Life in the NICU | Dads to Twins via Surrogacy

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  • Follow us for 15 days of Life in the NICU, with our twin boys, born premature, via gestational surrogate. When discussing surrogacy it’s important to not only discuss the good, but also the unexpected, the sad, and the not-so-pretty times. There is no shame when things go wrong, it is all as it was meant to be and we share our story to show others that there is no perfect journey, but there can be a perfect ending!
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  • @fondiejoy
    @fondiejoy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    NICU nurses are one of God’s biggest gifts to the world. They are such heroes and bring so much peace to worried parents. Also, this video brought back so many memories for me. Our twin NICU journeys are very similar but with one big difference- we were not allowed to sleep at our hospital NICU so we had to leave our twins there every night and go home once I was released from the hospital. Your NICU suites were great!

    • @TheMarzoaFamily
      @TheMarzoaFamily  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      We couldn't agree more! We also definitely looked out with those NICU suites. We had no clue they were like that!

  • @Bingeworthy
    @Bingeworthy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Awww the sangrias show how sweet the team is 😭😭🥰

  • @tomcouture4441
    @tomcouture4441 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    You guys are so awesome! You will be the best parents twins could ever have. Beautiful surrogate and gorgeous dads those will certainly have good genes. You two are so loveable how can people bad talk about gay Dads??? I just love you guys and best of luck with those golden nuggets! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @TheMarzoaFamily
      @TheMarzoaFamily  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you, Tom! So sweet, as always!

  • @kimcaido8314
    @kimcaido8314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You guys brought tears to my eyes. Tears of joy ofcourse. Bless the lady who helped you get such a lovely gift in your lives. Your babies are beautiful. Bless them. ❤

  • @mmon7996
    @mmon7996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Beautiful!!! I’m so happy science is able to make this miracle happen! God bless you all. Those babies are lucky to have such great papis ❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍

    • @TheMarzoaFamily
      @TheMarzoaFamily  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Science is an amazing thing. Thank you for all the love!

    • @mmon7996
      @mmon7996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@TheMarzoaFamily of course, it fills my heart with joy seeing two gay man being able to form such a beautiful, wholesome and healthy family, and society being less judgmental. This is a sign that the world is changing for the better. Blessings.

  • @monstercontent5497
    @monstercontent5497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    They are beautiful..I bought my boys home at 5 weeks old still tube fed ..it was a wild ride but worth every second..they are 30 this month 💜💜💜

    • @TheMarzoaFamily
      @TheMarzoaFamily  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Definitely was a wild ride! Thank you for sharing and sending love! ❤❤

    • @monstercontent5497
      @monstercontent5497 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheMarzoaFamily 💜💜💜💜

  • @daviabraxton3099
    @daviabraxton3099 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The babies are in good hands🍼❤🙏👶👶

  • @nancymattix4599
    @nancymattix4599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That was a great video. Those babies are just beyond adorable. Congratulations!

  • @kimarosanalumigis
    @kimarosanalumigis 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    emotion being a new daddies are incredible, speechless feelings! happiness is priceless.

  • @brittneybryanna3754
    @brittneybryanna3754 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was soo amazing that they included the surrogate, awnnn soo sweet congratulations To you both even though it’s been a year, I just watched their first birthday which was definitely a fairytale party 💙❣️

  • @pamowen3452
    @pamowen3452 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh how beautiful your family is! God bless you guys and your son!

    • @TheMarzoaFamily
      @TheMarzoaFamily  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much, Pam! Very sweet! ❤

  • @marylabelle803
    @marylabelle803 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Im late for the show haha but you both are so perfect for your sons..i love the nicu nurses they are special people and im teary watching both dads reminding me of my kids being born the emotions the exhaustion the bliss ..somewhere in there is sleep eventually.! Just so special..

    • @TheMarzoaFamily
      @TheMarzoaFamily  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!! Welcome to our channel! We appreciate the love! ❤

  • @virginiafranco4847
    @virginiafranco4847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God Bless everyone that participated including that Wonderful Surrogate

    • @TheMarzoaFamily
      @TheMarzoaFamily  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Everyone was absolutely amazing! We couldn't be more grateful! ❤

  • @leilarodriguez9333
    @leilarodriguez9333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    NICU nurses are the best! I also had very good nurses taking care of our boys! They are angels!! Loved it!

    • @TheMarzoaFamily
      @TheMarzoaFamily  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes really are! They were incredible and we will never forget what they did for us and our babies! ❤

  • @taigonzalez295
    @taigonzalez295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing such a beautiful story. The boys are so lucky to have such loving parents... xoxo

    • @TheMarzoaFamily
      @TheMarzoaFamily  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for your sweet comment! We appreciate it very much! ❤

  • @antoinelemarier3567
    @antoinelemarier3567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It is wonderful! Congratulations. Handsome dads and cute baby boys. Enjoy your family’s life.

  • @cooperfreckles
    @cooperfreckles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful babies. I love their names! Thanks for sharing!

    • @TheMarzoaFamily
      @TheMarzoaFamily  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your beautiful comment! 😊

  • @jorjadiebold5317
    @jorjadiebold5317 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful! You guys will be awesome parents💞

  • @oliviapineau7829
    @oliviapineau7829 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You guys made me cry...❤

    • @TheMarzoaFamily
      @TheMarzoaFamily  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for following our journey! ❤

  • @shimshim8044
    @shimshim8044 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    so lovely twin👼🏼💓👼🏼
    You are very responsible fathers👏🏻
    I wish you all the best😇

  • @eleanorbacosa4063
    @eleanorbacosa4063 ปีที่แล้ว

    Inspiring journey.

  • @blancarosa2320
    @blancarosa2320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful babies beautiful names.

  • @madisonsmythe6968
    @madisonsmythe6968 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just found this channel a few days ago I love u guys such a cute lil family

  • @taoagfamilyjourney
    @taoagfamilyjourney 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Que emocionante fue ver su video🥰😍🥺 al mismo tiempo nos sentimos muy nerviosos porque nuestro bebé 🍼 ya pronto estará con nosotros 🤩 Felicidades 🎈 por su Familia 💓

    • @TheMarzoaFamily
      @TheMarzoaFamily  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Muchas gracias! Vivir en el NICU fue súper emocional para nosotros ya que estaban muy delicados pero gracias a todas las enfermeras y médicos, salieron pronto y están grandísimos ya con casi 6 meses. Mucha suerte con su bebé. Seguiremos su proceso en su pagina! Saludos.

  • @user-pt4ui9gc3k
    @user-pt4ui9gc3k 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    уважаю ! Не каждый мужчина справился бы с такой проблемой ! Пусть Вам повезет !💯👏

  • @rachelsellin814
    @rachelsellin814 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh my goodness! This is so beautiful. You guys did so well! Thank for sharing. So much love and devotion. The nurses were so lovely how well they took care of you all. Bless them. Thank you for sharing. What a beautiful family. I feel like the babies will be like15 and I will still be telling you guys how lovely your family is. Xx loads of love to you all.

  • @greenvalleyherbal
    @greenvalleyherbal ปีที่แล้ว

    Two little beautiful angels - Dean and Devin.🧚‍♀️🧚‍♂️😊.
    I am sure Dean and Devin will cherish these videos when they grow up ..👍
    Regards,
    Deepika

  • @christineclarke4734
    @christineclarke4734 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your guy's are going to be great dad's to the beautiful baby boys

  • @benmarzonvlog6799
    @benmarzonvlog6799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ohhh this so cute 💗💗

  • @mookie.g
    @mookie.g 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Both of you are wonderful fathers. And the children are very cute. I have fallen in love with your family and you are both very loving fathers, I am happy to see your life story i smile with you.🧡💚❤👍👍

  • @brendalytorres4780
    @brendalytorres4780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow ser padre es lo más hermoso q Dios nos pudo dar q Dios los bendiga y sigan echándole muchas ganas no se rindan

    • @TheMarzoaFamily
      @TheMarzoaFamily  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      De verdad que si! Muchas gracias por su comentario y por mirar nuestro video! ❤❤

  • @norma4482
    @norma4482 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dios les Bendiga y Felicidades👶👶👨👦💙💜💚❤

  • @frederickgendre8328
    @frederickgendre8328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love you guys !!! I can feel so much your love to your boys, it’s so wonderfull !!! Wish you all my best !!! This day would have been the most hardest moment of your life and in the same Time, so much emotional and enjoyable moment. (You make me cry, feeling all your emotion you’ve been through)

  • @MrJacobrabbit
    @MrJacobrabbit ปีที่แล้ว

    Congrats to u and ur partner thanks to your NICU.

  • @virginiafranco4847
    @virginiafranco4847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful 😍 Beautiful

  • @estelamartin1069
    @estelamartin1069 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hermosa familia

  • @avdnbelem5227
    @avdnbelem5227 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Que amor esse vídeo

  • @madisonsmythe6968
    @madisonsmythe6968 ปีที่แล้ว

    My cousin was born at 34 weeks to and now she’s 8.5 months old and thriving

  • @janinebell763
    @janinebell763 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Both my children were in hospital for 21 days each (2years apart). My son was 4lb3oz and 7weeks early. My daughter was 3lb 11oz she was 4weeks early but small for dates.

  • @penninahthegrace3036
    @penninahthegrace3036 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Aww those nurses are so friendly 👌

  • @sandramolina1177
    @sandramolina1177 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fuerza bbss

  • @avdnbelem5227
    @avdnbelem5227 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh fofuras lindas

  • @daviabraxton3099
    @daviabraxton3099 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awwe👶👶👶👶🙏❤❤❤🍼🍼🍼🍼🍼
    They were so beautiful

    • @TheMarzoaFamily
      @TheMarzoaFamily  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      They were so little then! They've come a long way!

  • @avdnbelem5227
    @avdnbelem5227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tadinho se emocionou

  • @choli7232
    @choli7232 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautifulllllll

  • @bobseeger342
    @bobseeger342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    OH that was so beautiful ❤️ you guys made me cry to see two beautiful men becoming two beautiful father's and I'm so very very happy for you and those beautiful baby boys 💙
    ** Congratulations Daddies**♥️🤠

    • @TheMarzoaFamily
      @TheMarzoaFamily  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It was definitely a very emotional time for us as well. Glad that translated over! Thanks again for watching and all your comments! ❤

  • @aoyamaleo
    @aoyamaleo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤️❤️

  • @phumlangubane1180
    @phumlangubane1180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I watched your videos and I have to tell u with what am seeing. U guys have pure hearts and I just love you. If same sex is wrong... I would choose wrong because this love I see I rare and your spirit of giving is flawless. Love each other... and in times of need ask for God's guidance bc people have their opinions and that is it... U can't even send them a bill for your cable which I think says alot...

    • @TheMarzoaFamily
      @TheMarzoaFamily  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Such a beautiful comment! Thank you so much! We are so grateful for all the love we have received and continue to receive! ❤

  • @guglielmorobin4620
    @guglielmorobin4620 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dio vi benedica....il amore ..e la rinascita infinita dei celi..

  • @avdnbelem5227
    @avdnbelem5227 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Revendo vídeo amores saudades bjs

  • @avdnbelem5227
    @avdnbelem5227 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Agora ja maiores lindos

  • @antoinelemarier3567
    @antoinelemarier3567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    From Québec.

  • @Mac_an_Mheiriceanaigh
    @Mac_an_Mheiriceanaigh 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG when are you going to go back and see them??

    • @TheMarzoaFamily
      @TheMarzoaFamily  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hoping to go back very soon and see them. We do keep in touch with many of them on social media and privately! Our surrogate as well!

  • @rnrbunt
    @rnrbunt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    New parents exhausted and emotional... sounds about right. 😉🥰🥰

    • @TheMarzoaFamily
      @TheMarzoaFamily  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep! It never ends but we couldn't be happier! thank you for watching! ❤

  • @neleealvarez2065
    @neleealvarez2065 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    😍😍😍

  • @user-vf1xc7qr1f
    @user-vf1xc7qr1f 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    so nice boy !i love yours..

    • @TheMarzoaFamily
      @TheMarzoaFamily  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so kind ❤

    • @user-vf1xc7qr1f
      @user-vf1xc7qr1f 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheMarzoaFamily thank you! You are great! I also want to learn from you 👍

  • @henisarah6304
    @henisarah6304 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    😍😍😍😍

  • @claudiasilver7004
    @claudiasilver7004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow me emocione que hermosura 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘🙏

  • @madisonsmythe6968
    @madisonsmythe6968 ปีที่แล้ว

    I might’ve missed it but why did the surrogate have to get induced early

    • @TheMarzoaFamily
      @TheMarzoaFamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      She developed a condition called Cholestasis which can lead to sudden death in babies so they must induce once detected. A week prior she had also gone into preterm labor so it was just a matter of time before going back into labor. Doctors had said 7-10 days after preterm labor was stopped she’d give birth, but once they detected cholestasis after she started itching, which is a major symptom, they had to induce.

  • @CassidyHood
    @CassidyHood 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beautiful family and you will always be tired. Lol

  • @RobertBrown-gr7vh
    @RobertBrown-gr7vh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Video Please Please Please Please

  • @madisonsmythe6968
    @madisonsmythe6968 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is the surrogate apart of there lives at all?

    • @TheMarzoaFamily
      @TheMarzoaFamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      She is. We try and make a trip to see her once a year and we call and FaceTime each or http when we we can.

  • @madisonsmythe6968
    @madisonsmythe6968 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why did the twins stay in separate rooms

    • @TheMarzoaFamily
      @TheMarzoaFamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      The NICU they were in was one child per room. They each needed their own equipment and oxygen. At first they were several rooms apart but the next day they were able to put them in rooms next door to each other which was very helpful for dads.

  • @anikazamanbrinto5153
    @anikazamanbrinto5153 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is it two dad and one mom chemistry ! I am confused please explain it.

    • @TheMarzoaFamily
      @TheMarzoaFamily  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No, it is just two dads. Boys were born via gestational surrogate. They are biological to us using donor eggs. Surrogate was just the carrier but not biologically linked.

    • @anikazamanbrinto5153
      @anikazamanbrinto5153 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheMarzoaFamily awwww God bless you guys ❤️🥀

    • @TheMarzoaFamily
      @TheMarzoaFamily  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! ❤️

  • @hayleyac7296
    @hayleyac7296 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So I’ve balled twice at this video so far and I’m only 2:48 mins in....

    • @TheMarzoaFamily
      @TheMarzoaFamily  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's been an emotional roller coaster for us! Thank you for watching! ❤

  • @user-em7eg4jb8s
    @user-em7eg4jb8s 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    boy and boy Vdeo Please

  • @madisonsmythe6968
    @madisonsmythe6968 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is the surrogate giving her breast milk for the babies or are they just gonna eat formula

    • @TheMarzoaFamily
      @TheMarzoaFamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      We just did formula. They required a high caloric formula which we kept them on when we went home as well. it would have been hard to upkeep breast milk once we went home and were several hours driving distance away.

  • @user-em7eg4jb8s
    @user-em7eg4jb8s 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🎉 boy and boy 16:5

  • @presston5presston445
    @presston5presston445 ปีที่แล้ว

    couldnt hear most the music is to loud

    • @TheMarzoaFamily
      @TheMarzoaFamily  ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry about that. This was one of our earliest videos so we’ve done some growing since then.

  • @avdnbelem5227
    @avdnbelem5227 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    kkkkkkk

  • @jotishbasumatary912
    @jotishbasumatary912 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    😍😍👨‍👨‍👦‍👦😍😍🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳

  • @avdnbelem5227
    @avdnbelem5227 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Uma sena linda de vcs dando a mamadeira