*_I have read that there have been Narcissists who felt so empty inside that they literally faked the symptoms of a critical illness in their chest and upper body cavity area so they could have them X-Rayed Cat Scanned and even MRI-ed just to secretly see if their insides were actually empty as they suspected. According to the data some of them have done this and will do it repeatedly and continually for years over the course of their empty lives. For me. IMO. That's sad._*
I do agree with what you are saying. I as well have a huge void inside, searching for something I will never find. I feel empty, hopeless, no purpose, etc. All I have to say is I do not manipulate, deceive, gas light, etc other people to make myself feel better. The narc and I feed off of each other, I am toxic as well. He has a choice everyday to continue down the dark path or change. He discarded me after 31 years, like I was a piece of trash. Not for a younger woman, as he is 14 years older than me, but an older woman. I hope it is worth throwing away someone who only tried to work on the marriage, while they lie, cheat and manipulate to not take accountability for their actions. Yes, he is not a man but a coward who feels highly entitled. None of us are entitled to anything in this life. Get over yourselves and continue the downward spiral with the losers you choose to surround yourself with.
This is a really check ✅ my ex narc husband was always sicking attention and sadly he was never satisfied. I thank God for delivering me 🙏 and my family 🙏🙏🙏
The narcissist I was married to was schizoid and now he has no one to feed on. He is identical to his dad accidentally, so I picture them together without others giving admiration
So far, your videos are the best and most reliable way for me to heal. It was such a waste of time to think he would change. But knowing you did it for your wife would make any girl doubt. I mean why did you change for her and not for others? Did you really love her when you started this relationship or did it happen after you started getting treatment?
He just jumped on the train to make the lemonade from lemons. Now its beneficial for narcissists to come up with all the crap they /he did but I bet he before enjoyed stroking his ego on poor women breaking their heart and spirit while abusing them. It does make it look like his current wife is special, but he just wanted to take advantage of his bs (narcissism). They know its incurable, yet they act as if they changed or are chaning/healing. Its like: You are a murder, but u dont want to feel so bad about the people you murdered. So some narcissists (claiming to be self aware) just want to feel better. Which is totally unfair because they deserve to suffer for all the things they did. As always, they are trying to escape their karma.
Ben I need to know what and how do I start to find help for my daughter she’s 12 she’s been going through depression for the last month or so…today she said she feels empty PLS HELP
Besides her getting help from a therapist or something like that, the number one way that you can help her goes through healing yourself fully so that you can be not just as strong but a healthy person for her
No, you would be stooping to his level and then he would reframe it against you instead of seeing it as retaliation for his own behavior, because he is unable to self reflect and accept his part in the situation. I understand how you feel but it’s futile.
*_I have read that there have been Narcissists who felt so empty inside that they literally faked the symptoms of a critical illness in their chest and upper body cavity area so they could have them X-Rayed Cat Scanned and even MRI-ed just to secretly see if their insides were actually empty as they suspected. According to the data some of them have done this and will do it repeatedly and continually for years over the course of their empty lives. For me. IMO. That's sad._*
They feel empty because...
They are.
They need Jesus.
@@foxiefair123 Jesus can't help them, because Jesus requires humility and accountability.
I do agree with what you are saying. I as well have a huge void inside, searching for something I will never find. I feel empty, hopeless, no purpose, etc. All I have to say is I do not manipulate, deceive, gas light, etc other people to make myself feel better. The narc and I feed off of each other, I am toxic as well. He has a choice everyday to continue down the dark path or change. He discarded me after 31 years, like I was a piece of trash. Not for a younger woman, as he is 14 years older than me, but an older woman. I hope it is worth throwing away someone who only tried to work on the marriage, while they lie, cheat and manipulate to not take accountability for their actions. Yes, he is not a man but a coward who feels highly entitled. None of us are entitled to anything in this life. Get over yourselves and continue the downward spiral with the losers you choose to surround yourself with.
This is a really check ✅ my ex narc husband was always sicking attention and sadly he was never satisfied. I thank God for delivering me 🙏 and my family 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you very much,Ben!God bless you! 💗🙏
The narcissist I was married to was schizoid and now he has no one to feed on. He is identical to his dad accidentally, so I picture them together without others giving admiration
Great explanation. Thanks.
You are so right he use that excuse to cheat. What about the once who uses God knowing that he don’t know any thing about God.
Oh my gosh my narcissistic husband always claiming his innocence using God knows he’s gonna tell me the truth when I die
So far, your videos are the best and most reliable way for me to heal. It was such a waste of time to think he would change.
But knowing you did it for your wife would make any girl doubt. I mean why did you change for her and not for others? Did you really love her when you started this relationship or did it happen after you started getting treatment?
Totally get that. It happened after I started to get honest with how I had shown up and who I was.
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He just jumped on the train to make the lemonade from lemons. Now its beneficial for narcissists to come up with all the crap they /he did but I bet he before enjoyed stroking his ego on poor women breaking their heart and spirit while abusing them. It does make it look like his current wife is special, but he just wanted to take advantage of his bs (narcissism). They know its incurable, yet they act as if they changed or are chaning/healing. Its like: You are a murder, but u dont want to feel so bad about the people you murdered. So some narcissists (claiming to be self aware) just want to feel better. Which is totally unfair because they deserve to suffer for all the things they did. As always, they are trying to escape their karma.
Ben I need to know what and how do I start to find help for my daughter she’s 12 she’s been going through depression for the last month or so…today she said she feels empty PLS HELP
Besides her getting help from a therapist or something like that, the number one way that you can help her goes through healing yourself fully so that you can be not just as strong but a healthy person for her
Do you think narc can replace you with Pet? Can puppy be a narcissistic supply?
That's a great question! You can discover the answer by joining our free masterclass at www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass.
Or a cat hmmm
There are many female narcissists also
True
If I revenged by sleeping with his friend and send video, do you think he will learn and come back? Or at least just learn how it feels like?
That would be stooping to his level. Let him go, he's not worth it.
Nope not at all. Waste of your time and not helping you heal
Please, don't do that. You will feel worse. I totally understand what your feeling. You are hurting 💔. Look into Ben's Clarity Challenge.
You’d be betraying yourself…nd he won’t bat an eye. Let go ❤
No, you would be stooping to his level and then he would reframe it against you instead of seeing it as retaliation for his own behavior, because he is unable to self reflect and accept his part in the situation. I understand how you feel but it’s futile.