since becoming a hag (late 20s), my personal style has shifted away from feminine silhouettes to baggier, more silly ones and i feel so free…. like the whole “sexualized clothing” thing, as i’ve cared less and less about desirability or male attention, i’ve been freer to be Freaky and Fun. cannot wait to finally layer up without melting to death omg
I think your commentary/insight into the complex between percieved sexuality and fashion is really interesting- I may just be yapping for the sake of it but there is always a voyeuristic element to fashion as in regards to people seeing what you are wearing, people seeing /you-/ and what 'you' means when so much of modern culture/media has been... saturated with The Body, especially underneath a misogynistic and patriarchial framework? Fashion always ties to the issues and ideals of the age, but with the way it is sometimes treated as a frivolity makes some treat it as a secondary to a human existence rather than a direct consequence and reflection.
The voyeuristic element, yes! I live in NYC and I love dressing in something I think is fun and cool and feels good but I absolutely hate getting looked at/stared at it’s such a catch 22 Like I want to look cute but I also done want anyone to look at me
ur cooking like crazy bc i think an unconscious knowledge of how revealing and exhibitonist fashion and personal style is can lead to conscious choices in color, fabric and "modesty" -- feeling comfortable and free with the concept of experimenting with fashion for oneself but not necessarily wanting to be seen (literally and figuratively)
started watching angels in america via your recommendation and its so good! living in the southern hemisphere rn so dont really have seasons like that and its hot all year so seasons changing doesnt really matter to me but im gonna b in the us in january so im excited to get layering✄ even if im going to be cold and miserable!
it's so extremely unfortunate for me as a fan of fall fashion to be living in a country that is only ever hot, humid, and/or rainy. unfortunately no opportunities to be layering over here... such a tragedy, truly. but always (ALWAYS!!!) love seeing how you style your pieces and the moment you showed partimento, i had to go to the site and check out what i might be able to wear over here lmao (looks like they have quite a lot actually but i'm poor) can't wait to see your shopping haul vid !! also ... pls hem ur pants damn
@@JESYCU I have buy it under the covers, so that god can’t see me buying fast fashion, but unfortunately they are working for your dollar like no other.
I want to wear something for fall but I’m in Southern California and it’s still pretty hot out but I have all these outerwear jackets I have an Oscar de la Renta blazer that I thrifted and some tights I want to wear with it but I’ll probably be a hot sweaty mess if I wear it today 😢
enjoy the warm weather while u can :'( it suddenly got super cold in nyc and i am mourning what could've been so many good transitional outfits (the ODR blazer sounds yum)
yessssss i am the target audience
since becoming a hag (late 20s), my personal style has shifted away from feminine silhouettes to baggier, more silly ones and i feel so free…. like the whole “sexualized clothing” thing, as i’ve cared less and less about desirability or male attention, i’ve been freer to be Freaky and Fun. cannot wait to finally layer up without melting to death omg
“since becoming a hag (late 20s)” is by far my favorite thing I’ve heard today I will be using this in the future thank you
@@cjr790 my pleasure 🫡 welcome to haghood
to being Freaky n free i know that's right baby!!!!
I think your commentary/insight into the complex between percieved sexuality and fashion is really interesting- I may just be yapping for the sake of it but there is always a voyeuristic element to fashion as in regards to people seeing what you are wearing, people seeing /you-/ and what 'you' means when so much of modern culture/media has been... saturated with The Body, especially underneath a misogynistic and patriarchial framework? Fashion always ties to the issues and ideals of the age, but with the way it is sometimes treated as a frivolity makes some treat it as a secondary to a human existence rather than a direct consequence and reflection.
of course this is all just conjecture if anyone wants to push back be my guest 🙏
The voyeuristic element, yes! I live in NYC and I love dressing in something I think is fun and cool and feels good but I absolutely hate getting looked at/stared at it’s such a catch 22
Like I want to look cute but I also done want anyone to look at me
you are.... so so so smart this has changed me forever
ur cooking like crazy bc i think an unconscious knowledge of how revealing and exhibitonist fashion and personal style is can lead to conscious choices in color, fabric and "modesty" -- feeling comfortable and free with the concept of experimenting with fashion for oneself but not necessarily wanting to be seen (literally and figuratively)
yelped with glee upon seeing this video posted
😄😄😄
Do we deserve you no, are we grateful, wholeheartedly.
the feeling is mutual
I finally bought a stunning dark deep brown real fur coat second hand.. and I'm literally chained to it.... Will wear it till I die.
salivating so happy for u ugh
started watching angels in america via your recommendation and its so good! living in the southern hemisphere rn so dont really have seasons like that and its hot all year so seasons changing doesnt really matter to me but im gonna b in the us in january so im excited to get layering✄ even if im going to be cold and miserable!
excited for u to be in the US! it's a fucking dumpster fire
How to dress ✓ sweaty ✓ hate my body ✓ Miffy ✓: Conclusion this video was made for me thank you i all say in unison
i do what i can
it's so extremely unfortunate for me as a fan of fall fashion to be living in a country that is only ever hot, humid, and/or rainy. unfortunately no opportunities to be layering over here... such a tragedy, truly. but always (ALWAYS!!!) love seeing how you style your pieces and the moment you showed partimento, i had to go to the site and check out what i might be able to wear over here lmao (looks like they have quite a lot actually but i'm poor) can't wait to see your shopping haul vid !! also ... pls hem ur pants damn
yessss recent buys
It’s captivating to hear you talk about fashion ! Love your POV 🎉
thank uuuu for listening!
Hey queennnn YAY UPLOADDDD loving thissss
YASSSSSSS
omg the uniqlo socks. me too me too me tooooo. and they really are always on sale.
You actually eat these up. I was gaint top tiny bottom all summer thanks to you and it ate every single time
giant top tiny bottom supremacy iktr
Girl PLEASE where are your glasses from? I need new glasses yesterday
I agree sm about long coats, i absolutely love them and feel my chicest in them but they are also so annoying to wear a lot of the time
so chic but so silly
the title made me giggle
wait the rabbit character in the corner is definitely something forgotten from my childhood! What is its name please?
its miffy!!!!
@ thank youuuu!!
the way it’s still too hot for outerwear 🥲
I love love love your content
thank u sm :) means so much
Zero notes, 10/10, facts.
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COS is unfortunately so worth it and that's the most devastating part about their clothes
that's what i was hoping you would not say...
@@JESYCU I have buy it under the covers, so that god can’t see me buying fast fashion, but unfortunately they are working for your dollar like no other.
i’m sat
how do you edit the MacBook intro I’ve been trying to figure this out for so long 🤔
i just screen record !
I want to wear something for fall but I’m in Southern California and it’s still pretty hot out but I have all these outerwear jackets I have an Oscar de la Renta blazer that I thrifted and some tights I want to wear with it but I’ll probably be a hot sweaty mess if I wear it today 😢
enjoy the warm weather while u can :'( it suddenly got super cold in nyc and i am mourning what could've been so many good transitional outfits (the ODR blazer sounds yum)
it snowed here yesterday 😭
WHAAAAT WHERE RU