Communicate with Purpose: Techniques to Enhance Every Relationship

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  • @anavujcuf
    @anavujcuf 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I really enjoyed this conversation :) I was fortunate enough to work with great fashion designers and artists over the years, and I had the opportunity to peer inside their minds. Short story: I was having a morning coffee with a fashion designer, Pat McDonagh, on the patio in front of her studio (Toronto, 2013). We were sitting in silence, and she was observing pigeons. At one moment, she asked me (I don't remember the exact words): "Do you see how the feathers change colours when the sun hits them? I can order a sequin fabric with similar colours for the next collection. Add some feathers to the shoes." At that moment, I was like, OMG!! I just witnessed the birth of her new collection! We get to see this on a runway - all coming from that moment of silence and observation.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amazing!

    • @femarie_art
      @femarie_art 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I just had an Eureka moment with this comment. Thank you!

  • @TheLuisMiranda
    @TheLuisMiranda 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    1:00:09 the discussion on being present. It reminded me of breathing. I don’t need to think in order to breathe. In the same way, I don’t need to think in order to be-the vibes will carry you where you need to go 👍🏽

  • @lizaorlina
    @lizaorlina 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    Whoever is editing this please stop with the background music it’s taking away from the content 🙏

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Thank you for the feedback

    • @Bstylaz
      @Bstylaz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      True

    • @RavenaciousTM
      @RavenaciousTM 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree. Would be even more awesome to tune up on ur videos if I was able to focus 100%. Nice content though! 🎉

    • @Assyrian
      @Assyrian 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Agreed no BG music :)

    • @marshallosantos9035
      @marshallosantos9035 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I concur

  • @femarie_art
    @femarie_art 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I came here to learn effective communication skills, and left with a deep dive in self reflection; professional, spiritual, mindfulness, etc., etc. And also took me like 3 hours of back and forward to watch the whole video. Love that and Thank you! Great content! 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌

  • @lucym5698
    @lucym5698 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    "I'm nothing and I'm everything at the same time" Yes, thats possible. It's all about mindset. We have all we need inside of each of us.

  • @milovansluis
    @milovansluis หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I now see im hyper aware love that definition.

  • @DrRussell
    @DrRussell 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Just had a communication breakdown and you post this. Thank you 🙏🏼

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You are so welcome

  • @freshzestcarpetcare5455
    @freshzestcarpetcare5455 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Spot on with the natural stone. An easy way to know what is printed and what is real is the pattern. Every tile should be unique if natural stone.
    If every tile is the same it's man made (ceramic or porcelain)
    Another way to tell is by pouring water on the surface. Natural stone is porous and will absorb the water. Ceramic and porcelain will not absorb the water

  • @EcomCarl
    @EcomCarl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    👏 Understanding the importance of intentionality in communication is crucial for fostering meaningful connections! Adapting your communication style to suit different individuals can lead to more effective and empathetic interactions. Keep exploring and refining your communication skills to create impactful experiences through conversations! 🗣✨

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Absolutely!

  • @BrandonVincentRealty
    @BrandonVincentRealty 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    “Showing up as Everything & Nothing” That’s a wild parable, it’s so simple yet so complex

  • @ericwangombe805
    @ericwangombe805 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Edit and bg music is good though❤

  • @FilipeTeixeira_TennisCoach
    @FilipeTeixeira_TennisCoach 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great talk ;)

  • @diegofrancofioravante97
    @diegofrancofioravante97 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    a flashy use of Krishnamurti just for the sake of it, doing the opposite on the next sentence .. the speaker has made a fool of hm slf

  • @vladolareanu
    @vladolareanu 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Loved this video! Chris and Mo gave great tips on communication. The focus on intention, tone, and adapting styles was super helpful. The real-life examples and stories made it all so relatable. Can’t wait to use these tips! Thanks for an awesome episode! 🌟

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @claudiabTV
    @claudiabTV 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Chris…. you are GOLD. Your chat about logos and choosing boards & hoodies based on their graphics - priceless! Plus I totally relate, too! More about my love of ads and music, pop culture and attraction to seeing trends (not necessarily following them eg never been blown away by fashion, turns on itself to often for me to trust it lol) - and yep, i’ve always valued and used my memory happily in my fav frequencies. Love UX too x Thank you for your unreal content. Great IV guys!

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      IYKYK

  • @ThePianoKeys
    @ThePianoKeys 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I want to go places with Chris just so he can point out all the ways the lack of attention to detail disappoints him.

  • @leadgenjay
    @leadgenjay 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Chris and Mo really hit the nail on the head with the importance of adapting communication styles.

  • @wannabecarguy
    @wannabecarguy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I had a conversation with another business owner and he talked about the scar on his face. He had to be extra careful how he communicated because people would interpret his body language as anger.

  • @NO_ONE_KNOW-999
    @NO_ONE_KNOW-999 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    why you dont make road map for started
    business😅😅😅

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I have

  • @OmGadhiya
    @OmGadhiya 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    *I want to travel with YOU CHRIS !!*
    Edit - ONE DAY I WILL TRAVEL WITH YOU 🎯

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You should!

  • @lorivinson6845
    @lorivinson6845 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I do enjoy listening to you. It helps me deal with my customers. I do custom memory items. I draw a lot from your videos. Thank you!

  • @KindnessInvokingNetwork
    @KindnessInvokingNetwork 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    30:30 LaRussell is awesome 😁. Signed by another great rapper and big inspiration to me, RUSS

  • @jenniferthibodeaux8565
    @jenniferthibodeaux8565 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Never split the difference

  • @SFStacker
    @SFStacker 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I think this conversation hit the nail on the head. For me it boiled down to utilizing empathy to push your personal boundaries of communication as far as possible. The more you learn/observe, the better you can understand others, meaning the better the communication or connection.

  • @lorivinson6845
    @lorivinson6845 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Completely understand the champagne taste. So don't have the money.

  • @lowe_h_seger
    @lowe_h_seger 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I recognise myself extensively in Chris and his story. Foremost, the way of thinking. I have seen a few videos of him recently and felt attracted to what is being said but in this extended conversation here, I feel like Chris is speaking for me - superwild! It is great to feel like I am not alone and crazy, a reassurance that I can keep trusting my senses. Would love to meet you one day and feel the energy in person.

  • @khairt1731
    @khairt1731 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I needed this video. Thank you guys. God bless you both

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You’re very welcome

  • @emiliosibs
    @emiliosibs 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Guys need help! who is this Kentucky guy they were talking about on the last part??

  • @zaphandar
    @zaphandar หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm only 15 minutes in, but i wanna recommend you a writer called Krishnamurti. You'll like him :) we're similar in some ways, i like :) our paths might cross someday, those talks will be fun :)

  • @fantasyarch
    @fantasyarch 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    As an architect, I can say that they have really good insights when talking about tiles. If you are skilled in one design field, your knowledge and skills translate well to other design fields as well.

  • @jk2973
    @jk2973 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You communicate with your tumbnail Jordan Peterson
    You communicate about Jordan Peterson zero times
    You communicate very poorly
    Can anyone explain this with communication?

  • @jammanjim6914
    @jammanjim6914 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The marble conversation made me laugh. I once went to Venice in Italy with my non-designer friends. One of them said this city is the most beautiful, I said, it needs grouting.

  • @Radiance230
    @Radiance230 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What is MO’s background? Perhaps socials?

  • @joshatkins96
    @joshatkins96 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love how real these guys are.

  • @huggies1110
    @huggies1110 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for sharing all those stories.
    I liked the talks about fashion,
    I have a particular fashion style, mixing streetwear, techwear and gorpcore, when I started wearing those clothes a couple years ago, I could see people in the streets looking at me funny, some people would also compliment me on my style, so I never really cared about the “funny looks”.
    Throughout the years my style evolved, but I always felt good with what I used to wear.
    The thing is, I don’t see no one looking at me funny no more.
    I wonder if its because I own up my style better and truly am myself with the clothes I wear, or if I simply don’t give a F about the weird looks so much that I don’t see them at all anymore.
    I also feel like building your fashionstyle is the same as building you artstyle,
    You can’t copy someone else’s style and feel like yourself, you can start by doing so as a base to create your own, but I feel like Chris’ style is so in sinc with his personality that thats why his friend couldn’t “pull it off”.
    I can pull of weird ass looking boots and clothes with hundreds of pockets and zippers, but no way I can pullof big ass glasses and a snapback

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I think your confidence grew into your fashion. When you’re at ease you put people at ease.

  • @SelfCareIsWealthCare
    @SelfCareIsWealthCare 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Amazing conversation; I enjoyed the granular nature of this conversation.🏆

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @niranjanp65
    @niranjanp65 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Who trains Mo to ask these beautiful questions like that?

  • @jorty.
    @jorty. 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "I have champaign taste with a beer budget"-i can relate😂

  • @EmbraceTheDarknessLLC
    @EmbraceTheDarknessLLC 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    “I’m nothing and I’m everything at the same time.”
    I wish everyone had this level of understanding not only that they could be nothing and everything (their true selves) but also allowed others to be nothing and everything.

  • @GISSuccess
    @GISSuccess 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Excellent topic and discussion. I bought my first skate deck Santa Cruz Slasher because of the graphics but eventually bought a HammerHead too because I wanted to skate like Christian Hosoi.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I had a hammerhead. and now bought a reissue along with the slasher!

  • @sirenblog2583
    @sirenblog2583 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lol, Charming razor blade 😂

  • @DigiProClub
    @DigiProClub 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Therapy sesh with life lessons all wrapped up here is a vibe!

  • @SimracingArnout
    @SimracingArnout 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I feel that this conversation has more gold than people realize

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you

  • @negativetoprofits
    @negativetoprofits หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is Mo Giorgio from The Big Door Prize? 🤣

  • @laeniz
    @laeniz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mo is annoying. He must pay alot of money to keep popping up on your vids everywhere you go. I hope all this tutoring he receives is limiting his ego and resistance that is so obvious.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Haha. I’m paying him. So he must be playing his cards right.

  • @dbo.vision
    @dbo.vision 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why all the time watching The Futur / Chris Do it's like you got the guts to move on in life even if you fall you get up suck it up and fight. Nothing is precious than your mind and guts to say yes or no.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You got it!

  • @Alexander-bp2ht
    @Alexander-bp2ht 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I've been a fan of Chris Do and Ryan Holiday for quite some time. I'm excited to watch Chris get into how Marcus A. warns himself about who he is going to encounter in the day in relationship to the cleint service advice he gives. The compliment each other nicely.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I’ve been unwittingly practicing stoicism. Who knew?

  • @crucialvision1
    @crucialvision1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Your content is always the best!

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you think so!

  • @FragranceCraft
    @FragranceCraft 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤ Great talk, thank you both 😊 🎉

  • @angstrom1058
    @angstrom1058 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Me need to speak gooder :)

  • @RobinDavisStudio
    @RobinDavisStudio 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such a great conversation and honest share! wow! Truly refreshing and magical! Thank you wholeheartedly for filming this conversation and sharing it!

  • @Willpowerstudios
    @Willpowerstudios 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    the inner space !

  • @fastfutureforwardbychristi9064
    @fastfutureforwardbychristi9064 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love you guys-thanks again for all your wisdom, insights and for being curious to be nothing and everything ❤️❤️❤️

  • @umeshgallage9347
    @umeshgallage9347 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That's the level of attention to detail that got me switched from Android to iOS after noticing things like the fake blur vs the real-time blur happen behind notification/control center overlays. Very minor details, but after you notice, you can't unsee. And as a designer, I coudln't resist.

  • @rakeshmakwana8893
    @rakeshmakwana8893 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I can't wait to get stuck into this!

  • @paulamccarthy479
    @paulamccarthy479 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Do Mo Magic! ❤

  • @EchoElements.
    @EchoElements. 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Do and Mo. 😊

  • @troydenson8694
    @troydenson8694 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Chris. Did you buy the Gator Vision?

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No. I couldn’t. Given Gator went to jail for murdering his GF.

  • @emarshatai
    @emarshatai 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Really loved listening to you guys. I got so much out of this conversation. So many ideas to go out and implement with intention to be as fearless as Chris.

  • @ridhoharryazhar
    @ridhoharryazhar 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    First!

  • @aristotlemaniago8801
    @aristotlemaniago8801 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much .

  • @geewiz8253
    @geewiz8253 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The main lesson I get from this video is: have confidence in herself, in where you are, and be authentic. Thanks for this. @thefutur

  • @MelanieCamara-p3e
    @MelanieCamara-p3e 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💙

  • @dfd4688
    @dfd4688 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The ability to observe without evaluating, without judgment, is the highest form of human intelligence” sounds like the “Emperor’s new clothes.” Our fear of being judged as unintelligent might keep us from evaluating the statement. When observed what does intelligence look like, and without evaluating how might one determine one form as being higher than the other. I like the irony. Thanks again.. cheers

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      To observe without judgment. It’s difficult to do. That does not mean to not evaluate. It’s to resist the temptation of seeing what you want to see vs what’s really there.

    • @dfd4688
      @dfd4688 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@thefutur Observing with the clear intention to understand, not to agree or disagree… I’m imagining there’s more to this… I wonder what the outcome might be if this strategy was mastered. Thanks for responding 🙏

    • @FragranceCraft
      @FragranceCraft 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Judging means applying our value system onto another person.
      Do we have all the informations necessary for judging them: what they were going threw, and even if, do we know how their life feels to them in their skin, what natural energy level they have, did they choose their IQ, the culture and their parents who formed or may be even abused them ... ?

  • @josegarcia-pm5ls
    @josegarcia-pm5ls 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    They way they make your mind begin to think of a process with just words. The build up to cause an action is how I felt amazing 👌👌👌🫡