Happy masculine Men should not try to heal a damaged woman, they will take you down with them. Good men should not suffer for mistakes girls make, Find a happy girl and be with her.
Another solution should be damaged people try to heal themselves and go for person with same situation damaged to healed phase type.Many reformed are out there instead of complaining about self and others will be counted as overthinking and overexaggerating situations.
Many of you are misunderstanding the message. She is saying thru working on yourself, attraction to men who reinforce past traumas will diminish, and attraction to healthy, available men will be the new normal, which will contribute to one's well-being.
Healthy masculine men are retreating from this pretentious society that values us as mere instruments to fix things. After being there for people as a pillar for so long, healthy masculine is now in monk mode.
i was healthy masculine man.. broken traumatic girl came to my life with bunch of lies about her ex and dragged me to misery. why good men has to pay? and as a man its again my responsibility to heal myself where as she found another healthy and more wealthy man and got married.
If you were a healthy masculine man you would have had self worth to walk away when your boundaries were broken the first time. A healthy masculine man knows his worth and takes responsibility for his action. In a way you also stayed in the relationship because you gave more importance to the other person that yourself, so that shows low self worth and no boundaries.
no ma'am, i gave 2 years of my life and love to that girl and she keeps on giving me conflicts with her ex which she told me as friend, it kept ignoring untill it become too much for me as i told not to keep crying for that person. then one day i got to know she used to sex chat with her friend and hence this guy was attached to her and she couldn't handle it or leave it. the day i got to know about this disgusting friendship and lies. i got shocked to core. i left her then and there. i was helpless as to why i trusted this girl and opened my heart only to get crushed by the lies. after all of this i was on my own for better but i couldn't tell this disgusting thing to anyone untill now.
@@akshayshetye8718 First of all her opening about her past with her ex when she is with you is in itself a red flag, it was a clear indication of things she had to work through, somewhere you thought you can fix her and if you are selfless you will choose her, it shows traumas inside you because even though you broke it off eventually you still kept tolerating it for a while. its easy to blame others but taking accountability is hard thats the harsh reality and thats what a healthy masculine person does.
yes i was traumatized.. i was emasculated by emotions. took lot of time to accept what happened as i got no explanation or sorry. but now i am much better. Thanks for listening.
This world is a cruel place..... no different treatment for anyone for their faliures. Society expects responsibility from men and purity from women...... Even if anyone fails to stand up ro society's expectations, one should always be truthful about their faliures and seek an equal..... If a woman has failed to stick to her choice she should not expect the man to be exclusively responsible for her...... she should accept her past and accept a man who may associate with other women....... there is always a price to pay for mistakes...... so accept the punishment voluntarily be cheated and pushed to accept punishment
After enjoying with multiple men, now these damaged people are searching for a rich, loyal and masculine man.. Not gonna work that way, purity of the woman is supreme for us..
Happy masculine Men should not try to heal a damaged woman, they will take you down with them. Good men should not suffer for mistakes girls make, Find a happy girl and be with her.
Another solution should be damaged people try to heal themselves and go for person with same situation damaged to healed phase type.Many reformed are out there instead of complaining about self and others will be counted as overthinking and overexaggerating situations.
I agree
Women must heal themselves before getting into another relationship.
Many of you are misunderstanding the message. She is saying thru working on yourself, attraction to men who reinforce past traumas will diminish, and attraction to healthy, available men will be the new normal, which will contribute to one's well-being.
Healthy masculine men are retreating from this pretentious society that values us as mere instruments to fix things. After being there for people as a pillar for so long, healthy masculine is now in monk mode.
It’s not a man’s job to fix broken and damaged women. Men go find women who are healthy like yourselves and not women with baggage.
i was healthy masculine man.. broken traumatic girl came to my life with bunch of lies about her ex and dragged me to misery. why good men has to pay? and as a man its again my responsibility to heal myself where as she found another healthy and more wealthy man and got married.
If you were a healthy masculine man you would have had self worth to walk away when your boundaries were broken the first time. A healthy masculine man knows his worth and takes responsibility for his action. In a way you also stayed in the relationship because you gave more importance to the other person that yourself, so that shows low self worth and no boundaries.
no ma'am, i gave 2 years of my life and love to that girl and she keeps on giving me conflicts with her ex which she told me as friend, it kept ignoring untill it become too much for me as i told not to keep crying for that person. then one day i got to know she used to sex chat with her friend and hence this guy was attached to her and she couldn't handle it or leave it. the day i got to know about this disgusting friendship and lies. i got shocked to core. i left her then and there. i was helpless as to why i trusted this girl and opened my heart only to get crushed by the lies. after all of this i was on my own for better but i couldn't tell this disgusting thing to anyone untill now.
@@akshayshetye8718 First of all her opening about her past with her ex when she is with you is in itself a red flag, it was a clear indication of things she had to work through, somewhere you thought you can fix her and if you are selfless you will choose her, it shows traumas inside you because even though you broke it off eventually you still kept tolerating it for a while. its easy to blame others but taking accountability is hard thats the harsh reality and thats what a healthy masculine person does.
yes i was traumatized.. i was emasculated by emotions. took lot of time to accept what happened as i got no explanation or sorry. but now i am much better. Thanks for listening.
This world is a cruel place..... no different treatment for anyone for their faliures. Society expects responsibility from men and purity from women...... Even if anyone fails to stand up ro society's expectations, one should always be truthful about their faliures and seek an equal.....
If a woman has failed to stick to her choice she should not expect the man to be exclusively responsible for her...... she should accept her past and accept a man who may associate with other women....... there is always a price to pay for mistakes...... so accept the punishment voluntarily be cheated and pushed to accept punishment
After enjoying with multiple men, now these damaged people are searching for a rich, loyal and masculine man.. Not gonna work that way, purity of the woman is supreme for us..