
Good for you in helping others by giving to Goodwill (or any other similar self-help place of the same ilk). I'm in my 60's now, but in college a fellow photographer named Echo had a surgery of this type and when she came back around months later, I didn't recognize her at all - she finally told me who she was. For her the correction was so pronounced. Always a nice lady, she pulled through it all very well and it blessed her life I think. I'll wish the best for your surgery outcome and that the discomfort will not be overwhelming as you recover. Laughed at your stuff under the bed - :)
I had spine surgery and the night before I threw up from anxiety but it was the best decision I’ve ever done and once you’re on the surgery table you relax because you know you’re with some of the best professionals and they know exactly what they’re doing! You’re going to be so glad you got the surgery, wish you all the best!! Also excited to see the final result :)
Omgosh Shelby... I legit got a’lil emotional.. Not the greatest seeing you scared... but like you said, looking back, just a little blip right! 😊 I have been mentally wishing you well all along once I found out you were going through w this and can’t wait to see that smile when you’re all healed up and stronger 💪 than ever 😎🤙 much love ❤️
When I was sick with covid I had two weeks where I could hardly move. TH-cam (your vids included) got me through it. I wish I could repay some small bit of comfort to you.
It broke my heart to see you cry 😢 I would probably feel the same and it's okay to feel scared. Thank you for sharing the good and the bad. I'm sending you my good vibes, you got this 👊🏼 This will only make you stronger 💜
Thank you for being open and honest. I am glad you did not edit out certain sections of this vlog. I always admire You Tubers who are straightforward and realistic and not sugar coating the problems they have in their lives. Thinking of you and sending lots of love and positive vibes your way. I think you can get through this. You are stronger than you think.
Hey. Good luck and we know you’ll get through this. Everyone is pulling for you! Nothing anyone can say will truly make you feel better, but just know we are all supporting you ☺️
🥺🥺🥺 you'll be ok! Hardly comment on TH-cam videos but you truly made me emotional. Everything will be ok and just remember that afterwards your jaw will feel better.
Once the surgery is over you’ll feel so much better for the rest of your life! You’ll be fine don’t worry too much! The doctors know what they’re doing and you’re going to recover and be fine 😍
Shelby! A lot of things that go to the goodwill go into the landfill. I’d highly recommend donating to shelters and transition housing! Anything they can’t use they will donate, so it goes through another persons hands before goodwill donation! Highly recommend! Especially for clothes and toiletries
I had the same surgery 3 years ago ! I had been putting it off for 5 years because it scared me so much. It was so worth it, it will be hard after but once you’re in it, you’ll get through it just fine ! The surgery itself went by smoothly. I wish you all the best, wish I could give you a better pep talk ! You got this
I had a similar surgery about 2 years ago. I was definitely nervous but I also felt relief that things were finally going to get better. Like you said, it's an investment in your future. My surgeon always told me that the first week is the hardest, and once you get past that things will be better. You'll also be amazed at how resilient your own body and mind are. 2 years later I hardly remember any of the recovery. You'll be okay and should be proud for even having the courage to take this step!
I like your vlogs they relaxing and cool :) I will pray that it went well and speedy recovery. Have ppl near you from family to help, when my bf had colon surgery he was in hospital and I was visiting him everyday one night i slept in hospital to comfort him- it helps- and also praying helps i think.
Throughout the vlogs, you could sense you were really nervous, which makes sooo much sense. I would not even have the courage to do this surgery. You can do this!!! 😊
Being nervous regarding having surgery is normal. Make sure you feel safe and confident in your surgeon which will help significantly. I would also suggest asking your questions pre-surgery having a plan post-surgery. With that said, I had spine surgery a week ago and the pain/challenges on this side are far less then pre-surgery. My mobility and ability to walk has improved significantly. I actually changed surgeon after getting multiple red flags that were upsetting from the surgeon and his nurse. My surgeon and his team did a great job... Also the hospital protocol and procedures where on point, and the staff was amazing; I felt totally safe. I was also glad to complete my surgery before an increase in Covid cases so I am to have it over an done with🙌🏾
I'm really glad you opened up about your fear and let us see inside the real you. Art makes the person appreciating it FEEL. This video made me feel compassion for you. It's a much higher level than normal youtube videos. We watch these vlogs because we want to see a real person, not because someone is the funniest or most positive person. Otherwise, my wife is going to give birth this week, and she feels just like you. Cries all the time and fears for her life. I can't really relate to you two, maybe just the way I am, I don't fear surgeries, or physical stuff like that. During childhood, whenever I fell and bled and started crying, my father would always say: "What's the point of you crying? Your guts aren't going to come out through there. You're fine." Then I would cry for a few more seconds and then move on. I wish you all the best for your surgery!
Girl, I actually freaked out so much about my nose surgery (to breathe, not cosmetic) that I cancelled it. Then 10 months later I booked it again and it sucked but I knew there was an end to the recovery process and that goal is what I kept in mind. Then like magic after a few weeks I was able to breathe like I had never done before and it was all worth it. So you're not alone in the freak out and you won't be alone in the "yay it's finally over and my life is so much better now." You got this, Shelby! 💕
I think you can handle it. I had serious surgery a few years ago. The first week, was rough but I am sure you will have painkillers. I think you are stronger than you think you are. Don't hide your fears from us! It's human!!!♡
Oh Shelby, I am so sorry you are scared of the surgery - its okay to be scared. I had the same surgery and I was scared too, you will be fine follow their instruction on pain meds, stay on top of it.
Shelby be strong about your surgery. From March 16 to July 9, 2018. I was in the hospital for 5 month and had 11 major surgerys . One of my Surgery took just over 14 Hours. I wish the best luck to you.
Sending you hugs. The Science of today can do amazing things also you are a very strong woman so Science + a very strong woman = you will be able to overcome this. You inspire us and we love you Shelby
I had this surgery done in 2017, I had both my upper and lower jaws moved. It took me a solid 6 months until I felt like myself again. What I wish I knew before the surgery was that the recovery is going to be frustrating. When I went to take a sip of water for the first time after surgery it got all over the place, because your mouth is in a new position, you have to train yourself how to eat and drink again, which takes time. My biggest advice is to have a lot of protein shakes on hand, I drank a lot of muscle milk. Also, mashed potatoes were really helpful, I think I had them everyday during my recovery lol. I am happy with my results, I can chew better and speak clearly now. Each week, you will become better and better. Best of luck!!💜
Focus on the fact that months from now, when you look back on this surgery, you’ll be soooo happy you did it. And you’ll be proud of yourself that you got through it! What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger, hang in there Shelby ❤️
I need to have jaw surgery and I've put it off because every time I think about even scheduling the consultation I want to cry because I get so scared of what it will be like because of what I've read!! You're so strong for even going through with it!! Good luck, Shelby!! It'll be okay :)
You are MORE than allowed to be scared and breakdown because surgery is no joke no matter what it is. You’re doing way better than I ever would because my anxiety doesn’t ever let me stop thinking about something I’m afraid of and makes me a basket case from the moment I find out about it to the time that it’s over lol I never got my wisdom teeth out for that reason honestly. I was up panicking the entire not before, got in the chair for the appointment, annnnnd ran out lol I’ve never had surgery, especially what you’re about to do, so I can’t speak to it but I’m sure you’re going to get through this like a champ. Always remember the goal ❤️ you will be so much happier once it’s behind you
I’ve had 3 surgeries in my life, in 2018 I had TMJ surgery as well and got a titanium screw also. It’s definitely not fun and the healing process does take some time. The first week is rough with the swelling, eating, and sleeping aspect. But after that it gets a lot better! Everything will be fine I was also very worried and almost back out but am happy I did it. Also you will probably have a sore throat which is quite unpleasant. Best of luck 🙂
shelby you can do it! I had surgery (not jaw surgery) in may and felt fine about it until the day before. I had a complete panic attack and so much anxiety the night before. i think that's completely normal though since surgery can be so daunting, its a big deal! But now it's been over 4 months since my surgery and it feels like it happened forever ago! Like you said, in 6 months you will be so grateful that you did this for yourself. keeping u in my thoughts!
I had a VERY similar jaw surgery when I was in high school because I still had a 1.5 tooth overbite after 3 years of braces. I was terrified before the surgery too, but I am happy to report that it sounds WAY worse than it is! I have two small bits of advice. Figure out what foods you will drink before the surgery, like fully test the recipes. Also, avoid sour at all costs; something I failed to think about before I absentmindedly took a sip of lemonade in the hospital because it came with my dinner. That was the only time I cried from pain. You got this!
You're gonna be fine Shelby 😌💗 They are professionals, nothing to be afraid, of course the recovery sucks but you'll be glad that you did it afterwards!! You're brave!! 😉
Give yourself some grace. Emotional stress tears with all you got going on between filming ahead, moving, back and forth to Palm Springs, the surgery, probably sleep deprivation too. You got a lot on your plate and we appreciate your hard work and consistency!🤎🤎🤎
Please, I need you to make videos of the whole surgery and post-op process. As detailed as possible!!!!! I have the same problem as you and I'm considering getting surgery.
Aww hang in there Shelby. You're so smart and responsible and I think you've done a terrific job of preparing for this in all aspects. You are a strong and beautiful woman and like you said...in six months it'll all just be a blip and a memory!
I had major surgery last year; I was so excited to get it over with because all I did was visualize how much better life would be after surgery. But I was still nervous as the days drew closer. When the day of the surgery came, I suddenly felt very calm and was almost on autopilot. But once I woke up and realized I made it through, it was the MOST AMAZING feeling! Sometimes I wish I could bottle that feeling so I can enjoy it every once in a while. So remember to enjoy that post-surgery RELIEF; savor it!! And yes, my life is so much better having taken care of that situation. Hang in there! You'll be fine!!! Hugs XOXO
I had the lower jaw only and opposite procedure for an overbite when I was 15 about 10 years ago. It is scary but not that bad honestly. My main recommendation is post surgery don’t be shy to ask for more pain meds or take them if you aren’t comfortable. Just be careful with the opioids if they give them to you, duh.. I have a big pain tolerance so I didn’t think it was too bad but just had the lower done too. About a third of my lower face never regained feeling fully so always feels like Novocain is wearing off but don’t notice it unless I think of it. Mine was also in a rural hospital so a much nicer place in LA will 100% do yours more accurate with the nerve reconnection. Long term after make sure you wear a night guard if you even so slightly start to grind your teeth. Avoids uneven grinding down the road, got the problem myself hope TMJ doesn’t get me.. Been watching your videos about it for a while hesitant to comment but you got this! It’s so nice having my teeth fit together now!
I had a back surgery last year and they have to wake you up in the middle of it, just to make sure they don’t paralyze you. I was FREAKED but all the doctors and nurses make you so so comfortable!! You got this!
Jaw surgery was the hardest thing I've ever done. But I don't regret it. It's going to be a physically challenging next few months but you will make it out to the other side glad you did this sooner rather than later.
When I was watching you cry in the car, I legit started crying too. I hope everything goes well. As a person whose had six surgeries, just know that everything will be okay! I just wanna give you a hug 🥰
i got the surgery 4 years ago. i was so scared i delayed it 20 years. definitely glad i got it. Recovery is really hard. broth will be your best friend. but you are more well prepared than i ever was. i did research the surgery and finally had to stop and just get the surgery done.
It is absolutely a good idea to prepare for the worst. After seeing this vlog today, it looks like your surgery is VERY similar to mine back in 2012. Granted it looks like technology for recovery has gotten better!! But I was in high school when I had mine and BOY OH BOY did I wish they would have prepared me more. I had a SUPER bad recovery. I couldn’t talk, or even breathe, out of my mouth. Was wired shut for 5 weeks and swollen for at least a year post op. For two weeks I could only eat with a syringe attached to a catheter tube I had to snake to the back of my mouth. I was NOT ready for how bad it was going to be. But even saying all that I am so glad today that I got it. I had a terrible underbite too and now I experience zero pain or discomfort! Aside from a slightly numb lower chin but whatevs. Lol. It WILL be worth it I promise, but definitely be prepared for the next several months to be the literal worst. Just my two cents!
Major surgery is definitely nerve wracking and it’s ok to be scared about it. It will be better in the long run but in the moment it can definitely be overwhelming. I’ve had to think of the possibility of getting brain surgery and it was definitely hard for me to think about.
I pretty sure it was because she had issues before when she was younger because she had and an underbite and a problem with her her bite with her back teeth and braces and a bite block fixed it temporarily but her teeth moved and she had been putting the surgery off( because I think she said the recovery is earthier six or twelve months) and now she decided she was going to do it ( I think she said she wanted to get it over with) and now after the surgery I think she said her underbite and bite in the back is pretty much fixed, but she will have to get Invilign for about a year for everything to be perfect.
One of my friends had this surgery in high school...she had braces for YEARS before and they didn't fix the issue and she had to have surgery. I feel like the whole healing process was not as bad or as long as she thought it would be and she looked great afterwards. You got this!!!
Make tentative plans for a getaway in Dec. or Jan. Having a special travel treat to look forward to after burning the candle at both ends the last few months + surgery could be a great mental escape!
I got a very similar surgery on my lower jaw because of an overbite! The swelling went down after a couple weeks, and it was about three months before I was good as new. I'm definitely glad I had it done though! My bite and profile are a lot better! It's ok to be scared. Don't try to fight it. Recovery will be rough, but you will come out the other side glad you did it. Best of luck
Hey Shelby. I'm a nursing assistant in North Carolina at Duke University Hospital. I understand your pre-op fears. It's scary indeed. But something I always tell my patients, right before they go to surgery, is "Positive mindset; positive outcomes." It's a tradition of mine for anyone going under the knife. I'm passing my tradition on to you, and wishing you the best for your procedure. Stay strong. Know you will come out okay... and keep doing like you are doing; telling yourself that this is for the best and in 6 months, you will be glad it's done and out of your mind. Okay? Positive Mindset; positive outcomes. You got this bud. I'll keep you in my prayers.
Good luck Shelby!! 💕💕 you’ll be okay! It’s understandable to be nervous, this seems like an intense surgery, but you’re in good hands! I’m the same exact way you are when it comes to surgery. Sending you hugs and a speedy recovery!!! 💕💕💕
Thank you for keeping the reality in. I appreciate it even though it may feel very vulnerable. I would be scared too and that’s normal but you’ve got this Shelby! We’re here thinking of you and sending you love 💕
When I saw you cry it made me cry too!!! You have so much going on right now, and are still able to give us awesome vids! You kick major ass Missy! Sending you lots of love ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Best wishes Shelby! Everything's gonna go great with the surgery! 🤗
Shelby, I had this surgery on 2017. Before the surgery I could barely chew, it hurt when I laughed, it hurt when I ate, I dislocated my jaw twice and had to go to the emergency room to put it back and everything (which is extremely painful), and I hated my face. My jaw was too long and one side was sort of bigger than the other, which made my face look so uneven and it got even worse as I grew up; I barely had an upper lip and my smile was not that nice either. This surgery was literally the best thing that ever happened to me. It changed my life in more ways than I can count. I won’t sugar coat it and say that it is easy, because it is not, and I wasn’t able to eat normally for A LONG time, waaaay more than a month. And even when the doctor allows you to chew again, you have to gain confidence, because you haven’t chewed in a long time so you’re kind scared of screwing everything up (at least I was). I lost 8 kg in a week, but I think that wouldn’t have happened if I had been correctly advised. When my parents realized I was losing too much weight, they got really worried and called a nutritionist, and then I started this diet focused on gaining weight, which helped a lot. I know you’re nervous, but everything will be fine and like 6 months from now you’ll be extremely satisfied. Today when I look at my “before” pictures I honestly just see how unhappy I was with my whole situation. It was really hard, but I’d do it all over again if I had to
Awww, bless you. It’s totally understandable why you feel as you do. Thank you for sharing - I’ll certainly be praying for you.🙏🏾❤️
You got this Shelby! You’re stronger than you feel at this moment. I appreciate you sharing that raw moment! Mentally preparing for surgery is hard! But I truly feel you’re gonna do fine! Only advice I have for you, get up and move as much as you can. Small steps when ever possible helps. Good luck 🍀 👍
thank you for being so honest with us
You're going to be fine 🥺 we've got you ❤️
You’re going to be okay Shelby💞💞
So many emotions happening in a very hectic and exciting time in your life, I hope you feel the love and support of the multitude of your followers. The fact that an army of the Shelby faithful are there to dry any tears and give hugs until all fear and doubt subside should help to ease any of the normal pre-surgery emotions. Thanks again for sharing this experience. Sending positive thoughts for the days ahead!
Shelby, thanks for uploading/vlogging your experience and sharing your feelings !!
I had surgery last year, not the same surgery but it was a surgery that kept me not walking for a long time or even moving. I was so scared the night before, worst panic attack ever- but as soon as the day came I realized everything that was meant to happen would happen regardless of how my brain handled things- which that thought helped calm me. The surgery went amazing and I regret nothing- and you'll be saying the same thing too!!
We all love her ❤️ Btw, I also have a small channel with lots of vlogs if you want to check it out
I’m glad that you are feeling better! Thank you for sharing! Can I ask what surgery you had?
@@veganbeth Thank you! And no problem- it was supposed to be simple gallbladder surgery but they didn't know I had lupus at the time so it caused my pancreas, liver, and kidney inflammation problems during surgery, so I ended up staying in the hospital for 2 weeks after, while recovering. My legs technically worked walking wise but I was so weak and in pain, they had me in a wheelchair for few weeks. No fun! But it was a total fluke as they didn't know I had lupus, so most people wouldn't have this issue haha. (I said the surgery went amazing because my gallbladder did get removed perfectly fine, it was my own body that had issues hah)
I'm currently waiting for brain surgery and I'm binge-watching Shelby's videos to take my mind off things💗
I haven't been following you for long, but I really like your videos because you're so transparent about everything. Wishing you all the best.
Praying for you Shelby. I hope the surgery goes well and God gives you the strength to handle whatever comes. Wishing you the best
Be strong! You can do this ❤️ whenever I'm fearful I just tell myself "if someone else did it, you can do it too" and I buck up lol. You've got this!
Anxiety sucks. You're young so you'll heal quickly. You can do this!
Sending you all of the positive thoughts, vibes and prayers your way Shelby!
You’ll be okay, Shelby! Sending big prayers and hugs! It’s okay to be scared! I cried when you cried!
I'm getting this surgery next year, but the opposite, so I have an overbite, my jaw is too far back and needs to come forward with some additions. I'm in braces in preparation for it. It's a long journey and it's actually GREAT to see someone about to go through a version of what's coming for me. Please keep documenting the process, it helps. It feels like it's going to take forever for my surgery to get here. For me, like for you, this is the only option. Good luck!
Don’t be sad 😢 you make my day with your videos but I love how you trust is to see what life really makes us feel. I hope for a really speedy recovery!!
You are going to be finee, we're here to support you. 💖
The surgery is the best for you ,not worry.
I sent you a virtual hug.
You and your sister are so real and so mature that you have allowed us in your lives and can be vulnerable to us...God bless you and He will cover you with His blood through our your surgery😊💗
Aww Shelby!!!!! Praying for you sweet girl!!! I know you’ll be just fine!! Positive vibes!!!!
It is totally normal to be scared Shelby! you know what to expect and I think that is the only mental preparation you can do at this point, you know the good and the bad so hopefully you wont be surprised by anything 😊 I am sure you will recover fast and back to making videos in your new house which I cant wait to see! YOU GOT THIS GIRL ✌️✌️✌️✌️
not the same surgery, but i had a double mastectomy last year at 22 years old. i didn't know anyone personally my age who had been thru breast cancer, and the typical recovery time for a mastectomy is 4-6 weeks. it was terrifying to think about being in pain and not being myself for 6 weeks. all that to say, the surgery went great, i recovered in 2 weeks, and was able to walk at graduation.
shelby, you are so much stronger than you think and you will be happy you did it. YOU GOT THIS!! wishing you a speedy recovery 💛
wow that is a lot to go through- glad you got through it really well!! And thank you!!
Thank you for sharing your fears and being real! ❤️ you are very strong, you got this! 💪
I had jaw surgery two years ago it was rough but was worth the pain and once I started to heal it got better. Don’t be scared just be confident and aware of the need for your body to rest after the operation. Sending you all the best Shelby
Hopefully when I have some time off work I will make a video for her to feel a bit better and to know what to expect
It’s okay that you’re scared! Thanks for being vulnerable with us!!! Sending you a virtual hug 🥰
Awe Shelby i hope you feel better about the upcoming surgery ! Everything will be okay !
You're going to do freaking awesome! If you ever need to hear from another patient or talk out the process, I got you! Remember that it's going to be a huge relief being done and your future self will thank you so you can comfortably bite/chew!
It’s just that your a real person! Lol. Just glad that you have support of family and friends. It’s gonna help for sure! It may be the hardest thing that you do but...then you can do anything!
You'll be okay Shelby! Love your videos!
Good for you in helping others by giving to Goodwill (or any other similar self-help place of the same ilk). I'm in my 60's now, but in college a fellow photographer named Echo had a surgery of this type and when she came back around months later, I didn't recognize her at all - she finally told me who she was. For her the correction was so pronounced. Always a nice lady, she pulled through it all very well and it blessed her life I think. I'll wish the best for your surgery outcome and that the discomfort will not be overwhelming as you recover. Laughed at your stuff under the bed - :)
Ouch! Wishing you a speedy recovery
Your surgery is a brave move and compliments for ventilating 'the feels', even more 💪
I had spine surgery and the night before I threw up from anxiety but it was the best decision I’ve ever done and once you’re on the surgery table you relax because you know you’re with some of the best professionals and they know exactly what they’re doing! You’re going to be so glad you got the surgery, wish you all the best!! Also excited to see the final result :)
Omgosh Shelby... I legit got a’lil emotional.. Not the greatest seeing you scared... but like you said, looking back, just a little blip right! 😊 I have been mentally wishing you well all along once I found out you were going through w this and can’t wait to see that smile when you’re all healed up and stronger 💪 than ever 😎🤙 much love ❤️
Omgoshh Shelby please don't cry you'll be great in no time we all be praying for a faster & healthy recover love ya gal 😘💕🙌
When I was sick with covid I had two weeks where I could hardly move. TH-cam (your vids included) got me through it. I wish I could repay some small bit of comfort to you.
girllllll *I've had orthognathic surgery a few years ago* - recovery is definitely not comfortable or pleasing. But you'll make it through.
It broke my heart to see you cry 😢 I would probably feel the same and it's okay to feel scared. Thank you for sharing the good and the bad. I'm sending you my good vibes, you got this 👊🏼 This will only make you stronger 💜
Hugs for you Shelby. Good Luck with the move a surgery
Thank you for being open and honest. I am glad you did not edit out certain sections of this vlog. I always admire You Tubers who are straightforward and realistic and not sugar coating the problems they have in their lives. Thinking of you and sending lots of love and positive vibes your way. I think you can get through this. You are stronger than you think.
Hey. Good luck and we know you’ll get through this. Everyone is pulling for you!
Nothing anyone can say will truly make you feel better, but just know we are all supporting you ☺️
Sending a big hug, Shelby! You’ll be great. ❤️❤️❤️
🥺🥺🥺 you'll be ok! Hardly comment on TH-cam videos but you truly made me emotional. Everything will be ok and just remember that afterwards your jaw will feel better.
We're all sending you so much love and best wishes for your surgery. It's gonna go great, you got this! Xoxo
Once the surgery is over you’ll feel so much better for the rest of your life! You’ll be fine don’t worry too much! The doctors know what they’re doing and you’re going to recover and be fine 😍
Shelby! A lot of things that go to the goodwill go into the landfill. I’d highly recommend donating to shelters and transition housing! Anything they can’t use they will donate, so it goes through another persons hands before goodwill donation! Highly recommend! Especially for clothes and toiletries
Ahh glad to see the piano under there! I thought you sold it! Keep it you are great at it
I had the same surgery 3 years ago ! I had been putting it off for 5 years because it scared me so much. It was so worth it, it will be hard after but once you’re in it, you’ll get through it just fine ! The surgery itself went by smoothly. I wish you all the best, wish I could give you a better pep talk ! You got this
I had a similar surgery about 2 years ago. I was definitely nervous but I also felt relief that things were finally going to get better. Like you said, it's an investment in your future. My surgeon always told me that the first week is the hardest, and once you get past that things will be better. You'll also be amazed at how resilient your own body and mind are. 2 years later I hardly remember any of the recovery. You'll be okay and should be proud for even having the courage to take this step!
I like your vlogs they relaxing and cool :) I will pray that it went well and speedy recovery. Have ppl near you from family to help, when my bf had colon surgery he was in hospital and I was visiting him everyday one night i slept in hospital to comfort him- it helps- and also praying helps i think.
Throughout the vlogs, you could sense you were really nervous, which makes sooo much sense. I would not even have the courage to do this surgery. You can do this!!! 😊
Being nervous regarding having surgery is normal. Make sure you feel safe and confident in your surgeon which will help significantly. I would also suggest asking your questions pre-surgery having a plan post-surgery.
With that said, I had spine surgery a week ago and the pain/challenges on this side are far less then pre-surgery. My mobility and ability to walk has improved significantly. I actually changed surgeon after getting multiple red flags that were upsetting from the surgeon and his nurse. My surgeon and his team did a great job... Also the hospital protocol and procedures where on point, and the staff was amazing; I felt totally safe. I was also glad to complete my surgery before an increase in Covid cases so I am to have it over an done with🙌🏾
It will be ok Shelby. You’re right, it will be hard but a few months from now it will be just a rough few days in your life. You got this girl❤️
You are so strong Shelby. Surgery will go fine and you’ll be so happy that you did it. 😊
I'm really glad you opened up about your fear and let us see inside the real you.
Art makes the person appreciating it FEEL. This video made me feel compassion for you. It's a much higher level than normal youtube videos.
We watch these vlogs because we want to see a real person, not because someone is the funniest or most positive person.
Otherwise, my wife is going to give birth this week, and she feels just like you. Cries all the time and fears for her life.
I can't really relate to you two, maybe just the way I am, I don't fear surgeries, or physical stuff like that.
During childhood, whenever I fell and bled and started crying, my father would always say:
"What's the point of you crying? Your guts aren't going to come out through there. You're fine." Then I would cry for a few more seconds and then move on.
I wish you all the best for your surgery!
Girl, I actually freaked out so much about my nose surgery (to breathe, not cosmetic) that I cancelled it. Then 10 months later I booked it again and it sucked but I knew there was an end to the recovery process and that goal is what I kept in mind. Then like magic after a few weeks I was able to breathe like I had never done before and it was all worth it. So you're not alone in the freak out and you won't be alone in the "yay it's finally over and my life is so much better now." You got this, Shelby! 💕
I think you can handle it. I had serious surgery a few years ago. The first week, was rough but I am sure you will have painkillers. I think you are stronger than you think you are. Don't hide your fears from us! It's human!!!♡
Oh Shelby, I am so sorry you are scared of the surgery - its okay to be scared. I had the same surgery and I was scared too, you will be fine follow their instruction on pain meds, stay on top of it.
This is heart-breaking... you're a strong girl and you'll get through it. Your peeps are here to support you!
Shelby taping everything I’m here thinking about the residue on them when unpacking, btw mood when watching the debate 🤣 I feel you
Shelby be strong about your surgery. From March 16 to July 9, 2018. I was in the hospital for 5 month and had 11 major surgerys . One of my Surgery took just over 14 Hours. I wish the best luck to you.
Sending you much love and support, it'll be okay Shelby stay strong, you are a badass
You're going to be fine Shelby.
Lots of love💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
Sending you hugs. The Science of today can do amazing things also you are a very strong woman so Science + a very strong woman = you will be able to overcome this. You inspire us and we love you Shelby
You’ll be ok Shelby! It’s ok to be scared. You’ll be ok!
I had this surgery done in 2017, I had both my upper and lower jaws moved. It took me a solid 6 months until I felt like myself again. What I wish I knew before the surgery was that the recovery is going to be frustrating. When I went to take a sip of water for the first time after surgery it got all over the place, because your mouth is in a new position, you have to train yourself how to eat and drink again, which takes time. My biggest advice is to have a lot of protein shakes on hand, I drank a lot of muscle milk. Also, mashed potatoes were really helpful, I think I had them everyday during my recovery lol. I am happy with my results, I can chew better and speak clearly now. Each week, you will become better and better. Best of luck!!💜
Focus on the fact that months from now, when you look back on this surgery, you’ll be soooo happy you did it. And you’ll be proud of yourself that you got through it! What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger, hang in there Shelby ❤️
I need to have jaw surgery and I've put it off because every time I think about even scheduling the consultation I want to cry because I get so scared of what it will be like because of what I've read!! You're so strong for even going through with it!! Good luck, Shelby!! It'll be okay :)
You are MORE than allowed to be scared and breakdown because surgery is no joke no matter what it is. You’re doing way better than I ever would because my anxiety doesn’t ever let me stop thinking about something I’m afraid of and makes me a basket case from the moment I find out about it to the time that it’s over lol I never got my wisdom teeth out for that reason honestly. I was up panicking the entire not before, got in the chair for the appointment, annnnnd ran out lol I’ve never had surgery, especially what you’re about to do, so I can’t speak to it but I’m sure you’re going to get through this like a champ. Always remember the goal ❤️ you will be so much happier once it’s behind you
You are going to do great babe! Surgery is so scary, but you are amazing and know that you are going to be okay. Also, Cooper for President!
That's a huge surgery! Hope it will go smoothly and you will heal nicely as well
Had surgeries due an accidnent. It's always scary. But it's always been worth it. Keep strong you got this.
I’ve had 3 surgeries in my life, in 2018 I had TMJ surgery as well and got a titanium screw also. It’s definitely not fun and the healing process does take some time. The first week is rough with the swelling, eating, and sleeping aspect. But after that it gets a lot better! Everything will be fine I was also very worried and almost back out but am happy I did it. Also you will probably have a sore throat which is quite unpleasant. Best of luck 🙂
shelby you can do it! I had surgery (not jaw surgery) in may and felt fine about it until the day before. I had a complete panic attack and so much anxiety the night before. i think that's completely normal though since surgery can be so daunting, its a big deal! But now it's been over 4 months since my surgery and it feels like it happened forever ago! Like you said, in 6 months you will be so grateful that you did this for yourself. keeping u in my thoughts!
I had a VERY similar jaw surgery when I was in high school because I still had a 1.5 tooth overbite after 3 years of braces. I was terrified before the surgery too, but I am happy to report that it sounds WAY worse than it is! I have two small bits of advice. Figure out what foods you will drink before the surgery, like fully test the recipes. Also, avoid sour at all costs; something I failed to think about before I absentmindedly took a sip of lemonade in the hospital because it came with my dinner. That was the only time I cried from pain. You got this!
Dont worry .... the surgery will go great .. and you will be fine after ... wish you a speedy recovery .
You're gonna be fine Shelby 😌💗 They are professionals, nothing to be afraid, of course the recovery sucks but you'll be glad that you did it afterwards!! You're brave!! 😉
You’ll be fine Shelby. Virtual hug 🤗
I had surgery a year and a half ago and I was really scared too, but you’re tough and it will be okay ❤️❤️
Be brave Shelby, everything is going to be fine in the longer term !
Give yourself some grace. Emotional stress tears with all you got going on between filming ahead, moving, back and forth to Palm Springs, the surgery, probably sleep deprivation too. You got a lot on your plate and we appreciate your hard work and consistency!🤎🤎🤎
Please, I need you to make videos of the whole surgery and post-op process. As detailed as possible!!!!! I have the same problem as you and I'm considering getting surgery.
Aww hang in there Shelby. You're so smart and responsible and I think you've done a terrific job of preparing for this in all aspects. You are a strong and beautiful woman and like you said...in six months it'll all just be a blip and a memory!
I had major surgery last year; I was so excited to get it over with because all I did was visualize how much better life would be after surgery. But I was still nervous as the days drew closer. When the day of the surgery came, I suddenly felt very calm and was almost on autopilot. But once I woke up and realized I made it through, it was the MOST AMAZING feeling! Sometimes I wish I could bottle that feeling so I can enjoy it every once in a while. So remember to enjoy that post-surgery RELIEF; savor it!! And yes, my life is so much better having taken care of that situation. Hang in there! You'll be fine!!! Hugs XOXO
I had the lower jaw only and opposite procedure for an overbite when I was 15 about 10 years ago. It is scary but not that bad honestly. My main recommendation is post surgery don’t be shy to ask for more pain meds or take them if you aren’t comfortable. Just be careful with the opioids if they give them to you, duh.. I have a big pain tolerance so I didn’t think it was too bad but just had the lower done too. About a third of my lower face never regained feeling fully so always feels like Novocain is wearing off but don’t notice it unless I think of it. Mine was also in a rural hospital so a much nicer place in LA will 100% do yours more accurate with the nerve reconnection. Long term after make sure you wear a night guard if you even so slightly start to grind your teeth. Avoids uneven grinding down the road, got the problem myself hope TMJ doesn’t get me.. Been watching your videos about it for a while hesitant to comment but you got this! It’s so nice having my teeth fit together now!
I had a back surgery last year and they have to wake you up in the middle of it, just to make sure they don’t paralyze you. I was FREAKED but all the doctors and nurses make you so so comfortable!! You got this!
Jaw surgery was the hardest thing I've ever done. But I don't regret it. It's going to be a physically challenging next few months but you will make it out to the other side glad you did this sooner rather than later.
When I was watching you cry in the car, I legit started crying too. I hope everything goes well. As a person whose had six surgeries, just know that everything will be okay! I just wanna give you a hug 🥰
Good luck with your surgery I’ll keep u in my prayers
i got the surgery 4 years ago. i was so scared i delayed it 20 years. definitely glad i got it. Recovery is really hard. broth will be your best friend. but you are more well prepared than i ever was. i did research the surgery and finally had to stop and just get the surgery done.
It is absolutely a good idea to prepare for the worst. After seeing this vlog today, it looks like your surgery is VERY similar to mine back in 2012. Granted it looks like technology for recovery has gotten better!! But I was in high school when I had mine and BOY OH BOY did I wish they would have prepared me more. I had a SUPER bad recovery. I couldn’t talk, or even breathe, out of my mouth. Was wired shut for 5 weeks and swollen for at least a year post op. For two weeks I could only eat with a syringe attached to a catheter tube I had to snake to the back of my mouth. I was NOT ready for how bad it was going to be. But even saying all that I am so glad today that I got it. I had a terrible underbite too and now I experience zero pain or discomfort! Aside from a slightly numb lower chin but whatevs. Lol. It WILL be worth it I promise, but definitely be prepared for the next several months to be the literal worst. Just my two cents!
Major surgery is definitely nerve wracking and it’s ok to be scared about it. It will be better in the long run but in the moment it can definitely be overwhelming. I’ve had to think of the possibility of getting brain surgery and it was definitely hard for me to think about.
why'd she get jaw surgery?
I pretty sure it was because she had issues before when she was younger because she had and an underbite and a problem with her her bite with her back teeth and braces and a bite block fixed it temporarily but her teeth moved and she had been putting the surgery off( because I think she said the recovery is earthier six or twelve months) and now she decided she was going to do it ( I think she said she wanted to get it over with) and now after the surgery I think she said her underbite and bite in the back is pretty much fixed, but she will have to get Invilign for about a year for everything to be perfect.
One of my friends had this surgery in high school...she had braces for YEARS before and they didn't fix the issue and she had to have surgery. I feel like the whole healing process was not as bad or as long as she thought it would be and she looked great afterwards. You got this!!!
Make tentative plans for a getaway in Dec. or Jan. Having a special travel treat to look forward to after burning the candle at both ends the last few months + surgery could be a great mental escape!